SHOULD I TELL THEM ABOUT MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS | Raja Zia ul Haq

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  • Don't get married before you watch this! Should you tell your future spouse about your past relationships before you get married?Find out in these essential tips and lessons by teacher/trainer Raja Zia ul Haq regarding the issue of marriage.
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  • @akshaythakare568
    @akshaythakare568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2072

    Hats off sir....👍👍i m hindu still listening.

  • @simrannavkhandewala6049
    @simrannavkhandewala6049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    He is such an amazing speaker I mean I m Hindu n I really loved his advice wow the way he explains things is just so smoothly and calmly cleared all my doubts 😍😍😍😍😍😍💯

  • @noreenarshad4429
    @noreenarshad4429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    Allah sb bachy bachiyon ko naik bnay or naik rishty ata frmay Ameen

  • @zeezeeshaan11
    @zeezeeshaan11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1686

    09:35
    Reason why u came here...
    Thank me later

    • @qurratulainkaleem7713
      @qurratulainkaleem7713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks😁

    • @zeezeeshaan11
      @zeezeeshaan11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@qurratulainkaleem7713 welcome..😂👍🏻

    • @mariamalik8969
      @mariamalik8969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks😛

    • @zeezeeshaan11
      @zeezeeshaan11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariamalik8969 Hehe, welcome..😋

    • @farahsayyed4443
      @farahsayyed4443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was actually forwarding the video, then i saw ur comment.. . helpful✌️

  • @takwaahmed7801
    @takwaahmed7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    When you started talking about if we should talk about past relationships.. i was shocked hearing that cz just 5-6 hours ago i was thinking about the same thing and ended up thinking, no i should cz maybe its a betrayal or something. And now this❤️ i got the actual answer, Subhan Allah, it means allah answers you every single thing via something.. Subhan Allah Alhamdulillah ❤️

    • @zahidarazaazhariqadri6784
      @zahidarazaazhariqadri6784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ryt

    • @koyibhiinahi7774
      @koyibhiinahi7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please always type Allah with A capital

    • @aqsa2188
      @aqsa2188 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@shaiksadique7153 what help do you need?

    • @sunnysidewalks4650
      @sunnysidewalks4650 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have the to include the additional line in the verse where our Lord says except if they repent.

    • @umayyakhan5639
      @umayyakhan5639 ปีที่แล้ว

      btana chiye apny husband ko apny past k bary me k nahi?

  • @bushrashafaat5284
    @bushrashafaat5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    One more pakistani gentleman after my favourite dr israr Ahmad, who inspired me too much...huge respect from india..

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister....m

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

    • @numansyed52
      @numansyed52 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@gokulee1652A person who truly repents is a pure person. What do you want to say.

  • @أميرةالإسلامماشاءالله
    @أميرةالإسلامماشاءالله 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    Don't cry for someone Allah already fixed best partner for you.
    In Shaa Allah.😉 faltu me dusron pe yaqin q krna.

    • @Anam_zing
      @Anam_zing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY
      @ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Allah ek ladki ka jindagi aabad rakhey aur her ek Ko himmath diey her ek mushkil ka Samna karneyki.

    • @everywhereigo007
      @everywhereigo007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY sirf ladki?🙄

    • @ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY
      @ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@everywhereigo007 typing mistake

    • @everywhereigo007
      @everywhereigo007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ShaikRubeenaRubYMgTAcademY Dua me har insan ko mention kia kro. kya pta tumhari Dua kisi ko lag jaye aur uski life sudhar jaye

  • @kaneezfatima-l2w
    @kaneezfatima-l2w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    My life is all about....having a serious issue....opens youtube
    .....nd solution here is waiting for me......SUBHAN ALLAH 💖🕋

  • @sumanali6495
    @sumanali6495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Beshuk, Allah Azeem hai, agr us ny ap k gunaho pr prda dal dia to ap ko bhi unhy dohrany ki zroort nhi 💕 hats off sir ✌

