How Jennifer Pan's Fake Life Went Horribly Wrong
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daniel: breaks up with jennifer because of too much drama
daniel, 3 seconds later: helps her plan a murder
LMAO I thought the exact same thing
Nicole Charlotte Villaluz YESSS SO LAME!!!!
Yikes
I did not mean to LOL!! 😂
Wtf?
This is why parents should let their kids live a little it’s good to be a strict parent but sometimes kids needs to make mistakes to learn .
Yes that’s true 🙌🏽
damn right
I don’t expect my kids to be perfect, but I do expect them to do their best. Jennifer wasn’t doing that.
But I don't 'think strict parents create a murderer. It's obvious Jennifer had loads of problems, pathologically lying being one of them
@@voidedsoup I think that depends on your definition of strict. Some parents can be overly strict (or worse) to the point they control everything and that can ruin their kids. Then you have parents that are strict in a way where they just don't take bullshit but otherwise they let their kids be kids. Again, it just depends.
I wish she just ran away. It didn't have to end this way. Everyone loses here.
That's what my fiance and I were discussing after I watched it. She was an adult, and while I can only imagine the mental strain that her situation was putting her in, she could have run away, or gone to stay with someone and not told her parents where she was. They couldn't have legally forced her to come home. That said, I think that with years of compulsively lying, her apparent obsession with her boyfriend, and of course that this was her solution in the first place, among other things I'm sure, she had a lot of issues. I don't believe that she was mentally stable, and that she felt trapped didn't help at all. It's so sad that it all happened the way it did. :(
You clearly don’t have parents who would literally stalk you down and make your life miserable. They think they own their kids
I think she wanted inhertance
@@beckyg.9087 Sure, so instead of leaving and filing a restraining order lets kill the parents. Amazing logic.
She was just better off leaving and never coming back
A lot of ppl commenting "she could just leave" and I agree she could, but I do just want to add that as someone with pretty overprotective parents, when you want to move out it's almost like they curse you, they tell you you'll never survive on your own, and that idea can get into your head. They wish the worst for you and it can be so scary to even think to go out in the world for the first time with absolutely no safety net! They set you up to fail. I really admire people who leave home with no support and make it work.
You're also not raised to be a confident person so you're afraid to live on your own.
@@alexthedeal1827 I agree!
People making those comments don’t understand emotional and psychological abuse
My dad was like that. I was a rebellious teenager because of how strict he was and at 17, i made some bad choices and he told me i had two choices- do what he wanted or leave. So i left. If you kill your parents, you’re still going to be alone but also probably in prison. It’s hard to leave. It still takes a toll on me to this day... But murder isn’t the solution to that issue.
@@lhunn4448 damn I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you're doing okay now! Lol yeah murder is not the right decision for sure
"And then she met ..." is the true crime equivelant of "but everything changed when the fire nation attacked"
Subtext: It's about to go dowwwwnnnn
crimson Yuu I just watched true crime
Oh my God 😂
😂😂😂😂
Hahaha I didn't expect an avatar last airbender quote in here.
Love how Felix was just living his life at an engineer college when his sister was literally trying to murder her parents and living a double life
LMFAO omg i didn’t even realize that 😭
Blair Patterson wow this is totally related to the story.
I know I honestly forgot about Felix
Bro I forgot about him
omg. Ur right
Strict parents don’t make brilliant children. They make liars.
that's what happened to jaclyn hill
Strict parents actually creat a child wgo wont be a crimanal cuz no mather what, they still are ur parents, my cuzin is one of the kids and smart cuz of his strict parent
Briee Haro facts hard facts
Dddd Reere I think I had a stroke reading this.
Theyr the ones that lash out Eventually cause parents never let them do shit so true
The moral of the story
Parents: Don't set unrealistic expectations for your children.
Children: Do not murder your parents.
*correction
Parents: don’t freaking abuse and try to control your children
Good advise!😝
Commenting to like so it stays at 666
Children: Maybe don't murder them but get out of there as soon as you can. What they did to her pushed her to insanity, don't let anyone do that to you. You deserve better.
Ehh…
It really hurts my heart that there aren’t many pictures of Jennifer smiling. You can just see the pain and discomfort she was constantly in.
S a l t y yes we know but that’s not the point ofc I don’t agree with what she did but I can see where she is coming from the point is Jennifer was sick and she thought of no other alternative to escape
@S a l t y for a boy? are you not listening what her parents did to her? i'll simply assume that you have no idea what she's been through. because i do know. monitored like a criminal, mentally abused because you're not smart enough, forced to be someone that isn't you. i didn't justify her actions, she could've just run away. but you might just see him as a boy, but for her he was hapiness, hope, freedom. monsters are created not born!
@S a l t y did you listen to the whole thing? If you seriously think she did it purely because of a boy, then id advise you listen again. Obviously nothing justifies it, but her parents were controlling, manipulative and abusive.
AjAwesomeface she wanted freedom even before the boy she was lying to get freedom like faking her grades
@S a l t y you have no idea what she went through that can really affect someone
“The idea of going to the school dance now makes me wanna die inside.” I felt that to my core.
Same girl, same.
Yes indeed
I felt that in High School. I made a deal with my parents to attend one dance a year, lol.
Same honestly
I'm here being happy that I rare go to dances
Everyone’s making jokes about how Felix was literally minding his own business and living his best life as an engineer, but forget that probably the reason why he wasn’t mentioned at all throughout this story is because of how Asian culture treats boys WAY differently than girls. Parents kind of let their sons get away with much more and thinking of them as the trophy children while they are more strict on their daughters.
Mayday Janette IK fr
A lot of parents of all shades are harder on the girls & more lenient with the boys
Kyrii Yvonne very true
PERIODT.
U are totally right. It's more obvious in Asian cultures but I think older generation's way of parenting is really sexist in general. Girls are expected to mature way earlier than boys and I'm very sure this enables the "boys will be boys" mentality.
if your child cannot come to you and tell you the truth about their grades when they're struggling in school, you are the issue. they were beyond abusive
Strict parents create rebellious kids, that eventually become anxious over thinking adults, always searching for approval.
Accurate. As a 22 year old living with strict parents I can certainly attest to that. From being a care free child I turned into a very serious logical 'boring' individual who doesnt know how to have fun without getting anxious of what my parents will say. It's hard to break from it, but I try. I'm sure with alot of children who go through this it's difficult to tru and live life for yourself without feeling like you're disappointing the two people you love most.
please stop, you're speaking too much truth
I wouldn't say that's always the case, it truly depends on the situation.
