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I'm so very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. No matter how old we are, or they are, we're never prepared for the loss. Praying for peace for you, your dad, and your family.
To this day I still have moments when I think “Oh, I’ve got to tell Mom” but she passed in 2012 but I have her in my dreams.
Three days after I put my mom in memory care, my cat died. And I wanted so much to tell her and have her comfort me, but I knew she wouldn't understand what I was saying. She and I both are big animal lovers. Even though she's still alive, I miss her so much. She was/is my best friend.
Same here.
My dear Child- she still LIVES- within YOU- those memories full of laughtet- the JOY- the GOOD TIMES
So sorry you have gone thru all this. So good you are seeing your Mom at peace.
Just lost my mom a month ago. I still pick up the phone to call her… but then realize. So I just talk to her like shes in the room with me. It feels like she can hear me. :/
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I’m sorry for your loss of your mother. I just lost my husband two weeks ago and I’m grieving a lot so you are in my prayers
I am so sorry to hear about your husband Rosemarie. I hope the grieving gets easier for you as time passes. Xx
Thinking of you xxx
So very sorry for your loss.❤️
So sorry for your loss of your husband.
Thinking of you.
Hi Jen, my heart breaks after hearing everything that your poor mom endured before passing. It truly has been an awful year for you. I hope that you can find peace and comfort in knowing that she is at peace and no longer suffering. Take it day by day and give yourself time to grieve. We will all be here for you when you feel up to it. Sending you love and hugs. xo 💖
I literally just started watching your videos today. I was a nurse for 20 years in Oncology and Home Care. I also lost my mom when she was 66, she had MS and ultimately a fall caused a brain bleed, and she passed away from that after several days of being on a ventilator. She also lived out of town from me, 3000 miles away...and I'm an only child. So, tough situation.
It was 11 years ago today. So today is hard, this whole time of year is hard. But it is so interesting that I ran into your videos today.
What you guys have been going through just sucks. There is no other way to describe it. It is an emotional roller coaster. It is also physically exhausting. And it can be financially devastating, depending on the circumstances.
I am so glad you guys got to say those goodbyes. I also got to say goodbye for a long time. We had several family visitors, and I did some minor crying, and lots of talking. One thing I remembered the other night was that at one point I was sitting in her room alone, and the pastor of her church came in, a woman I had never met before. She introduced herself, I introduced myself, and burst into tears. The hardest crying I had done, just ugly crying, in front of a stranger. And she held me for the longest time, not saying anything. just let me cry. It was the only time I did that while I was there.
So the kindness of strangers really is a thing. I think sometimes with people we don't really know, we don't have any history with them, there is no pressure. And as strangers, we can still care about you and your family. And we can send loving supportive thoughts and messages. You are not alone at all in this grief, and this is simply hard. One of the most difficult if not the most difficult things in life. I appreciate you sharing, and that I saw it today. That is brave of you because it is hard to get in front of a camera and talk about such a difficult time. But you may also be helping someone else going through this experience. Another stranger helping a stranger 🙂 So thank you sweet lady. I am so sorry for this loss and the void it leaves. You are in my thoughts ❤
With your empathy, experience and training, you could be so rewarded if you could find a way to give back a little. Maybe just one evening a week? Visit some long-term care facilities nearby and inquire about volunteer opportunities. Just sitting bedside for an hour or two and talking about anything - or not talking at all - would benefit you as well as your new friends. Give of yourself as you can, it will come back to you in spades! Thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes a good cry can open your eyes and heart to so much goodness that still can be found in this world. I cry too, Mom's been gone almost 14 years. And I was there through every moment. I wouldn't trade that time for anything in the world, and I found a way to sustain that nurturing side of me by sitting with older women who remember things no one else cares about. Hug yourself for the New Year, and may your holiday be everything you want and need it to be.
Mrs Kaa,
What a kind and loving thing to say. Lovely that a pastor was so wise!
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I lost my mother due to complications of MS also.
Ladies, this is so heartwarming to share🥰 God bless each of you ✝️🙏🏻❤️😀
Jen, I work in a nursing home and see what family’s go through on a daily basis. Dementia is such a sad and cruel disease!
