Conservative Mother Disapproves of Black Wedding Dress | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Melody Choate has her heart set on wearing an edgy black dress on her wedding day, however mum has always dreamed on seeing her little girl wear a white ballgown when walking down the aisle.
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“My loyalty is to my sister”. Now THATS is my favourite part. You can tell how much he loves and supports his sister
Nicole Bosma And he actually uploads a video about their wedding
@@lovestruckly aww that's adorable
@@lovestruckly where?
I love that line
*can't relate*
Okay, but that brother deserves a round of applause. He was stuck between a rock and a hard place most likely, but knew that this day was for his sister and her fiancée, not the Mom.
Yeah he is very supportive and probably the only one in the family
I thought you said applesauce
The brother’s a tall drink of water
Tiaam Du Nord
And i’m thirsty.
Yeah so true
A ROMANTICISM WEDDING IN A LIBRARY WITH A BLACK RING?! CAN I COME TOO?! 🖤
This would literally be my dream wedding..
I wonder if the reception tables all have arrangements featuring the couple’s favorite books???
IKR!!
@@elizabethsoares6253 At my older sister's wedding reception, the table centerpieces were small stacks of books! It was Lovely!
WHERE IS MY INVITE?!? 🖤🖤
These women are literally living in a gay coffee shop dark academia romance AU and I'm living for it
OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT
Man I want what they have
Exactly. They are living the life I want.
When she said coffee shop I immediately thought of this
This is almost word for word what I was thinking of commenting and I love that fact.
YES
I honestly appreciated the "who's paying for the dress" question. It was a very polite way of asking "how much of mom's opinion should we actually take into account?"
Lol ikr 0^0
YES
HAHHAHAAH FR
i would like to politely disagree although i do think that your mom should have a little bit of a say in it especially if she’s paying for the dress it still should be what the bride wants ( after all it is suppose to be one of the best days of you life).
@@aetlian Im not paying for an ugly dress thats only going to be worn once and different colored wedding dresses usually aren’t passed down because most people go for the traditional white
*"But, my loyalty today is to my sister."*
*Such a great brother* 😊
She definitely brought him along to be her support against their mom. I picked that vibe up from the beginning.
Yup and the other day my brother is choked me I just love my sidling 😶
Black dress,video about black dress and black writing?Everything is black
*Black is amazing* *NATURE*
Agreed, great guy
IKR, her brother is the best
"my loyalty is to my sister" WOW BROTHER GOALS
ARMY
pastel-namjoon your username makes me uwu ^_^
Armyy!!!
Lmao can't relate my brother isn't like that.
ARMY FGJBCDJCDUJCDU FSTHXFIB OMG!
“It’s her wedding day!”
Exactly. HER wedding day, not yours.
True
My mom and dad married without a diamond ring just wedding bands because they don’t like gem stones. Also my mom hates dresses, she married in a gold silk blouse and a pair of wide leg trousers. None of their parents said shit and that was in the 80s Asia. I can’t believe the conservativeness going on here.
@@cielo_ciel_ I can only imagine how beautiful their wedding was! I never understood white dresses, diamond rings, weddings in general etc. Honestly it’s just sad when parents don’t support their childrens decisions.
@@Duck-cb8rk thank you! They are both artists and mom is also a fashion designer, so she made her own blouse and wore a pair of flats. I, while enjoy being single (never 'want' to get married, but if it happens it happens), don't understand diamond rings, huge reception parties and all of that. Just find someone you love and begin a journey together is more than a bless.
uhm, whats up with the sass?
"The color? it doesn't MAKE a bride. You see that smile on her face ? THAT's what makes her a beautiful bride" Love it
idrzy ts. Lol after I read this the lady had said it right after 😂
@@jadafitch3587 lol me too
Amen!
idrzy ts. I totally agree
I read this comment at the same time I heard her say that.
Ok but can we talk about how sweet and a gentleman her brother is? He’s so accepting of his sisters choices, and he’s soo easy on the eyes. What a sweetheart.
His speech at their wedding was AMAZING and eloquent TOO. (Seems like quite the catch)!
Stephen IS a gentleman with a HUGE heart. And he is still single! We are great friends!
@@karlrogers7317 sign me up...for him😂😂🙊
Karl Rogers I’m already taken, but tell your friend that there are at least a hundred women that have seen this episode and are willing to simp hardcore for him
Lol yeah he is easy on the eyes like omg he's hot
“I looooveee the color” *dress looks like a stick of butter*
Hahahaha 🤣 I thought so too
Lmfao
But in black sooo pretty
Wait, so it's not a stick of butter? *slowly puts away toast and knife*
Right when she said that I read this comment 😂
Melody: "I want a black dress."
Lori: "I love her!"
I did not expect this reaction from Lori, but I am here for it
To be fair, lori has the very dark eye makeup so maybe we should have seen it coming.
Her mother: the dream for my daughter was that she would find her prince charming and marry in a white dress!
Her daughter: My fiance is a woman and I want a black dress.
I think her mum wasn't ready for this
Mom is DEFINITELY homophobic
@@nesswhopees If mom were homophobic, I doubt she'd be there with her daughter.
@@nesswhopees I wouldn't say mum is homophobic, probably just not used to her daughter being a lesbian yet. She had this whole idea in her head about her daughter that has been flipped, takes a bit of time to adjust.
@@tabbyroberts6242 true but didn't she say that her daughter came out two years ago?
