She talks about how emotionally abusive her ex was. Proceeds to emotionally abuse, humiliate and mock this poor guy. Im just glad she thought this was a good idea, now everyone sees what a horrible thing she is.
The sad thing is few of her "fans" actually care about the supposed abuse she went through. It's because to them she is hot and idolized. So if their idolized sudo realationship is attacked they sympathize and defend her no matter what. Same could be seen in the whole Amoranth drama with her partner. It also shows how blind they are to her rotten petsonality, wich makes us peoole on the outside second guess who the abuser in the realationship was. Or at least see that she is obviously not innocent. Her fanbase however is not only blind to it, but they fired up her behavior in chat in the first place. They are why she has financial success from being this disgusting.
Bruh. Love yourself first then you will be loved. Stop saying shit like that. Your selfesteem reeks of of very low. Do something about it man. Life can be beautiful and you are worth being loved. But it always starts with yourself. @@Jarsia
@summero-my5in I never said she was ugly. I just said her eyes aren't lined up correctly. 😭 Like I'm not even kidding. Just look at her when her face is straight. Her eyes are lopsided lol.
@@neonnwave1 He DOES hear it from her mouth directly. And even if he overheard, he would just think "I can bear the burden, it's fine." It's would only be over when she says it's over
Filipino here, it's more common than a lot of people think, hell even I was one of these guys at one point until I had enough and wanted some respect for myself. Some guys are just raised to put the girl they like on a pedestal to get her approval and get hurt cuz of it.
Same man..and the worst part is that he thinks its OK and that everyone else doesn't get their relationship..I really hope he figures it out for himself one day.
As an ex doormat a trick I've been using that I think really helps is "would I do this towards someone else? Friend or enemy?" If the answer is no you don't need to think any harder about it. Your "friend" is dogshit for doing something you wouldn't even do to someone you hate. Period. Doormats have a tendency to twist reality and gaslight themselves, I used to do that alot. "My feelings don't matter" he says, I used to have that same mindset too. Because I was used to being bullied, abused even. When people treat you like you don't matter for years and decades it becomes your normal.
Very well said. As a fellow ex doormat, I also gaslit myself and would make endless excuses for people's behavior. "Oh, they just had a bad day." "Everything is ok. I think that bothered me because I'm a bit sensitive right now. It really wasn't that bad." "This feels off but I can't say anything because it would hurt their feelings." I think your suggestion to ask yourself if you would treat someone how they treat you is a great way to find clarity about a situation and shake yourself out of potentially gaslighting yourself. I didn't really figure that out and have it solidly resonate with me until a year and a half ago. I finally woke up. No fucking way I would treat people the way some specific "friends" treated me. I also used to feel so bad because of the ways I was treated. I'd think, I must be a horrible person to deserve this. NOPE! I went back and evaluated everything, read all our texts (when things got bad our relationship was > 95% via texts, aka almost completely documented in black and white). Guess what I found? Me consistently being a great friend and this horrible person making up lies and telling me I did and said "mean" things that literally never happened. Congrats to both of us for waking up, walking away and now being ex doormats. I bet its made both you and me passionate about pointing out when other people are not being treated well and telling them they deserve so much better.
incredibly insightful comment and so helpful. All of us hate bullies and we want to defend the underdog. You have been victimized, and sadly, as a guy, if this was a guy who treated you badly I'm ashamed of my gender. Another way to look at this is to set up strong boundaries around being treated with respect, dignity, and love. NEVER let someone cross those.boundaries without immediate punishment, and if necessary, walking away from the relationship.
When i had a crush on my highschool ex, i helped him from bullies and we became friends but then he started acting strange like a "doormat" and i didnt know this behaviour was a thing at the time so when he put me in that position of the girl in the video by saying weird shit, it would be so arkward because im trying to be respectful and normal, we grew close and his behaviour got worse i dont know if he was anxious i still dont know but i had to harshly break up with him because he wouldnt take a hint or distance himself, fucked me up mentally because i thought i was tripping on him😭 but when i look back his behaviour is the same from the video but extreme.
@@maceywalker266 I'm glad to hear my comment resonated with you. That's why I'm so active with writing comments on TH-cam these days, because I want others to learn from my mistakes, and to take away some wisdom I have learned along the way. You said it has made me passionate about helping people. Yes definitely! I'm almost obsessed with it to be honest. And sometimes I'm almost worried I'm a little too obsessed. Me helping others is my way of getting revenge for the shit I have gone through, so that's why I'm obsessed. It's like a daily "**** you" to my past bullies. If I can help someone who is being mistreated to possibly leave that situation then that's revenge to my own bullies! Ex doormat in recovery, it's gonna take a long time before I'm 100% cured. It takes a long time to change bad habits. But realizing my worth and to not tolerate bullshit is definitely a great start. Nice talking to you friend!
Correct. People think she’s going to change her ways completely. It’s exactly how she got to where she is. If she could do a 180 and be a genuine human it would be a breath of fresh air for humanity.
@xil3ntkha0s dude is massive coping, alot of asian women are like this with their men... they find their men unattractive... had it been a good looking white dude she would've been all up in it... to say "it could've been anybody" is cope
Props to MoistCritikal for trying to help this guy see through the delusion. It's definitely important for Dilly to have at least heard it from someone who cares, so that he can change himself when he finds a reason to. It looks like Dilly is stuck in that mentality, which is rough, but he needs to be the one to save himself.
I'd presume it's partly due to him still being at her place and he's also dealing with infatuation with her, he'll get clarity once he cuts contact with her for a week or so for sure
I don't like to call people as such because I think it's pejorative and degrading, but he's the perfect definition of a simp if I've ever seen one. When he said "it could have been a super hot guy, but he plays league", my only thought was ok, she would make fun of him for that, but you're ok with her making fun of your entire being and existence?
Don't get me wrong, she's obviously not a decent person for clearly humiliating him on camera, but this dude needs to learn some self-respect, pride & dignity.
I feel for him because he has yet to see that. My sister used to talk to me like this, when I made a mistake, "Oh you're mentally ill". It hurt because I grew up with low self-esteem and thought, "She's right". He needs therapy and healing. Set boundaries, etc.
@@SOULSEEKERBEATShas nothing to do with men not being in his life, entirely to do with those with no backbone and allow people to walk all over them because they think that person is all they have, abuse victims go through the same problem, except it comes from intimidation.
As men, we have to stop accepting this sort of disrespect just to potentially get laid. Even if it's "just for show". To anyone who thinks this is gonna work, think again. This guy is the guy who gets roasted and laughed at constantly in the group chat.
Listening to this guy I don't think its just about the kitty but also he would do it for just about anyone in order to feel some false sense of being accepted or to eat the scraps from the cool kids table.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 Naw bro, Faye Valentine said it best. "I tell ya, instead of being alone in a group, it's better to have real solitude all by yourself."
@@JacksonMississippi-rj1rqhow do you tell if someone respects you or not? Just because someone says negative things about you, it doesn’t mean they’re being mean. I always tell my smoker friends to stop smoking or they will get lung cancer. Am I being mean to them? Does that mean I don’t respect them?
@@RedDragonKnighter In my opinion you should ask them why they smoke, what does it do for them, how they see themselves in the future, etc. and then LISTEN TO them, because almost everyone knows "logically" whats good or not for themselves. Friends that only give advice are not the best help, despite it being done in the best intentions. Also about the "being mean to them" part, you both know you are friends by what you do for each other outside of what you just say, so don't worry too much about it.
Creators like MoistCritikal being legitimate and trying to help this guy understand his self worth makes my day. He really was trying to get this guy to realize he didn't need to live with that kind of disrespect. Fellas, we need more of this.
agree!! but listening to the truth charlie was speaking to him is soo painful. charlie is a human and the other guy is.... (whatever comes to your mind...)
This type of woman isn’t just toxic for men, but they’re a parasite on other women as well. I knew a girl just like this since primary school. Because I was young and immature, I was happy being friends with some people purely for entertainment and assumed her role as an entertaining friend was rooted in something similar. Ages later I ended up dating a guy who also knew her as the girl he rejected. Because I was still naive, I assumed it wasn’t a big deal and projected my own mentality on her thinking “well she’s hot and doesn’t have a shortage of guys after her so she’s probably moved on”. I had been in the same situation before where a guy I liked rejected me for a friend and I was honestly just relieved if he was going to reject me, at least it was for someone who I knew was cool and respected. I remember after she finally admitted it to me, initially hesitating in fear of making me jealous, it was so nice to laugh it off and we came out as better friends as a result. Having that mindset as well as knowing that it had been a few years before I got with my bf at the time, i took the person we knew in common as an opportunity to reach back out to her to catch up after a long time. When she invited me out to go clubbing with her and her friends I was honestly just excited to finally have a drink with her now that we were both legally able to do so. Omg that night did not go as planned. Her friends were much nicer to me than her the whole time. She tried physically blocking me out of photos with them (which I forced my way into to steal the spotlight because damn I looked good that night), have me follow her around to meet guy friends of hers to show off all the guys she knew (which she would cut off as soon as one or a few of them showed signs of liking my look), and even ditched her friends who were being nice to me to make me feel more isolated. It’s embarassing, but a lot of these passive aggressive moves went completely over my head until I bumped into an old guy friend there who knew her better in recent years explained everything to me and advised me to either hang with him and his mates or leave to save me from any more trouble. I ended up just going home, needing to isolate myself to process everything as it completely shattered my perspective on our entire friendship since primary school. I think it was just disappointing seeing the first friend I ever snuck out on the weekends with for wholesome mall trips turn into such a pathetic bitch over a guy who didn’t want to hook up with her.
Lol thats nothing compared to what some people did to their close friends, you ex friend was just jealous, i saw nothing reslly dark in what she did, atleast compared to what some others will be able to do out there
"It's frightening that we're seeing highschool behavior in people's late twenties." This video is so important. Hope it reaches some downtrodden bullied people. I feel really bad for that guy.
That’s what happens when parents are not around as much in their life. They let the inertnet do the work and that’s why most children now a days end up like this. I guess the reason why she acts like this is because maybe something is going on in her family life. A lot of kids who grew up watching content creators still act like children
@@jacksoncabrera7236Who to say that his parents didn’t do this him? Bullied, belittled, and criticized everything he did growing up. This guy displays “people pleaser” and “co-dependent” issues, which all stem from traumatic childhoods with shitty ass parents. Just because people have “family” doesn’t mean they are a great family. The worst human beings in history was once someone’s son/daughter, someone’s bro/sis, etc etc etc
@@mac1bc It is normal self respect. That's why I was hoping that a few downtrodden bullied people would see it. I was thinking they were the exception. Maybe not...
