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3:55 this sentence a great person told me and ever since I make sure to follow it is " jealousy doesn't affect the person you are jealous of but it destroys you"
It’s impossible not to be attracted to elegance! It communicates grace, self-respect, sophistication and that subtle inner power that is just MAGNETIZING. Best part, anyone can learn! And everyone’s style is unique to them. Thank you Jamila 🥰
It’s so true!🩵🩵🩵 now we all can learn and knowledge is so accessible to us unlike ever before! I couldn’t learn it in my family or from my mother, but I’m so grateful for all the mentors I had in my life, who taught me about feminine arts and it changed my whole life 💗💗💗
I didn’t think I was that elegant until I recently found out that I was dubbed “the classy friend” of my friend group because of how I dress & carry myself. I’ve even had lady friends say that they wanted to dress & behave like me! I was shocked 😯 yet quite flattered. I still think I’m a work-in-progress but I’m glad that I’ve made some improvements overtime. & I’ve noticed that older men have been drawn to me lately because I practiced what you listed, & a few men around my age view my elegance as being “the cool yet chill.” It’s interesting.
I understand the shocked feeling! I was introducing my husband to co-workers for the first time and one of them called me the master of introductions. I don’t think I’m that good, I just bring up something they have in common, or remind my husband of something (nice, of course!) I’ve told him about that person.
Regarding a signature scent and keeping it private, I’m the exact opposite! I love sharing things I love, including my perfume. I also share recipes with anyone who asks and where I purchased an item of clothing. I feel it’s flattering to be asked. I have trouble understanding people not willing to share anything which isn’t their patented property.
My family didn't care about being elegant while I was growing up, but I have always looked forward to learning it and I found you. Thank you I really needed such a video.❤️
When it comes to communication, I always get anxious. Please make a video on how to communicate more confidently, especially in a business setting. Your content is extremely helpful 💛
I hope that a lot of young girls will see this video, as it has all the gems in it. The way you speak is important, the way you dress is important, the way you put your makeup on is important, the way you talk, make gestures, smile all are important. This is like a guide for young girls and women in general. We should incorporate as much of these things in our lives. Thank you Jamila, you are a truly inspiration. ❤
I always said people in general think being elegant is being perfect and looking a certain way, but I know people that are elegant and don't do any of those things, they are just always calm even when things go wrong and they're mad.
Thank you so much for the video! I am a soft spoken person and I think it’s one of the elegant characteristics of me. However, my former boss once told me that my gentle personality will prevent me from being successful because I am not aggressive… I left that job soon after and I am much happier now and still soft spoken 😊
You look lovely in this white dress ma'am! What you said about not feeding them with what they want, like anger, it really hit me. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm turning 20 in a week and I'd love to learn to be a little more graceful and elegant. ❤️
Jamila, I am a first-gen college student and I have been accepted into a very important internship this summer. I am a very timid and shy individual who tries to hide and is not very good at speaking. I have watched so many of your videos and have practiced thinking and acting more elegantly when I speak to others and attend events. You have helped me a lot so far, thank you!
Thankyou to all the wonderful women who taught me to accept compliments rather than brush them off. Both myself and the givers are happier this way. And I LOVE the idea of keeping signature scents a mystery
0:38- "And, if you're an old viewer, welcome back! I am delighted to see you here." Thanks, I'm glad to be here again! I've been watching you since your earlier days when you had a fraction of the subscribers you do now. 😁
Hi Jamila, I’m not sure if you are reading this but I am extremely grateful for this channel. I’m a first generation college bound student and have been seeking many prestigious career and academic opportunities; I’ve realized people in different socio-economic status interact much differently (more articulate and elegantly). I’m slowly learning how to adapt to this new stimulated environment. I couldn’t have done it without this channel. You have also inspired me to study International Relations too! Best wishes, Erin R. Chim
Agreed with everything! And by the way, in my opinion you did look elegant in those more sporty outfits because they just matched with the environment and vibe. On top of the way you carry yourself, being dressed according to the time, place and occasion is elegance to me.
Most videos about elegance I've found were very superficial and based on old rules that don't mean anything to people nowadays. This is the first video about elegance that is actually about self care and being a good person, not making others uncomfortable and avoiding self destructive behaviors. Thank you, Jamila. Your etiquette and elegance videos are always my favorite!
Elegance, is making all around you feeling wishful to share your entourage, and quietly being kind and respectful, Something you would act with a woman, 100 years young, self made, and a great contributor to many.. Respect, ultimately is rock solid manner with everyone.