Anxious over thinking adults always searching for approval
Ok that's me. I wasnt even allowed to play d&d because of satan. It's kinda funny now.. but not really lol
Carol Simpson strict Christian parents ?
The green and white pallet in this video is so pleasing.
yessss
I thought about that the whole time watching it lol and it matches her eyes and top it's perfect
honestly
Chandler Gufflyr you obviously like green, huh!? (Your profile pic😹😻)
I can say the same about your hair
Controlling/Strict parents have horrible effects on children. I do not condone her actions. And let's remember our children are their own person with freewill. Feeling entrapped does no good to the human soul.
Exactly. I was wondering "am i a bad person for feeling bad for her?" because of how strict her parents were with her, is almost as if they pushed her to insanity.
This case feels close to home because I too, had very strict parents. I managed to make them see things diferently. But I understand. I still have Post traumatic stress from some experiences and I'm already 24.
I’m working with a girl with very strict Asian parents and it so obviously has an effect on her. She’s very bratty and inserts herself in every conversation kinda attention seeking. She’s not aloud to have a phone or go do anything pretty much, so she just really plays up her personality at work I guess because she’s so suppressed the rest of the time
I hate what she’s done to her parents but I can’t help but sympathize with her because I can relate to having overbearing parents that won’t let you live and are ridiculously strict. I understand wanting to be strict on your child but don’t do it to the point where they feel entrapped it creates an unhealthy relationship between the parents and the child
Alyssa Bowen I know someone like that it’s sad her parents even when she moved out has a control on her putting trackers on her phone
When this story hit the news in Toronto, the Asian community was ROCKED. Children of immigrants families sympathize with Jennifer because we have experienced what she has gone through. It doesn’t mean we all had Tiger Parents or the severity of strictness but we have all felt it. The pressure to do well in school and extra curricular. Moving out even as an adult isn’t as easy. I left my home at 24 and my family treated me so differently for years until another cousin moved out. Not being able to hang out with friends because you HAD to stay at home let along have a boyfriend. And on the other side, my parents really felt for Jennifer’s parents because they felt what it was like to push your child to be successful and have a better life and your child rebels instead. At the end of the day, the Pan parents’ were abusive to her treating her like a prisoner but that doesn’t mean their lives weren’t worth living for.
I could NEVER sympathize with a murderer.
In uk coercive control is recognised as abuse. I wonder how they got away with treating her so badly.
@@di3486i could
@@di3486And yet her parents were soul murderers for all of her life and no one bats an eye until the murder happened.
@@LorienzoDeGarcia Still, no excuse. Period.
Can’t believe she used an iPhone as a burner phone🤦🏾♀️
Rich kids these days 🤦🏽♀️
Dumb asf
That's what you focused on
Right? Dumb idea
This was in 2009
Imagine being a parent and you telling the robbers not to hurt your daughter but your daughter is the one who hired them. SMH. So heartbreaking.
Same way goes when parents make their children victims too.
But this would’ve never happened if her stupid ass parents weren’t so damn strict
Almighty Quez there’s absolutely nothing almighty about you, your intelligence or your stupid comment
The part that gets me is Jennifer telling her Mom “Goodnight...” and her Mom had no idea that her daughter is going to have her killed within minutes.
@@Master-vh2wm you are such a piece of shit
What strict parents think they're teaching their kids:
-Discipline
-Respect
-Obedience
-Life skills
What they're actually teaching them:
-Fear
-Anxiety
-Rebellion
-How to be incredible liars.
edit: since yall keep saying "hurrdurr well i had strict parents and i did great" lemme just say you did not have parents anywhere near as strict as asian tiger parents lmfao
edit 2: im not excusing what she did, what she did was not right, im just pointing out the kind of toxicity overly strict and controlling patents create in their children
that isnt always true. if they are insane in this front then yea those things happen.
@@Exodus-sh5mq what??
@@Exodus-sh5mq Bruh I'm not about to go kill my parents but I'm an incredible liar with severe anxiety and a fear of being yelled at. Also majorly rebelled in highschool/college.
True, my parents were strict as hell, but one has to be really sick to hire a hitman to murder them
💯
The dad called her bluff with the "wait until I'm dead" she said aight bet
I-💀💀💀
🤭 omg nooo 😭
Oop-
Dayum
damn!
Jennifer: My parents won't let us be together
Daniel: Too much drama, bye!
Jennifer, three seconds later: We could kill my parents
Daniel: I'm in let me call homeboy!
Lol that's pretty funny tbh
Oh jeez
Lynx Lefay You twisted hag! How is that funny? He is just summarizing some parts with quotes. 😡
@@matthewguru1382 Oh, you don't know the half of it. 😆
Savage
It's kind of heartbreaking that, after doing all that in search of freedom, she's now going to be imprisoned for life.
I mean she got a hit man to murder her parents. Not that heartbreaking at all.
@@minak6169 lmao, I didn't say "she did no wrong," I said she did it in search of freedom. Yeah, cold blooded killers shouldn't walk free with no repercussions. It's still sad that she did an extreme action IN SEARCH OF FREEDOM and will now never, ever experience freedom. Like, were you this callous with the Gypsy Rose case?
You can sympathize with someone who did a Bad Thing, it won't make you bad, it's ok. And it doesn't mean you don't think they were bad. Unclench.
@@roughentumble9145 I'm not saying what her parents did was right. Nor am I not sympathetic to her circumstances. I just said that a prison sentence was inevitable considering what she did. How have I been callous? And idk who Gypsy Rose is but please get off your high horse.
Mina K you should look her up then it’s a compelling case
@@robynvalentine5355 I'll have a look then. Thanks for the recommendation.
Idk how she had such overly involved, helicopters parents and yet they never even tried to visit her at college or not known that she didn’t graduate HS.
Leanna’s Banana’s! Language barrier maybe?
Parents like that don't care about the "how", just about the end result.
Sweet Pea completely agree
What are " helicopter parents "??
They’re parents who basically “hover” over you by checking on you often and try to know what you’re doing and where you are 24/7 and they’re just always on your case
For anyone asking why she didn't just leave - kids raised this way are unfit for real life and terrified of being on their own. They have never learned any kind of independence and even making small decisions scare them. This is how super strict and religious parents bind their kids to them for life. Their only survival skill is lying, but that doesn't really get you an apartment or help you figure out every day life
*The hitman actually gave Jennifer a friends & family discount I’m so done* 😭
💀💀
Or when she tried to cancel. Loool cancel your subscription to a hitman. 😂
Fern Alderton I just found out her boyfriend was also a marijuana dealer, not mentioned here lol.
Not sure you should take that discount if he charges $20k for two, discounts to $10k but only kills one.