@@nesswhopees Just because her mother had different expectations doesn't mean she's Homophobic. Grow up. Everyone's mother wants to see their daughter marrying the prince of their dreams in a traditional wedding. It's just fact. But that doesn't mean they wouldn't accept differences in marriage. Be it colour nor who they marry. If she didn't like that her daughter was marrying another woman, I doubt she'd be there at all to support her. 🤷🏼
Not everyone who has different opinions is instantly homophobic.
That's like someone mentioning that they prefer dogs over cats and another person starts freaking out at that opinion, instantly taking it as that person kills cats because of how much she "hates them". It's stupid and childish.
Stop instantly branding people as haters because of their own preferences and choices.
Awww the brother!!
"They dont see eye to eye on everything today, but my loyalty is to my sister" ugh what a legend
I Love How He Supports His Sister, No Matter What 🥰
Gotta love this brother! ❤
The brother is just awesome.
He’s here for the girls and the gays simultaneously!
6:40
“The colour it doesn’t make a bride, you see that smile on her face thats what make’s her a beautiful bride.”
Best advice ever
*advice :)
I love that quote so much
I think you can wear black at (almost) any occasion, but not white. So I prefer to see a bride in some kind of white.
@@RioMuc you can wear white at any time too. What's your point?
@@patrochilles6275 of course you "can" wear white, but it's definitely not common. You rarely see someone wearing a white gown on the red carpet, for example. In our culture, we associate white dresses with marriage.
If she's conservative she should be all about the black, seeing how that was a common color for bridal dresses before white was. :-)
@@DreamWorld-1960 ?
@@DreamWorld-1960
Not these types of conservatives. Conservatives are confused people that don’t know history, just what the generation right before them did.
If I remember correctly, the white dress wasn’t really a thing until the Victorian era, and even then mostly for rich/ noble born people since white was an expensive fabric to make and keep white. I don’t think the whole dress and diamond rings started to be a thing for somewhat ordinary people until the 1920s and 1930s when catalogs started portraying them as the ONLY way to get married. The modern symbology of a wedding is only around 100 years old and comes solely from a marketing gimmick
Actually it was red and blue
Black was and still is the color at funerals. Before Queen Victoria brides did wear different colors, but not black
The white dresses don’t really suit her. She’s right when she says she rather have black.
It's because she blond and has pale skin which trust me (because i'm blond with pale skin) makes you look like a white pice of printer paper and everything is getting washed out by the white which is why blonds look better in light pinks, almost any blue or green, and black
I think it fits very well with her tattoos haha.
She could have gone white with a lot of black accents to the dress as compromise. I dont think the black dresses really suit her. Oh well.
Mqrshy yes they do
I have seen some really pretty white dresses with a lot of black accents and they are gorgeous.
If a bride wants to wear a paper bag in her wedding, she will wear a paper bag....
It's her wedding after all and her feelings matters most.....
Alice Cullen YES THANK YOU
Yes PERIOD 👏
Yaaassss
YASS boo! (Also love your profile pic)
Omg that is my surname
Is the brother also looking for a bride, because dayum.
😂😂😂😂
MA'AM- 😭💀
Well the mother might still want a prince charming for her child..
Wassup JC😗✌️
Paws off buddy! 👬 already have taken the most and best men from us straight women. 😪 Stay in your lane. 👌😄
The daughter I gave birth to just came out to me, at 13, as non binary.
As their mom, I just want them to exist happy, loved, supported and empowered. It they never wear a dress ever again, who cares? If they marry someone, someday, all that matters is they're loved and cared for.
I'm so glad you're showing queer brides. Representation matters. Thanks for making it a more inclusive world for my kid and everyone.
Awww!! This is so cute. I too am a teen who's bi asexual and I hope my mom too supports me. Love and hugs to you and your child!!!! I hope every parent is like you
Bruh I’m scared to come out
@@derpyrat5713 same.. it's really stressful for me too to just keep everything to myself
@@parvindarkaur9612 fr tho
You're so nice and supportive of your child for being non bianary, i wish my parents were. :(
I'm an 12 year old agender who goes by They/them, Xe/Xer ,and it/its. Being accepted for who I am is hard. I get told that I'm too young to know who I am when i feel like being genderless is me. I dress in between feminine and masculine.
I wish all parents were as supportive of your kid. And congratulations on them for coming out as non bianary!
I hate how her mom is telling her she can’t get a black gown even though she’s not buying it.
B Right... like she can GTFO!
EXACTLY 😂
I know! It’s HER wedding, NOT her mom’s!
@@medeya560 okay but that's why she brought her mom. Your mom plays a special part in your life, she has to have a say in it. Think about it. If you can leave a store with your mom hating your dress, your honestly terrible
RAELENE HOLEMAN I agree completely and her mom didn't tell her she couldn't get a black gown, she said for her it was white that meant wedding. In the end she went along with what her daughter wanted anyway, just because what her daughter wanted was more important than what she wanted. No one should be hating on this mom. She's just trying to get her head around something that let's face it is usually the complete opposite of what most brides are looking for anyway.
Consultant: What's your budget?
Melody: $6000
Consultant: And who is paying for it?
Melody: My fiancé and I are paying for it
Me: HAHAHAHAAAAHAHAHAA!! Sorry mom, you have NO say.
Why do they even ask people that isn't the bride-
@@Totallynotemma. ikr like wtf. She likes black, she gets black.
@@Totallynotemma. drama
@@Totallynotemma. I think it’s bs usually the ppl who pay for the dress other than the bride usually hold it over their heads and expect to get their way
How do you heart a comment lol
"They're not even reading the same book"
Honey they're not even in the same library! Momma should scoot over to the one they're actually getting married at.
