Hey guys! I really apologize for the diet talk at the beginning. We try really hard to be transparent with you and this is something I'm currently tackling. BUT I did not at all take into consideration that it might be triggering/harmful for some and I'm truly sorry. Hope you can skip ahead and enjoy the rest of the episode! xoxo Gossip Girl (Allison)
Thanks for taking our feedback into consideration Allison, truly shows what kind of people you guys are and how much you care about your audience! Much love
I dont see this comment enough so i wanna throw it out there but i honestly have learmed a lot about mental health from watching this channel (also love when Igor is on the channel too)
I definitely related with Allison when she said, “my instinct is that if someone finds out I’m interested in them, they’ll be like, ‘gross’” I’m married now (miracle) with someone who is secure. Don’t give up hope, Allison! Expect the unexpected when you least expect it.
Yeah, ouch.. That hit home for me as well. And same as Allison: not my parents to blame for that, but bullies mainly. Good for you that you found your love :)
When Allison said that being rejected in the past has caused her to think that people would be grossed out by her affection I felt that so fucking hard I think it left a mark and I may actually be bleeding
I was DEFINITELY anxiously attached to my ex-girlfriend, but with my current boyfriend I’m completely securely attached. Maybe it can depend on the other person’s tendencies and the relationship health too? She was more avoidant, so I became more anxious, and my boyfriend now is secure so I am too. You’re not stuck in one type!
It’s like the rat test. You put a rat in a cage with a big red button. Every time they press the button food will come out. The rat will press the button when it’s hungry and go about it’s business idk doing it’s rat errands. But say you have the same situation except the button only give food SOMETIMES. The rat becomes obsessed with this button and becomes addicted to the satisfaction of food due to it scarcely receiving it.
I was anxious in every relationship I had until I met my wife. She is the only relationship I've ever had that I've been secure. I guess I'm right about it because we just celebrated our 22nd anniversary.
I think it's incredible when people can openly talk about their feelings and insecurities on a real, reasonable and reflective way and not pass judgement on each other. Just between us, This was like a genuinely heartwarming interaction and I loved every minute of it.
Hm, actually, according to Attachment Theory, there are FOUR types of attachment (and they're not split 50/25/25). There are Secure and Insecure attachments as sub-headings, but under the insecure umbrella there are Avoidant, Ambivalent, and Disorganized. Disorganized attachments are typically seen in those with traumatic and/or troubled relationships with their parents, and they're not necessarily hot-and-cold, though they can be. Most often it's often trying to meet both needs at the same time. A chronic need to seek comfort and love out of a desperate need for it but also actively pushing people away and feeling like the attempts of others to supply comfort actually hurt (but they don't know why). They often push away out of safety, protection and mostly a negative self concept *and* negative world view. The others involve a positive self concept, negative world view, and then vice versa. Hope that helps.
You can read more in this series on attachment, here: beautyafterbruises.org/blog/attachment1 Each article is brief but to the point. Gaby might specifically benefit since it really goes into disorganised attachment.
Don't feel pressure to flip a switch to 100% plants instantly; feeling like a failure if you give in to a chicken nugget isn't going to help you grow. The path that works for me is to make an effort to find the ways of eating plants that are delicious to me, do it as much as I can, and take the wins on those meals. Positive reinforcement is so much better for achieving goals.
I've actually thought about doing this in the future, I'm already eating pescatarian but I think I should wait until I'm older that way my mom doesn't have to worry about feeding me when we go out and stuff. What do you guys think? Any tips?
I was vegan when i was 8 amd it was hard but extremely rewarding. I was a but overweight but it was a very unhealthy kind of over weight and veganism helped. But on order to get all the vitamins and things that i needed it was a bit pricy so ive never gotten back to being a vegan again
@@nyahjones2213 depends on how old you are obviously. also talk to your mum about it, maybe you can work something out with her? it is possible and healthy to eat only whole plant foods at any stage in your life, but it might take some unlearning of habits and relearning of portion sizes. (greens and beans are less choleric dense than fatty meat, you will have to eat more)
You guys started off as my favorite buzzfeed people. I just loved your vibe together whatever it was. When you left and i found out all the things and you had your own TH-cam channel i immediately followed. The evolution of your videos has been amazing and i feel like we've grown up together. You guys are like me and my best friends. Listening and watching you (non creepily i swear) has been a joy! Mental health, sexuality, relationships, barometers of friendship the honesty and frankness. I just wanted to say you're amazing and i appreciate you.
