That's exactly what I thought! I haven't done a damn thing to earn her trust, but whoa, she will fight someone to the death to protect the littles. It is infuriating to think what has gone on in the past, but Jade is all 'no one else will eff with littles, EVER'.
Her stare is very intense. She means business. I would not want to cross her. On the other hand, I completely understand, her job is to make sure the entire system works as smoothly as possible. Jade is a protector in every sense of the word.
Absolutely, I had that same exact experience while singing a song that I "altered" (pun intended) to make it about accepting DiD as part of your life. It ended up turning into a duet between me, the host, and my protector whom I gave the nickname of Dawn Jillinger due to the method she chose to reveal herself to me which seems to have stuck with her. The song we altered was the song "This is me" from the soundtrack for The Greatest Showman movie. We changed that song to This is We. I can very clearly hear when I switch from me, the host, to Dawn Jillinger and back again as we're preforming the duet and it seems like we take different lines from the song as our lines to sing in the duet. I have also been one to rollplay future conversations on various topics with various people in my head by having that discussion in advance while "thinking aloud" and when I started talking about the DiD experience having seen everything in hindsight and talking about how I got here and how I reached my discovery point, as I rollplayed that conversation while preparing to bring this issue up with my therapist, I felt Dawn Jillinger take over to do the explaining for me and that's when she told me she gave me the physical strength to fight back against my father when I was a teenager to the point where he and I might as well have been in the same weight class even though he was twice my size. These were things I wasn't planning on bringing up with my therapist because I wasn't even aware that all this time it was her giving me that unreal physical strength. She has quite literally saved my life over and over again.
I like that Jade doesn't say um. When she gets her thoughts together she simply goes silent, followed by a strong statement. I respect her. Her strength and confidence are admirable in any sense.
I know someone in my life who has developed a speech pattern like that, no “like...” or “uhh... um”, just strong dramatic pauses and it’s lends such gravity to everything they have to say. So admirable.
@@alinatitov7512 Seeing as Miss Trunchbull is outright abusive to children, probably not appropriate to compare her to an alter who's purpose is to protect children. Jade isn't abusive or mean. She is just protective and matter of fact.
@@strawbunnymilk81 ik it was a joke because it was the exact scenario, matilda as the student and her as the headmaster, kind of the same attitudes but I didn't mean anything bad of it
Children alters should be treated as actual children. I understand Jade being overprotective because of predators out there on the internet. She is like a mother to these littles and I respect that 100%
@@ciciwoods4556 well yeah, but people dont always get it, or they forget how vulnerable a child is, and then they are too curious. i think they would reasonably feel the need to explain this, but i dont know the system.
Yeah. We have one little who is trauma free and we do o ur very best to protect her from anyone and anything that could possibly hurt her as well as the other littles who hold trauma
@@januarywynter6632 how do you do it? Do you have a carer for when you front as a little? Sorry if this is prying too much, I am just curious. If you would prefer not to answer I understand.
I love how intense she is but you can also tell she is very caring, you can tell by the way she talks about the littles she cares so much about them and the system in general
Yeah, it’s not overprotective because this is the way that children SHOULD be protective. Parents aren’t protecting their children ENOUGH. Obviously some stuff happens I’m not saying parents allow it but everything can be prevented
@@autonomoussensorymeridianr2477 tf you mean the littles are being protected so they dont get targeted online if you think thats toxic then youre he toxic one here
Yeah, better than those parents online who is showing their children on TH-cam. Those types of mom should've keep their moments with their child all for themselves instead of showing it. Cuz it can target the child for abusive action from other people who know them
@@ratnaastari3428 There's a British woman with DID who's memory holder paints depictions of multiple children being locked in cages, r*ped, tortured, surrounded by adults, abortions, etc. Her memory holder won't talk about what she remembers, but I absolutely believe she was an infant to child victim of a trafficking ring or outright cult. DID forms most commonly in child victims of sexual assault, but it has to happen before the child forms a concrete personality, so it often begins in infancy.
Nightcore Nerd I honestly believe that most of the people with DID were inside trafficking rings and the abortion part is something I read quite a lot in forums where some people tried to open up about ‚most common‘ things that happened to children in order to develop DID. TRIGGER WARNING: the next bit I’m writing is going to be about extreme abuse so please stop reading NOW if that could trigger you in any way! I do not want to hurt anyone with this. There was a woman in a German forum and one of her alters was so fucking pissed that ‚normal people‘ can’t even fathom what horrors are going on in this world every day, that she decided to tell a whole story on what happened to her (she said she can’t promise that 100% of it is true tho since sections of her brain can make things up to replace the unbearable truth but she’ll think it’s the actual truth). And oh boy I felt like I needed therapy myself after reading that, everything inside of my body felt like I need to burn it to get that information out of my body again. I’m not strong enough to tell you the entire story as I remember it in detail, I start shaking like crazy trying to do that but I’ll tell you that she talked about her first abortion at the age of 11 or sharing a cage with five other children. She talked about having a child at almost 13, no hospital or anything, no care, nothing, and being forced to watch it get raped. Also about marriages and honeymoon gangbangs, sex contests with punishments... my god there was a lot and I think I now wanna stop thinking about it... Before she wrote about that I knew that horrible child abuse was going on but I had no idea HOW insane it was. But while talking about the abusers, the types of people they were, she made me realize that probably every single one of us knows at least one of them and that made me go crazy for a while.
@@ratnaastari3428 How can you say thank you for that? Wouldn't it be better to keep our wicked assumptions about her past to ourselves? (I know it was just a story about a british woman but I'm talking about Chloe's past in general), It hurts more to hear about one's painful childhood.
@@abdullaalsuwaidi2407 She said herself her headspace is a mansion where the other alters live and a cave where she gatekeeps everything that comes in and out. Watch her Meet The Alters video for proof.
As a mother I cannot see any difference between this and protecting a child you gave birth to. They are your children, no difference, and I hope people can understand the need to protect their safety and feelings
Sadly a lot of people on TH-cam don’t feel the need to protect their children like this. Jade doesn’t want us to know the names of the children, but so many parents show every part of their children’s lives online. If someone tried to go after a lot of children of big youtubers, they’d know more than enough to earn their trust. Jade truly is a fantastic caretaker for those littles
S. ways can you just chill and maybe educate yourself? Or you could leave. Nobody asked for your opinion therefore could you please keep it to 𝔜𝔬𝔲𝔯𝔰𝔢𝔩𝔣.
I sometime wish that I could be one of their littles because when they talk about them I just feel like they are in the safest place in the world and that sounds amazing
Jade fr sounded so harsh saying "Hello" and i love it. Im the mom friend which obviously isn't the same but my people/friends are like my kids and i get so over protective when someone threatens them or hurts them. Yee yee
yes, I don't know much about DID and littles (but I started recently to watch more videos about it on this channel), but to me it makes absolute sense. I don't feel comfortable with parents posting pictures and videos on the internet for everyone to see and it makes sense to treat littles like you would any child. After all, every alter should be respected
What if the host agrees? At the end of the day it's still their body and brain. It may be a separate personality but it is still the host in all reality. I totally support her and her thought process. In her case I think it would be difficult to target her while in a childlike mindset because her other personalities would certainly attempt to take over and protect but its smart to keep that part of her psyche from any more trauma like negative or abusive commentary
@Twisted agent they are, with DID, they're not supposed to know that there are other alters because they host trauma. research more about DID before running ur mouth
@@ssporkss4738 no this not, there was a system where a man was having s*x with a woman alter that accidentally switched into a little, it was considered pedophilia. It is really bad for the guy but is the law
When Jade surfaced and talking about the littles, I saw a glimp of miss Peregrine. She really wants to protect the children, for any cause, and I Think it’s a beautifull quallity.
Nacho Babe I think she means versus other channels of people who don’t have DID and always say hey guys it’s *insert name* as if it would be anyone else
I'd trust Jade with any child. She is such a fierce maternal figure and I got chills by how protective she is. If this was like a ted talk or something I have no doubt she'd get a standing ovation. I respect that.
Honestly she even sooths me, I'm a 24 year old adult woman and hearing her speak, so passionately, so firmly but also (to me) so gently, so fierce but calmly, it brought a peace over me. Like.."okay, you can relax, breathe. It's all okay". I truly appreciate jade, more people need a jade in their life, the world frankly needs more jade's.
SamiNate Michael I would trust her with most stuff tbh. She is clearly responsible and very protective. Even if she doesn’t trust us we all trust her (we as in the fans).