I'm grateful for this video you've prepared for us, Jamila. Etiquette is something my parents unfortunately couldn't teach to me. I've always wanted to build a great self image and self concept and your channel is showing me the path to becoming the charming, elegant and confident higher self. I appreciate your lessons a lot. Thankyou.
I know your content is likely aimed at women but I’m a guy here tuning in and I really like your videos! I try watching men’s videos on elegance and etiquette but something about them just doesn’t appeal to me. You’re warmer and more soft spoken. I like that and it’s why I enjoy listening to your videos.
Wow, when you said "when there is a silence when there is a pause" it actually made me crave for more and made my attention more towards you that what is next you are going to say after that pause. Really good point
One way I've turned jealousy into a positive thing: whenever I feel jealous I think about how it's, bc I compared myself to them and feel less than. My thought switch is: How can I work towards that so it can "it" too? This person could be a mentor for me What are things that I might be better at that they are not good at? Is it fair to judge ppl, bc we don't know their back story
Thank you for drawing all of these helpful tips together. I live a country lifestyle and am often digging in dirt or handling animals, but I still like to project a particular image. I found a way to wear my hair everyday that is simple but can be dressed up with colored bands. I finally bought gel overlay for my nails. Now if I can slow my speech, I will finally be able to project the overall image I want. Thank you very much!
I loved the tips about how to treat ourselves when we are alone. We tend to save the best of us to other people and forget to treat ourselves well. Thank you!
Dear Jamila You are such a pleasant person to listen to Elegance in your voice, look, gestures, and perspective Yet another beautiful and educational video thank you. I like that your “tips” are so considerate and not pushy.
Hi Jamila, I’m so grateful to discover your channel. I’m feeling very inspired now to practice working on my elegance this year. When I was growing up, I wasn’t taught this, my closed ones didn’t care about it and at school we didn’t learn much besides saying “thankyou” and “please”. I am 23 years old and have realised how unelegant I am in certain areas of myself and I’m definitely going to be self reflecting and working on it. Thank you so much ❤️
Hello Ms. Musayeva, I've been learning a lot about etiquette from your videos. I've always wanted to be elegant and put together, despite being busy with my family and medical career. I am expecting a baby soon and would be truly grateful if you could create a video on elegance as a (new) parent. I am also inspired by Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge and the grace with with she manages her young children. All the best with everything you do.
I think another big thing is always showing true gratitude. Not only saying thank you, but making eye contact when you say it. Return the favor. Write a thank you card or send a text message later (if it was for something more casual). Mention something small later on, for example; if they made you a great apple pie, say how you always think of them when you have apple pie or buy them a nice pie dish as a gift. Anything thoughtful!
Thanks another Jamila ..I grew up believing that the world is tough n if I have to make it I hv to be hard " masculine" ..that sensitivity and being soft and gentle makes me weak..you are sweet , soft and gentle and making incredible moves out here...lesson..am learning to be gentle , with strong core of beliefs and virtues
Hello Jamila, I am Sushmita here. Today I have gone through your 1 video on how to prepare a lunch table for guest. After that now I am your new Subscriber💚 I have gone through more that 3 videos today and have learned a lot in a single day. Thank you for sharing such knowledgeable moments with us..🌹
The emotions part of this really helped my mental state. I've become more calm and collected. I'm brushing up on a lot of these videos since within the next year I'm joining a company that deals a lot with investors. So feeling confidant in myself when handling everything will not only help me but the company itself.
My voice tone is my biggest challenge. I realized I am too loud 😞 I've improved in the last six months but I still have a long way to go. I love watching your videos because the way you carry yourself inspires me a lot to do the same, so I try to be elegant from the inside out as you said. Thank you for this video! 💖
Very grateful for your wonderful advice, which all starts with a healthy mindset and sense of self. I use so many of these tips and it helps me feel better about myself in personal and professional contexts. All the best!
Thank you Jamila, you are an idol to me, though i don't know much about you but i want to be elegant, soft, positive and have a warm personality like you. Being the school head girl, I have to be little harsh sometimes to deal with tough students. But I try my best not to lose my temper and stay positive. I want to become the best version of me inspired by you. Awaiting for your next video 😊💝
Thank you! This is so helpful. The only things I disagree with are the scent and makeup. I think a non offensive scent is better than standing out, because a lot of people has fragrance allergies, and if you sweat during the day, it's worse to have perfume on than just an antiperspirant. And makeup is a personal choice, but not putting on makeup does not mean that a women does not take care of herself. It's the opposite, because makeup is not good for your skin.