I love love LOVE the chemistry between the three of you! You’re all blunt yet respectful toward one another, while being eloquent in your own way. P.S I feel I’m a combination of anxiety & avoidance attachment - might be because I have BPD.
WOW the explanation of avoidant was so what I needed to hear about an ex I've been nostalgic for lately. He used to react SO DIFFERENTLY one day to the next. Very vulnerable and communicative on one date, but then so closed off and distant when trying to make plans for the next. Would express such real emotions but was so hard to pin down. I like to think I'm somewhere between stable and anxious, but this guy's behaviour made me FULL ANXIOUS. The mixed signals gave me whiplash. ((I also think he might have been depressed, but that's neither here nor there)) Thank you for the words! And congrats Igor!
Love the hair, Allison! And I guess I’m avoidant but I always thought I was the secure one cuz people either wanted to be with me 24/7 or never wanted to prioritize me. I want privacy and for us to just be comfortable together and by ourselves. Maybe I just want too much of an unachievable balance?
Allison, I so wish you had a Wordpress blog or something. Man, it'd be so awesome to pick your brains in the comments section, kind of like an Ask Me Anything/Q&A-style thing. The reason why I say that is I just have a hunch that you really want to be understood in greater depth, but don't really feel a sense of peace or connection because these social media venues don't let you be the true you without having to put on a performance or try to be entertaining. Just my two cents!
Seeing Allison doing well is heart-warming. And it is kind of an inspiration if you ask me, at least for anyone who is dealing (or about to) with these "life-handbrakes". Thanks for sharing this with us. Also, I'm happy Igor got rid of that moustache.
I stumbled upon your channel a week ago and I have been hooked since. I especially like the way you guys are transparent/ honest about how you feel/deal with life situation. Its not very common these days to find friends who celebrate your success with you, honestly helping each other grow and are the ultimate support system for each other - kinda like sticking through thick and thin. Did I not mention Igor - he is cute but Gaby and Allison are my favorite.
Thank you. I always find it so uncomfortable when people have said previously it doesn't matter when they're heavier, but then as soon as it's gone are happy to speak of loosing weight and accept compliments of achievement about it. BUT I'm happy if Allison is happy lol 🤷🏿♀️
I'm an anxious attachment kind of person, but I worked so much on myself over the past few years, I think I'm in a better place now. Recently I met someone I'm really interested in and I hope I'm finally a secured attachment. I missed you guys so much, watching all 4 of you is like meeting long lost family members ..love you guys
I’m avoidant. I used to date another avoidant, sometimes we would go days without contacting each other, and when we made plans, we often ended up not doing it. He would tell me that he didn’t want too full on a relationship, and I’d be like alright whatever. It was stupid. Now I’m with a secure, it’s so much better and I’m learning so much. I said I love you to someone for the first time ever. I’m slowly learning to be vulnerable, to voice my needs, and like igor, not to compartmentalise!
Hey y’all! Big fan over here, I love when you guys talk about your thoughts and feelings on life and love and would honestly love to hear more of it. I think it’d be really cool if y’all started a podcast (the three of you) as maybe an extended just between us and more casual convo about those things, which obv you have been doing a lot of on the channel. I just feel like I always wanna hear more!!
igor looks so happy talking about his relationship, it's so cuteeeeee. can't wait for when i find someone that makes me as happy as igor's gf makes him feel~
I’m so happy for Igor Also I love you guy’s conversations. I wish I cud join you guys. It’s feels so good to just sit down with a friend and talk about things you are wondering and don’t know and get their opinion
I discovered this channel a couple weeks ago and have been watching all the videos since then. Y'all are doing great work. ALSO WELCOME BACK IGOR SO GOOD TO HAVE YOU HERE WITH US.
