Emerson on Consistency and Living

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  • @ruchiwadhokar6958
    @ruchiwadhokar6958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I had a similar thought recently. We're so hell bent on figuring out "who we are" and "who we want to be", that we forget as humans we're fluid. Our interests, hobbies, actions everything. You can be invested in a hobby at some point of your life and then shift gears, lose interest in that hobby and be allowed to move on to another hobby. There's no need to box ourselves in. Change is inevitable. Might as well get used to it

    • @Abhishek-hy8xe
      @Abhishek-hy8xe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I absolutely feel that.

    • @alcejaylos.4257
      @alcejaylos.4257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The very first thing they teach you in tech

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alcejaylos.4257 they do?
      i wonder how that links to the tech field

  • @raneerah7730
    @raneerah7730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Things I've always wanted to try and to at least be consistent with improving on it.
    -Drawing and Calligraphy
    (Gonna be useful for notes and school activities)
    -Knitting (How lovely would it be to make knitted clothes as a gift to myself and love ones)
    -Writing (have always been my passion, what's left is to actually learn the art of writing and produce an output)
    -Language Learning (currently doing this but I wanna improve more on my English and to actually immerse myself in the languages I'm learning)
    -Outdoor Recreational Activities (There's a lot on my list but mountaineering and swimming are my top priority. I just learned how to ride a bike, and also is learning how to swim. I'm one of those who grew up not being able to maximize my pool and beach moments, and didnt actually learn how to properly swim.)
    - Make-up (Not really the girly-type and also a late bloomer. This interested me for a long time.)
    -Music (Learned to play the piano back in my youth days. I've missed the feeling so I definitely want to go back in playing instruments, also wanna try playing the drums.)
    -Dancing (I'm just the type who wants to move and hype my body. Not really a dancer but would love it to be able to at least learn some choreos and just take vids of myself and my friends dancing to some music.)
    At this point, I just wanna try anything new. Gonna leave this here for my future self to check.

  • @neo-eclesiastul9386
    @neo-eclesiastul9386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    "Pre-established identity is the enemy of authenticity"
    - Me

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      It needs to be framed.

    • @neo-eclesiastul9386
      @neo-eclesiastul9386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@RCWaldun Cristian Mocanu is the name, good sir. Thank you for inspiring me!!

    • @RitvijTiwari
      @RitvijTiwari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dang

    • @FlorasHormones
      @FlorasHormones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      love this quote!

    • @neo-eclesiastul9386
      @neo-eclesiastul9386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@FlorasHormones thank you. It is pretty hard to make it sound good. Usually I end up with saying something controversial or summoning demons from the 5th circle of Hell

  • @bananacat9139
    @bananacat9139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All I can say is that life is a vibrant thing. It's colorful.
    We need a sprinkle of suprise, and bits of new things for the sake of adding color to our selves.

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Consistency can be a good thing, but it can also lead to monotony. Life needs a healthy balance between constant movement and routine. Too much or too little; and life either becomes too chaotic or dull.

    • @aronklein8835
      @aronklein8835 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @Phyloraptor
      @Phyloraptor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So one word. Harmony

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! Moderation~

    • @TKV
      @TKV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      “The ideal is unnatural naturalness, or natural unnaturalness. I mean it is a combination of both.
      I mean here is natural instinct and here is control. You are to combine the two in harmony.
      Not if you have one to the extreme, you'll be very unscientific.
      If you have another to the extreme, you become, all of a sudden, a mechanical man
      No longer a human being.
      It is a successful combination of both.
      That way it is a process of continuing growth.
      Bruce Lee

  • @lorenzoeldude
    @lorenzoeldude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I've always been someone who regularly jumped between hobbies and interests. Up until a year ago I thought it was a bad thing, and that focusing my attention and energy on one hobby would be more beneficial. But now I also think that being a polymath is more beneficial for success and peace of mind. I always liked writing and I recently got into programming. Now I am planning on creating a platform online to publish short stories and interact with other writers. I've also always been into music and my love for literature makes it easier for me to write song lyrics.

    • @littleviobel
      @littleviobel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so cool!! And same here about the different hobbies and interests

  • @strangemvs5374
    @strangemvs5374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    RC :a writer
    Also RC : Art is not my main thing

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Visual * art. :))

    • @skyyyyyy4841
      @skyyyyyy4841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RCWaldun hi love you video you made me love books and writing again thank you 🙏

  • @belessbutbetter
    @belessbutbetter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Stop defining yourself by nouns (writer, designer). Use verbs. Don’t let these labels define you.

