World's Most Dangerous Cities: Port Moresby (PNG) BBC Stories

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  • Papua New Guinea has been described as one of the most dangerous countries in the world for women. Some estimates say that 70% of women in PNG will be raped in their lifetime.
    Ben Zand travels to the capital Port Moresby to meet the men who believe violence against women is acceptable - and those women who say enough is enough.
    Presented and series produced by Ben Zand
    Filmed and produced by Alex Nott
    Executive Producer: Mike Radford
    #BBCStories #BenZand #Documentary

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  • @leo785587
    @leo785587 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3699

    This guy is a great journalist. He doesn’t let fear get in the way of sharing and documenting great stories. I have mad respect for this man.

    • @melliwika4166
      @melliwika4166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Fear would get him killed in this kind of a situation.

    • @russellcharlo3902
      @russellcharlo3902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Very true he's very brave but i get scared how he'll react if in danger because he doesn't seem like a ross kemp

    • @robbleeker4777
      @robbleeker4777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I think he was walking the line there, asking questions to criminals that could easily upset them and commenting like that what they did was wrong.. The fact they had no problems their faces would come fully in view, would be already a sign about how they are... I think he was lucky to get out alive

    • @eddenoy321
      @eddenoy321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Presay Noka Yes Ross Kemp would take a machete to the head and not even flinch.

    • @Ragerian
      @Ragerian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The last person we need is another "open borders" liberal like Ben Zand. Wolf in sheep's clothing.

  • @noamithangeng9954
    @noamithangeng9954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1163

    I love how this journalist does not beat around the bush and gets straight to the point. Also appreciate how he is not afraid to speak his mind and ask questions with confidence. Much respect ✊

    • @sukokuve5519
      @sukokuve5519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are not fools to hurt a journalist

    • @XCILE625
      @XCILE625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It helps that he was on a psychotic durg

    • @ahmedm7221
      @ahmedm7221 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noami Thangeng .

    • @raidenmk4473
      @raidenmk4473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe cuz he's high

    • @davidl.e5203
      @davidl.e5203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It is actually very dangerous for him to get straight to the point when dealing with criminals. Confidence and integrity no longer matter when the risk involves someone getting hurt.
      People who negotiate with criminals know they have to get to the criminal's good side while getting the most out of them. That means dropping their sense of values and judgment temporarily for the criminal to let their guard down and allow them to share more intimate descriptions of their atrocities.

  • @pineapple4523
    @pineapple4523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I am so happy this is put out there for everyone to see. I am a Papua New Guinean girl. I live in the capital city Port Moresby and in every neighbourhood their is always a SA, GBV, and DV case. Most people dont do much when that happens. If people hear a lady being beaten by her husband they dont report it to the police or stop it. They say things like "oh em maret life, lusim ol" (oh Its marriage life, leave them alone). Its heart breaking really. People like those men are found all over the country. They are horrible people, they perve on little girls and raise their sons up to be just like them. However not all our men are like that. My generation, i can see have very respectful young men who know how to treat women. Its only the ppl who are in the rural areas who need to change their mindsets. They believe it to be culture and tradition to do such acts. Men have power, the last say. So sad I however am fortunate to have a loving father who is conpletely inlove with my mom and a respectful brother. I thank God everyday for having them.
    Respect to Benjamin he out here risking his life talking to these low life men🍷👏❣

    • @hardver8855
      @hardver8855 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love that actually a real person from Papua New Guinea is commenting and giving true and genuine insight about PNG. I am from Bosnia and Herzegovina. Far away. In Southeastern Europe. But i am fascinated with Papua because it is a truly magical ecosystem with unique plants and animals. I like the biodiversity of the island. I wish i can come and live there. I assume alot of it is undiscovered, alot of plants and alot of animals. Thank you. And do you have some strange stories, sightings of animals, legends, practices or habits of people if you want to share i am happy to hear it. Thanks.

    • @pineapple4523
      @pineapple4523 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@hardver8855 PNG is indeed a very beautiful country with extraordinary wildlife and culture. You have to come and visit when you get the chance! You can travel up to the cool, green Highlands or to our sandy tropical coasts. We have 22 provinces and each province has their own culture, stories, myths, languages and not forgetting the gorgeous traditional attire we wear when we dance for our festivals and Independence celebrations (Sept. 16). We have the biggest Butterfly, Queen Alexandra birdwing, the Dracula parrot (my favourite), pig nose turtle and the Bird of Paradise species (so unique) just to name a few. Hopefully I convinced you to come and visit.
      Thank you!

    • @energeticstunts993
      @energeticstunts993 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hardver8855 I have lived there for two years and I can tell you, it's definitely an experience you will remember for life. It's extraordinarily beautiful, like seriously incredible. I've seen so many breath taking landscapes and flying in small propeller planes through the vast valleys is sooo rewarding. I've been to multiple islands as well due to my parents working as doctors there.
      There are things that you should absolutely consider though: Keep you shit safe, my parents have been robbed countless times there and back then I used to visit a local school which received a bush knife attack, one of out teachers died in that incident and multiple people had their heads, arms chopped off by these rascals. A friend of mine that I had back then was killed by the father, his dead body was found in a nearby river, I only heard this heart breaking news when I was in Germany. Sandy, a very friendly girl I used to know was cut multiple times by a bushknife by the father, the same one that killed his own son btw.
      What I'm trying to say is that PNG is so beautiful and it's such a shame that it's filled with crimes and rapes and abuse against women. I loved my time there but I wouldn't have minded a bit of safety and a bit of security, many times I felt very unsafe and in danger.

    • @jessicagomez8775
      @jessicagomez8775 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hardver8855 how is life in Bosnia

    • @hardver8855
      @hardver8855 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jessicagomez8775 it is good. But it cpuld be alot better. Our politics are complicated and corrupt.

  • @miguelcavallari7604
    @miguelcavallari7604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    “We love our wives” I don’t see that

    • @anirudhkumar4507
      @anirudhkumar4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wife..... Eww! 🤢🤮

    • @michaelegharevba2231
      @michaelegharevba2231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They even had the audacity to say they’re ”good people”.

