Kenny, I've never been as mesmerized by someone's decor as their message. I forgot what video you said it in, but you were like, " A lot of people think I'm gay because I can decorate and dress well. I'm self confident to say that I like nice things and dress well."
I recently been allowing myself to grieve. I'm not so sure it's the best thing for me at this time. The pain has been really taking a toll on my mental and physical health. I feel like a huge loss has occurred. I look and feel abused. I can't seem to stop crying. Before I was as solid as a rock and now I'm a emotional mess. I'm remembering things I don't want to remember. I want to find myself but I feel like something has died.
Thanks again for being so vulnerable Kenny. Thank you again. I can see light in my future and letting go of the self-hurt and feeling unworthy my whole life.
Thank you again. I cannot not thank you enough Kenny! Bless you for being the light in this darkness of Self-hurt and Self-Unworthiness feeling I've been carrying with me for almost 60 years. Much obliged.
Thanks for this perspective, Kenny. Love it and your openness about your journey. Makes you so relatable 🙏🏾❤️ and gives the chance to see that growth is inevitable if you desire it!
Just beautiful . . . everything from the message and letting us peek into the wounds you have suffered to the art on the wall and the jacket you are wearing. Thank you.
Okey, so when you went south on yourself because your friend failed to call you back--I would have thought that was paranoia. You now give me a different perspective--lack of self compassion. I have to mull over these new ideas. And boy are they new ideas.
Dear Mr Weiss could you please do a session on "projection and infatuation" particularly when you don't know that person. My girlfriend has a "crush" on you which I think is unhealthy given she doesn't know you
Listening to this it sounds like a very deep Father wound in my case, having an absent father all my life. Never any connection or emotional support. 😖🤦🏼♂️
Kenny- I am so torn about being able to accept a partner having an emotional affair. I do understand that it would be touching my own wounds … however- I would not want to be with someone who didn’t see that as disloyal and wrong to do in a marriage. Wouldn’t it be more self compassionate to leave? Is that just me? I would not want to accept that
Wow! Your ex wife’s response would be hurtful to me as well but you’re right she was not responsible for your feelings. This changes the fairytale way of thinking
really like your stuff---truly--and think I got the "gist" of this situation you provided as an example ---but I'm not sure your wife's emotionally infidelity warranted (exclusively) your self-introspection ---or at least not as the ultimate sole resolve. Her infidelity threatened and challenged your value system for exclusivity in a monogamous relationship. Yes, how you emotionally react is your responsibility, but the responsibility of relationship/wife is to keep agreed values intact--(unless of course you and she had agreed to an "open relationship" at the start of the relationship/marriage) --thus upholding trust--thus upholding safety--which is a critical need (not an emotional/trauma deficit) of all healthy relationships...
I guess I’ve gotten better because my ex and this was just one of the things he did told me his aunt died and I loved her very much and he was supposed to get back to me to tell me when the viewing would be the next day and never called me. I was starting to think that the man I hadn’t seen for 50 years and thought he might have narcissistic tendencies and this was probably a F you to hurt me but I didn’t take it on at all about me because I have come to believe I am a beautiful caring wonderful person and I thought this is about revenge or that he could just care less and wants to hurt me but it was nothing about me it was about him. I can Clearly say that I deserve so much better. I think I’m loving me and appreciating me and not settling for little or less. Yay!! Now it took a couple of these things happening for me to see but I saw it and I didn’t get caught up with what is it about me that’s having him react like this I said what is it about him that has him acting so dysfunctional. Huge change for me.
Kenny, you told us your second ex was a bartender and liked to flirt with guys while they bought her shots! Would you talk more about working through anger feelings after dating a sex addict. I’m really try to process the anger but I still feel it lurking inside! Please help!
I guess I don't understand, maybe I am not healed or enlightened enough.... having an emotional affair is totally inappropriate, it's normal not to like it because it's a betrayal and is disrespectful, she was being selfish and not caring about you.
Kenny, I've never been as mesmerized by someone's decor as their message. I forgot what video you said it in, but you were like, " A lot of people think I'm gay because I can decorate and dress well. I'm self confident to say that I like nice things and dress well."
I am devouring all of your videos and this one is my favorite. The aha moments. This resonates with me deeply. Thank you so much
I recently been allowing myself to grieve. I'm not so sure it's the best thing for me at this time. The pain has been really taking a toll on my mental and physical health. I feel like a huge loss has occurred. I look and feel abused. I can't seem to stop crying. Before I was as solid as a rock and now I'm a emotional mess. I'm remembering things I don't want to remember. I want to find myself but I feel like something has died.
Self compassion such a love I could never comprehend. This video is beautiful.
Same
Thank you so much for for being vulnerable and sharing your personal story with us. Gosh
OMG Kenny. You love color. This is just as beautiful as the 'blues' on your other video.
Merci !
Cried my eyes out. Thank you Kenny. ❤
Thanks again for being so vulnerable Kenny. Thank you again. I can see light in my future and letting go of the self-hurt and feeling unworthy my whole life.
