As an INTJ, I don’t expect anyone to read my mind to understand my emotions. Nor will I explain them, because explaining myself to simpletons who lack the ability to comprehend is exasperating.
While I agree regarding the many, the few I do associate myself with have the opposite problem: it's really hard to shut me up once I get going and actually care about their ability to understand me. -INTJ
@@Ibloop "Grudge against INTJs". Lol please explain how you arrived at this funny (and non-cognitivist) conclusion. I just stated a plain fact. The world is indifferent to your personal emotions, people just care about their own. Now, is that too much for you, little snowflake? 😂 I, too, test as INTJ on the Myers Briggs type inventory, so naturally I'd like to make fun of these naive little normie dorks in an identity crisis trying to "behave by the book" wherever I see them. 😂
Dude yes like I consider myself a very open book which is why it pisses me off even more when people choose to ignore when I give plenty of ques that I'm getting tired of the conversation or am trying to leave
“If you pull an INTJ out of their solitude, they’ll flop around and probably die.” Is extremely true because I experienced it myself. When working from home I went from the bottom to a team leader in record time after which I switched jobs. New job required to go to the office 3 times a week and no matter how much I struggled I eventually burned out completely and had to quit. Took me 2 whole months of laying in bed just processing everything to feel normal again and now after not leaving my house for 4 months I am happy, unbothered, in my lane, focused, flourishing.
Can’t agreed more! I was so wrong to take my recent new risk analyst job in a central bank where is not based on data nor evidence but human relationships and office politics without efficiency , going to office 3 days… I am quitting and planning to take two years off for career break to cure myself ….
"Remember than INTJs have to live with an INTJ all the time." Indeed we do, and constantly being in the head of your own INTJ brain, gives you a lot of self understanding, but no understanding of others... I feel truly called out, by this video😅
Back when I was still an Immature INTJ during my early 20's I didn't gave two shits about people and their feelings and I commonly got referred to as a robot. Now as a bit more mature INTJ, I start to consider peoples emotions into evaluations when I plan and now i get called Manipulative.
Im under 20 and I often feel like I got no emotions to people whatsoever, sometimes I get to feel emotions but then something just eats up the emotions in me, it's really hard to explain....
I do love "facts don't care about your feelings" but I have come to realize that also, "feelings influence our interpretation of the facts." Raw stats are only useful if we interpret them correctly, and a lot of people use cognitive biases (aka feelings) to interpret supposed "hard data."
Correct, which is precisely why many studies are invalidated fairly quickly upon deeper analysis. Unfortunately, simply the fact that it's a study holds some weight and often disperses within the wider community before a suitable rebuttal can be formulated. Worse, some rebuttals don't have proper methodology either and boil down to flawed assumptions, so it quickly all slides into the muck of 'I can't trust any of this', then you'd have to do the analysis yourself and it becomes a black hole of time. This is why it is very important to find trustworthy sources that double check everything before the conclusions are passed down to you. Sadly, there are few such people/organizations and even so, each has their own bias you must account for - which boils down to what biases you can live with and which you can not let slide.
Literally the only reason I think I'm Christian while being heavily logic focused. You align your feelings right and it all makes sense, then you go to form an argument and it stops making sense. Then you realize you can make other people believe by tuning into their emotions, then you wonder if it's real or if you're manipulating people into thinking what you think is true... AGAIN
Ya some other INTJ’s say that they couldn’t maintain diaries because it just became statistics, but for the ones who use it properly (like u and me) it’s amazing A little preservation of our history to eventually pass down
Don't you think that the risk if someone actually seeing your deepest thought written by yourself on a physical paper outweigh every benifit that diary brings to you
@@lazly-prodictiv-6827 then it's totally worth i thought you were writing your thoughts down on a physical paper and I was unable to understand how an INTJ could do that ?
"If you pull an INTJ out of their solitude, they'll flop around and probably die." How poetic, love it. :D I definitely see myself as a helpless fish whenever I'm sitting together with a group of 4+ people since I'm so busy listening, analyzing and then coming up with a logically fond and morally acceptable response, that I don't find enough time to actually voice anything of that. By the time I constructed a good answer, the group chat has shifted to a new topic already. This consumes a lot of energy and can be frustrating at times. Especially when some people speak with rapid speed and so loudly that you can't hear yourself thinking anymore. 🙄 It's all way easier in one to one conversations. ^^
Why do you want to "come up with a logically fond and morally acceptable response"? That's system 2 thinking (See: Daniel Kahnemann, Thinking fast and slow). Exercise system 1 thinking when in a group (system 1 playground), it'll be much better.
As an INTP, the INTJ is relatively relatable. Especially the part about being unsure of others or untrusting. Also, could you make a video like this for every type.
@@Lusciousnovacrono What? Why would I care about acting like that? Also, I don’t JUST want an INTP video. I do actually want a video for all of them. Yes, the INTP one may be the one I might want the most, but I want all of them for learning purposes. I actually do relate to them. Also, I find the concept of a “sigma male” confusing, and am not trying to act like one. I don’t see how I was being like that or cold? If it’s because I said “relatively”, that’s only because I don’t enjoy staying my opinions as facts or asking things too absolutely or directly, so I use words like that.
Yep, annoying thats the wolrd we live in. Look i don't care if you din't like it, this is the way it needs to be done and thats the way you are going to do it.
I don't think that INTJs let others keep guessing for the most part. They are VERY clear about what they want and what not and you'd better listen, because they hate to repeat themselves! They won't play games of hinting at what they want, but straight up tell you no matter how weird it may sound to you. On the other hand, they don't feel the need to explain every little thing about themselves. They don't care if you understand them or not! They know that they'll never understand others to the last detail and that's ok. Everybody is weird in their own way, and when they respect it, you should too! Similarly, since they need a lot of independence, they will hardly argue against you doing your own thing too. In fact, they probably expect it from you!