    • @resnaniramelan71
      @resnaniramelan71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@anirudhkumar4507
      Wives and wife is same.
      LOL

    • @ruthlahari1181
      @ruthlahari1181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      as a fellow papua new guinean I can't say that what they are doing is right, it's completely WRONG! But it has been normalised for centuries, it's almost kind of like a tradition to physically abuse women. So when these men say that they "love their wives" I'm sure they have some type of affection for them, but hitting them doesn't mean anything to them because it's something that most men in Port Moeresby do.

    • @miguelcavallari7604
      @miguelcavallari7604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruthlahari1181 ohh got it thanks to explain more

  • @azfanyuvea
    @azfanyuvea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +894

    That grandma just broke my heart!! I wish I could hug her and tell her everything will be okay! 😔🙌🏽

    • @TP-fl9ul
      @TP-fl9ul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes i almost cried

    • @pawetfashions6104
      @pawetfashions6104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Typhanie Manuia you would’ve been lying to her... in her world in that space... the only way it would be okay is if she was removed from that space

    • @nalinir5092
      @nalinir5092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I broke down watching that grandma. No one should have to live with such degradation and fear and it seems the country has a kangaroo justice system. So many who live in developed countries are always bitching and moaning about our justice system but they don’t realize how lucky they are. They need to watch this video.

    • @dellarussell1872
      @dellarussell1872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I prayed for her continuing to pray...

    • @JH-zr1lr
      @JH-zr1lr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But will everything be ok?

  • @AleGaun
    @AleGaun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    I'm a Papua New Guinean male and this report is not bias, it is true. Generally most men here are very weak. Papua New Guinean men must watch this and change from their approach towards women and bad behaviors.

    • @lindelwanothandongcobo8863
      @lindelwanothandongcobo8863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      May the One and only true God Jehovah Bless you abundantly for choosing to be different.💕

    • @NURHADIALDO176
      @NURHADIALDO176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      bro, what do you think about indonesian papua?

    • @AleGaun
      @AleGaun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Generally Indonesian Papuan men have great respect for their women because the women are their back bone to fight for their freedom from the Asian Indonesians dominance.

    • @beardofzeus9582
      @beardofzeus9582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s black culture

    • @conservativeman32
      @conservativeman32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Ale Gaun you know nothing my friend , well at least papua people here already equal to the people in java and the rest of indonesia and some "group" you mention already give up their dream of freedom ,because they see people already have same amount of payment as the rest of indonesia , price of basic needs like fuel,rice,etc all the same too like the rest of indonesia , me myself life in jayapura , papua and all is equal in here , church along with mosque all built up in here and peoples gets along well , road built to connect all indonesian papua and because of that and all great things our president give to develop this province , *almost* all separatist here already accepted the government
      and people likes our great president , because the equal development in all provinces , from our west province sumatra to our east province papua we indonesian all equal.

  • @jjong1998
    @jjong1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    "We are good people."
    "We are survivors."
    Bitch what? I almost choked

    • @baileyreynolds461
      @baileyreynolds461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When I read this I thought maybe the women said that.... when I heard the guys say that about raping oh my god I did choke

    • @baileyreynolds461
      @baileyreynolds461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jordan Barclay Why would you stand on the side of men who arent stealing out of survival but rather raping bc theyre power hungry?

    • @jjong1998
      @jjong1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jordan Barclay lol I'm asian

    • @saurML
      @saurML 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah like wtf

  • @davidebiember607
    @davidebiember607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I lived in Papua New Guinea from 1994 to 1996. I met an Australian couple working there and they had a horiffying personal story to tell. Their 5 year old daughter was raped by their security guard. I had nightmares for almost a month after that.

    • @imnotdream2154
      @imnotdream2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Oh my goodness.

    • @robihamdani5203
      @robihamdani5203 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Crap, i never imagine how man rap333 underage girl. If that person live in our place the peoples will beaten him for his shame action and send go to prison offcourse he will beaten again with another prisoner

    • @husseinosmangarow1122
      @husseinosmangarow1122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Papua new guinea is different from other world what a violent country 😢😢

    • @Hephasto
      @Hephasto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow cool but 5yo is too young for this, this man is horrible and should be charged for it

    • @user-ye9bc7nw2c
      @user-ye9bc7nw2c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Hephastomoron

  • @eddiebomsko9919
    @eddiebomsko9919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    I'm from Papua New Guinea and he's very lucky that he was able to conduct a good documentary with the police help because if the cops weren't there shit would have gone real bad for him facts

    • @vincenciayinikanji8892
      @vincenciayinikanji8892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Documentary like this dealing with sensitive issues, there will be always authorities in place to assist. They won't go on their own and started filming without the knowledge of law enforcement agencies..

    • @sleepmares
      @sleepmares 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True true

    • @12345Yeah
      @12345Yeah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Let me guess you would have fd him up? Get a job.

    • @zahariburgess3660
      @zahariburgess3660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i'm going to papua new gunea in port morsby any tips

    • @rosemaryharalu572
      @rosemaryharalu572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Am from Papua New Guinean to and that so true

  • @wayithokaguer492
    @wayithokaguer492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    Stabbing your wife is never a sign of love

    • @meghnalakshminarayanan578
      @meghnalakshminarayanan578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ted Teddy I was shocked to hear the answer of these guys..they said yes we love our wives!
      Men who love their wives respect them first and don’t tie them down.

    • @PeacefulWarriorTV
      @PeacefulWarriorTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's a cowardly and primitive act. How can you do that to your wife? The mother of your kids.. How and why do that?
      I urge the international community to come out and protect the women in Papua Guinea

    • @trishanicoleanayron284
      @trishanicoleanayron284 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ,

    • @Jac0bIAm
      @Jac0bIAm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No shit.

    • @thesonofandalusia3082
      @thesonofandalusia3082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@meghnalakshminarayanan578 ignorant people they only love to hurt each other i feel bad for them :/

  • @markanthonymanalo1051
    @markanthonymanalo1051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    the old lady made me sad. I hope she'll be fine soon.

  • @Beautifulbliss03
    @Beautifulbliss03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Omg 69 years old... 😱😭 I wanted to cry for her. God protect her 😢😭😢😭

    • @FrazzaJ2000
      @FrazzaJ2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Damnit Bobby Oh wow, wake up out of your stupid bubble. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows buddy; the 'hood' of Brooklyn is not the only place crime happens.

    • @user-vj2dv9ku3d
      @user-vj2dv9ku3d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, your god did a very good job protecting her so far.

