The title would be changed to “is it okay to fall in love in a gay bathhouse?” Or “that time I fell in love in a gay bathhouse” lol. I’d probably be an isekai anime as well.
Ugh literally love this video. Totally agree that society weaponizes shame to make ppl feel like being themselves and having sex is wrong, talking abt and sharing stories of queer life is so so important ❤
OMG, you guys are amazing! Love the candid discussions on the “scene” in Japan. It’s interesting to hear about the cultural differences of these spaces, and happy to see you guys dispelling the stigma of visiting these venues.
We're in a You Tube rut... watching the same channels over and over. So I don't know how it happened but thankful we finally found you both! So enjoyable! So accepting! So "out there." I'm especially grateful that the You Tube censors allow you to do your thing! I don't know how you do it but so glad you produce these videos. Many, many warm thoughts go out to you both.
I have never heard similar things happening in the Lesbian community, but I figured there may be just things I don't know. I will try to find some women who would be happy to talk about what goes on!
This part about sleeping is interesting. I went to one with a friend, and after I finished and was waiting for him, I went to a corner and was just lying down resting. However, some people went to me to try to start something and I had to keep saying "I already finished and I'm just waiting for my friend", while actually thinking "gee, isn't lying down with my eyes closed a sign of 'I don't want to do anything'?". I'd never guess this was instead an invitation for people to try doing things...
Glad my algorithm brought me to your channel! Very interesting indeed. I'm from Canada but have been living near Monaco forever. In Canada I used to manage gay bathhouses for 13 years, just so you know, men of all nationalities would play the sleeping game in their rooms to various extents as well. ;)
I laughed so hard at the "crocodile" comment. I've never been to a bathhouse here in the USA but I have heard so many stories from friends. The crocodile is definitely what happens.
Producing a gay bathhouse guide would be a full time job, if you intend it to be up-to-date year after year. Plus you would need VERY good maps given the fact that most streets in Japan are un-named, not to mention the warren that is Shinjuku and Kabukicho. A guide to etiquette and what to expect might be part of it. But first you have the writing of it, (and how could you write about a place without visiting it?), then publishing it, and then distributing it. (Hello, what happened to my life?) Best to stick to TH-cam videos perhaps?
Okay I need one of y’all as a guide to take me to these places next time I visit. So many different places and I didn’t know about the locker key thing. I did guess the sleeping thing when I went, I was more successful when I was “sleeping” haha
Hilarious! It’s so fun to watch you guys talking! It reminds me one of the dirtiest hattenba in Tokyo, where I could learn some new kind of human being.
So.. post-covid... I'm gonna need to know where the good Fundoshi night is... And also as a MISIA Stan, I need to go with you guys to this bar, just on principal. Love the channel
How awesome. Only just found you and this has been so enlightening. I ve always viewed Japan as very hidden gay culture so it’s great to know there are places. Lots by the sound of it.
I just got back from Japan. Wish I had found this video sooner. Would've loved info about those bars you went to. I did have fun with a couple of guys but a naked game place would've been amazing
Love the idea of a guide. You might also consider a service where you make suggestions of places to go based on the experience someone wants. Basically a guide book, but you'd be able to make current suggestions and tailor them to what they're looking for. The benefit of this service would be A) you could make current suggestions so people don't end up somewhere that has closed or changed since the guide came out and B) the kinky board game kinda gay doesn't end up at club where people do something they're not comfortable with.
Last time you mentioned Morning Musume, now it is Misia’a My Everything. Brings back lots of memories of my first few Japan trips in early 2000s. Oooops! Did I just revealed my age? Haha.
Love the videos guys...... i am planning on visiting Japan next year and staying in Shinjuku..... and your videos are making my stay there a lot more relaxing as i will be traveling alone..(i never found love.. lol). Maybe i will see you guys one night...
First of all thank you for your video, especialy the funny story of the pool full of lub. I plan to go visiting Tokyo soon with my husband and I'm not sure he would appreciate these sort of places. Could you recommand places you can go as a gay couple. What about onsen ? Does it exist for gay people ?