So sorry to hear about your mom. I’m going through this too with my mom so your description really hit home for me and was so helpful! Thanks for sharing your experience and God bless!
Condolences dear Jennifer on the passing of your Mother.
Blessings…….
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mother. She was clearly an amazing woman, great mom and wife. Sending you prayers and huggse. Thank you for sharing. ❤
Dear Jen, I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. My heart breaks for your pain on the loss of your mum. Sending you love ❤️
So very sorry for your loss. Even when it’s something you’re expecting, it’s still hard. Nothing like a mom’s love ❤️
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Thank you so much for sharing. I completely understand how being with someone as they transition does have a beauty in it. We were with my grandpa earlier this year as he passed and although it was devastating, I also look at it as a privilege to be able to be there in that moment. Take care 🙏
Jennifer, my heart breaks for everything you have been going through. I am glad your mother is at peace now. Happy holidays to you and your family. Wishing you love and light for the new year! ❤️
So sorry, my mom is in the late stages of dementia. It’s absolutely heartbreaking!🙏
I appreciate you sharing your story and I am so truly sorry for the loss of your mom before Christmas. Sending you prayers for strength this holiday ❤
Blessings to all of you. I feel your pain, as I’ve been through it, like many have. You gave your mom the best gift ever, being with her as she died. And it will be your biggest gift also, as you journey through the grieving. Hugs.
Jen you are a sweetheart. I feel like you’re a friend and my deepest sympathy is with you. It’s at times like this that you realize just how strong you are and you are amazing!! Take comfort in your many fond memories and with your sweet family. I’m sending my best wishes for you all this Christmas season and for the new year. Take care.
First of all thank you for sharing. Thoughts and prayers to you and yours. Time with family is precious. I hope you cherish the time you spend together this coming holiday.
This video clip just happened to come up on my feed. I decided to click on it. Wow. Thank you for sharing. Your story is inspiring by how strong and faithful you are. I’ve never seen a video by you before, but this has inspired me to watch more of your videos. God bless you and your family. You have a tremendous strength & devotion. It is contagious! I feel stronger in my own troubles just watching how you handle yours. Thank you. 🙏🏻♥️😘
I'm so very sorry, Jennifer. Even when you know it's coming, it's so heartbreaking to lose your mother. It's easier to leave than be left behind. Your grace and composure would make your mom so incredibly proud. Wishing you love and healing. ❤️
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my mom three years ago just days before her 92nd birthday. I also had those last days to say goodbye. On one hand it was wonderful to be able to say what you needed to say on the other hand it was so sad and scary. Hugs to you and your family.
Jennifer, I’m so sorry to hear about your. May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family and give you peace. Sending prayers for your Dad. They are truly blessed to have a daughter like you. Just remember that all your Moms love and all the great memories you have with her will always be close by in your heart. Sending thoughts and prayers.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for this. My Mother is going through exactly the same thing that your mom experienced.. She is 89. My Dad is 92 and very active. It's an ordeal and I completely understand what you are going through. I am so sorry for your loss.
Bless your heart, Jen. I see this same scenario so much as a Memory Care Unit Director. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. You're exactly right that she is at ultimate peace now. Don't question your choices and let "what ifs" creep into your head. You did great by your Mom. Just think she gets the best Christmas of us all, spending it with Jesus.
Merry Christmas and Happy New year. Much love.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard losing your mom. Even knowing she is at peace, it’s still hard. My heart goes out to you. Big hugs
Thx for sharing. I’ve been going through similar experiences moving my parents into assisted living. Mom at 85 has increasing memory loss. Stepdad is 92 and more and more confused. It’s helpful just to not feel so alone and hear your story. Merry Christmas. Love and hugs.
Prayers for comfort and peace during this difficult time. I’m so very sorry. I’m glad to hear that you’re taking time to heal and grieve. Sounds like you and your precious mom had a beautiful relationship.💕💕
You just came up as a suggestion to watch, and I am so glad it did. I thank you very much for sharing your journey. I have an 87 year old mother who has been in Mild Cognitive Impairment/dementia since she was 80. I just took her on a 5 day cruise, just the two of us. It was the most wonderful trip together. I did have to be the Caregiver with her meds, c-pack, walker, and questions galore, but I would do that anytime with my mom, instead of without her. I am sorry for your loss!
