Spend a week with me! 🥳🪩🎂⎮Birthday celebration, current thoughts, routine update etc! ⎮ 04
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Hi Sara 💕
I’m in my 30s (yeah imagine) and I feel like you being open is helpful for all ages. Negative comments usually come from negative people. And they’re usually that way because they are hurt or someone has hurt them (or they’re psychopaths 😂)
Anyhoo, I’m not too old to admit I pretty much cried through this and really wanted to reach through and let you know you are doing good! You are okay and everything will work out as it should!!
You do sound unwell - take it easy, it’s okay to do that.
Do the Lego set slowly. Being someone with anxiety myself I know any type of competitive pressure will quadruple your anxiety. Take your time…
I don’t comment too much but my face was getting all teared up and I just feel like you needed someone or all of us to let you know how you’re seen!
Sign up for the marathon - even if you walk half the way.
Athletic or not - you are doing great.
Self-confidence does get better with age.
Anxiety is crippling but by thinking of coping mechanisms, you’re doing brilliant.
Don’t change!! Share as much as you wish and scroll past the comments that don’t deserve your attention!
Happy 21st! Keep being unapologetically you 🎀
61 and I totally agree xx I do think though that the Alani energy drinks are probably not helping the anxiety.
@@MelHamilton-Brownoh I know but she’s 21. It could be a worse vice to have. I’m sure she has 1000s telling her about that but I can relate to trying to find something that gives me a bit of a buzz but isn’t good for me. Just didn’t think destiny needed to hear that on this particular post. I always try to be strengths based with people but I don’t disagree. ❤❤
Des, I’m a new runner too! It can feel really overwhelming but if a half is something you want to do, go for it! Sign up for a race so you feel held accountable to your training. Stick to a running plan and as long as you can run about 10 miles at one time before your race, you will totally be able to do the rest on adrenaline! This was advice someone gave me and it helped me feel so much more confident. Also, don’t worry about running at a ‘slower’ pace - I do too and idc as long as I am just able to finish 😊
Please feel free to talk about your anxiety, it’s so important to be open about your feeling and we’re always here to listen
I love when you ramble, its kind of something that sets you apart from others!
Ive been building legos for about a year and a half and im also an anxious girlie and it is such a nice way to decompress!! It distracts me from my anxiety since you have to concentrate on the build and then you get an awesome piece to display! The Harry Potter ones are my favorite, but they have plenty of Spider-Man/marvel sets!
Hi des if ur feeling anxious about running a half marathon I would highly recommend signing up for a 10k first! I think it’ll rly boost ur confidence and alleviate those fears. I used to not be able to run even 1k without stopping but I just completed my first half marathon last year! Race day adrenaline honestly will carry u through the race. Good luck!!
Destiny i would definitely say that you are a remarkable person and i love how chatty you are because i love you being yourself and see your personality those people who say that you talk too much or overshare or whatever are genuinely insecure about their inability express themselves and the fact that you can do it effortlessly is admirable so at this point just be yourself because a lot of people love you for who you are and the people that don't can leave if they like to but you only live once and you can't let other people determine what you do in your videos especially when it's your video and you love doing it. So just be yourself and slay. And remember a lot of people out there love you so much including me
(It would be so funny and sad if she never sees this)
Hey des I just want to say I absolutely love your videos and everything about them!! I get the negative comments can be overwhelming but just know you’re doing amazing and are such an inspiration! I rewatch your videos all the time because you just bring a certain kind of comfort and I feel so seen when I’m watching you!!! I love you so much! 🩷🩷
I love your workout bits!!e even if your channel is mostly books, I still love seeing the workouts!!
