Tell Dad that HE needs to man up and stop fathering children that neither he nor your mother want to raise themselves. If he'd had a vasectomy years ago, you would never have been burdened with so many kids.
basically he was in a abusive home, got out, making bank and his parents meanwhile are starting up drama left and right as if its a giant chocolate fountain. bloody hell.. what in the uncle sam are those parents even doing raising kids in the first place? makes me wish emotional and mental abuse would be considered abuse in the eyes of the law.
legally speaking in most places if serious enough and proven by a psych eval to be detrimental to the child emotional and mental abuse of a severe enough nature it can be treated just as harsh legally as physical abuse the problem is it is so hard to prove.
@@Katarnstar Doesn't matter, it would hit their credit and stay there for YEARS and financial judgement activity THEY caused CANNOT be discharged in bankruptcies AND he can garnish their wages
There are things that I would like to say: 1. I feel bad for the baby. 2. I feel bad for the siblings. 3. and I feel bad for OP Because what they all have in common is they have narcissistic parents from hell so I hope OPN his siblings can move on and the baby can go off to heaven 😔
I don't think that is an option cause he has 4 siblings who he likes to have contact with that still live with his parents. He only don't want to parent them. And these are the kind of lunatics that don't stop after blocking. He would have to leave town and get a new number to be away from them.
It's not always that easy. You still love them, but you resent them for being so self centered. Also, you siblings aren't to blame for your parents being so self centered and dense. Your siblings may go through the same thing you are when they decide to leave the house and you wanna be there for them cause you know how they are.
You are not the monster. You are the hero. They cast you aside to lighten the load and tried to force you back, multiple times, to benefit them. Live well and try to keep your sibs within your purview. They will need it!❤
@@zulaikagould9230 Yes, and they're the ones that are having the babysitting dumped on them now that OP has refused and proven that he's willing to call the cops over it. There are five kids, not including the miscarriage, the 16 and 13 year-olds are the two oldest after OP.
story could be fake but iv also found controlling people aren't good with change they didn't make so making OP look after them all again like when they were younger is probs less about needing to and more a power move on OP. people like this are exhausting i thank god my family are lovely and all the narcissistic clowns iv dealt with are strangers I could axe socially.
@@lordsathariel4384 "babysitting a 16 year old" doesn't even happen in this story. People have misunderstood because they were half-listening and their minds grabbed onto the only numbers presented. The 16 and 13 year-olds are not the ones being babysat, they are the second- and third-oldest of a five-kid sibling group (and eventually got the babysitting dumped on them when OP proved he's willing to call the cops). The youngest siblings are the ones being babysat, but their ages aren't listed.
If you don’t want to pay a fine for child abandonment, just don’t abandon your children?? Also, I don’t understand how the dad thought it was op’s fault the mum slipped and lost the baby because he wasn’t living with them. _She slipped,_ how was op being present in the house going to help? Plus she was the one who overslept while having a nap before a doctor’s appointment. Either set an alarm so you don’t oversleep when you know you have an appointment, or if you’re a heavy sleeper and would sleep through an alarm, make sure someone can wake you at the right time or just _don’t have a nap when you need to be somewhere at a specific time._
Good for you for standing up for yourself. Your mom needs to be in jail for leaving your siblings at your door step. Sorry that your parents were awful to you and you deserve better.
God, I actually had a mother AND a sister like this. There were four of us, but one of my sisters was the only one my mother really cared about, which sucked as that sister became my one and only childhood bully and was so vicious she was forced by the courts to live in a group home for "troubled" teens and the age of 13! Ahhhh nostalgia! 😬
There is nothing wrong with spending time with siblings, but it should not be forced. Being the eldest doesn't mean you have to put up with your narcissistic parents' abuse. The parents want to transfer their parenting responsibility on their son. Wow woo! When do they stop making babies that they can't look after. Beating up a parent shouldn't happen though. The younger siblings have poor role models unfortunately.
Sometimes you have to be a monster to protect the ones you love but know this to the parents hes the monster to the siblings hes the hero it depends on the point of view of the person
I'm a Female , my "Father" tried to Physically fight me Once when I was in my mid-teens , he punched me once , with All his Lack of might , I barely felt it , I punched back (Gang Member back then , I liked to Hurt People) , and Broke his Nose , we NEVER had another fight.
Whether this story is true or not, people should never have children if they can’t afford nor have the time and energy to look after them. I honestly hate people like this.
