As a long time viewer I genuinely hope you are doing okay or just the best you can:) I love the quote you shared "I'm not obligated to be the person I was yesterday" that will stay with me forever!! I really genuinely hope your doing what you need to do to find your version of peace and happiness!
As a follower of around 12 years, you give me true “do no harm, take no shit” vibes. you seem compassionate, thoughtful and like a great friend but also make stuff happen, know what you/others deserve, and won’t stand for less.
i was literally about to comment something very similar!! i guess i can see how people see you as bossy or controlling, but more than that aspyn i think you as a very smart person who has always been mindful and strong with pure intentions!! you’re doing right by your kids and i know they will look up to you with admiration when they get older. i know you described this healing journey as very up and down, but i truly hope you’re doing well and taking time for yourself these days. ❤
I’m a old viewer, im not going to sit here and say i’ve watched you constantly but i’ve checked on you every now and then. The growth that you’ve had is immaculate, for not only you but your kids. You’ve always been a person I look up to (which is why I keep checking in). I understand anxiety and depression. Your personality SHINES through even the darkest times. You will continue to do great things and motherhood is your strength ❤️ Be bold and be yourself, it inspires people!
omg the line about not being controlling, just nothing will get done unless i do it, so it will be done my way hits SO hard. i wish my partner would understand this, and i'll be bringing this sentiment to my therapy session next week to discuss. :)
As a single mom, I see a lot of myself in you and it's comforting to know I'm not alone. I was the same after I left my daughters father and it's hard, comes in waves but definitely gets better. Sending you so much love!
It’s so silly recognizing the outfit from TikTok and knowing the lore of this outfit 🤣🤣 so weird being a long time viewer and consistently being a watcher for these last couple years and being about this vlog community that I was apart of this whole time and everyone rediscovering you and this crazy flip of what it’s been for the past couple years over here on TH-cam. Feels so crazy cuz I’ve been here just watching and everyone finding you again is so WEIRD haha you are growing your community again is great
Idk if this is going to make sense but I feel like Aspyn and Shay Mitchell are the same kind of person. Extreme girl boss, not emotional, gets shit done, no bullshit. I love it 👑
I’ve been watching your videos since I was 13, I’m 25 now and I’m so so proud of you!!! ❤ I never mention this lore of mine but I called off an engagement with my ex fiancée back in 2019 cause he was controlling, angry and wouldn’t let me hang out with my friends but wanted me to move in with him and not have any friends 😊 I’m now in a very happy relationship and I just wanted to mention that story to say I’m incredibly proud
Hey aspyn, you have been doing so great, keep pushing. Everything you have shared this week really put into perspective that the internet can hide things, you sharing has given me a reality check that everyone goes through their own personal hell. I been watching since I was 14 and I’m 23 thank you for being such a real human and so kind!!
It’s ok to be curious but you also have to have respect for someone who is healing and trying to work through things. Love you Aspyn! ❤ You’re such a strong woman and your girls are so lucky to have you as their mama ❤
You don’t have mean girl energy, you have a genuine energy. You say what you have to say and you just are a powerful woman who can take care of herself.
My mum felt (and feels) the same way about marriage as you after her divorce from my dad. She has never had any interest in being a wife since their divorce, and has no faith or belief in marriage as an institution. She does have a long term partner (nearly twenty years together now!) but they have never lived together or shared finances. Women definitely get the worse end of the deal in marriage and partnerships, so after living that "single married mum" life already, she had no desire to end up in a similar situation again. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone in that thinking, and that both of her children deeply admire her strength and have amazing relationships with her.
You absolutely are making sense. I've had girls from Asian cultures tell me the same. Just because it was a norm to get married and have kids right away they did. But they do have their regrets. Adore their children but wish they would have delayed everything by a few years. You're doing great!!! Stay strong ❤
Aspyn I’ve been here since the OG days and tbh I’m so happy we’re back to just Aspyn content! I fell off watching you as much when you were heavy in the couples content because it’s always given me the ick lowkey because certain people just didn’t seem super genuine 🙄But you see to be glowing and growing rn! I’m here for it
I was diagnosed with OCD about a year ago. I never thought I had it but I realized that my thoughts just don't stop sometimes and maybe that's not normal? it's a lot but once you are aware and continue therapy then it gets easier.
