Some Donkey Drama and More Stone! Episode 37

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  • @cherdidi88
    @cherdidi88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    I think it's a testament to your compassion that putting Toby through anything negative, even if for the greater good gets you upset. It's just further proof that you were meant to find him and be his forever family.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you. We do love him so much that's why I suppose it hurts so much to see him in pain.

    • @poo2764
      @poo2764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me upset, I love the music what you on about you upset?

    • @PoppytuleLovestar
      @PoppytuleLovestar 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      JUST LOVES AND ENJOYS YOUR LIFE WORLD UNIVERSE TOGETHER WITH OTHERS TOGETHER DARLINGS

    • @PoppytuleLovestar
      @PoppytuleLovestar 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      HOW BIG IS YOUR FARM PROPERTY DARLINGS

  • @sonyagair1219
    @sonyagair1219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Your show of love for your wife was the best part of the clip. ❤😊

    • @lisejacquelinerigault2575
      @lisejacquelinerigault2575 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree, it really touched me.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He was so sweet it was a lovely surprise when I was editing. ♥️

  • @patmurphy4564
    @patmurphy4564 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I just wanted to say Rebecca, Toby will forget about what is happening because he knows you love him. You cared so much you got him out of that lonely field where nobody saw or talked to him. He calls to the dog, and she comes to him, so he knows you all care for him. The day you get him a friend, he will love you forever. Love from Pat from South Australia. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thanks Pat. Sam & I often say we can't wait to see him with a friend. We hope that completes his path to an amazing life with us.

    • @maureengilmartin4381
      @maureengilmartin4381 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Hands up how many of us wept with you😢 because l certainly did!!!
      I've just about finished my small cottage and l'm building a little store house and l'll put my little donkey in there 💚 you'll need to find an old fashioned black bicycle to lean against the wall in true lrish tradition 😂😂 love to all.....
      Maureen in Cyprus xxx

    • @cathyblackhall3448
      @cathyblackhall3448 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@theirishhomestead You can see how he loves being at the centre of the family now😁Not just the dog but the cats and chickens 😂 Plus he loves interrupting Sam too

  • @barneygoddard6421
    @barneygoddard6421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Its nice to see people who are so caring for God's creatures. I hope Toby recovers quickly.

  • @margaretmartingoggins1295
    @margaretmartingoggins1295 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Forgot to say that it was lovely of Sam to say those words about you. As long as you pull together, everything will be fine M&M

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ahh I know it was so sweetof him. ♥️

    • @jellies6996
      @jellies6996 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well done Sam your work looks amazing! Looks like it was always there. Rebecca we can all see how compassionate you are with Toby,we can see how his life has changed 100% compared to his lonely life he had before! He has a shelter from the wind and rain, proper veterinary treatment to treat all his medical needs , I know he is fed The best food and treats.this blip is only Toby being in pain for a little while so that he can hopefully get a new friend to keep him company all the time. You’re an amazing family all working together.

  • @paularodery8074
    @paularodery8074 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Becky, your compassion for animals rivals my own. We do what we have to to make their lives better, and Toby’s will be better now❤. Chin up, dear lady……

  • @LondonerinScotland
    @LondonerinScotland 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hi Sam , Bec, Isabella, Euan & menagerie, Lovely to see a video uploaded this week - especially to see all the progress that has been made! Hopefully the weather will be continue to be calm, dry, warm and sunny. I only started watching your channel when you relocated to Ireland (I have relatives in County Meath & Cavan). Sam's work ethic, obvious love & devotion to his family & willingness to get stuck in & learn new skills as needed is so inspiring. Bec's evident kindness & willingness to multi-task different projects & responsibilities; being a wife, a mother, relocating to a different country, partner in a complete renovation, homeschooling Isabella & Evan, using the land for functional purposes, taking on an assorted menagerie etc is amazing too. I look forward to continuing to watch the progress & transformation of your home, land & the evolution of your family. God bless.
    *Sam, please wear eye, hearing, respiratory protection as necessary.. The HSE website is a very useful resource as well.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your kind words. We are so glad you enjoy watching. Yes, Sam was terrible for not wearing eye protection. He got a telling off. I suspect he will be building more animal shelters in the months to come 😉♥️

    • @Bjmc4uk
      @Bjmc4uk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You just have no idea how bad his stump Posas is around bird droppings and he’s dropping those beams and that old that soon and he needs a respirator to wear!

