Man I liked that first line; " when we first start dating, we kind of send out a representative " instead of our authentic selves. LOL!!! Man was that funny -- and TRUE! Salute.
You are so right unfortunately. It is so difficult to find a woman today who is willing to be held accountable. Huge change in just the last 10 years. Dated a woman before who was relatively willing to take accountability. She then got involved in social media and almost completely stopped taking accountability afterwards. Since then it is very difficult to find women who are willing to take accountability.
Excellent and much needed information for men. Seriously, wish I knew this when younger. If a man finds a woman like this, she’s golden and don’t f it up.
Situational awareness, considerate, emotionally intelligent (empathy, compassion, humility) and resolving conflicts with mutual interest. Accountability is huge for me. I think the "oh well" mentality was instilled in a lot of women in their upbringing. Not a "quality" that plays well in relationships.
I've dated ladies with the "Oh well" mentality, or that say, "Whatever," during a conflict, which means end of convo. Man, do I really hate that mentality and at that point I break off the relationship. The lady I've been dating for the past 6 months has no issue looking at herself in the mirror and fixing her flaws. I love that about her. It's a very attractive quality, and if things go well, during the downs as well as the ups, I may be putting a ring on her finger in a few more months.
Jeff you're gonna make me stop reviewing cologne and start giving life lessons. You're dropping heat 🔥 brother. Another great video from The Style O.G.
I've been in a relationship for 6 months now, and brother do I appreciate this lesson. Of course she has her flaws, but she meets all of these qualifications, including accountability which could have easily been #1.
Not too many women carry these traits, in these times... social media ruined the dating game. Most of these women want to be Cardi B. Thanks for sharing SALUTE!!!💪
Great video OG we men go on about looking for all the red flags 🚩 but to find a decent lady we must know what green flags to look for also for men that want relationship too.
Gentlemen, Whether you are in your teens or in your 80s, please heed the words of this video. Download this video, tattoo the words of wisdom, write it down in your bathroom, etc., but make sure you hear Style O.G out. I'm 52 years old, have four graduate degrees and am confident approaching women without resorting to online dating. Yet, until recently, I hadn't learned the advice as outlined in this video and I spent two years learning the hard way in a relationship that was going nowhere. This video can serve so many men (& women) throughout many decades and save a lot of heartache and in the end, make dating fun and easy to find that right match, Ravi Peiris M.D.
*”Being right, plus two quarters equals $0.50;* -the Style O.G I love that quote…unfortunately many people men and women alike are far to proud and/or to careless/ignorant to believe and live by that ideology.
The first video I've seen on green flags... You covered all the bases. Having respect and believing in my abilities is what I look for in a women... Also as you stated does she inspire you and is she an asset. ThanksagainJeff. Salute.
Good one O.G., authentic reasons here. Very different from the usual red flag vids seen everywhere. I would say another green flag(s); A woman who knows how to have a constructive debate, being objective. A woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, she chooses smile and laugh, without the assistance of a camera.
I think more women are getting better than worse. Life is a learning lesson and we all gotta make mistakes before we get it right. Remember no one is perfect. I forget this because I subconsciously believe im perfect and expect perfection too much. Causes me to miss opportunities in alot, including women. N watch out spending time on the internet men because it is still a source of media, which has a tendency to display negativity alot before positivity.
Jeff another awesome video!!! Can you do a video on some great things to do (fun/spicy/date ideas) once you have her as your lady I am married but can always learn ways to keep her happy and the relationship strong!!!
Either I’m too young or haven’t lived enough but this was the very first time hearing “being right plus two quarters equals fifty cents” 😂😂 I appreciate you Jeff
Great advice, as always. Jeff, gotta' know, who designed the suit jacket you're wearing? I'm really feeling the jacket, shirt and handkerchief combination. Simple, but classy and elegant. Salute!
Jeff thanks for a great vid. I'm in my 60s and in a committed monogamous relationship for 6 years. My lady represents every green flag you highlighted. I feel very fortunate!
thanks for this video... definitely good to have educated point of views on video to help confirm your own thoughts. like a voice outside of your own mind saying assuring things like this. Thank you again bro
Great vid as usual OG. One thing a lot of blue pilled guys bring into the dating environment even after they've done the work on themselves is too much naivete on what to expect from the woman. The woman is supposed to bring more than a cute face and phat... yall already know. Lots of good material for the brother to ruminate on. Salute.
