I hope you enjoyed today's video! Thank you to Thrive Market for sponsoring. Join Thrive Market today to get 30% off your first order and a free gift worth up to $60 thrivemarket.com/TheDailyConnoisseur I would love to hear your thoughts on the secret key to successful homemaking. Let us know in the comments below. Thank you for watching! Love, Jennifer
Very nice video! My daughter's friend's mother asked me if I could come over the next day to help her clean her home. She told me that her father whom she never met was coming to meet her in 3 days. She was tearfully over whelmed by all her housework that needed to be done. My 12 year old daughter and I went cheerfully to her home bright and early to help her clean. It really was a blessing to me that I was able to help this very grateful lady. So please don't be afraid or embarrassed to ask for help, there are people who would love to help you whip your home together.
That gratitude piece is so important and I’m so glad you brought that up! Because it’s easy to become down on ourselves or even envious that other people have a maid or housekeeper to do everything for them. The truth is we are so blessed to 1) have a home and family to take care of 2) have the health to be able to do the work ourselves 3) be able to enjoy the fruits of our own labor and know that we are being good stewards of our homes and families ❤
I appreciate the idea of being thankful for the freedom to stay home and be a homemaker. Sometimes it the middle of all the housework I can forget that. I am truly thankful! Great inspiration Jennifer!
Please enjoy it! Every morning when I leave for work there is a sad tug on my heart that I wish I could be married and stay home and take care of my husband and children. I’m thankful that my job is to be a SAHM for mom someone else - it is good practice.
I didn't realize how important the appearance thing is. It is HUGE! I can see why you put iflt first. Thank you! Dress in a way that makes you feel confident as well as comfortable. It makes a big difference and your husband will notice. You and your marriage are worth the investment.
Watching Jennifer's video to procrastinate on going to the store and running some errands. Sometimes...nothing works. But you still do it cause if you don't then it will be waiting for you tomorrow.
I think it is wise even if you prefer to do things alone to have your children participate. Adults don't just happen, so setting the example and incorporating them in daily chores is important. As a latchkey kid there are so many skills I lack because baby boomers were to busy with their own lives to provide the guidance of what it takes to run a home or rear children properly.
I think the pressure for introverted homemakers to always include their children is hard. I include my children in the housework but when I feel like being alone I honor that. Very important for people who need alone time and are feeling overwhelmed. ♥
I don’t include my kids all that often (my mom didn’t either) but setting a good example is what kids observe. Especially if a mom is loving- they want to please there mom
@@TheDailyConnoisseur These times of working or being alone is a healthy model for children; they will be adults one day and understand someday the need to work uninterrupted or to decompress.
I love listening to audiobooks while I clean! Also, I feel like when I get a phone call, I tend to enjoy folding laundry. It’s almost like I go into auto pilot & make myself busy while I’m on the phone.
Happy Homemaking, Jennifer and thank you! As an introvert also, I love and cherish being alone whilst cleaning and honestly don’t have the kids do this with me - the only exception is their own rooms/sinks, putting away their own laundry and the dishes. My eldest is at university and keeps his room impeccably tidy because that’s the one space he was responsible for, so no negative outcomes from not including them in other tasks here 😊 Audiobooks have made cleaning into a very desirable practice, I do agree! Have a wonderful week ❤
I’m a new SAHM and struggling with managing my day with children. I feel like I put them in front if the tv too much. They are 3, 18mos and 4 months. It’s a busy time. Could you show how you structure your day? From getting ready to home maintenance, cooking and spending time with kids. I feel a bit overwhelmed and just want to do better. 💛💛💛
Seconding this!! I have an infant and caring for her takes so much of my time and energy that it makes it really hard to keep up with household tasks, let alone taking care of myself. Would love to have a video on balancing childcare and homemaking.
To all of you with young children, babies, and toddlers, my heart 💜 goes out to you… I happen to be a “Baby Boomer,” who was not allowed, per our state law, to leave children without a babysitter/adult supervision until age 12. I worked 10 minutes (or less depending on lights) down the street from where we lived and our daughter never considered herself a “latchkey kid!” She was taught to do her laundry, set the table for our family dinner of 3 each evening (NO cooking 😂) and begin her homework. NOW she’s 42 and mother of our granddaughter, who is almost 4! Enter “overwhelmed,” my daughter (who her Dad & I have supported enthusiastically her entire life!) This 3-1/2 year old has the opposite personality of our daughter and arrived screaming and just decided to stop about 6 months ago. Totally overwhelmed, our daughter couldn’t balance her own sleep with the energy it required/requires to attend to this child’s needs! So please, you mothers, know you are HEARD! Big hugs 🤗 ❤
I got my kids baby cleaning toys like a tiny broom etc. They got under my feet a lot but they could have tons of fun doing dishes that aren't heavy or knives. They absolutely did break a bunch. Or, they got bored and learned to entertain themselves by making a new mess for me to tidy lol. Now with five they have their own chores to earn money for sweets or small toys. And I ask them wether they would tidy their things or i will bring them to the charity shop for kids who will look after them lol.