  • @Truthandtalestv
    @Truthandtalestv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Saved from this because of my parents tarbiyat and brother restrictions.. Alhamdolillah i m blessed .and soon getting married😍

    • @sofiasofia755
      @sofiasofia755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww mashallah 🥺
      May Allah bless you

    • @Quraishy
      @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mashallah
      You are awesome
      Same here

    • @ohdior6275
      @ohdior6275 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mashalllahhh 😊😊

    • @koyibhiinahi7774
      @koyibhiinahi7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sofiasofia755 please always type ma sha Allah like this with A capital

    • @koyibhiinahi7774
      @koyibhiinahi7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Quraishy please always type ma sha Allah like this with A capital

  • @tabinatariq9131
    @tabinatariq9131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pakistani people are so lucky to have these scholars and counsellors

  • @drkainatashraf
    @drkainatashraf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    the happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts 🌺

    • @styles_mufasa3106
      @styles_mufasa3106 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

    • @statusproducts2622
      @statusproducts2622 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      aap ka pout achha aaraha hai

    • @Quraishy
      @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a statement I just read out of no where, wow
      Wasn’t expecting this here lol

    • @ahsanmalook2342
      @ahsanmalook2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you wear hijab it will be great thing Sister 👌

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @ishatahsina920
    @ishatahsina920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I've got all the answer of my unasked questions! Thank you ❤

  • @dr.ansari3228
    @dr.ansari3228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be shak Allah parda dal deta hai. Toba shart hai.
    Gunah kar ke us ko batana us se bada gunah hai. Ilaniya gunah aur bada gunah hai.
    May Allah accept our sincere toba. And give isteqamat on it. A'ameen.🌸

  • @bhavyataneja4604
    @bhavyataneja4604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    These are truly mature words inculcating a feeling of peace. Thankyou!!

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here is the truth ; surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @ztv8383
    @ztv8383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    MashaAllah bohot hi behtareen knowledge diye aap... Love from an Indian muslim staying in Kuwait.. Superb!

  • @roshnifariha6419
    @roshnifariha6419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Alhamdulillah not married yet.but saved from fitna. my parents taught me well

    • @classesbyfayazkhatti5230
      @classesbyfayazkhatti5230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @ItsMe-zr9xf
      @ItsMe-zr9xf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alhamdulillah I m also

    • @JohnyBhiduri
      @JohnyBhiduri 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And what if you will get a wife who has some previous relationship and you get to know about it 1- from her 2-from someone other.

    • @ItsMe-zr9xf
      @ItsMe-zr9xf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JohnyBhiduri bhai ye Islamic speaker ki video hai Yha tere jaise logo ka kaam nhi
      Apne kisi bhajan wali video me jaa

    • @raees140
      @raees140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JohnyBhiduri u can forgive her if u have a big heart. But make sure she changes after that

  • @zoyaparveen4603
    @zoyaparveen4603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    Title topic starts 9:34... thanks me later...

  • @rupali303
    @rupali303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    i dont feel it's needed to accept Islam bt if u follow the Islam it would be more better..(heartly wanna say it teaches u amazing thngs) inshallah God will bless everybody..I'm hindu N wd no issue no doubt i luv Islam ❤️2.

    • @KingKhan-bi7kb
      @KingKhan-bi7kb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed you have said truth

    • @truthprevails0629
      @truthprevails0629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      May Allah guide you to true path.

    • @ItsMe-zr9xf
      @ItsMe-zr9xf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are u reverting to islam?

