God bless you Casey. I’ve had a spiritual awakening this summer and everything is much clearer now. Through prayer and fasting, I’m down 34 pounds from June from 247-213. Semen retention is a big component as well in containing and eradicating lust from my mind. I simply follow Christ now. No more doing things according to my own will. I conquer my mind, I will conquer the world. Keep your eye on God, as women need to be spiritually led. Make sure you’re ready for that day. *Stay strong men, don’t give up the fight.* 🗿
Casey....dude.. THIS is it. This is why my GF has been doing all these things to pull away/make excuses/show that she is fine not hitting me up etc etc. ANYONE reading this comment before watching this video, NEEDS to watch this entire video. I need to fix this immediately. It is as if I always have a different "tone" of voice when I speak to her and I am starting to realize it is not showing that i am 'in my masculine frame'. I am definitely going to focus on ME again, and stop the impatience I started to show with her when I sensed something was off. Thank You for this content Casey. Seriously, there really is nobody else that gets this deep into the EXACT things that us guys need to work on when we act on lust...I just never knew how to go about changing this needy outlook I have with my gf bc its ruining things
Casey I am beyond impressed with you and how you embrace your calling. No doubt God will use you in great ways. A real man serves the Lord and it looks like you are there.
This message sits with how the Holy Spirit has been moving with me in my journey with God and women. Praying for ya bro. God has approved many of your thoughts in my spirit that I’ve applied . Thanks much 🙏🏻
Very liberating message, not just in relation to women but in life in general. Don't try to make people like you and you feel instantly feel a heavy burden is been lifted from you.
I believe God is working through you. I've been struggling in all of my relationships. They all gone bad because of my jealousy and me over loving my woman. I needed help really bad and I just recently came across your videos and compared to all the other ones from other channels your videos are helping me the most and make the most sense. I wish I had some money to send just to show my appreciation but unfortunately right now I'm not able to but big thank you and God Bless!
Your channel came along for me at the right time. I am trying to control my lust, kick some bad habits, and work on my goals - FOR ME, NOT for a woman! I don't know what it was specifically, but it was during one of your videos where you talked about the general mistakes modern men make in the dating game. There was a certain moment where I had a very clear epiphany - "Wow! I DO go weak for women, their beauty, their sex, hell, even their mere PRESENCE." And I decided that I was simply done with that mode of thinking. As a guy who has struggled majorly in the dating game, I feel like your take was just the freshness I needed to keep on the path.
This explains why "The Art of Seduction" mostly illustrates men who attract women through feminizing their behavior, then leaving them before the fantasy wears off. Lust is a feminine way of evoking value, like the phases of the moon it is a continuous process. Mastery of focus and taking action is man's way of increasing value. Its like the heat and energy continuously produced by the sun.
Thank you Casey. I am going thru a divorce and have a good life but am alone. Been tempted everyday to just go look for companionship but you. Like really you and this channel calm my mind and strengthen me everyday to refocus, be patient and be a man. God has used you to help me for sure
9:47 Yes, please go this direction with your channel. I watch every upload lately and they are so insightful and make so much damn sense. You are THE MAN...thank you Casey
Wow! Defender of men! That’s so powerful. What an awesome video!!! I’m really proud of you for speaking this truth. Men really need to learn this stuff. I have a 17 year old son with a Dad who isn’t teaching him any of this. I’m so happy I found your channel. Sending this to him:))
One of your best videos. Probably not going to be as popular because people don’t want to hear this and STOP chasing the same things they always have. Remember…you don’t need anything outside of you. Referencing your value based on what other people think of you, including women, is simply mental weakness.
This message allows me to be more at ease and being able to enjoy my life through further forwarding on my mission. I have had enough red pill crap. It was a trend and I can now see it with the help of channels like yours. God bless you Casey. Stay strong.
She juss using that as leverage to get what she wants, just say fuck her and do whatever u want to do. Child support is just a small % of ur money, you’ll have the rest of it to do whatever u want.
if you are weak for women, take a Year or Two out of you life and focus on developing the strength and attitude to view all woman as just another person (nothing more). mastering that skill will go a long way in our life.
I broke up a relationship of 1.5 years, about 3 weeks ago, with a girl I really loved and liked the way she made me feel when we were near each other. Unfortunatelly she is a big narcisist and puts her ego and needs ahead of everything, even when we had plans to get married I already overcame the break up and I'm feeling better. But the point is her parents are really religious people (very different from her, who believes but do not practise, and actually do the contrary most of the times) and I get connected with these beliefs I really like the timming where you started uploading these videos the exact moment I broke up with her. What I need the most right now is to put my priorities in order and to love God above everything. Thank you very much for you effort helping guys like me!!!
