Queen Afua & Stephanie McGraw On Speaking Out Against Domestic Violence, Healing, W.A.R.M. + More
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Having the mentality of it being our duty to help our men is what leaves many of us victimized, vulnerable, and unprotected. It is the men’s duty to protect us, even from themselves if necessary.
It's not my duty to help a violent grown man!! That's why there's a justice system. Men need to hold them accountable.
People don't realize how much our diet is related to our mental health. Detoxification is uncomfortable but it will save your future!
Very important
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But only you realize that!!!!
This is true!
I’ve had family members die (murdered) trying to help their abusers. GET OUT. Their existence is not your responsibility. Yours is.
BM need to learn how to heal themselves; it's not up to BW to be their healer!!! Everyone should be accountable for their own actions!
Heal our men by raising healthy and safe boys. Heal the future generations. You are in no way obligated to go back and get someone that abused you. Heal and release the anger and pain that was caused and release him from your spirit, mind and body. Not all women are called to do the work that they’re speaking of. Ladies, don’t take this as your calling if it isn’t yours. Don’t misinterpret their message and stay with your abuser or return to your abuser. Stay safe, stay alive. If you still love that man, ask God to heal him, that’s not your job. Get out and stay out.
Go back to help him. HELL NO!!!! I AM BLESSED TO BE ALIVE. I came out the restroom in his elderly mother's bathroom taking care of her. Walk past him and he damn near killed me. I will never go back. I don't need to have any conversations with him. I gave 13 years to that. I don't give 2 fcks on why. Save yourself, heal yourself protect yourself Love and forgive yourself. Hold your head up never be ashamed you are ALIVE. God is real!!!!!!
First and foremost I am so glad that you made it out! Secondly, i am so sorry that you had to experience that. Lastly, thank you for this valuable advice. It is not the responsibility of the victim/ survivor to save or help absolve their perpetrator of their guilt. That is such terrible and dangerous advice that they gave. I hope anyone currently experiencing it has survived domestic violence comes across your comment.
I can smell her perfume 😂😂
Same 😂
That’s her spirit coming through!!
Yooooooo you gave me thought/ memory frfr
I rebuke all forms of mental oppression and afflictions. I declare soundness of the mind in Jesus name!
Keep fighting to proctect black women. I'm all for folks healing but it's not our responsibility as victims to then go back and try to help the abuser especially if they don't want to be helped, simple forgiveness is all those abusers deserve its their responsibility to then go get help from a professional.
It’s so sad how many ppl die at the hands of unstable ppl that claim to love them. So many stories we’ll never know.
I appreciate the work these Queens are doing. Praying for divine protection over all wholeheartedly involved 💗
This is a very important and necessary interview.Thank you ladies.Thank you Breakfast Club!!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
These ladies should have been invited on the show shortly after Tory Lanez was found guilty. That was a very public example of a woman finding herself in a deadly situation with a man she was intimate with and being publicly mocked and shunned by some of her peers as a result of naming her abuser. If it could happen to someone as famous as Meg in public what chance does the average woman have of being taken seriously?
Stop simping tory didnt shot her. If you fire a gun 5 times your prints will be on it. His prints were not, how do you explain that?
@@iamBlackTech95I'm not arguing or re-litigating the case with stupid people. That's all I got for you🤷🏾♂️
@@LzyArt story was locked up on unlawful possession of a illegal firearm. The case had nothing to do with Megan. But keep simping queen
@@iamBlackTech95🥱 He'll be out in 7. You can hop right back on his stick before they deport him.
@@LzyArt insulting a man because of facts is crazy. Have a good day simp
This is all about appeasing violent men! Don't do it. It is NOT your responsibility to heal broken men. Jesus!
Agreed! That’s a work only God can do
Right. Men need to be checking these broken men
Women birth men. So it’s dire that mothers or potential mothers get the tools necessary so that their sons won’t grow up to be broken men. With or without the father.
@@TheMouthSoap, or give the boys to their fathers if the fathers aren’t in the home.
The Queen is back 👑
Do they have services for men that are DV victims? it’s rarely spoken about
Thank you WARM! For all you do❤️❤️❤️There is no one else around that has shown me love like you do💕💕💕
Why is it never talked about that lesbian couples have the highest domestic violence incindents
Because there are more heterosexual couples than lesbian couples that suffer from DV.