    • @syedateeqzada9396
      @syedateeqzada9396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hats off u . Bt if something is teaching u amazing things it means that thing is also amazing so if u accept it ,, it would be more fruitful to u Inshallah . May Allah give guidance to everyone 🖤

    • @roomijan9800
      @roomijan9800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Than u must to accept Islam

  • @maahich2400
    @maahich2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    kitni pyari bat kahi h apne Bhai k Jin gunahon py ALLAH Pak ne parda dal h ussko mat uthao Dil py lagi ye bat 💘

  • @aziz_payami
    @aziz_payami 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This speech boosted me up in hardship. May Allah reward the Speaker.
    Do Come to India, people here are very fond of this talks

    • @MohammedAhmed-gj6vr
      @MohammedAhmed-gj6vr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Acha 🤨

    • @farahmughal9726
      @farahmughal9726 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ji

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

    • @sadiyasiddiqui1217
      @sadiyasiddiqui1217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Gicybb Jcybh when did I ask you

    • @raees140
      @raees140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sadiyasiddiqui1217 good reply to hypocrites. There was 1 person commenting such things but he himself had girls images on his wall. These men have mny GFS n want women to b pure.

  • @ravenous200
    @ravenous200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    your sense of humor during teaching is a great touch.

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @koushikhridoy8180
    @koushikhridoy8180 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You want us to hide our sins but encourage us to lie!
    Wow! What a lesson!

    • @LIFEISPAIN-mf4bg
      @LIFEISPAIN-mf4bg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lying is not always bad if it save relations

  • @rehanakalekazi4075
    @rehanakalekazi4075 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tqsm sir apka byan bhut acha tha & I proudly say I born in Islamic family allha ka lakh lakh shukar h allha sbko Naik hidayat deee sahi raste pr chalne ki toufiq ata farmaye ameen😊😊

  • @rahul3014
    @rahul3014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Such a great advice get your children married at right time.

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @ssimarsimar2395
    @ssimarsimar2395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Such a wonderful speech.... First muslim person who just blew my mind..... So liberal so logical .. great sense of humour.... I mean what a person...

    • @SaddamHussain-we9ec
      @SaddamHussain-we9ec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Watch Islamic channels you'll find countless Muslims even greater than him
      But bcoz of prejudice n hatred spread by politicians n media you've developed an image of muslim back in your mind which is not so great.

    • @Babybutterfly.01
      @Babybutterfly.01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mufti menk, nouman ali Khan and many more
      I hope you will thank me later sister

  • @fahadahmad4187
    @fahadahmad4187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Bohat Zabrdast aur Asan Samjhaya Zia bhai apne.. ALLAH swt hum sab ki tauba qabool kary ...Say Aameen 24 August 2019...

  • @iqraqueenofislam2899
    @iqraqueenofislam2899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alhumdulah I Am Muslim...
    Awesome One... I Really Love To Listen This...

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister....m

  • @earthangelexplore7159
    @earthangelexplore7159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I'm 29 and not married yet but alhumdulilla the fitna of whats happening I am very protected from! My parents taught me well, hayya of the eyes, hayya of the mind, etc.
    I live in the West, born and grew up here. I do not feel temptation because my mind never goes that way alhumdulilla, alhumdulilla. Please know if you cannot marry right now, you can protect yourself from sin inshaAllah. Allah makes is easy !
    Please be careful and know to protect your pure heart. If you've done something, watch things, etc please know you are hurting yourself. Be compassionate towards yourself and strive to be better. Allah will strengthen you. :)

  • @anamalfiya7360
    @anamalfiya7360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I had tears in my eyes❤️ Istaghfar is the key ❤️ be prepared for aakhirah❤️

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here is the truth : surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you

  • @sadafbashir5787
    @sadafbashir5787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Loved the way he put forth the issue in a great manner

    • @Anam_zing
      @Anam_zing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Multizacy
    @Multizacy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Topic starts at 09:50.
    Like me as you find it.

  • @noumannomi007
    @noumannomi007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Job k baad larky k ghar walay or larky ki tarbiyat dekhain. Allah sab k naseeb achay kary. Ameen

    • @ghazaljan8724
      @ghazaljan8724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Q larky ki tarbiyat na dekhien??? 😑

    • @noumannomi007
      @noumannomi007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ghazaljan8724 😒😒 mene kya bola hai jo ap ko reply krna parh rha hai😒 ankhoon se read karain or nazar ka masla ho tw ankhoon ka ilaaj karwaien shukriya

  • @abdulmoiz7271
    @abdulmoiz7271 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah humhare itne sare gunhano per parda dal dete h ..to hum khon hote h kise ka ayeeb nikalne wale ..it's amazing to watch and listen this video ..

