Summary guy here! 1. Do some self reflection. 2. Have a perspective and stand firm. 3. Stand up for yourself. 4. Be assertive, but not aggressive. 5. Set and achieve goals. 6. Carry yourself with strong body language. 7. Be open minded. 8. Stand on your word. 9. Add value to other people’s lives. 10. Treat other people with respect. 11. Eliminate bad people.
One of the best admirations for gaining respect, from the 48 Laws of Power is "Always say less than necessary" The more you talk, brag, complain, and boast regarding in the face of others, they will have a great disdain about you. Hence it is best to say less, be humble, and be assertive.
The Style O.G.s videos are my favorite of all other videos of others like this I have seen. Love his stuff about red flags where he says one or two are OK and to not seek perfection since you aren't perfect is great. I like the stuff on this video as well. I think my only possible issue if IF this video is only directed towards men which I find a bit sexist. It should apply to women as well and women should be held to the same standard. For example, he is right that you shouldn't expect a person to give you things and you not willing to give. Men and women used to be taught that. So many women today lack that for example.
Agreed! One thing I've always done is to be mindful of others, but never compromise myself to please others. When I have to speak with someone about their disrespectful behavior and it doesn't change they find out real quickly how good my cut-off game is. Great points in this video good Sir! Keep giving us that top notch content...
Brother Jeff. You're absolutely right. There are some people you have teach how to talk to you and ultimately respect you. Some of them dont realize it and others do. I had to pull aside a few people. Those that dismissed my concerns are no longer in my circle.
Yes ! A man who doesn't go his own way is nothing , been told many times by others maybe in the day of the pioneer you could do that , but "today" you gotta play ball fella. Neat video !
Good points. I had a meeting with a minority group on a particular policy I had with my organization. A community member who didn’t like the policy attended. The group didn’t know that person, and were taken aback by the questions and comments made. After explaining was getting nowhere, I advised, this was my policy and I am not changing it. I left when my business concluded. Later, after the meeting I got a call, and was told I gained a lot of respect with the group, when I said I was not changing my policy. The group didn’t have a position on the issue, just wanted to learn more. ******** you just helped me write my upcoming speech giving my bio. Thank you.
This guy is like having that “Cool Uncle” On Demand. Many of my uncles are gone. I have a great dad, but uncles have a great way to impress wisdom as well. I wish I could talk to them, they are in Heaven now. However, I’m glad Style O.G. is here so I can download some good advice.
I focus on each of these videos....jot down..implement.Its been a year this month.Some instances the pace of change is evolutionary and in other instances its revolutionary. l love the reaction i get from friends and moreso strangers.But self improvment is like studying for a degree....have to work at it EVERY DAY.Love this channel...akin to the dad i never had...keep up the good work.
This is real OG talk! I need the youngins to understand these principles because their lost. I do wish you would’ve added how your tone of voice and how you talk garners respect ✊🏾 #salute
This was absolutely invaluable information Style O.G. and you saved me a counseling session please bill me, for this treasure. I am most grateful for the reassurance, and the practical tips on how to command respect.
I get a lot of respect from my friends. I dont wanna brag but I think im the most respected of my friend group. One think i think that help is: 1. Not always taking credit. A example is: when you came up with a idee to give someone a gift don't tell that person it was your idee. If other people tell that person it was your idee they respect you more and probably think you do this more often. 2. Give them advice in live or difficult situations. 3. Do not always tell them what you up to but tell them what you did. A example: don't tell everyone you just started investing is for example stocks or crypto. Tell them after you made some money and how you did it. Give them advice if they ask for it if you know what you talking about. Its okay to say i just started i still have to learn a lot myself 4. Be yourself and have a unique style for example. I like to wear mech from artist i like. 5. Work on yourself (like doing meditation or work out) and share the benefits with others. don't brag about this just tell them what you did and how it made you feel. Don't force them to do it or make them belief your better because you doing these things to improve yourself. 6. Even tho they respect you NEVER tell or try to make them belief your perfect. Let them see or know you flaws. Accept the help they offer you to fix this or try to listen to the advice they give you. 8. Don't lie about things you not doing or tell them about fake goals your never gonna reach. 9. Don't be a know it all. Don't command every time someone is doing something work. For example: if your painting a house with your friends don't command them on there skills. If you really want to command on them first ask why thy do it that way and after that show them how you do it and tell them the benefits of doing it that way I also like to tell them where I learned doing it that way. 10. last but definitely not least. NEVER CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I my opinion you will lose all the respect you eared or got and have to start over if a big minus. If you wanna recover from this you have to work really really hard on your self. I you do this for a second time after its done. A lot of people or at least I will never respect you no more.