I was trying to look at Jade's eyes. When I find it very intimidating, I didn't know what to look at... Jade is scary but in a good way... As she said... she is just trying to protect the little ones!
As a mother, jade's look at the camera everytime she says ' we will do Anything to protect them" I understand. And I know because of your experiences you'll go even further to protect them. You have my respect, Jade.
Yes, am binge watching after his video. My former bff has DID and I was friends with her various alters. Its a fascinating yet heartbreaking world. (For the record "former" is because the bff broke my trust irreparably after nearly 15 years. Without trust, there is nothing. I miss them very much, though. Very much. Nin and her system are helping me feel closer to my former friend without putting myself in a position to be hurt again.)
Also it’s her right to be protective. It’s *their* system and *their* body, that means it their choice. Nobody has the right to manipulate or take advantage of their littles. The littles are children like most people on this app, and they *are* children! Even if Jade was being overprotective, which she’s not, it’s better safe then sorry.
The aura around Jade is mesmerising. It comforts me so much to see how protective everyone is over the littles. I just wish everyone (as in the viewers and outsiders) would respect the system's wishes to keep the littles safe
Jade is so right. I'm nosy and want to know every detail of their life and disorder, but that doesn't matter. It's not a tv show, it's REAL life with REAL children who could get badly hurt by even the release of their names. It's fascinating, but everyone needs to remember that all of them have their own lives off of TH-cam.
I completely agree. I am interested and fascinated and can’t help being curious, but I completely respect the decisions to keep the littles protected and would never want any of them to feel unsafe or uncomfortable because they’re all already doing something so hard and vulnerable.
I agree, it’s super calming but keeps you on edge at the same time, there is a sense of...tention maybe? It’s very powerful and you can feel how strong willed she it
Years ago schools used to write names of the children on the back of their schoolbags/backpack for every child to know which one is theirs as many had the same kind. They stopped doing that after a person tried to get a child walking home from school into a car by shouting their name and saying "Hi (name) I'm a friend of your parents, I am picking you up today". The child immediately thought the person must be telling the truth because they know their name. Names hold so much more power than we think about. I completely understand what Jade is saying in this video.
I completely understand. I remember the names on bagpacks. My parents luckily always told me that if the stranger did not mention the codeword he was not to be trusted. Names hold power. Jade really explained it well.
MiaLethOlsen I remember having names on our backpacks years ago when I was little and thankfully, if my parents wouldn’t be able to pick me up from school, they would at least TELL ME who would be picking me up. Plus, I would normally know who my pick up person is.
To everyone saying Jade is scary. Think about what this system possibly had to go through to develop DID. She is not scary, she is essential for survival. And she rocks. Protect those littles, anyone who doesn’t understand and pesters for info, b.l.o.c.k.!!!!
Personally I loved jade, she did make me feel a bit intimidated but I feel so happy and reassured that she is there to protect the littles... Idk watching her talk about the littles made me feel a type of way, like a protector I needed growing up... I have ssssoooooo much respect for her...
Thank you for sharing Im a foster parent who has had at least 3 contacts with undiagnosed DID people. One has lost her life. I want to know more and help! Please help
I feel there was only hesitation for her to find the right words to help us understand. I really appreciate that, and I feel I learned a lot from this video.
You can tell that Jade was triggered by the mention of the littles. Obviously Chloe wasn't going to disclose any information but Jade knew that she had to step in to set the solid boundary so everyone understands. Respect.
Jade is very protective and I love that and the littles *should* be kept “away” from the internet. It makes absolute sense that all of them should be protected. I love jade because she never lets her guard down. I wish that was me 😂
It's fascinating watching Someone with DID dissociate, it's like you see there eyes go empty for a second while the Altars swap places. Love watching these videos and learning as much about DID as i can as it is so misunderstood .
@Andrew Potter I believe Nin did talk about the "two alters occupied at the same time" thing in Anthony Padilla's video about DID. She said something about co-conciousness where there is essentially two alters in the "driver's seat". I don't know too much about it but those are Nin's words.
@Andrew Potter Perhaps those neurotypical people have simply not heard an explanation that makes sense (or enough sense) to them, like the video game analogy did for you.
also Idk if it was a coincidence but once she started disassociating the camera went in and out of focus and the exposure also fluctuated a little bit right before she switched alters, interesting to think about.
She’s not being overprotective. “Actual” ( legal age) children are not allowed to be on certain things for a reason. Why not littles!? Jade you are right to be protective of the littles.
exactly, im like this with my little alters. (i myself happen to be a little as a coping mechanism and my protecters keep me off my social media and often front when im slipping into littlespace in public to stop me from being manipulated or hurting myself or wandering off) im just glad theyre keeping the littles safe and happy :)
I agree. Jade has one of the hardest jobs, too, because she has to remember EVERYTHING so she can decide who gets what info. So I can totally understand why she is the way she is. She's speaking from experience when she says terrible things can happen to children, unfortunately.
I was wondering why I was getting so emotional listening to her. I don't know if it's because I felt so awful for the system, especially the littles, that they had to be so careful, or because of this and me wishing I'd had someone like her when I was younger
Child alters should 100% be treated as children because that’s exactly what they are. I love seeing the littles because they are adorable, but I can’t forget that our world is pretty screwed up. I’m glad these children are being kept safe, keep doing what your doing! I’m not the best at wording things so I hope I made sense. Also if somehow I said anything that wasn’t okay I’m sorry! I really don’t want to make a bad impression. You guys are truly inspiring. I definitely found a new TH-camr I’m gonna binge :)
I love how when Chloe paused and was disassociating, then switched, you could see Jade come in and check her surroundings. When she saw the camera you can see her look of recognition as she knows why she's here and immediately takes action in explaining everything beautifully. I completely understand and respect your decision in withholding any information that you are not comfortable with sharing.
@@leysont thus a great example of the topic at hand, intelligence and awareness of situations through text. one can deduce certain intent or meaning by analyzing carefully based on knowledge and previous experiences, or you can exaggerate an explanation of a comment (such as this) using large male words to make one seem more intelligent, when in reality the homosapien is merely regurgitating twas visually retained based on other experiences.
... Saying "like" and "um" does not mean someone is unintelligent. It has to deal with the brain lacking certain knowledge of words in the time that you're thinking of them. People think that "like" and "um" are the only words that show "unintelligence" when in actuality, "so" is another word we tend to use and repeating phrases while we think are all things that are normal in oral language. People really need to study the scientific aspects of language or linguistics because Good Lord. It's very difficult to explain these things but, I will gladly help since it's a part of my major 😊. Like Jesus, oral language is organic and natural. It becomes less natural if it's something that is prepared beforehand. And once you realize how many words we use such as "like," "um," and "so," and then you try to naturally speak without saying, you begin to realize that it's pretty impossible and something you can't help but do naturally.
I still can’t understand why you get so much hate and attacks on the internet. This is more related to the Trisha Paytas video but in the short time I’ve watched this channel it’s been not only very educational, but responsible and professional while being pleasant to watch and learn. Wishing you all the best!
@Luke Strevell exactly!, I was so confused on why they were getting hate in the first place, all they were doing was using their platform to educate people
I see her as she has seen shit herself and really wants to protect the littles and that's awesome. Now I dont know much, i only just subscribe to the channel so i know very little but it's nice to see some one who will protect others
The strength in her voice when she says “They WILL be safe.” I’ve never believed someone more. All children deserve a protector as fierce and dedicated as Jade. She’s def one of my fave alters. She’s a mama bear. And from one mama bear to another: keep “being mean”. Those babies need you ♥️
I know it sounds stupid, but I started crying when Jade started to talk. As someone who's gone through trauma I can really feel protection from her depite never knowing her. I'm happy that the littles have someone like her to keep them safe, especially when I never did.
FireFox Camille no i cried too! totally normal, i haven’t got DID nor do i relate directly to anything they go through but i’ve been looking into the facts of it all after seeing trish paytas and her misleading video i wanted to see the truth and almost every video on this channel hits me. Jades protectiveness definitely made me shed a tear or two, its touching
Jade is what every child needs and deserves. All children need a protector and someone that makes them feel and makes sure they ARE safe. I wish I had someone like jade as a child.
Fortunately for me and my sister, our dad is just like Jade. He could seem overprotective for us at first, but once we knew what he had going through and how shit the world is, we understood.