  • @jokerjohnnie
    @jokerjohnnie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Amazing how quickly we can relearn the skills of our predecessors. These structures were created by the landowners. No stonemasons were called. Maybe just a neighbor who had some experience and willing to assist in the project. I’m impressed with your dedication and willingness to tackle these tasks.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you. It feels satisfying knowing that we are bringing this place back to life with our own hands. Yes we aren't perfect but that was true 300 years ago and look how well its lasted!

  • @debcross2335
    @debcross2335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I spent a ments crying with Becca and then listening to Sam's love and devotion to his wife, son, and daughter. Then i cried again over poor Toby he os very special and i hope all of this helps him .❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sheilawhalen8769
    @sheilawhalen8769 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm a baby boomer from the United States. I wish my generation had considered an "off-the-grid" life. The American dream requires an intense focus on advancement. i don't regret my life choices but I love watching this; it inspires me. I'm adopting "bits and bobs" into my vocabulary.

  • @millywood6801
    @millywood6801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    That's nearly as good as a Lancashire dry stone wall, well done that lad.
    Toby is a lucky donkey to have you care for him.

  • @8052royc
    @8052royc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    No need to apologize for caring.

  • @aliceskewthorpe8991
    @aliceskewthorpe8991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Just remember...
    Toby had many, many years with no hoof care, and should have been gelded when he was young...
    Your being responsible animal owners, and even though it tugs the heart strings... many of us who have been on the land, understand... you have had to accommodate the fact that Toby had not been handled, and possibly trained not to have hoof care...
    Its a learning curve, and its the emotions that catch up when the unknown happens.
    You're doimg a wonderful job... and many will learn from your experience too!
    Good rule of thumb is to expect the unexpected!
    Perhaps a rude awakening after a much needed holiday!
    Love the progress on your historic stone house...
    Keep up the good work!!!
    Looking forward to the next video...
    Blessings to all ❤❤❤❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Alice. Yes it's a definite learning curve with all things animals and renovating. I think some days especially (on hot ones!) things can feel overwhelming. Luckily those feelings quickly go and we can carry on carrying on 💪♥️.

  • @jcr_jcr
    @jcr_jcr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Bless you Rebecca. Toby will forget and love you all for ever. You have been saviours for him.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope so. He is really off with me at the moment. 💔

  • @mariegallagher4725
    @mariegallagher4725 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Toby I love the way you waffle❤. You love your wonderful wife and kids. You have embarked upon this life journey and it's lovely to share it. A true man is never shy talking about his feelings especially when it comes to his family. Also all your animals get on so well together.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol I think you mean Sam although Toby does like a waffle too..albeit a very loud one.

  • @moiragoldsmith7052
    @moiragoldsmith7052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Hey lovely people! Celebrate, you have truly rescued Toby, given him a pedicure and sorted his hormones out. He will love you for good and all. I hope the Guinea pigs do well....don't forget they need Vit C. The walls are looking great...and so lovely to watch the progress of your dedicated labours. Well done xxx🎉🥳💞👍

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks Moira. Hopefully Toby will be all good in a few days. Thanks for the tip regards the guinea pigs. We are learning lots about their care. I had them as a kid but can't remember it all now. ♥️

    • @moiragoldsmith7052
      @moiragoldsmith7052 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theirishhomestead They are hilarious little critters eh. Enjoy xxx

  • @jamesdunican1750
    @jamesdunican1750 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sam you are a fantastic person and you have a wonderful wife
    And to top it off you have to fantastic kids
    And you choose Ireland to bring an old house back to life
    What else can i say
    I wish you and your family the very best of luck and you never know we might meet one day ☘️☘️☘️👍

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, that's really nice of you to say James. If your ever this way give us a shout. 👍

  • @colettelavery7452
    @colettelavery7452 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Sam you have achieved so much with your lentils on your own. No easy job. You are getting very good with all the stonework for someone who is only learning the trade .Becky my heart went out to you over Toby.He knows how much you all love him .Give him another week or two and you will all have Toby back to himself. Take care and mind yourselves God bless you all xxxx ❤

    • @sonyagair1219
      @sonyagair1219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most definitely. Sam you're stone work looks better that the original stone work.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks that's a big compliment. 👍

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Colette. I agree Sam has done amazing with the stonework. I really hope Toby is feeling better soon. Xx

  • @clairewinter934
    @clairewinter934 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Hi Toby is so lucky to have you caring for him. This week has been tough for you all but brighter days are on the way for him when gets a friend

  • @MattBannan
    @MattBannan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    TOBY IS REALLY GOING THROUGH A LOT AND HE REALLY GAVE HIS OPINION ON YOUR LINTEL WORK. I THINK THAT HE REALLY APPROVED!!!