Ive been a politician all my life when meeting people. I've long time felt I should sell myself but I've also learned how too not OVERSELL vs. selling myself short. This is just a follow up for others but for me it's been the cornerstone of my personality for a long time easily. Mainly because my family indoctrinated core values and principles within me from a youngster. Now I'm 38 and I'm noticing a lot of us BLACK MEN are lacking morals and principles. To me those guys are behind the spectrum because without principles, morales and values NO SELF RESPECTING PERSON WILL RESPECT THEM AT ALL. Good video brother. It's well needed for most of us and I'm about to put some RESPECT on your Subscription button💯💪🏾
This is very good. I'd add There is persuasion and perception. You may be meek by persuasion, but you can work at being perceived as more confident that by nature you feel.
👏👏👏👏👏👍! 📣GREAT VIDEO! I'm in a program where military veterans are paired as Mentors to young men in the 18-24 age group. In the conversations we have with them the topic that gets them to really open up is the conversation about respect. Some think it's having the nicest automobile or the latest shoes or technology. We tell them that those things don't amount to people respecting you and that they should strive to command respect not based on what they drive, the clothes on their back or the type cellphone you talk/text on. Respect is much like a good reputation: It can take you years to obtain it and only a few moments to lose it. Some of our young Black males have been sadly tricked into believing that respect is something that can be purchased and if they don't have this or that, they cannot be respected. It's our job as men who are truly about something to not just tell them but to SHOW THEM that commanding respect from others is an "inside job" meaning they have to respect themselves BEFORE anyone else will respect them.
Great video . I like the phrase under promise and over deliver... That's a great standard to have. I agree with having standards, boundaries, and morals... That shows leadership qualities that people will respect. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
Style OG Jeff thank you for your platform we need more men like you looking out for our brothers with postive advise, I see so many women and even celebrities make comments on looking out for there on gender and US men need the same foundation. SALUTE✊🏽 YOU BROTHER MUCH RESPECT .
Style OG, Great advice in this video. I’m a firm believer in treating people the way I like to be treated. Respect doesn’t happen overnight it’s earned. Salute to you Jeff
Whatever your faith, let others see you live it more than they see you judge others by it. If complimented on doing that well, assure whomever gives the compliment that you are trying and they have in them to do even better than yourself.
As always brother you are exactly on point but let me just say this I don't require everyone to respect me you don't even have to respect me but what you will not do is disrespect me and that's for sure be blessed bro keep up the good work
Hey Jeff I’m new to the channel, 16 years old here. On my journey to build my manhood. Quick question: Does kindness attract women romantically? I hear a lot of the time that girls only like “bad boys.”
2 things I never let anyone get away with are 1) I will immediately correct you if you mispronounce my! If I can pronounce Krzyewski or Roethlisburger they can darn province DeQuinn or Laila! And 2) I will immediately correct anyone if they come at me wrong. If you don’t they will continue to do it.
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Summary guy here!
1. Do some self reflection.
2. Have a perspective and stand firm.
3. Stand up for yourself.
4. Be assertive, but not aggressive.
5. Set and achieve goals.
6. Carry yourself with strong body language.
7. Be open minded.
8. Stand on your word.
9. Add value to other people’s lives.
10. Treat other people with respect.
11. Eliminate bad people.
Thank you man
thanks!
Good list
Thanks G
Thanks man God Bless Screen shot it🙏🏽❤
One of the best admirations for gaining respect, from the 48 Laws of Power is "Always say less than necessary" The more you talk, brag, complain, and boast regarding in the face of others, they will have a great disdain about you. Hence it is best to say less, be humble, and be assertive.
Agreed!
As someone who doesn’t think people respect him, this is effin’ perfect. Salute Jeff!!
Salute Sam!
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men! SALUTE!!
Salute!
In my opinion, You don’t ask or buy respect, you earn it, and all starts how you present and act to society.