Casey this is a wonderful change in direction for you and it is directly beneficial to me and your audience. I hear you loud and clear. I know you're on your path helping me and others who are listening to you. I am certainly stronger as a result of your insights and know others are as well.
God bless you, keeps you safe and focus bro! 👍🏻💪🏻 As a 50yo man, I learned instinctively and by experience much of the stuff you teach, but I remember how lost and clueless I felt as a teen and a young adult, and realize how invaluable help it would have be to count with the info and guidance you provide. I'm sure you are a huge positive influence and guide to many young men struggling out there . 👏🏻👍🏻💪🏻
You're the man and you're helping to make men of us all period none of this is cheesy and it's all meaningful and substantive. Please keep making these and we'll keep sharing them. We all become better and stronger for it. #hedman#1%r#strong
Amazing video. God always leads me to videos that I need to see at just the right time, for the season of life that I’m in. I saw this just in time. Thank you Casey. God truly is working through you.
If it clicks with you, then obviously you are on the right path. What you are doing seems pretty natural, you are quite lucky to have found your niche where everything falls into place. I’m not saying everything is easy and fell into your lap, it took time and commitment like every other great thing.
"When you treat her how you think you need to treat her to make her like you she will 100% not like you." - Casey Zander Thank you for sharing this piece with us 🙏🏽😌
The majority of men don’t understand the game, there’s a reason why men are not eligible for sex if they are broke, but soon as they get rich or famous, it’s easy to get a trophy wife, that’s because they are only after our money, the only woman that truly loves us is our mother’s, all these women only see 🤑💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰
That may be really common but that's not God's intended plan. I believe the only way a marriage can even stand a chance is if it's done the way in which God has determined it to be done.
Casey, I know that none of us men want to have a younger man school us, or get more attention then us..but I actually do believe you are the real deal, and quite possibly sent to tell us this. I know its crazy...but as a sane man I'm saying I believe this to be true. I never thought I'd ever give a man on TH-cam this kind of valudation
Wow. I have no doubt in my mind that God is working through you Casey. Today's message truly helped me start to see my God given purpose in ways I couldn't even fathom before clicking. You truly are the defender of man.
I always say to you thank you for the videos and I always be the first one with jumping video. I love the seat every day. I’m not Casey’s once I’m groceries three times. Just tell him about how to get better and to tell you I did the webinar yesterday and today at 1 PM And I didn’t know you have another video until I’m done and still never find a girlfriend I’m not lying to you. I don’t know why it’s not been because of me maybe because I’m lucky thank you my man thank you for everything you do if I see you in real life, I’ll give me the big hug even on the stranger to you I just want to say thank you for everything you’ve done you are the best captain for me, and thank you for your webinar and I told you I never skipped one except two days ago but I never skip one
just found your channel bro !! this what I been looking for ! and this is one of my favorate videos ever, it was literally spot on I can't describe it . thank u !
God is definitely working through your life. No one on the Internet is teaching this and anyone that’s fortunate enough to come across this content will become a real man if they take time to listen and learn God has put this guy on this planet for this reason lonely voice in the wilderness, in the mist of misinform misleaders with regard to most of the content creators. Knowledge is power and wisdom and real knowledge have always been and will always be in the hands of the few minority, not the many God bless you, Kay Zander. but your gift is your curse always polarities I guess
I’m sorry Casey I know it’s too long just to tell you how much I appreciate you. Thank you. Because you remind me of my brother he’s not with me now it’s kind of sad but every time I see you I number my brother. Thank you Casey.
Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
event.webinarjam.com/go/live/20/0vw7msni1s7s2
Coming from someone who sells courses through webinars, this webinar gets a 100 out of 100.
you are so feminine, when you try so hard to find a angle to show your arm in thumbnail
Thank you my brother for everything you are doing. You are much appreciated. God bless you.
God has 100% led me to your channel.
Love how you incorporated god. Proverbs 31:3 NLT do not waste your strength on women, on those who ruin kings
King machaa
Amen- the word is timeless and it is alive; there is nothing new under the sun.
“Don’t try to make people like you!” That was very heavy
I am a woman and I have to say that everything you say is correct😊
Conquer Lust ❤️🔥 Conquer Life 🧬
Thanks!