I had a bunch of little kids at home too. I think it is okay to gate off parts of the house from little ones (upstairs, the kitchen if you can, wherever the trouble is!) They can only go in there with grown ups until they can handle it. I also had one totally "kid proof" room next to the kitchen where they had their toys and things and I would gate them in there when it was time for me to get something done or make supper. If I was on my A-game I would remember to get out a cool toy, a small mess, or unusual activity- new coloring stuff, pots and pans, duplos, a box to color on, water and cups, a small ball of yarn... I could still see and talk to them and get things done. After breakfast I would tell them I need half an hour to clean the kitchen and start some laundry or whatever and then we'll go for a walk/read a book/do something together. I tried to see and understand things from their point of view, and they're usually pretty okay with doing their own thing for a bit if there's a plan for mom time or a reward. Little baby would be in the swing near me, not in the playroom unless I was. I showered at night so I could get up and be dressed and going before everyone else got up in the morning. I tried my best to keep a nursing routine, with a routine of what big kids would do at that time. Having a simple plan is key, but not getting hung up on it is important too. Keep your to-do list short and enjoy the cuteness. If I had to do tv I put on calmer things like sheepdogs working, a ballet, equestrian events, people working or making things to music. We saved the cartoons for after dinner when company came or if they were super good at church or anything during which it was hard to behave. It's a great incentive. I guess I had a lot to say! I'm not a natural at routines and planning, so I was proud of what I managed to put together in those years! Now they're big kids and I have lots of help with the current little ones, though it's less orderly around here these days!
Three children at those ages is overwhelmingly! Just remember: 1) it’s supposed to be hard. It’s not hard because you’re not good at it. Things wouldn’t be better if you were different. They would still be hard because that’s normal. It’s like getting sore muscles, but this soreness will last a while. You WILL get through it and come out stronger in so many ways! 2) right now you are regulating your emotions AND the children’s, which is extremely taxing. Be patient with yourself. Empathize with them again and again. Romanticize as much as you can because a toddler handing you dandelions is a thing to delight in. Especially when they bring in dirt and roots with the dandelions! Laugh as much as humanly possible! 3) I liked “A Mother’s Rule of Life” by Holly Pierlot. Also Jennifer’s content was very calming for me! I tried to do more “routines” rather than keeping to a strict schedule by the clock. God bless you, sweet Mama!
This might be one of my favorite videos!I work 1 day a week (and have 6 kids and a military spouse) and I am always seeking inspiration on this topic. I also find if I have beautiful/inspirational tools, it helps. A pretty apron, towels that aren’t stained and ratty, nice smelling candles … it goes a long way for me!
Agreed! Recently I've made a point of keeping nice/pretty dishtowels in the kitchen, replace ratty/stained hand towels and dish rags as needed. It's cheering when you have something nice for ordinary use.
Hi Jennifer! I love your videos and those lovely new labels! I’m an educator and homemaker and doing my doctorate in equity/social justice and well-being studies so thought I would add this perspective: Over the course of history, homemaking was a collective process so I think women in modern society should remember not to feel guilty about expectations to do it all themselves! I like your point about getting help-if they can’t afford professional help, then we, as a supportive tribe can advocate for more affordable childcare and better wages for women to help other women! Also, self-compassion and self love is key-it’s ok to not feel enthusiastic about homemaking as well. It just may not be your thing or you may be in dire circumstances so you don’t need to love it and that’s ok! Last thing: some people with ADHD or low dopamine receptors might benefit from starting with the interesting task to get them going! Anyway, just some food for thought . :)) You are an inspiration and I love your channel!
Jennifer maybe you can do a video where you talk to other women who work at an office full time and what they do? Or maybe not an interview but just get tips?
Love these tips! Appearance is huge. My husband is a physician that sees patients at home. He has to keep the door closed due to privacy laws. It gets super hot in his office therefore i freeze in the rest of the house. I get dressed but find myself putting on layers, such as sweat pants and my robe on top of my jeans and top. I find myself less productive during these times. Guess I need to invest in a cardigan type coat. I am so ready for spring!!
Great video Jennifer! Homemaking is something I always thought of as a product of yesteryear, until watching your videos. It’s just as vital in our society now as it ever was. Making a happy home for ones family is noble work. Thank you! 💖
Thanks Jennifer. It’s interesting you comment about appearance - I always feel better if I put an effort into my clothes/makeup/hair. It just sets me up for success even if I am not going anywhere. It is important in my view. Love these suggestions as I begin to tackle my to-do list.
This is such a good advice. I'm sitting down right now to eat a healthy breakfast and not down a week at a glance with not only homemaking in mind, but self care as well.
Excellent ideas! I enjoy keeping a tidy home, but I even find myself uninspired at times. A laundry folding date was just what I needed to hear about today!
Thank you Jennifer. This was such a timely video. As a mother who is parenting a 4 yr old and 1 yr old full time, doing homeschool, and running a side hustle solo, I regularly feel completely overwhelmed with homemaking (even though I enjoy much of it)! I’m going to dig out the candles tomorrow and try to be a little more present while I’m cleaning up the perpetual messes that little ones make 😊
❤️Hello Jennifer & everyone❤️I have 4 children, two in there 20’s & 2 teenagers. With my older two growing up I made them do a chore a day. With my younger two I give them chores only on Saturdays. My older ones began complaining that they wanted to have free time & rest after getting back from school so I decided to only give chores on Saturdays to my younger two just to bring a balance. I can only hope & pray that as they watch me daily taking care of our home & family that they one day will do the same. My kids are all soo different, one of my girls is passionate about homemaking but the other total opposite. Both my boys are the same, one dreads doing chores & the other gladly helps whenever & often comes to help me food prep without even asking him.