Jade is the kind of person that scares the shit out of you but you would trust them with your life well knowing that she could end you with a glance 10000% respect what she says goes
Jade speaks on a level that alll parents should be on. Children, ALL CHILDREN, deserve to be kept safe. From predators, from the Internet, from anybody with ill thoughts. And that is something NOBODY should question.
you aren’t being over protective at ALL. as someone who was sexually abused as a child i would give anything to give back the innocence to not only me but any other child whose gone through the same thing or anything that isn’t a good childhood
Phoebe B this hit close to home. I have been sexually harassed at a young age and it really messes up how you see some people and relationships later on.
I totally understand that. An evil person touched me since I was 7 to 9 yrs/o. I would do anything to protect a child in the same situation. I'm turning 21 in 6 days and I still have nightmares about it sometimes. It's horrible. I would NOT wish that to ANYONE.
Me too... SInce I was a really young kid, my "dad" has been sexually abusing me, not just me but my sisters and my brother too.... The last time he did it was last year and I got pregnant but I lost the baby.... I wish I had one of those perfect childhood with a perfect family but it's too late now... Because of that, I act and think as if I am at least 10 years older.... At least now I know how to protect myself kind of? Actually no I don't.... Cause now I am just desperate to find someone that isn't trying to fuck my whole life up so I end up trusting weird people.... Because of that, I started talking with a guy and I fell in love with because he understood me and was so kind and everything but he was a pedophile too
The fact that people target DID littles is messed up, and as much as I want to meet and learn about the littles I agree with Jade their protection is of utmost importance. Thank you for explaining as this is the stuff that never gets told to people
@@Jade-jq8ry if you know information about the little you can get them to front and as they are a child essentially they are more vulnerable and can be deceived so they need to protect them
lovely, lovely, lovely chimin i mean if they were coerced to front through triggers bc of the disclosed info i’d believe the system could become vulnerable at that instant, and possibly force them into traumatic situations that wouldn’t be good for the little or the entire system
100% agree like I’d love to see the littles and learn about them and stuff I think that would be so cool and interesting but it is WAAAAAAAAAAY more important to keep them and the whole system safe than to satisfy the interest of well meaning people
As a little I like that you are protective about your littles and I am sorry that you have been through what you have. Thank you for looking out for us kids and being so persistent about their safety!!!
What's crazy to me is that her eyes change color in some videos, especially the meet the girls video! They go from more hazel, to chocolate brown, to very dark brown
I think it might be tongue posture. If alters can have different voices, it wouldn't be crazy to assume that they each may have different preferences on where to place their tongue which could affect face shape. IDK though. Still new to DID as a whole.
when jade fronted, it was so interesting, like i don't know how to say it, but the eyes just changed and i could tell it was a completely different person. that's so fascinating to watch, honestly
You could see when Jade started to look around and started getting more comfortable. I found that fascinating, because you could immediately see the change.
I’ve had someone try coercing one of my littles with stuffies, she was a pedophile, said little is now terrified of people because they were not well protected at the time, and more and more we have become protective over our littles in our system, so thank god for this video, giving ideas how to better protect them
That is horrible and disgusting, no child should go through that. I'm so sorry for the little that delt with that and hope they are able to one day trust others again.
I hope u don’t mind me asking, but wouldn’t pedophiles want to go for children who physically look like children on the outside? I don’t really understand considering pedos are (sickly) attracted to the physical appearance of a child
* jade kicks in* Jade: * basiclly death stares the camera while speaking* Me: *hides behind blanket a little bit* I know You mean no harm but I’m scared- mama is sleep so I can’t bother her ;w;
Hi I'm Trash main reason I believe DID is because everyone has different facial expressions they use without even knowing. And the fact that each one has consistently use the same expressions each time (in my opinion) confirms it.
As soon as Jade started talking it was like I forgot everything, i didn't even blink the whole video and I forgot what I was doing until she stopped talking omg. She's such a good protecter
Same, I hadn’t even thought much about the littles, and I felt like I was in trouble. Jade did an amazing job delivering the message, and I really appreciate how she stood up for the littles.
My therapist has been trying to teach me that my armor got me through my life. Watching you, I finally understand what she means. I don't have DID but I do have dissociation issues to the point of my eyes not dilating (just being aware of that is trippy AF). I also use your language about keeping memories filed and locked away with no desire to get it out. I denied the existence of my inner child completely until recently and now just think she's VERY dramatic. Putting yourself back together is so hard even when the trauma hasn't been this severe. I just want you to know I respect your system. It's kept you alive and safe through all the shit you've been through and am amazed you have littles that are happy and joyful. Keep protecting them
“I do believe that many of you are very naive about the kinds of things that can happen in this world...especially to children.” I could not have said it better. Some people who grew up normally will just tell you that you’re overreacting or just anything like that and it makes me so frustrated when my little personalities are bullied i guess? It’s just such a struggle and i can’t get too mad because it’ll scare them and it’s so bad.
Exactly. Even though I grew up in a good childhood, I understand the LACK of knowlege in the topic of internet trolls and abusers, and I have had my share of traumas after my early childhood, none of which were over the internet, and because of that, I will forever be naive. I cannot change that fact.
I grew up in a pretty happy home, we’ve all had home problems but mine have never been anything more than a few tears shed so I can’t even claim to understand the things that can happen in this world or how cruel people can be, especially to children. I can only imagine but I have seen a few stories on the news or heard a few in person that at least tells me that life isn’t peaches and cream like some believe it to be. And as just another person on this planet, with a heart and feelings I would like to sincerely apologize to anyone who has been subjected to any kind of cruelty and I just wish I could stop it from happening
Naive is correct. However, to be more direct, rather than naive, a person growing up in a "normal" household and environment (goes to school, has access to technology and media, etc.) has to be downright ignorant and dumb if they have absolutely no clue or denies to believe that unimaginable corruption exists in society. It's the age of technology for goodness sake! A simple curious search on the internet, school lessons, reading the news/books, watching TH-cam and browsing Reddit, etc. all contribute to increase a person's knowledge. (It's the very reason why many parents/guardians monitor their young child's internet use, postpone their exposure to technology, etc. to avoid children learning about things too mature for their age.) But a person in highschool or beyond growing up in a "normal" environment should be relatively informed on the world's society by then. Or else, how might independence and responsibility start? (Note: This is my own opinion. Writing this at 1:30 AM... I probably am missing something. Please correct me if so.)
I agree. It struck a cord with me survivor. Jade's opinion and process for keeping the littles safe is how I believe (and wish had happened to me) children should be protected.
At first I was like "why would a name matter" but then jade mentioned about how if they know a littles name they can scare them into doing whatever they want especially if they were already hurt and that just hit me like a brick that I could be so stupid to think a name doesn't matter, jade was really good at explaining it and it made me realize that just a name can cause alot of chaos and hurt for a child
“We need them to have the childhood that we didn’t have. They will be safe.” That got me so emotional
Same
I got teary eyed when she said that
@7:31
That got me emotional too because I feel the same way about my little babies (my younger brothers)
I read this comment exactly when she said it
Jade doesn't trust me, but I sure as hell trust Jade.
That's exactly what I thought! I haven't done a damn thing to earn her trust, but whoa, she will fight someone to the death to protect the littles. It is infuriating to think what has gone on in the past, but Jade is all 'no one else will eff with littles, EVER'.
I don’t tbh
i would take a bullet for anyone that fierce about protecting children
I feel like anyone who's got Jade's trust is also probably trustworthy.
Piper Poptato Chisp yeah XD
Jade’s stare is so intense and powerful, like a mother staring at someone who hurt their child. I got chills.
Her eyes says "you they are my children and I'll protect them from you bad assholes "
She is so intense and you can immediately see how she is a protector
same dude
Her stare is very intense. She means business. I would not want to cross her. On the other hand, I completely understand, her job is to make sure the entire system works as smoothly as possible. Jade is a protector in every sense of the word.
I love the way she stares at the camera.. looking right into our soul.. kind like a piercing gaze... so powerful.. and I love hearing her talk..
"We need them to have the childhood that we didn't have. They *will* be safe."
I felt my heart sink at this.
Did they just like your comment on a 2 year video?
Wow that is crazy
@@hazemketat5042 and get 544 likes. crazy
@@jesroe5842 Now there’s 1.1k likes. Very crazy
@@nova.a.star89 now 1.5k
@@accaliaaaa23 now 1.7k
Chloe: *trying to explain littles*
Jade: NOPE this tone will make people think this is optional, move over, I’m doing this one
I GOT THE 1K LIKE!!