Я благодарна вам, Джамиля! Сейчас российский контент заполнен чудо- психологами, которые учат "заземляться", чтобы быть с собою честным( т.е. употреблять бранные слова).. Но я не могу развиваться таким путем.. На вашем канале я нашла утешение! Все моё нутро отзывается на эту информацию!!! Еще раз спасибо, за то что делитесь!
Thank you very much for this helpful video. After my long journey I finally found my clothing style (classic and classy) and a lot of elegance tips that now I am confident with. It is really challenging to face sometimes rude comments from less elegant people. Often they dress very casual (damaged trousers and sports shoes) even in formal events/ office and often let me feel that elegance and being classy is "over the top" and rude because I should stop expressing to be better than others. Is it only me noticing or is society itself not so elegant any more? How to deal with comments on my clothing style I did not ask for?
Same goes with people trying to get you angry...I have some relatives and one of my parents that don't do that on purpose but they like to say quite offensive and flase things about me to other people in public simply because they think it's not offensive and it's true....I usually smile and say that's completely false and how things really are: the receiver of the info is perfectly fine and appreciate me keeping my cool but my relatives always try to argue, say they are right/know better or accusing me of trying to make them look bad or of being cold towards them....I try to associate with them as little as possible, I cannot avoid my family nor I want to...but I don't want aquaintances, old family friends or strangers to think I'm a person that I'm not, positive or negative it's not the point.
Thank you so very much for sharing . I do not have the words to convey how much I appreciate this video . I am a new subscriber by I think a couple of days and I have learnt so much and have already implemented some of your excellent advice .I have for the first time in 30 years started to wear dresses in the last week and I realised that I need to walk and especially sit differently …through that I found your videos . Today I was in a health club with a nice restaurant that maybe caters to more elegant people than I’m use to . I implemented some things I have learnt from you , but I didn’t do it for them , I did it for me . I have had a lot of losses over the last 7 years including my ex ending our 15 year relationship and unfortunately it left me feeling un confident in my femininity and then we went into lockdown and instead of glowing up I believe they call it , I spiralled down due to heart break and loneliness and depression .I have got help and decided to join a health club two weeks ago especially to swim and use the sauna and steam room and I am now feeling more myself but wanted to take it a step further hence the dresses but then finding I need to learn how to sit again , so when I found you and you have not just helped me in how to sit you are helping me have something to focus on that makes ME feel good and that is to be more feminine than I am already . Thank you so very much ,I feel truly privileged to of found your channel.best wishes to you and yours ,Tracey ,Uk. 🇬🇧💛🤍
The 3 dimensions of dress codes.... The constants.. The variables. And the evaluation of the age time frame that imprints the valued changes That prouve, upkeep, from bottom to top.
All super good, but one thing not mentioned in the conversation segment…an elegant person is an interested listener. You don’t even need to know too much stuff…people loved to be listened to 🙂⭐️🙏🏼❤️
Great tips! I have a lot of room for improvement, but I hold deportment and cleanliness/being tidy in high regard, and my friends often gently tease me about being the "fancy" one in the group because of this. Even little things go a long way!
You are just so lovely! 🥰 my big take away top is the "bag drawer" and cleaning the contents and lining each day/evening. This is such a great idea, I really like this tip. Thank you so much for sharing your ideas, I really appreciate this and the efforts you afford to us with your knowledge. ❤
Thank you, Jamila. I appreciate all you do, thank you for taking the time to make a video and explain to us how to be elegant. You are such a blessing to us. I wish you the very best. Sending Peace and Blessings, Carmen
Hi Mrs. Musayeva 🥰 I loved your video. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience with us. This is exactly what I was looking for. I am starting a new chapter in my life, so lots of changes are happening. I’m making some time during the weekend to do planning. I find it incredible that you uploaded your video during this time. I am excited to incorporate your tips into my vision board! I really liked that you reminded us at the beginning that everything starts with our minds/thoughts, so the inside, and then progressed to talk about the outside, and finally finished with reinforcing that it’s all about self-respect, how much value we give to ourselves 🌹💎👑 Thank you once again, and I wish you all the best! ✨😊💐
If you are a perfume addict like me and cannot have just one signature scent (but you love the idea of a signature scent), I recommend having 3-4 signature scents. One for work, one for dates/going out, and another for special occasions (like weddings etc). And if you are extra like me, a casual one for lounging at home which you can also use for running errands. 😆 Also another perfume tip, if you want to smell very unique and for people not to copy your smell, I recommend layering 2 perfumes. And if you are extra like me, you can add a lightly scented body oil underneath the fragrance (makes the perfume last longer).
