I find it very hypocritical that a society who passes laws allowing men to marry men and women to marry women, frowns upon polygyny. A man can have a husband, but it’s illegal and considered a sin & bigotry for a man to have multiple wives. 😢
This society is backwards and unnatural. Look what they do to the food and allow. Look at what's legal and illegal and how they treat their citizens. They don't want righteousness or healthy functioning families and or people
You’re right, it is very hypocritical, and one reason is because the powers that be, Greco, Roman colonizers early identified that polygyny as a lifestyle was economic warfare, because families in this lifestyle were fit, self-sufficient, and did not require the governments assistance for anything. So, the government or colonizers saw this as a monumental threat and wanted to make sure that they took it out of the minds of their captors, and that’s why most Black people think that monogamy is natural.
Don't forget the modern contraceptives to help space out the babies because too many pregnancies and succession can also be dangerous for the mom herself.
Very informative study, thank you. Did you by chance speak to co-wives who live in different areas and don't fit the mold of the traditional polygynous model? How do these wives benefit from polygyny when they are pretty much the only wife/mother/caregiver when the husband is with her? Thank you for answering.
I needed this because my wife wants this and I am on the fence with it but I’m trying to be open so I just purchased Dr. Patricia’s book in hopes to better understand this dynamic but from listening to this lecture or introduction, more leaning towards it but I heard it’s hard finding like minded individuals in that community
It's "super" hard finding like-minded people to get wit it. I tried a few times and it blew up in my face...and all I wanna do is help women and restore family. It's extremely hard, especially with women in American culture. They'll fight you hard as hell and all you trying to do is help them. I think the success is with religious women. Muslim and Hebrew women. My thing is I'm not religious. I wish I was tho, because I would grab some Hebrew or Muslim sistas and get busy! You blessed that the woman you're wit desires it. Peace and success to y'all ✊🏾
When you go to the Bible you understand that Moses had two wives Several men of God in the scriptures had multiple wives. The Bible is very clear on this subject It’s men who want to blur the lines because men are the ones in confusion not God. Let God be true and every man a liar.
I am 20min in... and I agree with the practice of Polygyny, however, I see steps of which a man is to follow in order to become a husband to said wives... I also see steps for women to socially co-operate with one another... however, I do not see the steps that a Woman must take in order to be chosen as a legitimate wife... Also, a man having multiple children by multiple women is HELL on earth... it is not an advantage to the man at all, especially with the family court system... While I agree with the practice of Polygyny for many reasons... I think we really need to address what is happening to Men in western society as it pertains to dating, marriage and family Today, in the 21st century.
That's up to the man using his wisdom and discernment to choose a legitimate wife. Like making sure she share your beliefs and submit to your authority. If having multiple children by multiple "Hell on earth", then you have chose wrong. It should make the family better and stronger with a greater support system. When you use wisdom and discernment, the family court system shouldn't be a concern. men and women both have to let go of the western mindset.
sister, If your husband has shown you that you that he loves you, cares for you, provides for you, etc... it would be well for you to continuing to listen to him and discuss it with him (that is not to say that you haven't been). The fact that he told you rather than just went to practice it without you knowing, says volumes. Pray and ask God to lead you, but please don't let your culture, your government, your emotions, or even your friends and family lead you. If God leads you to follow your husband (be ready to face the world, while standing with Husband). God bless.
I just don’t have and feel comfortable in my heart that would be right for him to have multiple wives is something there no matter how much I pray that does not feel right but lately we have kind of left it alone. My husband is 62 and he’s kind of dealing with a few things, I just want him to be happy and healthy and not to have and carry on so many Burton at the moment
I guarantee her mental health is greater than any woman that is in monogamy. She doesn't get anxiety and she doesn't become insecure when another woman comes around her man. Women like this are a gem for ambitious, intelligent, disciplined, and responsible men. Bless her and all that are like her.
There is so much pain in the eyes of these women having to put up with polygamy. It is like they are forced to drink poison but are convincing themselves it is sweet nectar. It is sad knowing you are never enough for your husband, never his soulmate, never the one who completes him because he needs another.
Not there isn't, that's the despair in the eyes of the monogamous people whose marriages fail about 60% of the time. No such thing as the false idea that there is one soul mate, we have many soul mates including our friends. And no such thing as a person completing someone else. All that nonsense comes from your western indoctrination.
I find it very hypocritical that a society who passes laws allowing men to marry men and women to marry women, frowns upon polygyny. A man can have a husband, but it’s illegal and considered a sin & bigotry for a man to have multiple wives. 😢
This society is backwards and unnatural. Look what they do to the food and allow. Look at what's legal and illegal and how they treat their citizens. They don't want righteousness or healthy functioning families and or people
extremely hypocritical!