Oh Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My heart just breaks for you. Watching our parents age and decline is so difficult. It does not matter how old we are when we lose them it is truly absolutely devastating. I hope you can find comfort in knowing your mom is no longer suffering and is watching over all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 🙏
Jennifer, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. I needed to see this right now. Praying for comfort for your family.
Jen, I’m so so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of prayers and virtual hugs. I hope you find lots of love and comfort during this very difficult time.
So sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏 ❤️
Dear Jennifer, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I went through all this last year and lost my mom this past February. So much of what you shared resonates with me. Almost daily I am reminded that I can't call my mom and share my thoughts with her. I was blessed to have her 95 years and it's still hard. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jennifer. I hope you can be comforted with memories of your mom and be able to enjoy the holidays knowing that is what your mom would want you to do🙏❤ My thoughts are with you.
I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing this. I can tell that you guys are a great family.
Sorry for your loss. May all the wonderful memories of your mom be a blessing to you and your family.🙏🏽❤️
Jen, I feel for you. I had the same situation with my parents. You’re very lucky to have grandchildren. It has been 5 years since my parents passed. Just getting better now. My dad passed a few weeks after my mom. My brother passed a few weeks before my mom. It was so lonely. My mom was always busy and made everything and every occasion special and watching her afraid and unable to speak was so sad. I had a stent put in when my mom was sick. Be very good to yourself and don’t fret about Christmas obligations. My heart is with you.
Jen, everything you described I went through with my mom. Dad just passed away this July. It was not an easy task to care for them,but it was a journey in strength and faith. They are with their Savior now. Blessings to you.
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Remember to take one day at a time and breathe. Praying for your strength into 2022. Hugs!
I’m so sorry for you and I know how you feel. I lost my Mum exactly the same a few years ago. I’m like you and miss being able to tell her things. I have no Dad either.
She’s with you all the time. Sending lots of love to you xx💖
Oh Jen, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I've been caring for my mom with dementia since the summer of 2018 after my dad passed. My mom is 74 and I'm 34, I also have a 5 year old daughter. The illness is so hard and I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family as you navigate this hard time.
So sorry Jen for your loss I lost my mom on 2019 it has been so difficult 😥 to deal with the loss of my best friend, my world and my everything! I understand you. I will never get over this she was 84 and full of life, so I understand you!
Condolences to you and your family! Thank you for sharing - take all the time you need to grieve and cherish the memories you had with her in your heart. May she rest in peace.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom must have been a wonderful lady. I can imagine that from how you are to us.
My mom passed 2 years ago after a short cancer diagnosis, 1 treatment, 3 strokes. It was such a blessing to be able to say good bye to her. And I am so glad you had the same opportunity with your mom! It is always going to be raw, and you will always miss her, but it does get easier. Just love everyone around you and hold on to the wonderful memories!
I'm so very sorry for your loss Jennifer. I lost my mom Dec 4, 2017 and it still hurts. Big hugs to you.
Thank you for sharing. You are an inspiration to many of us who are going thru some of the same problems and emotions that you hare and have had to deal with. Thank you again.
So sorry for the loss of your mother, but wonderful to hear of that you were able to spend those last days with her. Blessings to you and your dad.
Big hugs to you, Jennifer! You've had so much to deal with! My sweet next door neighbor who has always treated us like family has Alzheimer's and it's so devastating. ☹️
Dear Jennifer, I so feel for you at the loss of your mum. Everything you have described was my life in 2019. The journey through dementia is a truly terrible one and I am so glad that you had the chance to tell her that you loved her before she went. That will help you going forward. I will be praying for you and your family and your dad.
Best wishes and take care of yourself.
I’m so very sorry. I know how hard it is to loose a parent, especially around the holidays. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. 🙏
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’m going through this with my dad now, and it’s very painful. We lost my mom 20 years ago this month, and I still find myself wanting to pick up the phone to call her. I’m so happy you have other family to support you and grieve with you in this journey. Sending you all the hugs and comfort you can bear and wishing you a lifetime of wonderful memories. 💕
With a title for your channel like “just Jennifer” I know you’ll understand when I say simply, I’m praying for you, you are on my heart. There is more than words can say…. you dad is especially in my prayers. Sending love 💕
It's so hard to lose the folks who love us unconditionally. Take care.