  • @cgp1442
    @cgp1442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Hopefully, the sooner Toby gets a new friend, the better everyone will feel. Especially Toby ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. It's what keeps me going hoping that we find him a pal. ♥️

  • @susanschultz1762
    @susanschultz1762 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Poor sweet Toby! I know it's hard to see someone you love hurt. But it was for the best, and you did it out of love. Please keep us posted on how Toby is doing! XOXO

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for the reassuring words, I will keep people updated for sure. ♥️🫏

  • @merlecollins450
    @merlecollins450 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whole family involved. Even Nell is supervising. ❤❤

  • @carollsbostwick9683
    @carollsbostwick9683 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sam I’m in awe of your stone skills, I noticed some of the house has a pattern. Large stone on top of a thin stones. Keep on it is wonderful.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes it's a definite pattern. So much respect for the people that built this house originally all those years ago.

  • @sallymoffit3751
    @sallymoffit3751 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    You have accomplished so much. Bravo. The animals are loved and well cared for. Who could ask for more? ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. We are animal lovers, and it feels right to be surrounded by them. May pose a problem if a holiday is ever on the cards, mind you. 🫣😉

  • @johnhickerson3290
    @johnhickerson3290 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Howdy from Oklahoma. I love seeing old homes in Europe restored. They are built to last. My home is considered old and it was built in 1926. Keep us updated on your progress. I love your channel

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. Glad you are enjoying the journey with us. It's such a special building I'm enjoying repointing the stone with my own hands. It feels like I'm keeping the place alive.

  • @59Meyer
    @59Meyer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Why do animals have such an effect on us?? Hate it when my dogs are ill, you feel helpless because they can't tell you what's wrong....

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's awful, isn't it. I love animals and surround myself with them, but blimey, I don't half lose some sleep over one or the other of them every week. 😫

    • @kimbaker3232
      @kimbaker3232 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theirishhomestead I know how you feel about the animals sometimes things come in waves, but you are doing such an amazing job with Toby and everything else! 😍💖xx

  • @Britbabe53
    @Britbabe53 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are doing all of the right things. It will all work out in the end. I'm sure Toby knows you care and feels your loving care.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have garden man chats with him

  • @deranocasper
    @deranocasper 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Awesome stone work Ireland needs more people like you and your family restoring this beautiful property

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks mate. Its slow working with stone, but its satisfying

  • @chrissiemorton4126
    @chrissiemorton4126 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Over here they don't do castration like that...its more brutal....Toby will be fine with all the Love you give him...nice to see the kids out helping!!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks he is hopefully out of the worst as long as he stays infection free. 🤞 The kids enjoy the pointing and are pretty good to be fair.

  • @sonyagair1219
    @sonyagair1219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Awww Becca you had me tears love. Stay strong for Tobi

  • @doniehurley7634
    @doniehurley7634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are becomig a dab hand at the old stone work fair play Sam

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is brilliant, isn't he! No way we could have done this renovation without him getting stuck in with the stonework. It's been a learning curve.♥️

  • @gillianbrewer9607
    @gillianbrewer9607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wonderfulul to see the Children helping Mum and Dad. The Parents will appreciate their support, and they will learn new skills

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope so. I think it's a great thing for them to see how much work it is to build their home.

  • @Ecuador4Life
    @Ecuador4Life 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Poor Toby. You are taking great care of him. Animals are a joy to have but also a lot of work when we love them so much. Super stone work. Your videos are a joy to watch.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes they are! In an ideal world Toby would have come along after the renovation was done. I think it makes things more stressful but we will get there. Thanks. 👍

  • @ChristineKelly1000
    @ChristineKelly1000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I hope poor old Toby will be ok. Don’t cry Becca ❤❤❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Christine. I hope he's coming out the other side now. ♥️

  • @denisepiekarski4159
    @denisepiekarski4159 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Poor Toby! Poor family! All will be well. You made the right decision. ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you I just hope it does make him more acceptable to a friend. 🤞🍀🫏

  • @TheNoTillGardener
    @TheNoTillGardener 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re doing a great job as a new equine partner. Please don’t be too hard on yourself. It a learning curve and you are well along it. I realize this comment is well after the fact but if you use hydrogen peroxide on the wound area it will soften the wound and allow the dressings to be removed with more ease. I haven’t read every comment so you may already know this. If so, please forgive my repetition. The place is looking absolutely amazing! Well-done you all!

