As someone who has lived with multiple roommates throughout the years (especially in college), don’t be afraid to wait until the guys come back home so they can help you with things for the house. Remember, it’s their house too and you’re not alone in this. That will help you get things done and not be as stressed about it.
girll, you do not have to do everything yourself, you can get the guys to help, and just cuz you work from home doesn't mean you have to play housewife!
If you’re leasing-read the contract, if it’s not in the contract landlords can’t make you get a lawn company if you all can do the work. Might want to take indoor and outdoor (including landscaping) before photos to have when you move out. Also, for the water leak, make sure you notify the landlords or property mgmt company asap so they deal with (if they aren’t already)-water remediation etc. Might want to consider renters insurance if you don’t have it yet (can be relatively inexpensive and pay huge dividends). Love your videos!!!
I know you said you don’t play around with that stuff, but the California proposition 65 thing is on a LOT of stuff. They’re the only state that requires companies to put it on there, but you wouldn’t believe the amount of things they have to put it on. Some teas, clothes, furniture, cell phones, laptops, keurig coffee makers, etc, even frying foods can release one of the chemicals they warn against. Just so you know- because it’ll likely be on quite a few of the other things you have or will buy and it can be anxiety causing if you’re unfamiliar with it.
AND a lot of those things are only a precaution because things like dyes and some metals have been shown in SOME California studies to cause cancers and such. As a cali resident for most of my life, we had those labels on pretty much everything that you can buy, and even posted at restaurants. It's really just so the companies can't get sued if you do get some illness.
the amount of things that went wrong is this video i literally gasped when the camera fell into the water 😭 Des i'm sending you so much love and you are girl bossing btw bc moving is so stressful! you're doing all of this while consistently uploading JUST KNOW you're doing great 💘 and you're so inspiring!!
The mattress clips had me cackling. When the you dropped the box and just let it slide down the stairs and then when Charlie kept jumping on the mattress as you were tryna set it up was SO freakin funny
When you have that much water damage, as far as I know the only way to fix it correctly to make sure that you don't get mold is to cut out all of the wet damaged areas even though it's a pain and it takes a long time and replace everything completely. If you don't, you run the risk of toxic mold. We had it happen and it was the dangerous kind of toxic black stachy mold. We had to move out of our house for over 6 months while they ripped apart most of the house to fix it and we got sick from the mold.
I love watching streams on Twitch, it's such a great background video. But it's also great because you can directly speak to the person streaming so I feel like you actually build a connection with so many people
I read this as Destiny and Sara in 1 video so I thought Sara was in Texas and going to be a featured guest on this vlog I got really excited until a few minutes into the video when it finally clicked that this comment meant they both posted videos on their channels today 😂
ALWAYS a good day when des posts, especially when its a vlog. her vlogs just bring such a comfort, it feels like home (also totally girlbossed getting that mattress up the stairs)
When I moved out for university, it was so hard, my parents and I are very close, but now that I lived on my own for a while I LOVE LOVE being on my own, it gets easier being away from your close and loved ones
I really like these videos! I love how real and authentic you show up, when your not having a good day when your genuinely happy I know you’ve said that you gotten some hate for talking about your mental health on here but im one of your subscribers that is here for those chats of yours. Speaking for myself here but it makes me feel seen so thank you for your vulnerability Also Your passion for video and content creation shows within your edits LOVE IT! ❤
Yesss I’m so here for these moving diaries!!!! I’ve been watching you for so so long and this makes me a little less scared of moving out when im older because you are so real with everything ❤❤❤ LOVE U SO MUCCHHH DESSS STAY STRONG!! So proud of you girrlll keep up the amazing vlogs ilyssmmmm🥰🥰
I hope you know that I am SO PROUD of you. I know how hard it is to move away from home, but then to have things almost IMMEDIATELY go wrong with your new home, I just know how stressful that is even if you’re trying to be logical and not stress, it can be such an overwhelming experience, so much love and hugs to you!! I had a roof cave in on a rental home of mine and had to find another place to live and it was very shocking and stressful, so I get it sister 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Love you so much Des wishing you all the best! Your videos make my day I struggle a lot with my mental health and physical health a lot so when you post when you post it always lifts my spirit! I love this book community with my whole heart 💗And Charlie with the shoe while your trying to get the mattress up the stairs is so silly