I am very sorry to hear about your mom. I know how difficult it is, especially now during the holidays. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and may you find peace in the thought that your mom is in a much better place. Sending you and your family love and best wishes this holiday season.🙏🏻🥰❤️
Bless your heart! So sorry to know she went so quickly. My mother is still suffering with Alzheimer’s. My prayers are with you for healing and taking time to grieve, heal and find comfort that your mom’s spirit is with you always! ❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. My Mother has dementia, is 84, and just fell on Thursday night. Dementia is a horrible illness, and it’s very hard to hear your mother cry & be scared. I honestly hope she passes before it gets too horrible.
I’m so sorry, I know how hard it is to lose a parent and see them decline and suffer. My heart goes out to you and your family.
So sorry for your loss Jennifer. Went through it this year also with my father. One of the hardest things for me thru it all was seeing my Dad…who could solve any problem for me turn into the person this awful disease destroys. What I am finding now is my memories of him are going back to before he was ill, which is so comforting to me. Hope the same happens to you…take care!
I am so sorry for all of your family health troubles! I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you have wonderful Christmas, and remember that your mother is always with you, in your heart. 💓
Almost two years ago, I went through a similar situation with my mom. I know the feeling and I am so sorry for what you and your family are experiencing now. Please don’t worry about getting back on your channel until you are ready. Be kind to yourself and enjoy the holidays. Joy and peace to you and your love ones.
Me too. Just the other day i wemt to phone my mum! 2yrs on!
oh, girl. I stumbled onto this video and I'm so glad I did. I lost my mom this year too and it has been brutal. She had some dementia and it was so hard to watch. We managed to keep her home with her beloved GRACIE pup (now MY baby!) but it was HARD. And losing her was hard. I am feeling your pain and sending you love and strength from Boston
Bless you for taking the puppy, Gracie! You know, dogs grieve too, and this will help the dog go through it. Condolences on the passing of your mother! She’s smiling down on you and proud she raised you to know, to take on the responsibility of caring for her doggie.
Heartfelt condolences to you. Losing those mothers are the roughest losses we who loved them will ever encounter. But we knew that love, as did they. You take care of yourself. Give time to grieve and mourn. I know the pain. It never goes away. But we learn to live with it.
@@savagetwin52 Thank you so much! Sending all the best to you
Bless your heart. I’m so sorry. I’m impressed with your calm. I love that you can appreciate the beauty. And most importantly, you know your mother is no longer suffering and in pain. You are strong and beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this. 💕
So sorry about your loss... prayers and thoughts are with you 💖
My heart breaks for you and your family! My mom passed 12/5/2015 at age 65, I completely understand how you feel, wanting to celebrate while grieving. My family and I drew our strength from our faith and our love for we shared for my mom. I'm so sorry and thank you for taking the time to share with us. Sending Love and Prayers for your family!
My deepest condolences. This video came up on my feed. My mom passed from ovarian cancer in 2016. She was treated horribly by our Canadian health care. I wish you healing.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers.
So sorry for your loss. Love and prayers.
Oh my jennifer, i absolutly feel your pain, my sweet stepmum also has Alzheimers the last 18months has been just awfull, everything you have talked about is exactly how my mum is its just so awfull to watch your loved ones go through this horrible illness, as you say she is at peace, sending you lots of love and thankyou for sharing xxx
Jen, I can tell you’re trying to hold it together for this video. Oh honey, giving you hugs. My mom is my best friend, and I can’t imagine losing her. My prayers are with your daddy too, and your entire family. 🙏🏻
So sorry for your loss. What a hard time you’ve had. So glad you and your family could say good bye to your Mom.
Your making this video is a true gift to those of us who are seeing our elders age and trying to make their lives the best possible.
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
I just lost my sweet father to dementia on Christmas day 2021. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
I am sorry 😪
I’m so sorry. I lost my mother on Christmas Day 2020. She had Alzheimer’s.