Underrated comment
😂😂😂😂😂
This is such a great comment!
best comment ever
okay why so many hate comments to the mom ;-; i feel like she spent all that time raising her daughter that she had an idea of her life, when it didn't go as planned she wanted it to at least go her way a little... i feel like with these things you really can't say the mom doesn't have a say because its not her wedding, she does. When you have a daughter you have an idea for whats best for them and imagine carrying a baby, planning and dreaming for years to find out that not even a single thing goes as planned, its honestly kind of sad...
In the Roman Catholic church Spanish women would wear black wedding dresses representing being with the husband till death and the color black means Mystery Strength elegance formality and sophistication. It also gives the women a sense of power and authority
Sounds great, would love to marry a person in a black wedding dress
Wait really? I live in Spain and my family is Christian Catholic, but we've never seen a bride in black, was that before Queen Victoria?
Edit: spelling
in Italy white dresses for marriage are quite a "modern" thing, common people started to wear fancy white dresses only after WWII, before that time only rich people could afford such a dress so common people used to wear dresses that could have been adapted and reused and, most of the times, dresses weren't white but brown or black . I even have a photo of my great grandmother wearing a brown dress at her wedding in 1930
What? Sorry, I'm spanish, VERY catholic family. Have not ever seen a black wedding dress in my life. My dad would call me a vampire and cry for months.
So pretty
THEY MET IN A COFFEE SHOP, ARE GETTING MARRIED AT A LIBRARY, AND ARE PROUD GAYS!! THIS IS A FANFICTION; I REPEAT, THIS IS A FANFICTION PEOPLE
Thanks, I needed to laugh for a solid 3 minutes today. :D
AND WANTED THE BLACK WEDDING DRESS
COFFEE SHOP AU FANFIC
THE BEST.
Obviously
The FACT that not only is she getting married in a libary and wants a black wedding dress but ON TOP of that she's marrying a woman like yes queen living the lesbian aesthetic.
I want to be like her when I grow up lol
My dream wedding
Lydia Hilbers Jesus loves you
Yep
I'm not lesbian BUT YAS QUEEN I LOVE THE ASETHETIC
you know how someone looks like a bride? by BEING a bride 🤷🏿♀️
Tiffany Gibbons and the best bride is a happy bride
Yeah “it doesn’t look bridal” is such a stupid complaint. What they really mean is “it doesn’t look the stereotypical bridal gown I envisioned.”
i love how supportive her brother is omg, he was so kind abt how he liked the first dress just not the print and didnt make her feel bad abt it at all
“i looove that color”
*dress is piss colored
When
@@trishuna3917 it is at 4:16
Ikr it disgusts me
Oof
piss stained
the mom is a "no offense but * something offensive *" person.
hello i luv your rantaro pfp 😌
@@shsluwu8256 thank you!
i like your band aid pfp
@@just.blitzy ty!!!! :D
okay why so many hate comments to the mom ;-; i feel like she spent all that time raising her daughter that she had an idea of her life, when it didn't go as planned she wanted it to at least go her way a little... i feel like with these things you really can't say the mom doesn't have a say because its not her wedding, she does. When you have a daughter you have an idea for whats best for them and imagine carrying a baby, planning and dreaming for years to find out that not even a single thing goes as planned, its honestly kind of sad...
@@Alexis-go5cd no its not. that "mom" doesnt know her baby will grow up having their own mind and preferences. whats *really* sad is that the daughter probably never got accepted by her mom.
THAT. SMILE.
*THAT MAKES A BRIDE.*
Dinosaurus ik
Which one?
IT MAKES A BEAUTIFUL BRIDE
Awe so true
Wow, her engagement ring is STUNNING!!! Black diamonds are pretty rare, especially jewel quality ones!
“And now she’s got a PRINCESS Charming hahaHAHAHAhaha! HAHA! Ha!”
Okay, I don’t think Mom is handling this well at all.
Tell me about it😂😂😂
Lost Soul the coffee shop AU.
I feel like the mom is constantly saying "this is fine, i'm fine." in her mind.
She is smiling through the pain lmao,you can tell she's on the verge of a mental breakdown.
When she laughed like that the I could tell what she was thinking, “HAHAHAhaha...ha..ha...oh god.” She sounded like she was trying not to say something horrible.(which she did a minor way)
Dress number one looks like she's wearing a comforter...
Omfg hahahhaa
LMAO I actually thought it was beautiful until i read your comment, now i can only see a comforter.
It looked like a shower curtain to me...
It looks like a tablecloth
A big, wrinkly duvet that didn't get stuffed into the cover properly
Bride: *comes out in white*
Mom: :)
Brother: :/
Bride: *comes out in black*
Mom: >:(
Brother: :D
honestly i love the brother lmao. also hes hot lol
:D
bro... your pfp
Spice Your pfp though
Bride: comes out
Mom: :/
"Melody and my mom don't see eye to eye on everything today, but my loyalty today is to my sister." Sibling goals!!!
Mom is like: “Hahahahahaha I’m soooo frustrated that my baby girl marrying a woman hahahahaha and EVEN in a black wedding dress hahahahaha kill me in a traditional way hahahahaha!”
That is precisely how I interpreted the mom, as well. You can tell that, even after two years of her daughter being with another woman, she's still extremely uncomfortable. She's trying too hard and is basically fake laughing to hide her disappointment, which is kinda backfiring considering her words also speak volumes.
Omg, it was horrible! I want to believe that no one would ever act like that, especially in such a special day for their child.....but, I’ve unfortunately become addicted to the news in the last few years, and it’s so a fucking thing. 🤦🏼♀️
She gets to feel whatever she wants...she there supporting her, it doesn’t have to be honest too.