My ex covered most of the bulleted points I looked up on a spousal abuse website. Fast forward to today the love of my life has covered all of these green flags. 😊🙏🏼✌🏽
The woman you just described I've never met . Other than my Mom and Grandmother . Chances are I passed up a few really good ones without even knowing it . Live and learn .
Great video Jeff. There is not a lot of good women in the world today. A gentleman who finds a good woman is great and very fortunate and should cherish and respect that woman just like she should respect and cherish the gentleman.
Very Good video!! Well done!! Really appreciative of green flags, positive outlook and perspective that is much needed!! Breath of fresh air!!! Thank you so much!!❤
First let me say great video great topic. I’ve never looked at it from a green flag perspective. 👍 The hardest task in a relationship is keeping the green flags up. The green flags may change over years/decades and depending on the chemistry those green flags my not still be there after certain time (10 years 5 years, 2 years, etc). I want to say a women with this many green flags is fictional, but I’m willing to work to keep those green flags up. What would you say is the most important green flag?
I’m thinking respects you #1 for sure, but similar values is definitely a close cousin as it could be #1. However, for the sake of ranking is #2 but definitely just as important as #1 respecting you for sure!😎👊🏽💯
Great channel. My favorite compared to all the other channels I have heard. Only issue I have is the strict division between men and women as if all 3 billion men want respect and all 3 billion women want love. Yes there is almost definitely more of a tendance for men to want respect and women to want love, but it isn't always the case. Other than that, for the most part I really like his stuff.
Dating a girl now that is showing signs of 7 and 10, 6 hasn't come up yet, and has fully exhibited all the others. After going through a marriage to a covert narcissist, it is truly refreshing to date someone with so many green flags.
Excellent list..when i met my wife...she has so many qualities that we shared..she has x rated legs..i pursued her..i am glad that i did..peace and salute
@@petermapp5988 and she still has it after all these years...Peter i was blessed 2 meet her..we have been married 42 years...our daughter just got married and I was nervous walking her down the aisle..peace..enjoy your day
🙋♂️😉👍😎😑😑🤔🤔👏👏👏🤳📲🤞👉✍🙏 Thanks For Your Videos O.G.! 👉🤜🤛🤝. I'm a 39 Years Old Guy and Have "Never" been Married in my Life. But Your Videos Really Help Me a Lot, Since I Subscribed to Your Channel a Few Months ago, to Understand The Relationship Topic So I don't just Jump into a Relationship Chance, that I Get in the Future. "Thank You Sir" 🙏😉 and my Respects to You for Sure. Have a Good Day there Man.
Man Accountable Accountable is hard to find always someone else's fault We need respect that is being loved to us she needs to be Cherished great conflict resolution important and challenging not a yes person good stuff
Man I liked that first line; " when we first start dating, we kind of send out a representative " instead of our authentic selves. LOL!!! Man was that funny -- and TRUE! Salute.
Yeah I like that one. Being your authentic selves!
He dropped the realest gems. Real truth. Accountability is extremely important 👏
Accountability is underrated, today’s society only expects men to take on a lot of the blame in any situation. Well said my friend.
no worries!
Dealing with that put now😒
This was right on point!!!
You are so right unfortunately. It is so difficult to find a woman today who is willing to be held accountable. Huge change in just the last 10 years. Dated a woman before who was relatively willing to take accountability. She then got involved in social media and almost completely stopped taking accountability afterwards. Since then it is very difficult to find women who are willing to take accountability.
Jews and Gent-iles smh..🧐😶🌫️
Excellent and much needed information for men. Seriously, wish I knew this when younger. If a man finds a woman like this, she’s golden and don’t f it up.
Thanks Steve!
As a woman I approve this message!
Thanks!
@@TheStyleOG You're welcome.
Situational awareness, considerate, emotionally intelligent (empathy, compassion, humility) and resolving conflicts with mutual interest. Accountability is huge for me. I think the "oh well" mentality was instilled in a lot of women in their upbringing. Not a "quality" that plays well in relationships.
appreciate the input!
