Hario is right. When you STOP talking 🗣 to the Narc you turn the tables and change the game exponentially …. game over. No contact is a boss move y’all.
When I saw my replacement I laughed and I haven't stopped laughing 😅. I made a list of all his characteristics - liar, untrustworthy, manipulator, cheat, cheap, balding lmao
@@lisasmith4835 Right!!!?!!!? Then to post pictures like he's so proud 😂 he ran off and married this flat chested, no butt, yellow teeth woman and I'm like muhahahahaha! He gotta wake up to that every morning now 😆
We must pray for these women. We were once in that situation and they did a number on us but by the grace of God we have been redeemed and restored. It's not about the looks at all just be grateful that you got out some don't, they die trying 😊💛🙏🏾
Yes, this is so true because every time I was around him bad things what happened to me I got in a car accident the last time I’m like I’m gonna end up dying staying with him
Yes, I once was the new supply! I wasted 8 years with this fool. During that 8 years, there were times I wish I could give the narc back! My divorce is final and I have broken ALLLLLLLL contact!!!!!!!!!!
Very valid points in this video. We were willing to accept them back because the choice of NS was so bad we wanted to save them. Also, our pain is what made us see good in them. They aren't capable of being who we need them to be. They never were. That's why we ended in default. It was over before it started.
People are confused about when it’s stated that they treat the new supply worse. It has nothing to do with that person it’s just that the Narc gets worse with age and time. I’ve witnessed the Narc getting worse every year that went by. So by the time your entanglement is over years and time has went by for them to be worse for the next person. That’s what that statement is all about. The inevitable behavior during the corse of time.
You know how many times I should have listened to my intuition and I'm blessed with a gift but I figure the devil is trying to stop me from doing my business I told him six times there is something about you and I'm going to find out what it is but I am so grateful that I'm the one that left so he can never say he disregarded me and in front of his family members I did it
I am so. incredibly. thankful I found this channel. I can’t express how much you’ve helped me finally cut off contact and see the situation as it is. I’ve watched a lot of coaches these past few weeks and you’re hands down the most influential one. Thank you, thank you A MILLION TIMES! 🥺👏🏻❤️ I usually don’t watch long lives but I love these and appreciate them so much.
I’m not angry anymore- I’m indifferent now- I couldn’t care less! But I have to keep watching these videos- otherwise I would miss all the blessings, advice, goodness and Godly scriptures that are provided here 💜💜💜 The work that you do Hario and that everyone provides here is outstanding- you are changing peoples lives x
I just went through that! All in one month except I'm no dummy I'm done his verbal abuse was nothing like I had ever seen sad part I'm 48 now dating him when I was 14 30+ yrs later he contacted me
I haven't been able to catch the lives like I use to, but I always make sure I watch the playback. These are so necessary to stay on track. 7.5 no contact and not looking back. My ex use to hate if I wore a faux ponytail so much so he threatened to cancel a trip because I packed a ponytail. The new supply is always wearing pieces in her hair and wigs..so they stay lying
This is real facts ,got this text from my ex narc after being no contact for about a month(Keep me informed on y'all I miss y'all just wanna make sure you ok in case a war break out you can call me anytime).. They are very sick people...
I wish that I had found this channel months ago because it would of prepared me for what was to come. Anyway, four months Narc feel now and my health and wellbeing is already alot better.
Just do what you do, working, cleaning, keeping yourself up, read and look at positive t.v. movies, and music. I do not talk too toxic people . Hario is right, watch with your eyes. I feel much better. I have a little aches and pain, now and then, but I am still here!!! Thanks too God!!!
You know what I have had a feeling about the Ex NARC that he would OFF people, can't explain it but I'm not waiting to find out NC over a year... STAY SAFE FAMILY ❤️🔥🕊️🙌
I discarded the narc over months ago now. He started seeing a new supply 2 months afterwards. I'm just now dating again and he's telling people that I didn't waste any time seeing someone, REALLY? I have my peace now, and he seems to be very happy with the new supply. He has abandoned friends, family and his home to go stay with her. He is making her a priority as to where he made me an option and we were engaged. I have not had anxiety since I left him.
