“POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME PT. 2 W/ MIKE RASHID” (EP. 76)

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    (EP. 76) “POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME PT. 2 W/ MIKE RASHID”
    In part 1 of this episode we wanted to respect the different ideologies of relationship and the topic of Polygamy came up as we spoke about this current landscape of dating. Polygamy has become a hot topic and truly an option for many. Our comments from Part 1 of this episode were flooded with, “it would’ve been nice to have someone who practices polygamy on the show.” One thing about us at Nice and Neat we’re going to give our audience what they want! We took that advice to gain further clarity on the topic and brought on Mike Rashid, a practicing polygenist.
    Mike broke down the umbrella of polygamy and the all that comes with it, outside of its “sex appeal”. Mike also let us know that his sister was one of two wives in her current marriage.
    Make sure to comment and let us know some of your dating experiences and can you see polygamy ever being an option for you?
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  • @nauticamaxwell1916
    @nauticamaxwell1916 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    i will never understand why this podcast hasn’t taken off yet 😭 it’s quality content and REAL conversations every episode!

    • @lordgully5951
      @lordgully5951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Super Fact!

    • @russelldiggsjr3848
      @russelldiggsjr3848 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It will..
      Once more men and woman start that actually looking for quality things online that feed into personal growth and not just fluff and gossip.

  • @kyshac81
    @kyshac81 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    As a woman I noticed how A LOT of women especially Black American women get real offended about conversations about polygamy, when a lot of these same women will lay up and have children out of wedlock. These same women will also be a side chic and have children by married men in a heartbeat. Not only that, someone being polygamous is none of anyone’s business if you are not involved in that relationship.

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is true. If we all operated with this type of radical honesty, the world would be such a better place… it’s the Eurocentric system of love that has people here triggered when this topic is bought up… It’s bizarre

    • @dynastygoddesshair6943
      @dynastygoddesshair6943 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You are preaching, they are talking about morale and honesty, but these women seem to prefer immorality and lies...

    • @TChalla007
      @TChalla007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Add in 30% of births are not by her husband. 80% of divorces are filed by black women. Higher if they're college educated.

    • @loriell1996
      @loriell1996 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay, now flip the coin and see that the women opposite of those low standards still may come off "offended" by the topic... humans are selfish and can often be possessive, I'm not sharing my man and he should not be giving himself to anyone else

    • @madvillainy6845
      @madvillainy6845 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@dynastygoddesshair6943Cook 🔥🔥🔥

  • @DONWILLCERTIFIED
    @DONWILLCERTIFIED ปีที่แล้ว +49

    As an African Man, This is just form of a relationship & it should be practiced in a righteous way

  • @keys8885
    @keys8885 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Man jalon was so quiet I thought bro left mid interview 😂

    • @Deettamonique
      @Deettamonique ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jalon facial expressions are too funny

    • @jazzyj904
      @jazzyj904 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I literally forgot he was there 😂

    • @duquene10
      @duquene10 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @Mimi8402
      @Mimi8402 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂

  • @HeisQualamarTV
    @HeisQualamarTV ปีที่แล้ว +29

    What Mike says about lying and cheating on your woman hit home. I was literally saying this the other day. I don’t trust any dude who cheats on his lady or lies about nut shit. You can be honest with women. Are they always gonna like it? No, maybe not but a woman of value will ALWAYS respect the fact that she can trust you enough to keep it real and reciprocate that back to you.

  • @sylviabrooks3382
    @sylviabrooks3382 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Oh baby his argument and thinking…TOP TIER RIDICULOUS 😂 it sounded like fancy and articulate hoopla

    • @Mr2FlyDesmond123
      @Mr2FlyDesmond123 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      To be fair his way of thinking is rare and only a small percentage of men can even manage to pull off what he is speaking of… So why are black women still not being made wives?

    • @trulydorcas
      @trulydorcas ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Mr2FlyDesmond123 I think the question is: Why aren’t the men marrying their women?
      .
      We both need each other..
      .
      So as we both become the men & women we want to be (mentally, emotionally, physically, financially etc) we should be naturally sharing our lives with each other..
      .
      Bringing together families is so important.. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @madeeee123
      @madeeee123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah fr!!!

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Mr2FlyDesmond123 it’s rare in America for. What’s common is for people to lie and cheat. Being honest about wanting multiple women is rare. Shouldn’t be though. I bet every women who publicly disagrees, will say she’s never been cheated on…. Women get cheated on so much because men aren’t comfortable telling women what they want… so they do it behind their backs…. An honest man stands on his truth and y’all get upset… fascinating

    • @dynastygoddesshair6943
      @dynastygoddesshair6943 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@MikeRashidOfficial he simply said he requires honesty and morality.......some women prefer immorality and lies....smh

  • @JayTakeProfits
    @JayTakeProfits ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This man Mike basically just found away to be lustful. Don’t be fooled by this guys.