Technically i suppose its a 50% return fee
Took me tf out☠️💀☠️, I’ll see all of you in hell.
Instead of trying to murder her parents you would think she would try to run away or fake her own death
she wanted their money tho aswell
I was debating if she was going to kill her parents or commit suicide. But after the dad said “you can’t date this man over my dead body” I was like “oh shit...😬”.
She could've tried to seek emancipation
She was an adult why not move out
Alannah Kelly They can't legally stop her once she turns 18
with that $10,000 dollars you think she'd just put a deposit down on an apartment and move out,,,
right?
Exactly
If she was college age I don't understand why she just didn't stay with her boyfriend and cut contact with her parents. If you're legally an adult you do not have to obey your parents.
I'd definitely do that
They literally threatened to kick her out so I don't know why she didn't just leave
If she thought out her suicide excuse more, she could've said "I wanted to hire people to make my suicide look like a murder so that my parents wouldn't feel like it was their fault that I wanted to die."
I’m crying cause her parents were thinking of Jennifer when they were about to die...
I find it kinda ironic that that's when they think about her wellbeing
@@lolitaku7229 So true. Like oh now you care? Kinda late I think🤔
LOLI taku nailed it
@sbjkd E M P A T H Y
sbjkd yikes, you good there?
Homeboy pulled through with the friends and family discount tho
lmao I'm dead-
@@gachanoob8133 so are her parents 😂
Ashley Marcy guhhhhhh😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@ashleymarcy265 BAHAHHAHA
Ashley Marcy dark humor 😂😂
these parents were pretty sucky but it really broke my heart when they begged the intruders to not hurt jennifer :/ they just wanted the best for her, just did it in the wrong way...
And yet we have messy people in this comment section running their mouths about how the parents deserved to be killed and how Jennifer is blameless.
F Santos I have yet to see a comment where they claim the “parents deserve it” everyone can agree that they kinda suck but no one it saying they deserved to be killed
@@robynvalentine5355 Some people have said it in the comments
Robyn Mentee literally a lot of people are saying that in the comments there joking about their deaths.
@@robynvalentine5355 just because u haven't seen one doesn't mean there aren't any
Listening to her interviews with the police I was shocked to find out she was 24, she sounded like a teenager. It's clear that she was both naive when it came to life due to being kept under lock and key by her parents and became a fantastic liar because of her parents.
Wait what? I straight up thought that she was still a teenager this whole time. It makes sense but still.
This could be a television show...I'd binge tf out of this
Or a movie I would watch it
That's how I feel about Bailey Sarian's videos!
Same
facts
Is similar like the show the act
Man wtf. $10K? She could have just ran away! Damn
Agreed, but 10K was more back then that it is now. So maybe it might of seemed like a larger sum? Not to justify what she did. Not at all.
I guess she really wasn’t very smart.
@@Liliana-qi8rw this was in the 2010s, girl she could have ran away
you are right, she have not excuses. she is a criminal
@@midapita ah. For some reason I thought it was 2005
a lot of people are saying “why didn’t she just leave” but when you live in a traditional asian household, that’s not the case. it goes against tradition to speak out , to refuse, to leave. it’s shown as disrespect. doing so just causes your family to see you as the black sheep, the outsider. you get treated differently. i could tell that yes, she wanted to do all of these things, but still get accepted by her family. i would know, because i’ve done the same lol. living in a traditional asian household for girls means you either grow up to be a home maker or a successful doctor/lawyer/etc. you’re not supposed to have time for anything else. tiger parents are super strict, but at the end of the day, they’re doing what they think is best. yes, the parents have somewhat of a blame here, but their consequences shouldn’t have resulted in their lives lost/traumatized.
I've read that her mother was the ferocious one, while her father was the reluctant accomplice. Also, as I understand it, a great many people in the Asian diaspora, and in Asia itself, can't abide all that "tiger" stuff.
I have an Asian friend in her 20’s and she tried to leave but her parents told her that they would disown her if she did. So she still lives with them and they are strict.
Seriously, those people are no better than chodes who ask why people who are hit or emotionally abused by their partners don't leave.
shannon yang id rather be disowned than put up with that
Dewi Lew i feel like it’s not a white people thing if that makes sense? like don’t get me wrong, i’ve heard of strict “tiger” white parents. but i usually see it from POC parents. idk. i hope i don’t sound offensive saying that.
Some parents still don't understand that their kids are individuals and not their puppets. It's a shame she thought murder was the only way for her to be finally free
how could her parents be so strict yet so uninvolved in her life to the point she could just lie about anything and they didn't even think about it twice? that's why strict parenting DOESN'T WORK
It's because they're FOBs. They had no choice but to trust her word bc they didn't know how university and volunteering worked around there
Faking a transcript is pretty extreme and maybe the parents didn't expect the worst
@@tellercamille8080 I agree, but mainly because I'm sure that the parents would take that as their failure. While I don't condone what she did AT ALL, I can imagine she was living in a version of Hell.
Strict parenting does work but abusive parenting does not. Her brother was brought up the same way and he turned out fine. I dont know why he couldn't get him to tell them her problems and just continue to lie. Parents listen if they see your struggle but she just tries to hide it all.
@@igot7-lu Her brother was a male and thus he may have been granted some privileges that his femaile counterpart couldn't.
A class trip to EUROPE??? My class went to the local state park for a picnic.
Sis SAME
In elementary we took a school trip to a park.... 2 blocks from the school. We even went walking...
I mean I’m sure she went to a private school
My school is public and we did a trip to Galapagos islands it was like 1.5k or something but everything was covered for the week. And this year I believe it's Costa Rica. It's all only if you want to and they even have scholarships for kids to apply for. But we had trips at my other highschool to DC so this isn't to new to me. I guess
I go to public school and went on a school trip to california this year and I live in the uk!
The mom can go out line dancing but the daughter can’t go to a high school dance. Smh
Cristianandtupac right!?
Reminds me of how my parents went out on a date and left me to babysit my brothers on the night of my senior homecoming (it was the weekend of their anniversary).
This isn’t related and probably sounds dumb but what does smh mean 😂
@@heyitsbee8473 shaking my head :)
@@PhoenixRising87 No, thats kinda of fair for them. But they should have found a different babysitter for you.
My current boyfriend grew up in a very strict Vietnamese family. He is the oldest of 4 kids. He has two younger brothers and one younger sister. He said that growing up, the only thing his parents really expected from him and his brothers was to get good grades and to go to college and not get in trouble with the law in any way. His sister however has had way more standards set for her, not only does she have to get good grades (straight A’s specifically), get into a good college and stay out of trouble, but she has to go with the career her parents pick and she’s the only one out of the siblings that isn’t allowed to go out with friends or have any friends over. She’s not allowed to have any friends that are boys and she has to clock in time logs in when she studied and did homework.