  • @PaulaGilmour-o3y
    @PaulaGilmour-o3y หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cried along with you. You are not alone. ❤

  • @faithvansanden82
    @faithvansanden82 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The wall is coming along and installing the lintels. You are doing your best for Toby,if he was still in the field his feet would be a lot worse ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true. The house is definitely taking shape now. It will feel like a step closer getting the ring beam on.

  • @margaretmartingoggins1295
    @margaretmartingoggins1295 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Becky, you are only human. He will forget about it. When we first moved over, we got a pony. We had to get him gelded. The vet threw his manhood into the bushes. I was sitting knitting, and our Jack russell Floss just plonked Roscos manhood at the side of my chair. I screamed, my husband got rid. Missed you last week. You both are doing a sterling job. Keep it up. I hope that little story has cheered you up
    M&M

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha ha yes I picked them up and at first Sam & Euan didn't want to look but then morbid curiosity kicked in.....I think they wished it hadn't! Huge aren't they?! 🫣

  • @AbigailGerlach-zt1sh
    @AbigailGerlach-zt1sh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If you staple some of that hessian over the windows it should keep the starlings out temporarily.
    Your stonework looks marvelous! Good job! You're becoming quite the stone mason.
    I think it's hysterically funny how guys all identify with an animal being gelded. They all cross their legs and bend over like they're trying to protect their own jewels. Poor Toby. Bless your family. Take some time for yourselves. Have a beer, soak up some sun, and enjoy your progress so far.
    Blessed Be!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's a good idea! Thankfully the swallows seem to have moved to the barn so that's good. They will be fine there if they avoid the cats! 🫣 Yes the vet said most men don't hang around to watch a castration 😫🤣

  • @maxinedurling3425
    @maxinedurling3425 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Normally I enjoy watching Sam work the stone But I must admit today I did want to find out how Toby was doing. Sam are you doing a concret morter for the blocks or lime I don't believe you have said.. Loved seeing Toby calling the dog over and the dog going over just goes to show he does want company. Don't worry about crying Bec most equistian owners have been through the night sitting in the barn worrying our selves to death normally with blankets and a thumos of hot tea. Tobys a tough old bird he will be fine

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ahh Toby is doing much better thankfully. He still isn't himself but that's to be expected. It was a very stressful time. Nell always rushes over when he shouts its so lovely to see.
      I believe Sam used cement mortar for the block work, but I could be wrong.

    • @CP-tm7be
      @CP-tm7be 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He said in the "lost 200-year window" video that he's using lime mortar, rather than Portland Cement.

  • @katefinnegan8129
    @katefinnegan8129 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sam, what a great job you are doing on the stonework.i know it much better so hard to do, but you will be a professional at this by the time you finish your home. Maybe, another career? lol just kidding. But it’s nice to have that in your pocket to help others and for repairs around the house.
    With all of the animals you are adding you certainly are getting your own little farm started there. Lucky animals to get such a loving family.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. I'm not sure yet if I could face it as a career but maybe after a break from it......😁

  • @Sandymac-72
    @Sandymac-72 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Toby is now through the worst..don't be sad he will be happier in the long run..
    Great stone work and pointing..
    You are such a lovely family ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, thank you I know it's for the best. Just hope it proves to be effective when a friend arrives.

  • @MotoTourIreland
    @MotoTourIreland 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Nice to see the Donkey is being looked after so well. That procedure should make his life better.

  • @budbundy364
    @budbundy364 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just came across your channel and wanted to say what a wonderful family you are. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @janf817
    @janf817 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It just shows what a huge heart you have Bec, so don't be embarrassed because you get emotional. I hope Toby will be fine and don't worry, his trust won't be broken I'm sure. I believe donkeys do bleed more than horses in this situation, so try not to worry too much. You have definitely done the right thing and are setting him up to be a happier donkey in the future when he feels more sociable due to you making this difficult decision. Lintels and walls are looking awesome too Sam. Look after yourselves x

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much. Yes you're right donkeys, especially older ones do bleed more. Let's hope it does the trick as I'd hate for all this to be in vain. 🤞

  • @AO9R
    @AO9R 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great progress on the house, and I think Toby will be better in the long run. It is always hard to see our pets in pain, even if it is necessary.