i used to be avoidant as a young teen, then i went through trauma and became anxious, now i have grown a lot and gotten through a lot and as an adult i have become secure in my relationship. My boyfriend i feel is quite secure as well and seeing him not freaking out about simple things helped follow his example and realize the world doesn´t end because we aren´t attached to eachother 24/7 or we have stuff to do so we can´t talk certain days x)
This is an interesting article about it, I'm not a psychologist so I can't speak to it's validity but it's kind of interesting to read. www.psychalive.org/disorganized-attachment/
@@stormylovely8912 So, abused children have this paradoxical relationship with their parents. The caregiver is supposed to be a source of comfort and protection, but when they respond to the child's fear/upset by scaring the child more or becoming upset themselves, the child is never able to regulate their emotions. This is often referred to as "fear without a solution." It typically results in disorganized patterns of behavior, confusion, and disorientation. Whereas people with anxious attachment will have approach motivations due to fear of abandonment, and people with avoidant attachment develop avoidant behaviors, people with disorganized attachment exhibit both approach and avoidant motivations. They are simultaneously afraid of abandonment and fear their partner themselves.
I think it's cool that Allison felt comfortable enough to share her weight in a public way. I personally feel uncomfortable doing it myself because everybody makes a rude comment like, "Wow, you weigh that much? ? ? You sure don't look it..." I'm like sheesh, I weigh a normal amount for my height, I'm sorry the number isn't acceptable to you :/ I guess the only weight number that's OK for women is under 110 lbs no matter what their height
Allison, I genuinely believe you are my emotional doppelganger! I relate to you on literally everything you say haha I too am anxious attached, much to my detriment. The part about reeking of desperation when single was the best bit! xx
So avoidant! Someone getting close? Nope sorry... I'm busy! Literally nearly did it again tonight! I'm so happy for Igor 😊 It's great that he's now in such a healthy relationship. You give me hope!
It makes me so happy to see friends openly talking about their feelings and problems like this. I'm generally avoidant in my non-romantic relationships, but I'm working on it.
All of this is so wholesome im super happy for everyone to finally get together and talk about things again :) Congrats Igor! Allison good job! Gabbie you're awesome!
I'm not seeing any comments about it but what Igor and Alison said about not compartmentalizing my time in my relationship. I definitely am a "this is this time" "this is that time" kind of mentality. Like, I still feel like I can't function 100% in my apartment (my space where I decompress) if my partner is there. This is definitely something I need to work on.
Pretty sure I’m anxious and I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4.5 years. Only within the last year have a started feeling truly secure. It’s a nice feeling.
Allison your comment about people thinking you’re gross because you’ve been rejected so much is most of the reason why I’m in therapy so high five I guess? Also love Igor congrats on the happiness!!
I kind of felt like I had come to a dead end in trying to figure out what my fear is in trying to have a relationship and this video opened up a whole new door for me to explore and try to figure out. So thank you! Maybe I can keep moving forward :)
Hey guys! I really apologize for the diet talk at the beginning. We try really hard to be transparent with you and this is something I'm currently tackling. BUT I did not at all take into consideration that it might be triggering/harmful for some and I'm truly sorry. Hope you can skip ahead and enjoy the rest of the episode! xoxo Gossip Girl (Allison)
Thanks for taking our feedback into consideration Allison, truly shows what kind of people you guys are and how much you care about your audience! Much love
Just Between Us u didn’t put the time tag for ppl to skip ahead!!! They to listen to it to know where it ends 🙄
Put that as a warning with time in the description if u care !!!
Just Between Us please please pin this comment!!💕💕
wut... now losing weight is offensive or something? i'm done
I dont see this comment enough so i wanna throw it out there but i honestly have learmed a lot about mental health from watching this channel (also love when Igor is on the channel too)
Yes, it's the more matter of fact nature of saying "this is who I am and what I deal with" rather than a comedy or overly dramatic character.
Thank you love to be on it
calling my therapist to tell them the good news about Igor
😂 Same
This comment wins 🤣🤣🤣
I definitely related with Allison when she said, “my instinct is that if someone finds out I’m interested in them, they’ll be like, ‘gross’”
I’m married now (miracle) with someone who is secure.
Don’t give up hope, Allison! Expect the unexpected when you least expect it.