Please check out our Top 7 video for sentos/onsen info (not like sexual bathhouses, but just a place where gays go to bathe). As for places that are good for gay couples, we also talk about a famous bathhouse in Shinjuku (at the end of the video). That would be couple-friendly I think!
Perhaps this is a stupid question but do they have protection at these bathhouses? I hear Japan has a pretty big STD problem so I just wanna know everyone is staying safe 😅
You two are AMAZING! Just adorable! I LOVE it that you talk in your frank way. Just like we talk. And to be sure: tomorrow I'll be moving to Japan for good! ha ha .... oops. only now I finished the video ... YOU are facing rejection???? I don't believe one word of it!
Just discovered your channel the other night and enjoying the content. Question: do gay bathhouses in Japan allow tattoos? I have many all over my body and curious if I’d get to participate at any venues or not? I’m from NYC and I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world. Brazil has hands down the BEST I’ve everrrr been to thus far fyi. Cheers boys xx
Bathhouses aren't just for cruising. The one time I went to one (in Dublin) was with a guy I'd met on Grindr. We'd chatted on the app, and met up in person, and kissed a few times, and had our hands down each other's pants, and even had lunch together, but we had nowhere to hook up. He had roommates, and I lived well outside the city and commuted in. So we went to a bathhouse together. We weren't a couple. It was a good time.
I've went into so many bathhouses in Japan and didn't know about all the position of the bracelets.. thats why I got paired with wrong people all the time LOL. I must take notes!
FunFact: Writer Gore Vidal met his long-term partner, Howard Austen, in a NYC bathhouse in the 50's. Also, I just stumbled on this channel. Love your banter
What is the name and address of the bar with hattenba characteristics you are discussing? Also, what is the name and address of the actual Hattenba? I'm planning a trip to Tokyo.
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Thank you for all the positive energy! Keeps us going strong! ❤️ If we ever get around to doing a book, please grab a copy! It would be a fun read I bet! Thank you for watching us! Our female audience means everything to us!! ❤️❤️
You guys are great! I lived in Tokyo many years ago and you taught me a thing or too. You guys seem fun to hang out with. I go to Tokyo 3times/year from montreal
Very nice subject to talk about. I went to this bathhouse in Sao Paulo / Brazil. I think it's the biggest and most famous. It's a nice experience but like you guys have said, I'd like to have more time talking as well. And the face rejection topic is so sad ): I felt the same hahaha But it is ok. I'd love to have this experience in Japan as well.
I was in Rio in 2019 at the bath house there and it was okay...I don't know if you really need to speak the language in order to get more interaction but I kept getting play from more tourists than I did from anybody from Brazil...
God this video makes me wish I had gay friends to go to sexy gay bars with lol. It's something I've never had the chance to experience, but it's entertaining to hear your stories about it.
Not gonna lie but I've been to various .......hattenba, like the one in Shinjuku but this is the first I heard about the where you put your locker key indicate your preferences XD. Hattenba always make a good stories.
omg you brought me back so many memories.... I wanna go back so bad to Tokyo and the crazy hattenba hahaha I'm surprised none of you talked about bukkake tho 😂 😂 ...anyway thanks for sharing and spreading love & acceptance ❤️
Are you guys just friends? I've never been in Japan but hoping to go in 2022. I love your chats. I'm from America gay and out since I was18. I'm very attracted to Asian's especially Japanese guys. I learned a lot from this video .I'm learning some Japanese but quite frankly it's hard to learn but I'll just keep practicing . Thanks for posting new videos. Stay safe and have fun. ;)
Now I understand, why so many people are sleeping in japan sauna ... haha. Next time I will take a move then lol. Love to see you both talking, nice info ...
Great video, very informative!! loved it, and I expected both of you to have stories like this anyways, that's what happens in places like those mentioned.