INTJ here. We just come off that way. People have a VERY hard reading us where we have a niche for reading others. We cant help others don't understand us. Also most of us are intuned withoutselves and its difficult for someone to hurt our feelings. We are FREAKING machines compared to a lot of people.
As an INTJ I complete all aspects of my projects. And have my contingencies in place always. And yes we will manipulate the ENTJ for world domination as the front man as we pull the strings from the shadows
12:19 100% accurate there's no way my plan fails but for it to work i need to start acting on it first but my habit of procrastination stands in my way
I have a dear friend who is a very mature INTJ. She’s really developed her blind spots and strives for warmth and kindness. THAT SAID: She got pranked at work by her employees (she’s da BIG BOSS attorney CEO awesome lady). They stuck post-it notes all over her office, just to be funny. Bahahaha, ohhhh the revenge… First person: She got a two dozen HUGE bags of movie popcorn and dumped it in that person’s office. ALL OVER. Apparently, they were fond of popcorn, soooo… Second person: She filled their office with gummy bears and gummy worms and Nerds. ALL OVER EVERYTHING. Third person: I forgot. But, it was great. These revenge pranks were a month apart. She’s a damn genius. 🤣 SWEET REVENGE
I tell people, " I am a threat to your disease". Recently a long time friend was introducing me to a new friend and said of me, "She makes it impossible to continue tricking yourself." I thought that was a lovely compliment. And an accurate assessment of why many folks find me so troubling. Shaking up the status quo.
If it’s ok with you, I’d like to share that self-assessment with you. I’m pretty much the same way, although I try hard not to become a human representation of “The Iceman Cometh.”, 😂
While watching this video I found myself thinking, "This doesn't sound like me at all, wtf are you talking about." I now understand what you are talking about.
The funniest part is, to us INFJs, INTJs are not only awesome, but like another part of us. Also, even though we INFJs are technically feelers, we also have enough logic to mostly agree with them and understand them on the exact level that they understand us. Also, just like anyone else will, an INTJ will eventually trust an INFJ, or a healthy one at least. INTJs don't need to share their emotions with an INFJ because we can already see and feel their emotions. They can't hide them from us. It is funny to say that we INFJs are the logical feelers and the INTJs are the feeling logicians.
Well, as an INTJ, I'd say INTJs are more of a "feeler" type than INFJs. INFJs only "show" it, they can be very calculating robots inside, more so than INTJs.
@@KP-w Technically, we are allot more extroverted feelers, and you are more introverted feelers. Yes, you guys actually feel your feelings but we feel everybody else's feelings.
@@nickolaszissimos1189 Way too many feelers and feelings in that response lol (Nonsense, people who test as INTJs are equally capable of empathy, and people who test as INFJs are equally capable of personal emotions, it's got nothing to do with your MBTI, which is itself a very dubious and unrealiable inventory, a corporate astrology of sorts lol)
@@KP-w Yeah, I know, but I admit, it is easier to know other people's feelings and emotions than it is my own. I know an INTJ that could pass as an INFJ. Sometimes, I think as an INFJ I can pass as an INTJ.
My husband is an INTJ and I am an INFJ. Yes we did end up together because we were too intense for our exes. I was his math tutor. And yes we have conversations people around us don't understand.
As an intj, i really like to think of infjs as people we can still rely on to understand us. My father is an infj and while I would never we agree 100% on everything, our views on many aspects are same or similar if not exactly identical and it is comforting to talk to him about a lot of things people usually don’t understand when i tell them.
INTJ here and I can relate😂😂😂 I dont have a diary coz all my plans are in my brain. I even have serious plans for zombie apocalypse LOL. I just started to mature and I realized that I need to learn how to care about others but it's hard... I zone out when I start hearing illogical BS from others... That's me being nice😅😅😅
HAHA funny! yet, INTJ is very similar to the INFJ with the only diff being thinking v's feeling. With them being middle functions, we have a sliding scale between the two depending on the situation. My main function IN keeps me indoors planning yet the thinking/logic also gets me up to work the plan. I wanted an orchard, i now have an orchard.
11:21 overplanning is so true for me. “Every possibility no matter how big or small is a possibility nevertheless and requires a plan.” That’s my motto for life. I over plan everything and always keep back ups. Even in my school and college, my group of friends have always told me “it’s like you plan with an apocalypse in mind.”
Planning with an apocalypse in mind? You mean there are other ways of planning than that? Assume the worst, quadruple it, plan accordingly, and then take joy in having been wrong - or satisfaction in the accuracy of your predictions.
Polr Fe can be really rough lol. They say INTJ's are good entrepeneurs but I disagree, Fe is actually quite important when it comes to dealing with customers and clients (or anyone...). About the planning thing, yes we scheme and plan, but these don't have to be world domination plans that go 50 years into the future. They can also be very day to day.
I’m just learning about personality types. INTJ it’s a gift and a curse. More of a curse because this comment section is the closest I get to a group of people willing to use Critical thinking and common sense ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your first and only mistake with an INTJ is underestimating them. We don't trust because we know for a fact what humans are capable of. Truly find yourself and know what you are capable of and everyone else is not that far off. Let that sink in and and now you know why we don't trust you. And another fact for you, if you pulled me out of my solitude i would take over the world just to make sure you never did that to me again.