Such a wonderful video, thank you. I was so encouraged by each of thirst tips, especially those addressing what’s going on inside of my heart and mind! So important. ☺️
It was my dream to become elegant woman. I love to look elegant. I love my positive and elegant character. I don't swear. I am very calm and reasonable. I act elegant. I know how to behave elegant. I'm so happy that I was able to become elegant woman I always wanted to be. Very good video and good advices❤. I wish you happy day.
Very helpful video, Jamila.♥ Can you please make a video explaining how to order food? When I go out with someone, especially with boys and visit a place I've not been to before, and they ask me what I want to have I get very anxious and can't decide. What should I do in such a situation?
The signature scent! I’ve been always asked about my perfume and I never told anyone about it. I had encountered comments that’s it’s only me that smells like that and they know that I’m around because of my scent. 😊
You are so lovely, and what you're teaching women - often just as valuable for men - is so valuable. I would love to have tea with you if you're ever in Portland, Oregon!
Regarding the last point, I have noticed that wealthier people seem to talk at a lower volume, enonciate their words and speak at a slower pace. Particularly, those who come from old money. I am not saying wealth equals elegance but it's just something I have noticed. It does give off an aura of confidence because it automatically makes people lean in and listen carefully. Also, it's similar to the concept of not being afraid to take space... In this case, by speaking slower you are taking up more time. The opposite of that is that I tend to speak really fast when I believe what I am saying is boring or irrelevant.
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“Dress shabbily and they remember the dress dress impeccably and they remember the woman.” - Coco Chanel very informative Jamila.
Thank you 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva you're welcome
I love this! Thanks Andrew!
@@Chi-X-Pham you’re very welcome. I love Coco she’s an inspiration
This is one of those moments when punctuation would be useful.
"In a world full of Kardashian, be a Grace Kelly." thank you Jamila, you make me feel better with every video you made.💓
Thank you 🙏🏻
Kardashians prob think they are Grace Kelly
3:55 this sentence a great person told me and ever since I make sure to follow it is " jealousy doesn't affect the person you are jealous of but it destroys you"
Absolutely !
It’s impossible not to be attracted to elegance! It communicates grace, self-respect, sophistication and that subtle inner power that is just MAGNETIZING. Best part, anyone can learn! And everyone’s style is unique to them. Thank you Jamila 🥰
It’s so true!🩵🩵🩵 now we all can learn and knowledge is so accessible to us unlike ever before! I couldn’t learn it in my family or from my mother, but I’m so grateful for all the mentors I had in my life, who taught me about feminine arts and it changed my whole life 💗💗💗
I didn’t think I was that elegant until I recently found out that I was dubbed “the classy friend” of my friend group because of how I dress & carry myself. I’ve even had lady friends say that they wanted to dress & behave like me! I was shocked 😯 yet quite flattered. I still think I’m a work-in-progress but I’m glad that I’ve made some improvements overtime. & I’ve noticed that older men have been drawn to me lately because I practiced what you listed, & a few men around my age view my elegance as being “the cool yet chill.” It’s interesting.
I understand the shocked feeling! I was introducing my husband to co-workers for the first time and one of them called me the master of introductions. I don’t think I’m that good, I just bring up something they have in common, or remind my husband of something (nice, of course!) I’ve told him about that person.
Regarding a signature scent and keeping it private, I’m the exact opposite! I love sharing things I love, including my perfume. I also share recipes with anyone who asks and where I purchased an item of clothing. I feel it’s flattering to be asked. I have trouble understanding people not willing to share anything which isn’t their patented property.
My family didn't care about being elegant while I was growing up, but I have always looked forward to learning it and I found you. Thank you I really needed such a video.❤️
your family doesn't have to be elegant, they are so perfect on their own
My family reallu cares
Your family rocks.
When it comes to communication, I always get anxious. Please make a video on how to communicate more confidently, especially in a business setting. Your content is extremely helpful 💛
Thank you. I will note it down ☺️
This would be a wonderful topic. I feel I project too immature / youthful an image. Having a baby face does not help.
Think of a person you know who holds themself well in social situations. Then say, "What would so and so say right now?." You'll know what to say, do.
I hope that a lot of young girls will see this video, as it has all the gems in it. The way you speak is important, the way you dress is important, the way you put your makeup on is important, the way you talk, make gestures, smile all are important. This is like a guide for young girls and women in general. We should incorporate as much of these things in our lives.
Thank you Jamila, you are a truly inspiration. ❤
Thank you for your kind feedback ☺️
Isn’t a girl young by definition ?