God bless you Casey. I’ve had a spiritual awakening this summer and everything is much clearer now. Through prayer and fasting, I’m down 34 pounds from June from 247-213. Semen retention is a big component as well in containing and eradicating lust from my mind. I simply follow Christ now. No more doing things according to my own will. I conquer my mind, I will conquer the world. Keep your eye on God, as women need to be spiritually led. Make sure you’re ready for that day. *Stay strong men, don’t give up the fight.* 🗿
well done man
God bless you, Brother.
Casey....dude.. THIS is it. This is why my GF has been doing all these things to pull away/make excuses/show that she is fine not hitting me up etc etc. ANYONE reading this comment before watching this video, NEEDS to watch this entire video. I need to fix this immediately. It is as if I always have a different "tone" of voice when I speak to her and I am starting to realize it is not showing that i am 'in my masculine frame'. I am definitely going to focus on ME again, and stop the impatience I started to show with her when I sensed something was off. Thank You for this content Casey. Seriously, there really is nobody else that gets this deep into the EXACT things that us guys need to work on when we act on lust...I just never knew how to go about changing this needy outlook I have with my gf bc its ruining things
bro, I was gonna say the same damn thing !! he was spot on !
How did you make out?
Avoid looking at ass too sounds stupid but stop yourself even little things like that sub consciously devalues yourself
Casey I am beyond impressed with you and how you embrace your calling. No doubt God will use you in great ways. A real man serves the Lord and it looks like you are there.
This message sits with how the Holy Spirit has been moving with me in my journey with God and women. Praying for ya bro. God has approved many of your thoughts in my spirit that I’ve applied . Thanks much 🙏🏻
Very liberating message, not just in relation to women but in life in general. Don't try to make people like you and you feel instantly feel a heavy burden is been lifted from you.
You are not crazy bro you are heaven sent
I believe God is working through you. I've been struggling in all of my relationships. They all gone bad because of my jealousy and me over loving my woman. I needed help really bad and I just recently came across your videos and compared to all the other ones from other channels your videos are helping me the most and make the most sense. I wish I had some money to send just to show my appreciation but unfortunately right now I'm not able to but big thank you and God Bless!
Tame your Lizard brain, my friend...
th-cam.com/video/1PrWx6alnrg/w-d-xo.html
Don't worry about money, lol. This guy is rich! I bet your appreciation of his content is much more important than any amout of cash.
@@stevea2125 delusional
facts
@@stevea2125it's like you deliberately aren't listening
Just keep telling the truth and you can't go wrong. I always pass on these lessons to my son's. I wish I had these when I was younger. Thanks
purpose is key. The other important thing is responsibility. With responsibility comes meaning in life.
Your channel came along for me at the right time. I am trying to control my lust, kick some bad habits, and work on my goals - FOR ME, NOT for a woman!
I don't know what it was specifically, but it was during one of your videos where you talked about the general mistakes modern men make in the dating game. There was a certain moment where I had a very clear epiphany - "Wow! I DO go weak for women, their beauty, their sex, hell, even their mere PRESENCE."
And I decided that I was simply done with that mode of thinking. As a guy who has struggled majorly in the dating game, I feel like your take was just the freshness I needed to keep on the path.
You’re on fire my brother! I fully support this revelation, keep God 1st in our lives
God gifted us Casey ….Amen ❤
All true. Word for word , going thru this bad cycle with my girl right now and she the one who initially wanted me!
This explains why "The Art of Seduction" mostly illustrates men who attract women through feminizing their behavior, then leaving them before the fantasy wears off. Lust is a feminine way of evoking value, like the phases of the moon it is a continuous process. Mastery of focus and taking action is man's way of increasing value. Its like the heat and energy continuously produced by the sun.
Thank you Casey. I am going thru a divorce and have a good life but am alone. Been tempted everyday to just go look for companionship but you. Like really you and this channel calm my mind and strengthen me everyday to refocus, be patient and be a man. God has used you to help me for sure
9:47 Yes, please go this direction with your channel. I watch every upload lately and they are so insightful and make so much damn sense. You are THE MAN...thank you Casey
Ive been subbed since 2020, you've been on the money since and I couldn't agree more with the message you are speaking now. Godspeed my man.