Pray with the two hours away it will be a peaceful NO CONTACT, and for the new supply, even though she is touched, I feel sorry for her and the next and the next. I seen the next and I told him about her from jump. So... Popcorn time. Karma, NOW playing. 😂😂
Not giving the new supply the script on how their now new relationship is going to go to freaking hell. They do tell you one sided stories that puts them in a good light. I truly was a victim of this scripting. Because I was at my lowest vibrations when I was dealing with a narc whom I ended up having three children with. At the beginning I really believed this dog and truly thought that the old supply was the demise of their shituationship. Boy are they good at the deception!
Why the heck are there so many of these jokers Is there a narc college or something cuz they all seem to do the same thing Lie Cheat Use you for your money Put you down Make you feel like a total zero when they are keeping time with trash in the streets Jeez Us
Tracy keep in mind. They are broken, they are emotionally detached. Take comfort in that, heal and don't beat yourself up. These videos by Hario and others have helped me understand my ex-husband.
My ex narc has about 13-15 children that I know of with myself having 3 of them. These bastards are really good at deception. I moved all the way to California from Ohio to go NO Contact and to put hella distance between us.
Hario God Bless you for all your knowledge your videos plus the huddle has helped me so much Im so grateful. When I seen what my ex narc husband was sleeping with I was so disgusted it made me sick to my stomach.The new supply can keep his aging disrespectful trifling lying cheating ass she is going threw pure hell she thought she was the only one he was dealing with he is dealing with multiple garbage cans getting she deserves all the hell she is going threw she knew I was his wife it's call KARMA
My narcissist boyfriend that I've dated for only a little over a month has so bad verbally abused me in the last 2 weeks giving me the silent treatment blocking me and saying it's all my fault and basically told me straight out but I've left them no choice but to get some new Supply and I'm the narcissist he says and crazy and a piece of s*** now I'm just wondering is this the fastest work of a narcissist you guys have ever seen or what LOL
He might be more mentally damaged than a typical narc.. mist narcs are battling other demons .. they need help but you shouldn’t date them unless they are in counseling…
The narc of my past, whom I spent 10 years talking to on the phone, and sent money to over that time, started telling me to kill myself multiple times per day, every day. That's what he wanted. But, he had a partial stroke after that, and couldn't even make a sentence or read anymore. Because, he returned my love and financial gifts with attempted murder by proxy.
Girl, you are to be throwing a party. you ain't got to deal with that no more. 15 kids. Hario, you are crazy talking about woo he must got a serious job somewhere 🤣 😆 😂 😅 😏 🤔 🤣 😆 😂
Omg!!!! My ex narc gave his mother and I the same gift for Mother’s Day one year. I knew that was odd then now you have confirmed that this is the fake love and games the narcs be on. I remember one year for Valentines Day I purchased edible arrangements for my now ex narc. I told the company to write on them Happy Valentines Day Tam! You know as if I’m the one saying Happy Valentines to him. Then of course it has my name on it because it’s from me. Well when I gave this fool of a narc the strawberries and he read the message he said I had gotten the edible arrangements from another guy and tried to give them to him. He didn’t eat not one and he let them go bad! At the time of course this hurt my feelings and money wasted to those arrangements they are not cheap. So glad I have made it out of the eye of the storm. It has been 5 years narc free.
My ex narc did that to me just came to see me slept with me I new nothing about him being in a new relationship I called him he didn’t answer then I got a call from her I was confused after he hoovered me for months until I gave in
Gosh I am so glad I have found this.... You are he person who makes me laugh about the situation I am in an gives me hope I am not crazy and I desorve real love
if you’re asking “am i the narcissist” ask yourself this: do you have to manipulate the feelings of others for a result? are you cruel? do you enjoy humiliating other people? do you flip the script?
Really? .... He married her a couple weeks ago and thats after 2 years of me being single recovering. He was there in her DMs the whole time we were together. I doubt he wishes that somehow!