@@NeXuS858Exactly. It’s even more his fault because it’s not like the girl is physically threatening and and somehow forcing him to stay… It’s his own horniness that keeps him there. That is 100% his problem.
@@Warsm1th12 I'm not justifying her. She's disgusting, but she's just reaping the benefits of the market that low value dudes like the one in the video have created.
I would say it's more his desperation for an emotional connection that's keeping him there rather than just being a horndog - I think that's more accurate to say that especially because he mentioned that he was going through a breakup and she used that as content. @@kellynantonacci7885
As an ugly woman who has always been ugly, all the way from childhood and who grew up in Colombia, where it is acceptable for people to disrespect you for the way you look, on a constant basis, I kind of get this guy. He is used to being disrespected, used, laughed at and he is probably tired of feeling alone and less than other people. I can relate because I grew up with my mom, my brothers, my “friends”, everybody reminding me, almost daily, of how aesthetically unappealing I am. In my early twenties I was where this guy is, and I got involved with a guy who disrespected me to levels I can barely conceive. Remembering those years is shameful but then again, I fully understand why I accepted such treatment and I have forgiven myself for failing myself in such a way. He will realize with time that this is unacceptable and he will find a way to respect himself and find the things that are valuable about him. What he is doing is not okay, but it would be best for us not to try and make him feel like he is an ultimate idiot
srry you had to go thru that, shit sucks, also i always felt that women in general are only really valued on appearance and this confirms that thought. I truly will never understand fully what you went thru as im a guy but I can relate to people always picking on you for your looks. Being the unwilling butt of jokes takes a hell of a toll over the years.
@@wargpug6084 I think it can get really hard for all genders but I also think it depends on culture as well. I moved to Canada 8 years ago and the way people, including men treat me here is much more respectful and sensitive. To be honest, my loneliness and sadness as a teenager and young adult gave me the motivation and discipline to study like a maniac and get the scholarship that allowed me to leave Colombia. Being ugly will always be part of my identity and I am okay with, but so is being disciplined, adaptable and tough, and I freaking like myself for that :)
Crazy how Moist, a large creator is telling him this is not ok and the guy is just not having it. You cant help those that dont want to be help. This guys deserve all the clowing in the future.
@@kronickintrovert that sounds more like willful masochism. Question in your long life have you personally ever seen woman so visually beautiful that you would do that? 👀🤣🤣
As a former people pleaser I genuinely hope Dilly can realize the problem and start healing soon. You don’t really understand the extent to which it affects your entire life until you’re on the other side. When I was a people pleaser I also had “friends” that would bully me, but I also refused to let good people love me properly bc I felt like I didn’t deserve it, had no real time for hobbies because I was too preoccupied with tending to the needs of others, could never shut up bc I felt that any silence in conversation meant the other person was bored, struggled academically bc I didn’t want to inconvenience my teachers, etc. Life sucks when you’re constantly bending to the will of others and ignoring your own needs and wants, and I hope Dilly soon learns that doing so doesnt make people like you more. If anything, people recognize that you don’t respect yourself and take advantage of you.
His issue is completely unknowable to others only he can figure out why he let himself sink so low. If I had to give him advice as a fellow person. He needs to work on his appearance and that may help him improve mentality. Looking at him he is clearly out of shape, his fashion sense seems to be the lazy but comfortable thing too... I know people here in America are very sensitive when you criticize like the way I just did, however because of people hesitancy to be truly objective about their criticisms that's why lots of people like him exist in this country. All I can say is people that start putting more effort in their appearance and eventually start seeing results really start leading better and healthier lives.
There's being a people pleaser, and there's defending your bully. He could have just said, "yeah that wasn't cool, and in hindsight, maybe I shouldn't have done that skit". Instead, it's almost as if he's going out of his way to defend her actions, at the expense of himself. In front of the whole world. Man, when he becomes a doctor, a whole slew of ill-intentioned women will be ready to bleed him dry. He better grow a pair before he gets there.
it was sad. Charlie should have switched up tactics and began insulting the guy and demeaning him. See what he does, maybe that would click in for him. Dude deserves no respect or cordiality.
You know what… I wasn’t gonna add this, and TH-cam’s probably gonna shadowban this comment, but I’m just gonna say it. A lot of Asian American girls act like this. Especially the self-hating ones that are obsessed with white people (and fetishize white men). I learned a few years ago from some people discussing this exact thing that these girls are referred to as “White Lotus B’s” or “Fake White Lotuses”. That’s how common they are, their community has a whole term for them. Iykyk.
@@Hyperwav3 Insecure as in, she's the type to dish it but can't take it. You can tell she's been surrounded by "Yes-Men" most of her life. Instead of self-reflecting on Charlie's video, she says, "I liked Charlie but don't like him anymore". He hurt her fragile ego. I've learned to read people so yeah lol.
Some dudes are just so painfully alone that they'll even put themselves through this. Loneliness is the leading cause of male suicide. Lots of guys blow their heads off because of it. It's hard to imagine getting to the stare where guys will let this happen, but here we are.
keep in mind these men now have the lowest testosterone in recorded history. many bad mental health outcomes are rectified by simply raising T to more normal levels
If loneliness was the problem it's usually from a lack of friendship and intimacy. But in this case, it was for a girl he found attractive that didn't treat him right. If it was loneliness, you can find some friends. It doesn't just have to be intimacy.
I struggle with this because you only see what they want you to see for the most part. It is totally possible IRL Charlie is a total POS. It's hard too tell someone's true motivations online or TV/art ect. That being said I do agree Charlie really does seem like an awesome dude.
@@jessica5470 Surgeons have enough confidence (read: cockiness) to cover themselves and every other doctor lol. It's a running joke for medical professionals that they're basically all egomaniacs. As a med student, my surgery service was something else.
He is the definition of a simp. He will give everything for her and all she needs to dangle the carrot of friendship with a hint of emotional vulnerability to keep him hooked.
So she's a narcissist. She can't do any self-reflection or acknowledge she did something wrong. This is typical behaviour for pretty women (and dudes if we're honest) who have big followings, egos and entitled attitudes. Can't wait for Charlie to respond to her response.
@@neonnwave1 Yeah, and unfortunately ain’t the first we’ve seen this. I actually hope Charlie doesn’t respond. It’s just nonsense to even bother about. Clearly Dilly or whatever his name is wants to be in that hole with her
That was painful to watch. Dude, Dilly, you deserve better. That is not your "place". You shouldn't be "used" to it. For the love of god, please save yourself.
this is honestly more common than you would think. My bestfriend used to be in love with this girl in our class, and so anytime she asked him for anything he did it. She would make him pay for her lunch, make him go to the store for her, and make him carry around her bookbag because she liked keeping all her books on her. We all tried telling him she was messing with him, and he knew it too, but he was fully convinced that this would somehow get her to love him. It was so sad to see, especially since she dated three people while this was happening.
I see what you're trying to say here, but taking advantage does not automatically mean abuse. As a kid, I would take advantage of the fact that my mom forgot things sometimes to get away with stuff. Was it wrong? Yes. Abuse? No.
No, this is absolutely abusive behavior. Look at the damage it has done to his psyche. He is a total slave. Similar strategies are used to torture people; presenting something desirable as if it is a real option, only to abruptly take it away is a power move. Was used by my father for years. Fucked me up for a long time until I completely cut him and the rest of my family out. The people that are denying it are likely suffering from similar shitty relationships and are subconsciously defending their oppressors. Stay frosty friends
Yes. I love seeing ACTUAL male role models doing this shit. Not because they're trying to hop on a trend or lead young males, but solely because they hate to see young men ruining themselves for love, clout, money, pride, the list goes on. I respect the fact that y'all just speak. Yes, there's flare for the sake of creating content, but there's always some guidance. Thank y'all
Charlie and Aba and Preach being based. Calling out bs from both sides. Making fun of the whole alpha male thing, talking about creeps and also teaching about self respect.
This man completely lacks respect for himself.. I'm not sure if its depression, or he genuinely believes this harpy actually cares about him, but goddamn man. You can be better than this.
he can't though. some guys are losers. we have been thinking we can only bully or encourage men to be weak, that there is no middle ground. this is what happens when we promote softness
@@willdegra317tf is bullying someone to be strong gonna do? I’ve been bullied and yeah cause it happen i don’t take shit from people but bullying fucking sucks and many people take they lives from there shit there is nothing good or useful about bullying
@@kazejay7229 Bullying is societies way of culling the week. If there’s one thing that I learned being disabled in the public school system, it’s that bullies like any other form of predator go after the people they perceive as weak. All you have to do is show them that you’re not weak, and they’ll leave you alone. if you can’t figure that out, then you deserve to be their victims. It’s better than the lion eat a sick gazelle that won’t help the herd then if they ate a healthy gazelle that would.
@@jordanwhite8718 That is only true sometimes. There are bullies that are just psychopaths and will beat you within an inch of your life or worse if you stand up to them. While many are cowards at heart preying on the weak, it is not universal. I had a bully that turned his gaze on me. I got lucky and had computer skills he needed for a class and took care of the toadies who actually were cowards on the side. Another kid was not as lucky and tried to stand up to him and was beaten to a pulp. He later ended up in prison for killing someone in a bar fight. It can be hard, especially as a teenager, to recognize the true predator from the imposters.
This is heartbreaking... as someone who was bullied in school for years, I recognize where this need for inclusion comes from, even though it comes at your own detriment. I hope he heals and grows from this 🙏🏻
Same here and Aba and Preach are right. These people dont want to hang out with you after you graduate. You're just their punching bag and theyll move on and not give a shit.
Women are always reading up on what abuse looks like and how to respond to it, more often than men do. A lot of men are still bad at responding appropriately to abuse and exploitation.
The worst part about all of this is even though he fully defended her to Moist, she's absolutely going to be friendly to his face and then cut him off entirely.
@@michaelangst6078I wouldn’t say they are “good friends” in the literal sense as nobody in their right mind would consider this to be “good friend” behavior. Rather, she is so unthreatened by him that she allows him to come in her home for days at a time to be her punching bag.
@@Aaron-kj8dv I meant to include that in my comment, she'd definitely have seen the whole Moist video before he left and acted like it was all cool because he defended her, but when the hate starts or started to roll in I'm sure she'll distance herself from him because he was involved.
Man I feel for the guy. He can't even see that he's a punching bag for content. Friends don't hurt friends. Hopefully this guy finds the courage and strength to truly see this situation for what it is and start standing for themselves. Also W to penguin. Dudes real for pointing it out.