Cuz most of them with violence look just like men and try to emulate the black man. Either way they picking what they see as cool 🤦🏿♀️
I absolutely Love Queen Afua. I just found her last year. This is such a much needed segment. I’ve never saw Domestic Violence and Mental Health so bad. Yes, we need help, HEALing & awareness. My heart goes out to anyone who experiencing or who has been a victim of DV. I know personally there isn’t much help. Try to plan if you can to get out of these toxic relationships. Love Should Not Hurt. There is some help, if you can’t find help in your city or state- try another one. Please be careful and stay Blessed. Thank you both for sharing🙂
Thank you for having theses ladies… we need more guest like this
I love her 🥲 Edited to add: every single time the universe brings her across my ears and heart I am so deeply touched. There is no doubt she is an angel on earth omg. Thank you for having Queen on and sharing her message. 😮💨😮💨😭💕
Queen Acura and Stephanie McGraw are women of great wonders . They have been sent by God to do his work .They are the mentors to all who have suffered abuse . 🌸🌹🌺🌸🌹🌺🌸🌹🌺
At least give her the respect of spelling her name correctly.
I have known these women and have worked side by side with them for awhile .I have nothing but respect for them . Typo errors happen all the time . Please don’t jump to judgement so easily or you may be judged as disrespectful.
Domestic violence is not chemically induced
If you are being beaten by your man, please do not try healing vibrations. Leave, with help from family and friends.
Domestic violence in many cases is simply a relinquishment of power by the woman to a man. And in some cases vice versa. Women yield to men for support purposes. Whether it be financially, sex induced, drug induced, or emotional support. And in many of those cases, the men they choose are obviously trash. Do some men hide their character behind nice suits, good jobs, and psychopathic behavior…sure. But these cases are way more basic than you think. Most times it’s simply low class women dealing with low class men and the women for whatever reason disregard the character of the man. If he sells drugs, works only two days a week, sags his pants, cheats on you, has 4 and 5 kids, doesn’t have a bank account, deals only in cash, comes home late, smokes weed all the time, doesn’t keep a clean home, doesn’t have a home, has a toxic relationship with his mama, don’t know his daddy, clothes cost more than the amount he pays in child support, still goes to the club, ain’t been to church in years, never saw him pray, plays video games multiple hours each day, etc…….he might hit you. Why…..because his life is unstable. Therefore he is unstable and anything can happen when a table’s legs are wobbly. Duuuuuuhhh!!!
Awwoww this is gonna be sweet to listen to
Great conversation as these Women spoke truth to life!!!😊
Morning! Queen Afua, Stephanie, thank you, kudos and shalom.
She’s beautiful and her work is amazing I work closely with her…. ❤❤❤
🇯🇲🇯🇲 Jamaica in the building 🏢
Spread the word to your community. I hear domestic violence is strife…as is the case for most, if not all, of our communities.
Meanwhile they still haven't addressed Rick Ross and Flex yet
Biggest threat to the black man in 2023 !
Where in the scripture does it say it’s the woman job to guide men to their happiness? Sis making up her own version of men and women 😂
Random... but all this time I thought DJ Envy was on the heavier side... but after seeing him at AAMU homecoming ...my guy is way smaller than i thought lol
Nah he is not heavy he’s actually built nicely
Rest in peace Erica Brown 💟🕊️💔
In addressing Envy's question regarding Domestic Violence (DV) cases being deprioritized, one contributing factor is that some victims may not consistently engage with the legal process. While they might initially contact the police out of fear and anger, they may not always follow through by attending court proceedings. It's essential to recognize that in many instances, these cases involve Black women who find themselves in precarious situations, engaging with individuals for various reasons, such as financial support, substance abuse, or, at times, naivety.
When these individuals exhibit violent behavior, consistent with their prior actions, these women suddenly find themselves in distressing circumstances. With the prevalence of DV cases, it can be challenging for the courts to allocate the necessary attention to those who may not prioritize their own well-being. State attorneys' offices and prosecutors are often burdened with heavy caseloads, making it difficult to address this issue on a more empathetic and human level.
I’ll never forget when my ex called me telling me her new boyfriend was beating her. Definitely didn’t know what to do or to tell her. She ended up marrying him and have a big family.
