15 Reasons Why People Look Down On You
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- Humans are judgemental and while most people won’t outright insult someone, our minds still form very quick, firm opinions about people.
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Why do people look down on you?
What are the main reasons people look down on you?
How to avoid people looking down on you?
What are 15 Reasons Why People Look Down On You?
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00:00 - Intro
00:36 - People assume you’re stupid because you lack social skills
01:26 - You allowed someone to take advantage of you, and now everybody does the same
02:05 - Because of your genuine lack of experience
03:50 - Your life has no direction
03:37 - They have nothing to look up to
05:02 - You have no respect for yourself and it shows
05:51 - You fall into the same traps over and over again
06:44 - You constantly complain about fixable problems
07:28 - You stay in a dead-end place, hoping for a miracle
08:08 - You are a shadow of who you once were
09:12 - You don’t know how to set boundaries
09:56 - You are overcompensating (and people can see through it)
10:39 - People smell your lack of confidence
11:31 - Other people use you for their own benefit
12:12 - You try to make everybody happy - and get along with everyone - to avoid disagreements.
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People respect strong, independent people. Also, remember that not everyone will like us for THEIR reasons not ours. But this is not a reason to disparage yourself. If someone doesn't like you move on because you will not change their minds.
Reasons why Sigmas are looked at as weird or off
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I believe these. Sometimes you have to be rude to people for them to respect you. If you're quiet, introvert like me, people feel as though they can push you over.
I rather be a quiet shy overly loving person than a judgemental, take advantage of someone kind of person..The person who needs reevaluating is the one who disrespects kind people. World needs loves! Your the ones who have to live with yourselfs when you judge and take advantage of others. Karma.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
yes, more like we learn to say "no" to favors they don't even appreciate
I had every insecurity mentioned in this video. But a few years back I started my journey of self development with the ad of Alux and now I can confidently say that I now longer struggle with any of theses social dilemma’s. I can almost cry at the thought of how far I have come after watching and implementing a 1000 hours of Alux content and other content this, on top of all the books I have read.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
When ppl look down on you, no matter where you’re at in life. it’s because they think they’re better. Highly insecure people have this behavior.
Greatly disagree, i think they have a reason to look down on certain people who are uneducated, illogical, unnecessarily loud.
@@lilith_soph So what, doesn't make you right. Why would you look down on another humans short comings? This is where racism and the separation of class comes into play. I'm not walking around looking down on ppl because, they lack confidence etc. Ppl like you are the reason the world is unbalanced today. Please spare me the bs‼️
@@lilith_soph you don't have any right to look down on anyone for any reason. humble yourself
@user-mb1oc1fq1w Both are right . Lol
But someone with good manners never openly looks down at others they just try as hell not associate with them, lol.
And yes .. some people that look down or critique others are really insecure and don't usually have the guts to accomplish what they really desire
Summary:
Distance yourself from toxic people.
That's the best solution.
Anyone can be toxic if you allow them to do so
@Study-Music426 you cannot control others behavior, except by distancing yourself.
@@harmony3279 It's not possible everywhere, sometimes you need to confront them and solve the issue, Running away all the time won't make you a Confident Person
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I need to prove things to myself. That is most important.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
It’s sad to see we have come to a point that society normalizes looking down on someone
Yeh really it's sad
I know this video is sick. They need to reevaluate and check themselves. They are actually the insecure ones with a high sense of ego.
Yea it sucks
I agree but I think the whole point of the video is to help people to get ahead. It isn’t fair that people assume you are stupid if you have no social skills developing them can really give people an edge. I remember hiring a young man who was super odd in the interview but it was a panel and I had to strongly argue the case. I had him mentored because he was great at his core job but I couldn’t let him loose on clients
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
And one thing for sure is that every person that looks down on others is very insecure in themselves. Confident people lift and mentor others. They dont look down on anyone. They can identify a person's struggles and offer to help or atleast not add more damage to this person. Insecure people are the ones that find comfort in putting others down in order to hide their own flaws. Never succum to the behaviours of such people. Take the time to work on yourself but do it for you. Not in fear of such people they are not worth your effort. If anything avoid them s much as you can beacause we all struggle and hut glitches in life sometimes and what we need is kindness not judgment in those moments.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
absolutely true!!!💯❤❤❤❤
Well, the reasons given here for people looking down on someone are shallow.There's no reason to proof anything to anyone.You're not obliged to present yourself to anyone to impress them. The only exception to the rule is a job interview.But even here, you're preselected.Otherwise, you wouldn't have been invited. Furthermore, who you are what you do is ( before proven otherwise) nobody's business.It's wise not to pay too much attention to other people. They're for the most part interested in themselves and don't care much about you. Looking down on someone is a stupid behaviour.
