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HOW TO FIND YOUR SOUL MATE
How in the world do you find your SOUL MATE? Or is there even such a thing? The idea of a soul mate comes is heavily influenced by what we see today in our culture. But is the concept of a soul mate biblical?
“We spend time on finding the right person instead of being the right person” AMEN
this is so true
if you find a woman and you wanna marry her, pray for her and your marriage, I repeat, PRAY
But women do not listen to god, they only want a prize trophey.
Pat Saxon all are wicked even god
@@patsaxon5284 😂😂 not all are like that
Pat Saxon well I guess God has called you to be single
AMEN
God closes doors in relationships sometimes because He has someone else better for you in mind- so I believe God’s a match maker, waiting on my Boaz
I can excuse women waiting, but your boaz might be old, a bit fat and not much rich, will you accept him like that?
God gives us guidelines. Feelings change, people change, we change. Don’t be addicted to the feelings and don’t make actions based off of them. Stay on track Jenee’ STAY ON TRACK.
This is a year later but I love how you phrased this and I hope you're still on track Jenee'!
God Bless.
why do so many people make having a man/woman such a big deal? I personally believe the church talks entirely too much about being married and not enough time with discipling people when they are single. Just as much development needs to be put towards being single as it is towards being married.
C Horton I agree! Well said.
I'm not trying to sound cynical this is just my belief from observation and personal experience over the years. If we get it together when we are single there is less of a chance of one having a dysfunctional ungodly marriage. This is why so many people have a negative view of marriage. If we'd just take care of the baggage when we're single it can make things a lot easier.
Amen!!! So true.
C H I know right like being single is bad thing or try pressure others to marry who arent ment for each other.
Secrets
I really think the Reason for me being Single is that now i need to build a Relationship with God to even have a good Foundation. I just recently found God and accepted him in my Life after having 26 years of constant Sorrow and living in the Flesh! Im grateful and definitely taking Time to seek and build a Relationship with the Lord first! Glory to God everything in his timing and his Will amen 🙏🏽
"Sustain, maintain, & build a godly relationship" 🙌🏽👏🏽
Gods direction and protection!
Proverbs 16:9 A man heart deviseth his way but the Lord directeth his steps!
So why am I doing all of this and I'm still feeling alone
@@shawnwhitejr.4759 it does feel lonely sometimes but that could be our perception. I realized that mine comes from trauma. So my projection is abandonment. But God wants us to seek Him before the rest & in so being reliant on Him & learning His ways, we gain peace that doesn't meet our human logic. I think getting involved in a grow group or a community of like-minded individuals would be very beneficial in your walk. It has helped me tremendously aside from therapy, mentors, & a life coach.
Dear Lord please bless me with a Wife if it is your Will. Thank you Alan
Lord Jesus, please bless Alan with a lovely, god fearing and wonderful wife according to your right time. AMEN!
@Cat Valentine hahahaha... so u only pray at church? Thats sad
How are you doing Alan?
@@dhineshkumar2795 GOD
Yes lord me too.
Thank the Lord for this video. Our first fidelity is to God and He will direct our path, even in finding a complementary mate.
I am in TOTAL unity on what you said! Many christian men and women who look for a partner on life normally forget about themselves spiritually and then end up in the. wrong type of relationship.
Keep this up man really enjoyed this topic (helps me as a youth leader and single)
Thank you so much. God bless,
The concept of a soul mate is congruent with God's will for us. Pray to God and ask who your wife/husband is meant to be. He showed me mine in a dream.
parnel Harris How Did That Happen ?
I preyed for mine, and God told me who it will be, but since God told me, i took her for granted, and she broke up with me, then God told me to be wise in him first, so he can give me another chance with this person in the future when we are both ready. This all happend because i prayed for who God was willing me to marry, at the beginning i was surprised, because i dint like that person. But now im clear.
So problem number 5 did happen. But God forgave me. He told me he would give me another chance
Is she a while girl?
@@starscream6949 indeed
The belief of having a "soul mate" originates from Greek mythology
All esoteric teachings talk about this, too complicated for "normal meanstream christians" I guess.