    • @sclark7577
      @sclark7577 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jay Take Profits: WOW someone finally hit the nail on the head Bingo. His logic of reasoning is beyond Ridiculous when it comes to God, Morality etc…. But he like to talk to those nobody’s he have on bcuz they agree with him

    • @Deettamonique
      @Deettamonique ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep because he isnt basing within a religious structure.

    • @madeeee123
      @madeeee123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!!!

    • @cameronanderson7148
      @cameronanderson7148 ปีที่แล้ว

      Human beings have more female ancestors than male ancestors. Let that marinate.

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s a weird thing to say.

  • @AMG92.
    @AMG92. ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I think the divorce rate stats mention is a little misleading..
    women in other countries Eg in the global south don’t necessarily have the legal or cultural freedom to leave a marriage. Many other contributing factors IMO. Also saying humans are the only mammals who practice monogamy is... objectively false and easily disprovable :( e.g. wolves.

    • @nataliefrancis5520
      @nataliefrancis5520 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great point!!

    • @ayoobdulla8173
      @ayoobdulla8173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I won't lie,I'm looking for a good Woman ,that fully supports this discussion.Lets talk...🌍

    • @BreakTheChains1804
      @BreakTheChains1804 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The divorce rate is the lowest it has ever been especially in America.
      Specifically in the African American community marriages lasted longer during slavery than they do today.

    • @AZcasino602
      @AZcasino602 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Somebody doesn't have google??!!
      Male wolves are not monogamous 😂

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Even tho i didn’t agree with most if his statements i'm glad this platform is allowing people with different way of living to tell their story and share their opinions

  • @trillsap
    @trillsap ปีที่แล้ว +26

    19:35 so Omar was correct a few eisodes back. This guy says he doesn’t get joy from a woman’s love. Omar said something to the notion of he doesn’t see the benefit of polygamy due to the bond, emotional taxation and feelings it takes to manage one woman. If you don’t desire love and find peace in a woman’s love and want to build in that then yeah dating multiple women is anything. You’re not even interested in what she can give you besides children.

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He's muslim but he never once mention that being a good husband and partake in polygamy requiert to be a firm believer in Allah. He never once said that he had a conviction from Allah to be polygamist neither.That's very telling

    • @ShenellM
      @ShenellM ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very!

  • @thatmarieaj
    @thatmarieaj ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My phone went mute 70% into this. I identified numerous I'll spirits from this man and pray the spirit of God grants us all high discernment to know that not everything that sounds logical is right.
    God bless 🙏🏾

    • @imanimitnaul1147
      @imanimitnaul1147 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You know that a lot of Biblical figures had multiple wives right ?😅

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imanimitnaul1147let them stay ignorant

    • @MsYondaschannel
      @MsYondaschannel 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@imanimitnaul1147That's the old testament. Yeshua changed the law remember??

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya ปีที่แล้ว +25

    First time ever seing Jalon so quiet lmfaooo😂😂😂😂

    • @instrinsiclove
      @instrinsiclove ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously 😂😂😂

    • @tyvondavis
      @tyvondavis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was in the presence of a real boss alpha 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Jmdeno86
    @Jmdeno86 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Y’all need to have Jidenna on the show. He has been in many a poly relationships and his perspective is soooooo much more respectable and enlightening for BOTH men and women…. 💛

  • @jazzyj904
    @jazzyj904 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    His comments about “men can’t control themselves” in the workplace was incredibly irresponsible and ridiculous. That’s like saying “cashiers can’t control themselves around money, you should expect the to steal”. Grown men are perfectly capable, but because of enablement like this, they see nothing wrong with it. Sexual harassment comes in so many different forms. You’re at work to work. Continuous sexual advances is crazy. People see what they want to see and take things to far and become killers, sexual assault era, and stalkers. Considering there are such things as maternal leave and parental leave for men, advancing in your career is your business and you can pursue a promotion and get paid more. A lot of men get paid more money just because they have a penis… they did nothing better or more glorious . As someone who works in HR those particular comments annoyed the hell out of me.

    • @masiomasio
      @masiomasio ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Get out of your feelings 😂 he literally said “I’m not saying it’s right”. Listen to understand, instead of listening to judge

    • @jazzyj904
      @jazzyj904 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@masiomasio you have music that you should be working on. Get out of the comments and go focus on that.

    • @goodtrouble841
      @goodtrouble841 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jazzyj904😂😂😂

    • @marybutidk
      @marybutidk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You sayin the truth and nothing BUT!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jazzyj904deflecting and you'll never understand what being a man is like

  • @Snicklez89
    @Snicklez89 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s the facial expressions and SILENCE for me ⚰️

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Duke was the funniest part of this episode 😂😂

  • @AMG92.
    @AMG92. ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Also the mention that its not surprising men sexually harass women in the workplace is kinda wild… men should be expected to have sexual discipline.