I had a good laugh, the video touches on many cliches (let's just say I recognize myself at earlier stages in life) but clearly doesn't understand INTJ's. My own job is to handle 10+ different projects/customers at once, always get randomly interrupted and still get work done. I seem to be doing fine at that since I am getting a significant raise every year. Another thing to mention is that I am the one that cleans up all the messes "E" types make, and I do that through diplomacy
Honestly, this is probably the most relatable INTJ video I've seen, if in fact I'm an INTJ which is really hard to be subjective about because my analytical side thinks perhaps my egotistical side just wants in on this elite action.
Try to find more flaws in the possibilities you see. When an INTJ builds their Ti, they're a lot more sensible. If they double their Te (another route), they become unstoppable.
I’m sending this to my INTJ friend in our long one sided conversation where I only troll him and he leaves me on read. Once he responded and it freaked me out but he went back to normal soon after. -ENTP
Wow so could childhood trauma followed by immediate therapy have changed me from this type to infp? … I’m over analyzing myself and this not enough 😂 so looks like I get to learn something new 😂
9:14 That's so funny ! You have me in stitches !! Yes. I have to live with myself everyday. Hilarious. 🙃🤣 Aarre Peltomaa of Mississauga, Ontario, an INTJ. p.s. Maybe I should become a multivalent aberree, so that I can have another personality to crawl into, like a hermit crab switches shells. 😉 p.p.s. I am also an Orion Starseed, so that that vastly exacerbates the problem !! They are so logical, like Spock, but I do have feelings too. Emotional music can make me cry.
Yeah... and to all that you can add depression (probably, because I'm not a professional and I can't diagnose myself, but I'm certain I'll get something the like). I get exasperated explaining things I just know people aren't going to understand. I dumb down things to the point I feel like they might need to take a full on course to get what I'm saying. So I just give orders with as many details as possible, with people not understanding but somehow doing as I command. I invest a lot of energy in friendships. I feel like I have to put neon signs to people all the time, but If they don't care about me, I do mope around. Not too much because they didn't deserve that in the first place. Also depression doesn't help a lot. People have a purpose also. Why not? I do cry a lot, but I also blame the hormones of me being female and PMS. Because science. I don't trust people. If I do, consider yourself worthy. I'm married to an ENTP. Somehow we work just right. We do excel for everything we plan. Also I feel like the best all the time, but unworthy at the same time.
3:41 I don't know why but I found this amusing. While I fail to acknowledge sensors for their 'living in the moment' attitude, and often label them as superficial beings, I am the one more likely to be unhappy and renegade my own needs. Still, I fail to be to their liking and they fail to be to mine, none of us being willing to change for better communication. I admit that this rigidity of mine makes me have fewer friends but also makes me value the right people and give my loyalty to the right people.
OMG! This is great, especially the ings about the Ewoks (5:02 and 5:35),the fish, and solitary (7:42 - 7:57). I burst out laughing at the solitary bit!
during my day i definitely peg people I am tripping in the Zombie Apocalypse™️. Make me repeat myself? I'm tripping you. Not listening to me? Tripping you. Screw me over? Tripping you. etc etc etc.
Yeah I got it too and I don't think I am better than anyone and I am a successful journalist lol, I am great at communication and have been in sales too. Is this doesn't fit me fully
The photo reason is so accurate though xD. I'm basically a ninja when it comes to photos, and then my friend complains that she wants me to be there too xD. I just don't like my image being thrown into unknown people's hands... especially in stuff like events.
Lol I don’t bring a psychic on our first date, but, I run off their astrology chart first chance I get. Or, since I’m an Astrologer, I’ll start calculating their data in my head, right there on the spot, and begin to analyze it. By the end of the date I’ll know not only what they’ve allowed me to see, but, also what I’ve found out on my own. Definitely not a time waster. Although I do tend to lean towards the more cautious and cynical, I often give people the benefit of the doubt, while ascribing to the belief that forewarned is forearmed.
I have no idea this video is hilarious. Fortunately, I am developing my blind function FE. OUTCOME: I made 24 friends in college this semester. Arrrwoooooooooo!
The reason we are only 2% of God's creation isssssssssssss......in His infinite wisdom, he didn't want other humans to start a campaign called "INTJ genocide for a better world." I've tried to acquiesce to others' emotions, thinking there would be a better connection, but sloppy people absolutely hate my organizing skills, hate logic I use in conversation, and basically want to stay down in their favorite hole without progress. However, if you are 30 points higher on the IQ scale than most people.....the majority will seek to feather line their favorite hole whenever they see you coming anyway. It's not necessarily the way you describe it. It gives us joy to see progress emanating from other people.
9:40 Goldilocks and the Three Beers ! Everything will be alright with the fourth beer. Misspelling is intentional. Aarre Peltomaa, an Orion Starseed on a nuthouse of a planet. This planet is CRAZY !!!!!
Perhaps find a friend that is INFP-T and same gender as you. I did have one friend. But I always remember the boundaries. Never push them to be active and get to their privacy. Kinda like INFJ.
The closest I ever got to writing a diary was inventing a set of unique symbols, a new phonetic system, memorizing how to translate English words into that made-up notation, then contemplating writing everything in a small notebook of disposable paper. So nobody else could read it if someone eventually would find it. I trust a knowledge barrier far better than a physical padlock, because anyone can learn to pick a lock, but nobody else can read my made-up symbols. And I still eventually decided not to lol
Being an intj the negative perfectionist thing is so real. I recently got a 101 on a calc 2 exam and was upset that I didnt get a 105 ( the absolute maximum)
INTJs are not negative. We look for potential in everything. It is when we see no potential that we raise our radar over the head of whatever/whomever. But this is following intense scrutiny, because of an optimistic inner voice that is screaming "There HAS to be SOMETHING redeeming, here". But once we feel like we are wasting the time looking for it, we move on.