Happy Birthday Destiny! I hope you enjoyed your day and you have a wonderful year ahead of you! As someone who struggles with anxiety as well, Legos have truly helped me unwind. I’m looking forward to seeing your Lego content 😊
as an anxiety girlie i love love love your vlogs
I absolutely LOVE your weekly volgs. And all your videos but the volgs are my fav ❤ and girl dont worry about negative people in the comments you can talk as much as you want because im here for it. 😊 i also have anxiety & i overthink EVERYTHING which i guess in a way can be good & bad. But i find reading really helps with my anxiety because i just get lost in my own world when im reading. But keep being your beautiful self. ❤
I relate to you so much and absolutely love your vlogs, just be you girl! we watch you for a reason
thank you for openly talking about your anxiety. it means a lot to know that I’m not alone. you are amazing des. I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️
Don’t beat yourself about running. It truly is mental, I’ve been a distance runner for over 7 years and I have days that 3 miles is hard for me. It’s normal listen to your body, but don’t listen to your brain if that makes sense
You talking about your anxiety is so nice to hear so that it’s more normalised
i admire your motivation/ability to vlog every week!! i vlog my DAY once a month & thats all i can do lmao
Des, thank god for being so open about dealing with anxiety. I suffer from that too, and being able to express it and to normalize it just makes everything easy. So feel free to open up about it everytime you feel like it cause it helps a lot of people so thank u for that ❤ and, happybday beautiful, to many more seeing you 🤍🎂
The first video I found of yours was you unboxing a huge haul and you talking about your state of mind when you ordered them all. I was hooked. I really believe even if people truly want to understand and empathize, there’s only so much they can if they’ve never struggled with anxiety or depression. And I’m in no way reprimanding you or suggesting this quick fix could be the solution to everything. You drink a lot of energy drinks, maybe they make it worse? Again, not trying to call you out. I drink my fair share of caffeinated drinks too. My anxiety is typically only in vehicles (bad car wreck.) and then late night mom guilt, questioning every choice I’ve ever made as a parent. 🙈 But if you’re comfortable speaking on what you’re going through then don’t let anyone (especially strangers on the internet) silence you. There’s a lot of other channels they can check out if it bothers them that much.
Also, tell Sara she’s my fav and CONGRATS ON HITTING 300K! 🥹🥳🎉🎊
I absolutely love your videos and can't wait to watch them!!
Happy birthday🎂 Destiny. We love you❤❤ keep up with your contents. I love them all
girl that "House that built me" section HIT. I used to do the same thing. Glad I am not the only one
I gasped at the eras tour tickets!!!!!!! also happy belated bday!!!
When you post it just makes my day and no you don’t talk too much like I watch every second of your videos❤️❤️
Happy late birthday Destiny!!! Your vlogs are always so fun to watch!
Des I love these weekly vlogs so much 😭💕💕
Happy birthday and many more. You are awesome. Your videos rock.
happy birthday! 21 never looked so good! love you sm
yeah the hair slayed girlie
No, but I’ve also become hyperfixated on building legos and have put together like 6 sets since Christmas! I also have super bad anxiety and it’s really helped me to decompress after my work day.
everyone’s favourite Aquarius queen! ♒️🎂💘
dessss, ily
Please, if you have the capacity, NEVER stop talking about your anxiety. I’m an anxious girly and it makes me feel so much better to know I’m not alone. I don’t take it as negativity coming from you. It’s just how you feel. ❤
Can we please get links for
Some of your fav graphic tees????
Okay very strange but I also ran out of socks 😂 I am currently wearing tall red socks 🤦🏼♀️
I need your posters where or how can you get them I love them I need to cover my walls with something
u are the best !!!!!!
As a gurly with anxiety, I love the way you talk openly about your anxiety. It really helps me feel better and just appreciated ❤
Same!!
FRRR🫶🏽
100%
100% I have OCD (panic disorder) and it makes me feel better when people talk about anxiety because, obviously i relate, but it also effects everything we do. vlogging, reading, working out etc.
me too .)
for every vulnerable comment you make, there is a little girl out there feeling that way, and you are such a beautiful role model and advocate for those little girls. you are never alone and neither are they. sweet girl
Yes! it helps me knowing other people go through the same thing!
miss you are quite literally sunshine in human form
UR WEEKLY VLOGS LITERALLY FEEL LIKE COMING HOME
Fr tho, I open my phone and see the notification and it literally makes my day!
so so real
The negative things hitting harder than positive things is actually so real. Scientifically it takes 5 positive things/interactions/etc to counteract 1 negative thing for our brains. That is partly why your thought patterns & self talk are so important.
As a long vlog lover, I don’t think you over talk AT ALL. If people think you do, there’s a ‘skip 10 secs’ button and a playback speed option for a reason! They’re not forced to sit and watch your content! You’ve inspired me to be more chatty and more “myself” in my reading vlogs so THANK YOU💕
I love how your family and boyfriend embrace all your “things” : books, Taylor, pink: it shows so much love ❤
I'm 45 yrs old with anxiety and I absolutely love building Lego sets, working on jigsaw puzzles,doing paint by numbers and reading. Never feel weird for wanting to build Legos.
des, I love your videos just the way they are. Just how you are is awesome! Don’t stop talking about your anxiety or “over explaining” just continue being you! ❤
Girl please keep chatting, cause that’s the best thing about your vlogs! Always so real, honest and relatable❤️
I normally don’t comment- but as an anxious 16 year old girly who has recently started running, I want to assure you that every one of the things you feel like we don’t want to listen to are our FAVORITES!! Please don’t stop being you des 💗💗💗
Whoever said you “over talk” is wrong! I love your vlogs! They are so lively and just happy! Thank you so much for sharing your life and love of books with us! Love you!
im ur moms biggest fan the way she was hugging you and being so sweet had me crying
your mum is so cute with the amount of effort she went for your birthday 🥹
Nurse and anxiety sufferer here....the energy drinks are a huge catalyst for more anxiety. I got on Escitalopram and Wellbutrin and gave up high caffeine drinks...life changing! I would try removing the energy drinks first. They also have chemical in the artificial sweeteners that can cause anxiety and worsen ADHD. I totally know what you are feeling! Good Luck!