    • @masiomasio
      @masiomasio ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get out of your feelings 😂 he literally said “I’m not saying it’s right”. Listen to understand, instead of listening to judge

    • @AMG92.
      @AMG92. ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@masiomasio Where did I say he said it was right? Where did I pass judgement on him? Take your own advice.

  • @shekinahnoelle
    @shekinahnoelle ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It’s actually comical how insanely incorrect he was on his statements. even just starting out with how we are one of two species to have one mate. secondly, there is sexual harassment in the workplace EVERYWHERE! There were so many things wrong. Especially the accountability on men. Honestly we can just note the fact that he, himself couldn’t successfully carry out a polygamist relationship. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Our history didn't start at slavery. This was a whole lotta bs ✌🏽

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who said our history started as slavery?

    • @yulnikita
      @yulnikita ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@MikeRashidOfficial You implied humanity had not been civilized long and then pointed to the fact that black people were enslaved 100 yrs ago as if us being victimized was a reflection that we were uncivilized. The whole statement was BS.
      You further went on to say that was "how long people have been nice to eachother" Not true we were living peacefully long before slavery not sure where you're getting the majority of your information but its definitely not rooted in fact.
      3:47

  • @daniellemonettt
    @daniellemonettt ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Bring Shannon boodram on the podcast !

    • @roots4140
      @roots4140 ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSSSSSSS. Bring somebody that actually knows something! Lol

    • @AikiraBeats
      @AikiraBeats ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes cause she knows what she’s talking about and currently doing it in a marriage. This man just sounds nice.

  • @xavierlbrown
    @xavierlbrown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mike Rashid is coming from a place of experience. Men think they want polygamy but really don’t understand it has it’s ups and downs. You have to be knowledgeable and be willing to deal with the good and the bad as a real man should.

  • @jayleee16
    @jayleee16 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Big Mike! 😎 Dope episode, it's always refreshing to have different perspectives in the room.

  • @NathanLorenzana
    @NathanLorenzana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Men can't control themselves in the workplace" is just a fact. That comment was so obviously made to bring up the point that women need protection because simply, many men harass, like it or not. Doesn't mean women should just accept it and be passive about it, nor does it mean that men are just supposed to behave that way. Every single day I'm amazed how simple statements are ridiculously misconstrued.

  • @briasutopia
    @briasutopia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve only been in one relationship, though logically poly relationships with purpose make sense. Like he said, I’ve been Americanized and I’ve definitely been one to want my man to myself. However, I’m constantly taking self-inventory and working on self. I’m not for nor against poly relationships, whatever works for folks works, but I’m not necessarily closed to it.

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like how he said he know he doesn’t NEED to have women pour into him, I like that he does know his limits and what he can take on fr. That’s mature.

  • @Paris_at_home
    @Paris_at_home ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We are not animals and or insects. God made us in his image. Animal where created for the earth to prosper… not for us to act like them or base our relationships off of them…..Do animals work a job??? Do animals have responsibilities???? Do animals have to learn how to read, write, drive etc… I really dislike when they make this point and compare humans to animals….. we are not animal and we should not live like them….

    • @osiriswills6749
      @osiriswills6749 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We actually are animals. We have animal DNA. Thats a peer reviewed genetic and scientific fact. The only thing that separates us from other animals on this planet is our neocortex.

    • @downwiththeclique7239
      @downwiththeclique7239 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right like we're not superior beings 🙄 dumb af

    • @Mimi8402
      @Mimi8402 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessssssss thanks for saying it!

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JayCasinoOfficial
      @JayCasinoOfficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Science says we are some type of animal sorry. We eat, sleep and poop, just like animals.

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jalon said a total of 10 words😂😂

  • @RaejeneRodgers
    @RaejeneRodgers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I definitely wouldn’t have a problem with it as long as he is an honorable man and going to be an honorable father because we were meant to multiply but granite he has to be a man of a lot of knowledge and recourses that can handle the type of legacy he’s choosing to build in the United States since we do not practice polygamy and the world and our needs to live has changed so much

  • @yaniquefrancis429
    @yaniquefrancis429 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ehhh not the best but thanks for coming,

  • @zeoyful
    @zeoyful ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how the guys stayed quiet when he brought up the topic of being transgender. 😂 Could almost hear a pin drop

  • @kaseyrae3486
    @kaseyrae3486 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This whole episode is wild and doesn’t make sense 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can definitely LOVE someone forever lol he’s hurt it seems. Has he ever gone to counseling?!