Correct...whether anyone look up.or look down doesn't matter if you are happy for who you are. Just changing behaviour so that people start looking up is not worth it i think
Unfortunately that's the world we live in,shallow just do what u have to do
Totally Agree ❤ you have given a wiser thought. I am of the similar opinion.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
@@EYRM9
O.k., but we're not in heaven yet.As for the temporary status of our existence: the realisation doesn't help,as we live here and now.We have to master this life before moving on to something else.
Experience comes with time and when the person decided to get out of their comfort zone and do stuff they have never done before.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I feel like these videos are just longer ads for the courses they’re selling. Idk y’all just think about it. They tell you what’s wrong with you then sell you a course to fix what they’re telling you is wrong with you. I liked Alux before they started selling. Y’all just think, who cares if others look down on you. It shouldn’t matter to you. Prove to yourself how good you are. For you and your fam. If you don’t do anything to make yourself feel good you’ll always feel others are looking i on you. Just food for thought. No-one can show you how to feel like your better that comes from within.
would you work for free?
Agree ❤❤❤
You are smart! Selling tactic 101 is get customer to feel they'll be in the 'in' crowd if they buy. Dating courses use this tactic a lot, getting you to believe their's something wrong with you. Take this with a grain of salt.
I don’t know how y’all do it, but you guys are always on point. Alux ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Oh man, the first point is a direct shot at myself as an introvert 🤣 Time to get better at my social skills. Charisma directly correlates to sales anyway 👍
I am an introvert and I will not change that for anything. I don't think people think you're stupid because your quiet. It depends on your body language and other factors. Sometimes the silence gives off a cool vibe and an allure.
It's a very interesting thought process, I grew up nervous and still am, yet I also like to listen a lot to what people are explaining to me
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
But I clearly understand, Alux is just giving you reasons in why they do it. Our midst and mentality could hold value but at the same time do some of these things unconsciously and not know it. Good 👌 content Alux.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Being a quiet and conservative man these days is looked down upon. Well, I'm the strong silent type .
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Only insecure ppl look down on others
Not true
Not necessarily. Some people really have better skills and may be quite irritated by others they perceive as lazy or less ambitious than them.
@@leannbarker572bullshit. They are insecure
Many jealous people try to look down on people to make themselves feel better.
@@leannbarker572 Who cares ? We never know what others go thru in life. It's not up to us to judge others.
15 reasons why I look down on those who look down on others
Well said!
Facts only losers look down on others and think they are better then them it's scummy
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I'm with you so much people look down on 1 person and often team up with strangers in social situations just to put the one individual down more. Toxic Toxic world for anti social non experienced people like myself that just want to be left alone while minding my own business
Only people with low self esteem and/or looking to take advantage of you will look down on you. Healthy people want to help you but will get tired and realize you’re not going to change so they have to distance themselves otherwise it effects them.
Wtf does this mean? This is not true
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Thanks so much for sharing,
Identify one of this in myself.
So am going to work on this fast.
I know nobody is above mistake.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Alux is my life
How horrible. This is why people commit suicide. If people don't judge and loved you as you are we would have more people taking risk and changing the world. Otherwise you become part of the herd
Bullies murder the soul. I wouldnt recommend looking down on anyone. It shows you believe you are ego only. Everyone deserves love and respect. Everyone matters. God would take down this video and flag it! Be original. BE YOURSELF. Have messy hair and be imperfect .
So, little overly nice old people who may not always smell their best were suppose to look down on? Lets be real people only respect others if theyre loaded with cash. You could be the nicest coolest person in the world and not get the same rrspect a rich A- hole gets. Beat to your own drummer bc in the end youll be sorry if you dont. Stand out be different. World needs diversity.
I wish Alux would create a series of best investment or personal growth opportunities for each country that their citizens would relate to, and foreign investors can understand those as well.
Some investment techniques or growth opportunities might not be the same or accessible as in the U.S.
He his right guy 💛
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Screw them if they do t like what they see or what you Say! You are you and nothing should ever change that if you’re doing right in the World and succeeding in Life!
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
It’s giving I’m looking for validation in ppl. Thankfully I don’t.