I wish I could take meds sometimes. I also have cptsd and the side effects of Escitalopram with ptsd is awful. just wanted to also put that out there for others to consider. i stick to flower instead 🍃
DES WE LOVE U BEING CHATTY DONT STOP OR LISTEN TO PEOPLE CUZ THIS IS WHY I WATCH IT LOL
i know a lot of other people are saying the same thing, but seeing someone on the internet talk about what it is like living with anxiety is like i feel so validated. you are so special! thank you for everything you do and share with us!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE QUEEN!! i already know this vlog is gonna be epic
I love your weekly vlogs ❤ I suffer from anxiety and depression and it's nice to see you openly talk about it and how it affects you......Happy Birthday and thanks for another vlog
Don't scale back on talking about your anxiety unless it's something you want to do. As an anxious girly, I appreciate when mental health is discussed openly. 💜
i agree even if i can be a sensitive subject,😊
As someone who also has anxiety, letting go of caffeine has helped me tremendously. I know it seems like it’s something you can’t live without and it took me forever to stop but I feel so much better. I actually have more energy at the end of the day, less anxiety, and less headaches. It won’t cure your anxiety but it something that could help!! ❤️ you des
Destinyyyy! happy 21st babes ❤ as someone who’s old enough to be a big sis plz plz plz be careful with the energy drinks! i’m sure you’ve heard it before. it can also be attributing to your anxiety. i know i know it sucks to hear but I used to drink them every day too and when i slowed down so did my anxiety 🎉
As a 20 y/o girl who suffers from anxiety, ur videos and the way you talk about ur anxiety and describe things rly honestly help me and so many other people. It’s nice to see a TH-camr talk about struggles they have that people can relate to, since we never rly see that. We love u Des, and Happy Birthday!!! 🤍✨
I’m normally a silent follower but Destiny I just wanted to say how loved you are by so many people and how much I appreciate your videos! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now and you never fail to brighten my day. Also when you mentioned ‘the house that built me’ it brought back memories for me not because of my old house but because that was my dance performance song when I was 14 and it never fails to bring tears to my eyes. Anyways I just wanted to say how grateful I am for you and that through this tough season in your life I’ll be praying for you. I’ve gone through some of the most challenging years of my life in the past 3/4 years and your videos have been a joyful spot. And God has held me close in my toughest times and I pray that you know that you can go to him in the good and bad! God cares so so much and you are so incredibly valuable to Him!!
You and your mom laughing made me so happy you guys are so cute !!!! Also, please never stop talking about your anxiety and bringing awareness to it. It really helps knowing others are experiencing the same things . Love you Des!!
I’ve literally become obsessed with legos this month, I even created a separate LEGO TH-cam channel a month ago 😂 Omg what a crazy coincidence! I didn’t grow up with legos either but they’ve helped me relax so much. Can’t wait to see more of your builds in the future!
She posted her 21st bday vlog on exactly 21:21 in myy time zone
Whatever you’re going through, even if it’s ’small’ things, they’re still important. Everything happens for a reason babe, stay strong - you got this 🫡🫶🏻 believe in ya ❤️
Lego is great and helps so much with exactly what you are looking for! So excited for this new adventure for you. It’s definitely changed my life for the best :)
I’m so happy you got tickets! If anyone deserves to see her it’s you!
so I am also struggeling with anxiety for quite a while now and I just love watching you videos and they help so much! Thank you
The anticipation and excitement for this vlog!! (I love the chatty vlogs💗 and your rants and rambles) your hair is gorgeous and the birthday photos are stunning 😍
I love Libby!!! If you didn't know you can send the books from Libby to your kindle (and put your kindle on airplane mode so the book doesn't return when the loan expires) 💖😊
Running on the treadmill is always an exercise and mental strength for me. It’s so incredibly hard to run long-distance on a treadmill. You rocked it!
i love your vlogs so much. the moments where u talk about ur anxiety feels so validating? i can’t explain it but i feel understood and seen❤️🩹
your weekly vlogs are my favorite! happy birthday des 💓
I don't know if you'll ever read this comment but have you thought about going to therapy or talking to a professional?. This is a really personal thing to do and maybe you already did it but as someone with anxiety and depression i noticed a massive change once i asked for help. even if it's seasonal depression or ocassional anxiety is always good to check with a therapist and they can provide you with tips and guidance to overcome your fears and feelings. Also i got diagnosed with adhd later on and a lot of things started to make sense. Hope you are feeling better!
stop 🥹🥹 you are too sweet Des!!