My bf hates seeing her under all that stress and he has actually been trying to convince his parents to let her live with him and his roommates because of how much anxiety she has just being in the same house as their parents. Their parents however won’t allow her to live with him but he still allows her to stay over whenever she can.
It honestly hurts a lot to see her living her teenage years in a prison.
I don't know if I should feel angry with her or feel sorry for her. I come from a strict Asian household too. Im a 25-year-old adult but still can't reveal to my parents that Im in love. They never let me have male friends until I was 22. That's was possible only because I never told them about my friends. I even had to meet my friends secretly which is a shame. They forced me into being a dentist and have no clue I hate it. I was physically abused by my dad since childhood. They always expected me to be better despite me doing my best. The worst part was they forced me to get married at 23. I tried committing suicide but somehow the marriage got cancelled in the end. Somehow after meeting my bf of 5 years, I managed to manipulate their thoughts and studying something I like and got far away. I really hope they don't torture me any more than they already have. This type of behaviour is common in the Asian household. In India, it's even common to kill children if they defy parents and marry against their will. I hope parents understand that children are humans too and to treat them right.
Arent u a legal adult at 18?
@@lawrencemorgan8255 Yes , but this type of parents just don't care.
@Shruthi I am sorry to hear that, hope you are doing fine and are happy now.
I hope everything is better for you!!! 🙏
Oh yeah, that lifestyle is so common in Asia lol. No boys, only study, get master's. Luckily we are not alone - that's the typical Asian life lol
Soooo your telling me that her parents didn’t find it weird that they didn’t go to a high school graduation
Alex C maybe because they weren’t from there
It’d be language barrier plus they are immigrants which mean they didn’t know how high school and university in that country operate (i.e. they might thought it is different from their home countries). (I know this because I am also studying aboard and my parent didn’t attend my high school graduation either + they mostly let my big sister and the agency took care of me because they don’t know about the system etc.)
I think it is somewhat reasonable if they start to suspect after she starts lying about working since it will be the part they can relates and know how it work (e.g. must have uniform or lab keycard if she is really in that occupation).
where I'm from, we don't have high school graduation ceremonies, so maybe that was the case with her school
Rona says hold my beer. :'(
@@flutey28 that hurt me more than it should have 😭
Omg a “family discount” to assassinate a family......at least he’s humble 💀💀💀💀
@Natthenn 😭🙊
Nadia Shock I thought it was because he was friends with Daniel
Hahaha fuck
we love a Humble Hitman 🤠
Being Asian, I can understand what she went through. Especially being a girl. You feel like you're suffocating. The boys were more loved, treated as king. Us girls were seen as useless, slave. We do not have the same freedom as the boys. Go to school, straight home, cook and clean after everyone in the family. Especially if you're the eldest daughter. Babysit all your younger siblings. My family lived in a 3 bedroom house. There were 9 of us and my brother the oldest who was only 2 years older than me get a room all to himself. Everyone else cramp into the other room.. Whatever my brother wants, he gets.
I still remember one time, I went to my friend bday, it was only 6pm, we haven't even had dinner or blow the candle on the cake and my mom already came and force me home.
One time, it was late 8pm, I decided to sleep at my friend house and the next day, I got my ass whoop so bad I was crying for days. But then I see my brother going out, doing drugs, drinking and he didn't get his ass whoop. Just a few lecture. Man.
It's very sad to be an Asian girl growing up.
That's why when I was young I always pray in next life, please please don't let me be reborn in a Asian family.
Those who did not grow up in this kind of household will never understand and know the mental, physical abuse the children goes through. Imagine how much abuse she must've went through for her to get to the point where she have the fake her grade and college acceptance. Killing her parents was extreme, but she was probably torture to the point all she see is killing them is her only way for freedom. I actually sympathize with her.
That’s really bloody sad.. what a hard life
She probably has more freedom in prison
I sympathize with her as well. She was abused for years. How incredibly sad😞
💔 I'm so sorry to hear what you've gone through. I hope you're happy despite everything you've gone through ❤️. I don't know you, but I can tell you're a very empathetic person and whatever you do in life will greatly benefit from your perspective and empathy. You didn't deserve to be treated that way. You are worthy of happiness and deserve great things in life ❤️
it's the same here for latin American households, sons get treated like gods for existing while the daughters get criticism for every little thing, it really seems like they were even looking for things to criticize you on.
Reading the comments, you can really tell who had strict parents and who didn't lmaoo
LOL i was just thinking about this
@@KendallRae Ahh I can't believe you saw this!! But I understand where she's coming from. Like was her plan warranted? Absolutely not. Being hurt doesn't excuse doing horrible things, but it does explain them. My parents were very similar to hers, and I'm in therapy because of it. It really does damage one's psyche.
I had strict parents...I don't feel sorry for her parents at all. My father treated me the exact same way (my mother blissfully didn't give a shit) up to when I moved out in January (I just turned 32 in April), and I am still a hot mess because of it (in therapy, struggling with suicidal ideation, etc.) And that's the thing. Stories like Jennifer's happen all the time; they just usually end with the child offing themselves instead of their parents.
@@PhoenixRising87 Yes, exactly. People who are saying "she was an adult, why didn't she just leave" truly don't understand what it's like to live with parents like that. I am glad you got out of that situation and hope things improve for you and your mental health.
oôo yep
She was an adult with two jobs. She shouldve just left.
the inheritance was prolly looking 😍😍💰
Exactly! She just messed up her whole life
Lol rip Jennifer
No rip her parents
Right It was like 4 years of fake collage girl just leave
Jennifer had a kind of talent for formatting and artistry. If she could do forgery to THAT degree, she could create a career for herself.
Right... it didn't have to be this way! The other adults in her life failed her imo. They should have tried to mentor her and provide her with more of a validating and positive outlook that she wasn't getting at home (from the looks of it). Maybe those who had concerns about the strict ass parents kept their mouths shut because it was "none of [their] business." 🤷♀️
Sully or faked her death
Graphic design?
Yes she was talented in design but her parents wouldn’t have let her study that. They only wanted her to study medicine. It’s a shame she never had control over studying what she was truly passionate about.
I love you Nicocado no she has a point, no ones born a monster they just become one and it’s somewhat the parents fault. You probably have a good relationship with your parents so keep it to yourself
She was in her 20s (24 I believe) when all of this happened but I’m sure emotionally due to the restrictive upbringing she was more like a teenager.