As INFP, I only know 1 guy. When I going on Boo dating app, I saw him and the label stated as INTJ. 😂 I send like and wait till get response. I say hi bro. It is me, INFP. Someone that sit beside you in the classroom. Always sit alone. Remember that? It took a long time (>5 months) and he replied with this > "Y" 😂 Yeah. I like this guy. He is like me. Take a long time to give response. The smart and cold guy. Like a CCTV. Everyone scare with him. After I sit right next to him. Boom. No one dare to speak poorly about me. 😂 He helps me a lot at school. Wow. He still still single. Despite graduate from reputable university and living in big house. I know this guy. But whenever I ask him out, he declined. Whenever I want to visit his house for study, he declined. Yeah... It is right. He is indeed INTJ. 🤭 I say happy birthday friend. He just asked so many questions. Like dude. Why not happy? I give you birthday cake. He asked me question like why you come to my house, how you know my birthdate, bla bla bla. Like is it what friend supposed to do. Give something in return cause you help me. I mean bro. This is normal. A friend visit your home. He refuse to let me enter his house. His parent always busy and rarely home. But somehow he is okay with it. 😂 He is actually nice. But not able to show emotion and lack empathy. I don't think all INTJ are bad. There are good INTJ who become teachers.
As an INTJ, I don’t expect anyone to read my mind to understand my emotions. Nor will I explain them, because explaining myself to simpletons who lack the ability to comprehend is exasperating.
While I agree regarding the many, the few I do associate myself with have the opposite problem: it's really hard to shut me up once I get going and actually care about their ability to understand me.
-INTJ
@@KP-wI love how there’s always that one person who has a grudge against intjs
@@Ibloop "Grudge against INTJs". Lol please explain how you arrived at this funny (and non-cognitivist) conclusion. I just stated a plain fact. The world is indifferent to your personal emotions, people just care about their own. Now, is that too much for you, little snowflake? 😂 I, too, test as INTJ on the Myers Briggs type inventory, so naturally I'd like to make fun of these naive little normie dorks in an identity crisis trying to "behave by the book" wherever I see them. 😂
@@Ibloop Just because we're better than everyone else.
most intj comment ever
"Honestly, i don't care.."
-INTJ
"Believe you me, we know."
-INTP
Why should I care ?
-INTJ
"Banana"
-ENFP
There is nothing interesting to care
-INTJ
@@Charanram-uh6ne Yeah, true that..
When i'm already good at something i've passionated about, i just go straight up bored with it...
As an INTJ, I do not expect anyone to read my mind. What I expect is that they'll listen when I speak.
Nice!
Very humpty dumpty :D
I expect that they will not listen or comprehend.
Dude yes like I consider myself a very open book which is why it pisses me off even more when people choose to ignore when I give plenty of ques that I'm getting tired of the conversation or am trying to leave
Facts
“If you pull an INTJ out of their solitude, they’ll flop around and probably die.” Is extremely true because I experienced it myself. When working from home I went from the bottom to a team leader in record time after which I switched jobs. New job required to go to the office 3 times a week and no matter how much I struggled I eventually burned out completely and had to quit. Took me 2 whole months of laying in bed just processing everything to feel normal again and now after not leaving my house for 4 months I am happy, unbothered, in my lane, focused, flourishing.
😳 You died?! I'm glad my videos are being enjoyed by the ghost community! In all do seriousness I'm glad you are doing better :)
@@TrebleKnight😂 - ESTJ
Can’t agreed more! I was so wrong to take my recent new risk analyst job in a central bank where is not based on data nor evidence but human relationships and office politics without efficiency , going to office 3 days… I am quitting and planning to take two years off for career break to cure myself ….
Moisturized?
glad im not alone in this lol
Laughs in INTJ
Came here to say that.
"Remember than INTJs have to live with an INTJ all the time." Indeed we do, and constantly being in the head of your own INTJ brain, gives you a lot of self understanding, but no understanding of others...
I feel truly called out, by this video😅
*Snorts in intj. This was hysterical
“😀”
hits pause and curses at the video and audio after 30 seconds... in INTJ
Back when I was still an Immature INTJ during my early 20's I didn't gave two shits about people and their feelings and I commonly got referred to as a robot. Now as a bit more mature INTJ, I start to consider peoples emotions into evaluations when I plan and now i get called Manipulative.
😂 I can really relate to you haha
One day you will be called wise, it’s a cycle
Moral of the story: your original approach is the best one. Time to reclaim it.
Im under 20 and I often feel like I got no emotions to people whatsoever, sometimes I get to feel emotions but then something just eats up the emotions in me, it's really hard to explain....
@@prajyotshinde6995 it could be logic destroying your emotions. You'll be alright
I do love "facts don't care about your feelings" but I have come to realize that also, "feelings influence our interpretation of the facts." Raw stats are only useful if we interpret them correctly, and a lot of people use cognitive biases (aka feelings) to interpret supposed "hard data."
Correct, which is precisely why many studies are invalidated fairly quickly upon deeper analysis. Unfortunately, simply the fact that it's a study holds some weight and often disperses within the wider community before a suitable rebuttal can be formulated. Worse, some rebuttals don't have proper methodology either and boil down to flawed assumptions, so it quickly all slides into the muck of 'I can't trust any of this', then you'd have to do the analysis yourself and it becomes a black hole of time.
This is why it is very important to find trustworthy sources that double check everything before the conclusions are passed down to you. Sadly, there are few such people/organizations and even so, each has their own bias you must account for - which boils down to what biases you can live with and which you can not let slide.