    • @perhaps5095
      @perhaps5095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      now I am a writing and a drawing

    • @dream.5708
      @dream.5708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perhaps5095 lmao i cant-😂😂

    • @HazelGrey.
      @HazelGrey. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perhaps5095 🤣 that gave me a good laugh loll

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perhaps5095 lmfao

  • @ojxolape
    @ojxolape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m a doctor but I think I let that get in the way & totally lost sight of my childhood creative abilities. So glad to be exploring them again! Thanks for this video!

  • @azatshakenov195
    @azatshakenov195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I draw a lot in my life, and i became this "artist" person, but I almost forgot about my passion for piano, that i dropped due to not having enough time for drawing, studying and playing piano at the same time. I was "consistante" person who draws nearly everyday. Recently, I listened to Bach's "Fugue in g minor "little" BWV 578" and my inside passion for music sparked again, and I continued playing everyday.
    I think having versatile personality helps finding hidden or forgotten passions in you. Also good inspiration helps a lot. So, listen to Bach and good luck exploring your true authenticity :D
    R.C. Waldun, thank you for new great videos. Love from Kazakhstan :)

  • @vanyabagaev
    @vanyabagaev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't write comments usually. But I want to say thank you for all the energy and passion you put into your videos. They are very inspiring.

  • @Atmviola
    @Atmviola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That’s partly why I love grad school vs undergrad, because I have the space to pursue all my different interests. I major in viola and teach viola, but also TA for music theory, am a research assistant for African-American spirituals, and am researching K-pop for my first masters paper.

    • @lineah4508
      @lineah4508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats cool!!

  • @SkittleNibble
    @SkittleNibble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I've struggled a ton with moving away from an "academics first" mindset, and I'm hoping to be away from that struggle now that I've finally finished university. It's up to the point where if I'm not pushing the needle in something I find interesting, I feel I'm wasting the day - which by itself isn't a bad thing! However, now that the structure of schooling is gone, I've tried to create some of that structure in my day to day and it's ultimately leading towards me being a sadder person (e.g. AHHH I didn't do this math thing I told myself I would do, feelsbadman type of vibes). Thanks for this wake up call! I'll struggle to live intentionally instead of hiding under thinly veiled "challenges" and "structure".

    • @lorenzoeldude
      @lorenzoeldude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know that feeling. Starting projects with other people helped me with this, because now other people can hold you accountable for not being productive instead of just yourself.

    • @soulwailer3394
      @soulwailer3394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many people feel like they need the external motivation of schooling or a job to structure their lives around and feel productive. It's much harder to figure out your internal sense of motivation and restructure your life around that, but it's ultimately much more exciting. It's a journey everyone should attempt, despite the challenges, because you will look back on your life with a much greater sense of satisfaction.

  • @joaovaranda4759
    @joaovaranda4759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As soon as you started talking it reminded me of an excerpt from Nabokov's Lolita:
    "I have often noticed that we are inclined to endow our friends with the stability of type that literary characters acquire in the reader's mind. No matter how many times we reopen «King Lear», never shall we find the good king banging his tankard in high revelry, all woes forgotten, at a jolly reunion with all three daughters and their lapdogs. (…) Whatever evolution this or that character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds, and, similarly, we expect our friends to follow this or that logical and conventional pattern we have fixed for them. Thus, X will never compose the immortal music that would clash with the second-rate symphonies he has accustomed us to. Y will never commit murder. Under no circumstances can Z ever betray us. We have it all arranged in our minds, and the less often we see a particular person the more satisfying it is to check how obediently he conforms to our notion of him every time we hear of him. Any deviation in the fates we have ordained would strike us as not only anomalous but unethical. We would prefer no to have known at all our neighbor, the retired hot-dog stand operator, if it turns out he has just produced the greatest book of poetry his age has seen."

  • @hellyellieb8822
    @hellyellieb8822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been taking an intro course on edX, The Path to Happiness: What Chinese Philosophy Teaches us about the Good Life and I see an interesting parallel. At the very beginning, Puett speaks of Confucius. He notes the difference between habits and customs, and rituals. The first two are done relatively mindlessly. You say hello, please, and thank you. You fall in cycles, ruts: the bad side of consistency. On the other side of consistency are rituals. They require you to sense the world around you and determine the best course of action. No label, no rut, no habit, no fooling repetitions and obsessions. There is still an amount of consistency as rituals repeat themselves, but consistency then becomes an opportunity for growth. There is flexibility in the sense that when you sense the situation calls for some other behavior, you take the better course, by keeping an awareness.