The Style O.G.s videos are my favorite of all other videos of others like this I have seen. Love his stuff about red flags where he says one or two are OK and to not seek perfection since you aren't perfect is great. I like the stuff on this video as well. I think my only possible issue if IF this video is only directed towards men which I find a bit sexist. It should apply to women as well and women should be held to the same standard. For example, he is right that you shouldn't expect a person to give you things and you not willing to give. Men and women used to be taught that. So many women today lack that for example.
Agreed! One thing I've always done is to be mindful of others, but never compromise myself to please others. When I have to speak with someone about their disrespectful behavior and it doesn't change they find out real quickly how good my cut-off game is. Great points in this video good Sir! Keep giving us that top notch content...
Wise words!
Respect is earned and not given..its that simple💪
Indeed!
Brother Jeff. You're absolutely right. There are some people you have teach how to talk to you and ultimately respect you. Some of them dont realize it and others do. I had to pull aside a few people. Those that dismissed my concerns are no longer in my circle.
Very wise!
Right on brother. I recently had to tell my daughter not to come to my home because of disrespct. It was hard but it had to be done.
Is she back?
I say forgive I went back to my mom's alott there's spirits involved just let go live don't give excess
Yes ! A man who doesn't go his own way is nothing , been told many times by others maybe in the day of the pioneer you could do that , but "today" you gotta play ball fella. Neat video !
Good points. I had a meeting with a minority group on a particular policy I had with my organization. A community member who didn’t like the policy attended. The group didn’t know that person, and were taken aback by the questions and comments made.
After explaining was getting nowhere, I advised, this was my policy and I am not changing it. I left when my business concluded. Later, after the meeting I got a call, and was told I gained a lot of respect with the group, when I said I was not changing my policy. The group didn’t have a position on the issue, just wanted to learn more.
******** you just helped me write my upcoming speech giving my bio. Thank you.
You are completely correct. Especially having short term and long term goals are very important to achieve and people do notice.
Yup!
I respect this video on respect. Thanks Style OG!
This guy is like having that “Cool Uncle” On Demand. Many of my uncles are gone. I have a great dad, but uncles have a great way to impress wisdom as well. I wish I could talk to them, they are in Heaven now. However, I’m glad Style O.G. is here so I can download some good advice.
Happy to help!
Spot on! Huge thanks for this great video which commands more RESPECT.🎖
I focus on each of these videos....jot down..implement.Its been a year this month.Some instances the pace of change is evolutionary and in other instances its revolutionary. l love the reaction i get from friends and moreso strangers.But self improvment is like studying for a degree....have to work at it EVERY DAY.Love this channel...akin to the dad i never had...keep up the good work.
Kind words indeed!
Excellent video, Jeff. I've also found being highly knowledgeable in a specific field garners respect, even from those outside the field. Salute!
Salute Lou!
This is real OG talk! I need the youngins to understand these principles because their lost. I do wish you would’ve added how your tone of voice and how you talk garners respect ✊🏾 #salute
Salute!
This was absolutely invaluable information Style O.G. and you saved me a counseling session please bill me, for this treasure. I am most grateful for the reassurance, and the practical tips on how to command respect.
Glad it was helpful!
Yes sir, respect is a two-way street....leave those, even "friends" or family, who can't/don't respect you.....life is too short.....
I get a lot of respect from my friends. I dont wanna brag but I think im the most respected of my friend group. One think i think that help is:
1. Not always taking credit. A example is: when you came up with a idee to give someone a gift don't tell that person it was your idee. If other people tell that person it was your idee they respect you more and probably think you do this more often.
2. Give them advice in live or difficult situations.
3. Do not always tell them what you up to but tell them what you did. A example: don't tell everyone you just started investing is for example stocks or crypto. Tell them after you made some money and how you did it. Give them advice if they ask for it if you know what you talking about. Its okay to say i just started i still have to learn a lot myself
4. Be yourself and have a unique style for example. I like to wear mech from artist i like.
5. Work on yourself (like doing meditation or work out) and share the benefits with others. don't brag about this just tell them what you did and how it made you feel. Don't force them to do it or make them belief your better because you doing these things to improve yourself.
6. Even tho they respect you NEVER tell or try to make them belief your perfect. Let them see or know you flaws. Accept the help they offer you to fix this or try to listen to the advice they give you.