Hi Jennifer, Knowing one’s self is essential! My Lyme disease causes low energy in the morning and much more energy after my noon nap! My zone is finishing up the kitchen after the children do the dinner dishes; I put on “kitchen” outfit, fill our white sink with bleach water and lightly bleach all our white countertops, missed smudges on white cabinets and any missed surfaces. Then I light a candle, go get my shower and enjoy the beautifully cleaned kitchen for 12 hours! The family always notices and mentions how nice it is. Thanks for the inspiration, Julie 🌷
One thing that changed everything for me was this: before I was frustrated because I was waiting for my homemaking to be done in order to have fun with me hobbies, but now I've changed my mindset and homemaking is officially my first hobby! I've found inner fullfilment and I'm satisfied with it, so now if I do ever have a munite to read a book it's a bonus, but I had fun in the meantime.
I just finished your original book Lessons from Madame Chic and absolutely loved it!! 📖 I would love to see a video on how you balance your work and home life. I work from home and find it difficult and would love to know your tips!! Thanks for all you do! ❤
One thing thats helped me too is reminding myself that I like living in a clean home, myself. Like, it's not always about everyone else in the house. Tbh, the boys would happily live in much messier dirtier circumstances. But... *I* like a clean home.
Thank you Jennifer for taking the time to give us nuggets of wisdom. Especially in the area of homemaking! The one I struggle with the most is asking for help. I am working on this. ☺
I try to stay positive about homemaking, but if I am honest, it has always been hard for me. I'm trying to change my mindset with daily affirmations. My Mother always worked because my Dad left our family when I was very young. My Mother didn't have the opportnity to attend school after 5th grade because of the poverty the family experienced in the decades following the depression. She was a lovely christian woman and she didn't have the opportunity to be a full-time homemaker, but she did the best that she could when she was at home. I always feel that my time is so divided between work and home, but I know I have to continue to work on improving my mindset, because everyone faces obstacles and I don't wa nt to be a bitter person.
Jennifer, a bit off topic, but you really look vibrant when you wear some colors. Maybe because we almost see you in neutral or navy colors. Please wear more colors like this! You look lovely!
This video came at the perfect time for me! We just moved to a new home, and I'm finding it difficult to stay focused while we transition everything and renovate the kitchen. I'm very grateful that I have a home to make beautiful, a husband who supports my role as a homemaker, and children to care for. ❤
Thank you, Jennifer. Our attitudes do make a difference. Thank you for the much-needed inspiration. I am always looking to improve my homemaking skills.
Jennifer, I so understand extending your activity to listen to more of your book. I remember when I was working (retired now :) ). I would be in heavy traffic where folks seemed so impatient in their cars while I was in mine thinking that it was wonderful that I got to listen to more of my book!
Great tips! I do find that gratitude changes everything for me. I also love listening to podcasts and music while doing various chores around the house.
Especially the part about finding homemaking inspirations and using social phone calls to keep us motivated while we do mundane things like dishes and laundry to feel more connected to life outside the house when feeling isolated. I have listened to music and audiobooks, especially about work or about motivation, but it doesn?'t occur to me much to find inspiration about homemaking... Thank you!
Jennifer, I have enjoyed your channel here for a while, and decided that reading one of your Madame Chic books might be just what I need to gain enthusiasm like you mentioned. Just wanted you to know that all copies of your four books are checked out at my local library. I’m excited for you! I was pleased that the library has all of your books, too. Many blessings!
Hello Jennifer, I always enjoy your videos. After I watch them I feel a little more enthusiastic about my home care routine.Your always so nice and real.
Thankyou Jennifer. I love, love, love these homemaking videos so much. Can u plse make more. 🙏 I'm going thru a bit of a burn out stage right now so your video has helped get me back on track. Cheers Beverley ⚘⚘
I noticed your china pattern was Woodlands. I also have this pattern and mixed it with Julisca “Berry and Thread”. They mix beautifully. Check them out 🌺
Having help was the best money I’ve spent. I hired a home health aide to take care of my dads needs, a dog trainer to play with our 3 doodles and also a house cleaner to do our floors 3 times a week since the dogs track in so much dirt. Surprisingly, these services are affordable and they take stress off my plate. They also help me avoid burnout. I much rather spend less in other areas and spend the money on services like these to give myself peace of mind and a break.
Thank you for sharing . It is exactly what I am doing now…Taking a quick coffee break in between home making 😀 . Trying to catch up on videos also . You really are so helpful and encouraging.thank you. 👍🏻🇬🇧💛🤍
Loved this, Jennifer! Great advice. I especially loved that you started with Enthusiam, which comes from a Greek word that means "the God within". That probably explains why it's so helpful.
Jennifer, Great tips and well earned I’m sure! What do you think about doing a video on where you find inspiration? It may be a great jumping off point for us your viewers as we implement these tips.