Aspyn, with full honesty, I am proud to say I was raised with watching you for so many years. No matter what is going on, you have such a good head on your shoulders, despite ups and downs in life you have your priorities straight and I can just tell you are an amazing mom putting your kids first. Whatever you are going through just remember this is another season of life that will pass and better days will come and there is still so many beautiful moments you'll experience you have no idea. One chapter closes another opens. Personally, I am also not at the best place in my life, upset a lot but it's regarding work so very much different. But I very much believe in us - strong, independent women. I am sending you so many hugs and love
We love you Aspyn!! Thank you for sharing your life with us ❤ I 100% love and respect that you don’t show your kids anymore. You’re a great role model!
Similarly to you, I did not want anything to do with weed growing up (both parents have addiction) but once I was in my 20s I felt like I was able to see what worked best for me. Overall I am sending you lots of love and strength as you get through what youre getting through
Wishing you well ❤ being a human is so fucking hard sometimes. I've been following you since 2020. I was pregnant with my first and feeling very isolated and alone. Watching your videos, of someone almost a year ahead of me in motherhood, made me feel less alone. Rooting for your happiness!
I also made the choice to stay away from alcohol young bc of a family member who abused it. When I was 24, I had my first taste of it and would try alcohol occasionally after that. I only have a few drinks or less a year and I rarely even drink half of it 🤷♀️ i totally get your perspective
Thanks for sharing girlie♡ u don't have to explain yourself to anyone! And not confusing video at all. You're just sharing ! I totally understand about kind of just going along with the community and society. But in ways it still brought u beautiful girlies in ur life! You attract who you want to be in your life! Defs followed for a few years too but got lost the past 2 years maybe! But glad to be seeing ya again! You and keren/khoa are like the only ones I watch on YT lool
I totally understand the ups and downs -- I've been healing from a breakup for over a year and some weeks I'm totally over it and some weeks I'm really really not
We're the same age and I've watched you since I was 15. You are my favorite TH-camr girl, and seeing you in this part of your life makes me so happy and just excited for you. I don't have tiktok but I literally Google your name to watch yours, and to see what you've been through makes my heart hurt but I absolutely root for you. You're an icon idc.
Something I always tell my husband as a stay at home, grad student, and nanny, is that our space, our things, our schedule has to SERVE me. My life is challenging to stay on top of and if it does not serve me and make my life easier it can go.
Aspyn you have grown into such an amazing woman. Im not that much older than you lol but i can’t help but feel so proud of you and have a feeling of happiness to think that someone like you is raising three sweet girls who will also grow up to be productive, kind and wonderful humans. Always wishing you guys the very very best 💕
Aspyn, I want you to know I feel your pain. You are not alone. I would like to share my story with you!! It’s very fucked up and triggering, so I wouldn’t put it here. If you have a business email or something, maybe we can connect. Either way, know this. Toxic people despise a bright light. They will do anything in their power to blow it out. They may never stop. THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PART is your resilience. You WILL NOT be blown out!!!!! Keep doing what you’re doing babe! They hate when we succeed it is their worst fear. Like Maya Angelou, we will always rise!!!! Love and peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are the perfect example of too much too young ! I saw this yrs ago. You will be fine and come through this all but it will take much self reflection , you are still very young with much to learn. Wishing you and the girls happiness.