Fr sis even said “like getting baptised by fire” when talking about her daughter and her daughter’s fiancée going to the gay pride march. Also the fact that she’s conservative made me automatically think she’s homophobic.
@@no-ep1yo I don’t think she’s homophobic for being traditional. People can’t expect others to agree with or support things that are supposedly against their beliefs, especially if they’re traditional or religious. The mother doesn’t have to agree, but it’s obvious she’s doing her best to support her daughter. That should be enough
Shes getting married in a library? Lol imagine needing to say “I do” and some person trying to read, is like “SUSHHHHHHH”
Edit: it was a joke
I DIED😂
Panda Gal low key now I wanna get married in a ball gown
Panda Gal I live in Jacksonville and the downtown library is actually huge and beautiful, with an outdoor courtyard and grand staircases. There’s tons of weddings thrown there!
@Nikki Winchester ooo neat!
🤣
The moment she says her and her fiance are paying for it I already knew, Mom, irrelevant. You ain't paying for the dress, you don't complain about the dress.
Yasss the brother supporting your sister
EXACTLY. The _only_ time she should ever have a say is if she was paying. Thats the only time mom's should be very opinionated. Lmao _her_ money. _Her_ wedding. _Her_ dress. _Her_ choice. Thats it.
Anadia Smith
It’s not that simple.
Haley - it is, in fact, that simple
Conrad Dickinson
You are sooo right! Because moms shouldn’t give their opinions even though that’s whose opinion matters the most her daughter.
Moms have a vision too and if you seriously don’t respect your moms opinion nor do you want your mom to be honest and give it.
Then you must not have a good relationship with your mom.
Or you must not have kids.
Although as moms we want to be sweet and love everything are kids do.
We need to tell the truth and give are opinions no matter what.
@@Whydtheyaddusernames There is such a big difference between forcing your beliefs on someone, and simply giving someone a motherly and helpful opinion. This woman was hell bent on getting her way and her way only. That doesnt sound like an opinion, that sounds like forcing something. You can already tell she wasn't happy with the marriage to begin with so the dress is one way to let out all of her "opinions". This entire attitude she seems to have towards this wedding actually isnt about the dress, its about the marriage. So if its the marriage she has a problem with, then mother or not her opinion is completely irrelevant. If someone thinks they have the right to impose on someone elses relationship no matter who they are and what their intentions were, thats officially crossing the line.
"She was so nervous she asked me if I wanted to grab coffee". That's so freakin' adorable!!!!!! 🥰
Mum: I'm going to act like I'm uncomfortable with the idea of a black dress, when really I'm uncomfortable with the whole idea of my daughter marrying a woman. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.
TRUTH🤣
I Eat Toe Fungus :p not in every culture. in some places you wear white to funerals. white in a wedding was only recently popularized by Queen Victoria in her wedding.
A mother never dreams of her daughter marrying a woman more less being in a black dress and this nonsense where everyone feels u must accept someone being Gay that is not everyone's believes and for her mother being there says it all that mother loves her daughter nothing wrong with mother wanting to see her daughter in a traditional wedding dress
HerHollyness my father once got really sad cause the radio talked about how difficult lgbt ppl in Japan have it. He got sad and started talking about how he could not understand that parents would do that to their kids. He talked about how those kids deserve just as much love and suport. He talked about more but the thing is , is that my father is quite a stoic guy. My parents are really open and always say that they wouldn’t mind if we where gay. They always say: boyfriend, or girlfriend instead of just future boyfriend. Even though I’m not gay and neither is my brother. I’m happy that my parents love so much.
I Eat Toe Fungus :p black is also worn in traditional Spanish weddings as well, Black has different meaning in other cultures than what most of society perceives black is. Plus it’s her wedding leave her alone
*"Its her wedding day"* that's the most common dialogue every mom says when their daughter wants a black dress
you just dont have .....
@@jakesandoval1 honey
Exactly. It’s her wedding day so it’s her choice. Saying it’s her wedding day so THE mom wants her in white changes nothing
Not mine she knows me and my sister want what we want
@@leichan356 😊😊
They are arguing in very nice voices
Yes
that’s so true lol
Passive agressivness is probably the worst kind of aggressive
I hate it when people do that
passive aggressiveness is worst when it's your family. if it was another random person at school, i'd just call them a pussy. the fact that you have to hide your disliking for something just shows how you aren't close...
Mum needs to let go of what she feels her daughter should be. She wants her daughter to wear a white wedding dress and marry a man. Too bad Mum.
I agree
1. You can tell her mom isn't 100% supportive of the couple 2. She's trying to dictate her daughters wedding day when really, it's not her day, it's her daughter's so imho THE DAUGHTER SHOULD BE HAPPY
I just think her mom is trying to be supportive but is still having a hard time wrapping her mind around this new norm. She obviously loves her daughter.
And the daughter is paying for it
She wont. Thanks for showing no concern.
Not only is it not the mom's day, it's not even the mom's money!
@@chastiana I disagree, I think mom is way too controlling. She isn't the type to say she disapproves, but there's subtle signs that she does. She is really uncomfortable and it feels like she is trying grasp control of her daughter in any way she can i.e the dress.
Her mom's laughing and smiling creeps me out wayyyy more than a black wedding dress
Seriously lol
Thats called denial hun
That is exactly what I was thinking!!
yeah. you gotta love the "im so proud of myself for accepting a black wedding dress and gay daughter" white woman who has "changed" in one day.