Exactly! Jade said uhn uh, you're being to nice, imma let em know!
@@liljelly2992 too*, just trying to help!
Jade's a momma bear to the littles. She gonna rip you apart you mess with those babies 😂❤️
That's exactly what I thought
Chloe: *littles*
Jade: Mama bear is stepping forward, no one messes with my cubs
PEROIDDDDDDDD
So frikin' wholesomeeee
Jade isn’t being over protective she’s being protective within her right!! NO ONE should feel entitled to person information about children!!
BIG E
*_FACTS_*
These are *facts*
i love how firm Jade is!
Preach
everytime Jade comes in i’m like “i’m so sorry, i’ll leave ma’am, sorry sorry”
Oh thank god it's not just me then
I literally said out loud, "I'm sorry" and my mom thought I was dying
Is jade like the "caring mom"
Me too 😂. Plus army?
Like she stares into your soul
It's almost like Jade fronted because she had a stronger opinion on the topic and knew she was the one to deliver it.
Legit that was why.
Absolutely, I had that same exact experience while singing a song that I "altered" (pun intended) to make it about accepting DiD as part of your life.
It ended up turning into a duet between me, the host, and my protector whom I gave the nickname of Dawn Jillinger due to the method she chose to reveal herself to me which seems to have stuck with her.
The song we altered was the song "This is me" from the soundtrack for The Greatest Showman movie. We changed that song to This is We.
I can very clearly hear when I switch from me, the host, to Dawn Jillinger and back again as we're preforming the duet and it seems like we take different lines from the song as our lines to sing in the duet.
I have also been one to rollplay future conversations on various topics with various people in my head by having that discussion in advance while "thinking aloud" and when I started talking about the DiD experience having seen everything in hindsight and talking about how I got here and how I reached my discovery point, as I rollplayed that conversation while preparing to bring this issue up with my therapist, I felt Dawn Jillinger take over to do the explaining for me and that's when she told me she gave me the physical strength to fight back against my father when I was a teenager to the point where he and I might as well have been in the same weight class even though he was twice my size.
These were things I wasn't planning on bringing up with my therapist because I wasn't even aware that all this time it was her giving me that unreal physical strength. She has quite literally saved my life over and over again.
That move to front was fucking brutal
I like how she still plugged the other video
I think it was because Chloe was dancing around the hard facts and Jade wanted things to be 💯 percent clear about the truth of the matter
I like that Jade doesn't say um. When she gets her thoughts together she simply goes silent, followed by a strong statement. I respect her. Her strength and confidence are admirable in any sense.
You described it perfectly. I agree completely.
I know someone in my life who has developed a speech pattern like that, no “like...” or “uhh... um”, just strong dramatic pauses and it’s lends such gravity to everything they have to say. So admirable.
@Draco Granger-Snape I do the same thing. It really just takes practice.
Adrian Rose While I’m over here stuttering and going um and uh like I don’t even know what I’m saying
@@Dee-mn4ud That's true. Very admirable
The difference in attitude between Chloe and Jade is kinda like watching the interaction between a Kindergarten teacher and Headmaster at school
Matilda
@Alina Titov that reply just slapped me with facts-
Julia Persing yes.
@@alinatitov7512 Seeing as Miss Trunchbull is outright abusive to children, probably not appropriate to compare her to an alter who's purpose is to protect children. Jade isn't abusive or mean. She is just protective and matter of fact.
@@strawbunnymilk81 ik it was a joke because it was the exact scenario, matilda as the student and her as the headmaster, kind of the same attitudes but I didn't mean anything bad of it
Jade means business, and I 100% respect that
💝
I bet jade liked that comment
@@dorime7324 lmao true
Yeah Jade has my respect for that
i’m scared of her honestly
Chloe: the reason we don’t talk about the litt-
Jade: outta my way, missy. mama bear is here.
Yes mam 😨
Totally
Yesssss
She is pretty much a mama bear
I love jade so much-
Chloe: So littl-
Jade: *I WILL PROTECT MY CHILDREN*
She spoke as any true mother would in that regard.
Alyssa Ravenwood Any good person honestly
She's quite scary. Like it's a pov of when the teacher tells you off in year 1
Jade scares me, and yet she inspires me.
Jade is supposed to be scary and threatening. It's how she keeps the system safe.
Children alters should be treated as actual children. I understand Jade being overprotective because of predators out there on the internet. She is like a mother to these littles and I respect that 100%
@@ciciwoods4556 well yeah, but people dont always get it, or they forget how vulnerable a child is, and then they are too curious. i think they would reasonably feel the need to explain this, but i dont know the system.
Yeah. We have one little who is trauma free and we do o ur very best to protect her from anyone and anything that could possibly hurt her as well as the other littles who hold trauma
It’s Isa I treat my actual children the same. They don’t have an online presence. It’s no-ones business and I have to keep them safe.
Same with Sally, Sally is like a kind mother figure.
@@januarywynter6632 how do you do it? Do you have a carer for when you front as a little? Sorry if this is prying too much, I am just curious. If you would prefer not to answer I understand.
chloe: talking about the littles
jade: *hippity hoppity this video is now my property*
XD I luv the rhyming
omg i love this
I love how intense she is but you can also tell she is very caring, you can tell by the way she talks about the littles she cares so much about them and the system in general
My boyfriend says that !!!
It looked like Jade was making her zone out to not reveal too much about them by accident.
This doesn’t sound at all overprotective. It sounds more like being a good guardian.
Yeah, it’s not overprotective because this is the way that children SHOULD be protective. Parents aren’t protecting their children ENOUGH. Obviously some stuff happens I’m not saying parents allow it but everything can be prevented
Toxic
@@autonomoussensorymeridianr2477 uh what do you mean by that
@@autonomoussensorymeridianr2477 tf you mean the littles are being protected so they dont get targeted online if you think thats toxic then youre he toxic one here
Yeah, better than those parents online who is showing their children on TH-cam. Those types of mom should've keep their moments with their child all for themselves instead of showing it. Cuz it can target the child for abusive action from other people who know them
“We need them to have a childhood that we didn’t have” that hurt :(
yes it is :(, i kinda shocked when she said that, likee omg what actually happened to her until she developed did
@@ratnaastari3428 There's a British woman with DID who's memory holder paints depictions of multiple children being locked in cages, r*ped, tortured, surrounded by adults, abortions, etc. Her memory holder won't talk about what she remembers, but I absolutely believe she was an infant to child victim of a trafficking ring or outright cult. DID forms most commonly in child victims of sexual assault, but it has to happen before the child forms a concrete personality, so it often begins in infancy.
@@purelysmetalnightcore thankyou so much for the explanation 🤗
Nightcore Nerd I honestly believe that most of the people with DID were inside trafficking rings and the abortion part is something I read quite a lot in forums where some people tried to open up about ‚most common‘ things that happened to children in order to develop DID.
TRIGGER WARNING: the next bit I’m writing is going to be about extreme abuse so please stop reading NOW if that could trigger you in any way! I do not want to hurt anyone with this.
There was a woman in a German forum and one of her alters was so fucking pissed that ‚normal people‘ can’t even fathom what horrors are going on in this world every day, that she decided to tell a whole story on what happened to her (she said she can’t promise that 100% of it is true tho since sections of her brain can make things up to replace the unbearable truth but she’ll think it’s the actual truth).
And oh boy I felt like I needed therapy myself after reading that, everything inside of my body felt like I need to burn it to get that information out of my body again.
I’m not strong enough to tell you the entire story as I remember it in detail, I start shaking like crazy trying to do that but I’ll tell you that she talked about her first abortion at the age of 11 or sharing a cage with five other children. She talked about having a child at almost 13, no hospital or anything, no care, nothing, and being forced to watch it get raped. Also about marriages and honeymoon gangbangs, sex contests with punishments... my god there was a lot and I think I now wanna stop thinking about it...
Before she wrote about that I knew that horrible child abuse was going on but I had no idea HOW insane it was.
But while talking about the abusers, the types of people they were, she made me realize that probably every single one of us knows at least one of them and that made me go crazy for a while.
@@ratnaastari3428 How can you say thank you for that? Wouldn't it be better to keep our wicked assumptions about her past to ourselves? (I know it was just a story about a british woman but I'm talking about Chloe's past in general), It hurts more to hear about one's painful childhood.
She protecc, she atacc, but most inportantly, Jade keep the littles bacc.