Her voice is so soothing. Kind of the female version of Bob Ross. You could fall asleep to the calming and relaxing voice… 😴💤
I always said people in general think being elegant is being perfect and looking a certain way, but I know people that are elegant and don't do any of those things, they are just always calm even when things go wrong and they're mad.
Thank you so much for the video! I am a soft spoken person and I think it’s one of the elegant characteristics of me. However, my former boss once told me that my gentle personality will prevent me from being successful because I am not aggressive… I left that job soon after and I am much happier now and still soft spoken 😊
I am happy to hear that!
You look lovely in this white dress ma'am! What you said about not feeding them with what they want, like anger, it really hit me. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm turning 20 in a week and I'd love to learn to be a little more graceful and elegant. ❤️
I wish you a happy birthday! 😊 Be happy, healthy, classy elegant lady! ☺️🥰❤️
Jamila, I am a first-gen college student and I have been accepted into a very important internship this summer. I am a very timid and shy individual who tries to hide and is not very good at speaking. I have watched so many of your videos and have practiced thinking and acting more elegantly when I speak to others and attend events. You have helped me a lot so far, thank you!
When everyone is talking about outer elegant, it's great to learn about mindset and inner elegance
🙏🏻
Thankyou to all the wonderful women who taught me to accept compliments rather than brush them off. Both myself and the givers are happier this way.
And I LOVE the idea of keeping signature scents a mystery
0:38- "And, if you're an old viewer, welcome back! I am delighted to see you here." Thanks, I'm glad to be here again! I've been watching you since your earlier days when you had a fraction of the subscribers you do now. 😁
Hi Jamila,
I’m not sure if you are reading this but I am extremely grateful for this channel. I’m a first generation college bound student and have been seeking many prestigious career and academic opportunities; I’ve realized people in different socio-economic status interact much differently (more articulate and elegantly).
I’m slowly learning how to adapt to this new stimulated environment. I couldn’t have done it without this channel.
You have also inspired me to study International Relations too!
Best wishes,
Erin R. Chim
Best wishes to you Erin during your studies and career search. You have clearly come to a good place to learn some wonderful skills.
Just be careful to stay human.
These rich, sophisticated etiquette nerds come across like dead robots to many people.
Agreed with everything! And by the way, in my opinion you did look elegant in those more sporty outfits because they just matched with the environment and vibe. On top of the way you carry yourself, being dressed according to the time, place and occasion is elegance to me.
Most videos about elegance I've found were very superficial and based on old rules that don't mean anything to people nowadays. This is the first video about elegance that is actually about self care and being a good person, not making others uncomfortable and avoiding self destructive behaviors. Thank you, Jamila. Your etiquette and elegance videos are always my favorite!
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻
I’m so excited to finish this. I’m a first time mother and my goodness I barely feel human sometimes. This video came at a perfect time for my sanity!
congratulations. motherhood can be quite challenging don't be too hard on yourself. Elegance will come easily once your health improves👍
Congrats! Wishing you and your little one all the very best! This is 10 months ago so i hope you feel much better about yourself now🥰
When she said "keep a straight posture" I was twisted to look at my phone on the charger with my whole hand in a Pringles container. Very elegant 😂
LOL
Elegance, is making all around you feeling wishful to share your entourage, and quietly being kind and respectful,
Something you would act with a woman, 100 years young, self made, and a great contributor to many..
Respect, ultimately is rock solid manner with everyone.
I'm grateful for this video you've prepared for us, Jamila. Etiquette is something my parents unfortunately couldn't teach to me. I've always wanted to build a great self image and self concept and your channel is showing me the path to becoming the charming, elegant and confident higher self. I appreciate your lessons a lot. Thankyou.
So true!!!
I love her voice, so calming💖
I know your content is likely aimed at women but I’m a guy here tuning in and I really like your videos! I try watching men’s videos on elegance and etiquette but something about them just doesn’t appeal to me. You’re warmer and more soft spoken. I like that and it’s why I enjoy listening to your videos.
I appreciate that! 🙏🏻
Wow, when you said "when there is a silence when there is a pause" it actually made me crave for more and made my attention more towards you that what is next you are going to say after that pause. Really good point
Thanks ☺️
One way I've turned jealousy into a positive thing: whenever I feel jealous I think about how it's, bc I compared myself to them and feel less than.
My thought switch is: How can I work towards that so it can "it" too? This person could be a mentor for me What are things that I might be better at that they are not good at? Is it fair to judge ppl, bc we don't know their back story
Thank you for drawing all of these helpful tips together. I live a country lifestyle and am often digging in dirt or handling animals, but I still like to project a particular image. I found a way to wear my hair everyday that is simple but can be dressed up with colored bands. I finally bought gel overlay for my nails. Now if I can slow my speech, I will finally be able to project the overall image I want. Thank you very much!
