AITA for excluding my 5-year-old sister from my wedding unless she gets therapy before the wedding

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @sorgius01
    @sorgius01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The 2nd story: It's the curious case of the bullet dodging you.

  • @SapphireExile
    @SapphireExile 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The nine year old shouldn't be parenting the five year old. Tf is wrong with these parents?

  • @nekoneko8164
    @nekoneko8164 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    the bio parents' neglect affects her more than one way , op need to take her siblings to therapy

  • @MadisonWilliams-sq4dw
    @MadisonWilliams-sq4dw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It is not okay for a 5yo to have a "crush" on a grown man or act that way about the situation... Therapy would be a good idea...

    • @itaczkee9106
      @itaczkee9106 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it is pretty normal. It's not a crush in a literal sense

    • @MadisonWilliams-sq4dw
      @MadisonWilliams-sq4dw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Still not okay...

  • @Joey15811
    @Joey15811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    S2: he can sort his own food and OP her own food.

  • @kgabisopoto5039
    @kgabisopoto5039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    NTA that is not normal behaviour

  • @josieegold6758
    @josieegold6758 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why couldn't he make his own spaghetti

  • @mzmindmybizness
    @mzmindmybizness 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Get that baby some help nothing wrong with letting her talk to someone trained in child psychology when a child acts out they don't know how to articulate their feelings so something is going on not always bad but just to help her cope. Because when she gets older when she doesn't get her way then bigger issues can arise, we've heard stories about little girls who make up tales about the adults doing something bad to them better to get to the root of the problem now good luck.

    • @SwillTheDrill
      @SwillTheDrill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude, she’s being violent. Just give her light disciplining and she’ll stop.

    • @SwillTheDrill
      @SwillTheDrill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There’s no point in wasting money on therapy for a 5 year old. Western ideology is actually stupid.

    • @goneforgood7034
      @goneforgood7034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SwillTheDrilluh that’s not going to always work. Best to do both but to guide her in therapy and at home.

  • @mamasplayinhookie3131
    @mamasplayinhookie3131 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As a time out parent myself please understand that there are times when you need to bust ass. My nephew was violent as a child until my brother put the fear of god into him. Never violently attacked anyone after that.

    • @SwillTheDrill
      @SwillTheDrill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, exactly.

  • @nasraabdullah6935
    @nasraabdullah6935 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    S2: She is a great mom

  • @chancefield
    @chancefield 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This would be a compelling Stanley Kubrick movie!

  • @Joey15811
    @Joey15811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ops dad and the kids mins sound like poor excuses. Id become guardians of the older 2 but the 5 year old unless shes put on therapy not a chance. She can stay with her parents or put into system. She’s a danger to OP. So yeah, harsh but she need putting into therapy soon as by whoever.
    I don’t think its fair for OP to deal with her while waiting for therapy to work. Especially after she’s put her in hospital.

  • @SwillTheDrill
    @SwillTheDrill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t understand this. She’s a 5 year old who has a crush on your fiance and you’re banning her from your wedding? Seriously? You’re more immature than her.

    • @dcayongang
      @dcayongang 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      She could ruin the wedding while having a tantrum. I'd say she ain't going

    • @ravanpee1325
      @ravanpee1325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      She acts violently and needs help

    • @dcayongang
      @dcayongang 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@ravanpee1325 fr

    • @ravanpee1325
      @ravanpee1325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@dcayongang The OP was in the hospital because of an attack, do you honestly think that is normal for a child to physically harm other adults?

    • @Joey15811
      @Joey15811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Are you for real? She’s aggressive and will ruin the wedding.

  • @Joey15811
    @Joey15811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ops dad and the kids mins sound like poor excuses. Id become guardians of the older 2 but the 5 year old unless shes put on therapy not a chance. She can stay with her parents or put into system. She’s a danger to OP. So yeah, harsh but she need putting into therapy soon as by whoever.
    I don’t think its fair for OP to deal with her while waiting for therapy to work. Especially after she’s put her in hospital.

    • @NM-ub6ml
      @NM-ub6ml 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Once they are guardians they can get the kid unto therapy. Sounds like the 5 year old has daddy issues

    • @NM-ub6ml
      @NM-ub6ml 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also mommy issues!