I am a new subscriber, and just wanted to post a note of my gratitude for you videos. The intermittent fasting videos are so lovely and have been very helpful. I am also practicing this eating style. It is simple, helpful, and healthy. I also think it is joyful!
Great video Jennifer! I always make time to wear makeup, style my hair and wear cute clothes, as looking my best brings out the best in my productivity at home.
Thank you for these words of wisdom, Jennifer! I agree wholeheartedly. I am naturally enthusiastic person and the seasons of burn-out affect me tremendously, and my whole outlook because my enthusiasm dies and I go into survival mode. I have been getting much better at handling these seasons, due to the methods you mention! When I was a teenager, I read the book by Brian Tracy “Eat That Frog” and he talks about getting your hardest, most unpleasant tasks done first! It is a game changer. Id also like to mention that there is a song releasing later this month that has been going viral on TikTok, I’ve heard, and it is absolutely atrocious towards home making, femininity, and hateful towards men in general. I’m so thankful we have your videos that show how to be elegant and authentic in homemaking and not vitriolic and vicious and bitter and hateful towards homemaking. ❤❤❤❤
There is such good wisdom here. I would like to share something that helped me that has been a game changer. I read or heard somewhere that managing our tasks to our energy levels. How I structure my day to keep me enthused is I do my morning tasks, make the bed, tidying, etc., and enjoy the rest of the morning, thus taking time for myself. At around noon, I do my deep cleaning. I love mornings and I didn't want to do my most of my chores during that time.
I motivate myself with the help of my Apple Watch. Although, my brain thinks that closing my exercise ring and getting a circle of fireworks on my watch is rather lame, my heart betrays me with a little leap of joy each time it happens. So, when I'm doing any type of housework, I put my watch on the Tai Chi workout to earn credit. Turns out I'm highly competitive with myself. I also blast any Santana album.
I agree on starting with appearance. Usually I wear a comfortable trouser, long sleeve shirt, indoor ballet flats, stud earrings. I like to brush my hair into a near high ponytail and apply a bold lip colour (red mostly). I feel when I am put together I am ready to work and face the day 😉 I notice when I have not started with my appearance, I feel lethargic or unmotivated with housework.
@Maddie C I just wear lipstick only. It is enough for me to feel I am ready to tackle the day like if I was getting ready to leave the house only that I am working in my home. Makeup is not necessary for housework of course. I've cleaned without lipstick but psychologically I don't feel like I have not prepared myself to be ready to work.
I love taking pride in my home, but I hate cleaning the bathroom! That has been my job since I was a kid. I live alone and I'm 38 and I'm the only one who messes up the bathroom, but I still don't like it. It's a tiny windowless room with very little storage and no counter space. Any tips to help me not dread this room?
Maybe give it a makeover? There are scores of ideas and tips on pinterest for organizing small spaces, including bathrooms. Even a fresh coat of paint can be inspiring!
I hope you enjoyed today's video! Thank you to Thrive Market for sponsoring. Join Thrive Market today to get 30% off your first order and a free gift worth up to $60 thrivemarket.com/TheDailyConnoisseur I would love to hear your thoughts on the secret key to successful homemaking. Let us know in the comments below. Thank you for watching! Love, Jennifer
I just love your channel 😊💖
Very nice video! My daughter's friend's mother asked me if I could come over the next day to help her clean her home. She told me that her father whom she never met was coming to meet her in 3 days. She was tearfully over whelmed by all her housework that needed to be done. My 12 year old daughter and I went cheerfully to her home bright and early to help her clean. It really was a blessing to me that I was able to help this very grateful lady. So please don't be afraid or embarrassed to ask for help, there are people who would love to help you whip your home together.
I love this!
What a sweet friend you are and a special gift to your friend!!
That gratitude piece is so important and I’m so glad you brought that up! Because it’s easy to become down on ourselves or even envious that other people have a maid or housekeeper to do everything for them. The truth is we are so blessed to 1) have a home and family to take care of 2) have the health to be able to do the work ourselves 3) be able to enjoy the fruits of our own labor and know that we are being good stewards of our homes and families ❤
I appreciate the idea of being thankful for the freedom to stay home and be a homemaker. Sometimes it the middle of all the housework I can forget that. I am truly thankful! Great inspiration Jennifer!
Please enjoy it! Every morning when I leave for work there is a sad tug on my heart that I wish I could be married and stay home and take care of my husband and children. I’m thankful that my job is to be a SAHM for mom someone else - it is good practice.
I didn't realize how important the appearance thing is. It is HUGE! I can see why you put iflt first. Thank you!
Dress in a way that makes you feel confident as well as comfortable. It makes a big difference and your husband will notice. You and your marriage are worth the investment.
Watching Jennifer's video to procrastinate on going to the store and running some errands. Sometimes...nothing works. But you still do it cause if you don't then it will be waiting for you tomorrow.
I think it is wise even if you prefer to do things alone to have your children participate. Adults don't just happen, so setting the example and incorporating them in daily chores is important. As a latchkey kid there are so many skills I lack because baby boomers were to busy with their own lives to provide the guidance of what it takes to run a home or rear children properly.