Hario it's just like you said when the Tinder swindler it was going off and you saw the supermodel with him you said why didn't her people check him out to know what type of person he is you see how people fall into pitfall
Funny how you say driving off with your driver's license because my narc is driving off with the driver's license I helped him to get well he got a year left on it let's see if she send him the money to renew it 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁
I been gone a year.& half. & she got the new supply living with her & my daughter, I told her I didn't like that with my 11yr daughter , & she said I was interfering with her life
And they'll have you wear your hair like the supply. His supply came in his room with me there....sat behind him and rubbed gis butt I had to throw her hand off. I said you mess with her she built like a snow man. No neck and No waist. He said WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES THAT MAKE😂 ANY- BODY WILL DOOOO😂
I have actually said that he couldn't pay me a million pounds to make up for what he's done,the lies and what he did to his child,I just wish those around him could see straight through his games and lies and STOP supporting an abuser and his abuser mother.
Like my dad told my mom you can't stop me from doing a dam thing. Not a narc just a good looking man and woman throwing self on him. Good dad hook husband.
He tried to contact me through email that goes to spam. (How to block email??)reff. A friend in the hospital, (I knew about aready😏) then added "for me to know if I cared" oh what tactics they try. 🤓😎 He picked the right next Supply, oh she is a crazy one and maybe his downfall. IJS God don't like ugly.
Yup 👍🏽 he got me pregnant 3x then twins 🤦🏽♀️ I played myself 2004 til 2016 it’s crazy because guess when I finally woke up 2019 it’s 2022 an he’s still stating his case ummm foh GAME OVER (sign)🦂♏️
Hario is right. When you STOP talking 🗣 to the Narc you turn the tables and change the game exponentially …. game over. No contact is a boss move y’all.
Lmao she can keep him. I do not want that back. Been healing for 2 years and waiting for the great love that I deserve. ❤
When I saw my replacement I laughed and I haven't stopped laughing 😅. I made a list of all his characteristics - liar, untrustworthy, manipulator, cheat, cheap, balding lmao
@ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its crazy the kind of women they choose smh
@@lisasmith4835 Right!!!?!!!? Then to post pictures like he's so proud 😂 he ran off and married this flat chested, no butt, yellow teeth woman and I'm like muhahahahaha! He gotta wake up to that every morning now 😆
We must pray for these women. We were once in that situation and they did a number on us but by the grace of God we have been redeemed and restored. It's not about the looks at all just be grateful that you got out some don't, they die trying 😊💛🙏🏾
Amen
Family keep watching these videos, 7 months no contact.. happier than ever! Couldn't have done it without the support and advice on these channels ❤️
Yes being around the narc does block ur blessings or limit them.
Exactly their bad karma comes for you if you stay around them
Yes, this is so true because every time I was around him bad things what happened to me I got in a car accident the last time I’m like I’m gonna end up dying staying with him
They hate kids unless it's putting on a show of how someone else's kids love them, then treat their own like 🗑️.
Yep
Yes, I once was the new supply! I wasted 8 years with this fool. During that 8 years, there were times I wish I could give the narc back! My divorce is final and I have broken ALLLLLLLL contact!!!!!!!!!!
Very valid points in this video.
We were willing to accept them back because the choice of NS was so bad we wanted to save them.
Also, our pain is what made us see good in them.
They aren't capable of being who we need them to be. They never were. That's why we ended in default. It was over before it started.
People are confused about when it’s stated that they treat the new supply worse. It has nothing to do with that person it’s just that the Narc gets worse with age and time. I’ve witnessed the Narc getting worse every year that went by. So by the time your entanglement is over years and time has went by for them to be worse for the next person. That’s what that statement is all about. The inevitable behavior during the corse of time.
Yes his/her condition gets worse
Tru 2...I would get rid of that narc!
You know how many times I should have listened to my intuition and I'm blessed with a gift but I figure the devil is trying to stop me from doing my business I told him six times there is something about you and I'm going to find out what it is but I am so grateful that I'm the one that left so he can never say he disregarded me and in front of his family members I did it
I am so. incredibly. thankful I found this channel. I can’t express how much you’ve helped me finally cut off contact and see the situation as it is. I’ve watched a lot of coaches these past few weeks and you’re hands down the most influential one. Thank you, thank you A MILLION TIMES! 🥺👏🏻❤️ I usually don’t watch long lives but I love these and appreciate them so much.
The chats are ALWAYS TOO SHORT!!