    • @mesweetsam
      @mesweetsam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-vj2dv9ku3d lmao

    • @3838COTB
      @3838COTB 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-vj2dv9ku3d lol

    • @unelectedbureaucrat2003
      @unelectedbureaucrat2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      At least she got some action I suppose

  • @sivaawesome4229
    @sivaawesome4229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Best journalist i hv ever met
    No FEAR at all
    And has a good heart

    • @mihirkarnick
      @mihirkarnick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      when did u meet him??

    • @paypooltv4417
      @paypooltv4417 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Both of you spell real words.

    • @fendertremolo9793
      @fendertremolo9793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He does have fear, but also respect. That's the key

    • @fairlanewhip79
      @fairlanewhip79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was brave AF asking some of those questions!
      Damn dude, at least try not to get killed!

  • @s0hail1
    @s0hail1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +805

    Respect your women. Love your women. Dont treat them bad.

    • @jimmyganglia5234
      @jimmyganglia5234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Do you know what is a woman?

    • @s0hail1
      @s0hail1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@jimmyganglia5234 yes. I know. My grand mother. My mother my sister and all those women. Who have good CHARACTERS.

    • @1bz2002
      @1bz2002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Women give birth to man...man beats up women

    • @s0hail1
      @s0hail1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@1bz2002 Man & Woman. BOTH R EQUAL WE NEED 2 RESPECT EACH OTHER.

    • @maseffa7611
      @maseffa7611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry, big Correction!!
      I wanted to say punch, ya punch in the face.

  • @lingdumpling6988
    @lingdumpling6988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The fear in the 69 year old ladys face breaks my heart

  • @massagebysusie6295
    @massagebysusie6295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    I think the women should start getting weapons

  • @loudnessjr
    @loudnessjr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    He has balls of steel. Salute to this brave man

    • @yeahnahyeah3883
      @yeahnahyeah3883 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Viper not really, drugs will make you more anxious, especially stimulants.

    • @dxb8086
      @dxb8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brave man? He is there with police assistence.

    • @dxb8086
      @dxb8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yeahnahyeah3883 It depends on the drug, silly.

    • @jeffreymapherson7196
      @jeffreymapherson7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello how are you doing friend

  • @terriesmith8219
    @terriesmith8219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1930

    All Feminists from first world western countries should go to this place. Fight some real injustice for a change.

    • @aliaslisabr
      @aliaslisabr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      In my opinion sexual abuse and violence against women (or any human being for that matter) in Papua New Guinea doesn't make the gender pay gap or sexual harassment at work anywhere in the world less worth fighting against.

    • @bananaboi551
      @bananaboi551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Gender pay gap doesnt exist... It's been proven with multivariate analysis. Propaganda is a grand old thing isn't it?

    • @vaenya5190
      @vaenya5190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Banana Boi I know this might be hard for you to understand, but did you know the world is made up of more than one country? Crazy right. The gender pay gap may not exist in some countries, but does in others :o

    • @muhd195ify
      @muhd195ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@aliaslisabr So those women not worth fighting for since they didnt meet "special requirement" to be a feminist? Lmao..... Is feminism just fairy bullshit lie or something?

    • @muhd195ify
      @muhd195ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@vaenya5190 Booii the one who got hype by this gender paying bullshit mostly from the west. And they claim they are fighting for women but they all just care only themsleves and shit.

  • @synamonstyx
    @synamonstyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    My father works in the defence force so my family were stationed here with him. This makes me realise that as a young girl I was put at risk, I know understand why there was armed guards in my school bus and school.

  • @shrimpanzee001
    @shrimpanzee001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He took a psychedelic drug and proceeded to discuss violence with a bunch of career criminals. This guy has balls of iron

    • @user-zd1xb3mv5l
      @user-zd1xb3mv5l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not really a drug, its just a fruit that has the effects of a drug, feels like weed mixed with alcohol

  • @arthurboiiimona103
    @arthurboiiimona103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    I'm from Papua New Guinea and i have to say thank you to this journalist for bringing this into light.
    Not a lot of us men do this. And i don't agree with what the cop said about it being "normal".
    It's not normal. It's coward and stupid and some men think they can use women as some normal object.
    In the New Guinea Islands region, women are more respected because we follow the matrilineal system, in which mothers, girls and women are highly respected because of their status as land owners and they also have a say in the community besides men who were mostly the warriors,in a traditional and tribal setting.
    We still do highly respect our women,thou we do have men who are so narrow minded,that all they think of is violence.
    It's Sick. And it has to change.
    GOD BLESS PNG.
    #polishPapuaNewGuinean

    • @Atheist2022
      @Atheist2022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ARTHURBOII IMONA bro look where u from .... such a third world country + black ... ofc you need Jesus ... what else can you hope for ... that’s why made man gods/ bible it’s here for you

    • @lilaw2757
      @lilaw2757 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lilaw2757
      @lilaw2757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@Atheist2022 shut up! Jesus has nothing to do with this.

    • @clus1692
      @clus1692 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Atheist2022 you need saved

    • @TheBladepolisher
      @TheBladepolisher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "In the New Guinea Islands region, women are more respected because we follow the matrilineal system, in which mothers, girls and women are highly respected because of their status as land owners and they also have a say in the community besides men who were mostly the warriors, in a traditional and tribal setting."
      Bullshit ! ! Woman are treated like shit and that's the only truth anyone needs ! ! Pull your head out of your ass, better yet, grow a pair of balls and go back home and do something to create change.

  • @jungookookie413
    @jungookookie413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Very upsetting to see this, I can’t understand how those men keep denying and justifying obvious crime to women. Props to all journalists involved, this kind of report is such an eye opener

  • @jayrex0093
    @jayrex0093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I'm sad to see my countrymen do these things to their wives and family. I believe we all need a change in our mindset first. It starts with every individual, then to our family, community and the country. In doing so, we can change to live healthy lives. I know not all men in PNG are like this but those who are into such practices have to really stop and change for the good of their wives and children.
    Hoping to see a better PNG in the near future. God bless my country🇵🇬🇵🇬🇵🇬❤

    • @TheTruth-sd8ey
      @TheTruth-sd8ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You should move to Australia, you'd be more safe there 🌴🇦🇺🙂

    • @jeffpro8
      @jeffpro8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope things change for the better in your country. Stay safe! ❤

    • @hissukka6619
      @hissukka6619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you have wifi over there?