After reading these comments, I can only be a little disappointed guys. This is whats wrong with christians today, they hear something, feel something, been taught something and they hold onto it for so long. Then they come to the God's word expecting to find it in there, and when they can't find it in there, they read it in and cram it into a passage.
Accept it, the concept of a "soul mate" is a pagan idea, and found no where in God's word.
"What God has joined together, let no man separate"
-Jesus talking about marriage from mark 10-9
If GOD has joined two people together, its safe to say that he has chosen those two for one another. Whether or not they work to have a satisfying and long lasting relationship is on them.
Call it what you want, perhaps the term "soulmate" isn't the best as its too romanticized, but there is plenty of biblical evidence of God bringing two people together, sometimes even straight up choosing a dudes wife for him!
F or this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother [to establish a home with his wife], and the two shall become one flesh ; so that they are no longer two, but [are united as] one flesh. Therefore, what God has united and joined together, man must not separate [by divorce].”
MARK 10:7-9 AMP
Joined through marriage...
true! I know many men who said God specificaly told them that's there wife off the first moment they met them.
I believe we have soulmates for sure!
What God has joined through marriage when you say your vows in front of Him at the church.
Thank you. I'm going to start praying different and asking God to let the man he has chose for me to pursue me
This channels usually spot on!! Nice to hear a real Christian give biblical opinions 👌
I love your videos! But I disagree with you on this topic. Maybe everyone gets hung up on the "soul Mate" title , but the Bible says God orders pur steps (followers) we ask God what jobs to take, what houses and cars to buy, and He guides us in these choices. There are many houses , jobs, etc.. but God tells you while one to purchase. So why would He not lead you in one of the most important decisions of your life? " soul mate" implies that everything will be perfect but it won't be . just because God shows you who to marry. But when God blessed you it doesn't mean smooth sailing. In fact I have learned that with Blessings come test. If you put your faith in God He will guide you to the one He wants you to be with. It is about His will not ours. He had s plan for you before He made you, and that includes a mate for you.
I prayed for a good husband, I truly believe I was blessed with a good man I know i was going to marry him and he did but God comes first for me personally and respectfully think that I am to love my husband because God brought him in my life I no longer belong to the world but to God however I am still in the flesh I love God so much because he has been the one who blessed me so its all about God my heavenly father and one day I will see him and i believe i worship a worthy king I will live my life for him now and enjoy it because he saved my life and literally saved me two years ago
I can't ever thank him enough
Holy holy holy lord god almighty who was and is and is to come
I want him involved in every thing I do
But I know that I am still human, but yes exactly I need Jesus amen God bless you all
Very well said, in the billions of people there are on this earth many will catch our attention and we'll 'click' and feel comfortable with a lot of them. But chosing one who we can live with for the rest of our lives is hard if we rely on our feelings alone, we need to consult with God and pray over it! God bless your channel.
Thank you so much for sharing this commonly misconceived topic. Too many people are focused on the 'perfect' human relationship rather than building on our relationship with God who is ALL that we need
I found her almost 32 years ago! We became more and more so. This year 31 years married! ❤
This message was like dynamite!💥💥💥Blowing up all the lies we have heard and believed. Thank you!
Thanks Minister Parr! You are the bomb! Very knowledgeable in the word and explained very well Sir 👍 I will say for those who are Christian wanting a spouse, you must pray for your husband/ wife bc so many people are very deceiving and then you end up unequally yoked. It is imperative to ask God to send you that person, and he indeed will. Please know that once you receive that person, he or she is not perfect and may have all types of flaws which is why it is so important to hear from God on this, a person can not complete you. They are there to help you build and go through this thing called life and be a companion. So many people are hurt bc the one they thought was "the one" is not perfectly fitting into their plan of what they wanted. Understand nobody is perfect, not even your so called soul mate. But pray to God on all things, put him first and the rest be added to you. Be blessed ❤️
Practical and easy to understand. It definitely takes away some of the crazy myths that we sometimes have about soulmate relationships.
Your page is such a blessing!
S S Girllll yes it is
Thanks for these videos brother! I for a very long time didn’t know that about the soul mate theory. Thank you for bringing light to it!