  • @asiftahashildar
    @asiftahashildar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    😍 awesome line "Gade huve murde ko khodne ki jarurat nahi" allah apko khush rakhe

    • @nayabafroz469
      @nayabafroz469 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Write Allah with capital A

    • @salahuddin4685
      @salahuddin4685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what if I want to marry a virgin girl & I put this condition as a requirement??? I will not ask her that she did this or not only I will ask her to not agree on this marriage if she did this. I have all the right to marry a virgin girl if I want to.

  • @ammansharif1732
    @ammansharif1732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SHOULD I TELL THEM ABOUT MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS : answer starts from 9:30

  • @sabafatima132
    @sabafatima132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got my answer Alhamdulillah shukriya sir bhoot bhoot apka Mii bhoot shukr guzaar hoo may Allah give success in marrriages

  • @noumannomi007
    @noumannomi007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with u sir. Kisi ko bhi apny puraani muhabbtain purani buraiyan bv bachoon k saamny na lai or naaw hi awrat ko chaheya.

  • @ummehurairat1713
    @ummehurairat1713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I made this mistake and that thing is complicating my life. But Alhamdulillah Ala kulli haala. I ask Allah for patience.

    • @kausarpatel1441
      @kausarpatel1441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I pray to allah ur dreams comes true.. Inshaallah

    • @aminamajeed9061
      @aminamajeed9061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Will pray for u dear sister

    • @raees140
      @raees140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@livelife8600 what happened sister..

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @ayeshsaashukhan6849
    @ayeshsaashukhan6849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Agar thoda sa bhhi boldoghe past ke bareme apka maan bhhi haalka hoga our unko bhhi bharosa ajayie ga ki kuch baat nhi chupate... Agar wo Acha insan hai toh. Agar wo insan ki niyat kharab hai toh mat boliye warna Puri life Shaq Mei guzarjayie gi apki 😇😇😇😇😇Allha Tala hamesha Sath hai 💖💖💖

    • @sheryazkhan1680
      @sheryazkhan1680 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aur agr baad me pata chala.. to dono ki life barbaad 😁 Jhoot nahi chupta kabhi

    • @ayeshsaashukhan6849
      @ayeshsaashukhan6849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sheryazkhan1680 Humne bhhi wahi kaha bolna chahiye lakin insan ki niyat bhhi depend hoti hai

  • @samaakhan8966
    @samaakhan8966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The way you explain everything is soo wonderful. I can listen to you without getting bored.

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @tanweeransari1309
    @tanweeransari1309 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After watching this video and reading comment I'm more depressed then before . I think now i know my aim just pray all prayers give zakat respect everyone and give dawah just now live like yusuf a.s wait for my life in jannat to get married

    • @AneesaFathima-cc9jg
      @AneesaFathima-cc9jg หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry to bother...
      But what really happened?❤

    • @innocentfd6364
      @innocentfd6364 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@AneesaFathima-cc9jg He is conserned like me because in the last part it was told that its ok if someone make tawba and hide about past. This is still a scam, since everyone can and will exploit this to hide any affairs or intimate relationship and get married to someone who has kept themselves protected from the fitna.

  • @shinningstar1882
    @shinningstar1882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Allah ap ko ajar de. aur buland mukam de dunia main b aur akhrat main b

  • @zainishahzad32
    @zainishahzad32 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i jst became fan of this person bht hi koi achii batain kr rhe hain

  • @shagaffaridi1530
    @shagaffaridi1530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Jazak Allah Khair May Allah bless you with good health, long life, All happiness and Success in this world and Aakhirah too Aameen 🤲🤲🤲

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @aimanabbasi1639
    @aimanabbasi1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    According to your lecture, there is an important concept of shariah related to marriage which is kafa'ah.. we need to follow that principle in order to avoid these problems after marriage

  • @mahreenparveen8606
    @mahreenparveen8606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Video content starts at 09:32 but it's worth to watch the whole video. Thank me later, lol.

