The Science of Gratitude & How to Build a Gratitude Practice

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  • @scottc3165
    @scottc3165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2217

    I can really relate to this. One time, about 30 years ago, while driving home from a long surf trip, I picked up a hitchhiker along a very remote stretch of road. He was very nice and respectful and I could tell he was in some kind of immediate need, though he never voiced anything to reveal it. When I reached my turn onto another very remote road to get to my home, I dropped him off along the highway. But before I left I went to my trunk and gave him the remaining contents of my ice chest and other food I could find. His eyes lit up wide and said with a tear in his eye "it's because of people like you that people like me are still around". So because of my small act of kindness, he gave to me such enormous gratitude that my act was nothing in comparison. It was genuine, like a stake in my heart. Such that it still affects me 30 years later.

    • @briivdienaa
      @briivdienaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Thank you for sharing this beautiful story!

    • @claudiafegari5116
      @claudiafegari5116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Absolutely love this, it warmed my heart reading this! :)

    • @sfhee3332
      @sfhee3332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Pass it on, awesome!

    • @SONONJA
      @SONONJA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Great story

    • @pippamuldoon5281
      @pippamuldoon5281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Wonderful. Now I have a story with gratitude to think about.

  • @bigalexg
    @bigalexg ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Driving home from a long day of work one evening I passed a somewhat shabby-looking abandoned car parked in the middle of a long bridge over the James River in Richmond. Sure enough, a few hundred feet from the end of the bridge I passed a guy walking along with a gas can. I was in a perfect position to help him because I had a can of gas in the back of my truck. WTH, let's save this guy a long walk to a gas station, which was probably a couple of miles down the road. I pulled over and asked if by any chance that was his car on the bridge, ha ha. I filled his can and refused payment. The look in his eyes was payment enough. He was so uplifted by the simple act of kindness. "Thank God, I KNEW there were still some good people in this world." he said. Ever since I have felt a bit more like a good person. This experience helped to reinforce this part of me. I want this to be a good world and if I act this way I am making it so, as much as I can and no matter what the world treated this guy kindly at least once. I never told anyone this story, until now, some 30 years later. The pay-off was the look on his face and the kind words he spoke.

  • @alejandrotosi6045
    @alejandrotosi6045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1342

    Anyone else thinks there should be a "Huberman App"? To facilitate the execution of all the protocols he's been teaching us since the beginning of the podcast.
    A gratefulness section, a "get sun light" reminder... you get the drill.

    • @ckatt352
      @ckatt352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I would buy that

    • @jro1611
      @jro1611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes, definitely.

    • @marieb8467
      @marieb8467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yesssss! Great idea, would buy it of course too

    • @angelamarie9874
      @angelamarie9874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes! And it should have succinct summaries as well as long explanations so we can start practicing as we learn.

    • @shaunindia
      @shaunindia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What an idea!!

  • @jan-bean
    @jan-bean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I came to a big realization this year that there is always a constant suffering that I can point to as the source for my unhappiness. If it’s not my immediate life circumstances, it’s the world events, if it’s not the world events, it’s past traumatic events. There’s always something I can hold onto as confirmation of the idea that life is hard. I realized if I continually waited for the perfect circumstances to be happy, I’d never be happy, and that instead I need to train my brain to begin to see the beauty around me more readily. Since, I’ve made it a continual habit through gratitude writing a couple times a week and a daily 20 minute loving-kindness meditation, which ends in a prayer of gratitude. My life has become so much more beautiful, not because anything has radically changed but because I feel a sense of beauty within and that colors all of my experiences.

    • @alexandraalbertz1442
      @alexandraalbertz1442 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love reading this.
      Wish you all the best!

    • @kutie216
      @kutie216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing I may have to try this myself

  • @bjr1090
    @bjr1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +885

    Andrew is single-handedly reversing people's negative bias towards Mondays with his podcast. Can't wait to watch this!

    • @Alexandra.AI.
      @Alexandra.AI. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Not single-handedly, though probably doing the most work. He'got a team, remember?
      They may be faceless to us but don't forget about them.

    • @clarissamcdonald-vitale8711
      @clarissamcdonald-vitale8711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      He's single handedly changed my life... from what Ive learned here, Ive gotten out of addiction and depression. Now, with just supplements (l-dopa, l-tyrosjne, 5htp) Im enjoying the happiest time of my life. Talk about gratitude, he has mine, more than anything. Saved my life. I will be forever grateful.

    • @llstarlight
      @llstarlight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol

    • @radezzientertainment501
      @radezzientertainment501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      seriously hahaha

    • @Respect2theFallen
      @Respect2theFallen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Was thinking similar about Mondays not single-handedly

  • @GeorgeAmineAI
    @GeorgeAmineAI 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    There is NO image more powerful than a human being becoming aware of another who is suffering in silence and CHOOSING to help them wholeheartedly and unconditionally. It brings me to tears every time I think about this.

    • @sazennonumber
      @sazennonumber ปีที่แล้ว

      💖

    • @tessap6774
      @tessap6774 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I felt a sadness about it too. Like, I'm longing for that type of love and security.

    • @OkasperTulle
      @OkasperTulle หลายเดือนก่อน

      I belive ❤

  • @boyerindustries
    @boyerindustries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    It never ceases to amaze me how much preparation and due diligence seems to be behind these 90 minute masterpieces. I truly feel guilted into figuring out how to financially support whatever this thing is. I don’t see it as a podcast, I see it as a masterclass (and I hate that word) because there are “online gurus” charging people for paid “masterclasses” who don’t deliver half the effort and value I get from Andrew. Tremendous example of excellence 👍🏼👍🏼

    • @gitanodel69
      @gitanodel69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so true !

    • @PsychologyofLiving
      @PsychologyofLiving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true! We’re so fortunate to have him sharing all his wisdom for free on TH-cam! 🙏

    • @ranidebashree
      @ranidebashree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true.

    • @poetictriangle1037
      @poetictriangle1037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch ads

    • @hatchinghumor
      @hatchinghumor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      On the bar with the like, share, and subscribe, there is a button that says "thanks" with a "$" in a heart. You could show financial support through that.

  • @sunitasubedi9969
    @sunitasubedi9969 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I am grateful with the person who told me about Andrew Huberman. Andrew’s podcast is becoming part of life. This is my new science university! Andrew you are a jem for human being. I do not make any comment in youtube videos but I wanted show my gratitude to you for all the scientific knowledge you are sharing with us. Your are a real hero for this world, Universe!

    • @Weberkooks
      @Weberkooks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is truly a wonderful man. Who knows how many peoples lives could've been altered for the better if they had access to the kind of knowledge that Andrew brings to us? We are truly lucky to be living in the time of Andrew Huberman.

    • @buildlifeprojects1263
      @buildlifeprojects1263 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Farr out relax he's good but not a prophet

  • @unjoined
    @unjoined 3 ปีที่แล้ว +851

    I want to take this opportunity to THANK you and your team for everything you've done for us. I'm gratefull for having access to this knowledge for free.