She was 33 at the time, and is now 59.
She was born in June 17 1986 she was 24 @@cadaverdog1424
strict parents create rebellious kids, dont @ me.
Angelina Martinez I agree! I had very strict parents and I was sooo bad as a teenager. Bad boyfriend, drugs.. everything. I went crazy lol
My kids have a lot of freedom, and both older teens (15 & 19) have decided to he straight edge (sober)... I was under the thumb, almost stalked by my parents, and smoked weed, and drank, from 15 years old on until I got sober when I got pregnant with my now 19 year old... Communication is key! Be their parent, not their friend, but raise children you can TRUST, and let them know they're valued, and curiosity is OK. don't block them if they have questions. Talk openly. Just my 2 cents... :)
Julie MB Crow good for you!! I also had crazy strict parents and I grew up to drink until I blacked out once I had freedom. I also lied a lot because the tiniest thing like a grade of a C would have labeled as a horrible child. I wasn’t even allowed to go to a Kelly Clarkson concert with a friend and her MOM. My boyfriend had a lot of freedom and trusting parents and he also chose to be straight-edge. Being strict does not create good kids.
@Angelina Martinez
lol I just wanted to @ you don’t you’re definitely right
I grew up with basically no limits. I can’t recall one rebellious thing I did. It was so weird to me that everyone was so eager to party, smoke, ditch school, etc etc. I just seemed so much more mellow and mature than everyone else. I had my first alcoholic drink when I was 23 lol.
When her Dad threaded to kick her out, she should have just left🤷🏽♀️
Been waiting for someone to,say this. She should have just freaking left!
@Abidjanaise hope you are doing ok 💔
Exactlyyy 💯💯 could’ve avoided all of this
They would've done somethong to bring her back into their control anyway (not defending her)
Maybe she didn’t have anywhere to go since Daniel left her
God, I've seen so many lives go horribly wrong... I'm an Asian (Indian, to be exact) and I grew up with Tiger parents too. Though, in comparison to a few of my other friends, I got to choose the degree I wanted (which is a luxury, trust me.).
But, in many other aspects, like boyfriends and parties, I've had to lie time and time again and it's exhausting, so at one point, I just stopped dating or going out anymore.
I've known classmates that ended up commiting suicide because they were forced into med school and it wasn't what they wanted to do. The notes always say "Sorry Mom/Dad" and it's terrible.
But you know what the problem is? This controlling behaviour is so normal in our culture, that most people don't see a problem with it.
I didn't either, until I grew up and actually realised it wasn't okay. I have a much better relationship with my parents now after I confronted them about all of it.
Edit: To everyone that feels the same, has been through this suicidal phase, I just want you to know, it will get better and you'll make it out of this! Keep fighting!! ❣️
Glad to hear it got better for you now
@@방탄마루아 It took a lot of effort to get where we are now with our relationship. But I'm glad we sorted it all out.
(Eyy an ARMY! 저도 아미예용 ^^ )
@@Anayaah421 It sure must have been hard 🥺 수고많았어요 fellow army ^^
@@방탄마루아 감사합니다 ^^
I have the same kind of parents, it is the main reason of my depression. At times i feel like running away or u know kill myself just to escape these mental trauma. At times i feel guilty too, my parents do soooo much for me. But they dont even let me take my own smallest decision.
In the beginning it wasn’t mentioned that she was excelling in middle school and she studied a looooot, she was expecting to get valedictorian, however, it was given to another person. And that’s when she completely felt demotivated and thought what’s the point of studying so much and putting so much effort and work when you don’t get much out of it. Then, high school started and that’s when she started doing much worse in school because of that.
Treating your kid like your prisoner is only gonna give them major issues. My neighbor’s were one of those families that never had cable, only went to church functions, never had a house phone, etc. Their daughter ended up getting married the day she turned 18 to some random guy just to get away. Now she is still estranged from her family. It’s just sad. I would never want my kid to feel like they had to run away from me.
Just because they had “good intentions” towards their daughter doesn’t mean they weren’t abusive. They are abusive parents. Intentions don’t matter. Outcomes do.
Lily Rose this!!!!
Well said. According to a proverb: "The hell is paved with a plenty of good intentions". People must know what their doing, not only what they desire.
kind of like how you can run someone over and kill them accidentally, you didn't mean for them to die but alas
Doesn’t mean they deserved to be shot.
Moe Clips I never said they deserved it.
“Going to school or being kicked out”. GET KICKED OUT. Start your own life, Jesus.
That's why I think there is more to her motives. She could have left. She was able to work, had her boyfriend. I suspect there was a lot of anger in her and she really wanted to kill them regardless.
@@anka6356 she also would get a lotttt of money from their estate if she pulled it off
@Turquoise Cheetah she did live on her own for two years with him without her parents. She obviously knew she could do it
People need to stop blaming victims of abuse. Whether it's from their partners, their bosses, or their parents. "Why didn't she leave?" is never the right thing to ask when a woman is being hit by her partner, so why is that okay when a woman is being treated like she's property by her parents?
Rose My mom gave me that ultimatum when I graduated high school. It was either that I could live at home and go full time to college and work.. or she would kick me out. She told me this the day after I walked the stage for graduation. So I didn’t want to debt at only 18 of going to college, and the females on my mom’s side has severe memory issues... so I struggle extremely hard with test taking. I was scared (still am) or dropping out of college because it’s all tests and quizzes. Soooooo... I joined the army. And now I have a bulging disc in my lower back. And I have an MRI tomorrow morning to find out what other treatment options I have left. Physical therapy and medication isn’t helping handle or treat the pain.
Wish I would’ve just apply to college and accepted the debt.
There's blame all around here. The parents basically started the ball rolling by horribly, abusively controlling their daughter. They are as much to blame as her. Such a shame
Father: You will date this young man over my dead body.
Jennifer Pan: Hold my beer
lol shouldn't be funny but it kinda is
Anna Costello Wisniewski it’s not funny
More like hold my iphone burner
Words are powerful
😭😭
Strict parents tend to do more damage than good, imo.
Not having a parent who cares is pretty damaging to, imo . Somewhere in the middle is just right lol.
My parents managed to be neither and both at the same time somehow...Grew up fucked up lol
agreed they were so controlling that she didn't even thought about just moving out and living her own life
Corrin Gromley having shitty parents who convince everyone they care about them when they actually could give two fucks about them is way worse
*overly strict
Just remember: Tiger parents raise tiger children....
Wilson House GRRRR!