  • @shabihusain3901
    @shabihusain3901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I loved your accent...it's captivating. Truth behind sarcasms and jokes.

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister

  • @zafeerahmad4705
    @zafeerahmad4705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yours videos are superbbb and the best way of teaching for the current generation.

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @AyeshA-Mano
    @AyeshA-Mano ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah Now finally I got mah awnser that I was very worried about 😢❤ Thank you so much ☺️❤ JZAKALLAH ✨🥰

  • @desilifeinamerica2880
    @desilifeinamerica2880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hey there 😊 Salaam👋.
    Raja brother I agree that we should get married earlier but here's the thing: it's not as if our society encourages it...
    Quite the opposite,in fact... Sad but true... 😏😏

  • @ukhtifiljannah4681
    @ukhtifiljannah4681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazakallahu khayrr 🌹
    May Allah bless you and increase you in knowledge. Finally my heart is at peace ALhumdulilah!
    Verily ALLAH is Great اللّٰہ اکبر

  • @majimohr
    @majimohr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love his personality 🔥🔥🔥

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @dr.shakibabushratabassum24
    @dr.shakibabushratabassum24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah keep ur guidance,services for mankind progress every year ahead.

  • @ayushmarskoley5822
    @ayushmarskoley5822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mere maut shirk mae na hoo please allah sae dua krro😭😭

  • @MuhammadTalha-zr5pt
    @MuhammadTalha-zr5pt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the person who become great with great works that highlighted for ages

  • @ainnekhan6565
    @ainnekhan6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    JAZAK ALLAH..... MY CONFUSION IS NOW CLEARED.. STAY BLESSED BROTHER

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @Naaz8988
    @Naaz8988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so so true...please don't ever share your past with anyone...Allah toh maaf bhi karde par bande maaf nai karenge

    • @Quraishy
      @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s not always that simple,
      If the man doesn’t want to marry such a woman or vice versa then it a surely cheating.

    • @Fish-lover278
      @Fish-lover278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Quraishy its not a cheating at all...

    • @Quraishy
      @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Fish-lover278 lying is cheating.
      If someone wants an untouched wife he deserves an untouched wife. Not someone who was enjoying by a man before and that to for free without him paying any mahr.

    • @salahuddin4685
      @salahuddin4685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Fish-lover278 , so you are the new prophet now??? its 100% cheating, what if I want to marry a virgin girl & I put this condition as a requirement??? I will not ask her that she did this or not only I will ask her to not agree on this marriage if she did this. I have all the right to marry a virgin girl if I want to.

  • @naimakhatun3904
    @naimakhatun3904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subhanallah what a video....... ☺️
    This video is deserve 1 million views ☺️

    • @koyibhiinahi7774
      @koyibhiinahi7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please always type subhan Allah like this with A capital

  • @sayanidholey1773
    @sayanidholey1773 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't understand y people r saying that i am hindu still i like his advices. Don't look at the person's religion guys. Here listen his words . U r hindu or Muslim it doesn't matter.

  • @sadiashabbir4746
    @sadiashabbir4746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much Sir
    May Allah grant you healthy life ahead Ameen♥️ Stay blessed

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @nishatzahannedra1364
    @nishatzahannedra1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN, SIR.❤️
    YOU AND THE YOUTH CLUB'S FAMILY HELP ME SO MUCH TO BE DEVOTED MYSELF TO OUR RABB, ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA... MAY ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA BLESS YOU AND US. AMEEN
    🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @kayc.8283
    @kayc.8283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I feel so bad for the youth of today who are waiting for marriage fully knowing the chances of them finding a partner who did the same are slim to none. 😔

    • @nord7556
      @nord7556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True I am a teenager in my junior college and I don't have even one friend who is not involved in an illicit relationship I worry a lot sometimes. 🙊

    • @noork.631
      @noork.631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May ALLAH SWT protect us.
      The solution is simple if ppl stop looking at the past sins those which even angles hv forgotten. Then it prevents ppl from zina even more.