@@TokyoBTM lolol that's that thing! I don't have many really, LGBT life in the Caribbean is ...different...I'll be more than glad to do a voice interview if you ever want to do those for videos :D
This was interesting and informative. I lived in japan in the late 90s and didn’t know how to access bathhouses or any facility that was gay friendly! If I come back for a visit post pandemic, is there more information for gay visitors?
I love how open you guys are to exploring new places! The way you present it is so informal too, like having a conversation with some friends. Stay safe while you're exploring so you don't get the 'rona (the virus or the beer :-p)
That “dark time” sounds hilarious! imagine an unsuspecting gay gaijin sitting at the bar and suddenly the lights dim and “ your everythinggg!!!! “ starts playing Hahahaha
This was interesting and entertaining. 😃 I know a gay couple who are now married and have been together for over a decade, and they met in a bathhouse. They are professional, well educated guys, so all different types of people go to bathhouses. I believe you can meet "dateable" people almost anywhere.
wow...This has been an education. I didn't realize that such a huge gay culture existed in what seems like a very conservative culture. Thanks for sharing!
“It’s ok to fall in love in a bathhouse” sounds like a light novel title.
Danielle Steel novel! hahah
A light novel with sticky pages.
@@TokyoBTM I wanted to hear more about the older white guy, lol. ;p
The title would be changed to “is it okay to fall in love in a gay bathhouse?” Or “that time I fell in love in a gay bathhouse” lol. I’d probably be an isekai anime as well.
My book on Amazon is called "Bathhouse Babylon The Good, The Bad and the Horny." lol
You guys are so candid I love it- I literally feel like you can't get this anywhere else everyone is so reserved on TH-cam
Thank you for that! It reminds us to be ourselves!
Ugh literally love this video. Totally agree that society weaponizes shame to make ppl feel like being themselves and having sex is wrong, talking abt and sharing stories of queer life is so so important ❤
I need a Tokyo BTM booklet with all your gay advice in Japan 🙏🏽
We should start getting to work on that!
Let us know when it drops 💫 Love your videos!
@@TokyoBTM Given how many gay people and tourists go to Japan.
I am sure it would sell well.
You could make even make a series.
Thank you!
That is a good idea
I went to the bathhouse in Osaka when I was there. As a Puerto Rican in Japan, I felt special 🤣🤣
Darn i wanna go
We wanna go too!
Los japoneses quedaronse locos jajajaja
Because: you ARE Special! Respectfully yours Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA Etats Unis
OMG, you guys are amazing! Love the candid discussions on the “scene” in Japan. It’s interesting to hear about the cultural differences of these spaces, and happy to see you guys dispelling the stigma of visiting these venues.
Thank you so much for the above and glad to hear you enjoyed it! Hopefully we can create more sex positivity!
I’m Japanese. The video makes me sick !!
I'm pretty sure ankle bracelet means: house arrest...
You just killed me😂😂😂😂
Lol
BAHAHAHA
Hahahaha glow in the dark house arrest bracelets 😂
I think thats an ankle monitor lmao
We're in a You Tube rut... watching the same channels over and over. So I don't know how it happened but thankful we finally found you both! So enjoyable! So accepting! So "out there." I'm especially grateful that the You Tube censors allow you to do your thing! I don't know how you do it but so glad you produce these videos. Many, many warm thoughts go out to you both.
Your videos are so interesting, I love how open you guys talk about these kind of topics!
Thank you! We try our best to be open and candid!
I would totally buy your book ! It would help to avoid wasting time and possible embarrassment
I've wasted so much time, but now you don't have to! haha that can be our selling line!
Interesting conversation! That is definitely a gay boy thang. I don't see many lesbians having this kind of fun! Thanks for sharing the details!
I have never heard similar things happening in the Lesbian community, but I figured there may be just things I don't know. I will try to find some women who would be happy to talk about what goes on!
@@TokyoBTM YES PLEASE!!🥺
I really found this so entertaining and informative.would Love More of these honest raw conversations🙏🔥❤
More to come!