You are welcome 🤗
I loved the tips about how to treat ourselves when we are alone. We tend to save the best of us to other people and forget to treat ourselves well. Thank you!
Love this comment and insight!
@@renee8498 thank you 😊
I already know that my mom would want me to master every single thing in this video 💯😂
Dear Jamila
You are such a pleasant person to listen to
Elegance in your voice, look, gestures, and perspective
Yet another beautiful and educational video thank you. I like that your “tips” are so considerate and not pushy.
Thank you very much! 🙏🏻
Hi Jamila, I’m so grateful to discover your channel. I’m feeling very inspired now to practice working on my elegance this year. When I was growing up, I wasn’t taught this, my closed ones didn’t care about it and at school we didn’t learn much besides saying “thankyou” and “please”. I am 23 years old and have realised how unelegant I am in certain areas of myself and I’m definitely going to be self reflecting and working on it. Thank you so much ❤️
You are so welcome!
I completely agree about serving your self in nice dishes and cups. If you have visitors, it makes a nice impression too!
Hello Ms. Musayeva, I've been learning a lot about etiquette from your videos. I've always wanted to be elegant and put together, despite being busy with my family and medical career. I am expecting a baby soon and would be truly grateful if you could create a video on elegance as a (new) parent. I am also inspired by Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge and the grace with with she manages her young children. All the best with everything you do.
You and your language are the true definition of elegance!♥️🥺😇
Yes the aura and the energy is the key ✨
I think another big thing is always showing true gratitude. Not only saying thank you, but making eye contact when you say it. Return the favor. Write a thank you card or send a text message later (if it was for something more casual). Mention something small later on, for example; if they made you a great apple pie, say how you always think of them when you have apple pie or buy them a nice pie dish as a gift. Anything thoughtful!
Thanks another Jamila ..I grew up believing that the world is tough n if I have to make it I hv to be hard
" masculine" ..that sensitivity and being soft and gentle makes me weak..you are sweet , soft and gentle and making incredible moves out here...lesson..am learning to be gentle , with strong core of beliefs
and virtues
Thank you for your kind words♥️
This is because men have basically put women in a male role. It’s forced the feminine to have to be masculine. The world is so off balance
You are such a precious rose of God dear Jamila, a wonderful source of inspiration, grace and gentleness
Adorable girl she is.Respect from 🇹🇭
Hello Jamila,
I am Sushmita here. Today I have gone through your 1 video on how to prepare a lunch table for guest.
After that now I am your new Subscriber💚
I have gone through more that 3 videos today and have learned a lot in a single day.
Thank you for sharing such knowledgeable moments with us..🌹
The emotions part of this really helped my mental state. I've become more calm and collected. I'm brushing up on a lot of these videos since within the next year I'm joining a company that deals a lot with investors. So feeling confidant in myself when handling everything will not only help me but the company itself.
Happy to hear that!
You are special in everything ❤+ I love you ♡
Thank you!
My voice tone is my biggest challenge. I realized I am too loud 😞 I've improved in the last six months but I still have a long way to go.
I love watching your videos because the way you carry yourself inspires me a lot to do the same, so I try to be elegant from the inside out as you said. Thank you for this video! 💖
Thank you very much 🙌
Very grateful for your wonderful advice, which all starts with a healthy mindset and sense of self. I use so many of these tips and it helps me feel better about myself in personal and professional contexts. All the best!
Thank you!
Thank you Jamila, you are an idol to me, though i don't know much about you but i want to be elegant, soft, positive and have a warm personality like you. Being the school head girl, I have to be little harsh sometimes to deal with tough students. But I try my best not to lose my temper and stay positive. I want to become the best version of me inspired by you.
Awaiting for your next video 😊💝
Thank you for your lovely feedback, Anshika ☺️
Thank you! This is so helpful. The only things I disagree with are the scent and makeup. I think a non offensive scent is better than standing out, because a lot of people has fragrance allergies, and if you sweat during the day, it's worse to have perfume on than just an antiperspirant. And makeup is a personal choice, but not putting on makeup does not mean that a women does not take care of herself. It's the opposite, because makeup is not good for your skin.
Thanks Jamila. I appreciate what you said about maintaining emotions in public.
Я благодарна вам, Джамиля! Сейчас российский контент заполнен чудо- психологами, которые учат "заземляться", чтобы быть с собою честным( т.е. употреблять бранные слова).. Но я не могу развиваться таким путем.. На вашем канале я нашла утешение! Все моё нутро отзывается на эту информацию!!! Еще раз спасибо, за то что делитесь!