last time i was obsessed with your bed and barely could focused on what you were talking about and this time i was completely obsessed with your jewelries lol
ty for always being real w us, i love watching your videos and have been watching for a long time and i love everything u do, im always here for u, hope u feel better soon, ily💕
Always enjoy and look forward to your chatty videos!! From all videos I've watched, I understand you from exactly how you've explained yourself in this video. A strong woman who knows what she wants is not necessarily a bossy or mean woman. I don't see you as insecure either. I've been watching alot old videos whilst waiting for new footage. Saw your Australian videos. You saw my suburb which has no parking !!!😅 People just walk, bike or keep it simple there. Privacy seem to be an issue for others bit it's OK to have it. I would recommend a Naturopath or Herbalist. You live in LA so a good place to find one. Could really be helpful with support. ❤
Asphy this was so special to anwer your Q&A . Your so honest ,amazing and mostly attentive. I love how highly you speak about Alcohol. I feel the same. I just didn't want to be around that kind of thing. With that said you are a Beautiful person and I love how much you say your a girl Mom their so Cute without filming them🤍
I so understand and respect your privacy but at the same time I just wish I could like sit down with you and you tell me everything that has gone on, as someone that is thinking of getting engaged soon I just want to know what to look out for ya know? Hope you’re having better days 💕
Proud of you for getting through all of this and still being in the public eye , I know that aspect makes everything harder, but youre doing good Ap! 🫶🏼
I didn't ever get the perception that you would be very different than how you portray yourself to me it seems very genuine but also I believe that there should be a balance in everything but it is hard as a young woman in this society growing up to find this.
I totally get the drinking thing bc same. even in HS I wouldn't go to parties and never thought drinking is cool because I also have the genetic disposition to addiction. I struggle with caffeine and SODA terribly as it is. I couldn't imagine anything worse like drugs or alcohol. So to make it easy I stay away. When my childhood friend and I get together with the kids (her and I had both pregnancies the same year so our kids are close too!) and after their asleep we'll have a mixed drink or 2 but that's it. she's like the only person I drink with and very seldom. So yeah I Def. get where you're coming from with that. ❤
As a long time viewer I genuinely hope you are doing okay or just the best you can:) I love the quote you shared "I'm not obligated to be the person I was yesterday" that will stay with me forever!! I really genuinely hope your doing what you need to do to find your version of peace and happiness!
As a follower of around 12 years, you give me true “do no harm, take no shit” vibes. you seem compassionate, thoughtful and like a great friend but also make stuff happen, know what you/others deserve, and won’t stand for less.
i was literally about to comment something very similar!!
i guess i can see how people see you as bossy or controlling, but more than that aspyn i think you as a very smart person who has always been mindful and strong with pure intentions!! you’re doing right by your kids and i know they will look up to you with admiration when they get older. i know you described this healing journey as very up and down, but i truly hope you’re doing well and taking time for yourself these days. ❤
when a woman does it she’s bossy and a mean girl and when a man does it he’s confident and assertive. 😑
The casual flip off 😂 Love to see it!!
The way it went so fast she’s too funny 😂
“I’m gonna think opposite of you just to show you that I can.” 😭 I’m obsessed with you
I’m a old viewer, im not going to sit here and say i’ve watched you constantly but i’ve checked on you every now and then. The growth that you’ve had is immaculate, for not only you but your kids. You’ve always been a person I look up to (which is why I keep checking in). I understand anxiety and depression. Your personality SHINES through even the darkest times. You will continue to do great things and motherhood is your strength ❤️ Be bold and be yourself, it inspires people!
“She was a married single mom” bars
I've been saying married single mom for years and no one ever gets it 😭
omg the line about not being controlling, just nothing will get done unless i do it, so it will be done my way hits SO hard. i wish my partner would understand this, and i'll be bringing this sentiment to my therapy session next week to discuss. :)
❤ this is the realest you’ve ever been online. LOVE IT & i hope you’re hanging in there & realize how strong & resilient you are!
As a single mom, I see a lot of myself in you and it's comforting to know I'm not alone. I was the same after I left my daughters father and it's hard, comes in waves but definitely gets better. Sending you so much love!