I've dated ladies with the "Oh well" mentality, or that say, "Whatever," during a conflict, which means end of convo. Man, do I really hate that mentality and at that point I break off the relationship. The lady I've been dating for the past 6 months has no issue looking at herself in the mirror and fixing her flaws. I love that about her. It's a very attractive quality, and if things go well, during the downs as well as the ups, I may be putting a ring on her finger in a few more months.
@@orthotech9758 Indeed. It indicates there is some respect for your input. Rough patch insurance.
Jeff you're gonna make me stop reviewing cologne and start giving life lessons. You're dropping heat 🔥 brother. Another great video from The Style O.G.
I appreciate that!
I've been in a relationship for 6 months now, and brother do I appreciate this lesson. Of course she has her flaws, but she meets all of these qualifications, including accountability which could have easily been #1.
Then keep her
KEEP HER MAN!! Accountability in women is so rare these days, just in the past five or so years.
Congratulations you found your self an Alien!! I say keep her!
Thanks for this. I think it's important to watch out for the good signs as much as it is to watch out for the bad ones. Cheers!
Absolutely!
After being married for 18 years to the woman I've been with for 26, I can say I agree 100%!
Honesty, trustworthy and reliability are 3 huge green flags that appears to have be missing from this list.
Not too many women carry these traits, in these times... social media ruined the dating game. Most of these women want to be Cardi B. Thanks for sharing SALUTE!!!💪
There are a lot of these women around... Maybe in a different package then you usually look for
Nope, it5 not the reality.
Green Flag…if she’s intentional about your well-being, asking you how are you feeling mentally, physically and spiritually etc. #PhillyPhilly
Great video OG we men go on about looking for all the red flags 🚩 but to find a decent lady we must know what green flags to look for also for men that want relationship too.
Indeed !
Gentlemen,
Whether you are in your teens or in your 80s, please heed the words of this video. Download this video, tattoo the words of wisdom, write it down in your bathroom, etc., but make sure you hear Style O.G out. I'm 52 years old, have four graduate degrees and am confident approaching women without resorting to online dating. Yet, until recently, I hadn't learned the advice as outlined in this video and I spent two years learning the hard way in a relationship that was going nowhere. This video can serve so many men (& women) throughout many decades and save a lot of heartache and in the end, make dating fun and easy to find that right match,
Ravi Peiris M.D.
appreciate the input Ravi!
Awesome video Jeff! I appreciate it this one! Perfect timing on this one. I agree these green flags are a great sign of a good woman.
Right on!
What’s up my bro Og. This video described my wife of 35 yrs my G . You are spot on as always with the knowledge my bro. Blessings my friend.
Blessings Glenn!
Wife of 35 years, dang. Congrats. 🤜🏽🤛🏽 I hope I find that kind of love too
@@jraybay Thank you it takes work and love to last this long. Good luck to you finding that special someone.
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years......never again
I’ve shared this with my 20 plus year old sons as a practical guide. Thank you!
My pleasure!
That accountability thing is a huge 1, it's a rear limited production find
Being right and 2 quarters equals $.50 Facts💪🏿💯
*”Being right, plus two quarters equals $0.50;*
-the Style O.G
I love that quote…unfortunately many people men and women alike are far to proud and/or to careless/ignorant to believe and live by that ideology.
I’m watching with great interest!
let me know what you think!
The first video I've seen on green flags... You covered all the bases. Having respect and believing in my abilities is what I look for in a women... Also as you stated does she inspire you and is she an asset. ThanksagainJeff. Salute.
Good one O.G., authentic reasons here. Very different from the usual red flag vids seen everywhere. I would say another green flag(s); A woman who knows how to have a constructive debate, being objective.
A woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, she chooses smile and laugh, without the assistance of a camera.
great points!
Wow!!! This is great!! You nailed it!! Thanks for sharing bro. I agree with all you said. 💯 ❤
Thanks Sis !
I think more women are getting better than worse. Life is a learning lesson and we all gotta make mistakes before we get it right. Remember no one is perfect. I forget this because I subconsciously believe im perfect and expect perfection too much. Causes me to miss opportunities in alot, including women. N watch out spending time on the internet men because it is still a source of media, which has a tendency to display negativity alot before positivity.
great input!