Nah, he knows and can feel/see what he’s doing to himself. He said it himself that he understands and takes responsibility for what he signed up for. But I agree with the second half of what you said; yes, he needs solid encouragement and admonishment in having a healthy regard and respect for himself. He needs to be willing to work on that for himself. Don’t feel pity for him if he is saying he willingly gives himself to be a doormat to be used by others who think being inhumane and deliberately demeaning another person is a good thing. People should have an active displeasure of mercy to tell them the hard truth and the self-detrimental consequences of their own poor choices in life.
I think he not only sees it, but they have an agreement to play up this ‘content’ to farm hate views and he gets paid in turn. Buuut he probably only accepted this deal because he gets aroused from the humiliation too.
The really sad thing is that the dude could have flipped those gross comments about him back to her and she'd likely find him more attractive for it but clearly the guy has no confidence or social skills to do that. You think I'm ugly cool, I'd not be with a chick with fake tits anyway... that would reflect some of the hurt he feels and put her in a position where she'd probably let him play with them to convince him that their great. No riz as the kids say 😅
She's a horrible person! Why would anyone want to watch her content in the first place is beyond me. She will treat him as badly as he lets her, he needs a real friend. If he thinks she's a friend, tells me he's never had one.
Why don’t people get that she’s playing a character? It’s an exaggeration of how she is in real life, how are people this dumb? This loser is not a victim he is part of the joke. The stream was hilarious. My family and I insult each other other ppl like this all the time, it’s normal. It means we like you. If you can’t take it then you’re just soft and you probably shouldn’t be around ppl like that.
I glad you guys covered this. The dude is in total denial. It's really sad. Edit: You brothers don't miss a beat. I had to change my entire comment because I see yall got it all here. Clips and every receipt. 💯
Idc if shorty looked like Angela Bassett, Nia Long, Prime Pre-MGK Megan Fox, or Natalie Portman no one should be tolerating this kind of disrespect🤦🏾♂️. We can’t force him to respect himself tho all we can do is hope he eventually grows a back bone & realizes she’s just using him for her own personal gain.
I thought you said unless, not idc, and I was gonna say even if they look that good it’s NOT OKAY. A shit personality is sooo ugly to me. Especially cruel and humiliating
@@hanashable95 Nah of course. It doesn’t matter how good someone looks if they’re a terrible person. A terrible personality will always overshadow good looks as far as I’m concerned.
If they aren't already sleeping together on the side, hes definitely holding out for it. Hes not gonna say that and she would never acknowledge either. Shes stringing him along one way or another.
I've been there and had that 'take what you can get' mentality when you're surrounded by people who have no respect for you. It's a position where you make excuses and compromises to feel like you're part of the lifestyle everyone else seems to have, but it's not real and this guy is better than those he's surrounded by - he just has yet to realise his self worth. I hope he discovers it and ditches those losers.
I get it, but it gets to a point where you are no longer being a victim due to someone else, but you are making yourself a victim by putting yourself in these situations without getting help. Its a very, VERY dangerous and slippery slope from this, to becoming an incel, to becoming a full on POS yourself. He really doesn’t have much time to get his soul right and get things in perspective.
@@silversoulken If someone grows up in an abusive environment they learn to adjust to the abuse because at home they had no other choice year after year. And then they continue that pattern in the outside world.
What's sad is not even as a friend. I don't believe in the friendzone thing, you either work together or not. So I don't think any kind of friend would do this.
People like him need to realize just because someone looks attractive doesn't mean they're an angel. Although i feel bad for that guy but let's be real here, he PUT himself in that position. This is why there's saying "Never meet your idols" and this situation is proof of what happens if you do.
This is so true, i know i was under that spell for a long time, perhaps still am at certain occasions. And i despise myself for it. To equate beauty with love or kindness is just pathetic. The whole "Never meet your idols" entails so much more even, but it also fits here for sure, but you can take the beauty part out of it and still have days and days of fitting examples. Your comment should be pinned!
Christ. That was painful. I feel second hand soul crushing from that. I definitely couldn't be friends with someone who treats me like crap. It is not something I can just...have.
12:58 This is why I'm glad the floor's still part of your team. You two may have been silent, but that's because the floor was saying all that needed to be said
Nah bro. I RECENTLY stopped talking to a girl who outta nowhere switched up our dynamic. I told her how I felt, we started hanging out, gaming, doin the typical nerdy stuff but had a fuckin blast doing it. I saw this intensly shy woman open up and blossom around me to the point we were the loudest people in a restaurant laughing our asses off. In the decade ive known her ive NEVER seen her open up like that to anyone so that time out was a GOOD sign to me. Couple months in, a "friend" of hers came back around and suddenly I was too much. Suddenly I was "unsettling" for asking whats up when for 2 months now we've hung out twice a week, talked morning and night daily, gamed, and more, but as SOON as this other guy comes around I'm in the wrong for questioning ghosting and sudden distance? Nope. Told her happy birthday, merry Christmas and havent sparked conversation since. I've known her 15 years, didn't think she was the type, but obviously the times have changed her. But I'll be damned i let anyone doormat my ass. If someone suddenly puts distance between you two and acts like you're brand new, be brand new. Without them.
@@magic804yeah it sounds like she entered a relationship and set boundaries with her male friend. How many men would want their GF's texting another guy twice daily and almost being In a platonic relationship?? I hope he told her how he felt because it sounds like he fancied her.
Obviously we have only one side of the story here, and if what he says is accurate, then she did not handle boundary-setting well. She should have let him know her relationship took priority and she needed to put distance between them. But, like y'all say, I suspect we're not hearing the full story here, I doubt she just got up one day and decided poster was "unsettling". The give away is how he quoted "friend". It's a slight jab at the other guy and her, devaluing their relationship as not fully friendly, not fully romantic, something in between where someone is being used. Who cares if they're friends, fuck buddies, engaged... She chose to prioritize him over you, so accept it, no need to bash her or the other guy for it... But good on you for setting boundaries so the same
i remember when this first happened everyone had his back and went after her and not him but seeing him defend her just shows he’s too far gone down the simp rabbit hole… no hope let him suffer
Unfortunately some people will accept an abusive relationship just to have a relationship with that person. Negative attention is still a relationship in the abused eyes
I don’t understand how anyone can be so cruel for fun. Every time I even THINK I’m being unnecessarily rude, I lay in my bed at night replaying the scenario while I try to hold back an anxiety attack.
I know sometimes kids can stray from what they are taught, but it's clear she hung out with the wrong crowd and her parents didn't correct her behavior.
sad situation it is. Just another bit of info about why Dilly's eyes were all puffy and he had a snot nose is the fact that she has cats and he was having an allergic reaction to them. Literally putting up with an allergic reaction, being publicly humiliated, while defending her actions, and even more. This man's man is sadly probably too far gone and he is going to just accept his fate in the position he is in. What a shame.😐
He's taken on the identity of a punching bag cause he's scared of nobody liking him. Trouble is nobody likes a spineless person. Not his fault, he's probably got underlying inferiority complex and will need some serious introspection in order to change.
She emasculated him the entire time. So sad. Meanwhile she’d give her dog a whole tongue kiss but gave that boy a tap kiss and acted like she got sprayed with acid.
Sadly see more men like this in this generation. We're living in a age of desperation where women have more options than ever due to social media, are constantly being gassed up and take no accountability for their shitty actions, while most men remain invisible to the vast majority of women, thus you have more men willing to tolerate BS to even feel as if they have a "chance", think about it would you ever see a women in the same predicament as the guy was in this video? You might be it's def not the norm and as they say exceptions never make the rules. This is just my observation anyhow from a dude who's been married 13 years now.
I get what you are saying but i dont think that its women and social media. For two reasons. 1. You say women have all these "options" that is only possible if men are willing to throw themselves at women for just existing. No one forces us to do that. 2. No one forces us to give them all that attention and give them outs for their behaviour.
The pendulum has swung. For centuries and centuries and centuries, men had options, women didn’t. Men could treat women anyway they wanted knowing she could not divorce him.. I’m not saying that what she did is right. She’s a terrible person who uses her pretty privilege to take advantage of guys because most guys are so stupid and weak for pretty faces… but I’m just saying, one of the sexes will always have more options than the other, and in this era, it is women.
@@rizkiramadhan9266 You guys keep saying this crap without an ounce of reason. You don't understand women at all. Many women want marriage while men want sex. We can get off in other ways. Women can get sex easily, but many of us are not appealing to men because you most of you guys don't want commitment. I've never had sex, but I've never dated either, because the guys who ask me out either want friendship or push for sex. Nothing more. Guys conflate sex and intimacy, so we end up with videos like this one. If men had more standards and were more secure in themselves, they wouldn't let women treat them like crap for a kiss. I'm tired of men being angry at women because we have options. We don't. Especially, as religious women with morals.
Letting yourself getting beat up by abusive pieces of shits like that, i knew guys like that, and they went on to be Incels. It's something very dangerous when you're a weak guy that already have a fragile ego and can't stand up for himself. That's the path to hate and possible violence over years of being thrown around like a trashbag for shit and giggles. I hope bro gets better and get out of there ASAP, because i don't believe it's gonna end up well for him.
even if he agreed to be insulted for content, she's still just straight up calling him ugly. she's using the fact that she thinks he's ugly as fuel for her "jokes" she wouldn't use these insults for a guy she thought was attractive.
my cousin was a model I still call him ugly as fuck and make fun of him for getting sexually abused by our cousin. Although it’s more of a last resort to shut him up
Honestly i think it’s better for jokes to be used this way. I call my skinny friend a “fatass” sometimes. But he’s not. We both know he’s not fat. We make fun of each other. And not lower our self esteem at the same time.
@@straightfacebuddha Not to mention there are different layers to different jokes for different ppl. As a teen I was hella skinny (still am tbh) but I would get called a fatass for how much I ate back then lol.
Try to understand that people who've been treated like this and let themselves be treated like this often defend their bullies/abusers and minimize what they've done. I did this myself for DECADES for people who literally tied me up and sodomized me simply because I was young and they were my friends and I thought it was a game that got outta hand. This guy reminded of me as a kid really badly. He'll wake up one day and realize he clowned on himself and I just hope he finds a way to become a man. I got lucky and found martial arts, lifting, and other sources of accountability that helped me reclaim my life and masculinity. He needs help. Don't dismiss him. Please. I'm telling you, this guy needs fkin help.
@@Dementia.Pugilistica At the end of the day no one can help him if he doesn't want to help himself. You can't force someone to grow a spine and have self respect.