Jennifer provides a beautiful example of working and playing with children and sometimes solo. Thanks, Jennifer! Julie 🌷
I think the pressure for introverted homemakers to always include their children is hard. I include my children in the housework but when I feel like being alone I honor that. Very important for people who need alone time and are feeling overwhelmed. ♥
@@TheDailyConnoisseur 1000% true!!
I don’t include my kids all that often (my mom didn’t either) but setting a good example is what kids observe. Especially if a mom is loving- they want to please there mom
@@TheDailyConnoisseur These times of working or being alone is a healthy model for children; they will be adults one day and understand someday the need to work uninterrupted or to decompress.
Do a simple flower arranging video, Jennifer!:)
I love listening to audiobooks while I clean! Also, I feel like when I get a phone call, I tend to enjoy folding laundry. It’s almost like I go into auto pilot & make myself busy while I’m on the phone.
Happy Homemaking, Jennifer and thank you! As an introvert also, I love and cherish being alone whilst cleaning and honestly don’t have the kids do this with me - the only exception is their own rooms/sinks, putting away their own laundry and the dishes. My eldest is at university and keeps his room impeccably tidy because that’s the one space he was responsible for, so no negative outcomes from not including them in other tasks here 😊 Audiobooks have made cleaning into a very desirable practice, I do agree! Have a wonderful week ❤
I’m a new SAHM and struggling with managing my day with children. I feel like I put them in front if the tv too much. They are 3, 18mos and 4 months. It’s a busy time. Could you show how you structure your day? From getting ready to home maintenance, cooking and spending time with kids. I feel a bit overwhelmed and just want to do better. 💛💛💛
Seconding this!! I have an infant and caring for her takes so much of my time and energy that it makes it really hard to keep up with household tasks, let alone taking care of myself. Would love to have a video on balancing childcare and homemaking.
To all of you with young children, babies, and toddlers, my heart 💜 goes out to you… I happen to be a “Baby Boomer,” who was not allowed, per our state law, to leave children without a babysitter/adult supervision until age 12. I worked 10 minutes (or less depending on lights) down the street from where we lived and our daughter never considered herself a “latchkey kid!” She was taught to do her laundry, set the table for our family dinner of 3 each evening (NO cooking 😂) and begin her homework. NOW she’s 42 and mother of our granddaughter, who is almost 4! Enter “overwhelmed,” my daughter (who her Dad & I have supported enthusiastically her entire life!) This 3-1/2 year old has the opposite personality of our daughter and arrived screaming and just decided to stop about 6 months ago. Totally overwhelmed, our daughter couldn’t balance her own sleep with the energy it required/requires to attend to this child’s needs! So please, you mothers, know you are HEARD! Big hugs 🤗 ❤
I got my kids baby cleaning toys like a tiny broom etc. They got under my feet a lot but they could have tons of fun doing dishes that aren't heavy or knives. They absolutely did break a bunch. Or, they got bored and learned to entertain themselves by making a new mess for me to tidy lol. Now with five they have their own chores to earn money for sweets or small toys. And I ask them wether they would tidy their things or i will bring them to the charity shop for kids who will look after them lol.
I had a bunch of little kids at home too. I think it is okay to gate off parts of the house from little ones (upstairs, the kitchen if you can, wherever the trouble is!) They can only go in there with grown ups until they can handle it.
I also had one totally "kid proof" room next to the kitchen where they had their toys and things and I would gate them in there when it was time for me to get something done or make supper. If I was on my A-game I would remember to get out a cool toy, a small mess, or unusual activity- new coloring stuff, pots and pans, duplos, a box to color on, water and cups, a small ball of yarn... I could still see and talk to them and get things done. After breakfast I would tell them I need half an hour to clean the kitchen and start some laundry or whatever and then we'll go for a walk/read a book/do something together. I tried to see and understand things from their point of view, and they're usually pretty okay with doing their own thing for a bit if there's a plan for mom time or a reward. Little baby would be in the swing near me, not in the playroom unless I was. I showered at night so I could get up and be dressed and going before everyone else got up in the morning. I tried my best to keep a nursing routine, with a routine of what big kids would do at that time. Having a simple plan is key, but not getting hung up on it is important too. Keep your to-do list short and enjoy the cuteness.
If I had to do tv I put on calmer things like sheepdogs working, a ballet, equestrian events, people working or making things to music. We saved the cartoons for after dinner when company came or if they were super good at church or anything during which it was hard to behave. It's a great incentive.
I guess I had a lot to say! I'm not a natural at routines and planning, so I was proud of what I managed to put together in those years! Now they're big kids and I have lots of help with the current little ones, though it's less orderly around here these days!
Three children at those ages is overwhelmingly! Just remember: 1) it’s supposed to be hard. It’s not hard because you’re not good at it. Things wouldn’t be better if you were different. They would still be hard because that’s normal. It’s like getting sore muscles, but this soreness will last a while. You WILL get through it and come out stronger in so many ways! 2) right now you are regulating your emotions AND the children’s, which is extremely taxing. Be patient with yourself. Empathize with them again and again. Romanticize as much as you can because a toddler handing you dandelions is a thing to delight in. Especially when they bring in dirt and roots with the dandelions! Laugh as much as humanly possible! 3) I liked “A Mother’s Rule of Life” by Holly Pierlot. Also Jennifer’s content was very calming for me! I tried to do more “routines” rather than keeping to a strict schedule by the clock. God bless you, sweet Mama!