  • @lordgully5951
    @lordgully5951 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think we should be accurate in terminology with these conversations. Polygamy is a person being MARRIED* ☝🏾 to more than one person. Which in America is illegal. It is a crime called Bigamy, and has been outlawed by and in this country since the 1830s. Polyamory is being in an intimate/sexual Relationship ** ☝🏾 with more than one person. Which is what EVERYONE in these conversations are participating in or debating. If they’re in America. Peace to the N&N podcast ✌🏾

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae444 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Ok so y’all woke up this day and chose VIOLENCE!!
    This needs a ⚠️TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️.
    This man has the right to live however he chooses but there was a bit of revisionist history and remixing in his explanations.
    Also, the way the guys held their tongues and just let him say controversial things - wisdom 😂

  • @clarkkent4991
    @clarkkent4991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brothers doing brothers type stuff. United I’m love AND respect ✊🏾!!! I just really enjoy you guys. Stay tight and united.

  • @Mr2FlyDesmond123
    @Mr2FlyDesmond123 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Salute to Mike. Agree or disagree it’s a worthy conversation to be had.
    And lets be honest; The women who are “upset” by what he’s saying, in most cases have nothing to worry about, because the men they deal w/ don’t have the resources or ability to pull it off and they themselves don’t qualify for the type of man that can. 😂

  • @theplug3102
    @theplug3102 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I swear when you leave 🥷’s to get something done, they come back with another problem. Y’all went & got this man to speak on polygamy. The same man that doesn’t want his daughters to be in a situation like that. 🤣
    This sh’t right here baffles me bruh. The BS you 🥷’s continue to pull with this topic. The lack of education y’all have around this topic is crazy bruh. Stop bringing up the “Old” days. You 🥷’s stay bringing that up because it’s something you “Heard” all your life, but don’t really know what it meant back then.
    There was a different type of respect back then, the true kings & queens understood the assignment & there weren’t all this hoopla over just having a another woman just because you wanna have the choice to go from 1 to the next. Most of you dudes don’t even know what it really takes to LEAD. Y’all can’t even figure out simple problems, you think you about to juggle more than 1 woman? Hang it up.
    Then it’s y’all talking about what “Women” need to stop doing, this is an ongoing problem society will forever have. How about teach more boys how to protect their sexual energy, that it’s NOT cool to run through women & just because you let this backwards society raise your children to believe that they aren’t important, & that their sexual energy isn’t important, doesn’t make it okay for little boys to grow up thinking this toxic mindset.
    Just as much as women’s sexual energy is important, the same goes for dudes. Y’all be wrapped up in what society has taught you, that it’s always one sided & a double standard when it comes to women & men. What 1 can do vs what the other can’t do. The typical mindset of a brainwashed human being. Stop following these ppl rules & taking it as a way of living. Your way of living doesn’t mean it should be that way.
    To add, let’s stop bringing up & using nature as an excuse to sleep with multiple women. Yeah, we are human beings that practice monogamy & naturally it isn’t that way when it comes to animals. It still doesn’t make it politically correct to say this is how we all should be living. Not everyone wants to deal with multiple women, not all of us want to live directly like nature itself when it comes to the true nature of animals.
    This is nothing more than a basic mindset that people stay using to justify why they want more than one woman, or should I say, a reason to say “That’s how we should be living” NO sir, you can live that way. What works for you, is for you. & what works for someone else is for someone else. People get to wrapped up in trying to make & pass this sh’t off as facts. Not everything is facts, & not everything is meant to be taken literal.
    You people struggle with discipline , you can’t expect to elevate to the next level if you can’t overcome the natural thing that was instilled in all of us, except it takes some ppl longer than others not conquer it. While there are some that are just naturally disciplined & don’t need to do all the extra sh’t to master it. This applies to everything else that you struggle with, & instead of doing better & overcoming the thing’s god instilled in you to overcome. You find ways to go around it & then wrap it up in a truth that you try to dissect with the BS you spew.
    At the end of the day rather you spray perfume on a pile of sh’t. It’s still sh’t at the end of the day, rather or not you are unable to control yourself, it doesn’t make you any better than before. You’re not facing the thing’s you need to face in order to evolve in area’s that you know you need to evolve in. Too many of y’all be weak out here & try to smash everything you see & wonder why your life be in shambles. Your focus is off, & your not aligned with the purpose god put you here for. You gotta 1st be honest with yourself about the thing’s you want, & the thing’s you want to be better in. Then actively work on those thing’s & challenge yourself more each time.
    Too many dudes be looking at the external of something & seeing multiple women as one big orgy party. In this day & age it will never workout that way no matter what information you spew out in the world. These dudes don’t understand what respect is, loyalty, communication, & everything else that it takes to have a long healthy relationship with 1 woman. So what the F these 🥷’s going to do with multiple? Save it. 🤣

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he never said he didnt want his daughters doing itp

    • @theplug3102
      @theplug3102 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@saintfreezy6914 Lol, all that, & the first thing you write is something about his daughters. You are the problem in this world. 🥷

  • @kwamkelemkize7458
    @kwamkelemkize7458 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was absolute nonsense.