Lol
Yeah, ouch.. That hit home for me as well. And same as Allison: not my parents to blame for that, but bullies mainly. Good for you that you found your love :)
When Allison said that being rejected in the past has caused her to think that people would be grossed out by her affection I felt that so fucking hard I think it left a mark and I may actually be bleeding
It physically hurts me how relatable that is to so many people (myself included).
I was DEFINITELY anxiously attached to my ex-girlfriend, but with my current boyfriend I’m completely securely attached. Maybe it can depend on the other person’s tendencies and the relationship health too? She was more avoidant, so I became more anxious, and my boyfriend now is secure so I am too. You’re not stuck in one type!
Yes, I think being with an avoidant makes you anxious
It’s like the rat test. You put a rat in a cage with a big red button. Every time they press the button food will come out. The rat will press the button when it’s hungry and go about it’s business idk doing it’s rat errands.
But say you have the same situation except the button only give food SOMETIMES. The rat becomes obsessed with this button and becomes addicted to the satisfaction of food due to it scarcely receiving it.
I was anxious in every relationship I had until I met my wife. She is the only relationship I've ever had that I've been secure. I guess I'm right about it because we just celebrated our 22nd anniversary.
Ciro Grassi so pleased for you!!
Congrats
Aw congratz!
Awee that's so sweet
So cute. I love this
Yay welcome back Igor
Thanks, Maxxxycat
Who even has secure attachment in this day and age
truth, also love the picture
Depends on age and mental health.
secure attachment? in this economy??
My parents apparently :))
"Everyone would love for you to smile at them" is the cutest thing I've ever heard omg
I think it's incredible when people can openly talk about their feelings and insecurities on a real, reasonable and reflective way and not pass judgement on each other. Just between us, This was like a genuinely heartwarming interaction and I loved every minute of it.
I agree!
missed u igor
President Igor, we all stan the lab-grown meat. *AMEN.*
sugar sleeping through the whole video is the best thing ever
sugar is secure attachment
Macarena Urteaga i didn’t even realize she was there until i read this comment hahah
to be fair she's slept through the whole series
What kind of dog is Sugar?
igor and gaby are the supporting friends everyone needs in their life
Hm, actually, according to Attachment Theory, there are FOUR types of attachment (and they're not split 50/25/25). There are Secure and Insecure attachments as sub-headings, but under the insecure umbrella there are Avoidant, Ambivalent, and Disorganized.
Disorganized attachments are typically seen in those with traumatic and/or troubled relationships with their parents, and they're not necessarily hot-and-cold, though they can be. Most often it's often trying to meet both needs at the same time. A chronic need to seek comfort and love out of a desperate need for it but also actively pushing people away and feeling like the attempts of others to supply comfort actually hurt (but they don't know why). They often push away out of safety, protection and mostly a negative self concept *and* negative world view. The others involve a positive self concept, negative world view, and then vice versa. Hope that helps.
You can read more in this series on attachment, here:
beautyafterbruises.org/blog/attachment1
Each article is brief but to the point. Gaby might specifically benefit since it really goes into disorganised attachment.
Kaalyn - OPG thank you 🙏
@@divyasasidharan2960 Absolutely. I hope it's helpful! 💛💙
I'm in this picture and I don't like it
@@jugasppar Same. The whole way through I was like "what if you're both of those insecure types at once..."
I really encourage Gaby to follow through with that wanting to be a vegan urge
absolutely. the best thing i've ever done was going fully plant based. i've never felt better, never looked back
Don't feel pressure to flip a switch to 100% plants instantly; feeling like a failure if you give in to a chicken nugget isn't going to help you grow. The path that works for me is to make an effort to find the ways of eating plants that are delicious to me, do it as much as I can, and take the wins on those meals. Positive reinforcement is so much better for achieving goals.
I've actually thought about doing this in the future, I'm already eating pescatarian but I think I should wait until I'm older that way my mom doesn't have to worry about feeding me when we go out and stuff. What do you guys think? Any tips?