Just had to comment to say I'm so proud of you Des! I know the challenges you faced throughout the video were stressful and overwhelming but you're doing amazing and really deserve to give yourself grace! 🤍
I literally just moved from Alabama to Las Vegas a week ago. Watching your vlogs and seeing the things your going through and the stuff you're talking about has really helped me, especially last vlog about moving from family. You are such a motivation for me so thank you so much for that
Yayy I actually love this ❤I feel like it's such a realistic moving vlog, like not everything goes well and smooth! Hope you're feeling at home a little bit already 💗 And omg so excited for you that your mom is visiting x
I’m so glad you still posted this lmao the rain from the ceiling and the chaos is literally what life is like. You have all these plans then bam 😂 glad you got Some stuff done though
You are doing such a great job!! None of this is easy and you will learn as you go!! It’s definitely not easy to give yourself grace always, but you truly deserve to give yourself that!! Keep girl bossing💛 you are inspiring so many of us thank you for sharing💛
Moving and settling in is very overwelming, but you got this. One day at a time, like the saying goes "Rome Wasn't Built In A Day". Definately give yourself grace, you have plenty of time and you are doing a fantastic job. As others have mentioned, don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Your going to burnout quick get the help from the others. You need to take care of you so you don't get stressed out. Things are coming together thought and it looks really nice. 😊💜
i used to have such bad cystic acne on my chin in high school. i had tried everything from cera ve to the ordinary, and nothing worked until i used curology as a last ditch effort. i have been using it since 2021 and i am so much more confident in myself! i hope it works for you des💗
1. You need some pretty rugs throughout your house. Lots of tile/hardwood floor. Feel like rugs would pull it all together. 2. Is there a vlog or video of you getting that car?? I feel like you had a different/older one??
It is so amazing to see these types of videos from you cus ur so amazing and I LOVE moving vlogs so this is like the best combo ever. Also ur doing great!!!
the ceiling dripping triggered my fight or flight since we JUST got a leak fixed in our house. Literally had to pause the video and came back and heard you talking about it lol
Ok I'm pretty sure Destiny does not understand how hilarious her dry humor is 😂 "ok...this is gonna be our ambiance" *water dripping into bucket* like holy crap I literally die laughing every time I watch her videos and sometimes I don't even think she's trying to be funny 🤣 anyone else agree???? Also LOVE YOU DES 🫶🏻
You can stream on both! I personally prefer to watch streams on TH-cam because I have premium so I can have them on in the background while on my iPad.
i have been living alone for the past two ish years and damn i hate getting repairs done. i hate booking stuff and following up with appointments. have been living alone since i was 19 years old ( 21 right now ) and honestly its a little scary to get things done while alone at home. anndd i am also scared that people will underestimate me and think i don’t know if they are actually getting stuff or not and scam me 😂 love that you are girl bossing through stuff even though its uncomfortable. sending lots of love 🫶🏼
May be the coffee stop was a bit much? I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed try living in a CAMPER TRAILER, yes you read that correct. I have very limited space and right now it looks like the trailer threw up my belongings EVERYWHERE....I stress myself out when it comes to figuring out where to start. Just have to step back and breath and take one step at a time and don't be in a hurry.
we moved a year ago and our house still isn’t together 😂😅 there is always work to do and set backs, just have to accept it and enjoy the ride 🤠 literally i’ve been trying to paint the house for months but other things keep coming up like okayyyyyy thank you very much i quit 😂
one time our (downstairs) apartment had a massive flooding because of the plumbing issues going on in the unit above us and we had those huge fans everywhere for weeks it was torture
You’re girl bossing SO HARD 🫶 thank you for sharing with us, so sorry about all the things that went wrong, you’re doing great babe Also so random but you mentioned that you need a new mascara u have no idea why but thrive cosmetics mascara is my favorite, it’s a tubing mascara that comes off with water, I’m pretty sure tarte has a tubing mascara too!
As someone who has lived with multiple roommates throughout the years (especially in college), don’t be afraid to wait until the guys come back home so they can help you with things for the house. Remember, it’s their house too and you’re not alone in this. That will help you get things done and not be as stressed about it.
I second this!! The burnout become real and fast!
Agreed!
I was just thinking “doesn’t she live with 3 other people??”
@@giannamechel7764 who else does she live with?