This is so true and pure aww
beautifull
i love this one so much 🥺
UvU you bet
Every child should have a Jade that keep them safe
Jade, you are the protector I wish I had as a child ♡
Wish Jade would adopt me...
@@broccoli444 sameeee tho
me too
Chloe: “We don’t talk about our littles because...”
Jade in the cave: *alright imma head out*
Jade in the cave: Hold my necklace *_and don't let it leave the cave_*
Oh i think that's exactly what happend 😵
It’s not a cave it’s her brain don’t compare it to a whole
@@abdullaalsuwaidi2407 She said herself her headspace is a mansion where the other alters live and a cave where she gatekeeps everything that comes in and out. Watch her Meet The Alters video for proof.
Vanessa Walsh oh thx because this is a sensitive subject we need to be careful about what to say
* Dissociates into Jade * *Jade stares at camera and sighs in annoyance * Me: I'm really sorry, ma'am. I'll see myself out.
Deadass 🤣
* slides candy bar back into her bag *
She just gave me the vibe of your mom when you ask her for something at the store when she's had a stressful day.
Amelia Preston YESSS
I already knew it was jade when she started dissociating 😂
"Sorry I'm disassociating a little bit," camera: I feel you man *blurs*
Everytime she’s about to switch the camera goes out of focus, it’s like the camera knows
2 comments with over 2K likes...
@@butterflyexists ...I litterally just noticed cuz if this comment, thank you
Energy is powerful
While reading this she literally said in sync with me reading this and it was weird
It’s horrible how people target children alters!
Google global truth project and read "The Present" to see the truth about life/death in four pages.
i know the movie spilt may not be a good example about DID but the actor really did show how easy and how sad it can be to trick a little
@@Victoria-et7el oh yeah when he was the nine years old (I forgot the name) and he was like getting manipulated by the girls
Yeah, in this discord server I was in, we had to ban someone since they kept targeting systems and their littles.
God the likes are at 999
As a mother I cannot see any difference between this and protecting a child you gave birth to. They are your children, no difference, and I hope people can understand the need to protect their safety and feelings
Sadly a lot of people on TH-cam don’t feel the need to protect their children like this. Jade doesn’t want us to know the names of the children, but so many parents show every part of their children’s lives online. If someone tried to go after a lot of children of big youtubers, they’d know more than enough to earn their trust. Jade truly is a fantastic caretaker for those littles
Yes 100% my mom does this my step sister and vise versa with my step dad and me. My mom does this with my very close friends as well.
@@TheGoosebumpsGirl lass, not being funny but I don't think that they let their kids put addresses and things like that
I believe it is even harder, as littles must be much harder to educate and teach than a child you have infront of you.
S. ways can you just chill and maybe educate yourself? Or you could leave. Nobody asked for your opinion therefore could you please keep it to 𝔜𝔬𝔲𝔯𝔰𝔢𝔩𝔣.
Jade: “They will be safe”
I have never believed a person more in my life Xx
There's no room for doubt when she says that.
When looking up the word "fierce" in the dictionary it should just be a picture of Jade looking at you with that exact look on her face.
I sometime wish that I could be one of their littles because when they talk about them I just feel like they are in the safest place in the world and that sounds amazing
Lyly Waite if Liam Neisan in Taken was an alter, he’d be Jade.
I feel the same
"We need them to have the childhood we didn't have."
now THAT was a powerful statement.
Goosebumps
Aight. Let's bust out the flamethrowers and protect these littles
Keep them safe
Kinda like me with my cousins I don't want them to deal with the same sexual and emotional abuse as I did so I protect them
If I have kids I wanna give them a better child hood then mine
gave me the chills
I like jade because she is very responsible for the system, she gives a lot thought to take care of the system... I really respect that 🌹
Jade: I hope you can Respect Our decision *stares Intensely*
Me: yes ma'am.
°•B u b b l y P a n d a•° hahaha right
Understood, jade
Cute profile picture
Animatizando thanks
That's literally what I did
Chloe: so the littles-
Jade: hello.
Stace literally Geneviève, our gatekeeper, when someone mentions our littles
She doesn’t play about her babies!
Totally our alter Rose who is the main caregiver for our littles
Kat Nicolette the alters who care for the littles when the other alters start talking about them be like: bish not on my watch
~Casey/J
Jade fr sounded so harsh saying "Hello" and i love it. Im the mom friend which obviously isn't the same but my people/friends are like my kids and i get so over protective when someone threatens them or hurts them. Yee yee
When a system takes better care of there children than some youtube families.
Damnnn you just rested so many families on youtube, talking about the Ace family here. Lol you got me saying "oooooooh" out loud, you're awesome
This comment right here needs to be pinned^ .
Louder for the ass heads in the back.
YES
Daddyofive is shaking.
Oh that shade is intense!
Can we just take a moment to LOVE her perfect eye shadow, though?! It is STELLAR.
Fkn 100% m8
Perfectly goes with the lips and hair!
Not sure who did it, but it definitely wasn't Kyle. ;)
Chloe: so, the littles-
Jade: _WHOMST HAS SUMMONED THE ANCIENT ONE?!_
For thousands of years I've laid dormant and now you've awoken me from my slumber
I love Jade too
She really was like, I will speak about my children
TH-cam comments are usually such cringe but this ended me.
@@pearcegolding3544 is that a DBZA refference?
Since littles are children, they cannot technically consent to be on camera anyways. I wish family vloggers could figure this out.
yes, I don't know much about DID and littles (but I started recently to watch more videos about it on this channel), but to me it makes absolute sense. I don't feel comfortable with parents posting pictures and videos on the internet for everyone to see and it makes sense to treat littles like you would any child. After all, every alter should be respected
What if the host agrees? At the end of the day it's still their body and brain. It may be a separate personality but it is still the host in all reality. I totally support her and her thought process. In her case I think it would be difficult to target her while in a childlike mindset because her other personalities would certainly attempt to take over and protect but its smart to keep that part of her psyche from any more trauma like negative or abusive commentary
Tessa Grawe sane i hate when my parents post stuff about me without telling me so im always careful about what is say and do
@Twisted agentthat's unfortunate to read! Study did please, because you are sounding ridiculous. :/
@Twisted agent they are, with DID, they're not supposed to know that there are other alters because they host trauma. research more about DID before running ur mouth
The fact that creeps go after kids in general, let alone little alters, makes me want to vomit. Like bro???? Leave the kids alone????
NO CAP I SWEAR WHY ARE KIDS EVER TARGETED IN THE FIRST PLACE
Panic! is my Religion RIGHT??? WHAT DO PEOPLE FIND ATTRACTIVE ABOUT LITERAL
C H I L D R E N?
They go after alters?? How does that work??
@@ras3199 cuz it's like they have the argument that the body is 18 and so is legal I guess
@@ssporkss4738 no this not, there was a system where a man was having s*x with a woman alter that accidentally switched into a little, it was considered pedophilia. It is really bad for the guy but is the law
When Jade surfaced and talking about the littles, I saw a glimp of miss Peregrine. She really wants to protect the children, for any cause, and I Think it’s a beautifull quallity.
If a responsible adult doesn't care for them, who will? I respect Jade so much. Seriosly, powerful protector.
Naomi Dalin i saw ur comment on another video
@@madsb2432 Hi. What comment? :o
Idk, one of their videos tho
I remember your profile picture :p
@@madsb2432 ok! xD I really like this channel, maybe you will find me again haha
The only channel where saying ' Hey guys it's ______ ' at the beginning of every video actually makes sense
Mina Kovačević ikr
666th like .-.
Unless you watch the other DID channels. They're all great.
Nacho Babe I think she means versus other channels of people who don’t have DID and always say hey guys it’s *insert name* as if it would be anyone else
Mina Kovačević fucking true 😂
Chloe:Litt-
Jade: *WHOMST HAS SUMMONED THE ANCIENT ONE??*
Gaster!?
The way she just shut Chloe down to protect her babies😭❤️
Oh mah gawd it's the man who speaks in hands, it's WD Gaster
Well shit, he’s isolated like the rest of us.
I feel like sally is the ancient one
Jade was like, “Nah, let me talk about my babies”
The switch here really feels like "Step aside Chloe, I got this."
You do not mess with Jade, she'll petrify you with those eyes
*Nobody questions Jade*
I'd trust Jade with any child. She is such a fierce maternal figure and I got chills by how protective she is. If this was like a ted talk or something I have no doubt she'd get a standing ovation. I respect that.