This part about sleeping is interesting. I went to one with a friend, and after I finished and was waiting for him, I went to a corner and was just lying down resting. However, some people went to me to try to start something and I had to keep saying "I already finished and I'm just waiting for my friend", while actually thinking "gee, isn't lying down with my eyes closed a sign of 'I don't want to do anything'?". I'd never guess this was instead an invitation for people to try doing things...
Interesting right?
Thank you for sharing different perspectives. It is really enjoyable to watch. I like how you convey the stories.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Stupid
Glad my algorithm brought me to your channel! Very interesting indeed. I'm from Canada but have been living near Monaco forever. In Canada I used to manage gay bathhouses for 13 years, just so you know, men of all nationalities would play the sleeping game in their rooms to various extents as well. ;)
Oh this happened in Canada too!?
@@TokyoBTM Oh yes, was quite the usual.
I laughed so hard at the "crocodile" comment. I've never been to a bathhouse here in the USA but I have heard so many stories from friends. The crocodile is definitely what happens.
Crocodiles in the States too?
Producing a gay bathhouse guide would be a full time job, if you intend it to be up-to-date year after year. Plus you would need VERY good maps given the fact that most streets in Japan are un-named, not to mention the warren that is Shinjuku and Kabukicho. A guide to etiquette and what to expect might be part of it. But first you have the writing of it, (and how could you write about a place without visiting it?), then publishing it, and then distributing it. (Hello, what happened to my life?) Best to stick to TH-cam videos perhaps?
Yes, this is why we haven't started yet...it's a daunting task!
Okay I need one of y’all as a guide to take me to these places next time I visit. So many different places and I didn’t know about the locker key thing. I did guess the sleeping thing when I went, I was more successful when I was “sleeping” haha
Hopefully we can get a guide out before Japan reopens!
Omgggg! You gave it away with the dark room song! Loved the old venue~
Maybe we'll have a new song next time ♪
Just found this channel. Actually really like it you guys make me want to visit japan :)
I loved the way you guys talked about these topics! Congrats from Brazil!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow just wow.... i hav nevr seen such video in youtube... just loved it... keep it up bro....
“My Everything” remix GOT ME DEAD I know exactly which bar you’re talking about!!
HAHAHAHA it is a fun time!
Which bar is it 🥲 I wanna go and see, you know, just check it out lol
Just discovered the Channel and love it already, a big hug from Argentina.
Glad that you like our channel :)
Another great video! I wish I’d known about the left-right wrist protocol with I visited Tokyo last time!!
Now you do!
You two are absolutely hilarious! I wish i had gay friends like you guys to talk to about stuff like this 😊
Hilarious! It’s so fun to watch you guys talking! It reminds me one of the dirtiest hattenba in Tokyo, where I could learn some new kind of human being.
Hahaha which hattenba was that...? Yea, there is a whole hidden side of people that sometimes comes out at these places! Glad you enjoyed!
When I going to Tokyo for travel! It would be great to have you two as tour guide!😄😄!!!love your channel ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks so much! Glad you are enjoying it!
You BOTH are so ooo Fun! These bath houses sound like Theme party venues. Tokyo 2023 for me
Lots of fun venues to check out!
So.. post-covid... I'm gonna need to know where the good Fundoshi night is... And also as a MISIA Stan, I need to go with you guys to this bar, just on principal. Love the channel
Check out our top 7 video - we talk about it again there!
How awesome. Only just found you and this has been so enlightening. I ve always viewed Japan as very hidden gay culture so it’s great to know there are places. Lots by the sound of it.
More than meets the eye!
You two are so great! Fabulous stories - loved it!
Thanks for joining us!
Hey, you guys are so much fun! I'm planning a trip to Tokyo in July. Can I hang out with you guys?
I just got back from Japan. Wish I had found this video sooner. Would've loved info about those bars you went to. I did have fun with a couple of guys but a naked game place would've been amazing
Love the idea of a guide.