For real
The fact that black is a elegant color...my auntie wears a lottt of black...it just makes her feel brave and confident...
Like. Even the bride is the one whose paying
Ikr, it's really pretty
Dang, rock the black, ma'am!
For some of us it is also the bride traditional colour... white brides are modern and they look like 'meringue' cakes to me...
My wedding dress was fitted with a slit and black
I know they focused on the mother and her not-so-subtle subtlety, but can we take a moment to appreciate the brother and how he's like, "Our mother is conservative, and they won't see eye to eye, but *I'm* here to support my sister" and he does just that.
I'm glad someone was on her side from the beginning 🖤
The mom is literally so annoying. The fake laughing and smiling in unbearable.
Ikr.
Listen I wanna like..
But it's at 69-
@@sage1463 your a good person 😔
@@sage1463 LMAOOO
Not really, she loves her daughter, it’s just she planned everything for her and nothing went her way, it’s pretty sad. In the end they both love each other no matter what and I think the mom just needs to make some adjustments and let it fully sink in.
Melody looked so sad when she was told she didn’t look like a bride...
Coz honestly she didn’t. Kinda looked like a prom dress.
Ikr, like it’s not the dress or color of dress, but it’s how she feels. That’s what makes a bride
Henna Juneja There's no true way to define what looks like a ’bride’. Even if it is a prom dress, if you want to wear it to your wedding, you're still a bride.
I can’t imagine how mad the mum would be if Melanie wanted to wear a suit 😂
What if it was a white suit?
5:59 Love the way he is reminding his mom it's not her day! This is a perfect brother.
Mom is trying really hard for the camera to hide her homophobia. She's passive agressive af.
@@gurl8327 no tf?
@@evanescent_light let me give am example . a person should like and agree all religions and their believers . Don't u think it's stupid ? We can respect a thing doesn't necessarily mean we have to accept that and agree with it
@@gurl8327 it just hurts when people say such things like “I respect them but I don’t agree with their choices”. No one would choose to be at a high risk of being hate crimed all the time. Just because some homophobe mistranslated a book few hundreds of years ago doesn’t mean you can justify hate
@@gurl8327 in the Bible the Hebrew words for man should not sleep with man was actually saying that man shall not lay with child (pedophillia). So therefore, someone who was a pedo changed the words so instead, it would label gay people as sinful, when I reality, the Bible never stated anything about being gay is a sin
@@gurl8327 homosexuality was never a sin in the bible. It got mistranslated and it meant a man shouldn’t sleep with a boy. Sadly in other religions the scripture says that it is
Black dress and a black ring* Safiya Nygaard entered the chat
Edit: Thanks for all these likes 🤧
Vatsala Mehta seeing this after crying all night to Safiyas cute wedding video 🥺😭
@@laishatakami3771 I just watched it too 😭
@@laishatakami3771 Same🤧🤧
@@laishatakami3771 Everytime they cried, we all cried 😭
Vatsala Mehta yessss 😭😭😭😭
i melted when i heard “her name is -“ oh my god i’m so happy to see lesbian representation omg you don’t even understand
Yessss i love this serie
Ikr!!
I was watching these, and waiting for some LGBT+ representations, so when I heard that the fiancé was a her, I got so happy!!! I’m not lesbian, but I am a part of the community, and it’s so great to see representation in these shows!
@@redcherryblossoms same I’m pan and gender-fluid
There are a lot of episodes with LGBT representation, just gotta look for them.
Yeah I heard “her name” and I was like- gasp yay lesbian brides! I'm straight, not part of the LGTBQ community myself but I'm totally ok with them and I think they need more people to accept them
ok i’m sorry but the mom isn’t even paying for the dress. I really liked dress number 2 in black:/
“My vision for my daughter would have been that she would find her Prince Charming and of course now she has a princess charming.” The way she says that just 😬😬
it’s the heteronormativity for me 😐
how its possible to marry girl with girl?? i cant understands whats going on
@@GIRLGAMER-ez9xy well love doesnt have a penis or a vagina, lets start with that.
Her daughter wants to cry
@@GIRLGAMER-ez9xy just like a man and a woman can fall in love with eachother, so can a woman ans a woman or a man and a man :D
What I hear “I wanted my daughter to be straight I wanted her to be in a white dress”
In my OPINION (this is just my opinion) I think the moms disappointed with her daughter
I think she is definitely disappointed, but it seems she's also trying to be accepting.
I don’t think the mom was disappointed. She obviously is being very accepting and sweet. She just doesn’t understand how important the black dress was for Melody. Personally I think Melody wasn’t being very compromising or grateful to the woman who raised her.
@@elisethompson406 No bride should have to compromise on their wedding day. Not even to their mother.
Lost Girl Well... maybe. But I still think people are being very unfair to the mom. She’s a conservative southern woman who never expected her daughter to roll that way, and I think she did an amazing job at letting it go. My mom would’ve tried to beat the gay out of me or perhaps picked my wedding dress for me.
@@elisethompson406 Yes but sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. The girl's just gonna have one wedding right? It's her day. And yes I do agree that this mom is doing her best to let go. Definitely.
Ps if what you said about your mom is true then I'm sorry, that's just wrong.
If my daughter wants a black pink blue or neon green dress I’d 100% support her!
And if she was gay? Uh asking for a friend
@@centaurithething1649 ...that would be cool too
@@centaurithething1649 even better
@@centaurithething1649 Even better!