Fangs and claws roaaaarrr :P
Tony the tiger has entered the chat
Wilson House oh god
Or the complete opposite. They may be meek as hell. I'm one of them.
I'm from Toronto and I remember when all this went down. I don't know what it is with Toronto and tiger parents, but I have known a few! Quite a few Asian people I went to school with were absolutely miserable because their parents would never let them sleep. If they weren't at school, they were at home practicing their instruments day and night. Yeah, they had good grades, but they had ZERO people skills, because they were never allowed to communicate with other humans in the "outside world." And they move like robots. So I hope this is a lesson for those overly strict parents out there. It's one thing to want your kids to be successful, but when you take it too far, it becomes CHILD ABUSE whether one chooses to admit that or not! Jennifer was emotionally and psychologically abused by her parents her whole life, and they drove her right off the edge. She wasn't born that way.
Omg I can’t. Good to know hitmen have a “Friends & Family” discount. I wonder if they also take coupons.
No coupons but they're on Groupon 😂
Cael J. Harden they DO take all major credit cards and PayPal credit though 👍🏼
Check for Black Friday specials!
Cael J. Harden DEAD😂💀💀
Do they take competitors coupons?
As someone raised by a tiger mom (and an enabler dad), I can empathize with the feeling of being suffocated. But even after my mom chased me with a knife, my instinct was to hide, not fight back. Not because I loved her but because I didn't want to risk getting thrown in jail. The hell I knew was better than the hell I didn't know. Jennifer just exchanged one prison for another.
Well put. I have the same feelings exactly
Nicely worded 👍
true, this applies to about everything, actions can make something already bad even worse
She wasn't in prison. She was an adult and could leave if she wanted. But if she wanted to mooch off her parents as an adult, it's only fair to live by their rules. Don't like it then take care of yourself and leave, not kill. Disgusting
But she’s Canadian , she’ll be out soon. Free of both prisons. That’s how it is here . Believe me. We are ridiculous here.
When will parents realize that them being strict makes their kids not like them
four twenty your parents aren’t your best friends.
Ever Greatest they aren’t your owners either
narutoes when you have kids then you can talk
@@evergreatest7557 have fun trying to control everything your kid does for 18+ years. It never fucking works out. Kids and parents need to a friendly, understanding relationship. Not one where the kid gets no freedoms
@@fourtwenty1813 Exactly.
I had strict parents growing up, and even now at 30 they still would like to treat me like I’m 14. I had an accident and needed to stay with them after leaving the hospital when I was 25, and they tried enforcing the same “rules” that a high school kid would have. There’s a difference between caring and respecting their home while I was there for a few weeks, and the way they went about it. When we’re not living together my mom’s my absolute best friend and I’m on the phone with her for a couple hours every other day. However, I understand completely the pressure & control Jennifer felt from her parents.
Imagine your sibling doing all of that while you're chillin in college with no clue
felix is the younger sibling
@@thedelia101 oops thanks
testenten but she was 24, so he would’ve still been in college all that time.
@@thedelia101 he was still in college lmao
@@sarab3417 ok i just said that he was younger cuz op said he was older but now they’ve edited sooo idk what ur point is
Her father: Date that man over my dead body
Jennifer: Bet.
This was outta pocket 😭💀
What carful what you say 🤣
tomatotyler this ain’t suppose to be funny but dammm 💀😭
I feel so terrible for laughing 😂😢
JAILLLL
During the 911 call when her dad screamed I got chills. So sickening...
Shannon Matthews it broke my heart
As a child of a incredibly strict father let me just say that it didn't make me respect him or work harder... It made me on some level loath and hate him and his parenting style. Spanking your children or threating to "take away Christmas" only works when they are smaller and weaker than you... Once they grow up, it just makes them angry, and that's not a good life for them trust me.
I find this really sad tbh, sure don't let your kids run wild but don't make their life a living hell. People can only take so much before they snap.
She was a grown women when she did this...
@@sftnstlg obviously her age makes her legally responsible. But if your parents take that much control of your life, it follows that you will have a hard time seeing them as people rather then strictly as authority figures. When a prisoner murders a prison guard, noone is surprised. It's an adult decision based on circumstances. If shed been a POW in an enemy camp, she would be seen as a hero.
@Carol Simpson While I can understand your point, I’d argue that this young woman’s circumstance is too far removed from that of a POW for the two to be compared at all. Her parents were arguably too controlling, but it’s nothing to kill them for. She was basically an adult: cut contact and move on if necessary.
@@Birdheard97 there are mental prisons as well. Look at that little gipsy girl - she could have just left too. But had been made so dependent on her abuser that she thought that the only way her mother wouldn't control her life was if she were dead. Both girls were dead wrong, but I can see how their thinking could get that warped.
Ehhh but Gypsy Rose Blanchard’s mother had Munchausen by Proxy which is a severe mental illness. This video never indicated that Jenifer’s parents did anything on that level. Gypsy was forced to fake an illness and underwent medical treatment that she didn’t need (physical abuse). This girl couldn’t talk to boys or attend school dances. Her parents put an unhealthy amount of pressure on her and were definitely controlling, but it’s very different from what Gypsy endured.
My question is how did she “ graduate “ high school with out her parents watching her walk? How did she get away with that?
Dude no joke my cousin lied to her parents about graduating hs as well. She convinced them that because she didn't order her cap and gown on time, she wouldn't be able to walk across stage and would have to pick her diploma up at the office at a later date. It's insane.
Lifecoach05 omg crazy. Knowing my mom who is basically an FBI agent, she would call the school and ask why they didn't have extras or just call me out immediately 😂
@@leximari lmao right?! How do you hear this excuse and be like "sounds legit" 🤣
Makala Ann i guess it’s a lot easier to get away with where i live lmao lots of people here don’t even go to graduation you can just get the diploma sent to your house
@@leximari Ah I see your mum is an FBI Agent too, just like mine🤣🤣🤣
Ohh I love this case. Kendall, I was wondering if you could make a video for more awareness into the unsolved murder of Lindsay Buziak. She was a realtor in Victoria Canada who was murder by some clients back in 2008. Her Dad was on the Dr. Phil show in May. Please upvote so Kendall can see!
YES i will add this to my list right now!
Kendall Rae thank you, lovely! 💕
Yes!! I second this request! The Lindsay Buziak case is one of the most frustrating ones I’ve read about. Lindsay and her father deserve justice!!
@@brookeblair4247 Definitely agree
I remember when this happened!
I grew up with Tiger parents and I can honestly understand her. I've had my parents key-track my computers, ground me for 6 months, never went to prom, couldn't have friends etc. It gets to the point where it is easier to lie, just to save your own sanity. I had to cut them off completely to get out, it's so sad she never felt safe enough to lead a normal life.