I always look forward to your Monday morning videos! I was waiting for today’s! Thank you Jennifer!
Thank you!
This might be one of my favorite videos!I work 1 day a week (and have 6 kids and a military spouse) and I am always seeking inspiration on this topic. I also find if I have beautiful/inspirational tools, it helps. A pretty apron, towels that aren’t stained and ratty, nice smelling candles … it goes a long way for me!
Agreed! Recently I've made a point of keeping nice/pretty dishtowels in the kitchen, replace ratty/stained hand towels and dish rags as needed. It's cheering when you have something nice for ordinary use.
Hi Jennifer! I love your videos and those lovely new labels! I’m an educator and homemaker and doing my doctorate in equity/social justice and well-being studies so thought I would add this perspective: Over the course of history, homemaking was a collective process so I think women in modern society should remember not to feel guilty about expectations to do it all themselves! I like your point about getting help-if they can’t afford professional help, then we, as a supportive tribe can advocate for more affordable childcare and better wages for women to help other women! Also, self-compassion and self love is key-it’s ok to not feel enthusiastic about homemaking as well. It just may not be your thing or you may be in dire circumstances so you don’t need to love it and that’s ok! Last thing: some people with ADHD or low dopamine receptors might benefit from starting with the interesting task to get them going!
Anyway, just some food for thought . :)) You are an inspiration and I love your channel!
Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Your Pearl hair clip is lovely!
Thank you! It's by SKYE.
Jennifer maybe you can do a video where you talk to other women who work at an office full time and what they do? Or maybe not an interview but just get tips?
Folding laundry as I watch this. 😊❤️
Love these tips! Appearance is huge. My husband is a physician that sees patients at home. He has to keep the door closed due to privacy laws. It gets super hot in his office therefore i freeze in the rest of the house. I get dressed but find myself putting on layers, such as sweat pants and my robe on top of my jeans and top. I find myself less productive during these times. Guess I need to invest in a cardigan type coat. I am so ready for spring!!
I agree! I freeze in my house in the winter and feel lazy when I am bundled in layers. Can’t wait to break out my spring and summer wardrobe!
It would be amazing if your books were available on audible … Thank you so much for the video!
My in the zone is watching your videos ☺️
Great video Jennifer! Homemaking is something I always thought of as a product of yesteryear, until watching your videos. It’s just as vital in our society now as it ever was. Making a happy home for ones family is noble work.
Thank you! 💖
Thanks Jennifer. It’s interesting you comment about appearance - I always feel better if I put an effort into my clothes/makeup/hair. It just sets me up for success even if I am not going anywhere. It is important in my view. Love these suggestions as I begin to tackle my to-do list.
This is such a good advice. I'm sitting down right now to eat a healthy breakfast and not down a week at a glance with not only homemaking in mind, but self care as well.
It’s nice to offer ways to get inspired to stay motivated to care for one’s home.
Thank you, Denise!
Excellent ideas! I enjoy keeping a tidy home, but I even find myself uninspired at times. A laundry folding date was just what I needed to hear about today!
Thank you Jennifer. This was such a timely video. As a mother who is parenting a 4 yr old and 1 yr old full time, doing homeschool, and running a side hustle solo, I regularly feel completely overwhelmed with homemaking (even though I enjoy much of it)! I’m going to dig out the candles tomorrow and try to be a little more present while I’m cleaning up the perpetual messes that little ones make 😊
❤️Hello Jennifer & everyone❤️I have 4 children, two in there 20’s & 2 teenagers. With my older two growing up I made them do a chore a day. With my younger two I give them chores only on Saturdays. My older ones began complaining that they wanted to have free time & rest after getting back from school so I decided to only give chores on Saturdays to my younger two just to bring a balance. I can only hope & pray that as they watch me daily taking care of our home & family that they one day will do the same. My kids are all soo different, one of my girls is passionate about homemaking but the other total opposite. Both my boys are the same, one dreads doing chores & the other gladly helps whenever & often comes to help me food prep without even asking him.
Hi Jennifer, Knowing one’s self is essential! My Lyme disease causes low energy in the morning and much more energy after my noon nap! My zone is finishing up the kitchen after the children do the dinner dishes; I put on “kitchen” outfit, fill our white sink with bleach water and lightly bleach all our white countertops, missed smudges on white cabinets and any missed surfaces.
Then I light a candle, go get my shower and enjoy the beautifully cleaned kitchen for 12 hours! The family always notices and mentions how nice it is.
Thanks for the inspiration, Julie 🌷
It's so important to know yourself! I agree, Julie
One thing that changed everything for me was this: before I was frustrated because I was waiting for my homemaking to be done in order to have fun with me hobbies, but now I've changed my mindset and homemaking is officially my first hobby! I've found inner fullfilment and I'm satisfied with it, so now if I do ever have a munite to read a book it's a bonus, but I had fun in the meantime.
Very helpful tips!
Taking time for yourself!!