It was such a horrible time. The pandemic kept us out of her care home. So she died alone. It’s still a struggle for me.
I am so sorry Cathy Hodge and Jetmechegirl. :( I lost my dad in late April and it still doesn't seem real. Thinking of you. ❤
I’m a new follower and very sorry for your loss. I’m going through a similar situation with my aunt. I’m praying for you and your family. May your mom Rest In Peace. ✝️💚
I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom recently. When you talked about wanting to call your mom about certain things I can certainly understand. My mom has been gone ten years and I still find myself wanting to call her to ask a question that only she would know the answer to. What a blessing it is that you were able to spend those last days with your mom and family together ❤️
When my mother passed away she had dementia; the doctor said, "she was 89 and she couldn't live forever". Yes, that was so true, but in reality I wanted her to live forever!! She was a wonderful mother and my greatest cheerleader. She always made me feel special, even though I was one of her five children. A loving mother will be forever missed by every child who knew her love. I hope your shared times together will bring you joy and warm memories for as long as you live.
This amazes me because it sounds exactly like what my grandmother went through this year. She had dementia as well, had a hip replacement, kept walking around at night and falling, and eventually we had to move her to a facility. That only aggravated her dementia and she declined very very fast, in a matter of days, and she died on Easter Sunday, alone..They called us to say that she was already gone, which was quite sad. We also couldn't visit her at all while she was in there, because we were in the middle of a Covid wave and no visitors were allowed in hospitals or facilities. So that was difficult to process, but at the same time, maybe it's for the best that we didn't see her like that. She was very out of it as well by that point so I like to think she wasn't aware of what was going on. You're lucky you got to spend those final days with her and say your goodbyes! So many people don't get that chance these days.
This is so true to my parents story. My heart is so with you and your family, and of course prayers! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️
Jen, I’m sooo sorry for your loss! 💜
God bless you! I went through this with my mom almost two years ago, right before Covid. She had some of the same problems as your mom, the paranoia and anxiety but also some of the meaness that can occur with dementia . My sister and I moved in to help her and my father for 8 months. It was so difficult. I still miss her so much. Time does help, we lost her right after her 83rd birthday in January 2020, but I think of her everyday still. Take care of yourself and remember that she has no pain and has peace, it helps me to remember that. 🌹❤️❤️❤️
So sorry for your loss. Sending healing prayers to you and your family. Watching your parents grow old has lots of different emotions
So sorry to hear your news but glad that you were able to be there for each other. Wishing you a peaceful and loving 2022. xxx
I'm so sorry, that's a hard loss. May God bless and keep you❤
I’m so sorry Jennifer!! Prayers for you!!🦋💗
I’m very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. Praying for you.
I am so sorry for your loss! will be praying for your family!
My sincere condolences Jennifer, so sorry for your loss. Praying for your peace as well as your family's.
I am so sorry for your lost. Sending thoughts and prayers.
Bless your heart...Honey the pain never really goes away but in time it lessons....hugs and prayers.
So sorry about your mom! Praying for you and your family! Hope you have a Merry Christmas!🎄
So sorry for your loss. May she rest in piece . Lots of blessings to you and your family.
My deepest condolences 💐. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing something so personal. ❤️
Oh im so sorry, i am watching on Christmas, wishing you comfort and big hugs. Thank you so much for sharing about your wonderful mom and what great family she has!
Sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your story, and I’m glad you were able to be with mom until the end.
I am so very sorry for your loss, Jennifer. Thanks so much for openly sharing your heartbreak, which at the same time is underlined by so much beauty and grace. Praying for you and your family.
Merry Christmas! I’m so sorry about your Mom, that’s very hard especially at Christmas time. My heart breaks for you and you are loved.
So sorry to hear this difficult news. You explained it so beautifully and it helps the rest of us to hear how you are getting through it. Your loving family rallied perfectly- you are blessed to have peace for your mom now... and you can focus on your amazing Dad. Merry Christmas! Be well.
Jen, so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your video is a gentle reminder to appreciate the ones we have while we can. My condolences and thank you for your inspiration.
So much to be grateful for. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and very private experience. Blessings ♥️