  • @Denese212487
    @Denese212487 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These are his personal beliefs and whichever woman/women he can find that wanna vibe with that, thats fine, but dont speak as if this is reasonable logic. I also dont believe that the fellas (who are usually very versed in perspectives in conversations) presented much of a challenege to his views. There are many points that he was misinformed on, but I will speak on this one a lil bit. The culture of the middle eastern people (not just the women) is different because they are more duty bound not because they are perfectly ok, they just dont complain and do what is expected as their cultural norms. That whole young men cant control themselves comment was reckless and should have been checked immediately. Ok bye.

    • @brianagriffith15
      @brianagriffith15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1000% agree!

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Young men do need sexual discipline, they need discipline all around. I don’t know how you took that statement, but I was stating it out of protecting women. I’m extremely protective of women… If you really listen to what I said in this interview, I don’t think you’d really disagree. First of all, im speaking about my preferences. I do not think poly is for most people. I do not preach it. For a man to have that with his women, he needs to be honest, he needs to be able to take care of his women wholeheartedly and making them feel safe and secure… he needs to be a man of great resources, mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially….

    • @RedBoneVoodooDoll
      @RedBoneVoodooDoll หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@MikeRashidOfficialyoung men need to know they CAN control themselves...but telling them they can't will not motivate them to hold themselves accountable and to practice discipline. Hope you don't have sons.

  • @amirah9975
    @amirah9975 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Respectfully, self control & discipline is very attractive in a man. Especially when it’s one man with one woman, as a woman it shows that he can hold it down no matter what his fleshy desires are. That’s why a man leaves to join his wife, not wives. The kings long ago who had many wives biblically have fallen because of it, these woman worshipped other Gods. Everything these wives were doing had influence on this one man. One wasn’t enough to the flesh of man. But the to the Holy Spirit it is enough, for Adam. That is why when quantity is a priority it desensitizes the importance of quality in one person. Foundation and hierarchy is important before multiplication. Multiplication in children, not wives respectfully. 1 Corinthians 7:2

    • @thatmarieaj
      @thatmarieaj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this dose of wisdom! ❤

    • @WilliamWoolf-bs9uv
      @WilliamWoolf-bs9uv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell me which prophet in your bible wasn’t a polygamist. Quoting bible verses yet ignorant

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      why control something u gone naturally think about anyway

  • @shayb8726
    @shayb8726 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My thing is if the essence of polygamy is so "natural" then why does it require such explanation? and why isn't it easy to maintain? (He even said it's a lot to manage, like it takes emotional and financial strength lol) I think this is packaged lust idk.

    • @shayb8726
      @shayb8726 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      At 19:32 He talks about how much energy and time it takes, then he goes on to say ... his life is not predicated on a woman's love. So why would you even be in any kind of relationship"at all then? Just say you want concubines and move on lmao

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s required explanation to those who ask me about it. I don’t go around doing seminars about poly life… I teach people how to make money, and be in shape. If I’m asked a question, I’ll answer it honestly…

  • @bernardosborne6013
    @bernardosborne6013 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm married to two black queens, "Dimes" and we are very happy. Most of you women who have 2 or 3 kids by three different guys or vice versa, you already in a poly situation.

  • @sonyaphillips4027
    @sonyaphillips4027 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do you even understand why God said man has Dominion over animals, Gen. 1:26-31🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Overall this was another really great interview. Mike almost pissed me off 😂 but I kept listening and heard some clarity in what confused me lol Very interesting!! Thanks y’all ❤

  • @riddlouche
    @riddlouche 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He says what a lotta ppl would like to say but would never communicate it publicly

  • @duwaynelangham
    @duwaynelangham 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pt1 was good intelligent talk, but I'm so glad ya'll doubled back and brought on a voice to the depth of the lifestyle and different styles of non-monogomy. great content guys!

  • @yaboyrell1701
    @yaboyrell1701 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I F with Bro on a fitness level but y’all was not expecting this conversation (per the camera when y’all move and y’all got the straightest face) like the rest of us 🥴

  • @aaronjones5049
    @aaronjones5049 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The most high wasn’t mentioned in this interview. And he should’ve been.

  • @Beautiful___452
    @Beautiful___452 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a women who comes from a Muslim family, raised Muslim. Believe me these women ARE NOT happy. I’ve seen it first hand, they are jealous, and territorial. I can tell you many situations of men with multiple wives. For instance, the wives of the Iman, not liking each other and arguing, because of what, the man. No women deep down wants to share. Also, I have friends who are poly Ig content creator, they have them same problems. It always starts off ok, but once you see what you dealing with and emotions start flaring up. It rarely works. Furthermore, women in other countries don’t have rights like women over here, in some countries women are not able to go out in public without a man. Currently, women are in the process and starting to attain rights, such being able drive a car or receiving an education. Mind you, I’ve been around Muslims my whole life, and I’ve been around many cultures and those women never tell delightful or positive stories. I have Somalian friend right now, who will tell you what these women go through and how abusive some men are over in the EAST! Women are not treated the best in a lot of those countries, they have no choice. Society looks down upon these women who are not married, less valuable. Parents send them to marry whoever. I prefer not. One man, one women for ME. This man knows he isn’t fair, stop playing!
    Some of these men pick and choose what they want to follow from our ancestor, because y’all damn sure do not do everything our ancestors did. And who said that their actions were righht? Back in the day women had to depend on men, they didn’t work, so to survive she has to be with a man, so that he can provide. They had to accept anything. Women if you accept this, you may be taken care of, but one women will always lack and feel less than. Imagine having kids, working, businesses, working out, etc. When do you have time to fulfill the emotional needs of 2 different women. On top of all your other responsibilities . I rather work and be single and have my men, than to accept this
    Just say I don’t have the discipline or this monogamy isn’t what I want because his arguments are not strong! It’s bias, and lacks factual evidence of this whole natural thing