  • @lynwillmott3794
    @lynwillmott3794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I had written a book on opening one's heart but then after a heart bypass operation I developed serious panic attacks, this lasted until I listened to Gregg Braden's instructions on a gratitude exercise. Because it seemed so easy I decided to follow his instructions - deep breathing, hand on heart, and invoking deep feelings of gratitude. Almost immediately my life changed, within days I was feeling stronger (I am 83) my fears vanished, my sleep improved, but best of all I discovered an internal, deep well of overwhelming joy that makes me cry in wonder every time my mind touches it. I have no idea what this might be, but I'm grateful for the wonder of it!

    • @lynwillmott3794
      @lynwillmott3794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      as I feel grateful I am automatically giving thanks; the two feelings seem to meld. Offering gratitude seems to be another way of saying thank you.

    • @ultracalicokittycat
      @ultracalicokittycat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's wonderful!! Am I the only one who felt like this speaker was saying that simple gratitude wasn't going to do any good? I'm so glad that gratitude changed your life for the better!! I'm planning on continuing a daily practice; I've attempted it over the years but never stuck to it. This time I'm very motivated! 😃👍

    • @lynwillmott3794
      @lynwillmott3794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ultracalicokittycat
      Yes, do keep on expressing gratitude. In my case quite often my feelings of gratitude transfer into thanks and Huberman does talk a little about the brain responses to feeling thankful - of course, he is approaching it scientifically, whereas you are actually creating these miraculous effects, and that's wonderful!

    • @ultracalicokittycat
      @ultracalicokittycat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lynwillmott3794 Many Blessings 🙏🙏🙏

    • @shaunpadgett6746
      @shaunpadgett6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @youhavetogotheretocomeback
    @youhavetogotheretocomeback 3 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    How to create a gratitude practice:
    1. practice must be grounded in a narrative - don't have to recite the story every time, but necessary to know the story and what it relates to.
    2. story can be you receiving the thanks when it's being given genuinely, or you observing someone else receiving/expressing thanks
    3. establish the story for your practice, then write 3-4 bullet points that serve as reminders of that story. A cue for the story.
    1. Write about the state of the person prior to receiving the gratitude, and after, and any other elements that offer emotional weight or tone to the story.
    4. Read your bullet points as a cue for your nervous system and spend between 1 and 5 minutes feeling into that experience.
    5. Frequency - 3 times per week, any time of day.

    • @StankaKordic
      @StankaKordic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I wonder if visualizing the story is just as effective rather than reading it, or does it even matter?

    • @allysonedwards4792
      @allysonedwards4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Grateful you wrote this out for us so I don't have to it 🙏

    • @kalash_nikov
      @kalash_nikov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@StankaKordic Method is irrelevant. The point is to make you feel one of those states (ie. activate neural circuits responsible for making us feel this way). So whatever works best in getting you to feel it.

    • @StankaKordic
      @StankaKordic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@kalash_nikov thank you

    • @KenLongTortoise
      @KenLongTortoise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@StankaKordic having a multi-media mind theater is best, from studies of visualizing on athletic performance

  • @ravenspadegirl
    @ravenspadegirl ปีที่แล้ว +84

    We should all write letters to other people telling them how grateful we are for them. Imagine how much joy it would bring to this world

    • @Florica-d9d
      @Florica-d9d ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!This is a great idea 😇✌️👍

    • @dariazavatska2767
      @dariazavatska2767 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thought the same thing, gonna do that with my friends and mum ❤

    • @myhappyvibe
      @myhappyvibe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I "still" do this :) just received another letter from friends yesterday. it s a blessing :)

    • @SoulStationery
      @SoulStationery 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wonderful idea!!

    • @garciaerick898
      @garciaerick898 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've done it once for an old college professor of mine. He was floored and enthusiastic to hear that he had such a huge effect on my life. I got this all through and email and I still think about how much it meant to him and how he said these are the reasons he's still a teacher. Thank you for helping me find one of my gratitude stories.

  • @Leadeshipcoach
    @Leadeshipcoach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Bro! I am a pastor and I am planning to teach on gratitude at our next service. I planned on teaching it from a theological, psychological and neuroscientific perspective and was looking for up to date scientific material on gratitude! I awoke this morning… and here you are!
    Thank you!!

  • @MrTickingtime
    @MrTickingtime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I was working at the mall, and my grandmother had passed. I kept wishing I was more kind to her and missed her cooking and couldn't be on time to her funeral/wake because of work. My family roasted me and I felt guilty about it.
    An old lady, whom bear a striking resemblance to my grandmother, came to my place of work, and I gave her best customer service experience. She was so thankful and showed gratitude by buying me a subway sandwiche and coffee. I said thanks and you didn't have to. She just smiled and I kept thinking about my maam
    I went into the back room and cried as I ate this sandwiche. It felt like closure and I felt good after letting out (not in front of any body).

    • @joegreene7746
      @joegreene7746 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is truly beautiful man. Glad you could find closure through that, I’m sure your grandmother would’ve wanted that.

    • @DJSilver88
      @DJSilver88 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You may never know, for sure, but there are angels unaware. You overcome grief, and did your best. I appreciate you sharing your story❣️ May God be your Comforter.

    • @Mantras-and-Mystics
      @Mantras-and-Mystics ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Those who pass are closer to us than we can ever imagine. Maybe it WAS your grandmother, coming to you in another form. ❤️

    • @vulnerable-vee
      @vulnerable-vee ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry your family had to guilt-trip you for something you didn't have much (if any) control over. As if the loss of your grandmother wasn't enough as it was, nor the mere fact that you couldn't even make it to her funeral! Nor just having to deal with your oWn inner turmoil of "I should haves" after losing someone you suddenly wish you'd had more time with.
      ...However, I commend you for recognizing a beautiful opportunity tO make your own closure - and especially in a way of 'giving' to another human. (ESpECiaLLy especially that other human being a senior. I'm an advocate for our elders, so it makes me cry with genuine joy and gratitude when I see or hear or read stories such as this!) Thank you for sharing it.💓

  • @tylerh7647
    @tylerh7647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Seriously can we nominate this guy for some kind of award??? This is some really high level service to humanity

  • @graziella5949
    @graziella5949 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    After learning about the whole gratitude thing, I just gotta say THANK YOU, DR. HUBERMAN! I've been dealing with anxiety since last year, and it got so bad that I became agoraphobic and had panic attacks daily, all because one doctor messed up my diagnosis big time and in turn traumatized me. But you know what? Listening to you every day has made me trust doctors again, showing me there are awesome brilliant people out there who really care about their work. So, THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for helping people like me, and here's a virtual hug to give you a HUGE serotonin boost. ❤❤❤

  • @chiaroscural
    @chiaroscural 3 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    I can’t believe there’s real data around gratitude practices. I love this podcast more than anything.

    • @KJBtheMosFett
      @KJBtheMosFett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Seriously. I started listening out of habit....then Huberman starts dropping data

    • @kcopara1
      @kcopara1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah its been out for a while. You should look up Dr Joe Dispenza and see what his lab has demonstrated. Some of the stuff Huberman labels as myth is a bit of ignorance on his part. And when I say ignorance, I don't mean dumb or stupid like most people erroneously believe. I mean lack of knowledge (small yet significant).
      Moreover, I surprised he didn't point to mirror neurons as the reason that form of gratitude (listening to stories minutes 39-42ish) as the reason it works. Nor did he or have ever mentioned the 40,000 neurons (called neurites Armor et al 1991) located in the heart that affects (and somewhat controls) how the brain functions. These neurons also ties into how gratitude affects our body.