Honestly she even sooths me, I'm a 24 year old adult woman and hearing her speak, so passionately, so firmly but also (to me) so gently, so fierce but calmly, it brought a peace over me. Like.."okay, you can relax, breathe. It's all okay". I truly appreciate jade, more people need a jade in their life, the world frankly needs more jade's.
SamiNate Michael I would trust her with most stuff tbh. She is clearly responsible and very protective. Even if she doesn’t trust us we all trust her (we as in the fans).
SamiNate Michael I agree!
I can tell that jade can be trusted 😊
I agree with you 😘
Yeah me too if I had a kid, Jade would be their babysitter (if she was willing to take care of them)
The whole time Jade is talking I'm like 'yes ma'am, absolutely ma'am, as you say ma'am' 😮
She's very scary. Very protective and scary.
I was trying to look at Jade's eyes. When I find it very intimidating, I didn't know what to look at... Jade is scary but in a good way...
As she said... she is just trying to protect the little ones!
Right?? She kinda scares me, but like, I understand that's the POINT. She's assertive so that people listen to her; that's part of her job.
yesss lol
TheTiffanyJune me as well
As a mother, jade's look at the camera everytime she says ' we will do Anything to protect them" I understand. And I know because of your experiences you'll go even further to protect them. You have my respect, Jade.
Anyone else binge watching her videos after Anthony's videos?
I'm a Neuroscience undergrad and I think I found what I want to do my master's on
Margo Kafka yup... I ended up binge watching well into my sleep time and now my mind is racing with questions of curiosity.
Yes, am binge watching after his video. My former bff has DID and I was friends with her various alters. Its a fascinating yet heartbreaking world.
(For the record "former" is because the bff broke my trust irreparably after nearly 15 years. Without trust, there is nothing. I miss them very much, though. Very much. Nin and her system are helping me feel closer to my former friend without putting myself in a position to be hurt again.)
Yesss I ammmm
I started this binge 3hrs ago
Yes this channel is amazing, it is so interesting and I'm glad this channel exists to educate people on DID 😊
Y’all are better caretakers of children then family vloggers
*cough cough* daddyofive *cough cough*
Alumil cough cough ace family cough cough
Caretaking family vloggers is an oxymoron in an of itself... It's always a bad idea
Tea ☕️
Cough cough Shaytards cough cough
To be honest Jade isn’t being overprotective she’s just trying to protect them.
Even if she is being overprotective, she doesn't have to explain her choices to anyone right!😤
Also it’s her right to be protective. It’s *their* system and *their* body, that means it their choice. Nobody has the right to manipulate or take advantage of their littles. The littles are children like most people on this app, and they *are* children! Even if Jade was being overprotective, which she’s not, it’s better safe then sorry.
Jade is so fluid, and straight to the point without sugar coating the point. I love that, its very motherly of her. 😊
The aura around Jade is mesmerising. It comforts me so much to see how protective everyone is over the littles. I just wish everyone (as in the viewers and outsiders) would respect the system's wishes to keep the littles safe
Jade is so right. I'm nosy and want to know every detail of their life and disorder, but that doesn't matter. It's not a tv show, it's REAL life with REAL children who could get badly hurt by even the release of their names. It's fascinating, but everyone needs to remember that all of them have their own lives off of TH-cam.
Honestly, I like watching Jade the most so far, she's so calming for some reason and she makes me feel safe
I completely agree. I am interested and fascinated and can’t help being curious, but I completely respect the decisions to keep the littles protected and would never want any of them to feel unsafe or uncomfortable because they’re all already doing something so hard and vulnerable.
YAS
I agree, it’s super calming but keeps you on edge at the same time, there is a sense of...tention maybe? It’s very powerful and you can feel how strong willed she it
Chloe: *mentions littles*
Jade: So anyway, I started fronting
Lmfaoooo
just like Kyle when they mock his accent
oh my god i knew it was jade in the thumbnail (i haven’t watched it yet) so i was surprised when chloe started the video
So anyways I start blasting
Loo
Years ago schools used to write names of the children on the back of their schoolbags/backpack for every child to know which one is theirs as many had the same kind. They stopped doing that after a person tried to get a child walking home from school into a car by shouting their name and saying "Hi (name) I'm a friend of your parents, I am picking you up today". The child immediately thought the person must be telling the truth because they know their name.
Names hold so much more power than we think about. I completely understand what Jade is saying in this video.
I completely understand. I remember the names on bagpacks. My parents luckily always told me that if the stranger did not mention the codeword he was not to be trusted. Names hold power. Jade really explained it well.
MiaLethOlsen I remember having names on our backpacks years ago when I was little and thankfully, if my parents wouldn’t be able to pick me up from school, they would at least TELL ME who would be picking me up. Plus, I would normally know who my pick up person is.
MiaLethOlsen my apologies I don’t mean to pry but is the kid okay?
There is no actual children involved. You do understand that right? Seriously curious how this an actual concern for her or any of u..
@@bethmiddleton9655 ur a bruh moment
I like how Jade says that she thinks we are naive. And we are. We don’t get what can happen to people, because we haven’t been through it.
Except for those of us who have been through it and know exactly what she's talking about.
Not all of us...those of us who have seen it and/or experienced it knows just how evil the world can be..
“We need them to have the childhood we didn’t have” got me hard.
Me too. Sometimes I feel like this too. But this is damn sad.
i read this wrong
I did not reat this right the first 4 times I read it.
Please. Wording is everything
Jesus I did not read that right omg
Chloe: so littles-
Jade: (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
Haddy Njie
omfg 😂🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂
Not wrong-
basically the whole video. I love it
lmao yes
i can see jade is just pretty much like “why do i even need to explain this”
Meagan she was so annoyed! also because people should understand their reasoning on why not to share things bout littles.
Yeah
I fricken love jade. She’s like the badass big sister who keeps everyone safe and I love that.
To everyone saying Jade is scary. Think about what this system possibly had to go through to develop DID. She is not scary, she is essential for survival. And she rocks. Protect those littles, anyone who doesn’t understand and pesters for info, b.l.o.c.k.!!!!
Yes exactly - Ash
Agreed :3
I do love Jade but you can't blame me for feeling a little frighted 😂 They say she just stares at us lol
Agree
Personally I loved jade, she did make me feel a bit intimidated but I feel so happy and reassured that she is there to protect the littles... Idk watching her talk about the littles made me feel a type of way, like a protector I needed growing up... I have ssssoooooo much respect for her...
Chloe: So littles..
Jade: Hold my cup
Jade:Hold my spot cup, Ima lay down the law.
Y E S!
LOL
Sippy*
Chloe: *talking about littles*
...
*Jade enters the chat*
Me: Why do I hear boss music..?
Taevia i love her littles sm!! they are so cute to me!!
you win the internet my frd
HAHHAHA
Why do i find this so funny😂
HSHAVDHAHA
Chloe: li-
Jade: i’m about to do what’s a called a pro gamer move
No hesitation in Jade’s speech. No umm’s and uhh’s or “like.” Extremely articulate and drives her point home.
she hesitates, but in a way that says "dont touch my babies"
Agreed. She is very direct and calculates every word before it comes out. Mad respect to her.
A bit scary tho
Thank you for sharing
Im a foster parent who has had at least 3 contacts with undiagnosed DID people.
One has lost her life.
I want to know more and help!
Please help
I feel there was only hesitation for her to find the right words to help us understand. I really appreciate that, and I feel I learned a lot from this video.
You can tell that Jade was triggered by the mention of the littles. Obviously Chloe wasn't going to disclose any information but Jade knew that she had to step in to set the solid boundary so everyone understands.
Respect.
i read ur username and gulped-
5.8K likes but one reply so here's a comment letting you know
Wait I don't understand who originally had experienced the "childhood trama" and who was the first alter. ( sorry new to the channel ) :/
Pool Floatie Chloe, and Chloe is her birth name.
Pool Floatie well, really they all experienced it. But you know :)
Jade is what I would picture Athena, the Greek goddess of war and wisdom, would be in human form. Absolutely incredible.
e v i a n YES. Couldn’t have said this better. Perfect comparison.
So true
Hmm, idk.
I didn't understand this. I thought you meant Chloe. But when Jade showed up I GOT it!
I mentioned this comment in my own, as i definitely see the Athena connection now that you mention it.
With a bit of Artemis as well.