I was vegan when i was 8 amd it was hard but extremely rewarding. I was a but overweight but it was a very unhealthy kind of over weight and veganism helped. But on order to get all the vitamins and things that i needed it was a bit pricy so ive never gotten back to being a vegan again
@@nyahjones2213 depends on how old you are obviously. also talk to your mum about it, maybe you can work something out with her? it is possible and healthy to eat only whole plant foods at any stage in your life, but it might take some unlearning of habits and relearning of portion sizes. (greens and beans are less choleric dense than fatty meat, you will have to eat more)
5:25 I live for how unironically supportive and uplifting Igor can be towards Allison when she talks about her insecurities.
I love seeing these three happy. Allison's not in a relationship, but she's doing good. ❤
I’m here for the emotional growth
You guys started off as my favorite buzzfeed people. I just loved your vibe together whatever it was. When you left and i found out all the things and you had your own TH-cam channel i immediately followed. The evolution of your videos has been amazing and i feel like we've grown up together. You guys are like me and my best friends. Listening and watching you (non creepily i swear) has been a joy! Mental health, sexuality, relationships, barometers of friendship the honesty and frankness. I just wanted to say you're amazing and i appreciate you.
I'm secure and I'm offended.
Also:
Congrats Igor
Nice job Allison
Go vegan Gaby
I love love LOVE the chemistry between the three of you! You’re all blunt yet respectful toward one another, while being eloquent in your own way.
P.S I feel I’m a combination of anxiety & avoidance attachment - might be because I have BPD.
WOW the explanation of avoidant was so what I needed to hear about an ex I've been nostalgic for lately. He used to react SO DIFFERENTLY one day to the next. Very vulnerable and communicative on one date, but then so closed off and distant when trying to make plans for the next. Would express such real emotions but was so hard to pin down. I like to think I'm somewhere between stable and anxious, but this guy's behaviour made me FULL ANXIOUS. The mixed signals gave me whiplash. ((I also think he might have been depressed, but that's neither here nor there)) Thank you for the words! And congrats Igor!
The return of Igor with great news.
6:10 gaby adjusted her glasses TOUCHING THE LENS that's unforgivable
ugh this is hilarious but so sincere. I love friendship and weirdly, these three friends make me more excited to grow older than I am
also omg igor im so happy for you youre the cutest
Love the hair, Allison!
And I guess I’m avoidant but I always thought I was the secure one cuz people either wanted to be with me 24/7 or never wanted to prioritize me. I want privacy and for us to just be comfortable together and by ourselves. Maybe I just want too much of an unachievable balance?
Allison, I so wish you had a Wordpress blog or something. Man, it'd be so awesome to pick your brains in the comments section, kind of like an Ask Me Anything/Q&A-style thing. The reason why I say that is I just have a hunch that you really want to be understood in greater depth, but don't really feel a sense of peace or connection because these social media venues don't let you be the true you without having to put on a performance or try to be entertaining. Just my two cents!
Seeing Allison doing well is heart-warming. And it is kind of an inspiration if you ask me, at least for anyone who is dealing (or about to) with these "life-handbrakes". Thanks for sharing this with us.
Also, I'm happy Igor got rid of that moustache.
this video is what i needed to relax on my back to college day, love u guys
How am I both of the bad ones simultaneously?!? P.S. congrats Igor❤
theres also something called disorganised attachment, could be that.
anxious-ambivalent, tends to be more mixed where avoidance is shutting out everything
Lol same..
I stumbled upon your channel a week ago and I have been hooked since. I especially like the way you guys are transparent/ honest about how you feel/deal with life situation. Its not very common these days to find friends who celebrate your success with you, honestly helping each other grow and are the ultimate support system for each other - kinda like sticking through thick and thin. Did I not mention Igor - he is cute but Gaby and Allison are my favorite.
For those triggered by weight and diet talk, skip to 0:59
Thank you. I always find it so uncomfortable when people have said previously it doesn't matter when they're heavier, but then as soon as it's gone are happy to speak of loosing weight and accept compliments of achievement about it. BUT I'm happy if Allison is happy lol 🤷🏿♀️
Welcome back to “We’re Less Broken” lol 😂🤣
Igor, you little cutie pie! And Gaby being cute about saying "I love you" !
you literally just posted this and i want a part 2 to finish listening to your stories guys...❤
I'm an anxious attachment kind of person, but I worked so much on myself over the past few years, I think I'm in a better place now. Recently I met someone I'm really interested in and I hope I'm finally a secured attachment.