    • @kieransoregaard-utt8
      @kieransoregaard-utt8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kcopara1 Huberman only cites real science. He’s not a BS artist like Dispenza, who is a known quack. If you want science-based tools, go to Huberman. If you want conjecture-based nonsense, go to people like Dispenza.

    • @rhahavyb
      @rhahavyb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kieransoregaard-utt8 I think Dispenza is just more spiritual and Huberman is just more science based personally I think people get the same value from both, it just depends on which person’s way of explaining things resonates with you more.

    • @kieransoregaard-utt8
      @kieransoregaard-utt8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rhahavyb False. One is based on evidence and one isn’t. One has been tested, the other hasn’t. Spiritual is guessing and leaving things to chance. Science is being intelligent.

  • @spazzwad
    @spazzwad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    You, good sir, are a scholar and a gentleman! I am deeply grateful for you sharing this timely information!

  • @rajibdeka2207
    @rajibdeka2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    We all should be grateful to Dr. Andrew who is providing all this information free. Thank you Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @vickyrosinamkrause5285
    @vickyrosinamkrause5285 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've had a gratitude journey for a few years, but was curious to hear this podcast. I learned something as I always do listening to Andrew. I'm so grateful to Andrew for his generosity of spirit and knowledge given so freely. I remember two genuine compliments given to me. I came from a traumatic and chaotic background. Years later while takin my mother's ashes back to NZ and while visiting my aunty and uncle. My aunt Julie looks at me and says - 'you were the strength for your brothers and family'. That broke me and I cried. But I never forgot that. Again a few years later, after a difficult marriage, which I did my best for my sons. My sister-in-law at the time said to me one day 'You know you are the strong one in the relationship', even though my husband was 20 years older, highly intellectual. Both comments I remember, and I'm so grateful as over the years they've grounded and encouraged me. Psalm 107 is my gratitude story of my life. My Lord and Savior-Christ Jesus saw my despair and brokeness, and He smashed the chains of bondage at the Cross. Yes, I remember, and I'm grateful, thankful and it makes me feel blessed.

  • @tulipofnonsense2472
    @tulipofnonsense2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Also, in times of extreme polarisation in our societies, in times of devide and conquer-politics, in times of decline and destruction, this noble Scientist and Gentleman makes a real effort to bring us together and to bring out the best in us all. Incredible work!

  • @sazennonumber
    @sazennonumber ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Both as Dr. Huberman and just Andrew, you should know by now that thousands of people feel genuine gratitude for what you do and what you try to do. Thank you. I think us humans are very moved by kindness, as kindness gives us hope. I think that hope is the ultimate motivation. And it gives us courage to go on. Now I know why I always cried watching shows like 'Move That Bus' (or whatever it was titled).

  • @sweetsue4204
    @sweetsue4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    As I listen to this I become more aware of the value of deliberate choice. About six years ago, after my husband passed, I started a personal experiment to deliberately reset my default to joy. It worked, and then some. 😄 Since then my entire life experience has evolved to be a glorious series of joyousness. I’ve relocated from the urban northeast to a lovely hamlet along the Gulf coast. New surroundings, new friends and loved ones, and a life filled with wonder and abundance.
    I’ve often wondered about the neurobiology of that deliberate choice. I could feel within that the mere fact that the choice was deliberate was making all the difference in the end results.
    Andrew, I’m grateful for your passion and dedication, and for the positive effects you’re having on so many lives. 🤗🤗🤗

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@moomoocowsly it was truly deliberate. When I started the process it was during a time of grief, and I was still dealing with a fair amount of fear and anxiety one gets from losing a loving partner, but I was well on the way to emotional thriving, supported by a loving community. It began as an experiment born from a conversation with a friend who believed himself to be pessimistic, fascinated by my proclivity to go positive, despite still being a grieving widow, finding her place in the world. Could I set my default with deliberate intent to instinctively expect the best, when the human psyche is easier to get to fear and intimidation?
      I simply started a game of waking up in the morning, proclaiming with utter glee, “Hell yeah…I’m ready to play!” 😄 Then I’d jump out of bed and get on with the cosmic games. Lol! Rules were simple: commit to a minimum of 30 days, hang onto that feeling of glee as long as possible into the day, and laugh when something knocked you off that pony. 😄 In my case, it took about two weeks to get the consistent default, and I’ve been fine-tuning over the years since, while my life tumbles through wonder. I still wake up that energized, and I’m known far and wide for being joyfully fearless. It worked. 😄

    • @muffinman472
      @muffinman472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the sweetest comment. Thank you.

    • @mht123
      @mht123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your comments are just lovely. You say it all so well and you inspire me!

    • @believer2734
      @believer2734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You have inspired me! Yes live deliberately in gratitude!

    • @athulyasurendran7639
      @athulyasurendran7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow this is such a sweet and beautiful comment..I am happy to hear this story 😀

  • @jaydee8697
    @jaydee8697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I’ve been doing a simple gratitude practice with my son for the last few years, before bed and after prayers - we list 3 things we are thankful for. It’s pretty adorable to see it really blossoming his reality. Of course at 3 he mostly mentioned things or stuff we did, today at 7 he will sometimes pop out something so heart melting I forget every fear I had of my mothering skills, (like that he was as thankful he was brave enough to poop at school for the first time and not just be uncomfortable all day) shit (literally 🤣) that likely would have never come up in conversation or at least in terms of character development AND the power of noticing your own wins, for both of us.

    • @kathleenstaples1341
      @kathleenstaples1341 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Go mom!

    • @sarahthomson8183
      @sarahthomson8183 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so sweet..💕

    • @Mr1intension
      @Mr1intension ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's one of the great things about listing 3 things daily...they are often things that aren't likely to come out in "usual" conversation.

    • @a_diamond
      @a_diamond ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Something that might work for people who aren't usually as verbal as to write with their kids. I do. The easiest version is we find a picture, and write or make something related to it.. then share.. it tends to get us talking.. and that is what matters.. it enables communication. You found another way to do that I think.. but a lot of parents and their kids seem to miss out on this.. so maybe the more forms we can give examples of, the more likely someone might find something that's right for them in their own situation ❤😊❤

  • @raequalls218
    @raequalls218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    40 thumbs down??? Who would dislike this???? I heard this message at a very critical time in my life, I'm grateful for the information he is sharing.

    • @Swerve-Online
      @Swerve-Online ปีที่แล้ว

      I would think the people who are benefiting from writing down what they are grateful for and so on wouldn't like some of the pod.

  • @catherinelair8206
    @catherinelair8206 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “We can exchange gratitude.” That’s beautiful.