I automatically read that he had no respect for himself as soon as I saw him before they opened their mouths. I can read people quick. Just didn't think she was going to use him like that but also had no expectations for her as soon as I saw how she looked. Just like you see a girl dressed like a 304 you don't go expecting her to be a decent person relationship wise.
This is the saddest thing I've seen and heard in a while. He needs to respect himself and know that he deserves better friends. It's better to have no friends than to have a "friend" like her. Sir, stop enabling her to treat you like sh*t. I was so mad seeing and hearing him trying to justify her disgusting behaviour. He fumbled his way through the interview, and it was very hard to watch.
This is actually a good example of how men can be abused by women. Even though Supcaitlin (or whatever her name is) is physically at a disadvantage, the verbal abuse he endured was just as heinous (in certain instances even times far more worse) than physical abuse. That's a huge thing I'm seeing from this video and it shows that you don't have to place hands on someone to still be abusive. Most people tend to only look at abuse as strictly physical, but this is a great example of verbal abuse that many folk endure. Even to the point of the mod even defending her. The same elements are involved, which can be worse because there is no physical evidence.
oh this hurts me personally, i've been in a similar spot, difference was that the girl i was hung up on didn't treat me this badly and overtly. where i realized i was in that position was when she invited me out for drinks with her and some of her girl friends i thought we would have a good time. turned out i was only there to look over their drinks and their bags which they left alone with me so i couldn't do anything but just sit there while they were on the dancefloor having fun by themselves for most of the time.
I feel so bad for this dude. I hope he figures out his self-worth. He deserves to be treated as a human being. Not as “ Content “ or a laughing stock. I really hope one day, he stands up for himself and says “ I don’t deserve this treatment, I deserve better. I deserve what’s best for me”
@@Master_Yoda66 RIGHT BUT LIKE IT ACTUALLY HURT. I dont watch twitch but that actually hurt to watch Charlie talk about it and he's just "this is fine basically!"
He winked off camera, I don’t think he’s being half honest here. I personally think they agreed to exaggerate this dynamic to farm engagement and he gets paid a lot in turn, if he were to be honest about it they would lose a lot of the hate watchers who think this guy is purely delusional and she is evil. However he no doubt likes the treatment too because people without this fetish would not accept this public treatment even for money. Who knows, maybe behind the scenes they do fuck or whatever but he’s the convenient punching bag for stream content.
For real though. At first I was laughing at him like he was a dumb simp. But then I felt so bad for him he just really doesn't get it. Some people never learn those lessons early in life
"You can't save these hoes." Needs to be amended to include simps too. That extreme lacking of self-respect is mind blowing. Homie needs to learn to care about how he's treated or he will always be a side character, and the side character no one cares for rather than the cool one. Not trying to be quoting RP, but this dude seriously needs a positive male figure to slap him back to reality. I have a long time friend in my life that isn't simpy like this guy, but happens to have the mix of social ineptitude and a failure to adjust to stuff most adults do. It's frustrating to see as despite me knowing the guy since 7th grade, he's too defensive of my input as I'm the most invested in adjusting the guy (so he sees it as almost bullying), so I feel Charlie's pain here.
She talks about how emotionally abusive her ex was.
Proceeds to emotionally abuse, humiliate and mock this poor guy.
Im just glad she thought this was a good idea, now everyone sees what a horrible thing she is.
Them amber heards clones are out there, protect your neck.
The sad thing is few of her "fans" actually care about the supposed abuse she went through.
It's because to them she is hot and idolized. So if their idolized sudo realationship is attacked they sympathize and defend her no matter what.
Same could be seen in the whole Amoranth drama with her partner.
It also shows how blind they are to her rotten petsonality, wich makes us peoole on the outside second guess who the abuser in the realationship was. Or at least see that she is obviously not innocent.
Her fanbase however is not only blind to it, but they fired up her behavior in chat in the first place. They are why she has financial success from being this disgusting.
i wanna know what a bad idea is for her
Most sympathetic female twitch streamer
“Poor Guy” umm… don’t feel bad for him, he just sat that and took it. No backbone, no self-respect. Smh
This breaks my heart. The guy is probably so unloved that he's willing to get humiliated live in front of millions of people just to please a woman.
Then everyone drags him some more and cashes in making videos shitting on him for being an abuse victim. Pretty wild.
I'm about to turn 36 and I'm about as unloved as it gets. I wouldn't tolerate this shit for a second
Nah, he's just a weak soul.
Bruh. Love yourself first then you will be loved. Stop saying shit like that. Your selfesteem reeks of of very low. Do something about it man. Life can be beautiful and you are worth being loved. But it always starts with yourself. @@Jarsia
Nah more like he's just pathetic
Seeing Preach react to these things for the first time is so refreshing and hilarious
Bro help me get CDK I'm tired of using Yama blade...
I've saved like three to four screenshots of his reactions😂
It's like real people react instead of terminally online people react
It’s the honesty. We can always count on these guys for honest reactions and feedback
Refreshing to see normal people react to internet degenerates
She’s not as bad as she thinks she is, and he’s not a bad looking dude. They both need to reevaluate their self image.
Bro her eyes aren't even lined up correctly on her face. 🤣🤣🤣
@@scottlo211now you’re lying she has a pretty face. But who knows how much of it is surgery
@summero-my5in I never said she was ugly. I just said her eyes aren't lined up correctly. 😭 Like I'm not even kidding. Just look at her when her face is straight. Her eyes are lopsided lol.
Really? Pretty?? Above average@@summero-my5in
@@summero-my5inDamn bro... You gonna put it in anything huh? Lmao
I lost a homeboy to the same type of delusion. There's no talking them out of it. They have to see it for themselves
He has to hear from her mouth that she doesn't respect him. Either she says it to his face or he overhears her while she thinks he ain't listening.
True
@@neonnwave1 He DOES hear it from her mouth directly. And even if he overheard, he would just think "I can bear the burden, it's fine." It's would only be over when she says it's over
Just let the blue pilled learn the hard way.
Nobody *red pills* men faster than females. 🤷🏼💊
So true, it's like being in a cult. The only thing you can do is try and be supportive but real talk I'd probably end the friendship
You know the video is gonna be good when Preach is so annoyed he start speaking creole in the first few minutes 😂😂😂
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AFP today? And how was The Chosen premiere?
Hi Ruslan!
What’s going on Ruslan? When is the next album dropping?
Ruslan!!!!!!! So cool to see you here
As an Asian guy, seeing a brother let himself be treated without an ounce of dignity hurts on so many levels.
Hey he wants her bad. I can see why she nice looking and great boobs. She not worth that much humiliation
Filipino here, it's more common than a lot of people think, hell even I was one of these guys at one point until I had enough and wanted some respect for myself. Some guys are just raised to put the girl they like on a pedestal to get her approval and get hurt cuz of it.
Same man..and the worst part is that he thinks its OK and that everyone else doesn't get their relationship..I really hope he figures it out for himself one day.
As a MAN LOL regardless of ethnicity. I have seen this one before and still hurts every time I watch it.
Im getting the impression they were both in on it. They played the roles perfectly.
As an ex doormat a trick I've been using that I think really helps is "would I do this towards someone else? Friend or enemy?" If the answer is no you don't need to think any harder about it. Your "friend" is dogshit for doing something you wouldn't even do to someone you hate. Period. Doormats have a tendency to twist reality and gaslight themselves, I used to do that alot. "My feelings don't matter" he says, I used to have that same mindset too. Because I was used to being bullied, abused even. When people treat you like you don't matter for years and decades it becomes your normal.
Very well said. As a fellow ex doormat, I also gaslit myself and would make endless excuses for people's behavior. "Oh, they just had a bad day."
"Everything is ok. I think that bothered me because I'm a bit sensitive right now. It really wasn't that bad."
"This feels off but I can't say anything because it would hurt their feelings."
I think your suggestion to ask yourself if you would treat someone how they treat you is a great way to find clarity about a situation and shake yourself out of potentially gaslighting yourself.
I didn't really figure that out and have it solidly resonate with me until a year and a half ago. I finally woke up. No fucking way I would treat people the way some specific "friends" treated me. I also used to feel so bad because of the ways I was treated. I'd think, I must be a horrible person to deserve this. NOPE! I went back and evaluated everything, read all our texts (when things got bad our relationship was > 95% via texts, aka almost completely documented in black and white). Guess what I found? Me consistently being a great friend and this horrible person making up lies and telling me I did and said "mean" things that literally never happened.
Congrats to both of us for waking up, walking away and now being ex doormats. I bet its made both you and me passionate about pointing out when other people are not being treated well and telling them they deserve so much better.
I have never been a doormat, but i would do anythint to an enemy to hurt them.
incredibly insightful comment and so helpful. All of us hate bullies and we want to defend the underdog. You have been victimized, and sadly, as a guy, if this was a guy who treated you badly I'm ashamed of my gender. Another way to look at this is to set up strong boundaries around being treated with respect, dignity, and love. NEVER let someone cross those.boundaries without immediate punishment, and if necessary, walking away from the relationship.
When i had a crush on my highschool ex, i helped him from bullies and we became friends but then he started acting strange like a "doormat" and i didnt know this behaviour was a thing at the time so when he put me in that position of the girl in the video by saying weird shit, it would be so arkward because im trying to be respectful and normal, we grew close and his behaviour got worse i dont know if he was anxious i still dont know but i had to harshly break up with him because he wouldnt take a hint or distance himself, fucked me up mentally because i thought i was tripping on him😭 but when i look back his behaviour is the same from the video but extreme.
@@maceywalker266 I'm glad to hear my comment resonated with you. That's why I'm so active with writing comments on TH-cam these days, because I want others to learn from my mistakes, and to take away some wisdom I have learned along the way. You said it has made me passionate about helping people. Yes definitely! I'm almost obsessed with it to be honest. And sometimes I'm almost worried I'm a little too obsessed. Me helping others is my way of getting revenge for the shit I have gone through, so that's why I'm obsessed. It's like a daily "**** you" to my past bullies. If I can help someone who is being mistreated to possibly leave that situation then that's revenge to my own bullies! Ex doormat in recovery, it's gonna take a long time before I'm 100% cured. It takes a long time to change bad habits. But realizing my worth and to not tolerate bullshit is definitely a great start. Nice talking to you friend!
Young men are in a REALLY dark place if this girl is a popular streamer🤨
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Lol you have no idea how bad it is 😂
LMAO. My friend. Did you not see Morgpie?
@@sechabatheletsane9784who is that
Correct. People think she’s going to change her ways completely. It’s exactly how she got to where she is. If she could do a 180 and be a genuine human it would be a breath of fresh air for humanity.
This one hurts so bad. You can see it in MoistCritikal's eyes. He feels for this dude so much.