I love all of your videos! You do so well talking about things in simple ways, even if they are difficult subjects to understand (ex. Book of Revelation). I appreciate everything you do and thank you for your willingness to help us learn so we can grow and became examples of Christ.
Dramagirl131 thanks so much Dramagirl! I appreciate you sharing that with me. I look forward to creating lots of new videos every week.
I should be studying here I am binge watching on your video such a refreshing feeling every time
Amen brother. GOD BLESS YOU & please continue this great work.
This is AWESOME information!!! Thank you so much for this video!!
Love your Wisdom, bro!
Great teaching! Thank you Allen Parr
Well now I see I need to work more on myself...
Thanks Allen GREAT WISDOM AND VID!!!
You are right
Content is just so accurate and biblical 🥴🥴🙏🏽🙏🏽
Love it, I share your videos with my Facebook group..your teachings are on point!!!
Brother, you not that nail on the head. I don't know if I have found mine, but she fits the description that you gave. Great and sardine video, is very enlightening. Keep them coming.
Great vid as always, thanks.
Excellent video. It would have been nice to mention first that our relationship With God will guide us to make no mistake when choosing our partner...😊
This is so true, so many people say about soulmate, mostly women that’s because it’s based on feelings. Thank you for sharing this video.
I am enjoying your vids and messages. New to faith and the Bible. Much to learn. My path is just beginning 🙏
Great video. I agree, we tend to take our worldly views about relationships and then try and apply biblical concepts to try and make it work.
This kind of video and advice is priceless 💕
Thank you Allen for this advice, very helpful for where I am at the moment.
I definitely don't believe in soulmates anymore. Jesus is our soulmate. Paul was celibate. Marriage is for sanctification and a definite gift from God, but not necessary for every person. I think we should all just run head first towards God and if you so happen to find a person willing to run with you then you may have something. Also, Paul describes our relationship with Jesus as a marriage in and if itself. When we become focused on each other we are in danger of making idols out of one another.
Haven't heard truer words in a while
That's a logical fallacy (Post hoc ergo propter hoc) just because some people don't have "soulmates" because god determined them to be single doesn't mean no one has a "soulmate". And by soulmate i mean someone determined by god to be with someone else, not the fairy tail soulmate
True
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@ Sarah Henderson
There is definitely no such thing as a "soul mate". Christ is no husband to individuals , he is a husband to a church ! Not the same thing at all.
Marriage is not for sanctification. Marriage is for keeping us away from temptations
" In order to avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife and every woman have her husband" 1 Co 7:4
Marriage is for being fruitful and multiply as well.
You are preaching dangerous nonsense.
Man, this is so good brother Allen. I really appreciate your videos. God bless you brother.
yes to we women praying to find a life partner..God bless him
I love your videos. Thank God for you and God bless you brother.
Thanks for the video great content shout out from south Africa
Hi! This is awesome. And yes.. I am convinced. But, I was confused when I came to the story of Rebekah and Isaac. How can you relate this story about praying for guidance on how to know the specific person to be their wife/husband? Thank you in advance. 😊 God bless you!
I realized that I need to change myself first. Especially that "selfless" part. (Well I realized this sometime ago but this video strengthened that realization). It will take time because I haven't moved on from my last relationship yet (and the fact that this very woman is the one He used to make me know Him; meaning I'm with this woman every Sunday so it's harder to move on). I have to love and serve God before anyone else first.
Hey Allen, the way I see "the one" is the person God knows that I will marry. God knows the future and knows which person it will be, but is there a way that I can know if a certain person is that person?
Wow Allen this really was informative
Thanks Alan for confirming what i always had in mind.may God continue to enrich you with more spiritual food, in Jesus name.
Thank you so much! God bless you and your family!
Your simple and right to the point. Thank you...
This is awesome!
Thank you for awakening and the revelation of God's message..
God Bless..