Even magnet rejects the same magnet
Well there’s her complexion to consider, mom. She is pretty pale already, a white dress would flush her out. A darker color would look better on her
“And I mean now, of course, she’s got a princess charming”
*evil laughter ensues*
I actually don't support this kind of marriage
Gosioha Miracle no one asked
Yeah Goshioha Miracle No one asked if you support it or not.
@@gosiohamiracle1918 Why not? They are still humans that love eachother
@@gosiohamiracle1918 just curious why? Also are you rude to them or do you just not support/dissaprove of it?
You can very much tell that the mom is NOT okay with her gay daughter and is very uncomfortable. And you can see that every time the daughter is fighting for her black dress that she’s got pain behind her voice and in her eyes cause her mom wants her to be ‘normal’ (not gay)
Did you watch to the end???
Why the fuck are you like "oh i can tell this i can tell that bla bla" it doesnt matter. The mom doesnt have to support gays cause its a human right to support whatever tf you want. Shes supporting her daughter the best she can.
I mean hey, at least she's trying.
Like yeah, she should be supporting her right from the start, but she clearly loves her daughter, and I think the fact that she's happy really is more important to her. She's taking some time to get use to it after picturing her life a different way. It's not great, but I think she'll get there.
Yeah I agree
DemonWitchBoy I was ur 1k like
The mom: “I want a ball gown, I want an ivory dress”
Me: “Then get one for yourself” 🙄
The most painful part is she isn't even paying for it.
Right she is like some of my cousins. I want I want I want. And they are younger then 7
I know i wish i could say to the mothers like her ITS👏NOT👏YOUR👏WEDDING👏
Honestly, at that point I would just tell my mum to get out. I love my mum, don't get me wrong, but this should be a day all about me and my partner, not about the opinion of my mum.
I think that the mom is used to being conservative. But I can see that she's trying...like really hard! To support her daughter, its just a bit harder than you think.
This is why my family isn’t invited. I don’t need nor want micro aggressions and passive BS
Geez. Sorry about that. You do not need all that
That’s what I thought. I’d invite the brother and let the rest “burn in fire.”
damn that “she doesn’t look like a bride” even hurt me too 😔
She didn't though. The ballgown looks more bridal. If you sacrifice color then you need a dress with an identifiable "bridal" cut.
*Riv Racost* if you don’t like the dress that’s your opinion but i ask you to respect mine. and technically no one “needs” a ballgown style so idk what you’re on about...
@@ashleycarmella1471
Right??
Like
I wanna get married in a black or red mermaid style dress.
I'll still look gorgeous, hopefully, and look like a bride.
Style of dress doesn't determine if you look the part or not.
*Kjersten Gray* that sounds totally beautiful for a wedding dress! im glad you agree with me!
That would look beautiful @@bunnyqueenkj
English: white is the colour of weddings.
India: white is the colour of *death.* >:)
China too i think. They where red for weddings and white for funerals if im remembering everything correctly.
@@Whooachannel traditional China maybe but modern China brides wear white
@@Whooachannel thats the same case in Hindu religion! Red for wedding and white for death
haha yea thats true thats y red is better
It's not only English people who wear white on wedding dresses 😂
*shows dress
Everyone:NO
*puts veil
Everyone:YESSS
Modern problems require modern solutions
wait what? Facts
there is 666 likes time to ruin it
Oof I was the 999TH like. 🙁
isn’t anyone gonna talk about how cool her ring is tho
1:08 “Prince Charming” that’s how you know her mother isn’t 100% supportive of this marriage
She said princess charming xx
Well, considering the fact that being lesbian isn’t you know common, she was probably thinking she would be straight.
@@alexalevon4885 regardless, the way she was acting about it seems very unsupportive. Like she's embarrassed.
@@SunBeeSmoked I don't blame her. The future kids are coming from a turkey baster and won't know their dad unless they get the legal papers.
Wow, it's almost like the mom wants her grandkids to have a dad.
@@blacktigerpaw1 kids don't need a dad and a lot of people use anonymous sperm donors, not just gay people. If they do go the route of a sperm donor, they CAN know the identity of the man who gave them the sperm if they want and in that case, if ever the kid wanted to know who the man was that never planned on being a father to this kid, the kid can know. People donate A LOT of sperm because it's easy money.
The mom is definitely trying. She didn’t grow up in an accepting era. We can’t judge her because we don’t know what our views would’ve been even a decade before we were born. She’s trying and is becoming more open minded. She’s able to grow as a person and that’s what matters
She's definitely trying. She's pretty clearly still very uncomfortable with it but she is trying.
At the very least she is being there and trying to be involved with the wedding planning, rather than disowning her daughter for who she choose to marry
Thank you, finally others who see this! For someone who would normally be very conservative, the mom is doing amazing! She's getting there, just give her time :)
Right like idk why everyone thinks shes so horrible... i thought she was very sweet actually. Shes just a different generation lol
Yes! I think the mom is wonderful. You cant expect someone to immediately change their lifelong cultural views. She is very obviously trying to adjust & that is something that we all take time to do when things are different from our conventional lifestyle. The bride is completely untraditional and that's probably hard to swallow for such a traditional parent. That being said the mom is understanding that it's not about her and it's about her daughters happiness. It may take a bit of time but she will come around full circle one day.
She’s a conservative mom, at least she’s trying her hardest to be supportive. A lot of conservative parents DISOWN their gay children. Let her come out of indoctrination, it takes time.
Artoria Pendragon Hm, but who gets to decide what’s normal and what’s not then?