  • @_negentropy_
    @_negentropy_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    This has been most elucidative, but not totally surprising. Story is powerful.
    If anyone is wondering where to find gratitude narratives, have a scroll through any one of Andrew’s podcast’s comments. It’s pretty much guaranteed you’ll experience a legitimate 1-5 minute gratitude practice. You are all truly wonderful humans out there.

    • @briseboy
      @briseboy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the incessant desire of children to have meaningful stories repeated is surely due to the stimulation of pleasurable social interaction - entrainment, if you will. The vagal stimulation along that afferent AND efferent nerve's travels, affects not only abdominal organs and functions, but heart breathing and brain stimulation.
      I may or may not write a comment on the entrainment phenomenon that Doc Huberman refers to. His not using the word, the common description for more than 60 years of research , suggests that he has a lot to discover in research related to the phenomenon, in its social health-giving and communication aspects.

    • @edwigcarol4888
      @edwigcarol4888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Animals being saved, in particular baby-animals would do as well... Y-T

    • @pinnihriver8355
      @pinnihriver8355 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That os EXCELLENT advice. Thanks.

  • @soundwavewellness
    @soundwavewellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Searching my brain for what might consitute my gratitude practice story and then I scrolled through the comments. It's heart warming to witness the gratitude of all here. Thank-you for your inquiring minds and willingness to learn, grow and be vulnerable. Dr. Huberman, you have offered us all so much, I remain in deep gratitude for your service to humanity.

  • @litepaint
    @litepaint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I couldn't stop myself from commenting on Andrew's unconscious grin which kept creeping in all through out this episode. Clearly, just thinking about gratitude - let alone discussing how to maximize its affects - is having its way with him right before our very eyes! And, just like smiles, gratitude is contagious. Dr. Andrew Huberman, you're such an inspiration! Thank you!

  • @kathleenstaples1341
    @kathleenstaples1341 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Dr. Huberman for cold showers, for fasting, for caring about regular folks who need practical information that isn’t hyped up commercialism. Dr. Huberman is helping this gal embrace a better life! We only get one trail walk and intelligent guides are key! Pro social replacing Prozac ! God bless your good work!

    • @1saracen
      @1saracen หลายเดือนก่อน

      So right Kathleen, wonderful to have a superb teacher on line with a track record of proven excellence.

  • @marthahorton5350
    @marthahorton5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    When my kids tell me stories of them helping others and how thankful the kids they helped were, it makes me incredibly happy and grateful, much more than when someone expresses gratitude to me. I also feel a lot of joy when I see little kids helping each other out. I used to have a patient who went from being considered terminal by doctors but who, with a lot of therapy and nursing care became my healthiest patient. Partly due to her med/surgical PTSD she was hypervigilant and she became a little helper until she was discharged home. She was always making sure the other kids in the home were safe and was the first to run to us when she thought something was wrong with one of them. Whenever I am down or unmotivated, I think of her and what a lover and fighter she was at only 5 years of age and how grateful we all were to have been part of her story of recovery. She just loved life like no one I have ever known!

    • @josephkeleher5950
      @josephkeleher5950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dear Martha,
      I saw a great spot video captured this month of Trick or Treaters noticing an empty plastic pumpkin container on a porch and then all taking some of their bounty and putting it in the container so other children to come would not miss out! Brings a tear of gratitude to this old guy!

    • @marthahorton5350
      @marthahorton5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josephkeleher5950 aww, see I love that! There is no agenda behind little kids helping each other out! Thanks for sharing!

    • @_negentropy_
      @_negentropy_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my heart…what a sweet pea! I wonder if there’s such a thing as tenacity contagion. She could teach us everything.

    • @john2914
      @john2914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ok. You are done now.

  • @clozettebazile9630
    @clozettebazile9630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for the episode. As Christians being grateful is what we do. That is the first words that we say when we wake up in the mornings: Thank you Lord for this beautiful day!

  • @ES-ex5it
    @ES-ex5it 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I appreciate the fact that you don't shy away from highlighting Freud's brilliance despite the "cancel culture" that would rather dismiss all of his contributions to the world. What resonated with me about the Freud quote is that we have a natural propensity towards unhappiness and it is perfectly natural. And that moving towards happiness is psychologically and biologically bound to be a more significant endeavor. And that's OK
    Another very significant point is the powerful impact of *positive* story telling and how it affects our internal biology: In a world in which the majority of our information is controlled by algorithms that have proven that people are more likely to be engaged by selective exposure and confirmation bias; it is imperative for our well being that we make a determinate effort seek out the good and the positive. Thank you.

    • @JerimiahGentry
      @JerimiahGentry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! Our genes care about being spread, not about us "feeling happy" and we are responsible for the narratives we construct.

    • @josephjacobs4799
      @josephjacobs4799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Freud's dangerously incorrect assumptions about the mind and human condition outweigh whatever credit you could possibly give him. I found Andrew's lack of qualification about Freud's errors and the harm done by those errors, quite staggering. Andrew is too competent and on point about neuroscience, not to comprehend this, just seemed odd and off (Andrew is ofcourse usually brilliant on point on matters). Also, If anything, people who tend to champion 'cancel culture' would more likely endorse Freudian fallacies, they like pushing similarly circular implicit bias theories, for example.

    • @hebejeebee
      @hebejeebee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not sure why you're using 'cancel culture' as the descriptor for dropping outdated theories.

    • @aliabbaswadia3974
      @aliabbaswadia3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I see

  • @howtoSue
    @howtoSue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If I had a professor that looked like this, i would never miss a class! grateful

    • @dianafoster4936
      @dianafoster4936 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree lol 😆 🤣 😂

  • @marymerry6314
    @marymerry6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    You are quite literary saving my life. I am in a better mental state now than I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for this

  • @Soliaipix
    @Soliaipix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I chant every morning and evening, mainly the morning is based on determination to meet whatever goals I have for the day, evening, gratitude for being able to meet those goals. Growing up, I sang gratitude in my prayers and sang gratitude before every meal. I think some cultures have gratitude ingrained in their daily lives. Appreciate you’re exposing the value of gratitude to the podcast world. Sorely needed.

  • @helenachase78
    @helenachase78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have a strong storey about a love interest who I felt hurt me.
    I always refused to speak to men after things went bad.
    This friend explained to me all the reasons he wanted to remain friends with me. It was so heartfelt and sincere that I said yes, I would try.
    He is now my dearest friend and the power of remembering this experience always comes to mind when I feel low or rejected.
    It's helped guide me in life and changed how I navigate my intimate relationships

  • @Oberon44
    @Oberon44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dear Andrew Huberman, I am genuinely grateful for you and the work you do. I’ve learned so many things from you that have changed my life in positive ways. Thank you so much. I hope you have a wonderful life.

  • @DB01-l4f
    @DB01-l4f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am grateful to witness the creativity of Andrew’s wardrobe every week.

    • @hubermanlab
      @hubermanlab  3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I try.