Thank you Kenny for being vulnerable, I really see it for the first time, clearly.
Thank you again. I cannot not thank you enough Kenny! Bless you for being the light in this darkness of Self-hurt and Self-Unworthiness feeling I've been carrying with me for almost 60 years. Much obliged.
Beautiful video 🙏
Thanks for this perspective, Kenny. Love it and your openness about your journey. Makes you so relatable 🙏🏾❤️ and gives the chance to see that growth is inevitable if you desire it!
I appreciate that!
☺️ Thank you so very much
So beautiful thank you for sharing
Beautiful perspective !!!❤
Mind blown again thank you.
Wow...thank you.
You're welcome
I have heard this quote so many times. Nice to hear it on here🙏
Just beautiful . . . everything from the message and letting us peek into the wounds you have suffered to the art on the wall and the jacket you are wearing. Thank you.
Thank you for your videos. You are very helpful
You are so very welcome!
I really identified with this. at 9:54 that was a blast to my psyche. Something to think about. Thank you.
these are some of the best videos ive ever seen in the subject🤙🤙
What a blessing!! My story is similar to yours and for that I am grateful. This again has enhanced my Recovery. Thank you 🙏.
You are very welcome
Okey, so when you went south on yourself because your friend failed to call you back--I would have thought that was paranoia. You now give me a different perspective--lack of self compassion. I have to mull over these new ideas. And boy are they new ideas.
I relate to this so much. And the funny thing is I thought I was the only one who felt like this. Thanks Kenny.
Oh yeah...I love Gabor Mate and his Compassionate Inquiry concept
Me too
I ordered your Book journey to begin yourself and pia mellody's facing codependency im looking forward to making a better self
Can't wait to hear what you think!
You have the best suits
So good!!!!
Dear Mr Weiss could you please do a session on
"projection and infatuation" particularly when you don't know that person. My girlfriend has a "crush" on you which I think is unhealthy given she doesn't know you
Tske responsibility for everything in our life we are the master in our universe. Who else can be if i dont project anything whats mine.
Listening to this it sounds like a very deep Father wound in my case, having an absent father all my life. Never any connection or emotional support. 😖🤦🏼♂️
Kenny- I am so torn about being able to accept a partner having an emotional affair. I do understand that it would be touching my own wounds … however- I would not want to be with someone who didn’t see that as disloyal and wrong to do in a marriage. Wouldn’t it be more self compassionate to leave? Is that just me? I would not want to accept that
Wow! Your ex wife’s response would be hurtful to me as well but you’re right she was not responsible for your feelings. This changes the fairytale way of thinking
really like your stuff---truly--and think I got the "gist" of this situation you provided as an example ---but I'm not sure your wife's emotionally infidelity warranted (exclusively) your self-introspection ---or at least not as the ultimate sole resolve. Her infidelity threatened and challenged your value system for exclusivity in a monogamous relationship. Yes, how you emotionally react is your responsibility, but the responsibility of relationship/wife is to keep agreed values intact--(unless of course you and she had agreed to an "open relationship" at the start of the relationship/marriage) --thus upholding trust--thus upholding safety--which is a critical need (not an emotional/trauma deficit) of all healthy relationships...
So if my boyfriend, spouse is cheating on my,, its about my perception??
I guess I’ve gotten better because my ex and this was just one of the things he did told me his aunt died and I loved her very much and he was supposed to get back to me to tell me when the viewing would be the next day and never called me. I was starting to think that the man I hadn’t seen for 50 years and thought he might have narcissistic tendencies and this was probably a F you to hurt me but I didn’t take it on at all about me because I have come to believe I am a beautiful caring wonderful person and I thought this is about revenge or that he could just care less and wants to hurt me but it was nothing about me it was about him.
I can Clearly say that I deserve so much better. I think I’m loving me and appreciating me and not settling for little or less. Yay!! Now it took a couple of these things happening for me to see but I saw it and I didn’t get caught up with what is it about me that’s having him react like this I said what is it about him that has him acting so dysfunctional. Huge change for me.
How do we do step 3. Choose to heal childhoodpain and change subconscious msg that we are replaying that were not enough or self victimize ourself.
Kenny, you told us your second ex was a bartender and liked to flirt with guys while they bought her shots! Would you talk more about working through anger feelings after dating a sex addict. I’m really try to process the anger but I still feel it lurking inside! Please help!
4:45 unlovable if they cared
Emotional affair is cheating in my view. I would have left.
Yes it is
I guess I don't understand, maybe I am not healed or enlightened enough.... having an emotional affair is totally inappropriate, it's normal not to like it because it's a betrayal and is disrespectful, she was being selfish and not caring about you.
I agree. I’m having a hard time feeling like it would be self-compassionate to stay in a relationship with someone who did something like that
I’m sorry but if you say you’re a good BW but can’t find a good BM then you’re not what you think you are. And the same goes vice versa.