What about Genesis? Adam was put into a deep sleep and Eve was fashioned from his rib and presented to him by God. The way I interpret this is, Eve completes Adam and Adam completes Eve. They need each other in order to function at their best capacity but are separated by sin and cast out of the garden (Unable to walk with God in real peace)
Ribs can’t be independent without a body and the body needs the rib. I recently met someone and I’ve been led back to scripture multiple times plus gotten several confirmations and before I saw this I read that the concept of soul mates isn’t biblical. I also learned about it in High school. The concept itself is rooted in Greek Mythology.
But anyway.
I believe that the man I’m currently talking to is my husband for the season I’m in. I would really like help with this. I’ve been prompted to pray for him way before we met by the Holy Spirit and there are details about the both of us that no one but God knows that compliment each other.
Great points!
Thank you, great answer your Options resonates with me, nicely done, young man. Peace be with you. Bill H ii
This made me realize a contradictory most people have in life. Most people now a days agree there's no such thing Mr/Ms. Right. On the flip side however those same people believe in the concept of a "soul mate".
Thank you for the video
This video was significantly helpful.
Good word brother.
Thanks Bryan
I just saw this video ooh my lovely Jesus this is one of the best videos you ever made ...may the quorum bless you and your viewers....This is truth nothing else but the truth and sad that in churches we djnt teach this truth even Pastors tell us to wait for the one . 🙏 wisdom 🙌
My the Lord 'auto correct quorum "
Thank you for the ' Can he provide' part. Many people like to guilt trip women for looking for a man that can provide for them. They deem it gold-digging.
Wow😲 I need to start being a better future wife for my future husband 👍 sorry Almighty for having so much expectations from my future husband. Dear future husbands I promise I’ll be a better future wife but God is first
Wow this is an eye opening Am bless thank you brother God bless u
Biblically based and sound advice. Thanks!!!
Good stuff Allen!
Hey Dan, thanks so much man! It was great to see you again the other day. My wife and I enjoyed service. I hope all is well with you, your family and the Chase Oaks community.
Thank you so much Brother Allen for this video. Yes, I agree, we should not be looking for a soul mate, which comes out of the fairytales, love stories and romance novels which propogates this idea of the one and only....the church also picked up on this and taught this for decades. I agree that its not biblical and rather a secular/worldly concept. And I do agree that we should focusing on ourselves as being the right person rather than looking for the right one, The book which also inspired me is God is a Matchmaker by Derek Prince, how God led this minister to the right woman who was the pillar of his ministry., and he shares very deep, biblical principles in this book. Well, at 54 I am still single but prayerfully seeking God that He will lead me or connect me to a godly man who will invite me to share his life. God bless!
Lol I have began watching your videos and once I seen the title I was about to turn away from your videos 😂 Good think I watched to see what you say 😂😂
God bless and thank you for your obedience and I want to grow closer to God and be used by Him.
Nice video bro! I think a soulmate or the right one is just basically a person you are "PHYSICALLY & MENTALLY" attracted too. If both attractions isn't in the relationship, it simply won't work.
And I believe Christians should strive to LOVE LIKE JESUS and become DISCIPLES of Christ before getting married...that way the man will have the strength and courage to LOVE HIS WIFE LIKE HOW CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH and the wife will have the strength and courage to RESPECT & LOVE her husband like she does God. Because let's be honest...most Christian divorces are coming from "babes in Christ aka Believers of Christ" not MATURE CHRISTIANS aka Disciples of Christ.
I'm laughing so hard right now at the truth of there not being any mention of a soulmate in the bible. This was an awesome video! Thanks a lot. God bless.
Yeah but its fine
Jonathan and David were soulmates!!! Remember, soulmates don't have to be romantic.
Yes Bro. ..this is the exact truth ..👍👍 thank u so much this is wt I needed most
Good day. Allen i just want to know how do you understand, Saint Matthew 19:6, based on your video. How To Find Your Soul Mate ?
Thank God for this video! I have been recently trying to speak to my friends and sharing them the new revelation I myself learned (have been questioning my own beliefs through the prism of the BIBLE) that the notion of soulmate is not biblical or spiritual but just a worldly lie to hinder people to actually work on their marriage with the person that they chose to marry by saying the vows to God to work on godly marriage that glorifies God in every aspect of the union as God intended marriages to be.