Fast foward 15 yr...I'm a piano teacher :D
they did realise she was like.. an adult right?
Exactly, she was ~24
A lot of Asian parents are super controlling even over their adult children.
I don’t understand if she had jobs why she didn’t save up and leave her parents behind ?
My boyfriend is 21 and he has a curfew of 11 o'clock. It puts a strain on his relationships with friend and me. I can tell he's stressed all the time, because his younger sibling has more freedom then he does
I'm 18 and I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend or go on dates and my curfew is 8:30pm. I'm not even allowed to go to parties or go out with my friends two day in a row. It gets very depressing. I can't even call my friends after 11
Her parents were a bit much, but they didn't deserve what she did to them.
ismini but shot and killed? They shouldn’t have been parents yes but killed that horrifically? Yea no
ismini no, I have parents like that and yes, I do have to live a double life, but I would never kill my own fuckings parents... like to think like that you must be sick and twisted in your head. It’s just disgusting. If you hate your parents so much you can just move out and never talk to them again. But if you even consider killing your parents. Like come on, that’s just pure evil.
@ismini Dude, my parents are like that too, and when I was younger they were insufferable. But never did I wish death upon them! Now that I'm older, I kind of understand where they are coming from. They just have bad communication skills and never learned creative parenting, but it doesn't mean they're crappy people! They do want the best for you, but they're imperfect people. They feel frustration with you and with themselves when they don't feel like they can get through to you.
My parents are like that, but much worse and I can’t imagine actually going through with what she did. Absolutely insane.
@ismini u serious??! Apportion seems good for kids like u. They only wanted her to have great grades and a decent education, how is it ok to kill them bcuz of that. I don't think u respect ur family tbh.
Controlling parents are on par with toxic relationships. Yes discipline your children and give them guidance but don’t hold them as prisoners. They’re not your property.
This. Education about bad things and love is more important than grades and restrictions.
I agree with most of this. I dont consider my son “property” but he is mine till he turns 18.
Words of wisdom. Parents are not owners of the children they give birth to. Parents are spiritual and emotional guides and a temporary care takers to the children they invite to this world. All parents' No1 task is to not destroy the children's natural gifts and dreams in the process of guiding them throughout their childhood. Those who impose their way of life and their unsolved expectations toward life on youngsters provoking in them frustration and a sense of humiliation are monsters, actually.
@Shawn Burke a child is not a house or car. No a child is not Property. A child is simply a child that you raise and teach and guide. Not someone you hold prisoner. And you by law can't hold them hostage after 18. Just cause your their parents.
Okay, boomer
Not condoning her murdering her parents or anything here, but I completely understand why she did it. There's a fine line between being involved in your kids life and totally controlling your kids life.
Yeah but she didn’t do it bc they were strict. She wanted Daniel back and wanted to get her parents house,cars, and money
Jennifer looks so angry in every photo jeeze
She was probably miserable...
She looks so miserable. I would be too
She was depressed the poor baby🥺
It’s really distraught
She only has one mood and that is called 'murder on my mind'
Controlling parents create sneaky, resentful children. I’m in no way condoning what Jennifer did to her mom and dad, but had they been a little bit more lenient with her, perhaps she wouldn’t have felt the need to lie to live up to their expectations.
Bang on!! 🎯🏴
What’s even crazier is that just this year in Markham an 18 year old guy killed his entire family because he had strict parents as well. He lied to them about going to college and was too scared to admit that to them.
I live near Markham and had no idea all this crazy stuff happened there! I know it's an asian dominated area so I wonder if he had the same background as Jennifer.
Link?
I have a lot of friends from Asian backgrounds who grew up in Markham and experienced a super similar environment to these kids. It’s a real problem that needs to be addressed
Sounds like he was the problem
@@virginia3937 I thought he was Indian?
Her dad must be, “you’re such a disappointment you can’t even kïll me right”
Ooof. Damn. You're probably right. 😬
You'd think she'd put a lil more effort in her grades considering faking everything seems like way more work
People excel at different things. She may not have been book smart, but was obviously great at forgery.
She had learning disabilities which kept her from excelling gradeswise
Alexis Madelyn Rau she didn't mention that
I know! D: Like damn just study a little more....
Not everyone can get good grades.
“The strictest parents make the sneakiest kids” -someone on Twitter
I like your pfp
Kalani Lu thank u ❤️
Kalani Lu I love yours too
Ikr
I agree 100% if my parents knew what I did as a kid, i would have been on lockdown.
While I don’t condone her actions, I do think her parents were abusive.
Is it bad that I lowkey wanted her to get away with it 💀
@@wishes7142 just a tad
abusive is definitely an understatement. she was a prisoner.
While I agree that the parenting style was Not right at all.but she was well over an adult she was 24! and legally she could have left anytime if she was over Her parents Telling her what to do. I personally believe the reason she did was not only Because of The parenting but because she wanted the house cars money etc that would be left Behind sad that she grew up that way but still doesn't make taking your parents life acceptable.
Absolutely! Also, being the first born daughter of an Asian house hold is no joke. I can definitely relate and sympathize with her but I draw the line at getting this carried away with the lying and planning to kill her parents.
I think the most important aspect of strict parents disowning you is that they rarely teach important life skills that make people capable of surviving in the world as a young adult. It’s important for children to have a firm grasp of important traits like independence, collaboration, conflict resolution, empathy, resourcefulness, confidence, and adaptability before they leave the home. People with overly strict parents often lack these skills and suffer when they aren’t under their parents’ watchful eyes.
Everyone who keeps commenting “wasn’t she an adult ?” “ why didn’t she leave” if you’ve never had controlling strict parents you will never know how much influence, fear and dependency is built from years of living in that kind of environment . Definitely doesn’t make what she did right though.
Firm believer that strict parents just create sneaky kids
They do
lyn yep
I had a childhood friend that would lie to her mother non stop and all these crazy schemes and her mother was super strict.
lyn I agree. If anything those kids turn out to be troublemakers. They end up raising the exact opposite of what they intended
I’m one of them 😫very true
Dad screaming was heart wrenching. She sounded so surprised that he was alive and almost like OMFG he's not dead.
How hardheaded is this man?