  • @LainaSunflower
    @LainaSunflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    i would say that a lot of my skills that i have today came from practicing things for a little while, while i was interested in it (like editing, cinematography, writing etc...) then moving onto something else. these days i find that a lot of these skills are invaluable to what i spend my time doing now. my interest in philosophy, which seems at first entirely unrelated to the content i make, is actually the basis of what my current youtube channel is - though it is based on my hobbies. and this whole thing can only come into video form because of what i know and have learned about editing, cinematography, writing... etc. it's something that i dont think i would be able to even consider attempting if i didn't at least have this base knowledge already from simply learning the things that interested me in the past. i really agree that, as you mentioned, the combination of these things help support branching out into new avenues and finding that the combination of skills (rather than the consistency of simply one thing) is the key to creating that which feels really fulfilling in life.

    • @marla0412
      @marla0412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yo OMG i know your channel!! this is crazy lol i'm a moa so i've watched a bunch of your videos!!!

    • @LainaSunflower
      @LainaSunflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marla0412 wait omggg 😭 you have taste!!! Waldun’s channel is one of my favourites! 😳

    • @marla0412
      @marla0412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LainaSunflower ofc i do i stan txt :))) haha jk but yeah i recently discovered his channel and i really love his content!!

  • @kylegriffin8783
    @kylegriffin8783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im so happy to have seen this video because honestly I have so many things I want to do and be, game designer, web designer, illustrator, concept artist, actor, voice actor, miniature painter, poet, author and they way the modern world lays it out is like you have to pick on and be done with it. So I go through these phases where I think 'ah yes, THIS is what I pick' but then a couple weeks down the line I think oh well I cant possibly do this and still do my drawing or my writing. It is nice to see someone else echo that no... you can do both, life is an experience. Whats the point in only experiencing a small part of it

  • @drewc3210
    @drewc3210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm going through a personal branding design and creation process at the moment and this was something that hit me today too, about really exploring different mediums of story. I love writing, and when you look outside of that to also tell a story through visual and digital mixed media it just adds this incredible potential and reality of seeing multiple perspectives of one thing. That's really exciting and only amplifies writing. I'm learning a lot about storytelling through design and UX design. Our brains learn in stories.

  • @kateribarry
    @kateribarry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many times I've heard youtubers say "I was obsessed with this as a kid!" And thought "I wish I had something like that. I've never really felt passionate about anything." Until recently, more and more, I realize that I was always trying to find the perfect words to use when writing a story or about my experiences. It dawned on me that literally EVERYONE has something like this. It might not be obvious at first, but if you let yourselve reconcile with your childself, not be so jealous of the time you spent goofing off, you'll begin to see patterns in the small things you did.

  • @krishagohil1780
    @krishagohil1780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is one rare TH-camr who never fails to surprise me by his unpopular opinions and advice. I've watched loads of videos on consistency and habits because I have too many things that I love and can't get myself to move forward with consistency in each one of em- Writing a novel, Drawing digital comics, Digital marketing, blogging, Writing poems, learning French and Writing on my french blog etc. It really beats me up because I always have to choose stuff from time to time. Thanks for saying that I can pick up stuff and merge them occasionally instead of sticking to one thing and getting it perfect before moving onto the next.

  • @avivagodfrey
    @avivagodfrey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed some validation like this. It's hard to remember that I may not be the top of any field, but I am plenty proficient in multiple fields. The guilt over "not being the best" at something is really hard to win against.

  • @TheCivicStudent
    @TheCivicStudent 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny you mention starting a TH-cam channel cause that's what I did (and you're a big inspiration for me starting it!)
    I'm on a weird personal journey where I'm both expanding into new and unrelated topics (like content creation under my own name, sharing my opinions with the general public, and learning a new language) and returning to old aspects of my identity that I lost contact with years ago (like my fascination with fantasy/sci-fi or fight choreography).
    Currently watching more Netflix and watching all the Star Wars movies & TV shows out there. It's weird how much I'm enjoying it and how it's affecting my creativity.
    It's an odd dichotomy of sorts: on one hand, there are aspects of my identity that remain constant, some change into new things, and some return after leaving them for a while. It's hard to put into words, but with the addition of new aspects of my identity as well as returning to my roots, I feel more like myself than I have in a while.

  • @gabriellas
    @gabriellas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    my main interest is music: i play piano, and i've been recently getting into improvisation which is a fun break from just reading other people's music!
    since i also like performing, i've decided to start reading some books on acting to see if they can help me become better at showcasing emotion.