    • @memastarful
      @memastarful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ha ha ha 😂🤣

    • @CorpusKristieTN
      @CorpusKristieTN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣 I guess anything else would be a distraction.. 😉😉😘😘

  • @gaylenebiggs6139
    @gaylenebiggs6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thinking back on my stories of ppl thanking me, I recognize I too shy away from too much thanks but then came to remembering the most painful period of my life going through infertility. It became my mission to make ppl aware of how awful they were to struggling couples trying to get pregnant and how they could actually be helpful. I gave a talk at a lux spa sharing how they could better understand their clients going through IVF. There was a lady there who thought it was ridiculous and forgot it shortly thereafter until she arrived at a place in her life where a fertility office refused to take her case and she remembered me and called. My phone used to randomly ring from women experiencing the same heartbreak and I’d drop everything to listen and help, so when the spa lady called I listened and set her up with my fertility drs and their program counselor. (I’m not a therapist) By that time I had 2 toddlers and not a lot of free time, so those kind of calls were less frequent. But some time later, I’m guessing abt 10 months, I received a text with no words, just a picture of newborn twins, a girl and a boy and I was confused at first, I didn’t know anyone pregnant with twins and remembered spa lady, I was incredibly moved she shared her babies w/me! It reminded me of our talk when she told me how irritated she was by me but realized I was there for her. Makes me cry happy tears whenever I think about it. Looks like I found a narrative to work with after all. Thanks AH!

  • @billythebake
    @billythebake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Spiritual teachings throughout the ages have taught the power of gratitude
    Now, science shows on a physical level some of how it works

  • @mmlv44633
    @mmlv44633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As someone who is an ‘aspiring’ stoic this explains why it is indeed difficult to subscribe to the idea of a ‘amor fati’, that is love fate, and be grateful for all that happens to me, the good the bad and the ugly because it has made me who I am. It’s hard to love the bad things that happen to us even if there is a lesson in them. I try, but some things are still bitter pills to swallow. The trick is to not dwell on the bad things and be grateful for all we have. And that I do. We absolutely can’t lie to ourselves.
    Grateful for the knowledge shared on this channel that’s for sure. 🙏

    • @lydebymd5409
      @lydebymd5409 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do not believe we must love the"bad things" but what is important is our we respond and perceive "bad things". Being a person who focuses on the good and expects good or a lesson to be learned when something negative or "bad" happens in our lives. Negative things happen to us all as we experience the gift of life. So, as you suggested, focusing on the good and on life as a valuable individual gift is Essential daily.

  • @DePistolero
    @DePistolero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've found that the feeling that really hits home and makes me exhale deeply as if something insanely important has just been resolved in a positive outcome for me, is when I put myself into the mental state of not needing, or wanting anything else from life ever again, I am all good and set with all that I am or have right now, and I am truly ready to die if must be with no regrets or desires whatsoever.... This , like nothing else, has given me the sense of fullness and gratitude and joy....
    So thank you!!!

  • @gertanckaert3023
    @gertanckaert3023 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    every day, wake up and am grateful, i am still here, breathing, able to stand on two feet...and so on , till the night; i am so grateful for a warm comfortable bed, with a roof over my head and all is well in my world. 🙏thank you God

    • @marshawoods4983
      @marshawoods4983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And we thankful for everybody he brings into your life good or bad not just thankful I meant grateful also

  • @tulipofnonsense2472
    @tulipofnonsense2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just when I decided there's no hope in life no more, the Andrew's podcast popped-up on my screen in all its glory. Thank you so much, Professor!

    • @muthoniwanyeki8757
      @muthoniwanyeki8757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a sign that you are the hope in this life. You got this, keep on...

  • @rabiamahmood
    @rabiamahmood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The most eye opening and best episode so far. My gratitude to Dr Huberman for helping us be more comfortable and successful beings in our skin. No better gift than that. Deepest gratitude.

  • @lazy1peasant
    @lazy1peasant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This explains why I've found the sharing aspect of 12 step meetings so useful. Individuals just reflecting on their experiences (without crosstalk), the hell they've been through, the things they tried, and the gratitude that things changed.

  • @talmage_ur
    @talmage_ur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For several years now, I am able to choose the emotion I wish to feel without a narrative - living in the present moment "It's always now dog gone it ;)" GRATITUDE is the emotion I choose every morning before stepping out bed - from that emotion at core - it branches out to LOVE, JOY, APPRECIATION and so forth.
    I was tickled pink when I notice your video here. SPOT ON.
    Thank you for what you do.

  • @Thegigi1990ify
    @Thegigi1990ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I’ve been practicing wrong. I’m never been one to accept other’s gratitude comfortably, or even expect it. Now that you’ve mentioned it, I can think of times when people would thank me for something I said or did previously when I hadn’t even given it a second thought. Those unexpected surprises warm the heart. I’m grateful for your podcast.

    • @hebejeebee
      @hebejeebee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yea, I have a similarly uncomfortable feeling around the idea receiving thanks. I tend to give my support unconditionally and any thanks passed in my direction actually feels unnecessary as I'm doing it to help guide or direct rather than receive thanks. I feel more gratified if someone tells me that what I offered or suggested actually made a difference to them . That way I can feel I have been part of a positive change that has impacted someone's life in a tangible way. Thank you by itself feels kinda hollow sometimes...

    • @princeswitch3116
      @princeswitch3116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel the same about gratitude from others. I would give food or money to the homeless but try to get away as soon as possible because their gratitude(genuine as it was) would make me feel uncomfortable.
      I realize now literally as I'm typing this that the discomfort I feel is due to a sort of forced humility on my part. I realize now that it's been detrimental to me because I can't correctly recollect any form of genuine gratitude that I've received without immediately remembering my discomfort.

  • @danielamestanek7899
    @danielamestanek7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most effective gratitude practice is the one you actually practice. Regularly. Gratitude lists did miracles for me over the years. Gratitude online groups,too. Just miraculous.

  • @foreigndaruma9825
    @foreigndaruma9825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man, this whole gratitude narrative thing would be so much easier if I were a charismatic neuroscientist who on a daily basis helped thousands of people with his profound and accessible podcast, free of charge to the consumer. Jokes aside, I am deeply grateful for what you do, both in the lab and in front of the mic. The purity of it, avoiding sensationalism whilst still conveying information in a digestible and engaging manner, makes what you're creating something truly special.

  • @margostretch1917
    @margostretch1917 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've listened to this twice. It occurred to me that when we list things we're grateful for (which I've done a lot of), the focus is primarily on what others do for 'me' ~ I'm more on the receiving end. This practise hasn't been without positive effect, especially at certain times. However, with Andrew's perspective and practise described so well, the focus is on the loop between me having given of myself / helping others in a way that would occasionally elicit gratefulness for my actions (not TO receive thanks necessarily), and discovering through their expressing gratefulness to me, that my action really made a difference to another's well-being. It's so interpersonal of a loop, and it deepens our awareness of our worth amongst our fellow humans, which ultimately generates a sense of belonging and of purpose. It's more than 'me' simply receiving, and noting it on paper. It's me giving as a participant in loving others, and then at times receiving genuinely felt and expressed gratitude that reinforces the value of my serving, helping, encouraging others. It seems all the richer the way Andrew presents it here. Very grateful for this!

