People like them are only sorry because they have been found out. The best you can do is protect yourself from that person, by not letting them close to what is dear to you.
That means you have not accepted it ! Acceptance is the starting point of healing and stop questioning yourself . Why it has happened to you , etc .. then you will get over it .
So clear and logical, actually I find many similarities with Buddhism, both stoicism and Buddhist psychology have helped me cultivate wisdom. Thank you 🙏🏻
Recently, I was betrayed by my family including my oldest son. I'm struggling with this pain. How do I forgive when the thoughts are continusly in my thoughts? I'm journaling daily. Thus, I'm seeking stoic rules to overcome these negative betrayed thoughts. How do I change my thinking and grow from the pain?
There is no changing the thinking. What you feel now is normal. Betrayal is a vicious monster that will destroy anyone’s trust and norm of thought. The only thing you can do is control how it affects you. Will you let it drag you down, or will you let it start a raging fire to take action in life? I was just betrayed by a close friend, and not for the first time in my life recently. I’ve been through this pain many times, and each time I’ve always noticed one thing. The pain is unbearable now, but each following day, week, and month you will notice it fades. All you can do is be strong and move forward in life. Know that there are many more joyous things in life outside of people, and that stoicism is the power of enjoying life by your means and what you control.
Keep yourself busy with hobbies/tasks that focus on YOU and your happiness. Try an easy painting or knit a scarf. I find creating things keeps my mind focused in a positive way, and it is so satisfying to have something made by your own hands. Start making yourself green smoothies (I make them sweet with bananas and apple juice😘) and taking walks outside where there are other people around. Pamper yourself at home with a bubble bath. Block contact with the people who betrayed you, its ok to do this for your own peace. Regardless of how they made you feel, YOUR happiness matters! Time will slowly ease the pain. Until then, keep yourself busy loving YOU. ❤
I can't handle anything. sometimes life's an square. it will be stuck there not moving by even a little trust betrayed. and they wonder why I'm being a suicidal freak.
Other people can always let us down. Remember you can be strong on your own, and don't give up on your life. ❤ you aren't a "freak", you are uniquely yourself.
I to was deceived by a former friend, now he foolishly wants me to hide it from his wife....!!!! Idiot,, she'll be getting a letter in a few days. !! Happy divorce buddy.. !!! Lol
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'Suffering tests brave men like fire tests gold".
I recently got snaked by someone I thought was my friend. Turns out he wasn't, and now he is acting like it was a mistake.
People like them are only sorry because they have been found out. The best you can do is protect yourself from that person, by not letting them close to what is dear to you.
Same. Like..."I'm sorry that I killed your mother. I didn't know you were going to feel that way. I'm so aloof" tf!
Same here
Hope you didn’t fall for that trap. Sorry 😞
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I hate the feeling of betrayal. It feels like a stain that never goes away.
That means you have not accepted it ! Acceptance is the starting point of healing and stop questioning yourself . Why it has happened to you , etc .. then you will get over it .
Perfect timing. Thank you!
You are so welcome!
Stoicism is okey only after giving the other same treatment back. It’s ones duty to try to protect future victims.
So clear and logical, actually I find many similarities with Buddhism, both stoicism and Buddhist psychology have helped me cultivate wisdom. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you!
Great
The Universe is so F****** on Point.
Thanks for watching
If you're young then you learned early on, if you're not then you have learned just in time to live the rest of your life happy and free.
No we’re just at a point where weak men are making hard times , it’s almost on to the next phase
I hope we're going into a stronger phase.
Great!😁
I feel this from 2 of my closest friends
It has been hard
Then they're not your friends
Recently, I was betrayed by my family including my oldest son. I'm struggling with this pain. How do I forgive when the thoughts are continusly in my thoughts? I'm journaling daily. Thus, I'm seeking stoic rules to overcome these negative betrayed thoughts.
How do I change my thinking and grow from the pain?
There is no changing the thinking. What you feel now is normal. Betrayal is a vicious monster that will destroy anyone’s trust and norm of thought. The only thing you can do is control how it affects you. Will you let it drag you down, or will you let it start a raging fire to take action in life? I was just betrayed by a close friend, and not for the first time in my life recently. I’ve been through this pain many times, and each time I’ve always noticed one thing. The pain is unbearable now, but each following day, week, and month you will notice it fades. All you can do is be strong and move forward in life. Know that there are many more joyous things in life outside of people, and that stoicism is the power of enjoying life by your means and what you control.
Keep yourself busy with hobbies/tasks that focus on YOU and your happiness. Try an easy painting or knit a scarf. I find creating things keeps my mind focused in a positive way, and it is so satisfying to have something made by your own hands. Start making yourself green smoothies (I make them sweet with bananas and apple juice😘) and taking walks outside where there are other people around. Pamper yourself at home with a bubble bath. Block contact with the people who betrayed you, its ok to do this for your own peace. Regardless of how they made you feel, YOUR happiness matters! Time will slowly ease the pain. Until then, keep yourself busy loving YOU. ❤
I can't handle anything. sometimes life's an square. it will be stuck there not moving by even a little trust betrayed. and they wonder why I'm being a suicidal freak.
Other people can always let us down. Remember you can be strong on your own, and don't give up on your life. ❤ you aren't a "freak", you are uniquely yourself.
Right on time
Thanks for watching!
I to was deceived by a former friend, now he foolishly wants me to hide it from his wife....!!!! Idiot,, she'll be getting a letter in a few days. !! Happy divorce buddy.. !!! Lol
React with virtue, do not get involved in ugliness. If you are not sincerely warning your friend, you are acting on revenge, and that is pointless.
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