Спасибо Вам за столь добрые слова ❤️
Even your voice is elegant. Thank you for this video 🩷
7:13 a.m on a rainy morning in New Delhi, India, and I'm watching this beautiful video! 🎉💚
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you very much for this helpful video. After my long journey I finally found my clothing style (classic and classy) and a lot of elegance tips that now I am confident with. It is really challenging to face sometimes rude comments from less elegant people. Often they dress very casual (damaged trousers and sports shoes) even in formal events/ office and often let me feel that elegance and being classy is "over the top" and rude because I should stop expressing to be better than others. Is it only me noticing or is society itself not so elegant any more? How to deal with comments on my clothing style I did not ask for?
Same goes with people trying to get you angry...I have some relatives and one of my parents that don't do that on purpose but they like to say quite offensive and flase things about me to other people in public simply because they think it's not offensive and it's true....I usually smile and say that's completely false and how things really are: the receiver of the info is perfectly fine and appreciate me keeping my cool but my relatives always try to argue, say they are right/know better or accusing me of trying to make them look bad or of being cold towards them....I try to associate with them as little as possible, I cannot avoid my family nor I want to...but I don't want aquaintances, old family friends or strangers to think I'm a person that I'm not, positive or negative it's not the point.
Thank you so very much for sharing . I do not have the words to convey how much I appreciate this video . I am a new subscriber by I think a couple of days and I have learnt so much and have already implemented some of your excellent advice .I have for the first time in 30 years started to wear dresses in the last week and I realised that I need to walk and especially sit differently …through that I found your videos .
Today I was in a health club with a nice restaurant that maybe caters to more elegant people than I’m use to . I implemented some things I have learnt from you , but I didn’t do it for them , I did it for me . I have had a lot of losses over the last 7 years including my ex ending our 15 year relationship and unfortunately it left me feeling un confident in my femininity and then we went into lockdown and instead of glowing up I believe they call it , I spiralled down due to heart break and loneliness and depression .I have got help and decided to join a health club two weeks ago especially to swim and use the sauna and steam room and I am now feeling more myself but wanted to take it a step further hence the dresses but then finding I need to learn how to sit again , so when I found you and you have not just helped me in how to sit you are helping me have something to focus on that makes ME feel good and that is to be more feminine than I am already . Thank you so very much ,I feel truly privileged to of found your channel.best wishes to you and yours ,Tracey ,Uk. 🇬🇧💛🤍
Thank you ♥️
I value all the information you are giving. Everything about you is precious! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate and help us!
Thank you!
The 3 dimensions of dress codes....
The constants..
The variables.
And the evaluation of the age time frame that imprints the valued changes
That prouve, upkeep, from bottom to top.
All super good, but one thing not mentioned in the conversation segment…an elegant person is an interested listener. You don’t even need to know too much stuff…people loved to be listened to 🙂⭐️🙏🏼❤️
Yes, there are more points of course. Not everything could be included.
Great tips! I have a lot of room for improvement, but I hold deportment and cleanliness/being tidy in high regard, and my friends often gently tease me about being the "fancy" one in the group because of this. Even little things go a long way!
Absolutely ☺️
You are just so lovely! 🥰 my big take away top is the "bag drawer" and cleaning the contents and lining each day/evening. This is such a great idea, I really like this tip. Thank you so much for sharing your ideas, I really appreciate this and the efforts you afford to us with your knowledge. ❤
Thank you 😊
Jamila you are inspirational! Thank you so much for encouraging us to be the best we can be. With all my appreciation and admiration!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Hi Jami, it’s so soothing listening to you speaking. I’m able to focus on my work while listening to you at the background. Thanks for the videos☺️
Thank you so much for your devotion ❤
Love you so much Jamila ❤🇮🇷
Thank you Jamila, I did love this video. Very accurate and not trivial at all. I really appreciate your work and the passion that shines through
Thank you!
This is the first time I see your channel ' but I loved it very much . Thank you very much❤
This video was exceptional! Thank you so much ☺️
One year ago..but its never late to learn. Belajar dulu biar jadi elegant lady 😊
We need a video about voice and tons how to speak with femininity and elegantly
Ps: Great video ☺️💯
Excuse me for my English
Hi I'm 14, and I wanted to say how much you inspired me and I'm really a big fan. Also I really enjoyed this video a lot!💛
Thank you!
You are excellent lady dear Jamila❤I admire you 😊
This is a complete view of what elegance is. Thank you for sharing.