@siham.elam17 If I'm not mistaken, it's her boyfriend Isaac, and I think 2 of their friends/family
girll, you do not have to do everything yourself, you can get the guys to help, and just cuz you work from home doesn't mean you have to play housewife!
girl those men better be picking up the slack and not letting you do everything
"i can do hard things, but not in a timely manner." 😭 this speaks to my soul
@@macaroni6948 gosh, same here!
me af lol
Seems like you’re managing quite a bit of the household issues on your own - hope that’s not the case & you’re not overworking yourself
Bestie, get a dehumidifier in your office to protect your books from all the moisture/humidity and keep book mold away!
charli just standing there watching you try to move the mattress is priceless
If you’re leasing-read the contract, if it’s not in the contract landlords can’t make you get a lawn company if you all can do the work. Might want to take indoor and outdoor (including landscaping) before photos to have when you move out. Also, for the water leak, make sure you notify the landlords or property mgmt company asap so they deal with (if they aren’t already)-water remediation etc. Might want to consider renters insurance if you don’t have it yet (can be relatively inexpensive and pay huge dividends). Love your videos!!!
seconding considering renters insurance!
@@cozyalchemy i have renters insurance through liberty mutual and it is so cheap
I believe, as I recall, it was the HOA, not the landlords who wanted the landscape people. She said they were very strike
The warning for CA is literally on everything. Literally. Everything.
I know you said you don’t play around with that stuff, but the California proposition 65 thing is on a LOT of stuff. They’re the only state that requires companies to put it on there, but you wouldn’t believe the amount of things they have to put it on. Some teas, clothes, furniture, cell phones, laptops, keurig coffee makers, etc, even frying foods can release one of the chemicals they warn against. Just so you know- because it’ll likely be on quite a few of the other things you have or will buy and it can be anxiety causing if you’re unfamiliar with it.
I was gonna say this! Most likely the desk and bookshelves had that warning too, I know mine did!
I was gonna say I see that on literally everything 😂
Right, most everything has the warning now!
AND a lot of those things are only a precaution because things like dyes and some metals have been shown in SOME California studies to cause cancers and such. As a cali resident for most of my life, we had those labels on pretty much everything that you can buy, and even posted at restaurants. It's really just so the companies can't get sued if you do get some illness.
THIS!! Even coffee shops have to put it on their doors as warnings for entrance😂
the amount of things that went wrong is this video i literally gasped when the camera fell into the water 😭 Des i'm sending you so much love and you are girl bossing btw bc moving is so stressful! you're doing all of this while consistently uploading JUST KNOW you're doing great 💘 and you're so inspiring!!
it’s like des knew i was about to sit down and eat
Literally same!
Girl boss!!!! I’m wondering where the guys are though! Put them to work 😜
I just want to say you are handling this house water stuff like a boss i would be crying on the floor for a week! I am so proud of you
Water damage is no joke! We had similar issues recently, I'm so sorry you're dealing with that! I love getting to watch you make this house your own!
The mattress clips had me cackling. When the you dropped the box and just let it slide down the stairs and then when Charlie kept jumping on the mattress as you were tryna set it up was SO freakin funny
I don’t want this moving dairies to end 😭🫶🏻💓💓
When you have that much water damage, as far as I know the only way to fix it correctly to make sure that you don't get mold is to cut out all of the wet damaged areas even though it's a pain and it takes a long time and replace everything completely. If you don't, you run the risk of toxic mold. We had it happen and it was the dangerous kind of toxic black stachy mold. We had to move out of our house for over 6 months while they ripped apart most of the house to fix it and we got sick from the mold.
Des is giving Bob the builder in this video and I am here for it
I love watching streams on Twitch, it's such a great background video. But it's also great because you can directly speak to the person streaming so I feel like you actually build a connection with so many people
Destiny and Sara in 1 day.
I read this as Destiny and Sara in 1 video so I thought Sara was in Texas and going to be a featured guest on this vlog I got really excited until a few minutes into the video when it finally clicked that this comment meant they both posted videos on their channels today 😂
@@Itsjennycamacho Why is this kind of hilarious
ALWAYS a good day when des posts, especially when its a vlog. her vlogs just bring such a comfort, it feels like home (also totally girlbossed getting that mattress up the stairs)
When I moved out for university, it was so hard, my parents and I are very close, but now that I lived on my own for a while I LOVE LOVE being on my own, it gets easier being away from your close and loved ones
I really like these videos! I love how real and authentic you show up, when your not having a good day when your genuinely happy
I know you’ve said that you gotten some hate for talking about your mental health on here but im one of your subscribers that is here for those chats of yours. Speaking for myself here but it makes me feel seen so thank you for your vulnerability
Also Your passion for video and content creation shows within your edits LOVE IT! ❤
bestie des we’re all so PROUDDD!!!! the nostalgia is real but this new chapter of your life is so exciting 🩷🩷
Yesss I’m so here for these moving diaries!!!! I’ve been watching you for so so long and this makes me a little less scared of moving out when im older because you are so real with everything ❤❤❤ LOVE U SO MUCCHHH DESSS STAY STRONG!! So proud of you girrlll keep up the amazing vlogs ilyssmmmm🥰🥰
I hope you know that I am SO PROUD of you. I know how hard it is to move away from home, but then to have things almost IMMEDIATELY go wrong with your new home, I just know how stressful that is even if you’re trying to be logical and not stress, it can be such an overwhelming experience, so much love and hugs to you!! I had a roof cave in on a rental home of mine and had to find another place to live and it was very shocking and stressful, so I get it sister 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
The moving diaries might be might favorite there so fun to watch
I feel your pain. We are currently in the clean up process from a burst pipe. We had 20 of those fans all over the house!