Wow! Defender of men! That’s so powerful. What an awesome video!!! I’m really proud of you for speaking this truth. Men really need to learn this stuff. I have a 17 year old son with a Dad who isn’t teaching him any of this. I’m so happy I found your channel. Sending this to him:))
Good mom
This truth and maturity you came into this season of your life is the right way to teach. Keep on bother!
One of your best videos. Probably not going to be as popular because people don’t want to hear this and STOP chasing the same things they always have. Remember…you don’t need anything outside of you. Referencing your value based on what other people think of you, including women, is simply mental weakness.
I too believe that you have found your calling, Casey. We all have a calling, but not all of us follow it. Keep up your valuable work.
This message allows me to be more at ease and being able to enjoy my life through further forwarding on my mission. I have had enough red pill crap. It was a trend and I can now see it with the help of channels like yours. God bless you Casey. Stay strong.
Synchronicities in life are real brother. Keep going, your message is great! 💪
I needed to hear this. May God continue to Bless you Casey. You are answering your calling.
Thank you for the rant. It makes sense. This is your purpose.
This is some savage stuff. Great articulation Casey.
The last point is the best point! Stay true to it!💪🔥
I've listened to many red-pillers. Your content is the most uplifting. Instead of bashing women, it gives us the motivation to do the right things.
the only dating coach on youtube worth watching. spot on
awesome message "defender of man" aka headman.. we are so lucky that god speaks to you!
Been watching your videos this whole year and This is probably the best I've watched. 💪
Hella Value
Soon as I stop showing up at my baby momma house, the first text message was expect that letter from child support 😂
She juss using that as leverage to get what she wants, just say fuck her and do whatever u want to do. Child support is just a small % of ur money, you’ll have the rest of it to do whatever u want.
if you are weak for women, take a Year or Two out of you life and focus on developing the strength and attitude to view all woman as just another person (nothing more). mastering that skill will go a long way in our life.
I’ve following you for 3 years and this is one of the realest videos I ever encountered besides “Headman” community. Thank you Mr.Zander.
An old man, buddy of mine said “your not a man until you stop thinking with your manhood”
Think about that… so true!
I broke up a relationship of 1.5 years, about 3 weeks ago, with a girl I really loved and liked the way she made me feel when we were near each other.
Unfortunatelly she is a big narcisist and puts her ego and needs ahead of everything, even when we had plans to get married
I already overcame the break up and I'm feeling better. But the point is her parents are really religious people (very different from her, who believes but do not practise, and actually do the contrary most of the times) and I get connected with these beliefs
I really like the timming where you started uploading these videos the exact moment I broke up with her. What I need the most right now is to put my priorities in order and to love God above everything.
Thank you very much for you effort helping guys like me!!!
Great work Casey! Really appreaciating what you're doing.
Casey this is a wonderful change in direction for you and it is directly beneficial to me and your audience. I hear you loud and clear. I know you're on your path helping me and others who are listening to you. I am certainly stronger as a result of your insights and know others are as well.
God bless you, keeps you safe and focus bro! 👍🏻💪🏻
As a 50yo man, I learned instinctively and by experience much of the stuff you teach, but I remember how lost and clueless I felt as a teen and a young adult, and realize how invaluable help it would have be to count with the info and guidance you provide. I'm sure you are a huge positive influence and guide to many young men struggling out there . 👏🏻👍🏻💪🏻
You're the man and you're helping to make men of us all period none of this is cheesy and it's all meaningful and substantive. Please keep making these and we'll keep sharing them. We all become better and stronger for it. #hedman#1%r#strong
God is taking you higher Casey! Preach it Brother! Be Kingdom minded not worldly sighted
Your work is appreciated. You speak a lot of truth. You bring value
It genuinely feels like God is working thru you. Thanks for the solid advice and realness. Kudos!
Love your content man! You speak it more bluntly than anyone else I've come across🔥
"Attraction can't be negotiated" 🔥
Defender of man! Keep doing what you're doing!
I so needed this today. Lust and the flesh are my worst vice. May God bless and keep you safe.
I'm so glad ur saying this about game. I been saying this but don't want to come across as a hater.
Profound. I can see how your many videos have been leading up to this conclusion.
Everything you say is perfect i have been strugglin but you are a strong rolemodel. I love you Casey
Casey going Biblical. I love it!
Well said Casey, so many are looking to fill the void they feel with activities and pursuits that do anything but
Amen brother! Excited for whats coming...Lets get it
Amazing video. God always leads me to videos that I need to see at just the right time, for the season of life that I’m in. I saw this just in time. Thank you Casey. God truly is working through you.