It’s so silly recognizing the outfit from TikTok and knowing the lore of this outfit 🤣🤣 so weird being a long time viewer and consistently being a watcher for these last couple years and being about this vlog community that I was apart of this whole time and everyone rediscovering you and this crazy flip of what it’s been for the past couple years over here on TH-cam. Feels so crazy cuz I’ve been here just watching and everyone finding you again is so WEIRD haha you are growing your community again is great
“and if you dont… 🖕🏼” SENT ME GIRL
Idk if this is going to make sense but I feel like Aspyn and Shay Mitchell are the same kind of person. Extreme girl boss, not emotional, gets shit done, no bullshit. I love it 👑
they are both Aries so that checks out
I’ve been watching your videos since I was 13, I’m 25 now and I’m so so proud of you!!! ❤ I never mention this lore of mine but I called off an engagement with my ex fiancée back in 2019 cause he was controlling, angry and wouldn’t let me hang out with my friends but wanted me to move in with him and not have any friends 😊 I’m now in a very happy relationship and I just wanted to mention that story to say I’m incredibly proud
Hey aspyn, you have been doing so great, keep pushing. Everything you have shared this week really put into perspective that the internet can hide things, you sharing has given me a reality check that everyone goes through their own personal hell. I been watching since I was 14 and I’m 23 thank you for being such a real human and so kind!!
It’s ok to be curious but you also have to have respect for someone who is healing and trying to work through things. Love you Aspyn! ❤ You’re such a strong woman and your girls are so lucky to have you as their mama ❤
Love the flip off!! 😂 truly look up to you to be this strong and assertive
Lmao Aspyn not you flipping off the camera I love that. You’ve always been assertive and I’ve always looked up to to for that ❤
The way I have been WAITING
You don’t have mean girl energy, you have a genuine energy. You say what you have to say and you just are a powerful woman who can take care of herself.
My mum felt (and feels) the same way about marriage as you after her divorce from my dad. She has never had any interest in being a wife since their divorce, and has no faith or belief in marriage as an institution. She does have a long term partner (nearly twenty years together now!) but they have never lived together or shared finances. Women definitely get the worse end of the deal in marriage and partnerships, so after living that "single married mum" life already, she had no desire to end up in a similar situation again. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone in that thinking, and that both of her children deeply admire her strength and have amazing relationships with her.
Love these casual videos! I'm sorry you're having so much anxiety right now and I hope it gets better soon!
i had trauma around alcohol as well, so i swore it off too. i don’t feel like im missing anything lol
The fingers got me 😂😂😂😂 love you Aspyn!
I absolutely love the realness she gives!! 1,000% here for it
I relate to you SOO much in regards to the being labeled as controlling... like we get shit done so yeahhhhh
Realizing there are people who don't have TikTok and haven't seen what's been going on there👀
You absolutely are making sense. I've had girls from Asian cultures tell me the same. Just because it was a norm to get married and have kids right away they did. But they do have their regrets. Adore their children but wish they would have delayed everything by a few years. You're doing great!!! Stay strong ❤
Aw Aspyn watching you grow up has been so sweet, don’t be so hard on yourself during such a new season in your life. God’s got you ♥️
Aspyn I’ve been here since the OG days and tbh I’m so happy we’re back to just Aspyn content! I fell off watching you as much when you were heavy in the couples content because it’s always given me the ick lowkey because certain people just didn’t seem super genuine 🙄But you see to be glowing and growing rn! I’m here for it
I was diagnosed with OCD about a year ago. I never thought I had it but I realized that my thoughts just don't stop sometimes and maybe that's not normal? it's a lot but once you are aware and continue therapy then it gets easier.
Aspyn, with full honesty, I am proud to say I was raised with watching you for so many years. No matter what is going on, you have such a good head on your shoulders, despite ups and downs in life you have your priorities straight and I can just tell you are an amazing mom putting your kids first. Whatever you are going through just remember this is another season of life that will pass and better days will come and there is still so many beautiful moments you'll experience you have no idea. One chapter closes another opens. Personally, I am also not at the best place in my life, upset a lot but it's regarding work so very much different. But I very much believe in us - strong, independent women. I am sending you so many hugs and love
We love you Aspyn!! Thank you for sharing your life with us ❤ I 100% love and respect that you don’t show your kids anymore. You’re a great role model!