    • @jayrex0093
      @jayrex0093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hissukka6619 yes

    • @americanjoe1924
      @americanjoe1924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hissukka6619 everyone has wifi

  • @kellybroady6378
    @kellybroady6378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Heartbreaking, thank you for filming.

  • @marianamarino126
    @marianamarino126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    I had no idea Papua New guinea was like this! And I'm in Australia, why is this not on our news?! This needs to be stopped!

    • @marianamarino126
      @marianamarino126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Johnny Dinh yeah but we get Papua on the news for the army etc. But never behind the scene things like this.

    • @SorenCicchini
      @SorenCicchini 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@marianamarino126 Manus Island is in PNG - the attacks by the locals on the refugees imprisoned by Australia there are reported but ignored by most Australians, who are caught up in the "stop the boats" frenzy: www.hrw.org/news/2017/10/25/australia/png-refugees-face-unchecked-violence

    • @merolynkuie9712
      @merolynkuie9712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so right I will add a like for dude.

    • @andrewmccloud8581
      @andrewmccloud8581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @divinekamikazee How? Blaming the ex rulers again.

    • @andrewmccloud8581
      @andrewmccloud8581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @divinekamikazee That makes no sense. Try and prove your point.

  • @teamrocket7400
    @teamrocket7400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I cried for that old lady.

    • @SNicole82
      @SNicole82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too 😢

    • @samuellee290
      @samuellee290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did too, not easy at all

    • @ReturnToSender1313
      @ReturnToSender1313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Her story is one that no one should have. That man needs murdering in his sleep

    • @meghnalakshminarayanan578
      @meghnalakshminarayanan578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s very sad that so many like her, who have no choice but be dependant on somebody, have to do things they don’t wanna do. Because what we saw was that lady going back to her home in that car.. we cannot imagine what really would have happened after she reached the hell place.

    • @mumunmunawaroh9858
      @mumunmunawaroh9858 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meghna Lakshminarayanan

  • @gee_emm
    @gee_emm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is unreal. Those poor women!

  • @Bigvic214
    @Bigvic214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Even amongst criminals, here in the USA these type of criminals are looked down on and are often times victimized in the prison system.

    • @caedmonoresi9402
      @caedmonoresi9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh trust me, they are victimized here (PNG) as well. Not everyone in prison likes rapists.

    • @dxb8086
      @dxb8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      _"here in the USA these type of criminals are looked down on"_
      Not really.

  • @salokin3087
    @salokin3087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Top quality journalism, on the ground, gritty, respectful and moving, great work zand

  • @travelswithauntieann2551
    @travelswithauntieann2551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    That granny broke my heart 😪

  • @hadley1346
    @hadley1346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Ayo fair play to Ben, the interviewer, he has some balls and asked some deep questions

  • @amiddleschoolreader918
    @amiddleschoolreader918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The grandmother broke my heart.. I pray for the daughter and granddaughter..

    • @user-vj2dv9ku3d
      @user-vj2dv9ku3d 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      While the main purpose of prayer may be to help others, it never demonstrably does that. Prayers benefit only those believers who say or hear them. ... We often see people with good intentions praying for victims in the wake of a tragedy, but prayer is useless without action, and those actions make the prayers irrelevant.

  • @ameliaphillips5989
    @ameliaphillips5989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    In my country Kenya, there was this Papuan man, a diplomat who beat up his Kenyan girlfriend very badly and if I remember correctly he was stripped of his diplomatic immunity and deported. Strange kind of men.

    • @starvision12
      @starvision12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I read about that. I was very sad after seeing pictures of her with her injuries.
      I'm Papua New Guinean, and I felt really ashamed of his actions. I also felt anger toward him. I really hope the law in your country dealt to him accordingly!

    • @michaelheery7427
      @michaelheery7427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeh the kenya women getting money by any means..

    • @tashaluna4505
      @tashaluna4505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@michaelheery7427 if u mean women selling themselves. Is all over the world .BT no man is allowed to bit up any women.

    • @sylvesterokumu2489
      @sylvesterokumu2489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Huyo shenz ilibidi aende

    • @dbhenry22
      @dbhenry22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I guarantee you they would get a extra dose of medicine after dealing with a Jamaican woman.

  • @j.diaries_
    @j.diaries_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Rape and murder should be lifetime imprisonment. If you really wanted to prevent these things from happening, you must implement a very strict law that no one will dare to defy.

    • @falksudmersen5972
      @falksudmersen5972 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fuck those prison walls down...but don't slit pregnant bellies..........

    • @ajoeb.alaoui
      @ajoeb.alaoui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would the government spend money on life in prison (food etc)? If the government can just behead them just like they do Saudi Arabia.

    • @kobiyariyari6559
      @kobiyariyari6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The problem with that in places like png is that police are either corrupt or non existent, which is why this shit continues, before legislation is changed law enforcement has to be increased

    • @marykuman3761
      @marykuman3761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is true

  • @universe_._
    @universe_._ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ”No we are not bad, we are good peoples”
    I don’t have words, this is sick as hell

  • @gabrielfrost9134
    @gabrielfrost9134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Oh god I felt so bad for that poor grandma, I could feel how terrified she was heartbreaking.

  • @XLilyWhiteVidsX
    @XLilyWhiteVidsX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Wow that is crazy a different world, what a brave and intelligent journalist

  • @lukewalter8552
    @lukewalter8552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is some of the best journalism iv ever seen ! Luv this dude!

  • @ricomorales7505
    @ricomorales7505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was born and went to school in PNG. Yes, this form of mentality well it is part of our culture being a half PNGean myself, I was almost influenced by this kind of mindset since I went to public schools and grew up and was surrounded by my PNG side of my heritage. When I left for my Fathers country and had more exposure I realized we must change. I'm just happy to see more and more younger generations now going to school in other countries and even in my Father's country. Education is the key in breaking off this kind of mindset for us. Better education is the key. More exposure is the key, and ofcourse more rights given to women is a big factor. I hope when I go back to the motherland I would see a difference.

  • @raisondetre7948
    @raisondetre7948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh my god my sister is working there... please pray for her safety

    • @user-vj2dv9ku3d
      @user-vj2dv9ku3d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      While the main purpose of prayer may be to help others, it never demonstrably does that. Prayers benefit only those believers who say or hear them. ... We often see people with good intentions praying for victims in the wake of a tragedy, but prayer is useless without action, and those actions make the prayers irrelevant.