    • @mauif7639
      @mauif7639 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i know a lot of monogamous people in the same situation so🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Aliyin369
      @Aliyin369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THANKYOU !!! PPL NEED TO START BEING TRULY HONEST ABOUT THIS TOPIC SO MANY PEOPLE LIE TO THEMSELVES

  • @madeeee123
    @madeeee123 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He talking about he not ok with being touched by one woman for the rest of his life but the woman can’t do the same ??? Double standard

    • @Entrepreneur1017
      @Entrepreneur1017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men and women arent the same 😂

    • @AngelaElikya
      @AngelaElikya ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​​@@Entrepreneur1017 nobody said they were ! But among the thing we have in common there is sexual desire both have that ! Why can't women express their sexual desire of having multiple partner without being shame for it

    • @madeeee123
      @madeeee123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Entrepreneur1017 ok so women in polygamy relationships where they have multiple men and the man has multiple women is not ok??? Or that’s the woman being too masculine?

    • @Entrepreneur1017
      @Entrepreneur1017 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AngelaElikya because masculine men wont tolerate it

    • @shayemoore
      @shayemoore 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's cause he's full of sht. Ya'll better stop listening to these Black fools and do whatever you want to do. Men will only shame you if you let them. Start shaming them back. If you sit back and wait on a man while he's disrespecting you by sleeping with other women, then you're a fool. This idiot is trying to mix "love" with disrespect in his message and unintelligent women fall for it.

  • @CG21_
    @CG21_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    They do not feel him but they respect his opinion and I love that

  • @sumayyahjackson3035
    @sumayyahjackson3035 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this podcast so much!!! But please, don’t put his ass on here ever again 😂

  • @rashayaboston
    @rashayaboston ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Him being a Pisces man explained a lot, sensitive.

    • @ariariKy
      @ariariKy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts 😂 his ego is very fragile

  • @nicmag7238
    @nicmag7238 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The most ideal man for a polygynous relationship is one who is responsible, honorable, thoughtful, caring, ambitious, and successful. Right?
    After watching this, I think a lot of women are offended by this conversation because they don't even have the ability to get that type of man for a monogamous relationship. They simply don't attract that. And that's cool!!!
    Ultimately, I think people just need to stay in their lanes for what works for them.

  • @AnnaM4117
    @AnnaM4117 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I welcome more openly polygamous men into the dating pool. It gives other men the confidence to be honest about what they want. For whatever reason, men like to deny that they too “follow the leader,” but the reality is that it’s human nature to observe the risk of another person before deciding to take the risk (or not) for ourselves. For example, if witnessing the peace of a polygamous man is what it takes for men to be upfront and honest then men need more Mike’s to represent. Simultaneously, peacefully monogamous men should be found more easily 😅

  • @tierrasardine562
    @tierrasardine562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoyed this episode 54:22 ❤ I know the subscription is not for me , I love my dynamic but thank you for sharing.

  • @kyshac81
    @kyshac81 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Although I agree that polygamy is whoever’s business. Mike Rashid is very rudimentary in his ideology about this. What makes humans different from animals is humans have a high degree of cognitive emotional intelligence and communication ability that animals and mammals don’t have. Also all species have “rules” on how offspring is raised and cared for. So comparing humans to animals in terms of sex and procreation does not register and sounds ridiculous. Humans are not animals.

  • @1dyce2
    @1dyce2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I appreciate his perspective and insight. This is the type of polygamy that makes sense to me , it’s true that many Americans can not grasp the concept. It makes way more sense than the cheating etc that many are doing . However a lot of people still wouldn’t be able to handle it because it required discipline, communication and a lot of responsibility. Honesty is of upmost importance and the community it can build is also very important.

  • @ds98368
    @ds98368 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I hate that this conversation is starting to become very popular amongst black men.

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The Eurocentric style of romance ‘monogomy’ is actually a new concept to black men… Before the transatlantic slave trade, polygamy in amongst our people where normal. Like it still is in countries that are predominantly black.