Ifeel good it's Aman calling me bitches
Tag!! You it!! NOPE, you won!! No Returns! 😂🤣😂🤣
I’m not angry anymore- I’m indifferent now- I couldn’t care less! But I have to keep watching these videos- otherwise I would miss all the blessings, advice, goodness and Godly scriptures that are provided here 💜💜💜
The work that you do Hario and that everyone provides here is outstanding- you are changing peoples lives x
I get that and make sure with the careless less mind set you keep your heart open. For you. 🤗
He even gave the new supply a ring on Thanksgiving, but he
won't never marry her, got her paying all bills,
I just went through that! All in one month except I'm no dummy I'm done his verbal abuse was nothing like I had ever seen sad part I'm 48 now dating him when I was 14 30+ yrs later he contacted me
Lol
...typical narc!
It's tax time that's why the hoovering is starting
Lol
Lmao 😂
NO RETURNS N NO FUNDS HES URS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hario is a comedian I be literally crying laughing n learning wheeeew❤
I have to admit; these videos do work and along with my own research it's pretty accurate. I love the atmosphere.
Lmao she said she could change him😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's a lovely life I now live and she got IT😂
I haven't been able to catch the lives like I use to, but I always make sure I watch the playback. These are so necessary to stay on track. 7.5 no contact and not looking back.
My ex use to hate if I wore a faux ponytail so much so he threatened to cancel a trip because I packed a ponytail. The new supply is always wearing pieces in her hair and wigs..so they stay lying
🤣🤣🤣 girl, they are confused idiots.
This is real facts ,got this text from my ex narc after being no contact for about a month(Keep me informed on y'all I miss y'all just wanna make sure you ok in case a war break out you can call me anytime).. They are very sick people...
Lmaoooo omg they really are sick
I wish that I had found this channel months ago because it would of prepared me for what was to come. Anyway, four months Narc feel now and my health and wellbeing is already alot better.
I saw my narcs new supply , she is nasty and I mean nasty looking, I was like, you gave up on this , for that? WTH
Just do what you do, working, cleaning, keeping yourself up, read and look at positive t.v. movies, and music. I do not talk too toxic people . Hario is right, watch with your eyes. I feel much better. I have a little aches and pain, now and then, but I am still here!!! Thanks too God!!!
Narc might kill off new supplies narc will absolutely dog new supplies if they don't leave
You know what I have had a feeling about the Ex NARC that he would OFF people, can't explain it but I'm not waiting to find out NC over a year... STAY SAFE FAMILY ❤️🔥🕊️🙌
He s slagged me off behind my bk. Now I know why peole I hardly know give me dirty looks xxxxxx and then he wants to talk to me like I m a friend xxxx
There is no closure with the narc, period.
I discarded the narc over months ago now. He started seeing a new supply 2 months afterwards. I'm just now dating again and he's telling people that I didn't waste any time seeing someone, REALLY? I have my peace now, and he seems to be very happy with the new supply. He has abandoned friends, family and his home to go stay with her. He is making her a priority as to where he made me an option and we were engaged. I have not had anxiety since I left him.
Nope, keep her, don’t want those old shoes back. They hurt my feet !
Pray with the two hours away it will be a peaceful NO CONTACT, and for the new supply, even though she is touched, I feel sorry for her and the next and the next.
I seen the next and I told him about her from jump. So... Popcorn time. Karma, NOW playing. 😂😂
Not giving the new supply the script on how their now new relationship is going to go to freaking hell. They do tell you one sided stories that puts them in a good light. I truly was a victim of this scripting. Because I was at my lowest vibrations when I was dealing with a narc whom I ended up having three children with. At the beginning I really believed this dog and truly thought that the old supply was the demise of their shituationship. Boy are they good at the deception!
Watching this video from a year ago now. And your comment resonates me right now. I had 3 kids while believing the lies too. No more though…
Keep that thing with you!! Do not call or come over too my again!!
Why the heck are there so many of these jokers
Is there a narc college or something
cuz they all seem to do the same thing
Lie
Cheat
Use you for your money
Put you down
Make you feel like a total zero when they are keeping time with trash in the streets
Jeez Us
It would be a great comfort to take pain. But when your alone in your mind at night, the Paine is still the same.