The Libby thing is honestly so frustrating. What I do to kind of hack the system is I will send the e-book to my Kindle and then turn my Kindle onto airplane mode. So then if the loan runs out I won't lose the book on my kindle.
Happy Birthday Queen 🥳🥳🥳 UR weekly vlogs ARE EVERYTHING.💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌.... You have inspired me in so many ways. God is so good and I am so grateful that I found your channel. I don't think you understand how much we all love and appreciate you and your realness. Sending you so much love from California. I'm so excited for you 😆💫
I literally look forward to your videos all week. Do not change anything about your vlogs!!! You talking about your anxiety makes me feel less alone with mine- it’s nice to know that other people out there are going through the same thing!! Your videos are so motivating and while I know it is easy to let the self doubt creep in, rest assured you are doing absolutely amazing and are helping so many people out there. Happy 21st!! 💕🎀🪩🐶📚🤠💐🧁
Love your lego era✨ My bf buys all the botanical bouquets for me when they release and it’s so fun to build! Hope you have fun too ☺️
A very happy birthday and I hope it was an absolutely amazing one!
Des, there is a reason you have so many followers. You are ADORABLE! And I love how open you are about how you are feeling and what you are doing. I ran my first half marathon at the age of 42, and I had the same doubts and insecurities going into it. Let me tell you, crossing that finish line was one of the best experiences of my life! I will never forget it. Stick with it and I promise that feeling of accomplishment at the end will make it all worth it! You keep being you. Let the haters hate and the rest of us will sit back and enjoy every minute of your videos. ❤
Since I live in nz vlogs come out on Mondays for me so Monday is my new favourite day and I run everyday so I love hearing about the running. Happy birthday!!
Destiny I love when you talk so much in videos and explain everything it’s so comforting and nice to listen too. I also love when you talk about your anxiety because the past month I’ve been struggling so much with my own issues and it reminds me that I’m alone. Keep in mind that everyone loves you and you being so many people joy and happiness ❤
Des please keep talking the way you have been!! Also, you can get Libby books for 7, 14, or 21 days. You can change that option when you borrow a book!
I love when u get all chatty and go on tangents! And I appreciate when ur open about ur anxiety bc I deal with it SOOOO BAD! Whatever u put out I love either way tho💖
God bless you Des, always here to pray for you for whatever you need 🙏🏼 you are strong & capable!! 💗
If you put your kindle on airplane mode, the book will stay on your kindle even though it’s been “returned” to the library 🙂 it’s a helpful hack when you need a little more time to finish reading
When you put your kindle in airplane mode Libby books don’t return.
Girl, you go to the gym five days a week, and no matter what you think of yourself while doing it, you're still training for a freaking half marathon: you're more athletic than most. Give yourself some slack ❤ You're doing such a good job, you're so hard working, it bums me to see you be so mean to yourself, seriously ❤
Adult legos are where it’s at! Unfortunately it’s more expensive than having a book shopping addiction lol.
I've been watching a lot of your videos recently and I honestly think you are the kindest soul
Please never stop talking about your anxiety bc what you say is so real and I feel so safe to listen to you ❤❤❤
HAPPY BIRTHDAY :)
I love that you talk about your anxiety as someone who goes through the same thing it really helps! I also just turned 21 Jan 30th!!! Happy birthday!!!!
Makes me so happy to see you’re close with your mom. My mom passed last year I’m only 24 and miss her so much she was my bestie you guys remind me of me and my mom makes me happy for you
Hi..Your room is sooo beautiful and cool...I love it 💕 And we have the same tastes; I love Taylor Swift songs , books ,shoes,dogs etc..😊
I have suffered with anxiety for years, you sharing about your anxiety will actually help you. Using stuff like Lego or diamond painting are some of the best distraction methods you can use to help with your anxiety. Any time you can feel it building take yourself to the distraction method of choice pop on an audiobook and just absorb yourself and divert and distract yourself so the anxiety dissolves xx
I literally feel Ike I’m hanging out with a bestie. Loving your vlogs! 🩷