If she has a good credit, thats definitely a green flag 😉
Yup!
Right. When I was single, I wanted to see your resume and credit report.
This is literally the best videos I've ever seen on TH-cam.
Jeff another awesome video!!! Can you do a video on some great things to do (fun/spicy/date ideas) once you have her as your lady I am married but can always learn ways to keep her happy and the relationship strong!!!
Thanks for the idea!
I love everything you discussed in this video! Awesome video! Yes, a major green flag in a woman - does she listen to you?
Yes!
Either I’m too young or haven’t lived enough but this was the very first time hearing “being right plus two quarters equals fifty cents” 😂😂
I appreciate you Jeff
Ha! Salute Seth
Great advice, as always. Jeff, gotta' know, who designed the suit jacket you're wearing? I'm really feeling the jacket, shirt and handkerchief combination. Simple, but classy and elegant. Salute!
J Crew
Jeff thanks for a great vid. I'm in my 60s and in a committed monogamous relationship for 6 years. My lady represents every green flag you highlighted. I feel very fortunate!
You got it Ron!
I can tell you OG the first and most important thing is she got to Respect me. Can't nothing get going if that respect is not there.
Indeed!
thanks for this video... definitely good to have educated point of views on video to help confirm your own thoughts. like a voice outside of your own mind saying assuring things like this. Thank you again bro
No problem!
Nice I think some of the green flags are can you handle when she gets angry,can you handle when she gets sad,can you handle the way she spends money.
Approved! 💜 And yet, we're out here and struggle to attract our vibrational match that emits those same frequencies...
Gentlemen, if she can take accountability then you need to wife her up. You definitely have a unicorn on your hands. HUGE 🇸🇦
Ha !
@The commentor green flag. Really???
Great vid as usual OG. One thing a lot of blue pilled guys bring into the dating environment even after they've done the work on themselves is too much naivete on what to expect from the woman. The woman is supposed to bring more than a cute face and phat... yall already know. Lots of good material for the brother to ruminate on. Salute.
Salute!
I'm definitely sharing this episode because it hit on so many points that's a good signs for a future wife too!
Please do!
My ex covered most of the bulleted points I looked up on a spousal abuse website. Fast forward to today the love of my life has covered all of these green flags. 😊🙏🏼✌🏽
The woman you just described I've never met . Other than my Mom and Grandmother . Chances are I passed up a few really good ones without even knowing it . Live and learn .
What's goin Jeff!!! Great video!!! Thank you so much for this!
My pleasure!!
Great video Jeff. There is not a lot of good women in the world today. A gentleman who finds a good woman is great and very fortunate and should cherish and respect that woman just like she should respect and cherish the gentleman.
When men find these nice women, they usually cheat on and use them
There is hope to get my future queen. Thanks OG Jeff!
No problem!
Bobby B checking in. ✊🏾
My son is very shy . I share your videos to him. Thanks for the help .
Happy to help!
This is never talked about. Everybody always talks about the red flags
Gotta talk both sides !
I like that he talked about this too.
Always on point bro! Wisdom for all.
Thanks Ronnie!
Thank you this is good stuff and very helpful
ACCOUNTABILITY…… my favorite word in the English language.
Word! 🔥 Style OG I’m looking forward to seeing you on the “best seller” list 📚
One day !
Very true
My man.....Once again on point.
Thanks Carl!
Spot on OG!!
Thanks!
If you are with a woman that blames you for everything...bro please borrow some shoes from Bolt and ...bolt!
Great video Jeff. This Green Flags apply to us ladies to look for in a guy as well.
Thank you for sharing
Thanks Kim!
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Glad you enjoyed it
FACTS OG! Accountability should be #1!
Salute!
Another great video from the style OG 😎✊🏾
Thanks!
ACCOUNTABILITY!
true
I like you!!! Sent this to my husband, he needs to send this to his friends! New subscriber!
Awesome! Thank you!
Lol! You just described a unicorn 🦄.
Welp! Looks like I found that unicorn...
Keep on evolving O.G!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Will do!!