  • @claudinlumpio3674
    @claudinlumpio3674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Youre the bravest journalist,kuddos to you man!

  • @user-ne6dx2dx3j
    @user-ne6dx2dx3j 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    How dangerous to be a woman in that country😢

  • @jonathanmosher72
    @jonathanmosher72 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Guy said "I only just punch my wife in the face" OMG!

    • @Mary10423
      @Mary10423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe his wife is punching bag. So stupid culture🤣😂😅

    • @znn4125
      @znn4125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mary lomberio You haven’t even learnt about there culture. Yes it bad but it’s been going on for generations it’s normal to them like wearing jeans is normal to us. It’s not good don’t get me wrong but your being ignorant by calling it stupid by basing it of on one video.

    • @monotonya4506
      @monotonya4506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      BigChunChun Oh shut up

    • @tokodanielpoya7820
      @tokodanielpoya7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @vocabularymillionaire
    @vocabularymillionaire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fearless journalism! My hat is off for you, Zand.

    • @dxb8086
      @dxb8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Fearless"... always assisted by the police

  • @truthmatters592
    @truthmatters592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Somebody needs to do something about this kind of treatment these women are getting from the men. How dare him sleep with his children and then forcing himself onto the grandmother wow!

    • @phrangkielytand7346
      @phrangkielytand7346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just don't understand this people, # Humans or Animals #. Seems outerlook is humans, inner is animals. #animals, marries a daughter, wanna have sex with mother in law, SHAME SHAME ANIMALS?????

    • @petty273
      @petty273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sickest thing I ever heard. I hope he gets what he deserves!!!!

    • @michaelwalters7333
      @michaelwalters7333 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sexaul Charges/ Lowest of Low, Beyond Human, Barbaric

  • @Darkconfi1212
    @Darkconfi1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Great reporting very well done. This deserves more views, kinda reminds me of Ross kemp style

  • @wedp112
    @wedp112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This was an extremely insightful documentary, the host was fantastic... However the content was truly heartbreaking, poor Grandma, my heart broke for her and the other women.

  • @thinkblue9169
    @thinkblue9169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    literally no one:
    rapist: *We are surviviors, not criminals*

  • @halmrkcrdz2494
    @halmrkcrdz2494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Lol the one pot dealer in a prison full of murders and rapists

  • @dembeno86
    @dembeno86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    First of all, thank you Ben for risking your life doing this documentary for the whole world, especially for the New Guineans. You have educated many men to love their women.
    No words can describe my overwhelmed feeling for the actions of these men towards women.
    I do not agree with the police officer said it is part of the culture -- this is totally a blurred cultural knowledge transfer.
    As a West Papuan man, I believe we as new guineans share many cultures in common. Yes, there exists such thing of being a 'big man' in our tribe, but I think many of us have misinterpreted its core value. Being a big man in my culture is about protecting houses/ communities/ tribes from outsiders (enemy), NOT to react violently to the members of mine. Please please please New Guinean men (both PNG and WP) whose such violent behaviour, think -- you will NEVER be a man if your mother did not give birth to you.
    I feel saddened for the 69-year-old granny going back to the house with fear of hell.

    • @hieronimuswilman1248
      @hieronimuswilman1248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mantab kakaa, ksh tau dorang tu, tra benar ituu

    • @gusfringberkman9598
      @gusfringberkman9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nice age

    • @Cheetahlover
      @Cheetahlover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why should men love and respect their women and do everything for them if they don't do it back

  • @maekim9695
    @maekim9695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "In the men in Papua New Guinea it's a normal thing to abused woman ". I feel bad for every woman in this country 😭

  • @cheruyotngeno3498
    @cheruyotngeno3498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The DNA of this 'men' needs to be check,I don't think they are human beings,they may be creatures like human.Torturing innocent women

    • @skylanderpapua8782
      @skylanderpapua8782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree..

    • @ladyjam348
      @ladyjam348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sounds like lots of demonic activity

    • @Beruxus
      @Beruxus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its funny you say this, cause they have 3-5% denisovan dna, wich were kinda like neanderthal

    • @pengensehat6934
      @pengensehat6934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      cheruyot ngeno they are the result of inbreed probably...bcuz PNG used to be a very remote area before it became a country...n the practice of inbreed r stil working there til this day...

    • @rehanfauzan4623
      @rehanfauzan4623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Random eurasians dude the west part is indonesia

  • @ne1h4r4
    @ne1h4r4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    A lady who's 69 being abused...? Now there must be a missing chromosome in this man... I don't even know if he should be called ''man''... this is pitiful and has saddened me so much.

    • @confusedkiwi5774
      @confusedkiwi5774 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Animal is more apt.

    • @falksudmersen5972
      @falksudmersen5972 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      in westernstyle old people facilities you can find enough violence....

  • @KurtAshing
    @KurtAshing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i love every documentary this man doing. Keep safe and show us more of kind of documentaries.

    • @bbcstories
      @bbcstories  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ben’s next film will be out next week.

  • @badgalirri
    @badgalirri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I met a papua new guinean drug dealer type guy once in Europe and honestly he was one of the creepiest guys I've ever met. He looked at me like I was a slab of meat, I was genuinely so scared of him. Didn't know PNG was like this until I watched this though... now it makes sense.

    • @BbyBell303
      @BbyBell303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not every part of PNG is like this, I come from PNG and the area I come from is very friendly, it is up near the hills not to close to Port Moresby

    • @dusmangi
      @dusmangi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you see a black person most likely a african but still not good not all png people are like this

  • @teaisfantastic4505
    @teaisfantastic4505 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I worked in Port Moresby for 4 years, there were crimes like robbery, murder, petty fights etc. During my 4 years of service life, I felt like I was in a terrible jungle.

    • @Ryan_Boundless
      @Ryan_Boundless ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a westerner living in Uganda. I also feel like I'm in a terrible jungle. Glad you got out.

    • @thatindiandude4602
      @thatindiandude4602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Ryan_Boundlesswhy are you there 😮

    • @jaiharvey520
      @jaiharvey520 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ryan_Boundlessbruh you are in a country with a history of colonisation of your type of people of coarse you’re gonna face hostility

  • @bemzpatrick
    @bemzpatrick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He is so brave asking and giving his point of view on point!