  • @danielsmind7072
    @danielsmind7072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    everytime I watch Schindlers list, the end always gives me tears, I just really embody the gratitude, and what it can feel to be responsible of the survival of 1200 people during a horrible time of history. This podcast reinforced me that while i do want to be a hedonist too, I really want to put a lot of focus on helping people and making the world a better place. I mean thats what Andrew does, with sharing his knowledge

    • @funtimes8296
      @funtimes8296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And the more you help others the more gratitude you'll receive

    • @briseboy
      @briseboy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hedonia is so absolutely necessary for life, that active sensing and pursuit of true hedonic experiences are your best bet for health, longevity, and giving pleasure to others - as Huberman pointed out, it may be that not enough receiving of gratitude occurs. Hedonia may be described as inducing the persistence- pursuit neuromodulators - dopamine,, etc. but the mysterious pro-sociality of honesty to which he also referred obliquely, i the sole "clean" hedonia - others, narcissistic and psychopathic, as are seen so often now in US sociopolitical rudeness, are aberrations so severe that they also induce violence and the problematic autoimmune , stress-inflammatory effects that will reduce your health well-being feelings,, and relationship[s] with all other life and lives.
      In Polynesian language, we find that the single word for love, in any of its forms, for compassion, pity, and relationship with living and attitude for all life is Aloha. While qualifying adjectives are used by Polynesians to identify how and whether multiple receivers are the targets of aloha, the word nonetheless is accurate in that the deep empathic care it means, is a powerful cognition. The English word , neither being well-taught, nor used as subject of social importance and discussion, falls vastly short in usage, and therefore meaning.
      Many of us have been recipients of claimed love, which is found to be soon or later, deceptive, withdrawable. This is the tragic misuse and deception the Doc Huberman cautions against and research has shown to be ineffective.
      Don't lie, is the caution, about THIS.

    • @Spreadlove5683
      @Spreadlove5683 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Does Schindler's list feature real life, non actors at the end, or actors?

    • @pixieheart9303
      @pixieheart9303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Spreadlove5683 The story is fictional. It is not based on a true story

  • @shirleykilbride4555
    @shirleykilbride4555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mother Theresa also springs to mind ..an example of perfection comes to my mind gave her life to help the poor on India some may remember . A Saint indeed ...

  • @lauraholloway3368
    @lauraholloway3368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Belly laughing as I get dressed to advice on best times to do the Gratitude Practice, "... first thing when you you wake up in the morning, or last thing before you go to bed, or any time in the day."
    Cut to next scene.
    Thank you, thank you, Andrew! I so genuinely appreciate You!

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same response. 😄

    • @SONONJA
      @SONONJA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha this made me laugh too!!!

  • @caromoran
    @caromoran 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is one of the best videos explaining the power of gratitude. I have a unique routine each day, whether it's in the morning, night, or during moments of stress. I often reflect by asking myself:
    - What is my favorite moment of the day?
    - What did I learn today?
    - What is the best thing that happened to me today?
    I contemplate on various aspects of my life, appreciating moments with my kids, husband, friends, or recalling a meaningful encounters, friends or family.

  • @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy
    @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I feel grateful for this episode.

    • @super-eth8478
      @super-eth8478 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This comment will blow up !!

    • @mores_hitt
      @mores_hitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is precisely what he say it doesn't work as well we think it does

    • @bobbobson4030
      @bobbobson4030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mores_hitt I think it's more the fact that you can't fake genuine gratefulness. This seems to be genuine.

    • @MB-up3mh
      @MB-up3mh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mores_hitt depends for who, others reading this comment experience someone else receiving gratitude which is exactly what works

    • @ubertrashcat
      @ubertrashcat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Respekt za username, wariacie

  • @cssb96
    @cssb96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I believe this method of the practice of gratitude explains well why the program of alcoholics anonymous works. Over a period of time, by sharing individual stories and a common story and sharing expressions of gratitude to the group to other individuals and receiving expressions of gratitude from those that we have helped that we are in fact completing this checklist for receiving the neurobiologic benefit of gratitude practice. Also everything given in this program is given freely and without expectation of anything in return. And indeed a profound change in thinking and experiencing the world does take place for those who practice the program.

  • @francescapeters7005
    @francescapeters7005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve been practicing gratitude since my brain tumour (in my prefrontal cortex) diagnosis and subsequent surgery 2 years ago, and I’ve noticed that my mind automatically jumps to gratitude for moments in my life that could now equally be perceived as sad due to my situation. I have been seeking out life affirming stories since my diagnosis and have also been on the receiving end of lots of love and gratitude for how positive and inspiring I’ve apparently been. You’ve now provided me with the answer as to why my mind jumps to gratitude over sadness so I’m very grateful for this and the rest of your amazing teachings 🙏😊💫

    • @guriyakalra1471
      @guriyakalra1471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Francesca, kudos to u for training ur mind to have gratitude in such adverse situations and being a positive examples for others. Could u pls share the source for affirming stories🙏

    • @francescapeters7005
      @francescapeters7005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@guriyakalra1471 thank you so much 😊
      Yes one source of life affirming stories is ‘Anthony Chene production’ here on TH-cam. He interviews people who have experienced NDE’s (Near death experiences) which is something I’ve become fascinated with since my seizures. It may not be to everyone’s taste as there is very little science to back these people’s experiences up but for someone with a biology degree I think it’s important to keep an open mind 💫

    • @guriyakalra1471
      @guriyakalra1471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@francescapeters7005 thx a lot for ur reply🙏 I will try that

  • @psychology4introverts
    @psychology4introverts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you so much Mr Hubermann. I'm a student of Psychology (in Germany) and I learn more from you than from any of my lecturers.

  • @mlandry491
    @mlandry491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This seems like an explanation of the human fascination with the retelling of the heros journey. The idea that intelligent beings can hear the same thing over and over and not get dismissive and/ or bored is strange at best. But this... this could be why we do it... it can actually makes us better. healthier. Incredible...

  • @ArianaSarahaFlightBehavior
    @ArianaSarahaFlightBehavior ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this! And not only does it turn the standard narrative on its head, but it encourages more selfless, generous behavior (so as to receive those genuine thanks). What a beautiful win win!

  • @fergusbarrett3904
    @fergusbarrett3904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you Andrew. I loved this detailed explanation on such an important practice. From my own practice, I practice giving gratitude numerous times throughout my day. This could be for anything . From the weather to my health, food, coffee, etc. But the context I put my gratitude in , is, I give gratitude (the act) what for I have in that moment. Now, I know that the receiving gratitude is so important. But again, the context is, that from an external force, a person , God, universe etc, I am receiving gratitude back..... for my thanks/gratitude( the original act of gratitude), which comes back to me in the form of good health, a cup of coffee etc (whatever it was that I was grateful for in the first place). But as part of this context, I know that it is given to me with the right intention and genuine gratefulness. Thanks again. Fergus

  • @5tw3b45tcf
    @5tw3b45tcf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    27:55 brain/mindset can turn one experience into positive or negative health effect
    28:35
    45:50~48:40
    48:40~49:58 "Think into when somebody was thankful for what you did, and think about how you felt about receiving that gratitude and/or imagining or thinking about deeply the emotional experiecnce of somebody else receiving help. Now, what narrative you select is going to be very dependent on you and your taste. It's going to be very dependent on what resonates with you. ... Just what happens to move you. ... The way that one could do this is to find a story that's particularly meaningful for you. And then to just take some short notes, bullet point notes about maybe list out for instance what the struggle was, what the help was, and something about how that impacts you emotionally. This is something just for you. You don't have to share it with anybody."
    59:55
    1:03:47
    1:08:00
    1:08:26 Amygdala
    1:20:00

    • @lisadelraye
      @lisadelraye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. 🥰

  • @WaifuGate
    @WaifuGate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I've started incorporating 45 minutes of nonfiction content in my mornings to improve my well being. 90% of that's been Huberman podcasts and resources he's revealed for improving the mind and body. Grateful for the content, and looking forward to more mornings full of it alongside coffee!