  • @TheMisteracdc
    @TheMisteracdc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you are still finding yourself, it feels authentic!

  • @alerodriguez3951
    @alerodriguez3951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a visual artist, and someone that likes to play piano and learn about music theory, I can assure all disciplines fed off each other. My art improves with something I learnt while on the piano and viceversa, or after learning about economy or history you can get inspiration for new projects and paintings.

  • @justexisting184
    @justexisting184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    And here I am trying to defend against people putting a specific label on me, I am not the person I was yesterday and I won't be the same person tomorrow, I want to change. I want to go on a adventure of change while preserve things about me I treasure. My identity isn't just writing, my identity isn't just a word, I want my identity to be ever changing. To let me be influenced by life. So it was comforting to know I wasn't alone in not wanting to be labeled and stuck in one decided persona. To anyone who stumble upon this- please don't shackle yourself, no matter how much you change, your worth won't decrease and letting yourself change is the only way you can learn

  • @akriteepathak5779
    @akriteepathak5779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Drawing , piano, baking, sculpting and photography

    • @wellknown1204
      @wellknown1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to learn piano and baking as well. Best of luck friend with your goals.

  • @windstillrises
    @windstillrises 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i constantly come back to this channel because it always deals with things i feel but dont quite know how to describe yet

  • @alejandrabadillodominguez7781
    @alejandrabadillodominguez7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an engineer that recently discover her love for digital art, and that made me question myself a lot; I'm still struggling but this video helped me so much!
    Thank you! 💖

  • @alltheguds9999
    @alltheguds9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    it’s 4:00 am and i caught this upload. glad to see you’re sponsored by skillshare🥸

  • @bluebellbonnot6571
    @bluebellbonnot6571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel like I’ve been through that as well, and man, did you come in the right time. Especially with living indoors for forever, I’ve been struggling to find new ways to be sensitive to the world around me again. I feel like I’m doing the same assignments and doing the same interests. Hell, I even labeled myself an artist and forced myself to make a half baked comic. Anyways, this video makes me want to revive my sense of wonder as well

  • @iristeixeira3797
    @iristeixeira3797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMGMGGG one of my favorites essays ever made... i was introduced to Emerson this year on my Literature Class and it was incredible how true the words written were and how much they made sense 100 plus years later. great video

  • @sentinelshoshin4632
    @sentinelshoshin4632 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've recently been getting out of my comfort zone as an assumed outline writer. I have wanted to write for years, and with more effort in the last year have been struggling to get my writing off the ground.
    Now, I always having written off Steven King, (in a 'not for me' way, mind you) but recently in the spur of the moment had gotten the audiobook version of his "On Writing". It totally changed my perception on Stephen King, and my outlook on writing. It made me really want to try writing in the way he described, so I did. I've found it so freeing to be unbound during the writing process, and just being able to write whatever pops into my head as appropriate. Something he said really comes back to me, about how he likes to write fast enough to keep up with his imagination. I feel the same.
    P.S. Afterwards, I checked out his "Dark Tower" and really enjoyed it.

  • @Me-rn7rk
    @Me-rn7rk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    great video! Labels are really limiting. Oscar Wilde said something similiar, I don't remember exactly what he said but the main point was that you DO things, not BECOME things. For example, you are not a writer - you just write, that's what you do. You are not a painter, photographer, musician - you paint, you take photos and you write music. I feel like we have tendency to set goals of BECOMING someone, so we limit our actions only to the things that will help us achive this goal. Our "inner self" doesn't change when we take up another hobby, when we decide to change our job, opinions etc.
    I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, English isn't my first language 🤷‍♀️

  • @ginamin
    @ginamin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi rc waldun! i've been loving your content ever since i discovered your channel a few weeks ago. during the middle months of 2020, i was in such a foolish consistency mindset. life felt so dreary and pointless, like everything was out of my grasp. only recently have i rediscovered a new curiosity for life. this new curiosity motivated me to start reading, reallyyyyy listening to music, and jogging around my neighborhood! thank you for sharing your knowledge with the world through these videos! i really enjoy them.

  • @hassanel-amin3047
    @hassanel-amin3047 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you don’t know how much I needed to hear this. thank you. I will watch this every morning now.

  • @Алёна-з7у6п
    @Алёна-з7у6п 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the way you speak. It's very pleasant to listen to you. I say this as someone for whom English is not their first language. And yes, greetings from Russia!