8. Don't lie about things you not doing or tell them about fake goals your never gonna reach.
9. Don't be a know it all. Don't command every time someone is doing something work. For example: if your painting a house with your friends don't command them on there skills. If you really want to command on them first ask why thy do it that way and after that show them how you do it and tell them the benefits of doing it that way I also like to tell them where I learned doing it that way.
10. last but definitely not least. NEVER CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I my opinion you will lose all the respect you eared or got and have to start over if a big minus. If you wanna recover from this you have to work really really hard on your self. I you do this for a second time after its done. A lot of people or at least I will never respect you no more.
I agree with you that respect is a must! Great run down Jeff!
Great advice, people need to understand respect isn’t free like the air we breathe, it has to be earned. Salute O.G.
💯 agree
Salute Clifton!
Ive been a politician all my life when meeting people. I've long time felt I should sell myself but I've also learned how too not OVERSELL vs. selling myself short. This is just a follow up for others but for me it's been the cornerstone of my personality for a long time easily. Mainly because my family indoctrinated core values and principles within me from a youngster. Now I'm 38 and I'm noticing a lot of us BLACK MEN are lacking morals and principles. To me those guys are behind the spectrum because without principles, morales and values NO SELF RESPECTING PERSON WILL RESPECT THEM AT ALL. Good video brother. It's well needed for most of us and I'm about to put some RESPECT on your Subscription button💯💪🏾
Yes sir...I Stand on my Square everyday, ALL the time!!!
Thanks for keeping it 100% on respect I only hope disrespectful people watch this video!🙏👊🏽
💯
Yeah disrespectful people need to see this video!
💯
This is very good. I'd add
There is persuasion and perception. You may be meek by persuasion, but you can work at being perceived as more confident that by nature you feel.
As always, awesome content! Thank you for sharing these things!
My pleasure!
This Brotha right here is da truuuf. I've been watching this channel for two years......SALUTE
Salute!
@@TheStyleOG HAND SALUTE🫡🇺🇸
All of these are great and easy things to do. Thanks for the video. Salute
Great tutorial as usual, especially when it comes to respect. I was always taught respect is earned, not giving.
Always give and demand respect. Thanks.
Words of wisdom for the inward man! Thanks bro
My pleasure!!
Greetings to O. G... This is one of my favourite video which address the word respect.. Many people don't know how to show respect.. 💪🏾 🙏🏾 💯
💯
Finally answered my comment from way back! Salute OG
👏👏👏👏👏👍!
📣GREAT VIDEO!
I'm in a program where military veterans are paired as Mentors to young men in the 18-24 age group.
In the conversations we have with them the topic that gets them to really open up is the conversation about respect.
Some think it's having the nicest automobile or the latest shoes or technology.
We tell them that those things don't amount to people respecting you and that they should strive to command respect not based on what they drive, the clothes on their back or the type cellphone you talk/text on.
Respect is much like a good reputation: It can take you years to obtain it and only a few moments to lose it.
Some of our young Black males have been sadly tricked into believing that respect is something that can be purchased and if they don't have this or that, they cannot be respected.
It's our job as men who are truly about something to not just tell them but to SHOW THEM that commanding respect from others is an "inside job" meaning they have to respect themselves BEFORE anyone else will respect them.
Great video . I like the phrase under promise and over deliver... That's a great standard to have. I agree with having standards, boundaries, and morals... That shows leadership qualities that people will respect. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
I can't say enough about the knowledge you drop. I appreciate you Uncle Jeff. #Salute
Salute Carl!
💯
Big respect to Jeff👊🏾
Respect!
I don't know how you do it fam but you touch up on the bases that are needed💪🏿💪🏿 Keep em coming "THUMBS UP"🥊🔔
Will do!
Agreed accountability is so important
Style OG Jeff thank you for your platform we need more men like you looking out for our brothers with postive advise, I see so many women and even celebrities make comments on looking out for there on gender and US men need the same foundation. SALUTE✊🏽 YOU BROTHER MUCH RESPECT .
Salute Jay!
Now THIS was a much needed video! Thank you so much Jeff for making these videos! Much respect to you my brother!
Much respect!
ease up on the spam my guy..
@@TheStyleOG thank you
💯
Great content as usual Jeff ... #RESPECT 👌🏽
Appreciate it!