God bless you all strong men
Best video, I have listened on TH-cam. Respect my brother
yeah this is a game changer. tough to digest but actual health food.
If it clicks with you, then obviously you are on the right path. What you are doing seems pretty natural, you are quite lucky to have found your niche where everything falls into place. I’m not saying everything is easy and fell into your lap, it took time and commitment like every other great thing.
"When you treat her how you think you need to treat her to make her like you she will 100% not like you." - Casey Zander
Thank you for sharing this piece with us 🙏🏽😌
The worst is when you have kids with them. Afterwards they own you...
Facts. Being married in general too because you can’t really walk away can you
The majority of men don’t understand the game, there’s a reason why men are not eligible for sex if they are broke, but soon as they get rich or famous, it’s easy to get a trophy wife, that’s because they are only after our money, the only woman that truly loves us is our mother’s, all these women only see 🤑💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰
Ain't no woman can own you if you have God's holy spirit
That may be really common but that's not God's intended plan. I believe the only way a marriage can even stand a chance is if it's done the way in which God has determined it to be done.
Not if you take full custody of the kid & she completely disappears.
That's good braddah, God given calling 🤙
That just knocked all the pheromones out of my head that did not need to be there before I walked into my house!
Very good content, the way to approach woman you described is one of the best ways to my understanding today, I'll give this a go, see what happens.
i also belive that this is your path. you are the bast at it from all ive seen and by far!
Gamechanger!!!! Casey thanx man! From all of us!
you have the best tips on you tube hands down thanks for doing the heavy lifting for me
Casey, I know that none of us men want to have a younger man school us, or get more attention then us..but I actually do believe you are the real deal, and quite possibly sent to tell us this. I know its crazy...but as a sane man I'm saying I believe this to be true. I never thought I'd ever give a man on TH-cam this kind of valudation
You're the man Casey. No doubt God is behind you.
You are doing work of the angels here
i feel like god is working through you too my friend, this actually helps 😊
Wow. I have no doubt in my mind that God is working through you Casey. Today's message truly helped me start to see my God given purpose in ways I couldn't even fathom before clicking. You truly are the defender of man.
Thank you Casey! Leader of men 🔥
All glory be to God.
Welcome brother
my numbers are going up, like way up, i still care what women think of me so not fully unchained yet, but i'm happy with the results so far
love the message! you are on your purpose
I always say to you thank you for the videos and I always be the first one with jumping video. I love the seat every day. I’m not Casey’s once I’m groceries three times. Just tell him about how to get better and to tell you I did the webinar yesterday and today at 1 PM And I didn’t know you have another video until I’m done and still never find a girlfriend I’m not lying to you. I don’t know why it’s not been because of me maybe because I’m lucky thank you my man thank you for everything you do if I see you in real life, I’ll give me the big hug even on the stranger to you I just want to say thank you for everything you’ve done you are the best captain for me, and thank you for your webinar and I told you I never skipped one except two days ago but I never skip one
Casey is the GOAT.
God bless you big brother Casey!❤❤
just found your channel bro !! this what I been looking for ! and this is one of my favorate videos ever, it was literally spot on I can't describe it . thank u !
This chsnnel is precious wish i found casey earlier ,the mistakes i made would not been made
You was spittin with this one Casey..💯
This hits home so much.. thanks for this video 🤝🏻
I like this message. Keep it going Casey.
Refreshing new message. Thanks brother 🙏
Great content as always, Casey! Hats off
God is definitely working through your life. No one on the Internet is teaching this and anyone that’s fortunate enough to come across this content will become a real man if they take time to listen and learn God has put this guy on this planet for this reason lonely voice in the wilderness, in the mist of misinform misleaders with regard to most of the content creators. Knowledge is power and wisdom and real knowledge have always been and will always be in the hands of the few minority, not the many God bless you, Kay Zander. but your gift is your curse always polarities I guess
I needed this Man🔥
I’m sorry Casey I know it’s too long just to tell you how much I appreciate you. Thank you. Because you remind me of my brother he’s not with me now it’s kind of sad but every time I see you I number my brother. Thank you Casey.
I think you are in the right direction…! Good info.!
Thank Zander you help me a lot!!
Good yob man i think this is the best contet on masculinity i have ever seen keep it up
Well now here’s another great message. Not sure where the one video came from.
Important discoveries here!