Because the spirit of America is demonic af.
You’re right, it is very hypocritical, and one reason is because the powers that be, Greco, Roman colonizers early identified that polygyny as a lifestyle was economic warfare, because families in this lifestyle were fit, self-sufficient, and did not require the governments assistance for anything. So, the government or colonizers saw this as a monumental threat and wanted to make sure that they took it out of the minds of their captors, and that’s why most Black people think that monogamy is natural.
Exactly
*I concur. Time to rebuild, Family!* ✊🏿👑❤
Don't forget the modern contraceptives to help space out the babies because too many pregnancies and succession can also be dangerous for the mom herself.
Very informative study, thank you. Did you by chance speak to co-wives who live in different areas and don't fit the mold of the traditional polygynous model? How do these wives benefit from polygyny when they are pretty much the only wife/mother/caregiver when the husband is with her? Thank you for answering.
❤ Great
I needed this because my wife wants this and I am on the fence with it but I’m trying to be open so I just purchased Dr. Patricia’s book in hopes to better understand this dynamic but from listening to this lecture or introduction, more leaning towards it but I heard it’s hard finding like minded individuals in that community
Everything in life worth having and maintaining is hard family… You can do it…
It's "super" hard finding like-minded people to get wit it. I tried a few times and it blew up in my face...and all I wanna do is help women and restore family. It's extremely hard, especially with women in American culture. They'll fight you hard as hell and all you trying to do is help them. I think the success is with religious women. Muslim and Hebrew women. My thing is I'm not religious. I wish I was tho, because I would grab some Hebrew or Muslim sistas and get busy! You blessed that the woman you're wit desires it. Peace and success to y'all ✊🏾
Go to Latin America country or Africa. It's very easy to find girls that want polygamy. I'm sleeping with 3 of them as of recently.
I totally agree with your concept, it's a really good thing for men, women and children !
I'm going to buy the book. Well done 👍
Very informative.
This. Sissta is dropping some SERIOUS KNOWLEDGE!!! 😎
Love this … thank you
Thanks for watching
When you go to the Bible you understand that Moses had two wives
Several men of God in the scriptures had multiple wives. The Bible is very clear on this subject
It’s men who want to blur the lines because men are the ones in confusion not God. Let God be true and every man a liar.
Amen!!!
Democracy is the absolute worst form of “pimpin”….
I am 20min in... and I agree with the practice of Polygyny, however, I see steps of which a man is to follow in order to become a husband to said wives... I also see steps for women to socially co-operate with one another... however, I do not see the steps that a Woman must take in order to be chosen as a legitimate wife...
Also, a man having multiple children by multiple women is HELL on earth... it is not an advantage to the man at all, especially with the family court system...
While I agree with the practice of Polygyny for many reasons... I think we really need to address what is happening to Men in western society as it pertains to dating, marriage and family Today, in the 21st century.
That's up to the man using his wisdom and discernment to choose a legitimate wife. Like making sure she share your beliefs and submit to your authority.
If having multiple children by multiple "Hell on earth", then you have chose wrong. It should make the family better and stronger with a greater support system.
When you use wisdom and discernment, the family court system shouldn't be a concern.
men and women both have to let go of the western mindset.
Facts. @@TheBlackNarrative
😢I agree my husband now want polog
sister, If your husband has shown you that you that he loves you, cares for you, provides for you, etc... it would be well for you to continuing to listen to him and discuss it with him (that is not to say that you haven't been). The fact that he told you rather than just went to practice it without you knowing, says volumes. Pray and ask God to lead you, but please don't let your culture, your government, your emotions, or even your friends and family lead you. If God leads you to follow your husband (be ready to face the world, while standing with Husband). God bless.
I just don’t have and feel comfortable in my heart that would be right for him to have multiple wives is something there no matter how much I pray that does not feel right but lately we have kind of left it alone. My husband is 62 and he’s kind of dealing with a few things, I just want him to be happy and healthy and not to have and carry on so many Burton at the moment
I guarantee her mental health is greater than any woman that is in monogamy. She doesn't get anxiety and she doesn't become insecure when another woman comes around her man. Women like this are a gem for ambitious, intelligent, disciplined, and responsible men. Bless her and all that are like her.
There is so much pain in the eyes of these women having to put up with polygamy. It is like they are forced to drink poison but are convincing themselves it is sweet nectar. It is sad knowing you are never enough for your husband, never his soulmate, never the one who completes him because he needs another.
Not there isn't, that's the despair in the eyes of the monogamous people whose marriages fail about 60% of the time. No such thing as the false idea that there is one soul mate, we have many soul mates including our friends. And no such thing as a person completing someone else. All that nonsense comes from your western indoctrination.