Mostly what Alux Is about...Self improvement for Validation.
@prolific101 That's actually a good point, I noticed some of my family watching this year's ago, and I slowly caught on to the self reflection talk and mind game assumptions. Though they are right about people downing you for some small reasons, people still do think of themselves more than others thinking down of themselves first
Respect is EARNED not granted and it's won either by a display of power or by an act of genuine kindness.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Another amazing video thank you guys so much for everything
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Especially my family looks down on me.they can't even appreciate if do something good and they will just complain
This is a life-changing video ❤
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I'm number 9, I wish I could fix it, I have applied to so many jobs, and I became the guy waiting for the job.... hoping for a miracle, and not getting anywhere so I am stagnant. I wish I knew where I could go from here, its really depressing.
Nope didn't recognize myself however in the past it would have been totally different!
To much facts spoken , avoid being looked down on in life by following these steps on this video ladies & Gents 👏🏾✅
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
People will always look down on you. So get better daily even on small amounts. One of the saddest reality. Learn from it and set boundariesm
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Impeccable timing, Alux 👍🏻
As ALWAYS since I started this journey
True
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
This is mostly why people do outrageous things to stay Relevant in the Face of Society.
Off Grid Life with Genuity & Peace is The Goal.
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
the once that look down on other always pay the price of POOR
WELL SAID!!!
As a some-what rich black man with many technical and business skills, I get plenty of wyt ppl in the Western Hemisphere look down on me until they find out my life style 😂😂😂 History makes ppl think very foolish 😢
Hi Alux, I had to man up and create boundaries of respect and stop complaining. I still struggle but the good thing is that now I know where I want to be. That's why I am actively working on becoming the best version of myself.
Not a word about the toxic people that initiated the condescending behavior?
lots of advertisement, for ur course, ... .
Best video by alux 2023, thank you for your perspective....
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I'm shorter than them.
*My greatest concern is how to recover from all these economic and global troubles and stay afloat especially with the political power tussle going on in US. The government has really called things more difficult for its citizens, and we can't sit back and bear all the consequences of the bad governance. We need to take our financial life serious….. I recommend stock market investment and digital currencies*
After I got upto 900k trading with Mrs Eleanor Nelson, I bought a new House and I'm now able to send my kids to a better school in the states When someone is straight forward with what he or she is doing people will always speak up for them.
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I will use profanity to make a point and I don’t care much about my social skills mostly because I don’t care what people think about me. I have my BA, MD, MS, MPA and have a net worth well into 8 figures. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If someone looks down on you it’s because they already look for reason not to like you
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
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The question is how to you find people who love you for who you are ? and expect you for you ?
narrator says to look down at your computer or phone screens to watch 15 videos in alux channel daily
I had no intention of listening to this video and for some reasons I kept being drawn to it.
Thanks!
If your course can help me deal with aholes that cough all over the gym or people that are too lazy to return their shopping trolleys then sign me up!
Great teaching
Absolutely ❤...
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
I was Just checking... 🤔
timeless knowledge
Rather interesting video!
Mind blowing video
Amazing video❤
Don’t trip on these people forget them
Hello Alux
Hello Alex
This seems to encourage false positivity and insesitive to human dynamics, why not encourage empathy instead?
Mmm 🤔
Especially my family is looking down on me
This is the best video ever
Am the 1st 👍
Look again
No bonus this time, dang, lol
1st like and comment in the world 😂😂😂
Denied
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♥️ Alux Girl
Well done ALUX!
“So the last shall be first, and the first last”
_ Matthew 20:16
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
_ Matthew 12:36
this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life.
Just give them plates of hot spicy curry to give them the runs.
Someone thinks a pic of people looking down at the viewers is a good marketing strategy.
I’m lucky in that I’ve never given two sh*ts what people think about me.
I clicked on this to better understand why it seems to matter so much to others. My advice to anyone reading this is to live life on your own terms.
The only person who it matters what they think about you is God. Get close to Him and the noise of this world will fade away. What does it profit you if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul?
Why u look down upon people in the first place ?.. its the problem..
Th reason people look down on you
Me : I'm 4'10
im just listening to their achievement story telling coz they never gave you a moment to speak. i don't bother.
I hate to bring this to you, but what people think about us doesn't matter, and until you realise that, you will depend on these stupid slow mo Alux videos 😴
Especially my family looks down on me.they can't even appreciate if do something good and they will just complain
Especially my family is looking down on me