  • @JoHarmon-hg7wz
    @JoHarmon-hg7wz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Poor Tobi, but your love for him and all you're critters is beautiful. Hope Tobi heals soon. So touching to see the dog run to Tobi❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahh yes Nell loves Toby. She was literally sat by the fence watching the whole thing unfold and keeping her eye on the situation. ♥️

  • @daleroadley5458
    @daleroadley5458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm new to this channel, but I'm probably going to repeat what has already been said.
    I think the two of you and your family are amazing,
    To take on a project like this, I take my hat off to you all.
    I know I'm a little late, but I hope Toby is doing well ❤ and the way the dog wants to care for everyone, love it,
    I'm working my way through the video's, I'm at 40 (thatch down) so far, but the video's are so good, I'll be up to date in no time 😂 I'm binge watching.
    Any how thanks for providing me with evening entertainment, keep up the great work, thanks again,Dale.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Dale each day is a new challenge bit by bit it will become our home

  • @rosaleenrooney781
    @rosaleenrooney781 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Please wear safety glasses while chipping and cracking stone! Your wife and children need you whole 🤗

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sam has now been told. I clocked it when I was editing. 😫🙄 Thanks.

  • @denisepiekarski4159
    @denisepiekarski4159 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Fun to see all your pets checking out the guinea pigs !😂

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Poor guinea pigs are definitely the new star attraction here right now. The cats & Nell literally spend hours just staring at them! 🤣

  • @Yaketyyak21
    @Yaketyyak21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What you are doing with Toby is all for the best.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know just hope it does make a difference for him. 🤞

  • @clarelove3738
    @clarelove3738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Awesome progress on the cottage, Sam. Becky, Toby will get through this, and so will you. Keep doing your best, that's all any of us can do.❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the plan! Keep on going. 💪

  • @tovepetersen6746
    @tovepetersen6746 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Rebecca I work in an equine hospital, your doing the right things for Toby seriously he’ll be a better happier donkey in no time

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, that's so good to hear. I just hope he doesn't get too swollen or infected.

  • @christinehowells5845
    @christinehowells5845 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Awww becky don't cry you can see you all love Toby dearly and he is loved he'll be fine I'm sure just have patience you are such a lovely family he's lucky to be with such a caring family big hug xx

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Christine. We do love him and we all struggled to see him in that state. Sam isn't really an equine person, but even he loves Toby. Xx

  • @tnolan3176
    @tnolan3176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The stone you put on top of the lintels looks great ! Nice to see the whole family involved ! Gelding should have been done when Toby was younger ,so it makes it harder the older they get ! But hoping Toby and everyone is ok ! The buildings have come a long way and are looking better and better each week !

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes it's definitely more of a risk as they get older. He was used for stud so never gelded. Hopefully he will get less aggressive now towards other donkeys. I really hope so otherwise it will feel all in vain. 🤞

  • @rachelcarter2443
    @rachelcarter2443 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A year from now when Toby is in the field with a friend or two you'll get to see why you went through this.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope so. It's the thought that keeps me focused. ♥️

  • @martinmoore9758
    @martinmoore9758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Poor old Toby... but given time he'll get over it. Give him lots of TLC. (Turnip Lettuce and Carrots).

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks. He has been getting a bit spoilt right now. Actually who am I kidding he gets spoilt all the time 🤣

  • @valeriedavies5200
    @valeriedavies5200 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hugs and loves to an amazing family.... I get such a warm heart watching you all weekly...you go guys, you're inspiring. Toby is feeling the love.....

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so kind, thank you Valerie. ♥️

  • @daviddjerassi
    @daviddjerassi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well im in tears Bec because of your love and kindness PG your home will blossom and Bloom forever happy ....Toby will in time forget his pain but he will never forget your love for him a big hug from me thank you Bec your Tops .

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks David. That's lovely to read today. Much appreciated. ♥️

  • @valeriefarmer3774
    @valeriefarmer3774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What an amazing job Sam you are doing so well you should be proud of your work. You are a lovely family who love each other dearly it is so heart warming to observe how much you help and care for each other.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! We are definitely closer now as a family.

