THE NARC PROVOKES A REACTION, SO THEY CAN USE YOUR REACTION AS A DISTRACTION OF THEIR ACTIONS

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  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    The way my narcissistic partner constantly disrespected and mistreated me, only to turn around and claim love, was unacceptable. I can't believe I let someone treat me that way, but I take responsibility for allowing it to happen.💔

    • @daniellec52
      @daniellec52 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ever listen to one of these videos in front of a narc hahahaha 🤣🤣 they go insane!!! Thanks man

    • @daniellec52
      @daniellec52 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I laugh but I've actually been crying listening because the pain is cutting so deep. Idk how the hell I'm getting out this time. Last 3 destroyed me to the point of relapse

  • @ryanhartnett6437
    @ryanhartnett6437 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Flying monkey was trying to provoke me. I said, “only miserable ppl do what she(the narc) does.” Happy ppl just live their lives, they don’t mess with others. The Narc was FURIOUS when she found out what I said.

    • @Librarian322
      @Librarian322 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I always say exactly the same. If you are happy you spread happiness or you are happy doing your own thing!

  • @rosamontelongo842
    @rosamontelongo842 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My God I would walkout so many parties, just to not be seeing what I was seeing. I was so broken, I would just drink and think "IS this is my REAL LIFE"...

  • @lightcoded3780
    @lightcoded3780 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    With husband narc on trip in New Orleans, our car got towed, he parked in no parking zone. He found out car was at the impound, he took off left me while my head was turned looking the other way. I got a police officer had to give me a ride, took me to impound, he showed up later got mad because I got there before he did. Nothing but arguments afterward.

  • @SincerelyDanielle974
    @SincerelyDanielle974 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I remember feeling so stupid and dumb for my earlier feelings about my ex. I thought my ex was the one, the love of my life. But now, I see that he was just playing a game. He loved me when it was convenient for him, when we were together and he could manipulate me into doing what he wanted. But as soon as we broke up, my ex became a different person. He became cold, distant, and cruel.

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hario you are so absolutely correct! My narc sibling did the same thing in front of people yell at me. Ex Narcs in stores or parks yelling. It's embarrassing to no end! Yes we put up with it until we can't.!!😢

  • @belindaking1362
    @belindaking1362 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I enjoyed every minute of it. Lol. 😅😅😅😅 My god that man was so angry. God bless his soul. Love him. ❤️

  • @AtlantisB89
    @AtlantisB89 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve always took accountability, but to be honest, the thought of it being my fault makes me feel worst.

    • @CeceeWilliams
      @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But just know it isn’t your fault like he said, and the Bible holy words say, the enemy comes to kill steal destroy divide conquer however you wanna put it the enemies mission is to make you nonexistent

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The narcissist were I had to abandon my home are such liars, gangstalkers, seems these predators all do the same thing.

    • @CeceeWilliams
      @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They do it it’s like they all study the same playbook, I have dealt with several at this point

  • @CeceeWilliams
    @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Woooohhhh. “Just trust me” I heard that from my husband narc so much, and what would you do without me His top lines

  • @CeceeWilliams
    @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    And they use your reaction as an excuse to abandon you, which intern turns out to be a good thing that they leave your life, but they will definitely leave you or try to leave you destroyed and bankrupt

  • @CeceeWilliams
    @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No, you’re right of course there is nothing cool about that, but you have to remember they do it on purpose like you said they do it on purpose to get a reaction out of you.
    They know what they’re doing. They literally get a high, a buzz, from disrespecting you and you responding to the disrespect in a, jealous and unprofessional manner.
    Even if you react to their flirting, in a peaceful way, they still get a high off of that too, a peaceful reaction, they feed off of positive or negative energy either way.

  • @CeceeWilliams
    @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That’s exactly why I stopped going anywhere with my narc husband, because I noticed him embarrassing me in public and trying to embarrass me. Not today sir. Then tell his flying 🐒 I don’t want to spend time with him and I’m not being wifely. Hence one of the reasons I’m in hiding now.

  • @user-xs5so5rz6r
    @user-xs5so5rz6r 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amen big unc

  • @CeceeWilliams
    @CeceeWilliams 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like that, there is nothing cool about looking like the fool lol

  • @SincerelyDanielle974
    @SincerelyDanielle974 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When my ex made a comment under my post, it was like a punch to the gut. It felt like he was laughing at me, mocking me, and saying that's what I get for being in a new relationship with someone who beats me. He was implying that I'm somehow responsible for being in an abusive relationship, that I'm somehow asking for it. And it's just not true. And now he is threatening my life over something as simple as speaking my mind and saying my truth! It's just so hypocritical. My ex always trying to make himself out to be the victim, while simultaneously he is being the one who's causing all the drama and harm. He is always trying to silence me, to make me stop talking about our relationship on social media. But why? Because he is scared of being exposed? Because he is scared of being seen for who he really is?

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video!!❤

  • @ALESHA-bc7rl
    @ALESHA-bc7rl 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *"Father and Mother God, I AM Highly Grateful for ALL your PROTECTIONS, and WATCHFUL EYES. #NMCSOEIIAP."

  • @reesespieces450
    @reesespieces450 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The title itself is 💯💯 Hario! 🙏🙏❤️

  • @SincerelyDanielle974
    @SincerelyDanielle974 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My ex is still trying to put fear in my heart and spiritually plant seeds of fear in my soul. He is telling me that if I continue to provoke him (which I'm not doing), then his friends will have me followed and set up, and they'll take care of me - meaning they'll take care of getting rid of me. They'll do my ex dirty work and cover it all up. Oh wow, how dare him threaten my life? How dare he threaten to kill me because I won't stop talking about our relationship on social media?😔😫💔😭😪😞

  • @haneefahgaffney956
    @haneefahgaffney956 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The narc told me he do things to her under my skin so evil

  • @cathythompson9440
    @cathythompson9440 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good morning Hario

  • @GloriaRichardson4u
    @GloriaRichardson4u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Family

  • @AnaPaulinacom
    @AnaPaulinacom 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ✨️

  • @maximinoblas1171
    @maximinoblas1171 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Check your Mike Hario 😅

  • @marilynmonheaux6356
    @marilynmonheaux6356 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I disagree. Selfish people hurt people. Retaliatory and vindictive people hurt people. People who get hurt by others deal with it with prayer, meditation, and adult expression of emotion. Not by hurting others. Damaged people respond to their own hurt with more hurt.