OP and his eldest Siblings should report the Parents to CPS for Child Neglect and Child Abuse for forcing the older siblings to raise the younger ones...not to mention forcing OP out and abandoning his younger siblings at OP's doorsteps... I would have... And if his Parents actually Sue OP, he can easily Countersue for all the Abuse and Harassment they heaped on him over the years... I'd go full No Contact with the Parents and only maintain contact with his Siblings to make sure they have the chance to get out when they turn 19...
Where do these people get off? Why do they think they are in charge of a grown man and his activities and money? It's unreal. The last thing your family needs is another child that they can't take care of. My suggestion is to move and stop ALL communication with those 2!
Sir this got this far because of you!! You allowed them to keep taking to you, you kept going to them. No contact except with siblings when they’re 18.
I like this new story it’s a lot different than what keeps getting rehashed with a few changes to change the story but in the end it’s the same story . Keep up the good work….
I will never understand people who believe in getting their wife pregnant or letting their husband get them pregnant, raising the first child up alone until that child is old enough to help ie. raise the rest of their siblings. They believe they are actual parents and deserve to be respected as a man or woman of the house, instead of as people who roll around making the babies. While barely making enough money to house and feed the children, they treat their older children as indentured servants, making them work and take their money. It is heartbreaking to discover how many parents exploit their children, for time money, and or labor while insisting they are inferior and have no right to speak up for themselves. They are grown enough to work and carry adult responsibilities yet never deserve respect as children or adults. In my humble opinion, parents like this are hypocritical and want the title without the actual responsibilities.
This story is an old one. It’s been around a long time. I BET MONEY all the brothers are gone from the house and barely even try to talk to the parents. This is the most insane story BECAUSE the parents ACTUALLY BELIEVE they are in the right for this. That is the insane part to me. They are seriously MENTALLY ILL. Some of the worst parents I’ve read about on here. Just so flipping full of themselves. Dad sure learned a lesson about picking on his kid like that. What a loser. Can’t even afford the kids he made. The mom should close her legs
It’s AI generated, most of these stories use AI. Most real life people don’t type like that, like extremely proper sentences especially younger people.
@@uhhgreetings1954 Yes sometimes I write using big words like this but I don't repeat words and phrases .. And use out of place idioms that are strange so I guess that's how you identify AI currently
Glad you got out when you did. My own parents made a good number of changes as well as soon as they did not have "Free labour" ie my sister and me and would have needed to things themselves.
The story fell apart when OP went to question his parents and they rationally explained what happened to the baby. He wouldn't have done that and they wouldn't have behaved that way if he had. I call bullshit.
How is this man working 6 day weeks yet magically he's home every time someone arrives at his apartment, always has time for extensively long phone calls out of the blue and is apparently permanently walking around in steel toecap boots. At no point in this story do any of the other 4 siblings some of who are all teens or close to being adults say nothing or not intervene in any way? But just call him a boss because he kicked their dad in the balls at dinner? Do people expect others to believe this stuff?
the siblings can leave at 18 they don't have to wait till 19 in most cases I think there's only like two states that make you wait till 19 Alabama and Nebraska
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Any confrontational phone calls: pretend you are cutting out and only texts are going through. Then screen shot all for court later.
That's actually decent advice
Or install a recording app on the phone so you can record calls, though depending on the state you might have to notify the other party
Thanks for the tip
@@jayewrite1256 That's where SMS recording is better. I'd see that as the loophole through that.
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Calling the police was a bold move, but it shows how serious the situation became.
Tell Dad that HE needs to man up and stop fathering children that neither he nor your mother want to raise themselves. If he'd had a vasectomy years ago, you would never have been burdened with so many kids.
basically he was in a abusive home, got out, making bank and his parents meanwhile are starting up drama left and right as if its a giant chocolate fountain. bloody hell..
what in the uncle sam are those parents even doing raising kids in the first place? makes me wish emotional and mental abuse would be considered abuse in the eyes of the law.
legally speaking in most places if serious enough and proven by a psych eval to be detrimental to the child emotional and mental abuse of a severe enough nature it can be treated just as harsh legally as physical abuse the problem is it is so hard to prove.
@@lordsathariel4384I know for a FACT it is in my home state.
"Man up and help out" Ahh they aren't his kids..
You need a restraining order against them, this is harassment.