I think he is more shocked that the guy is talking like he wanted it.
@@bunnyrabi guy is in denial and coping so hard
@xil3ntkha0s dude is massive coping, alot of asian women are like this with their men... they find their men unattractive... had it been a good looking white dude she would've been all up in it... to say "it could've been anybody" is cope
It doesn't hurt at all. He did it to humself.
@im2arrogant118 spoken like a sociopath. I have a bit of empathy. Take care.
Bro is letting himself get clowned on, can't feel sorry for him at this point
Exactly..
He was so beta the video deleted all the updates on my phone 😮
He has no self respect.
It’s a simp-demic
Im pretty sure he was stuck at her place because he traveled to meet up irl.
Props to MoistCritikal for trying to help this guy see through the delusion. It's definitely important for Dilly to have at least heard it from someone who cares, so that he can change himself when he finds a reason to. It looks like Dilly is stuck in that mentality, which is rough, but he needs to be the one to save himself.
The fact he keeps sitting there and supports her after she insulted him so many times is wild
I'd presume it's partly due to him still being at her place and he's also dealing with infatuation with her, he'll get clarity once he cuts contact with her for a week or so for sure
@@TripnotizeVMinfatuation is practically stage 1 simping.
That’s a man who thinks with his penis
Degradation kink
He’s been whipped beyond comprehension
All I’m gonna say is me personally I wouldn’t take this level of disrespect 🤷♂️
You probably wouldn’t be on that stream to begn with. That level of simp is unreal
as no men should.
I don't like to call people as such because I think it's pejorative and degrading, but he's the perfect definition of a simp if I've ever seen one. When he said "it could have been a super hot guy, but he plays league", my only thought was ok, she would make fun of him for that, but you're ok with her making fun of your entire being and existence?
Seriously, like dude I have no words. This level simpage is unhealthy
@@backoff8062lack of father figure
Don't get me wrong, she's obviously not a decent person for clearly humiliating him on camera, but this dude needs to learn some self-respect, pride & dignity.
No strong males around him. You maintain the standards of those around you.
I feel for him because he has yet to see that. My sister used to talk to me like this, when I made a mistake, "Oh you're mentally ill". It hurt because I grew up with low self-esteem and thought, "She's right". He needs therapy and healing. Set boundaries, etc.
@@Pandcakes936nah I don't. Moist pretty much laid it out how's she is a piece 💩 and he dodged the questions
how can you say that like why stand up for a person who is making fun of someone like that. Oh wait maybe you were that bully in school i get it.
@@SOULSEEKERBEATShas nothing to do with men not being in his life, entirely to do with those with no backbone and allow people to walk all over them because they think that person is all they have, abuse victims go through the same problem, except it comes from intimidation.
6:19 "couldn't be me" 😂😂
Couldn't be me neither
Perfect response.
As men, we have to stop accepting this sort of disrespect just to potentially get laid. Even if it's "just for show". To anyone who thinks this is gonna work, think again. This guy is the guy who gets roasted and laughed at constantly in the group chat.
100% agree
That requires dickcipline.
FUCKING FACTS
Very true, it makes you very unattractive because it shows that you don't respect yourself
Listening to this guy I don't think its just about the kitty but also he would do it for just about anyone in order to feel some false sense of being accepted or to eat the scraps from the cool kids table.
No one should be afraid of being alone if this is the kind of people they are surrounded with. Respect has to go both ways, always
Yes cause humans aren't meant to be alone there is a reason why every thing on earth has a tribe.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957if you’re tribe don’t respect you, you’re literally better off alone
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 Naw bro, Faye Valentine said it best. "I tell ya, instead of being alone in a group, it's better to have real solitude all by yourself."
@@JacksonMississippi-rj1rqhow do you tell if someone respects you or not? Just because someone says negative things about you, it doesn’t mean they’re being mean. I always tell my smoker friends to stop smoking or they will get lung cancer. Am I being mean to them? Does that mean I don’t respect them?
@@RedDragonKnighter In my opinion you should ask them why they smoke, what does it do for them, how they see themselves in the future, etc. and then LISTEN TO them, because almost everyone knows "logically" whats good or not for themselves. Friends that only give advice are not the best help, despite it being done in the best intentions.
Also about the "being mean to them" part, you both know you are friends by what you do for each other outside of what you just say, so don't worry too much about it.
Creators like MoistCritikal being legitimate and trying to help this guy understand his self worth makes my day. He really was trying to get this guy to realize he didn't need to live with that kind of disrespect. Fellas, we need more of this.
agree!! but listening to the truth charlie was speaking to him is soo painful. charlie is a human and the other guy is.... (whatever comes to your mind...)
We already do. It's called The Whatever podcast.
That "girl" is a male
Men positivity! Please! As a woman, I would love to see more of this!
@@NelehLove9313you wouldn't be able to stomach men positivity though. Our "positivity" isn't real the positive you think it is
This type of woman isn’t just toxic for men, but they’re a parasite on other women as well. I knew a girl just like this since primary school. Because I was young and immature, I was happy being friends with some people purely for entertainment and assumed her role as an entertaining friend was rooted in something similar. Ages later I ended up dating a guy who also knew her as the girl he rejected. Because I was still naive, I assumed it wasn’t a big deal and projected my own mentality on her thinking “well she’s hot and doesn’t have a shortage of guys after her so she’s probably moved on”. I had been in the same situation before where a guy I liked rejected me for a friend and I was honestly just relieved if he was going to reject me, at least it was for someone who I knew was cool and respected. I remember after she finally admitted it to me, initially hesitating in fear of making me jealous, it was so nice to laugh it off and we came out as better friends as a result. Having that mindset as well as knowing that it had been a few years before I got with my bf at the time, i took the person we knew in common as an opportunity to reach back out to her to catch up after a long time. When she invited me out to go clubbing with her and her friends I was honestly just excited to finally have a drink with her now that we were both legally able to do so. Omg that night did not go as planned. Her friends were much nicer to me than her the whole time. She tried physically blocking me out of photos with them (which I forced my way into to steal the spotlight because damn I looked good that night), have me follow her around to meet guy friends of hers to show off all the guys she knew (which she would cut off as soon as one or a few of them showed signs of liking my look), and even ditched her friends who were being nice to me to make me feel more isolated. It’s embarassing, but a lot of these passive aggressive moves went completely over my head until I bumped into an old guy friend there who knew her better in recent years explained everything to me and advised me to either hang with him and his mates or leave to save me from any more trouble. I ended up just going home, needing to isolate myself to process everything as it completely shattered my perspective on our entire friendship since primary school. I think it was just disappointing seeing the first friend I ever snuck out on the weekends with for wholesome mall trips turn into such a pathetic bitch over a guy who didn’t want to hook up with her.
Lol thats nothing compared to what some people did to their close friends, you ex friend was just jealous, i saw nothing reslly dark in what she did, atleast compared to what some others will be able to do out there
"It's frightening that we're seeing highschool behavior in people's late twenties."
This video is so important. Hope it reaches some downtrodden bullied people. I feel really bad for that guy.
Shucks. Wait till you see grandparents act like teenagers 😂.
I feel bad we need videos of this to wake people up. It should be normal self respect to not allow this, to be around someone.
That’s what happens when parents are not around as much in their life. They let the inertnet do the work and that’s why most children now a days end up like this. I guess the reason why she acts like this is because maybe something is going on in her family life. A lot of kids who grew up watching content creators still act like children
@@jacksoncabrera7236Who to say that his parents didn’t do this him? Bullied, belittled, and criticized everything he did growing up. This guy displays “people pleaser” and “co-dependent” issues, which all stem from traumatic childhoods with shitty ass parents. Just because people have “family” doesn’t mean they are a great family. The worst human beings in history was once someone’s son/daughter, someone’s bro/sis, etc etc etc
@@mac1bc It is normal self respect. That's why I was hoping that a few downtrodden bullied people would see it. I was thinking they were the exception. Maybe not...
One thing I hate in life are bullies. She’s one of them. Aba’s description of a kid that doesn’t belong in his friend group is very accurate.
Yeah but it's 100% on the simp for staying there
@@NeXuS858Exactly. It’s even more his fault because it’s not like the girl is physically threatening and and somehow forcing him to stay…
It’s his own horniness that keeps him there. That is 100% his problem.
@@NeXuS858true but doesn’t justify her behavior
@@Warsm1th12 I'm not justifying her. She's disgusting, but she's just reaping the benefits of the market that low value dudes like the one in the video have created.
I would say it's more his desperation for an emotional connection that's keeping him there rather than just being a horndog - I think that's more accurate to say that especially because he mentioned that he was going through a breakup and she used that as content. @@kellynantonacci7885
As an ugly woman who has always been ugly, all the way from childhood and who grew up in Colombia, where it is acceptable for people to disrespect you for the way you look, on a constant basis, I kind of get this guy. He is used to being disrespected, used, laughed at and he is probably tired of feeling alone and less than other people. I can relate because I grew up with my mom, my brothers, my “friends”, everybody reminding me, almost daily, of how aesthetically unappealing I am.
In my early twenties I was where this guy is, and I got involved with a guy who disrespected me to levels I can barely conceive. Remembering those years is shameful but then again, I fully understand why I accepted such treatment and I have forgiven myself for failing myself in such a way. He will realize with time that this is unacceptable and he will find a way to respect himself and find the things that are valuable about him. What he is doing is not okay, but it would be best for us not to try and make him feel like he is an ultimate idiot
srry you had to go thru that, shit sucks, also i always felt that women in general are only really valued on appearance and this confirms that thought. I truly will never understand fully what you went thru as im a guy but I can relate to people always picking on you for your looks. Being the unwilling butt of jokes takes a hell of a toll over the years.
💜💕💜💕
@@wargpug6084 I think it can get really hard for all genders but I also think it depends on culture as well. I moved to Canada 8 years ago and the way people, including men treat me here is much more respectful and sensitive. To be honest, my loneliness and sadness as a teenager and young adult gave me the motivation and discipline to study like a maniac and get the scholarship that allowed me to leave Colombia. Being ugly will always be part of my identity and I am okay with, but so is being disciplined, adaptable and tough, and I freaking like myself for that :)
@@viviantriana5146 Much respect ❤
I'm sorry you had to go through that. People are awful
Crazy how Moist, a large creator is telling him this is not ok and the guy is just not having it.
You cant help those that dont want to be help.
This guys deserve all the clowing in the future.
He doesn't deserve it but people already reached out. It's his own consequences and choices from now.
No one is beautiful enough to validate this behavior. The level of beauty that is required to make up for this does not exsist.