Loving the chatty videos!!
Never been so early!! Been a follower since you‘ve been in high school! I hope you find your spark again and get the life you deserve🧡🩵🩷💛
Been following you since I was around 13 and am so amazed by you and your journey! Sending all the love ❤
My assumption made the thumbnail 💗💗 girls who know what they want!
Similarly to you, I did not want anything to do with weed growing up (both parents have addiction) but once I was in my 20s I felt like I was able to see what worked best for me. Overall I am sending you lots of love and strength as you get through what youre getting through
Wishing you well ❤ being a human is so fucking hard sometimes. I've been following you since 2020. I was pregnant with my first and feeling very isolated and alone. Watching your videos, of someone almost a year ahead of me in motherhood, made me feel less alone. Rooting for your happiness!
I also made the choice to stay away from alcohol young bc of a family member who abused it. When I was 24, I had my first taste of it and would try alcohol occasionally after that. I only have a few drinks or less a year and I rarely even drink half of it 🤷♀️ i totally get your perspective
Thanks for sharing girlie♡ u don't have to explain yourself to anyone!
And not confusing video at all. You're just sharing !
I totally understand about kind of just going along with the community and society. But in ways it still brought u beautiful girlies in ur life! You attract who you want to be in your life!
Defs followed for a few years too but got lost the past 2 years maybe! But glad to be seeing ya again! You and keren/khoa are like the only ones I watch on YT lool
Omg yay I’m so early! Been waiting for a longer version of the unhinged posts you’ve been making 😘🥰
I totally understand the ups and downs -- I've been healing from a breakup for over a year and some weeks I'm totally over it and some weeks I'm really really not
Hey, aspyn, I've been watching your videos since 2013, and I'm always so excited whenever you post! ❤
Thank you for talking about your alcohol consumption journey ❤
We love you Aspyn
We're the same age and I've watched you since I was 15. You are my favorite TH-camr girl, and seeing you in this part of your life makes me so happy and just excited for you. I don't have tiktok but I literally Google your name to watch yours, and to see what you've been through makes my heart hurt but I absolutely root for you. You're an icon idc.
Something I always tell my husband as a stay at home, grad student, and nanny, is that our space, our things, our schedule has to SERVE me. My life is challenging to stay on top of and if it does not serve me and make my life easier it can go.
"we are still trying to figure out why i did that" 🤣🤷♀ 13:06
Prayers for healing your mental health 🫶🏼 Love you Aspyn!!!
Aspyn you have grown into such an amazing woman. Im not that much older than you lol but i can’t help but feel so proud of you and have a feeling of happiness to think that someone like you is raising three sweet girls who will also grow up to be productive, kind and wonderful humans. Always wishing you guys the very very best 💕
haha the flip off, loved to see that part of your personality
Loved this Q&A 😊It baffles me that some people that watch videos think they know the full person we are just by watching our content 😂
Yaaay! Im happy Aspyn is back on YT 🤍🫶🏼
Aspyn,
I want you to know I feel your pain. You are not alone. I would like to share my story with you!! It’s very fucked up and triggering, so I wouldn’t put it here.
If you have a business email or something, maybe we can connect.
Either way, know this.
Toxic people despise a bright light. They will do anything in their power to blow it out. They may never stop.
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PART is your resilience. You WILL NOT be blown out!!!!! Keep doing what you’re doing babe! They hate when we succeed it is their worst fear. Like Maya Angelou, we will always rise!!!!
Love and peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Been watching since hautebrilliance and I'm obsessed with this era of Aspyn.
I love seeing you be so honest and authentic
You are the perfect example of too much too young ! I saw this yrs ago. You will be fine and come through this all but it will take much self reflection , you are still very young with much to learn. Wishing you and the girls happiness.