  • @kaye-q1k
    @kaye-q1k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your building is really coming along nicely. Great improvements and orchard and more animals. Toby will heal never fear he knows you love him . Halter him and give him treats and a walk so he doesn’t expect discomfort every time his halter is on.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated. ♥️

  • @carolefranks5489
    @carolefranks5489 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You certainly deserve a break this weekend, after all the trauma of the last few days. Toby has very likely received more love and care with you than he's ever known. So please don't beat yourself up. It's like taking our kids to the dentist, isn't it? We know it's for their health and welfare but it still makes you feel awful for them.
    The house in the background is looking fantastic and the stone and limework are really showing off your hard work and persistence.
    Go enjoy the good weather now, while it lasts, and be sure to get the biggest ice creams you can find.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Carole. It's really coming on now. Just hope we can get the roof on whilst the weather stays decent. Yes it was awful seeing poor Toby like that but I try to remind myself that it's for the greater good. ♥️

  • @orlabuckley9641
    @orlabuckley9641 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Becky I would be the same, totally useless in a donkey sanctuary, you have to console yourself that it is all for the best and someday Toby's life will improve ❤️

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I keep that in my mind as yes it will make all this worthwhile to see him playing with a friend. 🤞

  • @susannemcmahon6093
    @susannemcmahon6093 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So happy you found some peace in what you do .The home is look great .you are both hard worker s
    GOD WILLING IT WILL GET EASYER.
    God Bless

  • @chantaln6843
    @chantaln6843 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re so tender hearted. The donkey will ultimately enjoy his new life with companionship.
    Meanwhile, the dog is keeping a close watch as though he knows Toby needs TLC 💕😘

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, Nell is always around Toby. Bless her. She loves him.

  • @lesleyhirst
    @lesleyhirst 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great to hear that Toby is doing well. It's because you love him it hurts so much but he couldn't be in better hands. You're all so genuine and quite inspirational. 🥰

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so kind. Thank you Lesley. X

  • @susanjackson1307
    @susanjackson1307 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi there... sending hugs to you all and Toby.... hopefully, it won't be long until you get a full night's sleep and things go back to normal... well your normal anyway 😅

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I slept OK last night finally. He is more vocal again through the night and for once I'm glad to hear him. It's reassuring. ♥️

  • @barbaradionne7768
    @barbaradionne7768 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lovely soliloquy on being by yourself. It is so wonderful to enjoy the time you have on your own. All the best to you and the fam. You are blessed. ❤️🇨🇦😊

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It really is nice to be alone and makes you appreciate the family more when they return. ♥️

  • @melaniepowell9595
    @melaniepowell9595 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG I've just been crying with you. You have done so much for Toby to help him and you should be proud of yourselves and Sam well such a gent and a hard worker, as are you all. Keep up the good work ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thanks Melanie. It all just came flooding out. Its funny how talking even to a camera let's all the emotions out! X

  • @kray2001
    @kray2001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you learned a better way and didn't give up. And I loved the testimonial about loving your wife and family and big gratitude. That's what real men do..Thank you for taking the time to share that with us!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thankyou, Rebecca is such a strong woman

  • @robpowell8648
    @robpowell8648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another Brilliant video from Irish homestead and it's many many and many more animals . Fingers crossed for Toby and the house is coming on slowly well done on the works so far. . Tools down time for a mug of Yorkshire

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it Rob. I suspect Sam has a lot more animal shelter building to come! We have run out of Yorkshire and can't get it easily here so have moved on to Barry's or Clipper! 🤣

  • @davidbennett4216
    @davidbennett4216 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Top job with the stone work. will enjoy watching to the finish result 😀

  • @patriciabrown8301
    @patriciabrown8301 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Poor Toby but at the end of the day he will love you for it they brake heart but he will be ok the house is coming on great

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Patricia. Hopefully, in a few days he will love me again. ♥️

  • @rosaleenrooney781
    @rosaleenrooney781 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🤗🤗🤗Toby will be fine. Donkeys are resilient!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good to hear. I hope he does OK now.

  • @naomipretorius
    @naomipretorius 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sam, you looked like a Viking soldier with your tool belt, demolishing that gable. Love your enthusiasm.

  • @JamesKearnsbkk
    @JamesKearnsbkk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Gloves and specks for safety ... medical care is Very expensive in Ireland.God forbid you slip then your dream is over for you and beautiful family... SAFETY FIRST!

    • @annagilda1
      @annagilda1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Urgent medical care is free at the point of access. It's not expensive at all.

    • @JamesKearnsbkk
      @JamesKearnsbkk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@annagilda1 still should wear safety clothing..it is only sensible and responsible.. building sites are extremely dangerous..God forbid he had an accident.. he also needs to pace himself.. working to hard

    • @annagilda1
      @annagilda1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JamesKearnsbkk I agree with you about some PPE.

    • @duncancremin1708
      @duncancremin1708 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @annagilda1 Strictly speaking, that’s true. But spend a few nights in hospital, after a fall, then tell me it’s cheap!