You might also consider a service where you make suggestions of places to go based on the experience someone wants. Basically a guide book, but you'd be able to make current suggestions and tailor them to what they're looking for.
The benefit of this service would be A) you could make current suggestions so people don't end up somewhere that has closed or changed since the guide came out and B) the kinky board game kinda gay doesn't end up at club where people do something they're not comfortable with.
That is a great idea! Thank you for the suggestion! Maybe you'll see a full-blown service sometime soon! hahaha
I just subscribed, I have watched you guys a few times and I enjoy your chatter. Are you guys a couple?
Last time you mentioned Morning Musume, now it is Misia’a My Everything. Brings back lots of memories of my first few Japan trips in early 2000s. Oooops! Did I just revealed my age? Haha.
Hey, just wondering the name of the board game cafe? Heading to Japan soon and like the sound of it. Loving your videos.
Haha I just left a comment on another video and then found this 😊 tell us where these places are!! I’d buy your guidebook lol
What is your type?
Love the videos guys...... i am planning on visiting Japan next year and staying in Shinjuku..... and your videos are making my stay there a lot more relaxing as i will be traveling alone..(i never found love.. lol). Maybe i will see you guys one night...
I'm sure you'll run into us somewhere!
This was so candid I love it so informative
Thank you! 😂
We just discovered you!!! We love your channel :) hope soon we can travel to Japan, is one of our priority.
Thank you for joining us! Hope you can visit Japan soon!
First of all thank you for your video, especialy the funny story of the pool full of lub. I plan to go visiting Tokyo soon with my husband and I'm not sure he would appreciate these sort of places. Could you recommand places you can go as a gay couple. What about onsen ? Does it exist for gay people ?
Please check out our Top 7 video for sentos/onsen info (not like sexual bathhouses, but just a place where gays go to bathe). As for places that are good for gay couples, we also talk about a famous bathhouse in Shinjuku (at the end of the video). That would be couple-friendly I think!
Perhaps this is a stupid question but do they have protection at these bathhouses? I hear Japan has a pretty big STD problem so I just wanna know everyone is staying safe 😅
I learned a new word today. I love hattemba! Btw, I would totally buy your guide. I needed it for my trip to Tokyo in 2019.
Maybe 2022 then!
@@TokyoBTM ❤️
Ah, yes, that wonderful feeling of lower self-esteem after leaving the hattenba. Gotta love it 😔
ughhhh, I definitely hate that feeling, but I learned to be unbothered. "not interested? thank you, next!"
your problem if you seek validation and self worth from external sources x
@@mwamussa lol, Musa's not wrong hahahah!
You two are AMAZING! Just adorable! I LOVE it that you talk in your frank way. Just like we talk. And to be sure: tomorrow I'll be moving to Japan for good! ha ha .... oops. only now I finished the video ... YOU are facing rejection???? I don't believe one word of it!
Sweet of you to say!
Their off-screen footsie was adorable. Let us see those toes tussle next time! 😅
Thank you for the information! Well done.
Thanks for watching!
Just discovered your channel the other night and enjoying the content. Question: do gay bathhouses in Japan allow tattoos? I have many all over my body and curious if I’d get to participate at any venues or not? I’m from NYC and I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world. Brazil has hands down the BEST I’ve everrrr been to thus far fyi. Cheers boys xx
Bathhouses aren't just for cruising. The one time I went to one (in Dublin) was with a guy I'd met on Grindr. We'd chatted on the app, and met up in person, and kissed a few times, and had our hands down each other's pants, and even had lunch together, but we had nowhere to hook up. He had roommates, and I lived well outside the city and commuted in. So we went to a bathhouse together. We weren't a couple.
It was a good time.
Omg! After 3 years living in Japan I didn't know the wrist position 😂😂😂
Now you do!
It’s interesting to know different bathhouse culture from different places around the world!
Bath houses in the US are an endangered species. Had lots of fun in my younger days at the bath house near by.
