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0_o Right in front of the kids? What scumbags! Family is as family does!

Yeah no. It's bs that they feel that way, but it is what it is. The issue is the fact that they so blatantly said that out loud in front of the kids and see no problem at all. That is heartless and cruel. Those kids have been their grandkids for years and they were apparently only good enough as placeholders until they had "real" grandchildren. So gross. They wanted real family, they can stay with their 'real' family since it's so important to them. I'm glad the brother and SiL are supporting OP

I’m not defending it but there is a difference. If OP and her wife divorced then the kids would be gone from the grandparents life unlike if the bio grandkids parents split (Edited to add, just hit the adoption part so the parents were way wrong but the comment stands generally)

Grandparents didn't lie... but they coulda just not said anything

Even if they believe what they said some things are better left unsaid.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!?!*

She is ho bro 50 dude how much std dose have

Any further update?

Then you need to bring your food to the Christmas dinner

Dump her. She going back on her word. How can you trust her?

If it's in hindi so it's in India so I can say that it's 90 percent the truth and we can get anything in India if we pay right and that's even in the budget so

Husband fafo 😂😂 I have no sympathy for him. There’s a big difference between “wife I’m not attracted to your weight, we need to see other people so I can get off. You have to agree with this” and “wife I’m not attracted to your weight, can you start loosing weight. What can I do to help facilitate this?”

You should've brought your own food. Why mess up Christmas for everyone else

Uh, I'm not a US citizen, yet still find it odd.

If the update was posted the same day as the original just 4 hours later, (and then again 1 more hour later) why on earth would OP keep saying that she hadn't been able to sleep at all? Like, why would not sleeping in the 5 hours post a an extremely distressing incident or really any kind of incident be at all remark worthy? So stupid.

"Be carefull what you wish for...." somebody smart said. He thought you are not going to find partners, so only he would have the "open marriage".

He's a cheating POS, Id not have let him in delivery room or have a say in naming the baby either.. As for what his family thinks, tell them you no longer have to pretend to give a damn what they think... Child support and other stuff he has to pay is him supporting his kids; and deserves no brea k from you..

1:20 For shorts

Very good video

He lost the right to be in the delivery room when he cheated and caused stress and issues. Him being in the room adds stress to her and the baby, and could've caused complications. I love that he has decided that having to pay for his kids is too much- and that he can do whatever he wants but she doesn't get to date 🤦‍♀️ He is trash. And so is the ex friend. Both trash. OP is better off without them.

This is unhinged...

I'm so glad OP was able to get out of his own head and out of his own way to suphis partner.

YTA

Hahaha the first advice in the post is hilarious, she has a reputation for getting dubbel teamed at company events and the advice is that she might get a reputation if OP don't go with her. Any reputation she gets will be an imrovment to the one she has now

NTA

At least it will end well for OP and her bf. Her family sucks, but they're not letting this tear them apart

Nta

If my dad said “figure it out” while I was out of gas on a back road, I’d call a friend for a pick up, leave the car there then ignore any calls that would come back and tell dad I was ok. Stage it like an abduction

Ahe is toxic but not wrong

Gaslighting 101

"I'm not gonna DNA test my kid". Fine your monkey your circus.

What a pathetic doormat cuck! Grow a spine, along with those balls, man. 50+ men? Threesome with coworkers who call her a whore, etc. ? Are you kidding me, right now? Absolutely whipped.

I really get it if she doesn't want to raise his kid, but it's absolutely unacceptable to mistrate a child. And its not even the nieces fault, she is just trying to exist. It really shows that the gf is not a really good person

Open marriage is just looking for consent so they wouldnt need to hide affair ,cheaters are trash regardless of gender

I'm sorry this simp is whipped

Is this guy a brick headed person? After knowing the history of the parties he is still with her. Bravo.

Normally I would say yes because it’s a prank. After hearing the details, girl run from those aholes. Show yourself a modicum of self respect and go nc. Put yourself around people with positive energy and build you.

if you do not feel comfortable with the situation, do not go. i would see this as red flags and possible look to the future. is this really the type of woman you want a future with? Do not be shamed into your decision also.

This just all over rhe place at the start

… you do you I guess. Sounds like you are being gas lit into accepting an extremely uncomfortable situation.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*

Yep U are

YES U ARE ITS SUPPOSED TO BE FOR THE MOTHER NOT THE DAUGHTER

First off set rules. And I am sure she van put him in daycare. And as a black women u have to let them know u ain't the one I am not your babysitter. And your son should have told her how u are so she won't use race as a excuse to drop him off on u

I honestly get both sides. He wants his girlfriend to help raise a child, and didn’t even speak with her about it. While it is tragic to expect a gf to raise a kid, give up her personal space, and time isn’t small. Op isn’t wrong for picking his niece but I get why the gf isn’t happy. I’m child free and if my boyfriend did this, I wouldn’t be angry but I leave.

That sounds like he is insecure! Do he still have feelings for her? Is the girlfriend afraid he will want her back. Sounds like both of them have issues and he has some nerve asking her to stay away after they both went on with their life .and don't see each other often ! Man shut up

Its your niece, call her that . Not hard to explain your brothers daughter and you are now the active uncle. As far as your partner, if she cant or doesnt believe in helping family, why would you want to start a family with her ?

Literally none of this woulda happened if she had just taken his initial concerns seriously and set boundaries with the guy friend making him uncomfortable. Then he woulda been reassured and not worry anywhere as much. (Im a girl)

Nooope!!! You are a very consideration person!!!! And it's the thought that counts!!! Be well , be happy.... I'm sure she will love the thought and the sentiment!!❤❤❤

Get a dna test for ur kids