@@xonx209 ???
lol an asian man takes a lot to defeat
I don’t condone what she did by any means. But I have absolute empathy for this girl. Imagine every single moment of your life being dictated by a person with unrealistic expectations… that’s abuse…
Tbh, I kinda understand her. There is a thin line between "Strict parenting" and abuse. After years and years of being basically caged in her own house, she just did not see any other way. Was it ok? No. But I can see why she did what she did
My parents are kinda strict too, and tbh I hate their parenting style and ,though I’m not on house arrest or are going through half the stuff she was, I still see it to me as a form of mental abuse. THEY DONT EVEN LET ME SHARE MY HECKING IDEAS MAN!
@@railedsucks394 I understand
Glad someone does! 😊
Soapyhands59 I fell you 😐But now I don’t give a fuck about them
There was a movie called Perfect Sisters, which was about two sisters whose mother was neglectful and no one wanted to help them. They ended up drowning her in a bathtub, which really messed up one of the sisters. They gotten away with it until she had gotten PTSD and got them arrested.
Huge difference between being strict and abusive idc who’s a parent in this convo y’all don’t understand resentment that comes from controlling parents
I have a very abusively strict mother. I'm almost 30 and am still fighting for my own life. Feels like I lost my whole childhood. If anything I've learned I will never be that way toward my children.
Sw33ts me too but I’m still 13
Franchesca Zamora they were 100% abusive
say it louder for the ppl in the back
I feel the exact same way. I'm 22 and I've not indulged in anything that normal people my age do. It's really difficult but what can you do.
So...she’s college age....she’s an adult...why are her parents treating her like she’s 16...
Because they're abusive
Bcus they're Asian.
Because thats how the average asian parent is
They’re also treating her like a prisoner.
Because she lives in a POC household. It's common.
Sad case, but common in non-white families.
I have extremely strict parents who made me feel ashamed to be anything else beside who they wanted. They were emotionally manipulative, verbally abusing me all the time. I have no sense my worth even as an adult so I finally left their home when I was 20 in secret. I wish she took herself out this family environment instead of what she did.
Strict parenting never leads to anything positive.
Lenient parenting is worse
Being a strict parent isn't inherently bad. Ever heard of the term 'strict but fair?'
@@realnookes6482 You need the happy medium but parenting isn't easy.
not really for me. so not never, haha!
Maybe for you. I rather have parents that care about me than parents who don’t
I really don’t have much sympathy for the parents but the fact that they begged the “intruders” not to hurt Jeniffer when she was the one orchestrating their murders is kind of heartbreaking
Suspicious Pooh they did love her very much, everything they did was out of fear. My parents are what I would consider tiger parents. I remember resenting them for years. I finally moved out, they never said I love you, they never said how proud of me they were. Recently my mom got diagnosed with cancer and told me (and my dad told me) how much they loved and care for me. My parents were immigrants and did everything they could to make my life happy. Some people show their love in different ways
Ikr i live in Vietnam and my parents are kind of strict but I don’t let the strictness stop me from doing what I want to do sure I will go to college to make them feel secure but nah actually I’m out here looking for jobs that’s I like I will not tell them yet unless I find one I’m sure my parents are not this strict and have high expectations in me like her parents they just want me to be a good man and noo I’ll never do anything harmful to my parents even if they were this strict bc I understand why they do what they do the asian parent is very different from the way they uprising their children to the parent in the west but I know one thing they all love their childre the same I wish that she knew this before she hired the hitman it’s just bad
Yeah... still doesnt justify tho.. she killed her mom
Really there are parents who abuse and starve their kids and sex traffic them and you’re saying you don’t have sympathy for her parents? Get a fucking grip!
@@samarztk Agreed. It's a cultural thing Asian tiger parenting didn't become a huge issue until Americans decided it was one.
I relate a lot to Jennifer. I grew up with a very strict Vietnamese family. Everything they put her through I experienced and can understand. I grew up with a lot of resentment for them but I remember everything they sacrificed to give me a better life. My relationship improved so much once they finally let me do what I wanted to. Seeing me happy was successful to them.
"Seeing me happy was successful to them."
Asian parents seem to hold a grudge when their kids happy as they themselves didn't have it as good when they were children.
Ahhh ur really pretty :)
Off topic but you are gorgeous and I agree with you
I honestly can completely relate with this
As an Asian myself, I can totally relate to Jennifer's story. I have strict parents, but not as strict as her parents. Still, it doesn't mean that you can hire someone to kill your parents.
Fun fact, in Canada getting 70s is actually B’s
Chanel Oberlin honestly when I found out how the American grading system works, I was like oh wow so I would be getting B’s and C’s.
whats the grading system i’m canada?
Where in canada do you live? In quebec 70s is a C
Lol you can pass a course in Toronto with a 51%. My brother wouldn’t have passed high school without this haha
fun fact at my school it’s an F :))
I hope this heeds a warning to parents. Embrace your children for who they are. If you hold too tightly you don't always raise exceptional adults rather extraordinary con artists. No one can live up to perfection.
Completely agree with this message. But it's still not a good enough reason to murder her parents or justify her actions.
Ruth Keys some people are just twisted when it comes to morals
"Hey parents! Let your child do whatever they want or else be killed"- nice warning
@@staceyarago no, the warning is dont be so incredibly strict that your child is suffocating and hates you
@@bobqing6970 that's not what the message is. I hope that you'd understand that it's a middle point between tracking mileage at 18, can't have friends, can't be in the same place as boys and no social life and letting your child run wild with no rules or discipline. Please tell me you understand it's a difference??
“family discount” to assassinate a family i can't
Danielle Rothwell bahahahshgjfhj
Oh god the irony, right?😭🤣🤣🤣
Her dad saying he has anxiety and ptsd but I’m sure they put her through awful amounts of stress and pressure for such a young brain developing. I grew up in a very strict religious conservative home where I wasn’t allowed to even cut my hair because it was a sin and couldn’t play sport because it wasn’t what a Christian girl would do. Just like Jennifer I wasn’t allowed boyfriends, was homeschooled because school was a sin and I had to be in a Christian homeschool program, was forced to go to church 5 days a week to sing in a choir and go to youth services. Also wasn’t allowed to move out until marriage. And on top of all that experienced sexual abuse at the hands of a church leader. Anyway that did a lot of damage to my mental health and to this day at age 30 I’m still struggling to heal. I’m definitely not condoning what she did and she should be in prison for what she did but her parents aren’t saints.
honestly i have no sympathy for the dad in this story. Strict parents means kids are more likely to rebel.
I dont really care about how hes doing since his attempted murder ik i sound harsh and Unsympathetic but hann isnt a saint
Wow, I am so sorry for what you experienced. To be told silly things like cutting your hair is a sin and then at the same hand be sexually abused must have made life so hard and confusing. I am so angry for you. That's not what life in the church or knowing God is at all about. I'm so sorry. I hope you are finding healing.