  • @felipevenegas6061
    @felipevenegas6061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats for the Skillshare ad! Your channel and your work is awesome and it is nice to see how it is growing :)

  • @mezticornejo1461
    @mezticornejo1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I identify so much with this video, I been thinking a lot about it lately, and I've realized that I used to think about myself as a person open to the "stimulus" of life and world, but at some point, with the pandemic and quarantine, I became a person who encapsulated herself in a kind of routine and habits in order to have some control. But now everythig of this things are burned up because I've used them so much that my creativity has fallen asleep, and I can´t write as I would like. So, I'm trying new things and also, old things that I had forgotten that I used to do, and maybe they are simple but feel kind of fresh.
    Ps: I really like your videos, you talk about stuffs that I think need to be discussed

  • @wesleymccoy4072
    @wesleymccoy4072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I understand what you’re saying. Consistently isn’t bad , but when we only stick to one idea of consistency is when we become foolishly consistent. We should be consistently doing things that make us better, consistently exploring he world around us, consistently not being stuck on just one idea. Not that I think routines are bad because when I didn’t have one. I would consistently get nothing done. But I don’t think we should be afraid to add new things to it.

  • @veronika-tm9tj
    @veronika-tm9tj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found your chanel yesterday and I am obsessed . Plz don’t ever stop making videos❤️❤️❤️

  • @bircheth
    @bircheth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is a really helpful video. i've been struggling to identify what i am because i constantly shift between writing, painting, drawing, and music. there's no term to communicate "hey i'm all of those things" but these vids help to remind me that our environment insists that we fill a mold, even though that mold does not actually exist. they've inspired me to just learn and express myself without pressure of identification, thank you

  • @quayscenes
    @quayscenes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think of Joni Mitchell... A true Renaissance Woman... Playing and singing the beautiful songs she wrote... And painting the covers of her albums... Each time I open the gatefold cover of Ladies of the Canyon I marvel at her talents...

  • @pink99zz90
    @pink99zz90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel as if recently by us being constrained in our homes, we are able to sleep on this thought a bit more on the concept of consistency and what it really means. As well, I recently had to bid farewell to an ex friend who would not understand that we are all trying to find out what we are "being" only in the current moment. Life has endless of possibilities, and it is best you do not confine yourself to a box. Last but not least, never let someone do that for you. Growth at its best.

  • @marla0412
    @marla0412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thought about this a lot during 2020. i graduated from high school this summer and i still have absolutely zero clue what i want to do now. right now, my consistency consists of staying at home all day and dwelling on my anxiety and my directionlessness. but i decided that i want to work on my (video)graphics art and music no matter what!! so 9:16 just really hit close to home. thanks for saying that :)

    • @marla0412
      @marla0412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      before this video i used to think of myself as very inconsistent and thought of it as a bad thing. i have a ton of interests! editing, baking, drawing, singing, making music, studying languages. it's been hard though to try and indulge in all of them since they're all very ''active'' interests if that makes sense

  • @coreyochai8054
    @coreyochai8054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel inspire me to be a better person and for that i thank you RC. Enjoy your journey my friend.

  • @КатеринаЗайцева-б4х
    @КатеринаЗайцева-б4х 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello, I really love how all your videos always come in time in my life and just that there's a person that shares the same struggles with me. Recently I understood that I had that trap where I wanted to do some art, photography, even writing( that I left as useless hobby somewhere in 2018), but even if I plan and try to set something from it as routine, I fail, because I cannot just leave all my uni tasks because I feel that I have a certain level of effort there and I just can't put less. And with doing the same thing for the last four years and now doing it intensively, I promised myself to rest, but I sometimes feel guilty when I do, I'm currently working on this, because photography and art really give me lot, and being inspired but not allowing yourself to do art is like a torture.
    So, thank you for doing what you do, definetely one of the most interesting channels there.

  • @townsendrai9516
    @townsendrai9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That moment happened a few years ago.
    I used to be a serious, no-nonsense type of person quite rigid, n yes caught in a routine.
    But now I'm excited to experiment new things and more than willing to go outside my comfort zone.
    That feels liberating
    Still serious type but at times I can be silly & goofy.
    As always the content is brief & concise

  • @ChayePhilosophy
    @ChayePhilosophy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great to see you getting brand partners! Good luck for the future.

  • @littleviobel
    @littleviobel 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video comes just in the perfect time for me because I'm feeling so lost and have a lot of doubts about what I like and what I want to do.
    I was thinking something similar: I've always loved and wanted to make music but what if I try other things too? I like various ways of art, maybe I could try and learn more about them not just music... I don't have to define myself in one place and leave everything else aside, 'cause I'm interested in so many things!