    • @FaisalKhan-iw6tw
      @FaisalKhan-iw6tw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have good faith and good opinion brothers. There are pious souls out there. May Allah give us goodness

    • @asphalt9legendstipsandtric598
      @asphalt9legendstipsandtric598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Accept the fact most likely your future wife has done it,,,most girls get enough invitation and no human can reject that many,,,the longer they wait the more they do it,,,,so try to find but younger like around 20 amd keep supporting her education and her dream/jobs after marriage. Most Boys get rejected and stay virgin well into their marriage in their 30s,,,,There is wide imbalance in their experience

    • @asphalt9legendstipsandtric598
      @asphalt9legendstipsandtric598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was virgin and waited till marriage and married a 18 yr old (she is still bit mentally immature lol,,and I don't mind it,,,I will also support her dreams and education as per my capability,,,, luckily I am almost sure she was inexperienced,,,, because as a human we can never be sure of something

  • @sidrayounas194
    @sidrayounas194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish k ya main pehly sun laiti..
    🥺
    But Allah na mujh pa mehrbani bhi boht ki
    Alhumdulliah

  • @HafizullahChishtii
    @HafizullahChishtii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May Allah Bless Us And Guide Us Towards Right Path ....
    Aameen

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

    • @Taskeen_Ansari
      @Taskeen_Ansari ปีที่แล้ว

      Aameen

  • @abdulrahimqasim9562
    @abdulrahimqasim9562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zia bhai mein aapki baatein sun kr boht mutassir hota hun!

  • @ghazalafarooq1024
    @ghazalafarooq1024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Allah kehta hai tum kisi ki bat par parda dalo main tuhary gunahon par parda dal don ga .

    • @bushrazia8905
      @bushrazia8905 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bilkul sahi kha....but ab to kuch alag hi hai jeena ni diya jata insaan ko

  • @nimraabdulrasheed4527
    @nimraabdulrasheed4527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah sab ka parda rakhny Wala ha. Beshak🥺🥺

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister..........

  • @aishaahmad7909
    @aishaahmad7909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Marvelous, outstanding, jazaak Allah Khair

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

  • @Wgh552
    @Wgh552 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah raham karay bht dar lgta ha shadi say jab aise baetya sunitay ha

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister....m

  • @missnilofershaikh6656
    @missnilofershaikh6656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah Mashallah 😊 what a perfect answer to all Questions 👍🏻 Alhamdulillah

    • @koyibhiinahi7774
      @koyibhiinahi7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please always type ma sha Allah like this with A capital

  • @saimahamid2071
    @saimahamid2071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely rght...sir...may Almighty Allah bless you alwayz with good health and happiness in every fields of lyf....

  • @mohammadzahid-al-hasan7895
    @mohammadzahid-al-hasan7895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Please deliver your speeches with english subtitle.... So that we foreigners can understand each and every precious words.

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But If Someone Ask Then You Should Tell The Truth.

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @iramkhan.1432
    @iramkhan.1432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Answer starts at 10:23 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @startlearningwithkhanjunai4698
    @startlearningwithkhanjunai4698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ society need these kind of workshops on basic level.....