You should sue your parents saying it has made you depressed for saying you killed your unborn brother or sister
Trouble is; there's not alot he can get from them. They're rather poor and it will take away from his brothers and sisters.
@@Katarnstar but can’t he just take them in to his home
@@Katarnstar Doesn't matter, it would hit their credit and stay there for YEARS and financial judgement activity THEY caused CANNOT be discharged in bankruptcies AND he can garnish their wages
@@Biggamer1046 They are minors, he would have to petition the court if they didn't agree to sign them over, pay him child support which they WOULD owe
The hell they keep having kids they can't take care of for? I swear that's why ppl need to prove they can parent if they want kids. Ridiculous
There are things that I would like to say:
1. I feel bad for the baby.
2. I feel bad for the siblings.
3. and I feel bad for OP
Because what they all have in common is they have narcissistic parents from hell so I hope OPN his siblings can move on and the baby can go off to heaven 😔
Tbh this whole saga could have been avoided if Op just blocked them as soon as he moved out.
But then there’d be no story and life would’ve been more boring.
I don't think that is an option cause he has 4 siblings who he likes to have contact with that still live with his parents. He only don't want to parent them. And these are the kind of lunatics that don't stop after blocking. He would have to leave town and get a new number to be away from them.
@@uwetheiss970 Likely would have had to leave the state actually.
@@josephmath1 Let us just leave the continent to be sure!
It's not always that easy. You still love them, but you resent them for being so self centered. Also, you siblings aren't to blame for your parents being so self centered and dense. Your siblings may go through the same thing you are when they decide to leave the house and you wanna be there for them cause you know how they are.
Even though the old song is a teen girl telling off her BF, I wish the OP had left his parents' house while whistling, "You Don't Own Me".
You are not the monster. You are the hero. They cast you aside to lighten the load and tried to force you back, multiple times, to benefit them. Live well and try to keep your sibs within your purview. They will need it!❤
Well the parents needed to use protection clearly
Why would you need to babysit a 16 year old?
The story is probably fake, but apparently the parents had 5 kids, only the 2 youngest would need babysitting.
And 13 years old
They can be left home alone
@@zulaikagould9230 Yes, and they're the ones that are having the babysitting dumped on them now that OP has refused and proven that he's willing to call the cops over it. There are five kids, not including the miscarriage, the 16 and 13 year-olds are the two oldest after OP.
story could be fake but iv also found controlling people aren't good with change they didn't make so making OP look after them all again like when they were younger is probs less about needing to and more a power move on OP.
people like this are exhausting i thank god my family are lovely and all the narcissistic clowns iv dealt with are strangers I could axe socially.
@@lordsathariel4384 "babysitting a 16 year old" doesn't even happen in this story. People have misunderstood because they were half-listening and their minds grabbed onto the only numbers presented. The 16 and 13 year-olds are not the ones being babysat, they are the second- and third-oldest of a five-kid sibling group (and eventually got the babysitting dumped on them when OP proved he's willing to call the cops). The youngest siblings are the ones being babysat, but their ages aren't listed.
CPS should have been called regardless your parents are toxic
#1 why should they move back and pay rent while providing free babysitting services?
"He's in a neck brace with a broken nose and two lost teeth and who knows what else" probably no balls 💀 💀 💀
Even though they are your siblings its not your problem . Why do people have kids if they are not interested in looking after them
So many reasons. Most of them are idiotic.
If you don’t want to pay a fine for child abandonment, just don’t abandon your children??
Also, I don’t understand how the dad thought it was op’s fault the mum slipped and lost the baby because he wasn’t living with them. _She slipped,_ how was op being present in the house going to help? Plus she was the one who overslept while having a nap before a doctor’s appointment. Either set an alarm so you don’t oversleep when you know you have an appointment, or if you’re a heavy sleeper and would sleep through an alarm, make sure someone can wake you at the right time or just _don’t have a nap when you need to be somewhere at a specific time._
It’s horrible when you have a shitty abusive childhood. No matter how much time goes along , you never forget it .
Good for you for standing up for yourself. Your mom needs to be in jail for leaving your siblings at your door step. Sorry that your parents were awful to you and you deserve better.
My God if this isn’t a perfect example of literally digging your own grave as far as the parents are concerned and then I don’t know what is honestly
Give it up. Go no contact. Block them on the phone. Stop the interaction.