Such a great reminder
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I just finished your original book Lessons from Madame Chic and absolutely loved it!! 📖 I would love to see a video on how you balance your work and home life. I work from home and find it difficult and would love to know your tips!! Thanks for all you do! ❤
One thing thats helped me too is reminding myself that I like living in a clean home, myself. Like, it's not always about everyone else in the house. Tbh, the boys would happily live in much messier dirtier circumstances. But... *I* like a clean home.
One of my favorite videos from you in a long time! Thank you.
Thank you Jennifer for taking the time to give us nuggets of wisdom. Especially in the area of homemaking! The one I struggle with the most is asking for help. I am working on this. ☺
I love your channel. Listening to you feels like I am drinking a cup of tea and feeding my soul.
I try to stay positive about homemaking, but if I am honest, it has always been hard for me. I'm trying to change my mindset with daily affirmations. My Mother always worked because my Dad left our family when I was very young. My Mother didn't have the opportnity to attend school after 5th grade because of the poverty the family experienced in the decades following the depression. She was a lovely christian woman and she didn't have the opportunity to be a full-time homemaker, but she did the best that she could when she was at home. I always feel that my time is so divided between work and home, but I know I have to continue to work on improving my mindset, because everyone faces obstacles and I don't wa nt to be a bitter person.
Housework reminds you of when your dad left and your mom did everything? Unless this is your reality you have the chance to rewrite your life.
@@vintagejaki751 Wow! How did you arrive at that?
I love listening to/watching your videos while homemaking. You always inspire me!
Thanks Jennifer, a great point on the last point too, being aware of seasons where you might need extra help.
Jennifer, a bit off topic, but you really look vibrant when you wear some colors. Maybe because we almost see you in neutral or navy colors. Please wear more colors like this! You look lovely!
Thank you!
This video came at the perfect time for me! We just moved to a new home, and I'm finding it difficult to stay focused while we transition everything and renovate the kitchen. I'm very grateful that I have a home to make beautiful, a husband who supports my role as a homemaker, and children to care for. ❤
Thank you, Jennifer. Our attitudes do make a difference. Thank you for the much-needed inspiration. I am always looking to improve my homemaking skills.
Thank you, Luba!
Jennifer, I so understand extending your activity to listen to more of your book. I remember when I was working (retired now :) ). I would be in heavy traffic where folks seemed so impatient in their cars while I was in mine thinking that it was wonderful that I got to listen to more of my book!
Great tips! I do find that gratitude changes everything for me. I also love listening to podcasts and music while doing various chores around the house.
You are to me what madame sheik is to you. Thank you! This was so helpful!
Especially the part about finding homemaking inspirations and using social phone calls to keep us motivated while we do mundane things like dishes and laundry to feel more connected to life outside the house when feeling isolated.
I have listened to music and audiobooks, especially about work or about motivation, but it doesn?'t occur to me much to find inspiration about homemaking... Thank you!
Jennifer, I have enjoyed your channel here for a while, and decided that reading one of your Madame Chic books might be just what I need to gain enthusiasm like you mentioned. Just wanted you to know that all copies of your four books are checked out at my local library. I’m excited for you! I was pleased that the library has all of your books, too. Many blessings!
That's great news! Thank you for letting me know!
Hello Jennifer, I always enjoy your videos. After I watch them I feel a little more enthusiastic about my home care routine.Your always so nice and real.
Yes to the help. I paid to have my ironing done in a particularly busy time of my life it was a game changer! ❤❤
Excellent tips, Jennifer!
Your skin looks great!
Very grateful for this, Jennifer. Really needed it.💕
Thank you for the pep talk Jennifer and the tips to pull us back to joy 💜
These tips are so spot on! Love this, thanks Jennifer!
Thankyou Jennifer. I love, love, love these homemaking videos so much.
Can u plse make more. 🙏 I'm going thru a bit of a burn out stage right now so your video has helped get me back on track. Cheers Beverley ⚘⚘
I'm always listening to an audiobook. Then I finish the book and look for more chores so that I can start another one. 😅
I noticed your china pattern was Woodlands. I also have this pattern and mixed it with Julisca “Berry and Thread”.
They mix beautifully. Check them out 🌺
Merci ma chère Jennyfer
I really get inspired watching your homemaking videos especially the cooking or what's for dinner videos
You are spot on with all these tips. Thank you !
These tips are spot on and I’ve found them to work for me also. (I need to be more consistent though). Wonderful video, thanks Jennifer!
Hi Jennifer! Thanks for another great video. I was just wondering, about how much time do you give yourself at your daily tea time?
Having help was the best money I’ve spent. I hired a home health aide to take care of my dads needs, a dog trainer to play with our 3 doodles and also a house cleaner to do our floors 3 times a week since the dogs track in so much dirt. Surprisingly, these services are affordable and they take stress off my plate. They also help me avoid burnout. I much rather spend less in other areas and spend the money on services like these to give myself peace of mind and a break.
I just wore a nice blouse yesterday and made taquitos .. I worse an apron and still ruined it😩bad idea 🤣
Thank you for sharing . It is exactly what I am doing now…Taking a quick coffee break in between home making 😀 . Trying to catch up on videos also . You really are so helpful and encouraging.thank you. 👍🏻🇬🇧💛🤍
Loved this, Jennifer! Great advice. I especially loved that you started with Enthusiam, which comes from a Greek word that means "the God within". That probably explains why it's so helpful.