  • @niklasdenser9239
    @niklasdenser9239 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    @Mr Huberman - I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the beautiful work that you have done so far. Please keep up the great spirit - it’s so inspiring to see how you’re positively affecting the lives of millions of people by supporting them to make more sense of their being and live more meaningful lives. Thank you!

  • @kaliksiu
    @kaliksiu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This comes as a pleasant surprise as to realise what I have been doing for gratitude practice has been ineffectice! Upon listening to your podcast, I relate to some of my experiences watching documentaries that moved me emotionally. They do a great job of uplifting moods, changing perspectives and behavior. Whereas I have constantly struggled to find a deep sense of change while or after doing the traditional gratitude practices. Thank you Dr Andrew Huberman. Your sharing is benefiting me and a whole lot of others around the world.

  • @monicalatvenas1348
    @monicalatvenas1348 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At the beach once a big dog belonging to a couple started to chase a local boy. The owners did nothing and others standing around were just watching. I moved between the dog and the boy and shooed the dog away and looked in his eyes and told him he was safe and that everything was going to be alright. I saw the gratitude in his face, it was so pure. Minutes later he brought his mom to me and she thanked me for taking care of her son. She was very firm and dignified and spoke very directly and truthfully to me. I feel deeply humbled every time i remember.

  • @otgonjargalnyamjav3871
    @otgonjargalnyamjav3871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you for your existence Dr. Huberman! I am so grateful for your work and your team who made these knowlegde available to us!

  • @Mantras-and-Mystics
    @Mantras-and-Mystics ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's odd but I don't feel anything when someone expresses gratitude to me.
    But I experience a complete change of heart, mind and body sensation when feeling grateful for all God has given me. 💚

  • @kristinohlson5625
    @kristinohlson5625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is so great, Andrew. Thank you! How great it would be if someone took your podcast and used these ideas to create a podcast of short stories on gratitude-- on people giving and people responding with gratitude. It also occurs to me that your podcast might stir more of us to do good things for others and appreciate their gratitude, if they are kind enough to offer it.

    • @RamonaMcKean
      @RamonaMcKean 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great comment! Thank you, m'dear. 🙂

    • @bitunmush7538
      @bitunmush7538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thinking of this too

    • @meganmichaelgilardi5986
      @meganmichaelgilardi5986 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just emailed a fellow writing friend of mine just now! Let’s get to storytelling “how you were helped.”

    • @FeliciaGomezBoothe
      @FeliciaGomezBoothe ปีที่แล้ว

      How about collecting family stories of gratitude?

  • @aylincemali
    @aylincemali ปีที่แล้ว

    The majority of the topics are not unfamiliar to me. It's valuable that the knowledge of ancient texts and great masters is scientifically documented here. I am grateful that I found this channel. I will add it today on my gratitude list. Thanks to Mr. Huberman and his guest’s!

  • @shirintobie-paul3501
    @shirintobie-paul3501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Dr. Huberman, team, sponsors and supporters ☀️
    The science of gratitude / the energy of gratitude! I love it!
    EPISODE 48 - 1 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS
    ( IT’S ONLY CRAZY UNTIL IT HAPPENS)

  • @nadiaE
    @nadiaE 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The power of gratitude is endless. It has many layers and even more positive outcomes. If you can practice it on a regular basis it becomes you and you became grateful ... Thank you for your insights Mr Huberman

  • @Tobias.d
    @Tobias.d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Absolutely love that every episode has its chapters time stamped! Perfect for jumping back into the podcast

  • @JLHDDS
    @JLHDDS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good morning, Andrew. Just a note to say that I always listen and get a lot out of your presentations. I am motivated to continue my morning sunshine. When it is cold, I leave my car running, roll down the window and look toward the sunrise.

  • @janicestevenson6496
    @janicestevenson6496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Today I will thank the world for teaching me what is true... To distinguish what is true from what is false, what is meaningful from what is meaningless, you must have contrast in learning... Now we feed you the true, but you must also learn to benefit from what the false has given you... The only benefit the false can offer you is to learn to recognize its lack of substance so that you may desire to know what is true and have greater capacity to receive it. Thus, thank the world today for supporting you, for its grandeur and for its folly, for its moments of inspiration and for its great display of illusion... This day is a day of recognition, a day of gratitude and a day of wisdom." (Steps to Knowledge, Marshall Vian Summers)

  • @alejandraartigas984
    @alejandraartigas984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since I saw this Monday, I changed up a bit on the suggested gratitude practices. When adopting a narrative, I made all of the characters ME the story, images, ME giving and receiving gratitude, only me, for ME, inspiring story ME you get the hint. I´ll be making a movie of ME, because it´s working for ME. We all need reminding of what all makes us ME. Thank you ever so much for what you do Andrew, I´ve learned quite a bit thanks to you and ME. I am grateful for you and your team that put this podcast together.

    • @alejandraartigas984
      @alejandraartigas984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Andrew▫️ Hubberman are you the real Andrew ?

    • @hubermanlab
      @hubermanlab  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That previous reply was a poaching account - fake. We have asked YT to remove but they spelled my name differently so it’s not removed.

    • @alejandraartigas984
      @alejandraartigas984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hubermanlab my knowledge of knowledge knew that;) thank you:)

  • @Swerve-Online
    @Swerve-Online ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sounds like I just have to go to church. I'll hear a story of someone helping someone, I'll be given times to meditate and spread thoughts of peace and joy. I haven't been in years, but maybe it should be part of my gratitude practice.

  • @user-dungsil
    @user-dungsil ปีที่แล้ว

    Reading what others are thankful for under this episode, I guess I could come back here regularly for my gratitude exercise (to see people thanking other people). Thank you everyone in commenting section! You all made my day! I love this podcast and adore Dr Huberman!❤

  • @MiriamIllions
    @MiriamIllions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This explains why I love to read all of the grateful comments on this podcast! Thanks everyone!