God, I actually had a mother AND a sister like this. There were four of us, but one of my sisters was the only one my mother really cared about, which sucked as that sister became my one and only childhood bully and was so vicious she was forced by the courts to live in a group home for "troubled" teens and the age of 13!
Ahhhh nostalgia! 😬
having good parents is a blessing😁😄😃
Nta. Call cps. The children were abandoned. Mom needs to be put on a watch list and so does dad
What country are you not allowed to leave until you are 19YO? Most countries is 18 and some even younger.
They had four kids and only the older two were safe to leave alone but they didn’t want to babysit the younger two
I think Texas is 9 years old
The turkey leg 😂😂
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There is nothing wrong with spending time with siblings, but it should not be forced. Being the eldest doesn't mean you have to put up with your narcissistic parents' abuse. The parents want to transfer their parenting responsibility on their son. Wow woo! When do they stop making babies that they can't look after. Beating up a parent shouldn't happen though. The younger siblings have poor role models unfortunately.
Sometimes you have to be a monster to protect the ones you love but know this to the parents hes the monster to the siblings hes the hero it depends on the point of view of the person
When you leave toxic family get your phone wiped and change your number.
I'm a Female , my "Father" tried to Physically fight me Once when I was in my mid-teens , he punched me once , with All his Lack of might , I barely felt it , I punched back (Gang Member back then , I liked to Hurt People) , and Broke his Nose , we NEVER had another fight.
dad's poor balls got me laughing so hard
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10:00 “how was I supposed to know that?” He legit told you he could only babysit on Sundays because that was his only day off
...so because she kept popping out babies ... he's supposed to be responsible for that? Ma'am...you had them, you care for them
14:07 got me rolling😂 I literally laughed out loud at the description of the dad's reactions.🤣🤣
I hang up while I'm talking and then don't answer the phone after that. Nobody thinks you're going to hang up on yourself!
Whether this story is true or not, people should never have children if they can’t afford nor have the time and energy to look after them. I honestly hate people like this.
CHILD NUMBER 6??!
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I would have LOL after finding out, personally
As an oldest daughter of an immigrant family i totaly get it they assume tour stuff life time and energy is theirs
The fact that the siblings rsn an inside joke how his balls were weak was the funny part in this story
OP and his eldest Siblings should report the Parents to CPS for Child Neglect and Child Abuse for forcing the older siblings to raise the younger ones...not to mention forcing OP out and abandoning his younger siblings at OP's doorsteps...
I would have...
And if his Parents actually Sue OP, he can easily Countersue for all the Abuse and Harassment they heaped on him over the years...
I'd go full No Contact with the Parents and only maintain contact with his Siblings to make sure they have the chance to get out when they turn 19...
Not the balles 😂😂😂😂😂
You are a strong young man. Im proud of you 😇
A 13 and 16 year old don't need a babysitter!
There are 6 children. The oldest closest to OP are 16 and 13.
Nta. They stole from you. Call the cops and have them arrested.
If this is real i wounder how the parents feel that now their shit is in the internet and that it'll never leave
dam he beet him up hard! also he should really teach his siblings how to fight when they move out, and they should where the boots he did
Where do these people get off? Why do they think they are in charge of a grown man and his activities and money? It's unreal.
The last thing your family needs is another child that they can't take care of.
My suggestion is to move and stop ALL communication with those 2!
Sir this got this far because of you!! You allowed them to keep taking to you, you kept going to them. No contact except with siblings when they’re 18.
I like this new story it’s a lot different than what keeps getting rehashed with a few changes to change the story but in the end it’s the same story . Keep up the good work….
"Why are you disrespecting me?!" while ofering No respect is so common.
I will never understand people who believe in getting their wife pregnant or letting their husband get them pregnant, raising the first child up alone until that child is old enough to help ie. raise the rest of their siblings.
They believe they are actual parents and deserve to be respected as a man or woman of the house, instead of as people who roll around making the babies.
While barely making enough money to house and feed the children, they treat their older children as indentured servants, making them work and take their money.
It is heartbreaking to discover how many parents exploit their children, for time money, and or labor while insisting they are inferior and have no right to speak up for themselves.
They are grown enough to work and carry adult responsibilities yet never deserve respect as children or adults.
In my humble opinion, parents like this are hypocritical and want the title without the actual responsibilities.
Read the news paper or watch the newspaper. This crap happens everywhere. Tragic.