  • @shofiaafkarina9958
    @shofiaafkarina9958 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to write poetry a lot. Since primary school. My teachers and friends will always look for me if they need a poem script for they loved one or for the competition. Then reality hits, idk i feel like i have to focus and studying in my major hard and harder. Then I lost that kind of sensitivity on writing poem. I can still feel it everytime I read other's poem but I can't write it anymore, years untill now. Guess I found the answer in this video. Glad to find it.

  • @suchtrivia3757
    @suchtrivia3757 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm only 3 minutes into your video, and I already find it so interesting. I realized that my life and personal growth have gotten more fulfilling since I've stopped torturing myself to fit a certain amount of "molds". Like, I was actually upset about not being able to describe myself as an "introvert"/" extrovert", or more generally with adjectives that could encapsulate me, as a person; create an "essence". Though this created a safe bubble, a "comfort zone" it also prevented me from exploring life and learning. Confirmation bias can be a good thing tho, I find it useful to reinforce one's self-confidence, and crucial in kids' development.
    Sinon, j'ai vu que tu apprenais le français; alors voilà un petit message d'encouragement haha!

  • @ilmatt00
    @ilmatt00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I stumbled onto your channel at the most perfect time in my life.

  • @bajrsirah6457
    @bajrsirah6457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw some paints and pallette knives on your ig post, I'm looking forward on your art projects. You are very creative! I like everything you said here, made me fall into deep thinking ...

  • @inactiveaccount4698
    @inactiveaccount4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm interested in making art and in writing. I went to a high school for the visual arts, and honestly my passion for art simmered down as I went through it. I forgot that the reason i loved art was because I liked comics and anime and creating stories and characters with meaning. Now I've recently rediscovered this little passion of mine and i'm adding fuel to the fire for it. Writing and art go together for me. And even though I'm a psychology major, I want to write creatively and make art. I don't want to be limited by a label or an expectation.

  • @lucijapavlovic2153
    @lucijapavlovic2153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm very thankful I've found your channel.

  • @hellengouveiaaa
    @hellengouveiaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think skillshare sponsor every youtuber I like, Thank you skillshare

  • @LTC122003
    @LTC122003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just discovered your channel. Amazing job man, thanks.

  • @tvmc9887
    @tvmc9887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is so good. RC has brought me back into reading. The consistency thing works for reading and I am reading everyday. Gonna wait everyday for more content like this :D

  • @4svb461
    @4svb461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had the same progression as you, but in reverse. I fell in love with pictures and images and paintings before falling in love with words or books. One thing I cannot detach myself however is stories and emotions and stories of details. I guess it is the lense I've always looked through. Don't know if that will change.

  • @RaShe105
    @RaShe105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Everyone in the comment section are so amazing, well spoken and intelligent. Makes me feel a little dumb.

  • @HogandDice
    @HogandDice 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I entirely agree. Limiting the breadth of your interests limits the scope of your perspective. It wrecks your ability to not only understand yourself but the people around you as well.

  • @number5582
    @number5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Waldun can you do a video on consciousness ?
    and when a normal time to become extremely conscious is ? what it means ? im a 16 year old boy who has recently "awakened" . i feel superior compared to other people and i hate that i feel this way . im going through some phase where its really hard to contain my desperate need for admiration. i often find myself scratching to join in on conversations and saying what i think would be the best opinion . how can i get through this ? did you go through this ? i would love some advice !

    • @number5582
      @number5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i wasnt like this at all 2 years back . i never was the type to drag attention towards me . but now that i feel that i have become more aware of everything , i feel like ive changed . completely .
      what do i do ? do i restrain myself from bragging about all i know ? is it just best to speak my mind and not care what people think ?

    • @littleviobel
      @littleviobel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In my humble opinion I would tell you to just relax and be yourself, people will still look at you the same way even if you are more conscious than some of them, because is normal, it happens sometimes. Also, they will grow up too and see things with another perspective in their own time! But try not to feel superior for one thing, we are all the same and are here to learn! :)

    • @rowanburwell5910
      @rowanburwell5910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Focus on listening. It’s perfectly fine to interject and say what you feel is the truth. What you need to realize is that you’re only 16. You are working with a limited worldview. What feels like the absolute truth right now might change later. The most important thing is to listen to what people are saying. Don’t just absorb their thoughts and try to make them fit your narrative, but really listen and understand. You may find that you don’t actually know all there is to know.

    • @expectopatronum6241
      @expectopatronum6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am 16 too and I feel like I know so much but I know I barely know anything really. I remember when I was 13 I thought I knew all there were to know. Oh dear, I was so wrong.
      I would love to listen to what you have to say though.