I missed you guys so much, watching all 4 of you is like meeting long lost family members ..love you guys
Alison! 100% I get that thought! I am ALWAYS positive that if a guy finds out I’m into him, he’s gonna get super freaked out!!
okay igor speaking so highly and proudly of allison literally made me go "awww" out loud to my computer. thank u for this wholesome upload
I am SO happy to see Igor! I've missed him. I just adore him, he's so lovely.
I’m avoidant. I used to date another avoidant, sometimes we would go days without contacting each other, and when we made plans, we often ended up not doing it. He would tell me that he didn’t want too full on a relationship, and I’d be like alright whatever. It was stupid. Now I’m with a secure, it’s so much better and I’m learning so much. I said I love you to someone for the first time ever. I’m slowly learning to be vulnerable, to voice my needs, and like igor, not to compartmentalise!
Hey y’all! Big fan over here, I love when you guys talk about your thoughts and feelings on life and love and would honestly love to hear more of it. I think it’d be really cool if y’all started a podcast (the three of you) as maybe an extended just between us and more casual convo about those things, which obv you have been doing a lot of on the channel. I just feel like I always wanna hear more!!
igor looks so happy talking about his relationship, it's so cuteeeeee. can't wait for when i find someone that makes me as happy as igor's gf makes him feel~
Ok this channel always makes me feel good BUT OMG THIS VIDEO MAKES ME SO HAPPY
I’m so happy for Igor
Also I love you guy’s conversations. I wish I cud join you guys.
It’s feels so good to just sit down with a friend and talk about things you are wondering and don’t know and get their opinion
I discovered this channel a couple weeks ago and have been watching all the videos since then. Y'all are doing great work. ALSO WELCOME BACK IGOR SO GOOD TO HAVE YOU HERE WITH US.
Seriously this channel gets better and better. It’s like every video is therapeutic. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
i used to be avoidant as a young teen, then i went through trauma and became anxious, now i have grown a lot and gotten through a lot and as an adult i have become secure in my relationship. My boyfriend i feel is quite secure as well and seeing him not freaking out about simple things helped follow his example and realize the world doesn´t end because we aren´t attached to eachother 24/7 or we have stuff to do so we can´t talk certain days x)
I'M SO HAPPY YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT ATTACHMENT STYLES OH MY GOD
I cannot tell you how much I relate to Allison this episode. Every time she said something I was like ”yeahhhh exactly ”.
I just remember when Igor had braces and I gotta say, I'm loving all this growth! Your guys deserve to be happy.
There are actually 4 attachment styles.... the last one is 'disorganized attachment', which is common in abused kids.
Rachael C what are the characteristics of that?
What does that mean?
that means you kind of have no real feeling of security i think
This is an interesting article about it, I'm not a psychologist so I can't speak to it's validity but it's kind of interesting to read. www.psychalive.org/disorganized-attachment/
@@stormylovely8912 So, abused children have this paradoxical relationship with their parents. The caregiver is supposed to be a source of comfort and protection, but when they respond to the child's fear/upset by scaring the child more or becoming upset themselves, the child is never able to regulate their emotions. This is often referred to as "fear without a solution." It typically results in disorganized patterns of behavior, confusion, and disorientation. Whereas people with anxious attachment will have approach motivations due to fear of abandonment, and people with avoidant attachment develop avoidant behaviors, people with disorganized attachment exhibit both approach and avoidant motivations. They are simultaneously afraid of abandonment and fear their partner themselves.
I feel like I watched this group grow and change and become different people.
I think it's cool that Allison felt comfortable enough to share her weight in a public way. I personally feel uncomfortable doing it myself because everybody makes a rude comment like, "Wow, you weigh that much? ? ? You sure don't look it..." I'm like sheesh, I weigh a normal amount for my height, I'm sorry the number isn't acceptable to you :/ I guess the only weight number that's OK for women is under 110 lbs no matter what their height
I religiously rewatch it every month
Well Ive heard of those types before, and for me I can say that it really depends on the person Im dating so its kinda a mix
100% anxious in literally any kind of relationship 😂
this is the softest episode ive ever seen yall being so soft make me so soft im so soft right now a whole pudding MUST BE NICE TO LOVE N BE LOVED
Allison having her second glow up? Here for it
Allison, I genuinely believe you are my emotional doppelganger! I relate to you on literally everything you say haha I too am anxious attached, much to my detriment. The part about reeking of desperation when single was the best bit! xx
Allison I totally totally relate to what you said about being rejected and not wanting to let off that you’re into someone.