Tracy keep in mind. They are broken, they are emotionally detached. Take comfort in that, heal and don't beat yourself up. These videos by Hario and others have helped me understand my ex-husband.
Money will never make u feel good inside. Only empty
My ex narc has about 13-15 children that I know of with myself having 3 of them. These bastards are really good at deception. I moved all the way to California from Ohio to go NO Contact and to put hella distance between us.
Thanks again for all your love and support.
And to have the memories of being trifling in your bed!!!!!
Yes, play dumb.
Listening and learning is better than speaking. God gave you 2 ears with only 1 mouth. Ms P much love sweetie
God is good y'all 😊
ALL THE TIME!!❤
Thank you , I take heed on everything you say!!! God Bless Amen
Hario God Bless you for all your knowledge your videos plus the huddle has helped me so much Im so grateful. When I seen what my ex narc husband was sleeping with I was so disgusted it made me sick to my stomach.The new supply can keep his aging disrespectful trifling lying cheating ass she is going threw pure hell she thought she was the only one he was dealing with he is dealing with multiple garbage cans getting she deserves all the hell she is going threw she knew I was his wife it's call KARMA
My narcissist boyfriend that I've dated for only a little over a month has so bad verbally abused me in the last 2 weeks giving me the silent treatment blocking me and saying it's all my fault and basically told me straight out but I've left them no choice but to get some new Supply and I'm the narcissist he says and crazy and a piece of s*** now I'm just wondering is this the fastest work of a narcissist you guys have ever seen or what LOL
Woow. A little over a month. Count yourself blessed that he showed his true colors quick. Should be all love in that short of time.
He’s an idiot 😵💫
I got 90days. We Win 🏆 🙌
That’s horrible but it sounds like a blessing in disguise!!! You can get out early 💪🏽✌🏽 run sweetie run 💯
He might be more mentally damaged than a typical narc.. mist narcs are battling other demons .. they need help but you shouldn’t date them unless they are in counseling…
😂😂😂😂 word the ew supply be busted looking crazy 🤪 😂
"Total package" alright... of pooh! 😆👍
The narc of my past, whom I spent 10 years talking to on the phone, and sent money to over that time, started telling me to kill myself multiple times per day, every day. That's what he wanted. But, he had a partial stroke after that, and couldn't even make a sentence or read anymore. Because, he returned my love and financial gifts with attempted murder by proxy.
Narcs will tell u that u did not sacrafice anything for them. They will down play i everytime.
He won't flee from you if you go no contact...they will always come back...
How dumb was I Lord forgive me for my stupid decisions🙏😻😬🙏
Bible says Hope Deferred Maketh The Heart Sick
Trip over your own feet, and Trip into hell. WTH? 😂
Thank you Hario for all your insight, encouragement, and help w/self-realization. Thank you. Show up Jesus. 🙏🏼
Girl, you are to be throwing a party. you ain't got to deal with that no more. 15 kids. Hario, you are crazy talking about woo he must got a serious job somewhere 🤣 😆 😂 😅 😏 🤔 🤣 😆 😂
Toooo funny I was weak at that part tooo
@Tamarra Slaton 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂
15 kids is krazy
They're money will make their heads swell big time!
Omg!!!! My ex narc gave his mother and I the same gift for Mother’s Day one year. I knew that was odd then now you have confirmed that this is the fake love and games the narcs be on. I remember one year for Valentines Day I purchased edible arrangements for my now ex narc. I told the company to write on them Happy Valentines Day Tam! You know as if I’m the one saying Happy Valentines to him. Then of course it has my name on it because it’s from me. Well when I gave this fool of a narc the strawberries and he read the message he said I had gotten the edible arrangements from another guy and tried to give them to him. He didn’t eat not one and he let them go bad! At the time of course this hurt my feelings and money wasted to those arrangements they are not cheap. So glad I have made it out of the eye of the storm. It has been 5 years narc free.
Gifts you got gifts???
You have helped build me up I laugh so much!
Iooked at the eyes of the narc in pics and his eyes looked not happy but the rest of his body looked happy...pray for him...very sad
Never go ways of rage, hatred nor any other low level ....you do not even have to be jealous on Such low level that the narcc tries to pull you down
A new relationship is about risks but we are stronger now...