This sounds beautiful in of itself on paper. But unfortunately its practice works in the opposite direction most of the time.
U never heard the tales of people dragging balls over glass etc.?
@@kronickintrovert that sounds more like willful masochism. Question in your long life have you personally ever seen woman so visually beautiful that you would do that? 👀🤣🤣
She is repulsive to me 🪳🪳🪳
And she not all that that’s pounds makeup on her face
As a former people pleaser I genuinely hope Dilly can realize the problem and start healing soon. You don’t really understand the extent to which it affects your entire life until you’re on the other side. When I was a people pleaser I also had “friends” that would bully me, but I also refused to let good people love me properly bc I felt like I didn’t deserve it, had no real time for hobbies because I was too preoccupied with tending to the needs of others, could never shut up bc I felt that any silence in conversation meant the other person was bored, struggled academically bc I didn’t want to inconvenience my teachers, etc. Life sucks when you’re constantly bending to the will of others and ignoring your own needs and wants, and I hope Dilly soon learns that doing so doesnt make people like you more. If anything, people recognize that you don’t respect yourself and take advantage of you.
His issue is completely unknowable to others only he can figure out why he let himself sink so low. If I had to give him advice as a fellow person. He needs to work on his appearance and that may help him improve mentality. Looking at him he is clearly out of shape, his fashion sense seems to be the lazy but comfortable thing too...
I know people here in America are very sensitive when you criticize like the way I just did, however because of people hesitancy to be truly objective about their criticisms that's why lots of people like him exist in this country.
All I can say is people that start putting more effort in their appearance and eventually start seeing results really start leading better and healthier lives.
I used to be a people pleaser too. I get it😮💨
It seems to be more common lately...
Glad you learned to love yourself. I really hope Dilly does too. Was cathartic seeing Preach react. She was so mean.
There's being a people pleaser, and there's defending your bully. He could have just said, "yeah that wasn't cool, and in hindsight, maybe I shouldn't have done that skit". Instead, it's almost as if he's going out of his way to defend her actions, at the expense of himself. In front of the whole world. Man, when he becomes a doctor, a whole slew of ill-intentioned women will be ready to bleed him dry. He better grow a pair before he gets there.
Hats off to Charlie for trying to save the guy.
Unfortunately these guys don't want to be saved until they get burned
She cute, but not sacrifice looking like a bitch cute lmfaooo.
it was sad. Charlie should have switched up tactics and began insulting the guy and demeaning him. See what he does, maybe that would click in for him. Dude deserves no respect or cordiality.
@BNezzy calm down dude
The guy said that’s how his friendship is with her, he’s forever lost.
What I love most about these videos is that the level of disbelief is measured by creaks in the floor
We value the Floor's input on this channel. Floor got a lot to say.
How was she comfortable being so disgustingly rude? Oh my god. The disrespect was wild. He should have walked away immediately.
A lot of simps are nice guys without self respect.
She’s violently insecure. Insecure to the point of being hateful, antagonistic, and combative.
You know what… I wasn’t gonna add this, and TH-cam’s probably gonna shadowban this comment, but I’m just gonna say it. A lot of Asian American girls act like this. Especially the self-hating ones that are obsessed with white people (and fetishize white men). I learned a few years ago from some people discussing this exact thing that these girls are referred to as “White Lotus B’s” or “Fake White Lotuses”. That’s how common they are, their community has a whole term for them. Iykyk.
@@Hyperwav3 Insecure as in, she's the type to dish it but can't take it. You can tell she's been surrounded by "Yes-Men" most of her life. Instead of self-reflecting on Charlie's video, she says, "I liked Charlie but don't like him anymore". He hurt her fragile ego. I've learned to read people so yeah lol.
Because it was probably a bit for content
Some dudes are just so painfully alone that they'll even put themselves through this.
Loneliness is the leading cause of male suicide. Lots of guys blow their heads off because of it.
It's hard to imagine getting to the stare where guys will let this happen, but here we are.
keep in mind these men now have the lowest testosterone in recorded history. many bad mental health outcomes are rectified by simply raising T to more normal levels
BUT in this case he will put himself through this only for women he finds attractive.
Loneliness wasn't the cause, thirst was the cause.
If loneliness was the problem it's usually from a lack of friendship and intimacy. But in this case, it was for a girl he found attractive that didn't treat him right. If it was loneliness, you can find some friends. It doesn't just have to be intimacy.
@@GregXHunterzspot on. this idea that a man NEEDS a partner to avoid being “lonely” is pathetic 😂
There was a guy who jumped from a ship because of OF trash woman. And his body is missing.
Kudos to Charlie for actually talking to him and trying to save him. Charlie is a good dude.
He's a great human being. One of my favorites, if not the favorite, in my list.
He's a boring loser who has literally no redeeming qualities
@@macdaddy1376 this is premium hating
Futile attempt 😂
I struggle with this because you only see what they want you to see for the most part. It is totally possible IRL Charlie is a total POS. It's hard too tell someone's true motivations online or TV/art ect. That being said I do agree Charlie really does seem like an awesome dude.
Dude said “I just wanna be a doctor.” Can you imagine a guy like this being in charge of your health or other medical conditions?
i can. most med students are socially inept
@goodbadboy3836 when I had surgery my doctors had full confidence, I don't trust this guy to be confident in what he's doing
My mom was a doctor and she always had plenty of stories about incompetent doctors, quite common apparently
@@jessica5470 surgeons are a different breed though
@@jessica5470 Surgeons have enough confidence (read: cockiness) to cover themselves and every other doctor lol. It's a running joke for medical professionals that they're basically all egomaniacs. As a med student, my surgery service was something else.
I’ve never seen someone cope harder than Dilly. This chick has manipulated him beyond saving
She didn’t do anything. He’s the one willingly lie to himself about this shit. You can always say no.
@@umiluv remember that.
He is the definition of a simp. He will give everything for her and all she needs to dangle the carrot of friendship with a hint of emotional vulnerability to keep him hooked.
@@umiluvwouldn't be saying this if the roles were reversed lol
@@umiluvshe did tho. Its on video where she is disrespectful to him
She responded to moist basically scolding him and saying this is all his fault…. Typical behavior.
Thank you for sharing that
.. And yeah that totally makes sense... In some weird universe
is there a response video link?
So she's a narcissist. She can't do any self-reflection or acknowledge she did something wrong. This is typical behaviour for pretty women (and dudes if we're honest) who have big followings, egos and entitled attitudes. Can't wait for Charlie to respond to her response.
@@Dabby724 yeah. Dilly is even sitting next to her while explaining how attacked she feels
@@neonnwave1 Yeah, and unfortunately ain’t the first we’ve seen this. I actually hope Charlie doesn’t respond. It’s just nonsense to even bother about. Clearly Dilly or whatever his name is wants to be in that hole with her
That was painful to watch. Dude, Dilly, you deserve better. That is not your "place". You shouldn't be "used" to it. For the love of god, please save yourself.
He has unfortunately already made up excuses. There’s lots of enablers in this world. They let the narcissists get away with their terror.
He doesn't deserve better. He is a simp.
Problem is that they're energetic equals, it's a symbiotic relationship of insecurity. I do hope he raises his standards though...
"I separate the person from the streamer."
Biggest SIMP/COPE answer I have ever heard.
Total OD on the cope-caine
this is honestly more common than you would think. My bestfriend used to be in love with this girl in our class, and so anytime she asked him for anything he did it. She would make him pay for her lunch, make him go to the store for her, and make him carry around her bookbag because she liked keeping all her books on her. We all tried telling him she was messing with him, and he knew it too, but he was fully convinced that this would somehow get her to love him. It was so sad to see, especially since she dated three people while this was happening.
That's incredibly depressing
@@uzair7387 it was horrible. she eventually “gave him a chance” and broke up with him in two months
@@GrandRizzard of course, she never respected him. No one will respect you if you don't respect yourself
Seems like it was worth it then, two months in high school ? Thats pretty long.@@GrandRizzard
take this from an asian woman who knows her way with men. That type of behavior makes women lose respect for you. Respect yourselves guys.
She is abusing him. The way she reached over for his hand just as a set up to humiliate him was psychological and physical abuse.
He’s not being held at gunpoint, it was his choice to be there.
Explain that to a judge... it was consentual. Some women just know how to be snakes
I see what you're trying to say here, but taking advantage does not automatically mean abuse.
As a kid, I would take advantage of the fact that my mom forgot things sometimes to get away with stuff.
Was it wrong? Yes. Abuse? No.
Just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean it's abuse.
No, this is absolutely abusive behavior. Look at the damage it has done to his psyche. He is a total slave. Similar strategies are used to torture people; presenting something desirable as if it is a real option, only to abruptly take it away is a power move. Was used by my father for years. Fucked me up for a long time until I completely cut him and the rest of my family out.
The people that are denying it are likely suffering from similar shitty relationships and are subconsciously defending their oppressors. Stay frosty friends
'I don't claim this 👀✋!!!" That was wiiiiild
"that's funny. I claim this exit"
😂😂😂
Her power over his mind has gotta be ridiculous if she's so comfortable saying shit like that live on stream sitting right next to him.
Personallly i would never take that level of disrespect
Even the floor was groaning
It was weeping for his soul
true definition of a simp
I hate seeing dudes go through this
Aba: "I wouldn't even do that to my enemies. "
Also Aba: "My man Fresh is 30 going on 80."
Both things can be true.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
He deserves it lol
Yes. I love seeing ACTUAL male role models doing this shit. Not because they're trying to hop on a trend or lead young males, but solely because they hate to see young men ruining themselves for love, clout, money, pride, the list goes on.
I respect the fact that y'all just speak. Yes, there's flare for the sake of creating content, but there's always some guidance.
Thank y'all
Charlie and Aba and Preach being based. Calling out bs from both sides. Making fun of the whole alpha male thing, talking about creeps and also teaching about self respect.
This man completely lacks respect for himself.. I'm not sure if its depression, or he genuinely believes this harpy actually cares about him, but goddamn man. You can be better than this.
he can't though. some guys are losers. we have been thinking we can only bully or encourage men to be weak, that there is no middle ground. this is what happens when we promote softness
It’s definitely depression and a low sense of self worth probably caused by growing up alone or bullying
@@willdegra317tf is bullying someone to be strong gonna do? I’ve been bullied and yeah cause it happen i don’t take shit from people but bullying fucking sucks and many people take they lives from there shit there is nothing good or useful about bullying
@@kazejay7229 Bullying is societies way of culling the week. If there’s one thing that I learned being disabled in the public school system, it’s that bullies like any other form of predator go after the people they perceive as weak. All you have to do is show them that you’re not weak, and they’ll leave you alone. if you can’t figure that out, then you deserve to be their victims. It’s better than the lion eat a sick gazelle that won’t help the herd then if they ate a healthy gazelle that would.