I loved this video!!!! Shining 🫶🏼✨
last time i was obsessed with your bed and barely could focused on what you were talking about and this time i was completely obsessed with your jewelries lol
ty for always being real w us, i love watching your videos and have been watching for a long time and i love everything u do, im always here for u, hope u feel better soon, ily💕
Always enjoy and look forward to your chatty videos!!
From all videos I've watched, I understand you from exactly how you've explained yourself in this video.
A strong woman who knows what she wants is not necessarily a bossy or mean woman. I don't see you as insecure either. I've been watching alot old videos whilst waiting for new footage. Saw your Australian videos. You saw my suburb which has no parking !!!😅 People just walk, bike or keep it simple there. Privacy seem to be an issue for others bit it's OK to have it. I would recommend a Naturopath or Herbalist. You live in LA so a good place to find one. Could really be helpful with support. ❤
you look like you have a new glow to you. you're doing great!!
I’m not sure if it’s a bad thing but I relate to the anxious, “I don’t know if this makes sense” videos bc this is how my brain is all the time
love to see this authenticity! you do you girl!
Love you, Aspyn! Be proud of yourself, you are on your journey girl!! ❤❤
Been waiting for new video! Love and support you always Aspyn
Love how real and genuine you are
Hey honey. ILY I hope you find peace. You owe us nothing and I hope you continue to make content. You’re the best out there ❤
I love this ❤
We need a hair tutorial!!! Love it
lots of love to you girl, you are doing great ❤
the growling at 6:40 made me jump lmao
I RAN LITERALLY 😊😊😊 SENDING LOVE
Love this! Love you! You’re giving me faith in things that I’m going through also as a married-single mom of girls 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Love you Aspynnnn!
A married single mom is so wild but so true
Wow, I am pleasantly surprised at how radical you are in your feminism
i feel like most influencers put on a act but since you’re so genuine they don’t fully understand
Sending you so much love and strength Aspyn❤
Asphy this was so special to anwer your Q&A . Your so honest ,amazing and mostly attentive. I love how highly you speak about Alcohol. I feel the same. I just didn't want to be around that kind of thing. With that said you are a Beautiful person and I love how much you say your a girl Mom their so Cute without filming them🤍
I so understand and respect your privacy but at the same time I just wish I could like sit down with you and you tell me everything that has gone on, as someone that is thinking of getting engaged soon I just want to know what to look out for ya know? Hope you’re having better days 💕
Aries to Aries I get you girl!! Love you!! 🩷
Proud of you for getting through all of this and still being in the public eye , I know that aspect makes everything harder, but youre doing good Ap! 🫶🏼
Lucky to have been following you since 2013 and now on aspyn tok 💖💖
We need an updated makeup routine!
I didn't ever get the perception that you would be very different than how you portray yourself to me it seems very genuine but also I believe that there should be a balance in everything but it is hard as a young woman in this society growing up to find this.
We have all been waiting for this
I’ve been waiting tooooo! Missed u
Thanks for answering my question queen
My girl for lifeeee
Hope you’re doing okay 🤍🤍 been here for ten years
I loved this video!! ❤
Im waitinggggg for that video of how you organize you life… need help as a working mom 😭
I appreciate you so much for being real
the way i RANN
i never comment but i love blueland slay aspyn
Omg what is that blush in the brown stick/tube?? 😍
You need a podcast with Avery!!
the queen has uploaded again 🤭
I totally get the drinking thing bc same. even in HS I wouldn't go to parties and never thought drinking is cool because I also have the genetic disposition to addiction. I struggle with caffeine and SODA terribly as it is. I couldn't imagine anything worse like drugs or alcohol. So to make it easy I stay away. When my childhood friend and I get together with the kids (her and I had both pregnancies the same year so our kids are close too!) and after their asleep we'll have a mixed drink or 2 but that's it. she's like the only person I drink with and very seldom. So yeah I Def. get where you're coming from with that. ❤