Hario please dont feel like you fail,thats on them with God,we do everthing in our hands to keep it rigth,but they never on our team ,thats all!🙏💗💗
I never knew what he was just thought he was Evelina didn't know about narcissistic until I found this chanel
Watching burning body on Netflix showed me wat could happen when 2 Narcs together in relationship. Such evils
My ex narc did that to me just came to see me slept with me I new nothing about him being in a new relationship I called him he didn’t answer then I got a call from her I was confused after he hoovered me for months until I gave in
Gosh I am so glad I have found this.... You are he person who makes me laugh about the situation I am in an gives me hope I am not crazy and I desorve real love
1:07:26😂😂😂 that’s how they be FORREAL
Memories like the corner of my mind! Narc song
Hario. I love the way u scream N3ttieAK47 and Chelly name. U be cracken me up. 😂😂😂
if you’re asking “am i the narcissist” ask yourself this: do you have to manipulate the feelings of others for a result? are you cruel? do you enjoy humiliating other people? do you flip the script?
Good morning Hario and everyone
Gm!🙏☀💗
The narcs head would swell up so no they won't do right...when they got money
That's terrible to use your money to court the new supply 😂❤...oh boy
Hario!!! SOS!!!! I was told that my narc mother is planing to come over in a few days. I guess she wants to hoover or something. Any advice?
Really? .... He married her a couple weeks ago and thats after 2 years of me being single recovering. He was there in her DMs the whole time we were together. I doubt he wishes that somehow!
Ive relapsed Only talked BUT guess what hes came back to re load the triangulation Need of backup GOD😩💯
Hario it's just like you said when the Tinder swindler it was going off and you saw the supermodel with him you said why didn't her people check him out to know what type of person he is you see how people fall into pitfall
Funny how you say driving off with your driver's license because my narc is driving off with the driver's license I helped him to get well he got a year left on it let's see if she send him the money to renew it 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁
Keep yourself right. 🙏
I been gone a year.& half. & she got the new supply living with her & my daughter, I told her I didn't like that with my 11yr daughter , & she said I was interfering with her life
Love always supercede evil.
Narc makes you compete with yourself.....to get the reaction you got when you met him. Love bomb only lasts three weeks
So they don't get mixed up gave one to my mother too.narc lie faster then a Rat can run 🤔
I heard the war one recently .
T bone nice name yum
Need food t bone steak 😂
Narc drained me again
?I think they hear voices
Perfect topic
Yes ur right when I travel to America my ex narc had a women living in my house yea that’s what they do those bird
Karma
And they'll have you wear your hair like the supply. His supply came in his room with me there....sat behind him and rubbed gis butt I had to throw her hand off. I said you mess with her she built like a snow man. No neck and No waist. He said WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES THAT MAKE😂 ANY- BODY WILL DOOOO😂
They say the ns is no good too
..lol
Love your videos bro. Your right we where so blessed to have lived through this nightmare, these people are monsters
Title WAY 2 FUNNY BUT TRUE!!😄🤩
I have actually said that he couldn't pay me a million pounds to make up for what he's done,the lies and what he did to his child,I just wish those around him could see straight through his games and lies and STOP supporting an abuser and his abuser mother.
Like my dad told my mom you can't stop me from doing a dam thing. Not a narc just a good looking man and woman throwing self on him. Good dad hook husband.
Best channel ever. You shooting them birds out of the air
They put you in a hole because we let them because we thought we would get it back.
He tried to contact me through email that goes to spam. (How to block email??)reff. A friend in the hospital, (I knew about aready😏) then added "for me to know if I cared" oh what tactics they try. 🤓😎
He picked the right next Supply, oh she is a crazy one and maybe his downfall. IJS God don't like ugly.
Love you're videos man
Yup 👍🏽 he got me pregnant 3x then twins 🤦🏽♀️ I played myself 2004 til 2016 it’s crazy because guess when I finally woke up 2019 it’s 2022 an he’s still stating his case ummm foh GAME OVER (sign)🦂♏️
Love ya videos it has help me alot
He failed at it because I gave it my best. Period!!
so mad i missed this live
The title alone. 😂😂 sorry y'all. 🙏 namesta❤
Keep that dodo off the market ooooh narc always in the meat markets