  • @fadiorsth3907
    @fadiorsth3907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "we are what we repeatedly do .excellence then is not an act but a habit"
    pretty sure it's by Will Durant (not very sure)
    but this really makes me think how much i'm going to relay on my habits and safe spots and how much am i willing to step out of theme?
    i really like these new vids
    good job

    • @thezombieshogun
      @thezombieshogun 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always thought this was a quote by Aristotle. Looked it up, and sure enough it seems to be by Will Durant

    • @fadiorsth3907
      @fadiorsth3907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thezombieshogun wow
      At least you took the time to look it up

  • @hanaalfayez7150
    @hanaalfayez7150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video you definitely made me to rethink and contemplate some of my habits.

  • @leefabre4784
    @leefabre4784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wait🥺 you're making visual art now. that makes me so happy wtf.

  • @elisesilv1274
    @elisesilv1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this ties in very nicely with some thinking i've been doing lately on imposter syndrome...

  • @glannonr102
    @glannonr102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video R.C! I'm following you only since few days and I'm litteraly watching all your videos ahah! It's actually the first time I see someone talk about self discovery trough books and intuition wich I'm trying to do since few months now. I felt a bit weird to have sudden passions but now It feels like I'm not alone, it's really encouraging! Personnaly I'm an Illustrator and sometimes I have like sudden visons of a drawing while doing something else. Is it the same for you on writing? Also I recently have a passion for Sewing, the country of Mongolia, and Lady Oscar while I've never been interested in it before! I always have this little voice like: "Why are you interested in this? You're gonna waste time on your drawing practice!" Unfortunatly it's hard to not listen this voice. But I start to feel more and more confident about my intuitions so I'm very thanksfull for that!

  • @ClayMastah344
    @ClayMastah344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The comment you made on focusing on the mastery instead of a good story....I also faced that same issue. With fanfiction and blogs, it was easy for me to write because it was solely about the story, not being good or great. And in turn, those would end up great with great reception. But when it came time for me to try my hand at a book I wanted to professionally publish under one of the big names (I've already published under pseudonyms), I found I became so enraptured with "telling a lesson" or "appealing to a certain audience" or writing a "professional book" that the story just got lost along the way. Everything I wrote was cliche mediocre and overdone. The minute I stopped caring about all that shit was the minute the writing became better!

  • @ssaahhrraa9
    @ssaahhrraa9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your channel and have been watching your videos and by your shots you must be living in Melbourne??? I'm shocked but it also fits your vibe

  • @tanushreepandit8093
    @tanushreepandit8093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so glad I’m here

  • @theherboretum
    @theherboretum 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something to ponder as we consider the role of routines and habits in our lives; from Franz Kafka:
    "Leopards break into the temple and drink to the dregs what is in the sacrificial pitchers; this is repeated over and over again; finally it can be counted on beforehand, and it becomes a part of the ceremony."

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I loved that story.

  • @tuesdi
    @tuesdi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    although I agree with what you say about habits, after having gone through an online semester and having almost no schedule and working at odd times throughout the day, the first thing I want to do right now is develop habits and consistency

  • @oscarmullen
    @oscarmullen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    4 years ago, music became both my newly founded and obsessive passion. 1 year ago, I began to really enjoy literature, poetry and writing and that new interest still hasn’t seem to fade. I suppose ideally I’d love to be a professional musician who writes on the side but I’m not sure if that’s even possible, let alone achievable. Any advice?

  • @ivandelvalle2784
    @ivandelvalle2784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    These days I'm having are too spontaneous. Everyday is a new structure.

  • @kais3242
    @kais3242 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your content, I agree with this, I've been defined by my relatives by the awards i achieved, I win because I have to follow a certain category that would please the judges, as I grew up those awards won't make much of a difference and avoids me from being progressive, I mean, I wish some people could see the beauty and joy of being experimental.

  • @danypenzza
    @danypenzza 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay this was really helpful, good vibes. Cool vid✨✨

  • @lucaspaes3821
    @lucaspaes3821 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You mention about the park bench and it reminds of a french comic book artist called Christopher Chaboute, that have a comic called Park Bench, beautiful stuff. You should check out some european comics and some non mainstream american ones, there're some amazing stuff.

  • @jayshine1963
    @jayshine1963 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are getting into urban sketching I would highly recommend James Richards' Skillshare classes on it. They are highly informative, entertaining, and have helped my urban sketches a lot!

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noted :)

  • @Vindico0711
    @Vindico0711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Ah yes the positive feedback loop.