  • @zanyarzohourian9398
    @zanyarzohourian9398 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    some people are born to spread positivity and goodness, and some others on the contrary...
    Dr. Huberman, is one of those who sheds light on this world... thank you for your positive energy, thank you for the knowledge you share ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @awesomehugsbeautywellness
    @awesomehugsbeautywellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG I'm going to have to relisten to this over and over again. Need time to digest it all. So much usefull information as usual. Thank you Dr Huberman. Your gift such keeps giving. I can't tell you how much you have improved my life already. I have been on this quest to be a better human for a while and your work had totally enrinched my journey. Thank you thank you thank you. It is so exciting, how we are wonderfully made. Sending you much love and healing. x

  • @atashakgem
    @atashakgem ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree about not lying to ourself, and the myth “ fake it till make it” however; I have know few ppl that they faked it and literally made it! This I noticed though, they are true believers in that, they are not lying to themselves, like my landlord incredibly good at this, he laughs at most horrible experiences and always truly genuinely see it as positive and turns it around and thankful for it! And this man is a great manifester!

  • @jolenecarley3154
    @jolenecarley3154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really do feel that you are a bridge between science and spirituality! Science and spirituality coming together. Thank you thank you!!

  • @shirleykilbride4555
    @shirleykilbride4555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Observing how youre genuine aconcern for you're fellow humans and you're non judgemental and passion on wanting to give you're time knowledge and and expertise to help humanity to heal is awe inspiring in itself..and I can feel the impact on my own physiology whilst listening to u ..u are a gift to humanity andrew and thank u I am so grateful for u and u have helped in my healing journey just by listen8ng to you're podcasts ❤

  • @polymathpark
    @polymathpark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Gratitude is absolutely crucial to defeating depression and arriving at what philosophy calls "relevance realization." It's the only real way to deal with existential crises. Through the study of psychology, neuroscience, and philosophy, I've become instilled with constant gratitude, as having these multiple ways to view reality leaves me incredibly humbled, and subsequently grateful.

    • @hoandao8243
      @hoandao8243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mjbbjnu

    • @RPGyourLIFE
      @RPGyourLIFE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said man! 👏

    • @rhondacaruso5871
      @rhondacaruso5871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depression is usually related to neurotransmitters and Bain chemistry and as such, requires medical treatment. We must also make life changes as effective treatment progresses, and gratitude has a place in that. I practice gratitude. It has enhanced my life in so many positive ways but it is not a substitute for medical treatment in depression. Believe me, I would be glad to deal with crippling depression with just life changes.

    • @polymathpark
      @polymathpark 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rhondacaruso5871 oh totally. Though I advise trying to balance diet, exercise and sleep before turning to medication whenever possible.

  • @pathfinderwellcare
    @pathfinderwellcare ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know Doc...when I pray thanks over my food for the sun, moon, elements, soil, plants, people, all those who made my meal possible, I feel a deep sence of gratitude, respect and peace.

  • @athulyasurendran7639
    @athulyasurendran7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been trying to include gratitude as daily practice in my life for a few weeks now..not just for physiological effects but to also raise my vibration to that of gratitude for the things that I actually do have.I have to say this is probably the most detailed video on this topic.I am really thankful for the work you and your team are putting out in this world.It is helping so many souls.Gratitude and love ❤️

  • @bigalexg
    @bigalexg ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd like to express my gratitude to Dr. H! He must put an enormous effort into these podcasts - the research, the planning and the careful crafting of his presentation - it's awesome, and it's clear that his intent IS to make this world a better place by bringing us the cutting-edge science of how to be heathy, happy, and productive humans - you can simply FEEL that intent. I not only gain so much from the knowledge but listening uplifts my mood and orients me to actually DO all the things he suggests. Somehow, he includes that magic element that not only informs but motivates and inspires! ~ Thanks Andrew and keep it up. I listen to everything you and your team put out and I am taking action on it all!

  • @MiriamIllions
    @MiriamIllions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This podcast is such a gift to humanity. Thank you!!

  • @reneedevereaux8537
    @reneedevereaux8537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had no idea that I've had the perfect tools all along......the innumerable thank you cards, books and tokens from grateful clients over 40+ years in private practice and, perhaps, the motivation for staying in practice all these years! I, so, appreiciate your brilliant assessment and perspective of a true "gratitude practice!" Thank you!

  • @ministerbrandy7773
    @ministerbrandy7773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Practising gratitude every monday. Thank you Dr. Huberman!

  • @albertpfender4357
    @albertpfender4357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why the "God-Man" taught us that it is more blessed to give than receive. If only our collective awareness/society...all, could realize that life is not a zero sum process, but a multiplier, we might have the grace to step back from our egos long enough to do some good, especially to the least among us. I beleive you are a good human being. Thank you for your efforts to convey, not just mere understanding, but enable actual change. You are giving us some of the gear to "fish"! May you be blessed and not lose your focus...and be benefited by the "greatful" beings you seek to help.

  • @barbaravaughn4746
    @barbaravaughn4746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Perfect timing with this episode. I jumped around and listened to several of your episodes when I first started listening and I was hooked. I then went back and started from the the beginning to get to the full picture. Even though I'm just finishing up Episode 13, I had to jump ahead and start listening to this one when it popped up as the new episode. You are truly helping me change my outlook on many things related to my well being and general perspective. Understanding the mechanics behind the actions makes such a difference for me. Thanks for all you and your team do, whether it's a here at the podcast or in your lab. I'm very grateful for your generosity.

  • @anitapantin5264
    @anitapantin5264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Muchísimas gracias Señor Huberman!
    Durante la segunda guerra, un barco lleno de pasajeros que huían de Europa, buscaban lugar para desembarcar, ningún país los recibía...
    Una noche llegaron a una playa, los habitantes de la zona iluminaron el mar con las luces de sus automóviles para que los recién llegados pudieran ver mejor como llegar a tierra firme.
    Muchos de esos pasajeros, en agradecimiento, se convirtieron e personas claves en muchos aspectos de la cultura venezolana.

  • @sarahthomson8183
    @sarahthomson8183 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Dr. Hubernman, but sometimes.. Science, it seems, can make anything complicated and boring. Just write it down and FEEL the pleasurable sensations in your body. Do it every day and it will become a habit that flows without effort. It will balance you out emotionally, too. And you will become more emotionally resilient and happier.

  • @djmarvelette
    @djmarvelette ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Acts of kindness - Receiving and witnessing acts of kindness signals (to a child, or to your nervous system/brain/etc) that the world is a safe place, that people will be taken care of, that needs are met. Conversely, growing up in a home where unkindness happens (whether regularly or randomly) - even if it's "just" minor little digs or put-downs or dismissiveness - teaches a child that the world is not safe, to be on guard (hypervigalent and self-protective). Random acts of unkindness put us on edge and build walls; random acts of kindness melt our masks and defenses, cut through to the part of us that needs to feel and be connected and taken care of, and that feels genuine joy in the ability to cause joy/gratitude in another. This fosters our sense of our own ability to connect to others - a sense of safety and agency and joy - vs unkindness which fosters a need to control others and protect ourselves.

  • @flodannah9326
    @flodannah9326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I have a lot of genuine gratitude for Andrew Hubermann and the work he does and shares on here. Helping others to help themselves x Thank you so much ☺️

    • @marktapley7571
      @marktapley7571 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s helping himself big time with the AG1 scam.

  • @juanitatom1039
    @juanitatom1039 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Dr Huberman for bringing evidenced based information that would not otherwise be easily accessible the masses in an easily digestible way. I for one am very grateful for the value this information adds to my life.