Artoria Pendragon normal is boring
@Artoria Pendragon
seeing how many people come out nowadays, i'd say it's pretty normal. Maybe you should do something about that prejudiced part of you that insists on that not being the case :)
Artoria Pendragon
Do you mind if I ask why you wouldn’t want a gay kid? It wouldn’t really change anything and wouldn’t affect you or anyone else in a bad way so what’s the problem?
Ya that’s true Ik my parents would disown me and say something like my god forgive me for the sin I commit oh and call me a disgrace to this family
The mom is being nicer because she’s on camera having to hide her homophobia
When she said " I imagined a Prince Charming and a white dress and now she has a PRINCESS Charming" and then didn't even mention that the bride wanted a black dress. She's so clearly lashing out against the black dress because wants to complain about her daughter being gay without being seen as homophobic. It's disgusting. I hope Melody had a long, happy marriage with her lovely wife. 🖤
@@cjpv1972 Some parents are ALWAYS going to act this way and it really shows their true colors. If you loved your child with all your heart, youd accept every part of them
“I’m taking the brides side”
WE STAN LORI OMG
We really do!
Hi dear how're you doing today?
And her brother!
her mom is having a homophobic nervous breakdown that she's firmly in denial about
She is clearly doing everything she can to accept her daughter. Labeling someone a homophobe for needing to take time to accept what they were taught against, is wrong.
@@57andstillkicking man i just think it's funny
That laugh is the laugh of a woman who had a crying fit in the bathroom to the theme of "why couldn't she just be NORMAL" after her daughter got engaged.
She's going to the PFLAG meetings but she also goes "what do you want honey I'm still GETTING USED TO IT" every time her daughter calls her out on a passive aggressive homophobic comment.
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I don’t think she would’ve looked good in a white or cream colored dress anyway. She has really pale skin and her hair is very blonde - a white dress and veil would have washed her out and overall just wouldn’t look good paired with her complexion and hair color. The black makes her features really pop and accentuate everything really nicely. I’m the same way - even though my skin isn’t nearly as pale as hers is I’m still relatively pale and I have this same problem all the time so I tend not to wear white or even pale colors. And I’ve decided to wear a black or red wedding dress when I get married for the main fact that white and creams wash me out really badly.
Honestly! It would look so pale and yellow like old paper TwT
Yep. I'm as pale as she is, and can confirm that even the "champagne" color they love as "universally flattering" on SYTTD is /awful/ on me. I simply cannot wear white, cream, champagne-even tan is straight out. Pale pink? Nope.
…it's probably not a coincidence my wedding dress was black, too. 😉 (I had planned on red, but very last minute fell in love with a Tadashi Shoji black dress I found on a return rack, and decided to make it my wedding dress.)
@@khills
I told my mother 4 years ago when I was 15 that I would not be wearing a white wedding dress whenever I got married and she was so DISTRAUGHT over this fact that she still laments about it to this day and will tell anyone who is willing to listen that her eldest child refuses to wear a white dress. My dad has had to tell her more then once to chill. And the real kicker is she wore a baby blue wedding dress when she and my parents got married. So 🤷🏼♀️
Edit: and I’m not even married nor engaged, I don’t even have a boyfriend! And yet she’s still trying to convince me it’s a bad idea. She’s all “you’ll change your mind” or “we’ll make you change your mind when the time comes”
@@Elizabeth-cm6sy Yeah, when parents are attached to tradition, or the desire to live thru their kids, it can get uncomfortable if you're a kid who does their own thing. My mom wasn't fussed about a non-traditional wedding dress, but she couldn't get her head around a non-traditional engagement ring, and would keep asking me about how I was going to support myself if my husband left me. Which, you know, that might have been a thing once upon a time, but nowadays? Not the tax bracket I married in, anyhow. (And the divorce settlement did the job an engagement ring wouldn't have done. She probably would have been horrified that the only reason I have an engagement ring from my second spouse was to have a clear "proof of engagement" for both my work and for immigration. 😂And that ring still isn't "proper" - it's a black opal in a silver setting.)
@@khills
My parents married young and rather rushed and so my mom didn’t get to have the wedding she quite wanted and since I’m not only the oldest child but the oldest daughter she’s really set on living vicariously through me. And I’m like “you’ve got 4 other children besides me. I’m sure one of them will have a traditional wedding like you want.” My relationship has never been very good with her and we don’t really talk much so I could care less about her opinions on what I want to do. The issue is when she drags other people into trying to convince me of something that hasn’t even happened yet.
Can we just talk about that RING! Holy smokes it's gorgeous!
Soo... is the brother available or... He’s such a sweetheart 😊
lol yes
😂😂😂🙌 amen!
That's what I'm thinkin lol
Heehee I was thinking the same thing XD
I was going to say the same jakaa
Video: she wants a black dress
Me: nice
Video: she's gay
Me: NICE
That Leo Again
Oml
Same
Hahaha
More like SWEET
That not nice to say
YO SAME
That is the funniest thing ever “she worked at a coffee shop...she was so nervous she asked me to get coffee”
Lmao that’s some shit I would say 😭 ❤️
IKR
Welcome to another episode of “THIS AINT YOUR DANG WEDDING MOM”
*wants a black dress*
me: nice
*getting married in a library*
me: niCE
*marrying a woman*
me: NIIIICE
Lmfao
I said the same thing 💀
honestly that's just the dream isn't it
This girl is living my ddddddrrrrreeeeeaaaammm!
And they met via the coffee shop trope!!!
THE MOM ISN’T EVEN PAYING FOR THE DRESS!