@@jordanwhite8718 That is only true sometimes. There are bullies that are just psychopaths and will beat you within an inch of your life or worse if you stand up to them. While many are cowards at heart preying on the weak, it is not universal. I had a bully that turned his gaze on me. I got lucky and had computer skills he needed for a class and took care of the toadies who actually were cowards on the side. Another kid was not as lucky and tried to stand up to him and was beaten to a pulp. He later ended up in prison for killing someone in a bar fight. It can be hard, especially as a teenager, to recognize the true predator from the imposters.
This is heartbreaking... as someone who was bullied in school for years, I recognize where this need for inclusion comes from, even though it comes at your own detriment. I hope he heals and grows from this 🙏🏻
Same here and Aba and Preach are right. These people dont want to hang out with you after you graduate.
You're just their punching bag and theyll move on and not give a shit.
Women are always reading up on what abuse looks like and how to respond to it, more often than men do. A lot of men are still bad at responding appropriately to abuse and exploitation.
Keep hoping cause that's clearly not gonna happen :')
The worst part about all of this is even though he fully defended her to Moist, she's absolutely going to be friendly to his face and then cut him off entirely.
Doubt it. She was comfortable enough for him to come to her home for 6 days and act that way. They are very likely good friends for real
She may even blame him for the bad reaction shes getting and cut him off leaving him even more pathetic
@@michaelangst6078I wouldn’t say they are “good friends” in the literal sense as nobody in their right mind would consider this to be “good friend” behavior. Rather, she is so unthreatened by him that she allows him to come in her home for days at a time to be her punching bag.
@@Aaron-kj8dv I meant to include that in my comment, she'd definitely have seen the whole Moist video before he left and acted like it was all cool because he defended her, but when the hate starts or started to roll in I'm sure she'll distance herself from him because he was involved.
@@michaelangst6078No good friends of any sort are like this.
he's in denial and he is blinded.
Man I feel for the guy. He can't even see that he's a punching bag for content. Friends don't hurt friends. Hopefully this guy finds the courage and strength to truly see this situation for what it is and start standing for themselves.
Also W to penguin. Dudes real for pointing it out.
Nah, he knows and can feel/see what he’s doing to himself. He said it himself that he understands and takes responsibility for what he signed up for.
But I agree with the second half of what you said; yes, he needs solid encouragement and admonishment in having a healthy regard and respect for himself. He needs to be willing to work on that for himself. Don’t feel pity for him if he is saying he willingly gives himself to be a doormat to be used by others who think being inhumane and deliberately demeaning another person is a good thing. People should have an active displeasure of mercy to tell them the hard truth and the self-detrimental consequences of their own poor choices in life.
he can't see it but his own words betray him, Put his feelings aside, its Fked up, his own words.
I think he not only sees it, but they have an agreement to play up this ‘content’ to farm hate views and he gets paid in turn. Buuut he probably only accepted this deal because he gets aroused from the humiliation too.
He did it to himself, I don't feel bad for him 🤷🏽♂️
The really sad thing is that the dude could have flipped those gross comments about him back to her and she'd likely find him more attractive for it but clearly the guy has no confidence or social skills to do that. You think I'm ugly cool, I'd not be with a chick with fake tits anyway... that would reflect some of the hurt he feels and put her in a position where she'd probably let him play with them to convince him that their great. No riz as the kids say 😅
She's a horrible person! Why would anyone want to watch her content in the first place is beyond me. She will treat him as badly as he lets her, he needs a real friend. If he thinks she's a friend, tells me he's never had one.
Some people fall for the narcissist person and will lie to themselves about how the person treats them. And will defend them.
She attracts the guys who are like the guy she insults
Why don’t people get that she’s playing a character? It’s an exaggeration of how she is in real life, how are people this dumb? This loser is not a victim he is part of the joke. The stream was hilarious. My family and I insult each other other ppl like this all the time, it’s normal. It means we like you. If you can’t take it then you’re just soft and you probably shouldn’t be around ppl like that.
Dilly: it could’ve been anybody
Any man with self-respect: it couldn’t be me lol
hes a grown ass man. let's stop feeling bad for him
I glad you guys covered this. The dude is in total denial. It's really sad.
Edit: You brothers don't miss a beat. I had to change my entire comment because I see yall got it all here. Clips and every receipt. 💯
Nah this ain't the friend zone. This is the willful enslavement zone, best of luck to the future version of this dude
Idc if shorty looked like Angela Bassett, Nia Long, Prime Pre-MGK Megan Fox, or Natalie Portman no one should be tolerating this kind of disrespect🤦🏾♂️. We can’t force him to respect himself tho all we can do is hope he eventually grows a back bone & realizes she’s just using him for her own personal gain.
I thought you said unless, not idc, and I was gonna say even if they look that good it’s NOT OKAY. A shit personality is sooo ugly to me. Especially cruel and humiliating
@@hanashable95 Nah of course. It doesn’t matter how good someone looks if they’re a terrible person. A terrible personality will always overshadow good looks as far as I’m concerned.
Prime pre mgk Megan fox. 😂 sound like a whole dame title. But I agree
100%
@@williambutler1955that part kilt me 🤣
If they aren't already sleeping together on the side, hes definitely holding out for it. Hes not gonna say that and she would never acknowledge either. Shes stringing him along one way or another.
You hit the nail on the head. He loves her and is trying to bridge the gap for a chance with her. Only he can save himself
He doesn’t love her. This guy doesn’t even love himself. There isn’t any love to give. It’s really unhealthy.
It's crazy what some men will go through just for a chance.
Man she did him dirty.
Nah, she did what any hustler will do when they find a sucker 🍭hit the lick😉😏🤣 bro is choosing this life.
I've been there and had that 'take what you can get' mentality when you're surrounded by people who have no respect for you. It's a position where you make excuses and compromises to feel like you're part of the lifestyle everyone else seems to have, but it's not real and this guy is better than those he's surrounded by - he just has yet to realise his self worth. I hope he discovers it and ditches those losers.
I get it, but it gets to a point where you are no longer being a victim due to someone else, but you are making yourself a victim by putting yourself in these situations without getting help. Its a very, VERY dangerous and slippery slope from this, to becoming an incel, to becoming a full on POS yourself. He really doesn’t have much time to get his soul right and get things in perspective.
@@silversoulken If someone grows up in an abusive environment they learn to adjust to the abuse because at home they had no other choice year after year. And then they continue that pattern in the outside world.
Yep same. I've definitely been there in middle and high school. Putting up with humiliation and disrespect just to feel accepted
She doesn't respect him. She doesn't even care about him. It goes without saying that she doesn't have a bit of attraction for him.
What's sad is not even as a friend. I don't believe in the friendzone thing, you either work together or not. So I don't think any kind of friend would do this.
Him "it could have been anybody"
Me, Preach, and Abba at the same time "It could NOT be me!"
People like him need to realize just because someone looks attractive doesn't mean they're an angel. Although i feel bad for that guy but let's be real here, he PUT himself in that position. This is why there's saying "Never meet your idols" and this situation is proof of what happens if you do.
That's why neither males or females should only go after the opposite sex only for looks.
I can't feel sorry for losers though. There's a difference between people in a bad situation and people who willingly put themselves in them.
@@willdegra317 I absolutely agree with this statement. Unfortunately, the lad falls into the latter.
So it's the halo effect in a sense?
This is so true, i know i was under that spell for a long time, perhaps still am at certain occasions. And i despise myself for it. To equate beauty with love or kindness is just pathetic. The whole "Never meet your idols" entails so much more even, but it also fits here for sure, but you can take the beauty part out of it and still have days and days of fitting examples.
Your comment should be pinned!
lmao poor guy, it never ends for him
Nice to see you here Decoy!
Christ. That was painful. I feel second hand soul crushing from that.
I definitely couldn't be friends with someone who treats me like crap. It is not something I can just...have.
12:58
This is why I'm glad the floor's still part of your team. You two may have been silent, but that's because the floor was saying all that needed to be said
Nah bro. I RECENTLY stopped talking to a girl who outta nowhere switched up our dynamic.
I told her how I felt, we started hanging out, gaming, doin the typical nerdy stuff but had a fuckin blast doing it.
I saw this intensly shy woman open up and blossom around me to the point we were the loudest people in a restaurant laughing our asses off.
In the decade ive known her ive NEVER seen her open up like that to anyone so that time out was a GOOD sign to me.
Couple months in, a "friend" of hers came back around and suddenly I was too much.
Suddenly I was "unsettling" for asking whats up when for 2 months now we've hung out twice a week, talked morning and night daily, gamed, and more, but as SOON as this other guy comes around I'm in the wrong for questioning ghosting and sudden distance? Nope.
Told her happy birthday, merry Christmas and havent sparked conversation since.
I've known her 15 years, didn't think she was the type, but obviously the times have changed her.
But I'll be damned i let anyone doormat my ass.
If someone suddenly puts distance between you two and acts like you're brand new, be brand new. Without them.
Sooo she met a guy, and she put boundaries. was there more between y’all?? Did you like her more than just a friend??
@@magic804yeah it sounds like she entered a relationship and set boundaries with her male friend. How many men would want their GF's texting another guy twice daily and almost being In a platonic relationship??
I hope he told her how he felt because it sounds like he fancied her.
@magic804 thats not sitting boundaries; that's just switching up. Lots of people do that when they get partnered, and it gives "fake friend".
Obviously we have only one side of the story here, and if what he says is accurate, then she did not handle boundary-setting well. She should have let him know her relationship took priority and she needed to put distance between them.
But, like y'all say, I suspect we're not hearing the full story here, I doubt she just got up one day and decided poster was "unsettling". The give away is how he quoted "friend". It's a slight jab at the other guy and her, devaluing their relationship as not fully friendly, not fully romantic, something in between where someone is being used. Who cares if they're friends, fuck buddies, engaged... She chose to prioritize him over you, so accept it, no need to bash her or the other guy for it... But good on you for setting boundaries so the same
@@verb0ze she bashed him by calling him unsettling.
Let bitches get the energy they deserve/earn all 2024.
It's sad to watch these young men sell their souls for a dollar
Not even for a dollar, for a good time for five minutes that you can just use Mustang And Sally for 😂😂
Bruh. He ain't got nothing. She probably didn't paid him at all
Even worse, for someone else's dollar...