Jade is very protective and I love that and the littles *should* be kept “away” from the internet. It makes absolute sense that all of them should be protected. I love jade because she never lets her guard down. I wish that was me 😂
Chloe: okay so the littles a-
Jade:
n o
It's fascinating watching Someone with DID dissociate, it's like you see there eyes go empty for a second while the Altars swap places. Love watching these videos and learning as much about DID as i can as it is so misunderstood .
Agreed, I found it very interesting
@Andrew Potter I believe Nin did talk about the "two alters occupied at the same time" thing in Anthony Padilla's video about DID. She said something about co-conciousness where there is essentially two alters in the "driver's seat". I don't know too much about it but those are Nin's words.
@Andrew Potter Perhaps those neurotypical people have simply not heard an explanation that makes sense (or enough sense) to them, like the video game analogy did for you.
also Idk if it was a coincidence but once she started disassociating the camera went in and out of focus and the exposure also fluctuated a little bit right before she switched alters, interesting to think about.
me too, this is so interesting, I started watching this video yesterday
chloe: [making a video on littles]
jade: *now this looks like a job for me*
*So everybody just follow me*
why
YES
*Cause we need a little contro-versy*
@@DOGMANCOMIX yess I was just about to write this ahaha
I respect Jade so much she is a very powerful protector
She’s not being overprotective. “Actual” ( legal age) children are not allowed to be on certain things for a reason. Why not littles!? Jade you are right to be protective of the littles.
exactly, im like this with my little alters. (i myself happen to be a little as a coping mechanism and my protecters keep me off my social media and often front when im slipping into littlespace in public to stop me from being manipulated or hurting myself or wandering off) im just glad theyre keeping the littles safe and happy :)
@@theoddlifeofjay I have a question is going into littlespace that you can do or is it from trauma. Sorry if sound rude
especially in this case
Jade scares me but like in a good way? She’s just trying her best to keep everyone safe and I have a lot of respect for her holding that hard position
respect = scarey but good
The word you're looking for is reverence
I agree. Jade has one of the hardest jobs, too, because she has to remember EVERYTHING so she can decide who gets what info. So I can totally understand why she is the way she is. She's speaking from experience when she says terrible things can happen to children, unfortunately.
AC :3
Me too, it’s pretty intimidating, but she still does it to keep the littles safe from HORRIBLE people.
Jade is that one person every child who's has experienced trauma wished they had.
Yes I wish she was my mother
I’m just so glad that they have her to prevent any new or further trauma.
My guess is that's the point...
I feel like she seems kind of cold
I was wondering why I was getting so emotional listening to her. I don't know if it's because I felt so awful for the system, especially the littles, that they had to be so careful, or because of this and me wishing I'd had someone like her when I was younger
Child alters should 100% be treated as children because that’s exactly what they are. I love seeing the littles because they are adorable, but I can’t forget that our world is pretty screwed up. I’m glad these children are being kept safe, keep doing what your doing! I’m not the best at wording things so I hope I made sense. Also if somehow I said anything that wasn’t okay I’m sorry! I really don’t want to make a bad impression. You guys are truly inspiring. I definitely found a new TH-camr I’m gonna binge :)
Well, let's binge together!
I love how when Chloe paused and was disassociating, then switched, you could see Jade come in and check her surroundings. When she saw the camera you can see her look of recognition as she knows why she's here and immediately takes action in explaining everything beautifully. I completely understand and respect your decision in withholding any information that you are not comfortable with sharing.
I like how you analyze things
But if they’re separate and separated by amnesia how did she know exactly what the video was about ? ... 🤔
@@KS-cy8nv maybe she put a note behind the camera in case she did switch
Sky Lens possible, but I’m pretty sure I did not see that 🤷♀️ just my opinion!
@@KS-cy8nv thats fine opinions can be different i just think so
I wish more children had people like Jade to look after them and protect them.
Yeah it's awful:( people need a jade
She's a very wise protector.
I wish I had jade to protect me when I was young (for reasons)
I want and need a jade❤❤❤❤
Jade does not stutter, say “like”, say “um”. She is so intelligent and poised!
Just so you know, people who stutter and say like and um can still be intelligent.
@@kambrianewton4128 I don't think there was an implied 'because' between their sentences.
@@leysont thus a great example of the topic at hand, intelligence and awareness of situations through text. one can deduce certain intent or meaning by analyzing carefully based on knowledge and previous experiences, or you can exaggerate an explanation of a comment (such as this) using large male words to make one seem more intelligent, when in reality the homosapien is merely regurgitating twas visually retained based on other experiences.
unlike trisha 🤡
... Saying "like" and "um" does not mean someone is unintelligent. It has to deal with the brain lacking certain knowledge of words in the time that you're thinking of them. People think that "like" and "um" are the only words that show "unintelligence" when in actuality, "so" is another word we tend to use and repeating phrases while we think are all things that are normal in oral language.
People really need to study the scientific aspects of language or linguistics because Good Lord. It's very difficult to explain these things but, I will gladly help since it's a part of my major 😊.
Like Jesus, oral language is organic and natural. It becomes less natural if it's something that is prepared beforehand. And once you realize how many words we use such as "like," "um," and "so," and then you try to naturally speak without saying, you begin to realize that it's pretty impossible and something you can't help but do naturally.
I still can’t understand why you get so much hate and attacks on the internet. This is more related to the Trisha Paytas video but in the short time I’ve watched this channel it’s been not only very educational, but responsible and professional while being pleasant to watch and learn. Wishing you all the best!
@Luke Strevell exactly!, I was so confused on why they were getting hate in the first place, all they were doing was using their platform to educate people
I KNOW!! Heck, there are even some people with the NERVE to claim she’s faking. Like???? _What????_
@@valhersa29 yeeees! like why can’t those people show a even little compassion by thinking about about what they say, as if their judgment is better
I've seen Trisha's video about them and all I could say is, she's disguting and disrespectful and ignorant to mental health issues.
Jade embodies the whole
*_If looks could kill_*
Scary cool, respect to you
Definitely would never mess with Jade.
I see her as she has seen shit herself and really wants to protect the littles and that's awesome. Now I dont know much, i only just subscribe to the channel so i know very little but it's nice to see some one who will protect others
I like her.
Jade: **menacing menacing menacing**
Also Jade: "I enjoyed making this video."
The strength in her voice when she says “They WILL be safe.” I’ve never believed someone more. All children deserve a protector as fierce and dedicated as Jade. She’s def one of my fave alters. She’s a mama bear. And from one mama bear to another: keep “being mean”. Those babies need you ♥️
wow. i never thought about people targeting little alters... child personality, legal age... so messed up. so, so messed up in so many ways.
Chloe: So our littles-
Jade: Um, yeah, I need you to move a little bit. I’ll be taking the drivers seat.
I know it sounds stupid, but I started crying when Jade started to talk. As someone who's gone through trauma I can really feel protection from her depite never knowing her. I'm happy that the littles have someone like her to keep them safe, especially when I never did.
FireFox Camille no i cried too! totally normal, i haven’t got DID nor do i relate directly to anything they go through but i’ve been looking into the facts of it all after seeing trish paytas and her misleading video i wanted to see the truth and almost every video on this channel hits me. Jades protectiveness definitely made me shed a tear or two, its touching
I feel this with every fibre of my being
Dude same I was on the verge of tears
I cried too!!! Jade has such a way with words and I am so happy she's defending the littles! 🥺
I want to like but..... 420 likes im sorry i cant like
Jade is what every child needs and deserves. All children need a protector and someone that makes them feel and makes sure they ARE safe. I wish I had someone like jade as a child.
Kaitlyn Elizabeth Sams here i wish I had someone like Jade she is so protective 💕
Fortunately for me and my sister, our dad is just like Jade. He could seem overprotective for us at first, but once we knew what he had going through and how shit the world is, we understood.
Unfortunately that’s not how it is
Tammy protects them
Jade: *stares at camera*
Me: I’m scarred but damn that’s powerful and I don’t wanna look away
When Jade paused and stared directly into the camera, a pit formed in my stomach.
Same same same
Sass Backwards i felt this on a whole another level broooooooo
Jade is the kind of person that scares the shit out of you but you would trust them with your life well knowing that she could end you with a glance 10000% respect what she says goes
Jade speaks on a level that alll parents should be on. Children, ALL CHILDREN, deserve to be kept safe. From predators, from the Internet, from anybody with ill thoughts. And that is something NOBODY should question.