    • @jaajjerm
      @jaajjerm ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MikeRashidOfficial are you an ant, termite, bee, or a hornet?

    • @sclark7577
      @sclark7577 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaajjerm Exactly I’ll like to hear his answer on this one.

    • @sclark7577
      @sclark7577 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diallo Smith: Exactly it’s Ridiculous and we have people like Mike that have Daughters pushing this Foolishness. Lot of things in this world is becoming normal in other words popular. Just bcuz something is popular don’t make it right especially morally. Same sex is popular, transgender, school shootings are popular etc… that don’t make it right I mean that’s common sense.

    • @ds98368
      @ds98368 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MikeRashidOfficial Not entirely true. This also is dependent on religious affiliations. Christians in carribean and Africa we were not participating in this mess lol. And Christianity is an eastern religion.

  • @maryahgreen973
    @maryahgreen973 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    ……I’m glad I have men in my life who don’t have this mindset.😂😂 it boils down to LUST!!

    • @AngelaElikya
      @AngelaElikya ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Definitely! he make it sound so good and sweet just like the devil made eve eat the fruit of the forbideen tree and made seems like it was nothing because the tree had good looking fruit.

    • @brooklynscott7766
      @brooklynscott7766 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AngelaElikya amen sister

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +40

      When I explored a polygamous relationship, it had nothing to do with lust, and everything to do with love. I loved my women enough to be 100% honest with them. I loved my women enough to take care of them in every way.. I loved my women enough to protect them…

    • @osiriswills6749
      @osiriswills6749 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      If all parties involved are in agreement and the man can provide and protect for the women then I don't see the problem.

    • @AlmasiTheSanga
      @AlmasiTheSanga ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@MikeRashidOfficial talk ya sh🤫 Mike 💪🏽😤💎

  • @LexCATL
    @LexCATL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y’all look so uninterested in what he’s saying, and just like other commenters, looks like y’all tuned him out a lot and zoned out 😂. I usually listen on Spotify, but I had to come to TH-cam on this one to see the comments. Glad to see I’m not the only one thinking this is BS.

  • @idks8de926
    @idks8de926 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Questionable episode…

  • @Sunkissednjuly
    @Sunkissednjuly ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the way Duke puts his hand up every time the theme song drop 😂

  • @FaithElle22
    @FaithElle22 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tf was he talking bout?

    • @musuyengbeh755
      @musuyengbeh755 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He just in a funny goofy mood. Just chatting

    • @797sexii
      @797sexii ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not a damn thing

  • @goodtrouble841
    @goodtrouble841 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    47:41 WOWWWWWWW!!!!! not i love my ppl… while incorporating identity politics & victim blaming?!

    • @symeria000
      @symeria000 ปีที่แล้ว

      This! Like yikes. Saw his post on why men date younger women , and that told me all I needed to know. Interesting man though

  • @grahamukachukwu5069
    @grahamukachukwu5069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why duke always quick to end the intro music 😂😂 okay okay okay

  • @rainsoundssleeppeacefully6913
    @rainsoundssleeppeacefully6913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a women new in Polygamy this brought more knowledge to me.❤

  • @Jmdeno86
    @Jmdeno86 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was a scary conversation lol… no judgement whatsoever, HOWEVER, can a woman have multiple partners like he does?
    Or is this still that misogynistic stereotypical mindset ? Yikes..
    I just don’t think this guy looks at women as equal.

    • @saintfreezy6914
      @saintfreezy6914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no because a women wont know who the father is and multiple men will want to lead and itll be chaos

  • @michellemimi8349
    @michellemimi8349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a question for y’all @Duke @Omar @Jalon, do you think that if you hadn’t gone through your messing around stage in ur early twenties would you be loyal to one woman? Do you think that Rashid is right when he says it is men’s DNA to want to be with multiple women? Do you think it is possible for men to be in long term relationships/ marriages and not cheat ?

  • @AliyahMeen
    @AliyahMeen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to be honest, he’s hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kingra1962
    @kingra1962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciated this episode 🤝🏾💯

  • @YNGHeatWave
    @YNGHeatWave 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh this is fire, def. reacting to this one. Major gems.

  • @billgreenidge6740
    @billgreenidge6740 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Bible mentions King David as "a man after God's own heart"...he had eight wives.

  • @robiec5057
    @robiec5057 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG.. 6 min into the interview this man has not finished a thought ... went from animals, slaves, his daughters.Happiness.. divorces....No points has been made.. no question has been asked .. how you gonna do a monologue like this.. lord. People be going into peoples podcast just to talk LOL

  • @The_HonestTruth
    @The_HonestTruth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If done properly, any form of relationships will work. Whether it be monogamous or polygamous relationships. Different strokes for different folks. First you have to be a man of character, a man of understanding, a man who understands women intently and lastly a man of resource. IMO

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He seems really smart but maybe too smart to where he could manipulate you so fast you’d be in this crazy relationship before you know it. I wonder if he likes to share

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s crazy about it. And no I don’t share my women. I’m share my wealth, time, energy, protection, guidance with my women. That’s about all that I share

  • @PUMPINGSHARK
    @PUMPINGSHARK ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Need these conversations.