  • @tasneemfarah7616
    @tasneemfarah7616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best islamic channel😍♥️🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @muhammadmujahid1186
    @muhammadmujahid1186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You people are doing a very good job may ALLAH give you ajar Ameen

  • @abdulbariqureshi6330
    @abdulbariqureshi6330 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Theek farmaya apne. Allah pak ap jese or log peda kare ameen

  • @waqashussain4316
    @waqashussain4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Recently had breakup and since then I was wondering about weather I tell my future Wife about my past or not.
    Alhamdulillah got my answers❤️❣️

    • @maishajannat5303
      @maishajannat5303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't understand his language. What is he told??? Should we tell about our past? 🍁

    • @waqashussain4316
      @waqashussain4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maishajannat5303 on 9;40 and onward he said "Agar Allah ne hamaray gunahon pe parda dala huwa tu un se prada na uthayn" lekin ye us case main ha ke agar ap sab khatam kr chkay aur taoba kr li ha (If Allah has covered our sins, then do not uncover them. ”But only in that case, if you have finished and did Astaghfar);
      hope you get your answer sis if not let me I will explain it again.

    • @maishajannat5303
      @maishajannat5303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@waqashussain4316 thank u. I understand.. ❤️

    • @waqashussain4316
      @waqashussain4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maishajannat5303 your welcome 🤗

    • @UsamaAkhter
      @UsamaAkhter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maishajannat5303
      Agar Kisi Nai Pocha To Phir Sach Batana Chahiye Kun Ke Usne Pocha Hai.

  • @talharock6063
    @talharock6063 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Al-hamdullilah very proud to have a Teacher like u. Hatts off for u sir

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister

  • @ShahRukhKhanOG
    @ShahRukhKhanOG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank me later, go to 09:50 direct

  • @aroash7985
    @aroash7985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From 9:35 - 11:03 [There should be a correction] yes u can do it if they dont ask u about it but if the person that you r getting married to or his/her parents ask you about that and you dont tell them about it then remember“Confound not truth with falsehood, nor knowingly conceal the truth.”(Quran-Al-Baqarah Ayat-42)

    • @Qalbiwrites
      @Qalbiwrites ปีที่แล้ว

      Hn to tm btadena

    • @gokulee1652
      @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the truth , surah noor (24:3)
      Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
      Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
      Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

  • @sanaramz7079
    @sanaramz7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's peaceful for me ... Alhumdulillah

    • @RONYYYYY
      @RONYYYYY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum
      Ek rss bhai hue musalman
      Unka pura incident unke zubaani
      Dosto channel ko subscribe kare
      th-cam.com/video/_BbvdfEIxOw/w-d-xo.html
      Thanks brother and sister....m

  • @chandni8865
    @chandni8865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha allah awesome speech apki allah hum sabko hidayath de

  • @murtu01
    @murtu01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    9.45 if u want the title

  • @happys7417
    @happys7417 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apne MERI bahot Bari tenshn khatam KR di thanks alot sir

  • @emaduddin1877
    @emaduddin1877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Look everyone has their past so just live what you have right now
    For example everyone made a mistake in their school, college days but you make taubah then Allah SWT hide that from the people

    • @zuhaabid2514
      @zuhaabid2514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It becomes a mistake when a couple doesn't marry each other. Girls usually don't think its just until he or she gets a spouse

    • @reezis1619
      @reezis1619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@zuhaabid2514 yes exactly, they have multiple relationship and keep their desires fulfilled until the day of marriage comes after they got their degree. That is when tawbah comes into play, this is abusing Islam, this is not what a pious muslim does

    • @arbutt2004
      @arbutt2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      agr apka past open hojye toh phr zalalat hojti hai tauba thk hai par kbi bhi kuch hoskta hai relation ko past ka bta kr start lyna chye humye

    • @Anam_zing
      @Anam_zing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/channels/S3VRMhs3lT4CRkK1X2l7aA.html

    • @abdullahajaz1844
      @abdullahajaz1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@zuhaabid2514 yeah brpther if i have stayed away from haram, i wont be marrying a girl who has illicit relationshios in past, i dont care even she claims to be righteous and and pious now, where was this rightiosness before, now you want to get married so you decide to become good mislimah, go to hell, past is past, you cannot change it amd i will never accept it

  • @qudsiyakhan5005
    @qudsiyakhan5005 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you does vey good job sir ???? this question is remain in my mind untill i not watch this vedio but after to watch this ....all things have been clear....