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Very important information, a lot of people don’t take it serious
Me relate to Queen Afua
Dj Envy is named after Envyi from the duo K.P. & Envyi. They are singers that had a big hit in 1998. Breakfast Club should interview them."
IMPORTANT: On Wed., Oct. 4 at 2:20 p.m. ET, there will be a nationwide emergency alert test on wireless phones and devices. If you're in a DV situation and have a hidden cell, turn the power off your phone b4 the alert so it doesn't make any noise. ⚠️
Envy's "serious" voice lol
I’m checking out of this video….
The abuse that men get from a scorned single mother is whats reciprocating this violence to black women.
Interesting perspective. I was victimized by one, but didn’t stop to think about how he was raised by a scorned single mother and therefore acting out. (I have no children, btw)
@DannielleSudena it's like that sometimes but some men are just jerks. Women usually are tougher on the boys because no man is around but it's really called more abusive because no man is around
There’s a whole genre of music degrading women. Could that be an issue? I know even back when music like jazz, blues and gospel was the popular music there was D.V. But we’ve had decades of music depicting women as no less than sexual beings… just a thought.
The more the single mother rate goes up. The more the domestic violence goes up. Interesting
Let's change the way WE treat each other. Men need women/Women need men.
Most of them (men) don't want to admit they have an issue(s) and refuse to budge or get therapy.
I would love the Meeting of the Minds with Queen Afua and Paster P aka Princella The Queen Maker and others qualified to have the conversation w/ Amanda Seals as a host or something ❤️ 🤔
I was born in Harlem hospital in 86
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Why can't men and women heal side-by-side? Why do women have to heal first then men heal second? Men are adults who are capable of healing.
Still waiting to hear DJ Envy for Donkey of the day.. Him and Cesar deserve it for scamming people out of millions of dollars.
After the first time,.. domestic violence, becomes a "YOU PROBLEM"..
This domestic violence happens heavy in urban areas. They pookies are seeked out on purpose by masculine women. Its a ticking bombshell.
The reason i like Queen Afua is because I’m on the same plane as people that don’t take life for advantage
Damn yall still letting envy of the hook with that Caesar scam?
Not for long I bet.
Why are we not mad they didn’t upload a new episode
I am the one who told them to do this interview and the rest is history. -- TK Kirkland
I don’t agree with the concept of trying to understand your abuser. Let’s stop giving grown men excuses to hit on women I don’t care if you have mummy issues you control your anger around your woman just like you can control your anger around another man who you know can beat your ass!
💬Yep, b/c it doesn't look right takes alot of healing I'd imagine w/ getting a youthful healthy glow back ✨️ & postures different
The name Afua is a Ghanaians name it means Friday ❤🇬🇭🇬🇭
Everybody who born is Friday, if she is a female she called Afua and if he is a male he call Kofi🇬🇭🇬🇭
Am I the only one who thought that was Rickey Smiley?
The call is coming from inside the house! You have two abusers asking what can they do? Comical.
I was here for it til I heard the woman has to be the healer of the home. 🤨Women gotta be everything, to everyone at all times?! Invest in professional help for anyone that believes DV is the way.
Miss McGraw is a real 🫡 soldier
Hello sir are you looking for a profetional youtube thumbnail designer?
80% of DV is mutual combat. It's not just the men
false. you made this completely up. And that reveals a lot about you. yuck.
You wanna know what I believe this whole world has been trained to categorize women & men & blame them all for what one does so we are all the same to a lot of peoples eyes & we get punished the same working with those people out takes work I've worked with some difficult people bcuz I was once one of those difficult people!
Why are they just making abuse Gender specific when abuse is a Human Issue (DJ Envy to be exact)???
Are men abuse victims dying at similar rates?
@@TheJynxzx the topic of discussion isn't about who's dying from abuse, it's about Abuse in General. That was kind of slick though but stay on topic Queen. And this will be my last & only reply. 😁
Breakfast club was weak today 😢
It looks stupid to show people sitting on the waiting couch in the background! Wack!
Yall should’ve had a trigger warning on this video before it started.
I swear every other black chicks name is queen.
Afua is a devil
Da*n… A DEVIL?!?! Why?!
Guess it’s Officially the End of Breakfast Club… 😢
A lot of black males has inner child issues and they don't know how to deal with emotions 😢