Just saw in the description for the candles. ThNk you for all you do ❤
Jennifer, Great tips and well earned I’m sure! What do you think about doing a video on where you find inspiration? It may be a great jumping off point for us your viewers as we implement these tips.
I am a new subscriber, and just wanted to post a note of my gratitude for you videos. The intermittent fasting videos are so lovely and have been very helpful. I am also practicing this eating style. It is simple, helpful, and healthy. I also think it is joyful!
Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here ♥️
Wonderful advice, Jennifer! Thank you for reminding me to get a new planner. I think it will help me keep up with my housework.😊
I dress nicely everyday, wear an apron and take plenty of tea breaks. I don't try to force myself to get everything done in one day.
Well said! Great advice!
Great video Jennifer! I always make time to wear makeup, style my hair and wear cute clothes, as looking my best brings out the best in my productivity at home.
Thank you so much for this video! 💗
Thank you for these words of wisdom, Jennifer! I agree wholeheartedly. I am naturally enthusiastic person and the seasons of burn-out affect me tremendously, and my whole outlook because my enthusiasm dies and I go into survival mode. I have been getting much better at handling these seasons, due to the methods you mention!
When I was a teenager, I read the book by Brian Tracy “Eat That Frog” and he talks about getting your hardest, most unpleasant tasks done first! It is a game changer.
Id also like to mention that there is a song releasing later this month that has been going viral on TikTok, I’ve heard, and it is absolutely atrocious towards home making, femininity, and hateful towards men in general. I’m so thankful we have your videos that show how to be elegant and authentic in homemaking and not vitriolic and vicious and bitter and hateful towards homemaking. ❤❤❤❤
What a great perspective, thank you! Your wisdom always shines through in your videos and certainly helps inspire us homemakers on our journeys.
I appreciate this video, enjoyed the tips thank you! Do you have a link for the candle which was beside you while speaking? Have a lovely week~
❤❤❤ Thank you for this video!!!!
This was so needed, Jennifer. Thank you! ❤
Thank u for such a great video. It definitely gives me some ideas that I can apply to the care of my home
There is such good wisdom here. I would like to share something that helped me that has been a game changer. I read or heard somewhere that managing our tasks to our energy levels. How I structure my day to keep me enthused is I do my morning tasks, make the bed, tidying, etc., and enjoy the rest of the morning, thus taking time for myself. At around noon, I do my deep cleaning. I love mornings and I didn't want to do my most of my chores during that time.
Great tip!
I motivate myself with the help of my Apple Watch. Although, my brain thinks that closing my exercise ring and getting a circle of fireworks on my watch is rather lame, my heart betrays me with a little leap of joy each time it happens. So, when I'm doing any type of housework, I put my watch on the Tai Chi workout to earn credit. Turns out I'm highly competitive with myself. I also blast any Santana album.
This is so helpful. Thank you.
Hello Jennifer. I like your idea of listening to an e-book while doing chores. Do you have any favorites to share? Thank you!
Any tips for homemaking with small children?
Such a fantastic video! Thanks Jennifer!
That’s important to not be interrupted. It’s hard when a husband is retired. They are usually home. Have you read about the retired husband syndrome?
Love this video! Thank you.
Thank you for today's video - perfect timing for me, I will keep your tips in mind! 💟
Thanks again for the wonderful tips! I love your homemaking videos 😊
This was lovely! Thank you for the tips Jennifer❤️
Beautiful ideas. I’m going to try. Thank you!
Wonderful
Inspiring video
Thank you!
The word enthusiasm originates from the Greek ἐνθουσιασμός from ἐν (en, “in”) and θεός (theós, “god”), meaning "inspired or possessed by [a] god"
You inspire us on and on. Txs.
I am interested in having a tea time every day. How much time do you allow for yourself?
What candles do you light. I notice you have one light often. I think it enhances calm. 😊
So helpful! ❤
Watching you dance in sweats and messy bun 😂❤ love it
Every season ... Do it with Enthusiasm
I agree on starting with appearance. Usually I wear a comfortable trouser, long sleeve shirt, indoor ballet flats, stud earrings. I like to brush my hair into a near high ponytail and apply a bold lip colour (red mostly). I feel when I am put together I am ready to work and face the day 😉 I notice when I have not started with my appearance, I feel lethargic or unmotivated with housework.
@Maddie C I just wear lipstick only. It is enough for me to feel I am ready to tackle the day like if I was getting ready to leave the house only that I am working in my home. Makeup is not necessary for housework of course. I've cleaned without lipstick but psychologically I don't feel like I have not prepared myself to be ready to work.
How long is your tea time?
I love taking pride in my home, but I hate cleaning the bathroom! That has been my job since I was a kid. I live alone and I'm 38 and I'm the only one who messes up the bathroom, but I still don't like it. It's a tiny windowless room with very little storage and no counter space. Any tips to help me not dread this room?
Maybe give it a makeover? There are scores of ideas and tips on pinterest for organizing small spaces, including bathrooms. Even a fresh coat of paint can be inspiring!