  • @Quraishy
    @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wonder if all those loving this video on here and commenting have had past relationships 🤔
    That they are so happy about this.
    I can tell you in Saudi and middle eastern courts and during nikah in haram mosques they directly mention if the girl is a ‘virgin’ or not, as it’s the critical part of the contract.

    • @mohammadabdullah2848
      @mohammadabdullah2848 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by "Haram Mosques" ?

    • @Quraishy
      @Quraishy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mohammadabdullah2848 it’s not haram mosques, I meant to say harm mosques, the two holy mosques, makkah and medinah.
      Sorry for misunderstanding.

  • @gokulee1652
    @gokulee1652 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here is the truth : surah noor (24:3)
    Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers.
    Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
    Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you

  • @idain9048
    @idain9048 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why should they have past relationships. Cant they be careful from the beginning?
    During my college days,multiple girls proposed me. I told them "Stay Halal".
    Pray for me that I get a virgin /pious wife for me.Her looking wont be matter to me.

    • @zid.shortreels4944
      @zid.shortreels4944 ปีที่แล้ว

      U are virgin but majority of girls are not virgin

    • @arizkabir2628
      @arizkabir2628 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly brother, exactly

    • @zsafdar1482
      @zsafdar1482 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also have same issues.Man honestly i feel scared about even getting married nowadays because what if i got a woman that was having haram relationships.

  • @MoinHussain
    @MoinHussain 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    True says sir thanks for such a beautiful advice, Islam is the best and true religion in the world ALLAHUAKBAR and every habit of MUHAMMAD S.A.W is best for our life

  • @shaiqueshaikh9784
    @shaiqueshaikh9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha-Allah... very well said Zia bhai, what u have just told, everything is so true and presently people have been doing the same, cheating, fraud, lies,

  • @bloodychamp6153
    @bloodychamp6153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    9:34 u will really get your answer.

  • @nazishamil5056
    @nazishamil5056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    based on truth!!
    lots of love

  • @Vistashacyc
    @Vistashacyc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shukriya ye chiese main humesha sochti thi pr islamic rule nei maalum thi toh bhaijan shukriya batane k lye.

    • @princexander4128
      @princexander4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ab mat btana husband ko

    • @Vistashacyc
      @Vistashacyc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Allah ka shukr hai kabhi gumrha nei hue. Jo galtiyan kri hain wo asi nei jo chupana pade . Apne husband ko sari bata denge. Perents ne humesha bataya tha jo chiese unse chupana pade wo galat hai.

    • @princexander4128
      @princexander4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Vistashacyc isme gussa hone wali koi baat ni but kuch baatien hoti h jo btaiye ni jati usse rishte kamzoor ho jate h

    • @Vistashacyc
      @Vistashacyc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nei nei gusse se nei bol rahi bhaijan. Aaram se bol ri hun. 😂

    • @princexander4128
      @princexander4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Vistashacyc aye bhaijan ni m haaaa😑😑😑tum kha se hooooo

  • @muhammadhamzaasif2128
    @muhammadhamzaasif2128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sometimes past matters a lot. Past ko discuss kar lo to behtar hai agar dill manay to Phir han kro warna aagay divorce ki shakal main nuksan hota hai.
    Mostly apnay past pay koi regret nahi karta bohat kum hotay hain jo Tobah karyn warna loog aik ko choor ko dosray ko dhoondnay lagg jatay hain. Regret koi koi hota hai

  • @dr.zufishakhan7164
    @dr.zufishakhan7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    9:35 is the answer..👍

  • @MDKAMAL-lz3eo
    @MDKAMAL-lz3eo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Masha Allah ...
    Achi topic pr video bani hai Hazrat ...

  • @abadkhansafi
    @abadkhansafi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only Raja Zia ul Haq Fans Hit like