  • @kai-rr8np
    @kai-rr8np 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Police: *holding handcuffs
    Also Police: *slaps hand
    Police: You are now arrested

  • @fghk5gcv930
    @fghk5gcv930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It needs courage to bring this into light . Thanks for sharing.

  • @septiancandra2006
    @septiancandra2006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What shocks me the most is the fact that most of them can speak engslih pretty good. They did understand what the journalist said and replied with english with right grammar

    • @simeontramaff5723
      @simeontramaff5723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fact....Excluding english, the country has over 800 languages.

    • @nasanamalone7525
      @nasanamalone7525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We learn English in school and Tok Pisin is also broken English which nearly everyone speaks :)

    • @darthpapa696
      @darthpapa696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      PNG were British colonies you fool. British make English as an official language until now. It's not West Papua

    • @evangelynwialu8679
      @evangelynwialu8679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Goodness gracious... Do your research before posting an idiotic comment... English is taught in schools so of course we'd speak and write English. 🤦‍♀️ Plus we have 800+ languages and are naturally multilingual 💯👌

    • @jordanlevo1747
      @jordanlevo1747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why does it shock you? You think they're stupid and can't learn English?

  • @alinabintang1642
    @alinabintang1642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    What a shock ..
    I've live in Papua, Indonesian side..
    In West Papua, people are nice..
    Ofcourse you'll get criminal, sometimes but not raping and murdering..
    Violence very less here..
    Thanks God, our life is better.. Hope PNG will change in right way..

    • @CROSSKNIGHT568
      @CROSSKNIGHT568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bitch, where do you live in west Papua

    • @alinabintang1642
      @alinabintang1642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Moga Dishu ofcourse..
      Never been live in there..
      We live in paradise now..
      Hope this is only in tv show, not in real life..

    • @virginelka9168
      @virginelka9168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are so lucky...
      How's life there?

    • @alinabintang1642
      @alinabintang1642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@virginelka9168 peaceful..

    • @angusewanmacdougall839
      @angusewanmacdougall839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      alina bintang hello darling , will you marry me 😙😙😙😙😚

  • @CaptiveReefSystems
    @CaptiveReefSystems 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    They turned away the 65 year-old woman who's husband was walking around town with a "bush knife" looking for her..? 😲

    • @gilsantos2995
      @gilsantos2995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      69 years old** 😢

    • @vikatikoisolomone9722
      @vikatikoisolomone9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      J. Gona Her son in law not husband! He is abusing the wife too when he wants sex and looks like he is doing it too with his own daughters

    • @Jindy2
      @Jindy2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep. That wast be just beyond belief. I wonder how long she survived after that?

  • @tungarunakoiaang1795
    @tungarunakoiaang1795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "Port Moresby has the worst cases of drug and alcohol fuelled violence in the country"
    Lae City: "Am I a joke to you?"

    • @AliKaks
      @AliKaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @calebpalanga1019
      @calebpalanga1019 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aleam😂

    • @clouie-b2400
      @clouie-b2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      President duterte probably the solution to stop those cowards.....

    • @8upernova81
      @8upernova81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@clouie-b2400 girl no

    • @javidmark9014
      @javidmark9014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@clouie-b2400 stop comparing Philippines and PNG. Philippines are not worst like PNG. PNG are rated criminal country in the world. They dont care who the hell are you.

  • @moonflowers333
    @moonflowers333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I want to help woman like these. They're so strong and beautiful

    • @ezatangguh9404
      @ezatangguh9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sooo why you don't go to the papua nugini and help her?

    • @bag-o-bags
      @bag-o-bags 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they’re so strong why would they take your help

  • @Golden27Boy
    @Golden27Boy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Benjamin Zand is one of the best journalist around. Great doc again

  • @GM-qg7zb
    @GM-qg7zb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    The world is so weird

    • @dvrkl0u299
      @dvrkl0u299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Godfrey Francis fax

    • @dainaduh986
      @dainaduh986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right. Everything is so backwards.

    • @cimbooom89
      @cimbooom89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No the humanity is weard&ugly my friend not the world😉

    • @boobtube2142
      @boobtube2142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Except this isn't "the world," nor is it the whole of "humanity." This is a portion of the human species that has not been favored by nature, and thus were incapable of evolving into a people that could form a functioning society. These are non-domesticated animals with average IQs of 65, the only similarity between these "humans," and say, Norwegian people, being their use of language as a form of communication, and even then the differences in their ability to articulate themselves is apparent.

    • @M.O.G.
      @M.O.G. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Evil is the word.

  • @Pickingwisdom
    @Pickingwisdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    papua new guinea: i am a good person. I hurt people especially the weak one

    • @BbyBell303
      @BbyBell303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not every PNG person

  • @slicklol
    @slicklol 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The most fascinating thing in all of this was the normalcy in these conversations. It really gives credence to the idea that bad people don’t actually see themselves as bad. This is a fascinating watch.

  • @misf1ts648
    @misf1ts648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The fact that the guy used being a teacher as an excuse got me so mad.

  • @cattaleyaaa.n01
    @cattaleyaaa.n01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    “We are survivors not criminals we are survivors” casually talks about raping, bashing wives, killing people & stealing cars. Welcome to png. I still love my country even though I wasn’t allowed to go out.

    • @clearlytruthbetold4910
      @clearlytruthbetold4910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do u have a passportport samantha

    • @shravansatyanarayan1665
      @shravansatyanarayan1665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Samantha Sarimbu Is it as bad as the documentary portrays the situation? 70% of the women in Port Moresby have been raped!!! What about the other provinces of PNG?

    • @cattaleyaaa.n01
      @cattaleyaaa.n01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ABDIMAJID TRUTH BE TOLD Yeah I have a passport why is it any of your concern.

    • @anisazam9329
      @anisazam9329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cattaleyaaa.n01 No, but he thought maybe because of the passport especially when you said: 'I still love my country even though I wasn’t allowed to go out'.

    • @tia2397
      @tia2397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sis, relatable👐

  • @mikaeledominiko9326
    @mikaeledominiko9326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    thanks for showing this video. My sister from Fiji and her Scottish husband lived in Port Moresby for around 8 years and was juz glad they never experienced any violence from the locals themselves as they had high security around them all the time. Unfortunately for the locals, they have to go through torturous moments by MEN; MEN who don't deserve to be alive!!! Death penalty should be the result of such treatments of women by this hellish PNG MEN!!!