Love you so much Des wishing you all the best! Your videos make my day I struggle a lot with my mental health and physical health a lot so when you post when you post it always lifts my spirit! I love this book community with my whole heart 💗And Charlie with the shoe while your trying to get the mattress up the stairs is so silly
Just had to comment to say I'm so proud of you Des! I know the challenges you faced throughout the video were stressful and overwhelming but you're doing amazing and really deserve to give yourself grace! 🤍
23:44 OMG the house in the morning looks so beautiful! 🤩
am i the only one wondering why she's dealing with all this by herself? doesn't des live with like, 3 other people?
I was thinking the exact same thing. Why are 3 grown men doing nothing and she is doing it all?
she said in the first moving vlog obviously she is living with other people but she’s not going to have them on camera
i am keeping my personal life private! and i do not film them at all! also im super independent so i like to do things by myself!
I literally just moved from Alabama to Las Vegas a week ago. Watching your vlogs and seeing the things your going through and the stuff you're talking about has really helped me, especially last vlog about moving from family. You are such a motivation for me so thank you so much for that
congrats again on your move des! i’m so glad charlee is still living with you, you’re such an iconic dynamic duo!! 💙🦋
Please the mattress clip 😭😭😭 and then Charley sitting there 🤣🤣🤣
“I can do hard things but in a timely manner” I laughed so hard, too relatable!!
*Destiny posts*
immediately watches the video
Ahhh queen des posted! Love her vlogs; she's so comforting and real
Yayy I actually love this ❤I feel like it's such a realistic moving vlog, like not everything goes well and smooth! Hope you're feeling at home a little bit already 💗 And omg so excited for you that your mom is visiting x
As someone who lives in CA, those signs are on literally everything
I’m so glad you still posted this lmao the rain from the ceiling and the chaos is literally what life is like. You have all these plans then bam 😂 glad you got
Some stuff done though
You are doing such a great job!! None of this is easy and you will learn as you go!! It’s definitely not easy to give yourself grace always, but you truly deserve to give yourself that!! Keep girl bossing💛 you are inspiring so many of us thank you for sharing💛
I love following along with your moving journey, keep girl bossing it destiny, I'm so proud of you!!
bestie you girl bossed so cloae to sun in this video!! You're amazing but also give yourself some grace too!
Moving and settling in is very overwelming, but you got this. One day at a time, like the saying goes "Rome Wasn't Built In A Day". Definately give yourself grace, you have plenty of time and you are doing a fantastic job. As others have mentioned, don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Your going to burnout quick get the help from the others. You need to take care of you so you don't get stressed out. Things are coming together thought and it looks really nice. 😊💜
i used to have such bad cystic acne on my chin in high school. i had tried everything from cera ve to the ordinary, and nothing worked until i used curology as a last ditch effort. i have been using it since 2021 and i am so much more confident in myself! i hope it works for you des💗
at least the leak wasn’t in your office/book room!
That guest room is soooooo cute. I would live in there. Love you lots!
ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOOVING THESE VLOGS LATLEY
I love these kinds of vlog type things they are so entertaining. You're doing great! The longer ones are my favorite.
Literally the best TH-camr ❤☀️🤌🔥
watching this while crocheting💞the guest room is so cute!!
des the way i screamed when you mentioned streaming!! im so hyped
1. You need some pretty rugs throughout your house. Lots of tile/hardwood floor. Feel like rugs would pull it all together.
2. Is there a vlog or video of you getting that car?? I feel like you had a different/older one??
It is so amazing to see these types of videos from you cus ur so amazing and I LOVE moving vlogs so this is like the best combo ever. Also ur doing great!!!