Samantha Stanton agree I have younger siblings and I just pray they stay safe Everyday
you aren’t being over protective at ALL. as someone who was sexually abused as a child i would give anything to give back the innocence to not only me but any other child whose gone through the same thing or anything that isn’t a good childhood
Phoebe B I literally want to hug you so bad right now
Girl power ammaright
Phoebe B this hit close to home. I have been sexually harassed at a young age and it really messes up how you see some people and relationships later on.
I totally understand that. An evil person touched me since I was 7 to 9 yrs/o. I would do anything to protect a child in the same situation. I'm turning 21 in 6 days and I still have nightmares about it sometimes. It's horrible. I would NOT wish that to ANYONE.
Me too... SInce I was a really young kid, my "dad" has been sexually abusing me, not just me but my sisters and my brother too.... The last time he did it was last year and I got pregnant but I lost the baby.... I wish I had one of those perfect childhood with a perfect family but it's too late now... Because of that, I act and think as if I am at least 10 years older.... At least now I know how to protect myself kind of? Actually no I don't.... Cause now I am just desperate to find someone that isn't trying to fuck my whole life up so I end up trusting weird people.... Because of that, I started talking with a guy and I fell in love with because he understood me and was so kind and everything but he was a pedophile too
The fact that people target DID littles is messed up, and as much as I want to meet and learn about the littles I agree with Jade their protection is of utmost importance. Thank you for explaining as this is the stuff that never gets told to people
How do you target them I never got what she ment by that like irl or online idk
@@Jade-jq8ry if you know information about the little you can get them to front and as they are a child essentially they are more vulnerable and can be deceived so they need to protect them
lovely, lovely, lovely chimin i mean if they were coerced to front through triggers bc of the disclosed info i’d believe the system could become vulnerable at that instant, and possibly force them into traumatic situations that wouldn’t be good for the little or the entire system
100% agree like I’d love to see the littles and learn about them and stuff I think that would be so cool and interesting but it is WAAAAAAAAAAY more important to keep them and the whole system safe than to satisfy the interest of well meaning people
As a little I like that you are protective about your littles and I am sorry that you have been through what you have. Thank you for looking out for us kids and being so persistent about their safety!!!
I feel like Chloe's face physically changes when different Alters come to front. idk how to explain it.
They actually do change. Posture and body language as well.
Jade looks rounder, it's kind of blowing my mind that this is a thing that happens to people
What's crazy to me is that her eyes change color in some videos, especially the meet the girls video! They go from more hazel, to chocolate brown, to very dark brown
Your right! I weirdly think jade is more pretty!
I think it might be tongue posture. If alters can have different voices, it wouldn't be crazy to assume that they each may have different preferences on where to place their tongue which could affect face shape. IDK though. Still new to DID as a whole.
when jade fronted, it was so interesting, like i don't know how to say it, but the eyes just changed and i could tell it was a completely different person. that's so fascinating to watch, honestly
I completely agree. This is the first video I've ever watched but now I'm going back to look at all of them
You could see when Jade started to look around and started getting more comfortable. I found that fascinating, because you could immediately see the change.
LMAO I WAS SCROLLING THROUGH THE COMMENTS AND REALISED THIS WAS ME???
I’ve had someone try coercing one of my littles with stuffies, she was a pedophile, said little is now terrified of people because they were not well protected at the time, and more and more we have become protective over our littles in our system, so thank god for this video, giving ideas how to better protect them
That is horrible and disgusting, no child should go through that. I'm so sorry for the little that delt with that and hope they are able to one day trust others again.
that's awful that someone would try to do that to any child. i hope your little is able to become more trusting of people someday :(
I'm so sorry that your little went through that, hopefully as time goes on they and the rest of your system can heal from the incident.
That’s absolutely disgusting that someone would try to do that. I hope your little will eventually be able to trust people again
I hope u don’t mind me asking, but wouldn’t pedophiles want to go for children who physically look like children on the outside? I don’t really understand considering pedos are (sickly) attracted to the physical appearance of a child
* jade kicks in*
Jade: * basiclly death stares the camera while speaking*
Me: *hides behind blanket a little bit* I know You mean no harm but I’m scared- mama is sleep so I can’t bother her ;w;
Omg sameeeee❤️🔥🔥😭 I was LITERALLY scared . I just love her approach but still
@@pallavishrotriya230 I'm Under blankets now literally with goosebumps all over My body🤧I know she's protective tho it's just..
@@imfrenchfries7430 ikkkrrrr
When Jade looks directly into the camera I feel like I’m getting scolded
Hi I'm Trash main reason I believe DID is because everyone has different facial expressions they use without even knowing. And the fact that each one has consistently use the same expressions each time (in my opinion) confirms it.
@@weliveinasimulationbutthat7866 yeah you can even see how her speech patterns completely change and the tone of her voice completely flips
As soon as Jade started talking it was like I forgot everything, i didn't even blink the whole video and I forgot what I was doing until she stopped talking omg. She's such a good protecter
Its through a camera and the eyes still make me nervous to look at the screen. Powerful!
Exactly! Jade was staring into my soul
I felt like I was in trouble and I didn't even do anything. Jade gets all my respect
I felt like I was in trouble as well. Then again, I always feel like I did something wrong, which spikes my anxiety, which makes me shake and stutter.
Its Yogoofygirl omg same
Same lol
Same, I just felt like apologizing profusely even tho I didn't fo anything
Same, I hadn’t even thought much about the littles, and I felt like I was in trouble. Jade did an amazing job delivering the message, and I really appreciate how she stood up for the littles.
My therapist has been trying to teach me that my armor got me through my life. Watching you, I finally understand what she means. I don't have DID but I do have dissociation issues to the point of my eyes not dilating (just being aware of that is trippy AF). I also use your language about keeping memories filed and locked away with no desire to get it out. I denied the existence of my inner child completely until recently and now just think she's VERY dramatic. Putting yourself back together is so hard even when the trauma hasn't been this severe. I just want you to know I respect your system. It's kept you alive and safe through all the shit you've been through and am amazed you have littles that are happy and joyful. Keep protecting them
Jade's eye contact makes me feel like I'M in trouble lmao
Same
What eye contact?
“I do believe that many of you are very naive about the kinds of things that
can happen in this world...especially to children.”
I could not have said it better. Some people who grew up normally will just tell you that you’re overreacting or just anything like that and it makes me so frustrated when my little personalities are bullied i guess? It’s just such a struggle and i can’t get too mad because it’ll scare them and it’s so bad.
Exactly. Even though I grew up in a good childhood, I understand the LACK of knowlege in the topic of internet trolls and abusers, and I have had my share of traumas after my early childhood, none of which were over the internet, and because of that, I will forever be naive. I cannot change that fact.
I read that right as Jade said that
I grew up in a pretty happy home, we’ve all had home problems but mine have never been anything more than a few tears shed so I can’t even claim to understand the things that can happen in this world or how cruel people can be, especially to children. I can only imagine but I have seen a few stories on the news or heard a few in person that at least tells me that life isn’t peaches and cream like some believe it to be. And as just another person on this planet, with a heart and feelings I would like to sincerely apologize to anyone who has been subjected to any kind of cruelty and I just wish I could stop it from happening
Naive is correct. However, to be more direct, rather than naive, a person growing up in a "normal" household and environment (goes to school, has access to technology and media, etc.) has to be downright ignorant and dumb if they have absolutely no clue or denies to believe that unimaginable corruption exists in society. It's the age of technology for goodness sake! A simple curious search on the internet, school lessons, reading the news/books, watching TH-cam and browsing Reddit, etc. all contribute to increase a person's knowledge. (It's the very reason why many parents/guardians monitor their young child's internet use, postpone their exposure to technology, etc. to avoid children learning about things too mature for their age.) But a person in highschool or beyond growing up in a "normal" environment should be relatively informed on the world's society by then. Or else, how might independence and responsibility start? (Note: This is my own opinion. Writing this at 1:30 AM... I probably am missing something. Please correct me if so.)
I agree. It struck a cord with me survivor. Jade's opinion and process for keeping the littles safe is how I believe (and wish had happened to me) children should be protected.
At first I was like "why would a name matter" but then jade mentioned about how if they know a littles name they can scare them into doing whatever they want especially if they were already hurt and that just hit me like a brick that I could be so stupid to think a name doesn't matter, jade was really good at explaining it and it made me realize that just a name can cause alot of chaos and hurt for a child
I knew immediately Jade would make an appearance in this video, Jade is mama bear