Literally the only reason I think I'm Christian while being heavily logic focused. You align your feelings right and it all makes sense, then you go to form an argument and it stops making sense. Then you realize you can make other people believe by tuning into their emotions, then you wonder if it's real or if you're manipulating people into thinking what you think is true... AGAIN
Well said my friend😊
I'm in INTJ with a diary. Helps me avoid talking to people about my deepest darkest secrets
Ya some other INTJ’s say that they couldn’t maintain diaries because it just became statistics, but for the ones who use it properly (like u and me) it’s amazing
A little preservation of our history to eventually pass down
@@TheIT221Doubt if anyone (now, or from the future) cares about your ideosyncratic garbage, except yourself. Shun the "Anne Frank Complex". 😂
Don't you think that the risk if someone actually seeing your deepest thought written by yourself on a physical paper outweigh every benifit that diary brings to you
@@shivamonster999 Great point, but it's buried in a random file on an electronic device. No one will ever see it other than me.
@@lazly-prodictiv-6827 then it's totally worth i thought you were writing your thoughts down on a physical paper and I was unable to understand how an INTJ could do that ?
"If you pull an INTJ out of their solitude, they'll flop around and probably die."
How poetic, love it. :D I definitely see myself as a helpless fish whenever I'm sitting together with a group of 4+ people since I'm so busy listening, analyzing and then coming up with a logically fond and morally acceptable response, that I don't find enough time to actually voice anything of that. By the time I constructed a good answer, the group chat has shifted to a new topic already. This consumes a lot of energy and can be frustrating at times. Especially when some people speak with rapid speed and so loudly that you can't hear yourself thinking anymore. 🙄
It's all way easier in one to one conversations. ^^
I'd feel more like a dragon defending his secret lair and treasures...
Why do you want to "come up with a logically fond and morally acceptable response"? That's system 2 thinking (See: Daniel Kahnemann, Thinking fast and slow). Exercise system 1 thinking when in a group (system 1 playground), it'll be much better.
lol sound pretty epic
8:50 I have imaginary friends to tell me what’s wrong about anything I’m doing, very effective
-INTJ
I’m an INTJ and this is both correct and incorrect and I love it
lol so it's balanced
I'm INTJ and have been married for 31 years, but I also go on week-long trips alone. I need a lot of time to myself.
As an INTJ, feelings don't matter unless it's MINE then you must care about me.
Watermelon
@@KidcorekidXD mmmm
Fi be like
@@KidcorekidXD hello enfp
-intj
@@anirudh7309 hi
If I were a menace to society and wanted to cause some sort of calamity, I would first have to determine how to do it from my bedroom.
Ofcourse your super ego is ISFJ ❤
As an INTP, the INTJ is relatively relatable. Especially the part about being unsure of others or untrusting. Also, could you make a video like this for every type.
I'm thinking about doing that, but it will take a while.
@@TrebleKnight Nice. Great video imo.
As an ENTJ, this was also very relatable to me. The part about sharing inner emotions with others and judging others harshly but myself even more. 😬
Just say that you want an intp video you don't have to act like you are so cold and a Sigma male, by the way I'm INTJ ✨
@@Lusciousnovacrono What? Why would I care about acting like that? Also, I don’t JUST want an INTP video. I do actually want a video for all of them. Yes, the INTP one may be the one I might want the most, but I want all of them for learning purposes. I actually do relate to them. Also, I find the concept of a “sigma male” confusing, and am not trying to act like one. I don’t see how I was being like that or cold? If it’s because I said “relatively”, that’s only because I don’t enjoy staying my opinions as facts or asking things too absolutely or directly, so I use words like that.
Ixtj: facts don't care about your feelings
Infp: Feelings dont care about your facts
Yep, annoying thats the wolrd we live in. Look i don't care if you din't like it, this is the way it needs to be done and thats the way you are going to do it.
I don't think that INTJs let others keep guessing for the most part. They are VERY clear about what they want and what not and you'd better listen, because they hate to repeat themselves! They won't play games of hinting at what they want, but straight up tell you no matter how weird it may sound to you. On the other hand, they don't feel the need to explain every little thing about themselves. They don't care if you understand them or not! They know that they'll never understand others to the last detail and that's ok. Everybody is weird in their own way, and when they respect it, you should too!
Similarly, since they need a lot of independence, they will hardly argue against you doing your own thing too. In fact, they probably expect it from you!
Oh lord. Making me repeat myself, when I've already dumbed it down and made myself crystal clear, drives me crazy.
INTJ here. We just come off that way. People have a VERY hard reading us where we have a niche for reading others. We cant help others don't understand us. Also most of us are intuned withoutselves and its difficult for someone to hurt our feelings. We are FREAKING machines compared to a lot of people.
Can't help it if I live in a world of repeating "I told you so".
As an INTJ I complete all aspects of my projects. And have my contingencies in place always.
And yes we will manipulate the ENTJ for world domination as the front man as we pull the strings from the shadows
Of course! You gotta avoid having to deal with too many people somehow after all!
As an INTJ I never expected INTJs opening up their thoughts
Oppenheimer was an INTJ. That analogy in the beginning was perfect 😂
Yeaaaaaa
I don't have a diary. I developed a digital journal from my favorite text editor which supports both URLs and URIs.
Perfect and highly likely for that not to be a coincidence
12:19 100% accurate there's no way my plan fails but for it to work i need to start acting on it first but my habit of procrastination stands in my way
the last one is actually true as hell... we plan for world domination then decide a nap feels more fun
lol start word domination with the couch
Yeah, because if we were dominating the world, the world would be perfect. And let‘s be honest: they dont deserve that. 😂
I have a dear friend who is a very mature INTJ. She’s really developed her blind spots and strives for warmth and kindness.