And then everyone clapped
Expect the unexpected, because life is full of surprises
Poor siblings
Feel sorry for the kids, and for the guy.
the irony is they made a "monster", but /s aside, if you resort to violence to parent then this is what you get more or less
13:00 and I can't stop laughing about the turkey leg 😂😂😂
Get a restraining order. You're lucky your landlord hasn't kicked you out for all the harrassment.
Those kinds of "parents" think of children as an investment.
"mAn Up AnD hElP oUt" Naw, that's all YOUR responsible. Should have called the police the first time she dropped them off.
Buddy, why in the world do you answer the phone and the door! You need to stop engaging with them forever!
Lol, they should have left him alone.
12:25 at least he won't have to worry about new kids 💀
I would invite you to put up some money for your ceiling but don't tell your parents about it just in case they need to escape from that house 💲💲💲
Sounds like an Asian family
Great story. It had the violence, shame, and no divorce, lol.
16yo don't need a babysitter, they Are babysitters. I don't mind that these are all fiction, but ffs this is just stupid.
When you leave home at 18 never stay in contact with any of your parents
VDJ genja wait?
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Down Syndrome
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Nicely read
Why do children aged 13 and 16 need to be babysat?
This story is an old one. It’s been around a long time. I BET MONEY all the brothers are gone from the house and barely even try to talk to the parents. This is the most insane story BECAUSE the parents ACTUALLY BELIEVE they are in the right for this. That is the insane part to me. They are seriously MENTALLY ILL. Some of the worst parents I’ve read about on here. Just so flipping full of themselves. Dad sure learned a lesson about picking on his kid like that. What a loser. Can’t even afford the kids he made. The mom should close her legs
Dude I wish you the best of luck
The writing style felt very strange, and the narration felt weird, am I the only one who felt like something was off?
Nope, you weren’t
It’s AI generated, most of these stories use AI. Most real life people don’t type like that, like extremely proper sentences especially younger people.
@@uhhgreetings1954 Yes sometimes I write using big words like this but I don't repeat words and phrases .. And use out of place idioms that are strange so I guess that's how you identify AI currently
And he rode away on his mountain bike 😂
Some cannot even escape the house due to emotional attachment...
Glad you got out when you did. My own parents made a good number of changes as well as soon as they did not have "Free labour" ie my sister and me and would have needed to things themselves.
The story fell apart when OP went to question his parents and they rationally explained what happened to the baby. He wouldn't have done that and they wouldn't have behaved that way if he had. I call bullshit.
Baby sitting a 16 year old on a Saturday really is this true
Babysitting 16 yr old can't be true
@@user-mh9kv6bo4w He said that he had 4 siblings. Two were dropped of, so I am figuring that it was the youngest two.
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Time to block their numbers (or get a new number) and move without leaving a forwarding address. Nobody needs this kind of drama.
How long are these parents working since they need a 13 and 16 year old to be taken care of?
There were two YOUNGER CHILDREN.
@@jeancassup8878 Oh thanks😁
If your mom can't leave 2 teens home, she and your father truly failed as parents. You should go no contact. Your parents are crazy!
It's really easy to NOT have children
I would say @#$* it and move out of state and drop everyone's number, permanently. Having a baby at that age is NOT a good idea.
03:06 killd me😂
How is this man working 6 day weeks yet magically he's home every time someone arrives at his apartment, always has time for extensively long phone calls out of the blue and is apparently permanently walking around in steel toecap boots.
At no point in this story do any of the other 4 siblings some of who are all teens or close to being adults say nothing or not intervene in any way? But just call him a boss because he kicked their dad in the balls at dinner?
Do people expect others to believe this stuff?
Should have cut the call when the first time the parents started yelling and everytime they did.
If this was written by a person named Ethan then I'm Bishop Tutu.
the siblings can leave at 18 they don't have to wait till 19 in most cases I think there's only like two states that make you wait till 19 Alabama and Nebraska
A 13 and 16 year old needs a babysitter still??
As a millennial, I was looking after myself at age 10, lol
If OP moves try getting a 2-3 bdr. This way your siblings can stay with you at 18 until they can make it on their own
What a crazy family
13 and 16 year olds can take care of themselves.
13:21 NUMBER 6?!?
If you are already having trouble with parenting your kids you have now why would you have more if you can’t take care of Them.
They keep popping out kids without any desire to take care of any of them. Why is CPS not evolved??