So avoidant! Someone getting close? Nope sorry... I'm busy! Literally nearly did it again tonight!
I'm so happy for Igor 😊 It's great that he's now in such a healthy relationship. You give me hope!
AND SHE WENT NO AND WALKED AWAY AND THE VIDEO ENDS THIS IS COMEDY
I love y’all’s new hair 😂😍
It makes me so happy to see friends openly talking about their feelings and problems like this. I'm generally avoidant in my non-romantic relationships, but I'm working on it.
I'm an Anxious person for sure. I relate to Allison so much on these kind of situations. Also, Igor, good for you!!
Igor being secure is the best news I’ve gotten this year
This is nothing like what I normally enjoy but your channel is just so charming to me and I love it
The thing Alison said about people thinking “gross” about someone finding out they’re interested in them hit a LITTLE close to home
ANXIOUS AF.
Also I need the rest of that story, Gaby! Don't end on that kind of cliffhanger. D:
Love love love this episode
Thank you so much for all of it
The mental health part, the love part, the dog ALL OF IT! ❤️
This was refreshing; it was great having Igor back. Looking good everyone!
i love these three sooo much and i love the way they all support each other
Can y’all please have a podcast, all three of you are always so fun to listen to!!! Omg!!! Pls !!
Those attachment style are for infants. And they don't define the way you'll be your entire life.
The one for adults are slightly different.
It's awesome when Igor is around to compliment the show
everyone just seems to be living their best lives. I hope 2019 brings all of y'all good things
All of this is so wholesome im super happy for everyone to finally get together and talk about things again :)
Congrats Igor! Allison good job! Gabbie you're awesome!
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS UPLOAD SINCE LAST YEAR
THANK YOU
I'm not seeing any comments about it but what Igor and Alison said about not compartmentalizing my time in my relationship. I definitely am a "this is this time" "this is that time" kind of mentality. Like, I still feel like I can't function 100% in my apartment (my space where I decompress) if my partner is there. This is definitely something I need to work on.
Allison is living her best life and WE LOVE IT!!!!!!!
Soooo happy to see Igor back and in love! Also, Alison love your smile, don't ever stop!
Same socks. Same hair. They filmed this one and the new one on the same day and just changed clothes 😂. Love you girls
Gaby's face at the beginning when Allison starts explaining what she can and can't eat is sort of how I feel about diets in general :-p
I'm just so happy for Igor.
Allison you really don't need to lose weight! You deserve to love and accept yourself the way you are!
Pretty sure I’m anxious and I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4.5 years. Only within the last year have a started feeling truly secure. It’s a nice feeling.
Ps I missed Igor
y’all are awesome and its great to see and hear from Igor again!
Allison your comment about people thinking you’re gross because you’ve been rejected so much is most of the reason why I’m in therapy so high five I guess?
Also love Igor congrats on the happiness!!
Less than two minutes in and Igors giving a lecture about attachment theory. I forgot I loved this man.
This is such an encouraging episode. I love honest videos about personal growth!
Allison is so relatable oml
Missed Igor!!!
I learnt about insecure and secure attachement for my course, instantly knew that I was screwed because I am the definition of anxious attachement
I’m an anxious and I dated an avoidant for a few months and BOY was that a bad idea.
yikes
"are you kidding me im not gonna pass up my fruit"
dude same
I’ve gotta say it. Allison’s Jewish accent came out at 8:30 and I played that shit back 5 times. Absolutely loved it!
YES IGOR. my relationship with my current SO felt SO MUCH LIKE THAT. Stable relationships are bonkers (in a great way)
I kind of felt like I had come to a dead end in trying to figure out what my fear is in trying to have a relationship and this video opened up a whole new door for me to explore and try to figure out.
So thank you!
Maybe I can keep moving forward :)