You are so welcome!
please! a video about improving our voice! (it could be a colab ;D with someone specialized)... how to sound graceful, have a good rythm, etc.
Noted ☺️
Thank you, Jamila. I appreciate all you do, thank you for taking the time to make a video and explain to us how to be elegant. You are such a blessing to us.
I wish you the very best.
Sending Peace and Blessings, Carmen
Thank you, Carmen 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva you’re welcome ♥️♥️♥️
Hi Jamila, could you please make a more elaborate video on how to speak elegantly? Thank you for the content you're creating!
Yes. This will be coming up too ☺️
This woman calms me down, love your content!
Thanks!
Thank you Jamila for this video! 🤗
You are so welcome!
Hi Mrs. Musayeva 🥰 I loved your video. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience with us. This is exactly what I was looking for. I am starting a new chapter in my life, so lots of changes are happening. I’m making some time during the weekend to do planning. I find it incredible that you uploaded your video during this time. I am excited to incorporate your tips into my vision board!
I really liked that you reminded us at the beginning that everything starts with our minds/thoughts, so the inside, and then progressed to talk about the outside, and finally finished with reinforcing that it’s all about self-respect, how much value we give to ourselves 🌹💎👑
Thank you once again, and I wish you all the best! ✨😊💐
You are very welcome 🤗
If you are a perfume addict like me and cannot have just one signature scent (but you love the idea of a signature scent), I recommend having 3-4 signature scents. One for work, one for dates/going out, and another for special occasions (like weddings etc). And if you are extra like me, a casual one for lounging at home which you can also use for running errands. 😆 Also another perfume tip, if you want to smell very unique and for people not to copy your smell, I recommend layering 2 perfumes. And if you are extra like me, you can add a lightly scented body oil underneath the fragrance (makes the perfume last longer).
Excellent advice. Thanks 🤍🤍🤍
The way she talk and her voice is chef kiss ❤
Thanks 🙏🏻
THANK YOU O MUCH ELEGANCE IS A STYLE OF LIFE WHO MAKE THINGS MORE BEAUTIFULL
Thank you!
Such a wonderful video, thank you. I was so encouraged by each of thirst tips, especially those addressing what’s going on inside of my heart and mind! So important. ☺️
You are welcome 🤗
I love your energy and the way you look and talk 💗💗💗💗
Thank you 🙏🏻
thank you so much for the video and the tips ❤❤
You're so welcome!
I have learned so much from this video. I love your personality. Keep going.
Thank you! Will do!
It was my dream to become elegant woman. I love to look elegant. I love my positive and elegant character. I don't swear. I am very calm and reasonable. I act elegant. I know how to behave elegant. I'm so happy that I was able to become elegant woman I always wanted to be. Very good video and good advices❤. I wish you happy day.
You said soo many wise stuffs 💕 and your soft spoken words >>>
Thanks ☺️
Thank you for the video. I often struggle with my sarcasm, evento though I considera to be mostly put together.
This was very calming and helpful. Thank you!
It's all about respect for others, yourself, and having an inner core of security.
ive just found this channel. i love it!! thank you. i love the Princess of Wales "casual" looks. epitome of elegance. imho....
This is one of my favorite videos from you. I will refer back to it. Thank you.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Beautifully put together, loved every moment of the video.
Thank you!
Very helpful video, Jamila.♥
Can you please make a video explaining how to order food? When I go out with someone, especially with boys and visit a place I've not been to before, and they ask me what I want to have I get very anxious and can't decide. What should I do in such a situation?
The signature scent! I’ve been always asked about my perfume and I never told anyone about it. I had encountered comments that’s it’s only me that smells like that and they know that I’m around because of my scent. 😊
Same here ☺️
You are so lovely, and what you're teaching women - often just as valuable for men - is so valuable. I would love to have tea with you if you're ever in Portland, Oregon!
Wow, thank you! 🙏🏻 Greetings from Baku
This video is so precious. I will watch it regularly time to time 🦋
Thank you 🙏🏻
Regarding the last point, I have noticed that wealthier people seem to talk at a lower volume, enonciate their words and speak at a slower pace. Particularly, those who come from old money. I am not saying wealth equals elegance but it's just something I have noticed. It does give off an aura of confidence because it automatically makes people lean in and listen carefully. Also, it's similar to the concept of not being afraid to take space... In this case, by speaking slower you are taking up more time. The opposite of that is that I tend to speak really fast when I believe what I am saying is boring or irrelevant.
This is one of the best videos you have done Jamila., which nicely summarises your teachings. Thank you.
Thank you very much ☺️