    • @annagilda1
      @annagilda1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@duncancremin1708 I just did. The daily charge has been scrapped.

  • @lauraweber9636
    @lauraweber9636 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One way you can help the swallows is putting up bird boxes for them. You can even get the kids involved. Maybe then they won’t nest in the house.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We do need to put some more boxes up. We did put one up but clearly more are needed. I

  • @BarbaraScott-j3k
    @BarbaraScott-j3k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    SAFETY GLASSES!!

  • @mariecurly2420
    @mariecurly2420 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well done, sam is doing a great job
    Beccy, don't worry about toby be fine keep up good work guys ❤❤

  • @annaking9213
    @annaking9213 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    #37 video, enjoyed.

  • @theresaweller707
    @theresaweller707 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GO GREEN! This is the second time seen you wear an MSU shirt! I love following your channel and especially your house renovation! I wish hubby would wear a hard hat! Cheers!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have no idea why I buy these jumpers. I just love the print. I have no connections to MSU.but love the emblem. I wish he would too. 🫣

  • @karenjoy7557
    @karenjoy7557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes it will be had for Donkey at first but it will be for the best...I know with dogs it take a while for his manhood to change...Toby is loud as my dog was asleep snoring big time your Donkey yelled he woke up and I told him it's just Toby on Utube...
    Toby will get more love from your family and a new Donkey to play with...My heart goes out to U and Toby...I hope U get some painkillers and antibiotics for him aswell...
    Love to guinea pigs and the auditance like the cats and dogs etc...looking on...
    Please send an upto date with Toby...😅😅😅

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Karen. Toby could wake the dead! Be thankful you don't live near us lol.
      He has had lots of antibiotics and pain killers but we will keep him topped up.
      The poor guinea pigs are getting slowly used to their new surroundings with a full on audience
      I'll do an update on fb & instagram this week. ♥️♥️

  • @bcarithers22
    @bcarithers22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sam what you said about Rebecca was so beautiful! With mother’s day tomorrow, that was just about the best tribute a man can give to his wife. Your stone work is looking very good too! Those lentils look heavy, not to mention the stones.
    Rebecca hang in there, it’s clear you love Toby. He’ll get thru it all. I’ve seen a few things about donkeys and mules lately, they don’t look as beautiful as horses, but they are supposed to be really smart. It seems like you respect them they respect you. You create a bond with them. Oh and you got guinea pigs!, we had them growing up! Weeet wheet! Loved them. Oh yeah thanks for the nice music too! Thanks for letting us share bits of your life, you guys are really special. ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks it was so nice what Sam said..such a surprise when I was editing! He is a very loving person. Toby is definitely clever! He can be a monkey but we do love him to bits.
      The guinea pigs are just the best thing that happened here for the kids. They love them. I had them as a kid and the sounds bring nack so many good memories. . The noises are so sweet. ♥️

  • @triciazimmerman3522
    @triciazimmerman3522 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Toby will be fine. The more he moves around the better as it will help keep swelling down and keep it draining. Also the soles of his feet are bound to be sore if he hasn't been done in a long time. Spraying his feet with a strong iodine or if you can get Venice of turpentine to put on his soles it will help toughen up his feet. You'll be amazed how fast he will heal. Hang in there. You will both get through this.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks that's interesting. I'll look into that. He will not let me near his feet, though. The poor farrier had his work cut out with him! We were all sweating by the end.

    • @triciazimmerman3522
      @triciazimmerman3522 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theirishhomestead yes there was a donkey where I used to keep my horses and he wasn't keen about his feet being messed with as well. They are quite adamant at times

  • @catherinemcgrath5549
    @catherinemcgrath5549 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Toby will be great and he will love all of you because you give him love and affection that’s so important

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks. I really hope so. ♥️🫏

  • @PoppytuleLovestar
    @PoppytuleLovestar 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    CONGRATULATIONS SAMUEL DADDY'S DARLINGS YOU BEAUTIFUL STONEWALL WORK DADDY'S DARLINGS IT'S LOOKING GOOD DARLINGS CONGRATULATIONS ONCE AGAIN SAMUEL DARLINGS

  • @cv990a4
    @cv990a4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Child labor, you love to see it! And if they can't pull their weight, Jonathan Swift noted that Ireland-raised children were good to eat... 😀

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤣🤣 luckily for them they pull their weight 👍