THAT SAID:
She got pranked at work by her employees (she’s da BIG BOSS attorney CEO awesome lady). They stuck post-it notes all over her office, just to be funny. Bahahaha, ohhhh the revenge…
First person:
She got a two dozen HUGE bags of movie popcorn and dumped it in that person’s office. ALL OVER. Apparently, they were fond of popcorn, soooo…
Second person:
She filled their office with gummy bears and gummy worms and Nerds. ALL OVER EVERYTHING.
Third person:
I forgot. But, it was great.
These revenge pranks were a month apart.
She’s a damn genius. 🤣
SWEET REVENGE
I'd just sell the popcorn and the gummy crap. More of a profit than a revenge lol
@@KP-w it was all over the place. Her employees are still finding old popcorn and gummies in their offices! 😂
@@EarthenCavyshe's pure intj imo
@@prajyotshinde6995 absolutely an INTJ queen. I love that woman. 🤣😂
"I dont care if INTJs are a danger to society cuz that ain't stopping me from admiring them :D"
-ENFP🌈
Intj -Enfp 💕
I tell people, " I am a threat to your disease". Recently a long time friend was introducing me to a new friend and said of me, "She makes it impossible to continue tricking yourself." I thought that was a lovely compliment. And an accurate assessment of why many folks find me so troubling. Shaking up the status quo.
Meh, talk to an ENTP. They'll swiss cheese your conclusions without even trying much. INTJ's get too enamored with their visions.
If it’s ok with you, I’d like to share that self-assessment with you. I’m pretty much the same way, although I try hard not to become a human representation of “The Iceman Cometh.”, 😂
My plans ARE flawless but I don't ever really need to use them unless something really wrong has happened or I'm starting a business.
While watching this video I found myself thinking, "This doesn't sound like me at all, wtf are you talking about." I now understand what you are talking about.
The funniest part is, to us INFJs, INTJs are not only awesome, but like another part of us. Also, even though we INFJs are technically feelers, we also have enough logic to mostly agree with them and understand them on the exact level that they understand us. Also, just like anyone else will, an INTJ will eventually trust an INFJ, or a healthy one at least. INTJs don't need to share their emotions with an INFJ because we can already see and feel their emotions. They can't hide them from us. It is funny to say that we INFJs are the logical feelers and the INTJs are the feeling logicians.
Well, as an INTJ, I'd say INTJs are more of a "feeler" type than INFJs. INFJs only "show" it, they can be very calculating robots inside, more so than INTJs.
@@KP-w Technically, we are allot more extroverted feelers, and you are more introverted feelers. Yes, you guys actually feel your feelings but we feel everybody else's feelings.
@@nickolaszissimos1189 Way too many feelers and feelings in that response lol (Nonsense, people who test as INTJs are equally capable of empathy, and people who test as INFJs are equally capable of personal emotions, it's got nothing to do with your MBTI, which is itself a very dubious and unrealiable inventory, a corporate astrology of sorts lol)
@@KP-w Yeah, I know, but I admit, it is easier to know other people's feelings and emotions than it is my own. I know an INTJ that could pass as an INFJ. Sometimes, I think as an INFJ I can pass as an INTJ.
@@nickolaszissimos1189 Any type can pass as any other type. It's just a skill issue lol.
I feel roasted now. But it's okay. I needed this.
12:00 +++ critical damage on my HP
This is incredibly accurate it’s scary
Ewoks… so that’s what’s been running around in my head all this time.
It explains so much.
-INTJ
Laughing my butt off!
I needed that thank you🎉
My husband is an INTJ and I am an INFJ. Yes we did end up together because we were too intense for our exes. I was his math tutor. And yes we have conversations people around us don't understand.
As an intj, i really like to think of infjs as people we can still rely on to understand us. My father is an infj and while I would never we agree 100% on everything, our views on many aspects are same or similar if not exactly identical and it is comforting to talk to him about a lot of things people usually don’t understand when i tell them.
this my friend was on point... I feel watched
thanks!
The most relatable video on TH-cam for me.
I laughed so hard at this. We are deep dark and unknowable and apparently completely transparent.
Moonblock would just be sunblock because the light is the sun reflecting 😆
yeah, but you could make a lot more money branding it as moon block
INTJ here and I can relate😂😂😂
I dont have a diary coz all my plans are in my brain. I even have serious plans for zombie apocalypse LOL.
I just started to mature and I realized that I need to learn how to care about others but it's hard... I zone out when I start hearing illogical BS from others... That's me being nice😅😅😅
Developing your final functions can be quite a journey
The trust issue part is true, we dont trust no one
HAHA funny! yet, INTJ is very similar to the INFJ with the only diff being thinking v's feeling. With them being middle functions, we have a sliding scale between the two depending on the situation.
My main function IN keeps me indoors planning yet the thinking/logic also gets me up to work the plan. I wanted an orchard, i now have an orchard.
11:21 overplanning is so true for me. “Every possibility no matter how big or small is a possibility nevertheless and requires a plan.” That’s my motto for life. I over plan everything and always keep back ups. Even in my school and college, my group of friends have always told me “it’s like you plan with an apocalypse in mind.”
Planning with an apocalypse in mind? You mean there are other ways of planning than that? Assume the worst, quadruple it, plan accordingly, and then take joy in having been wrong - or satisfaction in the accuracy of your predictions.
Yes, that is so true… i find absolute comfort that someone can word it better than me
@@swastikaghosh4913 Happy to help.
"Look, it's not their fault - they're just sensors" 😂
Polr Fe can be really rough lol. They say INTJ's are good entrepeneurs but I disagree, Fe is actually quite important when it comes to dealing with customers and clients (or anyone...).