    • @sabang.cahayatonjong7084
      @sabang.cahayatonjong7084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly what I’m thinking

    • @alterego5007
      @alterego5007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      that’s the process of modernity, positively oriented cybernetics. can’t wait for waldun to begin reading nick land and finally passing this cringe dark academia phase

  • @honorablelady1590
    @honorablelady1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really good!
    I'm trying to write a book and TH-cam.

  • @sofiaramos7055
    @sofiaramos7055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am currently in the process of combining baking and literature. Something i never though i'd say because i've despised literature for most of my life but i've been reading and writing more recently and what do you know its not so bad

  • @MaximusStetich
    @MaximusStetich 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an addendum to your original quote: “Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself. I am large, I contain multitudes.”
    -W.W.

  • @itsmekatewhite
    @itsmekatewhite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you're interested in the New Yorker covers, you should check out the first episode of a documentary series on Netflix called Abstract! The first episode follows a Berlin-based illustrator for the New Yorker as he goes through his creative process. The series is also really well put together, each episode following a different creative professional.

  • @sagiri__
    @sagiri__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It might be comforting to have labels. Words and principles that indicate you how to behave and what to become. It can get really sickening though.
    I also always labeled myself as a writing person and because of that I never practiced drawing that much. Now I'm progressively throwing my labels and just try to do whatever gets my curiosity

  • @mouhibassili5927
    @mouhibassili5927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm trying to follow a counterintuitive artistic path
    I'm a 3d artist (learning) and with a big passion for math (geometry and topology) and I want to learn how to make music : )

  • @justexisting184
    @justexisting184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So the moral of the story: have big bren energy

  • @khanfarhan3047
    @khanfarhan3047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where did you buy these notebooks I love them

  • @melinamorina516
    @melinamorina516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so inteligent! Great video!

  • @CharliWrites
    @CharliWrites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You may like to check out the work of Joe Sacco.
    He is a journalist who tells stories from the frontline through graphic novels as his medium.

    • @CharliWrites
      @CharliWrites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KDbooks Yes indeed! I've read Burma Chronicles prior to my visit to Burma :)

    • @CharliWrites
      @CharliWrites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KDbooks My all time favorite though, is:
      It's a Good Life, If You Don't Weaken, by Seth (Canadian graphic novelists are off the chart!).
      It's yet another genre: the autobiographical graphic novel.

    • @CharliWrites
      @CharliWrites 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KDbooks XD

  • @thhxxxx6455
    @thhxxxx6455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:11 is no one going to talk about how cute that clip is? no?

  • @kasianfranmitja5298
    @kasianfranmitja5298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im interested in training, and writing and reading... But im not really feeling about combining the two.

  • @minegerber7487
    @minegerber7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For an advocate of balance R. C Waldun is up too early or too late. 😅

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Guilty. 👀

    • @minegerber7487
      @minegerber7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RCWaldun Just remember to take care of yourself, okay? 😉

  • @noonereally586
    @noonereally586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well I get interested in everything I get myself into which leads me to do nothing most of the time and being obsessed about something for like a week every once in a while

  • @КсенияПетрова-я6л
    @КсенияПетрова-я6л 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Господи, твой канал просто находка, я влюбилась 😍😍😍 (You have a very cool youtube channel)

  • @jeronimoguzman4204
    @jeronimoguzman4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro, you need to make a podcast, maaaan

  • @nocturnalcreatures7137
    @nocturnalcreatures7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Consistency and Identity are important if you actually want to make smth of yourself tho... Like an actual career. If we're talking about just hobbies then I definitely agree. But when it comes to a career even if it is smth like becoming a writer, which is more unrestrained, you need to have a more specified Identity so that people can differentiate u from the crowd and consistency in order to produce your work. I mean, inspiration isn't the only thing needed to write a book after all. I'm into writing myself and I've only recently come to the conclusion that inspiration isn't even the most important part of it.

  • @inhibitorgaba2653
    @inhibitorgaba2653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I might say that my consistency and indentity was destroyed by the pandemic and i dont even know who i am anymore. Its pretty sad but, when it all ends - descovering me as a completly new person, almost a stranger? Gosh, that is going to be interesting.

  • @vineesame5668
    @vineesame5668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Robin, could you please make a video on your approach of reading self - help books?

    • @RCWaldun
      @RCWaldun  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I like this idea a lot. There are a lot of great self-help books out there actually. All about sorting the wheat from the chaff. : ) Thanks for the suggestion.

  • @NataliaRodriguez-cz9lk
    @NataliaRodriguez-cz9lk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love ur videos so much🥺