  • @oldwiseoul
    @oldwiseoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ben zand, well made; you want into the corre of the problem. After the Guatemala documentary, i see this is totally objective and unbiased! Power, courage and godspeed to you.

  • @myunglips
    @myunglips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Oh and it's so fascinating to know that most of them fluent in English tho

    • @thegigadykid1
      @thegigadykid1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr I read many of them just speak in tok pisin

    • @matlabun6646
      @matlabun6646 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read history who is the people that introduced alcohol to the PNG people that changed their behavior, ask the old people of PNG to get the truth, history werw bias

    • @toamakamaile3656
      @toamakamaile3656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thats because its their primarily language, although they speak a Creole which is based off the English language called Tok Pisin

    • @prototype615h
      @prototype615h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Talk pidgin or Tok Pisin is based on English

    • @everestthapa7044
      @everestthapa7044 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      L

  • @yourcommentmademeconfused
    @yourcommentmademeconfused 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If I was woman there I would be probably crying every single day and feel guilty..to born a baby girl and imagine she has to go through such brutality 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @MJ-me5zd
      @MJ-me5zd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. I would either choose not to have children or have an abortion if i had to. It would be better for the baby to be aborted quickly than suffer that horrible life even if i am normally against abortion it is lesser than two evils.

    • @flaviaanamaria5826
      @flaviaanamaria5826 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd run away and if not possible kill myself, not give those mother f. LITERALLY the satisfaction of doing whatever to me for all my life

  • @TheDrFMG
    @TheDrFMG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I spent a couple of months in PNG in 2017. I was in Port Moresby and in the mountains. I am not going to say it is not dangerous, because it is. However, reading some of the comments here, I just want to say that I met some of the most truly beautiful and honest people in PNG. Its a unique country that can only be described as a dangerous beauty. The country has no linked road infrastructure. Interestingly, roads seem to go from mines in the hills.... straight to the Port. The Chinese have been particularly altruistic in supporting PNG. I don't recommend it as a holiday destination.

    • @hardver8855
      @hardver8855 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about coming in some groups for like exploring, expedition hiking style jungle trip? Is it safe or? What the country has to offer regarding the plant and animal world. Flowers,fruits,animals,food etc. How do ypu describe it and what you saw??

    • @blindegg5182
      @blindegg5182 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      chinese never be an altruistic lol, they'll ask for the price regardless the form

  • @prettythang3038
    @prettythang3038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As a Papua New guinean, I glad i didn't grow up with family like. I grew up with Strict Parents and grandparents that go to church daily. This is truly sad.

    • @user-vj2dv9ku3d
      @user-vj2dv9ku3d 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There probably is no real God.
      Churches spread bad ideas.
      Vicarious redemption is the idea that another person was tortured, mutilated and died for your personal benefit. This is not an ethical concept.

    • @prettythang3038
      @prettythang3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@user-vj2dv9ku3d girl bye, don't tell me what to believe in. 🚪

    • @slayer_general4243
      @slayer_general4243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@prettythang3038 You guys are Christian because of Colonialisation

    • @salmathecopt7969
      @salmathecopt7969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@slayer_general4243 Thank God

    • @heartfeltteaching
      @heartfeltteaching ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-vj2dv9ku3d Lol I’m not even Christian but nice job caricaturing Christianity 😂

  • @msoda8516
    @msoda8516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a past victim of domestic violence my heart is breaking for these women.

  • @jaydog5983
    @jaydog5983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Women are special and unique and should be cherished

    • @anisazam9329
      @anisazam9329 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So as the men as well! Everyone is meant for the other, you know.

    • @1lamouna
      @1lamouna 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      um, I sense extreme sarcasm.

    • @mattortiz8141
      @mattortiz8141 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right,I love a women with a great ass.

    • @michaelwalters7333
      @michaelwalters7333 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everybody's Special Maine

  • @highgatehandyman6479
    @highgatehandyman6479 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how chilled out thry are. Especially those Raskols. Not evading questions at all. BBC dont know how to cope with it.

  • @harlowblackadder356
    @harlowblackadder356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every article, every book I've read about this place has portrayed nothing but a profoundly disturbing culture that has lasted for thousands of years. From rape to cannibalism to pedophilia...it is a country of nightmares.

  • @ToxicAfricanKing
    @ToxicAfricanKing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    This is so infuriating and disturbing. What kind of culture is this that encourages men to physically abuse women?? Is there really a gornment in this country? Are the laws? Are there good men who can stand up for women in Papua New Guinea? This is a sick nation.

    • @dreday77764
      @dreday77764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The Government has been raping the people since independence was past over in 1975

    • @thefirst-yb8sj
      @thefirst-yb8sj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't really think all or most of the men act that way. That a few persons decide to act weird doesn't necessarily mean that all are bad. Anyways, nice job for bringing this to the lime light, I maintain women shouldn't be treated like animals,like objects, I can't understand how a man hits a woman, makes her cry and weep, yet still makes love to her later at night, it is just weird. If you can't tolerate her anymore, then let her go in peace. Simple.

    • @8upernova81
      @8upernova81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thefirst-yb8sj it dont work like that in PNG lol

    • @Leo_de_janeiro
      @Leo_de_janeiro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Western world is a world who´s promoting psycolical abuse of man by woman, is this better ?

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sick 🤮 nation disturbing laws! 😢 ✔️

  • @sujithhail
    @sujithhail 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ben, you are one of the best journalists. Huge respect for you man. A inspiration

  • @gordywarin6804
    @gordywarin6804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    literal 'slap' on the wrist, 'i am arresting you now, thank you for your cooperation' ahaha

  • @allwrighty100
    @allwrighty100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I travelled around PNG back in the 80s, I went all over, Port Moresby, the north coast, the south coast and through the central highlands. We were warned that it was quite dangerous especially in the city where all the young men would come to 'make their fortunes' and bring their rural culture with them. I guess we were very naïve but fortunately nothing happened to me or my female companion. Such a beautiful country but it seems to have gotten more dangerous. We saw villagers fighting with bows and arrows but they seemed to ignore us, thankfully. Watching this is heart-breaking, it makes me so sad.

  • @nellybellyk
    @nellybellyk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love how upfront the journalist is. He tells it to the men’s faces that what they do is incredibly wrong. It’s still unbelievable how many of them are justifying their actions. It’s disgusting.