I heard that apps have been killing them off!
You guys I want to explore all those places Tokyo with you! 😂 Would u mind an Italian guy joining? 😆
Please join us!
I've went into so many bathhouses in Japan and didn't know about all the position of the bracelets.. thats why I got paired with wrong people all the time LOL. I must take notes!
I hope your visits go more smoothly now!
Very interesting. New to the channel and have enjoyed your open, candid, playful presentation.
Thank you! We were a bit nervous but it worked out!
Wondering if you have posted a list of recommended hattenba to visit in ? :D
FunFact: Writer Gore Vidal met his long-term partner, Howard Austen, in a NYC bathhouse in the 50's.
Also, I just stumbled on this channel. Love your banter
We can find love then!?
I never went, but my Thai friend went once, he definitely did the crocodile 🐊 ahaha love that bitch
Hahahaha if it works, it works!
What is the name and address of the bar with hattenba characteristics you are discussing? Also, what is the name and address of the actual Hattenba? I'm planning a trip to Tokyo.
I plan to visit Japan one day and now I NEED to know the name of that Board Game Cafe! Haha!
Love u guys!! Just subscribed. 😘
Thanks for subbing! 😘
IM A GIRL AND I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!!!' AND MYGOD EVEN THO IM A GIRL I WOULD STILL WANNA SEE/ WANT YOU GUYS TO MAKE A GUIDEBOOK EVEN THOUGH I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO GO TO ANY OF THOSE PLACES😭😭😭😭😭😭😭BUT HEY SENDING YOU LOTS N LOTS N LOTS OF POSITIVE ENERGY!!!!❤️❤️I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND I LOVE THE TOPICS YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT! PLEASE KEEP IT UP!🥺
Thank you for all the positive energy! Keeps us going strong! ❤️
If we ever get around to doing a book, please grab a copy! It would be a fun read I bet!
Thank you for watching us! Our female audience means everything to us!! ❤️❤️
Please do a handbook. Been to Tokyo and it's hard to find anything. Except Mr donut. I can find that hahah
Mr Donut is pretty amazing though
Loving your videos and I *need* that mug! 😍
It's super cute right?
Hloo sweeet.......how r u.....
Hie sweet how r u
You guys are great! I lived in Tokyo many years ago and you taught me a thing or too. You guys seem fun to hang out with. I go to Tokyo 3times/year from montreal
Welcome from Montreal! Hope you'll visit again soon!
Great content guys. Greetings from Sweden.
Very nice subject to talk about. I went to this bathhouse in Sao Paulo / Brazil. I think it's the biggest and most famous. It's a nice experience but like you guys have said, I'd like to have more time talking as well. And the face rejection topic is so sad ): I felt the same hahaha But it is ok. I'd love to have this experience in Japan as well.
I was in Rio in 2019 at the bath house there and it was okay...I don't know if you really need to speak the language in order to get more interaction but I kept getting play from more tourists than I did from anybody from Brazil...
God this video makes me wish I had gay friends to go to sexy gay bars with lol. It's something I've never had the chance to experience, but it's entertaining to hear your stories about it.
Maybe we'll see you there sometime! Haha
Not gonna lie but I've been to various .......hattenba, like the one in Shinjuku but this is the first I heard about the where you put your locker key indicate your preferences XD. Hattenba always make a good stories.
They really do! And now you know about the keys!
This was really interesting and entertaining. I love seeing how gay culture differs in different places.
Glad you enjoyed!
Ur contact nmbr ......ur country name
Hiee sweet
omg you brought me back so many memories....
I wanna go back so bad to Tokyo and the crazy hattenba hahaha
I'm surprised none of you talked about bukkake tho 😂 😂 ...anyway thanks for sharing and spreading love & acceptance ❤️
So many themed nights! Maybe we should cover individual themed nights...