Very Good video!! Well done!! Really appreciative of green flags, positive outlook and perspective that is much needed!! Breath of fresh air!!!
Thank you so much!!❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Good video fam - I’d like to speak to the two cats that gave this vid a thumbs down.. Need to understand where they think brother Jeff is wrong..
Thanks Kenny!
Salute OG, I really appreciate the video :)
Salute Marius!
New subscriber here! Great points. Will definitely share your videos. Thank you!
Welcome!
Allright OG u good man like this resolving conflicts green flag we will make it and she nice lady
First let me say great video great topic. I’ve never looked at it from a green flag perspective. 👍
The hardest task in a relationship is keeping the green flags up. The green flags may change over years/decades and depending on the chemistry those green flags my not still be there after certain time (10 years 5 years, 2 years, etc). I want to say a women with this many green flags is fictional, but I’m willing to work to keep those green flags up.
What would you say is the most important green flag?
I’m thinking respects you #1 for sure, but similar values is definitely a close cousin as it could be #1. However, for the sake of ranking is #2 but definitely just as important as #1 respecting you for sure!😎👊🏽💯
This reminds me off when ross made that list about rachel
Thank you brother Jeff...Salute!...🙏🏿👌🏿👍🏿
Very welcome!
This is one amazing message! Great info!
Glad you think so!
@@TheStyleOG Salute!!!
All facts O.G!
Salute Brian!
Great channel. My favorite compared to all the other channels I have heard. Only issue I have is the strict division between men and women as if all 3 billion men want respect and all 3 billion women want love. Yes there is almost definitely more of a tendance for men to want respect and women to want love, but it isn't always the case. Other than that, for the most part I really like his stuff.
Very informative.
Glad you think so!
Respect is giving not own.
Dating a girl now that is showing signs of 7 and 10, 6 hasn't come up yet, and has fully exhibited all the others. After going through a marriage to a covert narcissist, it is truly refreshing to date someone with so many green flags.
I’m gonna watch more of this instead of watching what I don’t want in a woman.
Great list, Style OG. I’d put accountability and respect near the top. Rarely see that from women.
Thanks!
Your first point hit it on the head.
Really like what this guy has to say
Excellent list..when i met my wife...she has so many qualities that we shared..she has x rated legs..i pursued her..i am glad that i did..peace and salute
Salute Kenneth!
X rated legs !!That s first ! that s O riginal !
@@petermapp5988 and she still has it after all these years...Peter i was blessed 2 meet her..we have been married 42 years...our daughter just got married and I was nervous walking her down the aisle..peace..enjoy your day
Well said O.G!
Thanks Victor!
I needed a reminder
🗣️🗣️MR OG ARE YOU SINGLE GIVING ALL THIS HOOKING UP ADVICE🤣🤣🤣🙏👍🍆
Very important information that every guy needs to know.
Thanks!
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 great video
Appreciate it!
This was a great vid OG
Thanks as always !
Pure gems 💎 thanks 🙏🏾
No problem!
🙋♂️😉👍😎😑😑🤔🤔👏👏👏🤳📲🤞👉✍🙏
Thanks For Your Videos O.G.! 👉🤜🤛🤝.
I'm a 39 Years Old Guy and Have "Never" been Married in my Life.
But Your Videos Really Help Me a Lot, Since I Subscribed to Your Channel a Few Months ago, to Understand The Relationship Topic So I don't just Jump into a Relationship Chance, that I Get in the Future.
"Thank You Sir" 🙏😉 and my Respects to You for Sure.
Have a Good Day there Man.
Salute!
Man Accountable Accountable is hard to find always someone else's fault We need respect that is being loved to us she needs to be Cherished great conflict resolution important and challenging not a yes person good stuff
Awesome video OG salute
Salute James!
Salute! O.G
Salute!
Very nice My Brother, Very Nice!
Thank you! Cheers!
Salute brother and thanks
Salute!
Thanks man. 🙏🏻
No worries!
That the truth OG salute👍👍👍👍👍👍
Salute James !
I'd love to see you do a review on hey dude shoes for guys in their 40's and older.
Great video very valuable content
Thanks Allen!
Let's say the point you made about having to be yourself, sometimes guys/women put on a false front to emotionally manipulate others
Indeed!