  • @roomullan3050
    @roomullan3050 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As others have said, he will be fine believe me. He knows he is loved. He is surrounded by the comings and goings of everyone. He has lots to look at and other animals around. He will soon be back to his old self Becs. You just keep on loving him xxxxx

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks. I'll keep on giving him lots of love until he's back to his old self. ♥️🫏

  • @sharlettedavidson81
    @sharlettedavidson81 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh…hugs Becky, it’s hard but you are doing all the right things, just means you are a really great mom ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww thanks that's kind of you. Luckily he is doing ok rightt now. 🤞🍀

  • @creekyknee
    @creekyknee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are amazing. I still love your videos even though they are now rain-free for the most part !
    All of the things that you are doing for Toby are worthwhile. He will not blame you for any of them and in due course forget the dis-comfort and be in a better place because of you guys. The cottage is coming along nicely, keep it up.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its such a relief to see him walking around, eating and naying

  • @asubstantiallife7557
    @asubstantiallife7557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh, Becs! I was crying right along with you!!! You are doing the RIGHT thing by Toby! You just have to make up for all the things that the previous owner didn’t do! This is a testament to how wonderful you guys are and just how much love you have to give to him! No matter what happens, I can tell you (as someone who worked in a busy, well known equine hospital) that you have done everything 100% RIGHT! Don’t doubt yourself: you are providing Toby the care he always deserved!!! ❤

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm looking forward to creating a super hard standing area for him, just waiting for the fence contractor then we will get the machines in

  • @Gardengirl4
    @Gardengirl4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can't help being upset, you love him, and witnessing what you did hurts,
    I'm hoping Toby recovers soon, and hopefully, it will become a distant memory,
    You are doing the right thing for him,
    How lovely will it be, eventually has a friend,
    And way to go, Sam, you're the man. Stone work is awesome.

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes it was a tough few days. I just hope he recovers well. My biggest fear is after all this he still is aggressive.
      Sam's stonework is fantastic. He has done so well.

  • @annjarvis9300
    @annjarvis9300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Awwww Rebecca my heart broke for you remember you are doing all you can for Toby I am wishing I could give you a hug hope things settle for Toby soon and Sam the work coming along so well hope you all got a little break all our but and fondest wishes to you all from us the oldies 🤗🤗🤗🤗🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Ann. We are going to have a Sunday off. I think the weather is set to break today or tomorrow so things will be cooler for the stonework. Toby seems to be much better today. He is being he usual noisy self.

  • @susandellet7121
    @susandellet7121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well done to survive a rather traumatic time with Toby and progress building stoic both of you. True heroes

  • @wrenwest4887
    @wrenwest4887 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That tie-wire or tie-band is wonderful. I know the donkey likes company - I just keep remembering that here in the NC mountains (USA), a donkey will protect horses and sheep from bears, wolves, etc. but you really don't see those vermin there, do you? Oh, well, he will keep you alerted to anything that moves, I guess. But your border collie will be your guard as well! Take good care of yourselves because there are no more of you anywhere! More power!

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he is just with us for our enjoyment and his hopefully lol. No guarding really needed but helpful nonetheless. Nell is always around though. 👍

  • @pennyh3101
    @pennyh3101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Rebecca, your deep motherly love for precious Toby is obvious, no mom wants to cause pain but sometimes it is necessary for future good. Toby life has improved so much since he came to your home, he knows this and will be better. I can’t wait to see chickens riding on his back and him playing with doggy etc.. he needs to heal and your loving family will do that. Homestead looking great .. God bless you all and love Hubby tribute to you.. stone mason skills ongoing

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for that lovely message. I'd love to see the chickens riding on his back too! He does tolerate them a lot!
      So glad you think the place looks great. That's good to hear. I feel like it looks although a bomb has gone off most of the time 🤣

  • @dorothymccormick4390
    @dorothymccormick4390 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you kids are amazing!! What you are doing, building your dream home,, with your own hands is so inspirational!
    And your words spoken on Episode 37, spoke volumes about your character and you as a man. 🥰
    God bless you and your family. ❤

  • @sandratweedale2579
    @sandratweedale2579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely smashing job Sam. Really lovely and authentic looking. Continuity will be so attractive. And the tribute to your family was so genuine and loving. Thanks for opening your heart to us. Bless you all 🥰🇨🇦 Ottawa fan

    • @theirishhomestead
      @theirishhomestead  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much! Really nice to hear that today. We are closer & much happier as a family since we left the UK and started travelling and home educating the kids.
      We spend so much time together. Although sometimes a break is good. 😉