Great advice...
Awesome awesome just awesome. We think so alike sir!! How can I contact you?
This definitely was for me at the right time. Thank you Jesus Christ !!
samething i said..as im praying to find my life partner that i will love and respect and he will the same thing to me too
I am the right person that is why I want to meet the right person. Or I am waiting for the right person to find me.
Wow this video is great I didn't know this
so Adam and Eve were.....what? a random match probability couple? or perfectly designed to fit each other mind spirit body and soul...? jus sayin
No such thing as being "meant to be" just saying
They didn't have many options...
adam and eve were god ordained yes, bible says he did not want him to be alone (i think) yet also paul in new testament was single, his love was the betterment of other via chirst.
Excellent point my friend!
I agree, it’s laughable when videos like this try to give an absolute answer when they didn’t study the new testament relationships well.
Also just look at the concept of the bride of Christ, we were chosen to be part of the church/bride before we were born.
I don’t believe in free will. The one and a soulmate are the same thing.
I'm claiming it 🙋🏾
I’m 51 years old and have been turned down for dates so many times and 2 marriages that I have lost all interest.
I’m better off being alone.
Or maybe God wants me to to test Artificial Intelligence as a spouse.
Thank you it truly helped me
I will say this, he makes a lot of good points, but I have to disagree slightly with the part about God not choosing the one for you. I believe there are practical steps on how to hook up with whoever you end up with, but I also believe the weight of that rests upon a person's personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. And relying on his wisdom add voice to guide you. There are different ways many couples end up getting together, but I do believe in some instances, God will guide you to and speak to you about a particular person u should or shouldn't be with. I know from personal experience.
Spot on! Thank you!!
Hey I'm a young man who loves God and would love to get married. I really love this video and agree with every point, but I'm struggling right now with patience as it relates to a marriage. I need to learn in this season of my life to wait for Gods timing for me because I still sense that He has a lot to teach me and a lot of molding in me yet to do, how do I remain patient in that process? Any tips?
i dont know how to thank you Allen, you are just the prove God exists...so much wisdom in your videos...you are one of my mentors now...CAN YOU MAKE A VID ON MASTERBATION? is it a sin o not?? thank you
Hey Kyei, thank you so much for those kind words. I really am thankful. I actually made a video on Masturbation about 2-3 weeks ago. Here is the link. th-cam.com/video/hV2IA3nW0Bs/w-d-xo.html
Can I ask a honest question. How do you know if she is the one for you? Or how do you know if that is the spouse right for you?
Cara, muito bom! Parabéns!
Hi. Do people with the Baptism of the Holy Spirit burn with passion?
Thank you my brother in Christ, really useful.
1° Christianity is all about family my friends!!
2° PRAY!
Hello Mr Parr! Great message as always but I have a question. Marriages used to be arranged. You don't see much of this in the US these days. So, where does dating come in?
Tammy Davis hey Tammy sorry for the delay. Yeah dating isn't talked about much at all in the bible for whatever reason. It wasn't part of their culture at the time. However that is why I believe God gives us wisdom and principles to look at because as you said, there is no clear cut formula for saying and courtship in the bible.
Bam...drops mic thank you . because they don't talk about this in church really
No, they don't. You are right! And thank you for your question on the Sabbath. God bless you Melonie,
For me I would like a husband to love GOD more than me and then me. Does that make sense?
Arg 😣.... I kept thinking their is something like someone meant for us... Thank you soo much for making this video thank God he showed me this vid when I'm only 20.
There is a reason why Allan Parr leaves his comments section open and his critics don't.
Thank you for your work
Thanks for explaing.
I do agree that us humans do take beautiful things and destroy them.The concept of soulmates,can only come from {GOD} himself,even though you stated it is not in the Bible.What I mean is,if god informs someone about who they ought to marry,so they can have the best possible life together,then the two persons he {chose} to {put together} are indeed {soulmates}.Because we all are ultimately souls,looking for our mates.But us humans beings used the term soulmates so loosely,therefore the inherent goodness,of this concept is lost.
I receive all of this !!!