  • @Sunch.x
    @Sunch.x ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Swans are monogamous 🦢🦢

    • @RedBoneVoodooDoll
      @RedBoneVoodooDoll หลายเดือนก่อน

      I see a lot of monogamous animals I am in nature a lot but I bet this man isn't so how would he know.

  • @luhtrin
    @luhtrin 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact only 1/4 of this show concerned polygamy and the comments are dragging this man for his views you can tell people dont watch things throughout and THATS what’s wrong with our people

  • @vernitusdonwidny7505
    @vernitusdonwidny7505 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice and neat is a very positive podcast and I know Mike diverted from the subject but he’s not like them ya’ll that is his personal beliefs and they brought him in because he is in the space of polygamy

  • @brooklynscott7766
    @brooklynscott7766 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jesus free him of this lifestyle

  • @losangeles4everybody
    @losangeles4everybody ปีที่แล้ว +7

    dang, i keep up with nice and neat every episode, but this guest guy was nottt on the level of the 3 nice and neat guys. he presents himself like he knows all and carries great wisdom but his facade crumbles when putting together what he is trying to say. our 3 hosts are great as always but this episode was so cringe bc of this guest.

    • @thatmarieaj
      @thatmarieaj ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @clueless204
      @clueless204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯 My face was screwed up the whole way through smdh 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @brandonbanire8125
    @brandonbanire8125 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol I swear he sounded much more educated on the subject in Fresh and Fit podcast

  • @AllThingzReal
    @AllThingzReal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dope interview

  • @stacksondeck515
    @stacksondeck515 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love mike but bruh stick to fitness and the mental section of TH-cam.

  • @gaillastof8851
    @gaillastof8851 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not married. Looking to marry and have an open relationship. Need a married polygamist maybe. As he admitted it didn't work.

  • @christopherlewis1017
    @christopherlewis1017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was a dope conversation

  • @raysmith5638
    @raysmith5638 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The first part about women were owned by men is not true i swear people love bringing up slavery when it comes to certain topics 😂

    • @MikeRashidOfficial
      @MikeRashidOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Up until 1882, a married woman was the property of her husband. In 1882 the government enacted a law called The Married Women’s Property Act’ which gave women more freedom, like owning property etc… over time, women recieved more and more freedom…

    • @kyshac81
      @kyshac81 ปีที่แล้ว

      A wife was property of her husband once upon a time.

  • @madvillainy6845
    @madvillainy6845 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    99% people really don't even practice monogamy. Serial monogamy is not monogamy.

  • @chiaraedolce
    @chiaraedolce 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really liked this conversation

  • @SakridSelf
    @SakridSelf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an interesting and educational episode. Super illuminating. But man oh MAN do I have to scrunch my face and side-eye anyone who uses the "logic", "Humans are the only mammals to practice monogamy... iT's NoT iN oUr DnA" Yeah well, humans also don't go around eating their own shit, unlike many other animals. I respect his beliefs and practices as his own. If it works for you, it works for you. But that logic doe... we are sentient beings. There are a lot of things we do as humans that you don't see other creatures doing and vice versa.

  • @derekhawkins9061
    @derekhawkins9061 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This didn’t represent the essence of polygyny. Sad people will see this think this is How it is.

  • @M_Taylor252
    @M_Taylor252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Far as marriage we supposed to be with one spouse give honor to marriage an remain faithful to one another God judge ppl who are immoral an those who commit adultery hebrews 13 verse 4 so ppl don’t get misguided

  • @powerpath659
    @powerpath659 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a cool perspective .

  • @goodtrouble841
    @goodtrouble841 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my issue w/ Rashid is that he throws in a lil truth w/ his BS. he’s full of contradictions & he’s rigid and inflexible on his ideologies. he believes his way is “THE” best way. i hate that for him.
    i used to think he was a cool dude & subscribed to his channel but had to unfollow recently. his interview here… defending Trump… blaming black ppl for their murders (instead of putting the blame on white supremacy), etc. not only proves i made the right choice… but that he’s pro-whyt. which explains his interracial dating & mating choices.
    yet, scientifically, he’s right on evolution of mating…give ‘em that.

  • @haaaileey44
    @haaaileey44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yall missed the mark with this one.

  • @billgreenidge6740
    @billgreenidge6740 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Instead of women fighting over the few good men, maybe peacefully sharing them is a better idea, for those who consent to it.

  • @madeeee123
    @madeeee123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I logged off when he said the woman waiting “like a puppy dog” for him Smfh

  • @itsyourscenttv.7040
    @itsyourscenttv.7040 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish that people who speak would speak with knowledge that is sound.