About the planning thing, yes we scheme and plan, but these don't have to be world domination plans that go 50 years into the future. They can also be very day to day.
I learned to hire people who are better at ... peopling. Frees me up to deal with higher level things.
I’m just learning about personality types. INTJ it’s a gift and a curse. More of a curse because this comment section is the closest I get to a group of people willing to use Critical thinking and common sense ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your first and only mistake with an INTJ is underestimating them. We don't trust because we know for a fact what humans are capable of. Truly find yourself and know what you are capable of and everyone else is not that far off. Let that sink in and and now you know why we don't trust you. And another fact for you, if you pulled me out of my solitude i would take over the world just to make sure you never did that to me again.
I had a good laugh, the video touches on many cliches (let's just say I recognize myself at earlier stages in life) but clearly doesn't understand INTJ's. My own job is to handle 10+ different projects/customers at once, always get randomly interrupted and still get work done. I seem to be doing fine at that since I am getting a significant raise every year. Another thing to mention is that I am the one that cleans up all the messes "E" types make, and I do that through diplomacy
7:39 I spend all day on my personal projects in my room and this is what happens when my mom drags me out for a social event out of nowhere
Honestly, this is probably the most relatable INTJ video I've seen, if in fact I'm an INTJ which is really hard to be subjective about because my analytical side thinks perhaps my egotistical side just wants in on this elite action.
Try to find more flaws in the possibilities you see. When an INTJ builds their Ti, they're a lot more sensible. If they double their Te (another route), they become unstoppable.
I’m sending this to my INTJ friend in our long one sided conversation where I only troll him and he leaves me on read. Once he responded and it freaked me out but he went back to normal soon after.
-ENTP
Dude. This is gold and had me laughing hardcore.
Wow so could childhood trauma followed by immediate therapy have changed me from this type to infp? … I’m over analyzing myself and this not enough 😂 so looks like I get to learn something new 😂
9:14 That's so funny ! You have me in stitches !! Yes. I have to live with myself everyday.
Hilarious. 🙃🤣 Aarre Peltomaa of Mississauga, Ontario, an INTJ.
p.s. Maybe I should become a multivalent aberree, so that I can have another personality to crawl into, like a hermit crab switches shells. 😉
p.p.s. I am also an Orion Starseed, so that that vastly exacerbates the problem !! They are so logical, like Spock, but I do have feelings too. Emotional music can make me cry.
Yeah... and to all that you can add depression (probably, because I'm not a professional and I can't diagnose myself, but I'm certain I'll get something the like).
I get exasperated explaining things I just know people aren't going to understand. I dumb down things to the point I feel like they might need to take a full on course to get what I'm saying. So I just give orders with as many details as possible, with people not understanding but somehow doing as I command.
I invest a lot of energy in friendships. I feel like I have to put neon signs to people all the time, but If they don't care about me, I do mope around. Not too much because they didn't deserve that in the first place. Also depression doesn't help a lot. People have a purpose also. Why not?
I do cry a lot, but I also blame the hormones of me being female and PMS. Because science.
I don't trust people. If I do, consider yourself worthy. I'm married to an ENTP. Somehow we work just right. We do excel for everything we plan.
Also I feel like the best all the time, but unworthy at the same time.
"Creating the universe made many people unhappy and is *universally* considered a bad decision" I couldn't agree more
So funny and so accurate. Thank you. I loved this. 😅😊
I'm glad!
3:41 I don't know why but I found this amusing. While I fail to acknowledge sensors for their 'living in the moment' attitude, and often label them as superficial beings, I am the one more likely to be unhappy and renegade my own needs. Still, I fail to be to their liking and they fail to be to mine, none of us being willing to change for better communication. I admit that this rigidity of mine makes me have fewer friends but also makes me value the right people and give my loyalty to the right people.
There are pros and cons for sure
Aahh what a riot 😂! I can relate.
4:54 my danganronpa phase just got rebooted into my body the moment you said "Ultimate"
I have been mistyped as an intj and i am here to check. I don’t relate to any point do I am differently not Intj.
Crying in Infj personality crisis 😅
INTJ- TrebleKnight please done one on ENFP, I have a friend that's one and I want to make fun of him the most efficient way possible.
I am intj who just got a copy if tzu's Art of War book.
As am INTJ, I don’t give a f*ck. I’m grinding in silence
OMG! This is great, especially the ings about the Ewoks (5:02 and 5:35),the fish, and solitary (7:42 - 7:57). I burst out laughing at the solitary bit!
I’m an INTJ and tried journaling as a venting mechanism. Fascinating experience, then I burnt all 3 notebooks.
lol can't let there be any record of INTJ thoughts
Infp : "I have by far the most unrealistic expectations about humans"
Intj : *slight cough*
My most unrealistic expectation is, they'll mind their own business. If I want you to know something about me, I will tell you. Don't pry.
during my day i definitely peg people I am tripping in the Zombie Apocalypse™️. Make me repeat myself? I'm tripping you. Not listening to me? Tripping you. Screw me over? Tripping you. etc etc etc.
I got INTJ but im kind and friendly... guess MBTI is not real
Yeah I got it too and I don't think I am better than anyone and I am a successful journalist lol, I am great at communication and have been in sales too. Is this doesn't fit me fully
INTJs can be friendly! I just play up the stereotypes for humor lol
Can you make this kind of videos about INFJ
Thanks for the suggestion
This is so f trueee
It should be obvious what I am thinking and feeling in certain situations. Don't people understand anything?
Yeah, I need to find INTJ friend..
The photo reason is so accurate though xD. I'm basically a ninja when it comes to photos, and then my friend complains that she wants me to be there too xD. I just don't like my image being thrown into unknown people's hands... especially in stuff like events.