  • @mokiepepi
    @mokiepepi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Several years ago, I spent few days in Port Moresby before going in a dive trip... Weird place, intimidating at night... One of the best places to dive in the world! Betel nuts slows down this country... 😔

  • @danneyxxx6614
    @danneyxxx6614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Once he got drugs in his system...that was it lol! Damn...bruh was bold!!

  • @InsertFloppy
    @InsertFloppy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'd like to see this journalist do more stories. He's really good.

  • @topmodelandactress97
    @topmodelandactress97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The violence against women in Papua NG and across the world is just heartbreaking and devastating. Does anyone know where we can donate directly to these shelters?

    • @thelmabukikun1485
      @thelmabukikun1485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Iam in Papua New Guinea and its quite true in the cities and big towns were law and order is deteriorating.
      Meri Safe is an organisation that try to keep women safe

    • @martyhoare7558
      @martyhoare7558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is an organisation called Susu Mama's. They may be able to help. You may also like to conact Sally Proctor on FB
      . She knows the lay of the land very well.

    • @ajeetalbert91
      @ajeetalbert91 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You need not donate. Just stop your governments from exploiting them! That'll improve their living standards in a few decades.

    • @topmodelandactress97
      @topmodelandactress97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thelma Bukikun I'll look into them, thank you!

  • @justapuppy9406
    @justapuppy9406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I love this journalist 😍 stay safe tho...

  • @ellexkriz7307
    @ellexkriz7307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Omg thats a hell of a place to live in. Just wow

    • @trevsreacttv3370
      @trevsreacttv3370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well I live there

    • @estelle4781
      @estelle4781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I live here and it's not as bad as the media portrays it to be

  • @diannerose8030
    @diannerose8030 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Even in Australia it's not always safe to put a restraint order in someone, she's really brave ❤

  • @ScrubbinLyfe
    @ScrubbinLyfe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Respect for the occupational risk on this one, good journalist here.

    • @isaiahnarang7755
      @isaiahnarang7755 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha papa u salim em go lo wrong ap 😃

  • @lilonhenry3030
    @lilonhenry3030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Hi i'm from Png. Yes i really am, yes i know some things are bad but we are really friendly people . were not all rapists or violent, its just those who have the wrong mindset. It's disgusting.and life is hard but its not as bad or its not typically like that as potrayed by Western media outlets.you're average market vendor makes about k200.00 a day. ( k stands for kina which is our currency). Which is about $200.00. We are good people not all of us are like those idiots. Its a great place, and to me it will always be home. Always. The place isn't bad, the people ruin it. I have a great life here and i am surrounded by family, we have a great community here in the neighbourhood were i live. Yes its true it is unsafe but there's a strong sense of community and everyone knows everyone. The city's capital Port Moresby is not safe, especially for tourists or foreigners who are not used to that kind of life. However, the other Provinces are great and generally much more safer. To me Png will always be home. 🇵🇬🇵🇬 ❤❤

    • @bbcstories
      @bbcstories  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Thank you so much for commenting.

    • @billthew6038
      @billthew6038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This needs to be liked more. Thanks for sharing

    • @aperson5994
      @aperson5994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think most of the audience was not thinking that the entire country was rapists or gang members or robbers

    • @anupamgogoi6109
      @anupamgogoi6109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      U said its unsafe fr foreigners ... den how come people r freindlyy...
      Disgusting people...simple

    • @alexisf22
      @alexisf22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree every country has there problems

  • @keeran02
    @keeran02 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How could he listen to the grandma’s story and not do anything? I cried.

  • @caffemocca8855
    @caffemocca8855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is what will happen to Indonesian Papua if they get their independence. You hear this Australia?

    • @azkaazka3323
      @azkaazka3323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That might happen

    • @kosakata8632
      @kosakata8632 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@azkaazka3323 everything can happen, independent also not permanent
      Australia invaded PNG, PNG gain independence, China invaded PNG or might be Australia also will invade by China in next decade, who's know?

  • @puregoldd5656
    @puregoldd5656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is so heart breaking

  • @kilalajack4499
    @kilalajack4499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I'm a PNG girl and I know what your all thinking right now after watching this documentary that PNG men are so evil and cold beings, but not all of them are like that. There is still good in this country, also bitting and sexually abusing women is most definitely not our culture. I as a child of PNG know that there is and always will be good in our souls, its true that some men bit their wives but not all of them. So before you start judging this diverse country come and see with your own eyes then you may judge us, like I said violence against women IS NOT OUR custom nor is it our tradition. Some men do have respect for women and Care for their well being but those that abuse women are not men! Their just lost souls that don't know about our wonderful Savior Jesus Christ. PNG is also a Christian county too! Yes, not all Of US are bad. Sure we may not be the most riches country but we are rich in our unique and beautiful cultures, we are a freedom nation!! Tell how many countries allow people to preach the word of God in the streets of the cities, unlike​ some countries wer're allowed to preach the word of God!!! PNG may not be the most advanced countries but if you actually go to the villages you will see that we are just like everyone else. I know that our government is not that fare when it comes to bringing justice, but all we as the people of PNG can do is pray to God to guide our nation to the right path. Thank you!! 💖🇵🇬

    • @jayrex0093
      @jayrex0093 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said.

    • @oysterindomushroom2227
      @oysterindomushroom2227 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bisa bahasa Indonesia gak kak

    • @nandorblue
      @nandorblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why are you so butthurt and defensive? The program never generalized all men and the country. It was a documentary about the reality for many in PNG. You are trying to divert by saying " ...we are rich in our unique and beautiful cultures, we are a freedom nation!." It's irrelevant for the 70% of women who are rape victims also victims of violent assaults in a country where this kind of behavior is largely normalized. Are you kidding me? You are missing a point by a mile.

    • @matthiasmattheus8185
      @matthiasmattheus8185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So do you really think all you can do is pray to god? Yeah good luck with that...

    • @kosakata8632
      @kosakata8632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *She type this comment while her husband put gun between her legs 😂😂

  • @romeosalesestoque8628
    @romeosalesestoque8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so strong and you do not let the fear get in to u and i pray protection in every travels and vlog Have a Great Day Sir

  • @delatribudejuda7135
    @delatribudejuda7135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And not only the weakest ones but also the coward ones.