Absolutely, a guy needs that spark of curiosity about what you’re up to. And yes, taking a breather from each other is essential. But honestly, why do women get so hung up on the results of their efforts to win a guy back? Seriously, go explore what else is out there! If someone’s ghosting you, who cares? Women should adopt a "whatever" attitude because they’re too busy living their fabulous lives and cherishing the amazing people around them. The biggest lesson I’ve learned? People will waltz in and out of your life, but the most crucial love you can have-the one that’ll truly shatter you if lost-is the love you have for yourself.
The keyword here is “effort” Effort = time = resource. Time is the most precious resource a woman has. Anyone who invests, be it a relationship, a business, a stock, etc they want to see a ROI. Having your time wasted is heartbreaking and makes you look foolish. It’s feeling like you made a bad decision and if you’re making a string of bad decisions you feel like a failure. So often times women are outcome dependent.
I've learned my lesson.. after giving him chances.. this time I was really fed up and had it and I sent him a nasty message and then I blocked him and deleted his phone number and threw it away.. I've never done that before.. finally realizing I deserve better.. if it wakes up and takes action if not I don't care.. I don't want someone who doesn't realize my value.
@@cassiewilliams2041 Honestly, give yourself a round of applause for having the courage to take that step! Every woman should adopt this bold attitude: move on, forget his number, block him, and confidently continue with your life. Your time, space, and energy are invaluable, sweetheart. By the time he realizes you were the best thing that ever happened to him, you'll be too busy enjoying your amazing life and likely already swept off your feet by someone even more incredible.
Elliot, I thought you should know that you look more handsome now than you did when you started making videos. Great haircut! Keep up the great advice💛
I have a question, if a guy had genuine romantic feelings for a girl 2 years ago but then has since lost them all, is it ever possible for him to like her again? Or once feelings are gone they are usually gone forever?
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Absolutely, a guy needs that spark of curiosity about what you’re up to. And yes, taking a breather from each other is essential. But honestly, why do women get so hung up on the results of their efforts to win a guy back? Seriously, go explore what else is out there! If someone’s ghosting you, who cares? Women should adopt a "whatever" attitude because they’re too busy living their fabulous lives and cherishing the amazing people around them. The biggest lesson I’ve learned? People will waltz in and out of your life, but the most crucial love you can have-the one that’ll truly shatter you if lost-is the love you have for yourself.
Yes that’s all true. But your message is half baked. Women want a relationship.
The keyword here is “effort”
Effort = time = resource. Time is the most precious resource a woman has. Anyone who invests, be it a relationship, a business, a stock, etc they want to see a ROI. Having your time wasted is heartbreaking and makes you look foolish. It’s feeling like you made a bad decision and if you’re making a string of bad decisions you feel like a failure. So often times women are outcome dependent.
Women want a relationship..Why is that? I disagree
Love this!
.. beautifully put!
I've learned my lesson.. after giving him chances.. this time I was really fed up and had it and I sent him a nasty message and then I blocked him and deleted his phone number and threw it away.. I've never done that before.. finally realizing I deserve better.. if it wakes up and takes action if not I don't care.. I don't want someone who doesn't realize my value.
@@cassiewilliams2041 Honestly, give yourself a round of applause for having the courage to take that step! Every woman should adopt this bold attitude: move on, forget his number, block him, and confidently continue with your life. Your time, space, and energy are invaluable, sweetheart. By the time he realizes you were the best thing that ever happened to him, you'll be too busy enjoying your amazing life and likely already swept off your feet by someone even more incredible.
Argh they’re so annoying like flies that won’t go away!
See, that’s the problem. When I walk away I’m done for good
No find another and he can watch what he missed.
Elliot, I thought you should know that you look more handsome now than you did when you started making videos. Great haircut! Keep up the great advice💛
I walked after 7 years of on and off with him disappearing on me . Have been in no contact for 4 months now .
Keep going. It gets easier. Then you become grateful you are over it.
My situation was 12 years. We grew up together. He chose to be with someone new. I’m just trying to recover smh
I havd reached the point that I don't love/hate him.
I wish him the best, but one day the dark clouds went away!
I can relate..you get tired and don't care
Good video! ❤
I have a question, if a guy had genuine romantic feelings for a girl 2 years ago but then has since lost them all, is it ever possible for him to like her again? Or once feelings are gone they are usually gone forever?
100% on Target like usual!
😂😂🤣 so accurate! U made me laugh.
I wanted to reach out to his mom to tell her what a 💩 job she did with raising a degenerate man.
Me with him 2.5 years no comitment mixed messages he loves me he loves me not let’s seee how it goes lol 😂 2.5 yeeeaaarrrsssss
Giiirl, runnn
@ I love that woman can help women bc they know when not attached they see the truth ♥️
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Exactly