Fucking hell😮💨
He didn't get paid a dime
Me mods her stream for free btw 😭
13:10 the floor really speaks louder than words
i remember when this first happened everyone had his back and went after her and not him
but seeing him defend her just shows he’s too far gone down the simp rabbit hole… no hope let him suffer
She probably cried to him .
@@elmztana1201yeah and he became captain Dave a h*e
I mean he don’t know any better which is sad..but SHE KNOW BETTER!
@@Figgs101 he's a grown man.
@@DominantBtch That’s the sad part
Unfortunately some people will accept an abusive relationship just to have a relationship with that person. Negative attention is still a relationship in the abused eyes
That was deep
You can’t defend a man who won’t defend himself
Well said
Lot of respect for moist, for this honestly guys and girls don’t let someone take away a part of your soul like this
Shouts out to Charlie for trying his best to save this man; he doesn't deserve it
What a fucking legend. 🎉
Nothing says “friends” like “PROFIT”!! 😀👍🏿
I don’t understand how anyone can be so cruel for fun. Every time I even THINK I’m being unnecessarily rude, I lay in my bed at night replaying the scenario while I try to hold back an anxiety attack.
You’re a weak loser…I do worse than this on a daily basis. She was going easy on him…
Even in videogames, I would feel bad for making my favorite NPC sad
I know sometimes kids can stray from what they are taught, but it's clear she hung out with the wrong crowd and her parents didn't correct her behavior.
I'm the same way.
sad situation it is. Just another bit of info about why Dilly's eyes were all puffy and he had a snot nose is the fact that she has cats and he was having an allergic reaction to them. Literally putting up with an allergic reaction, being publicly humiliated, while defending her actions, and even more. This man's man is sadly probably too far gone and he is going to just accept his fate in the position he is in. What a shame.😐
Florida Jesus tried to save him but Dilly turned his back on the light
Hopefully, Dilly will turn back to the light
😂😂
Not four seconds in and Preach is already so done 😂
He's taken on the identity of a punching bag cause he's scared of nobody liking him. Trouble is nobody likes a spineless person. Not his fault, he's probably got underlying inferiority complex and will need some serious introspection in order to change.
Bro studies Cope-ology.. That's some Copenheimer shit right there😅 I just cant
As much as ppl want to criticise her, he allowed himself to get clowned like a fool. Cuff your balls and don't get p-whipped fellas.
facts
He’s 🐱 whipped over a 🐱 he never even had too. You hate to see it 😂
She's still a pile of garbage.
@@asmbeats5369thank you
Criticize her as well, both of them, him for allowing it, and her for doing it. I wouldn't do that to anyone, even if they wanted me to.
The floorboards cry out for him 😢
Floorboards were in paiiiiiiin for that lost soul
😂
She emasculated him the entire time. So sad. Meanwhile she’d give her dog a whole tongue kiss but gave that boy a tap kiss and acted like she got sprayed with acid.
That says something lol
3:23 not one mention of the "dilly sniffs my laundry" goal ...
Oh noooo what the heeeellll
Sadly see more men like this in this generation. We're living in a age of desperation where women have more options than ever due to social media, are constantly being gassed up and take no accountability for their shitty actions, while most men remain invisible to the vast majority of women, thus you have more men willing to tolerate BS to even feel as if they have a "chance", think about it would you ever see a women in the same predicament as the guy was in this video? You might be it's def not the norm and as they say exceptions never make the rules. This is just my observation anyhow from a dude who's been married 13 years now.
I get what you are saying but i dont think that its women and social media.
For two reasons.
1. You say women have all these "options" that is only possible if men are willing to throw themselves at women for just existing. No one forces us to do that.
2. No one forces us to give them all that attention and give them outs for their behaviour.
The pendulum has swung. For centuries and centuries and centuries, men had options, women didn’t. Men could treat women anyway they wanted knowing she could not divorce him..
I’m not saying that what she did is right. She’s a terrible person who uses her pretty privilege to take advantage of guys because most guys are so stupid and weak for pretty faces… but I’m just saying, one of the sexes will always have more options than the other, and in this era, it is women.
@@xMckingwillyou're coping like man in this video
@@xMckingwill we are. Women practically have near infinite options
@@rizkiramadhan9266 You guys keep saying this crap without an ounce of reason. You don't understand women at all. Many women want marriage while men want sex. We can get off in other ways. Women can get sex easily, but many of us are not appealing to men because you most of you guys don't want commitment. I've never had sex, but I've never dated either, because the guys who ask me out either want friendship or push for sex. Nothing more.
Guys conflate sex and intimacy, so we end up with videos like this one. If men had more standards and were more secure in themselves, they wouldn't let women treat them like crap for a kiss. I'm tired of men being angry at women because we have options. We don't. Especially, as religious women with morals.
Letting yourself getting beat up by abusive pieces of shits like that, i knew guys like that, and they went on to be Incels. It's something very dangerous when you're a weak guy that already have a fragile ego and can't stand up for himself. That's the path to hate and possible violence over years of being thrown around like a trashbag for shit and giggles.
I hope bro gets better and get out of there ASAP, because i don't believe it's gonna end up well for him.
even if he agreed to be insulted for content, she's still just straight up calling him ugly. she's using the fact that she thinks he's ugly as fuel for her "jokes" she wouldn't use these insults for a guy she thought was attractive.
my cousin was a model I still call him ugly as fuck and make fun of him for getting sexually abused by our cousin. Although it’s more of a last resort to shut him up
Because the joke wouldn't work...
You can't use a fat joke on someone who is skinny for example.
This is a nothing point
Honestly i think it’s better for jokes to be used this way. I call my skinny friend a “fatass” sometimes. But he’s not. We both know he’s not fat. We make fun of each other. And not lower our self esteem at the same time.
@@straightfacebuddha Not to mention there are different layers to different jokes for different ppl. As a teen I was hella skinny (still am tbh) but I would get called a fatass for how much I ate back then lol.
@@silversoulken BROOO SAME
At this point this is not simping, this is humiliation ritual...
I felt bad for him. But after seeing him become her lawyer, all my sympathy went out the door with his self respect.
I don't. He enabled it. Guy needs to find where he dropped his sack.
Try to understand that people who've been treated like this and let themselves be treated like this often defend their bullies/abusers and minimize what they've done. I did this myself for DECADES for people who literally tied me up and sodomized me simply because I was young and they were my friends and I thought it was a game that got outta hand. This guy reminded of me as a kid really badly. He'll wake up one day and realize he clowned on himself and I just hope he finds a way to become a man. I got lucky and found martial arts, lifting, and other sources of accountability that helped me reclaim my life and masculinity. He needs help. Don't dismiss him. Please. I'm telling you, this guy needs fkin help.
If only he put as much effort defending her as he would defending himself he wouldn't have been in that situation
@@Dementia.Pugilistica At the end of the day no one can help him if he doesn't want to help himself. You can't force someone to grow a spine and have self respect.
I automatically read that he had no respect for himself as soon as I saw him before they opened their mouths. I can read people quick. Just didn't think she was going to use him like that but also had no expectations for her as soon as I saw how she looked. Just like you see a girl dressed like a 304 you don't go expecting her to be a decent person relationship wise.
With “friends” like this who needs enemies. For real
This is the saddest thing I've seen and heard in a while. He needs to respect himself and know that he deserves better friends. It's better to have no friends than to have a "friend" like her. Sir, stop enabling her to treat you like sh*t. I was so mad seeing and hearing him trying to justify her disgusting behaviour. He fumbled his way through the interview, and it was very hard to watch.
This is actually a good example of how men can be abused by women. Even though Supcaitlin (or whatever her name is) is physically at a disadvantage, the verbal abuse he endured was just as heinous (in certain instances even times far more worse) than physical abuse.
That's a huge thing I'm seeing from this video and it shows that you don't have to place hands on someone to still be abusive. Most people tend to only look at abuse as strictly physical, but this is a great example of verbal abuse that many folk endure. Even to the point of the mod even defending her. The same elements are involved, which can be worse because there is no physical evidence.
This is the actual definition of insanity. Therapy and self-improve to help prevent falling prey to narcissism.
vaas was wrong, dont believe that lunatic
12:59 absolutely priceless, the creaky floors too emphasising the disgust.
oh this hurts me personally, i've been in a similar spot, difference was that the girl i was hung up on didn't treat me this badly and overtly.
where i realized i was in that position was when she invited me out for drinks with her and some of her girl friends i thought we would have a good time.
turned out i was only there to look over their drinks and their bags which they left alone with me so i couldn't do anything but just sit there while they were on the dancefloor having fun by themselves for most of the time.
Great advice to that young man you guys ‼️👏🏾
I feel so bad for this dude.
I hope he figures out his self-worth. He deserves to be treated as a human being. Not as “ Content “ or a laughing stock. I really hope one day, he stands up for himself and says “ I don’t deserve this treatment, I deserve better. I deserve what’s best for me”
If this is how he is treated when the cameras are ON, what happens when the cameras are OFF?
Fact Charlie points it out to him, and he's extremely blinded by it is what kills me.
He did that interview from in her house too bro send this man some help hes trapped
@@Master_Yoda66 RIGHT BUT LIKE IT ACTUALLY HURT. I dont watch twitch but that actually hurt to watch Charlie talk about it and he's just "this is fine basically!"
He winked off camera, I don’t think he’s being half honest here. I personally think they agreed to exaggerate this dynamic to farm engagement and he gets paid a lot in turn, if he were to be honest about it they would lose a lot of the hate watchers who think this guy is purely delusional and she is evil. However he no doubt likes the treatment too because people without this fetish would not accept this public treatment even for money. Who knows, maybe behind the scenes they do fuck or whatever but he’s the convenient punching bag for stream content.
@@Master_Yoda66
Sadly it wouldn't shock me if he's a legit slave and we found out he "goes missing"
For real though. At first I was laughing at him like he was a dumb simp. But then I felt so bad for him he just really doesn't get it. Some people never learn those lessons early in life
"You can't save these hoes." Needs to be amended to include simps too. That extreme lacking of self-respect is mind blowing. Homie needs to learn to care about how he's treated or he will always be a side character, and the side character no one cares for rather than the cool one. Not trying to be quoting RP, but this dude seriously needs a positive male figure to slap him back to reality.
I have a long time friend in my life that isn't simpy like this guy, but happens to have the mix of social ineptitude and a failure to adjust to stuff most adults do. It's frustrating to see as despite me knowing the guy since 7th grade, he's too defensive of my input as I'm the most invested in adjusting the guy (so he sees it as almost bullying), so I feel Charlie's pain here.
Where’s your dignity? Where’s your self-respect?? Where’s your pride Man?!?!