Oh I know I didn't just hear an INFP accuse INTJs of being poor communicators/expecting people to read their minds
I am an INTJ and this video is correct.
The Nuclear bomb has saved more lives than it's taken
Lol I don’t bring a psychic on our first date, but, I run off their astrology chart first chance I get. Or, since I’m an Astrologer, I’ll start calculating their data in my head, right there on the spot, and begin to analyze it. By the end of the date I’ll know not only what they’ve allowed me to see, but, also what I’ve found out on my own. Definitely not a time waster. Although I do tend to lean towards the more cautious and cynical, I often give people the benefit of the doubt, while ascribing to the belief that forewarned is forearmed.
I am. An intj. And very bad at communicating. We have high expectations bc we hold ourselves to a high standard.
I have no idea this video is hilarious. Fortunately, I am developing my blind function FE. OUTCOME: I made 24 friends in college this semester. Arrrwoooooooooo!
wow that's a lot of friends!
give me your wisdom
If you are an INTJ, to develop your FE blindspot, you will need to avoid being hypercritical and validate people's emotions. @@typhoonboom
@@AcapachVideo thanks bud
as an INTJ this is uncomfortably accurate
The reason we are only 2% of God's creation isssssssssssss......in His infinite wisdom, he didn't want other humans to start a campaign called "INTJ genocide for a better world." I've tried to acquiesce to others' emotions, thinking there would be a better connection, but sloppy people absolutely hate my organizing skills, hate logic I use in conversation, and basically want to stay down in their favorite hole without progress. However, if you are 30 points higher on the IQ scale than most people.....the majority will seek to feather line their favorite hole whenever they see you coming anyway. It's not necessarily the way you describe it. It gives us joy to see progress emanating from other people.
9:40 Goldilocks and the Three Beers ! Everything will be alright with the fourth beer. Misspelling is intentional. Aarre Peltomaa, an Orion Starseed on a nuthouse of a planet. This planet is CRAZY !!!!!
Have you pondered the possibility that God is an INTJ?
Likely not. There's room for improvement usually.
Yes about the beds, and separate rooms. I need my space.
Good vid. I can relate to most points. I've never been able to keep an INFP friend though... Any advice on how to have an INFP friend welcome.
Perhaps find a friend that is INFP-T and same gender as you. I did have one friend. But I always remember the boundaries. Never push them to be active and get to their privacy. Kinda like INFJ.
I trust everyone. Until I don't. Then we never hear from them again.
I have three security systems on my property totaling 22 cameras.
This is accurate as hell, it kind of scared me a little, like how in the hell does this guy know so much about me 😂
I found immediately that my favorite composer Rachmaninoff is an INTJ womp womp womp woowooowowmp
as an INTJ I have to say one thing.
0:25 not how any one cares but the restaurant its at the ather and of the universe
The closest I ever got to writing a diary was inventing a set of unique symbols, a new phonetic system, memorizing how to translate English words into that made-up notation, then contemplating writing everything in a small notebook of disposable paper. So nobody else could read it if someone eventually would find it. I trust a knowledge barrier far better than a physical padlock, because anyone can learn to pick a lock, but nobody else can read my made-up symbols.
And I still eventually decided not to lol
I've been making secret cods like that since I was in the 8th grade! I haven't done much with it. But one day I'll make my own Voynich Manuscript :P
Why is this video like so accurate
0:00 I thought you were going to reference Oppenheimer being an INTJ lol
Can I tell you about my lord and savior logic totally got me, that is me to a T! An inTj that is.
“They both have no idea how to pose for photos!” LOL!!! It’s so true!!!
i am so terrifically flattered as an intj damnnnn
lol makes sense
Being an intj the negative perfectionist thing is so real. I recently got a 101 on a calc 2 exam and was upset that I didnt get a 105 ( the absolute maximum)
It's never good enough... Great job on the test tho!
12:12 - 12:20 YES OH MY GOSH YES, THIS IS THE MOST REALEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD ANYONE SAY ITS SO TRUE AND I HATE IT
INTJs are not negative. We look for potential in everything. It is when we see no potential that we raise our radar over the head of whatever/whomever. But this is following intense scrutiny, because of an optimistic inner voice that is screaming "There HAS to be SOMETHING redeeming, here". But once we feel like we are wasting the time looking for it, we move on.
I knew someone who claimed they were an intj and talked about it often. I didn't think it fit them though.
As INFP, I only know 1 guy. When I going on Boo dating app, I saw him and the label stated as INTJ. 😂 I send like and wait till get response. I say hi bro. It is me, INFP. Someone that sit beside you in the classroom. Always sit alone. Remember that?
It took a long time (>5 months) and he replied with this > "Y"
😂 Yeah. I like this guy. He is like me. Take a long time to give response. The smart and cold guy. Like a CCTV. Everyone scare with him. After I sit right next to him. Boom. No one dare to speak poorly about me. 😂 He helps me a lot at school. Wow. He still still single. Despite graduate from reputable university and living in big house. I know this guy. But whenever I ask him out, he declined. Whenever I want to visit his house for study, he declined. Yeah... It is right. He is indeed INTJ. 🤭
I say happy birthday friend. He just asked so many questions. Like dude. Why not happy? I give you birthday cake. He asked me question like why you come to my house, how you know my birthdate, bla bla bla. Like is it what friend supposed to do. Give something in return cause you help me. I mean bro. This is normal. A friend visit your home. He refuse to let me enter his house. His parent always busy and rarely home. But somehow he is okay with it. 😂 He is actually nice. But not able to show emotion and lack empathy. I don't think all INTJ are bad. There are good INTJ who become teachers.