Style OG, Great advice in this video. I’m a firm believer in treating people the way I like to be treated. Respect doesn’t happen overnight it’s earned. Salute to you Jeff
Salute Pierre!
*@TheStyleOG:* Well spoken good brother.
Thanks!
Major gems were dropped!!!
SALUTE!!!!!
Salute Sean!
You've summed it nicely. Thanks O.G
No problem!
what's up big brotha great information and great advice I will stick to all of them I will stay on my Square👊
My guy!
Tru dat! Once again, thanks for droppin’ that fiya 🔥
Any time!
I hear that standing on my square, having that moral compass. 👍👍
Yup!
Great Video OG - hope the new generation is watching this . Nice job sir
I appreciate that!
OG, this is a list we can all agree with! Thanks. 👍
Salute Howard!
Appreciate you Jeff 🙏! Content is always relevant.
Salute Lennon!
Looking good bro!!. Luv u 12 ways of command!! Respect is definitely a deal breaker 💯
I can agree with you
Good info. Most appreciated indeed!!👍
Remember fellas, strong body language and not strong body odor that commands respect 😁...another great video, Big Bro
Another hit O.G. Salute!!!
Salute June!
This is all facts!
appreciate the feedback!
Style OG that video was on point like a mosquito needle
Ha!
This is GOLD 🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
This vid is all facts. Definitely things I have to keep in mind when I'm dealing with my staff. Salute O.G.
Salute!
On point style O. G. Great Shot.
Thanks!
What up my bro Og, Great teaching video my G, I look forward to hearing these type of videos. Salute my friend.
Salute Glenn!
What's up brotha how you doing long time how was your Thanksgiving with your family. i hope everybody ok.
@@cashmerefunk2136 Am good and the family is great. I hope all is well with you.
Great break down on commanding respect.. salute bro 👊💪
Salute Ernest!
@@TheStyleOG thanks. Keep up the great work!
Great advice Jeff thanks 😁
Any time!
Uncle O.G. keep it coming.. loving it...REAL TALK....
Salute Harold!
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men!
Salute to the Style O.G., thanks for another good video with some great advice.
No problem!
Thnx Bro !!! Keep'em coming!!! ;)
Will do!
Whatever your faith, let others see you live it more than they see you judge others by it. If complimented on doing that well, assure whomever gives the compliment that you are trying and they have in them to do even better than yourself.
Absolutely
Great post OG!
Respectfully respecting this video and the content and the presenter . PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
Peace Al!
As always brother you are exactly on point but let me just say this I don't require everyone to respect me you don't even have to respect me but what you will not do is disrespect me and that's for sure be blessed bro keep up the good work
I understand!
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thank you! You too!
You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much
Great advice 👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾😀
Glad you think so!
Excellent video.
Consider starting a personal development channel O.G. Fantastic information and delivery 👏🏽
Not a bad idea!
JtSOG! Good Stuff my Brother.
Thanks!
TRUE, VERY TRUE Jeff HOOYAH
Salute!
Thanks!
This is solid info!! I enjoyed this video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Respect! #Salute #PositiveVibes
Respect
AWESOME. Bro. Jeff. OG
Great stuff
Real talk OG salute
Salute James!
✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾Factz
Salute Terry!
Really great video, Jeff.
Many thanks!
Excellent video..i will give you an A+....peace and SALUTE!!!!!
Salute!
👍🏾👍🏾👁👃🏽👁🤝🏾I always do command it and receive it. You give it and you shall receive it. Be firm but fair!! Word is bond!!
Well said
Being open minded is definitely an important one.
Yup!
Hey Jeff I’m new to the channel, 16 years old here. On my journey to build my manhood.
Quick question: Does kindness attract women romantically? I hear a lot of the time that girls only like “bad boys.”
kindness yes, niceness no, there is a difference. check my archives for a video called don't be nice, be kind
Excellent video
Thank you very much!
Great video Jeff. Do you have an email? I have a few follow up questions.
Morning OG!
Morning!
What's up Jeff!
2 things I never let anyone get away with are 1) I will immediately correct you if you mispronounce my! If I can pronounce Krzyewski or Roethlisburger they can darn province DeQuinn or Laila! And 2) I will immediately correct anyone if they come at me wrong. If you don’t they will continue to do it.