Are you guys just friends? I've never been in Japan but hoping to go in 2022. I love your chats. I'm from America gay and out since I was18. I'm very attracted to Asian's especially Japanese guys. I learned a lot from this video .I'm learning some Japanese but quite frankly it's hard to learn but I'll just keep practicing . Thanks for posting new videos. Stay safe and have fun. ;)
you guys are hilarious... I had to subscribe.
Thanks for the support!
YAS to the guide! And YAAAASSSS if you guys are doing a tour of the bars/hattenba/etc lol
Good to know! We better start working on it...hahaha
where is this hattenba? will visit Tokyo next week.. :) お願いします。
Really really enjoy your videos! Keep them coming! 😘
Thanks so much! Tell all your friends! haha
I need names of places, schedules, etc lol
See you Friday nights, Tokyo Bottoms 😉 😉
Hahaha let's overrun that place, looking for love!
Thanks guys that was so informative! Love your channel!❤
haha you definitely need to visit a hattenba sometime
Now I understand, why so many people are sleeping in japan sauna ... haha. Next time I will take a move then lol.
Love to see you both talking, nice info ...
Hahah yes, next time you have to jump in! haha
What’s the name of the bar with the 3 kitty pools? That place sounds exciting
Great video, very informative!! loved it, and I expected both of you to have stories like this anyways, that's what happens in places like those mentioned.
What are your side stories? ;)
@@TokyoBTM lolol that's that thing! I don't have many really, LGBT life in the Caribbean is ...different...I'll be more than glad to do a voice interview if you ever want to do those for videos :D
Sounds good!
This was interesting and informative. I lived in japan in the late 90s and didn’t know how to access bathhouses or any facility that was gay friendly! If I come back for a visit post pandemic, is there more information for gay visitors?
Our channel is more information for gay visitors! haha
Guys this was just so light hearted and enjoyable, you make me want to visit asian countries. And I never travel.
A semi-erotic board game cafe!? 🤯 That is right up my husband and I's alley, we'll have to try to find that place next time we're in Tokyo.
I found it. It was extremely hidden. I stood outside for 20 min trying to find it! hahaha
@@TokyoBTM What is the name/adress ? Thanks in advance
You guys are my new faves! ❤️
Aww we are someone's favourites! So nice to hear! I hope we won't let you down!
I love how open you guys are to exploring new places! The way you present it is so informal too, like having a conversation with some friends. Stay safe while you're exploring so you don't get the 'rona (the virus or the beer :-p)
Thank you so much for the positive support!
That “dark time” sounds hilarious! imagine an unsuspecting gay gaijin sitting at the bar and suddenly the lights dim and “ your everythinggg!!!! “ starts playing Hahahaha
It is really a sight to behold
I need that hatenba guide for my next time in Tokyo!
Meng ( Ming ?) is so handsome and you both seem like great friends to have
This was interesting and entertaining. 😃
I know a gay couple who are now married and have been together for over a decade, and they met in a bathhouse.
They are professional, well educated guys, so all different types of people go to bathhouses.
I believe you can meet "dateable" people almost anywhere.
Gives me hope!
that Sauna in Toronto there’s only at Church and Wellesly 🤣 Steamworks
Watched this so many times. You are hilarious! I think actually is a great idea to create a book/guide with your recommendations for foreigners 👀
haha we just dont have the time to do it yet
wow...This has been an education. I didn't realize that such a huge gay culture existed in what seems like a very conservative culture. Thanks for sharing!
Still going through all your videos and learning so much about gay life in Japan oh my ❤😘✌🌈🏳️🌈🇯🇵
I would gladly pay for a handbook with loads of information about all of the (Hattenba)options that are available in Japan.
Hope to make one sometime!
Id buy your handbook!!!
Glad to see this rare pro-sex infotainment.
Thank you!
Yeah. Nice.
I was trying to guess where some of these places are.......maybe in Ueno??? ; that board game place definitely sounds interesting, thanks for the info
board game one is in Shinjuku!
you guys are so funny ♥️ like listening in on a couple friends talking ;)
Hahaha thank you!