WHOS EXCITED!?! -->
Love you des ❤
Always a good day the the queen destiny posts ❤❤❤
This was a really inspiring watch, you did so much!!
Going to bed rn, so excited to watch this! Thanks girlie!⭐️
omg SCREAMING with excitement about you streaming!!! thank you des!!!
We love you girl. I’m 12 minutes in and I want you to know I’ll always have your back 💛
Girl, I love you so much. Totally made my day. I love the moving vlogs, they are my new comfort video. Hope your day is amazing x
I'm honestly so impressed! you have done so much by yourself!💓
You working on the mattress had me dying and Charlee laying on it was absolutely hilarious 🤣🤣
Love this series, going through a move as well so it makes me feel so heard and normal 😭
the ceiling dripping triggered my fight or flight since we JUST got a leak fixed in our house. Literally had to pause the video and came back and heard you talking about it lol
Yay! I needed a new Destiny video ❤
Oh, wow! You managed all these on your own! I am so proud of you. Big hug to you❤❤
Ok I'm pretty sure Destiny does not understand how hilarious her dry humor is 😂 "ok...this is gonna be our ambiance" *water dripping into bucket* like holy crap I literally die laughing every time I watch her videos and sometimes I don't even think she's trying to be funny 🤣 anyone else agree???? Also LOVE YOU DES 🫶🏻
Ma'am....I graduated high school in 2003. I feel old but I love you!
destiny you look so stunningly beautiful with this hair colour like truly breathtaking
Charlie following you up the stairs with the mattress made my day
AND THEN HER LAYING ON IT AWWW
You are so intelligent, independent and responsible!! I love getting inspired by how much you get done on your own 🤍
Absolutely adore you girlie 💗 glad we help you because you definitely help us! THANK YOU!
You can stream on both! I personally prefer to watch streams on TH-cam because I have premium so I can have them on in the background while on my iPad.
i have been living alone for the past two ish years and damn i hate getting repairs done. i hate booking stuff and following up with appointments. have been living alone since i was 19 years old ( 21 right now ) and honestly its a little scary to get things done while alone at home. anndd i am also scared that people will underestimate me and think i don’t know if they are actually getting stuff or not and scam me 😂 love that you are girl bossing through stuff even though its uncomfortable. sending lots of love 🫶🏼
May be the coffee stop was a bit much? I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed try living in a CAMPER TRAILER, yes you read that correct. I have very limited space and right now it looks like the trailer threw up my belongings EVERYWHERE....I stress myself out when it comes to figuring out where to start. Just have to step back and breath and take one step at a time and don't be in a hurry.
Tbh I love the hectic vibes since I relate to it nowadays ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing your experience it motivates me so much
My day is instantly 100x better when des posts!❤
I am loving this moving vlog era!!!
SO BEYOND PROUD OF YOU
DES!!! love you & proud of you bestie girl🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
love when you post! 💓
Every time you post it is a great day 😇🫶🏻
love you des you’ve become my safe space ❤️❤️
loving these moving vlogs!! literally girl bossing so hard with that mattress 💪🏼
perfect timing! i’m unpacking my new apartment right now!!
we moved a year ago and our house still isn’t together 😂😅 there is always work to do and set backs, just have to accept it and enjoy the ride 🤠
literally i’ve been trying to paint the house for months but other things keep coming up like okayyyyyy thank you very much i quit 😂
Love it when queen destiny posts ❤😊
I absolutley love your natural look😍🫶☀️
these are so fun to watch!! im so happy for you to experience this & proud bc ik how hard it is moving away from home🫶🏽
Love it when Des posts!!
The way that this video made me laugh a lot and you were being so serious most of the time 😅
Me literally cheering at my tv like you can hear me when you were moving the mattress 😂
Oh man I was rooting for you. I have had many fights with my mattress and moving stuff about 🤪
My Monday is made! des you’re my favorite 💕🫶🏻
Des you’re always funny but you were extra funny this video😂.
one time our (downstairs) apartment had a massive flooding because of the plumbing issues going on in the unit above us and we had those huge fans everywhere for weeks it was torture
You’re girl bossing SO HARD 🫶 thank you for sharing with us, so sorry about all the things that went wrong, you’re doing great babe
Also so random but you mentioned that you need a new mascara u have no idea why but thrive cosmetics mascara is my favorite, it’s a tubing mascara that comes off with water, I’m pretty sure tarte has a tubing mascara too!