Well I’m sorry but the mom gets a say none the less. She carried her daughter for nine months and raised her. She tried to support her even though she didn’t agree with her. She loves her. She paid for her tuition throughout her life. She invested so much I her daughter, she deserves to at least have her opinions be said. She loves and cares for her daughter even though she did the opposite of everything her mom dreamt of
@@Alexis-go5cd lol doesn't mean she should sacrifice things that she love for it nobody ask to be born lol. Everyone have dream and what they want to wear for their wedding
@@Alexis-go5cd Let me tell you why this comment makes no sense. To start just because she carried her and have her basic needs doesn't mean she gets the right to say what the bride what's on her damn wedding that she's paying for. Sure the mom can have an opinion but she gets no say and right to stop her grown daughter from wearing what she wants.
@@adora7101 Okay, please read my reply to you on one of the other comment sections. You are completely missing my point 🙂
@@Alexis-go5cd Oh no I saw it I just simply don't care because I'm not going to try and force you to understand and I don't like to go back and forth with people unless it's something I'm very passionate about🤷🏾♀️
Ok but why is her brother so freaking handsome, like, he easily could be a Hollywood actor. His smile is something... And he's definitely a good brother.
How is he so perfect
Hes.... basic af I'm disappointed after seeing him after reading this description first
@@Juanmaligno ur to basic ok. NO ONE WILL EVER LIKE U BIITTCCHH.
@@uoppsdn2459 oof someone projecting a shot ton of insecurities I'm sorry your ugly sweetie but don't get mad 😰
•Aesthetic Moon• ummm
*Im a lesbian, and even I agree-*
Melody isn’t “unconventional”, Melody is MELODY!!!💖🥂☄️💥👍🏻💐
Showed this to my mom, she said "mom is sitting there trying to act all young in leopard print looking like a cougar, telling her daughter to be normal. If she's a true mother she will except black to make her little girl happy, but she's all about what she wants. She's selfish." And my mother is 85 years old, lol
I like your mother's mind
I love your mom 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😍😍
👏🏻
a "true mother" would teach you grammar and correct spelling. A mother is a mother, not a "friend" who'll say yes to whatever.
Sure, mothers aren't friends and they shouldn't be, but they also shouldn't try to control their daughters' preferences on something so arbitrary that has literally no effect on them. It's a friggin dress color, and she's not going to be the one wearing it. Also her daughter is an adult that doesn't require her mother's permission in the first place.
“Talk about getting baptized by fire” she’s not even trying to hide her homophobia huh
I hate homophobic people
All my homies hate homophobia
“Talk about getting baptized in fire” -The mom
Damn, she comes out & you say this-
I dislike people who call other people who are not comfortable with homosexuality, "homophobic".
A phobia is an "extreme or irrational fear".
The Mother is not "homophobic", she is not comfortable with her daughter being a lesbian and marrying a woman. But she is not trying to stop the relationship or marriage, hence not "homophobic".
Stop labeling people, that is passive-agressive hatred.
@@bonniemacpherson3407 while "phobia" is yes an "extreme and irrational fear" but she is homophobic which is a "dislike or have prejudice against gay people". The mother is homophobic, while she isnt stopping the marriage she clearly doesn't accept accept daughter being a lesbian and voices that clearly with lines like "talk about getting baptized in fire". You can be homophobic and still go to your kids wedding.
Homophobic isn't "I hate you guys for being gay lovers and ill trash this wedding" but it can be under extreme circumstances. Homophobic can be "I don't like my kid being a lesbian and I don't support her marriage but I'm still gonna be there for her." Because she ultimately doesn't accept her daughters sexuality which is homophobic.
I should know this cause my mom did the exact same fucking thing. I came out to her and she never accepted my sexuality, but she was still there for me because she's my mom.
My mom was homophobic, the brides mom is homophobic, end of story.
The mother seems really manipulative, and it seems that she was always that way
"You always wore princess dresses when you were little."
"Cuz you made me!"
Slushy119 sounds like my mother was an emotional hell when I was first dating my hubby and my mother was like “oh trust you to love someone from far away” well sod you mum and your conditional love. True love is unconditional.
I mean, we all wore things as children that we don't wear as adults!
Andrea D of course that is true, but the daughter said the mom *made* her wear princess dresses, so I assume that she never actually wanted to wear them. And now she doesn't want a white dress, but the mom still has something to say about that
@@toiletpaper6408 good point. That's true. When I was really little, I didn't have too much choice about what I wore.
I had mom change one princess outfit i wore for Halloween into a witch costume when i was like 7.
at 4:36 the fitter lady was so close to bitch slapping the mom- istg 💀💀💀
I know everyone is bashing the mom but at least she is really trying. That's a whole lot more than most would do for their child
I felt she wasn't being very genuine throughout the entire thing. It seemed like she was just saying the things she thought she needed to say for the cameras 😒
DaniHGirl I think considering the fact the bride had invited her along to the dress fitting and even invited her along to an LGBT event, they’re generally close enough. Definitely her mother isn’t being the most supportive and she seems uncomfortable but for someone who doesn’t have the ‘traditional’ daughter ((lesbian, wanting the black wedding dress)) that she wants, she’s putting in a lot of effort for most people who are similar to her towards their children
@@louisianafriedchickenyeet4654 You're right. Also, it's okay for people to have different opinions. We don't just need to be accepting of the LGBT Community, we also need to be accepting as a whole. Just because someone doesn't like a black wedding dress doesn't make them a bad person.
You're probably right. I mean it's all not ideal but she's trying and that's definetly a good start
DaniHGirl I agree. She wasn’t trying hard enough to me.
"you always wore princess dresses when you were a little girl"
"because you made me!" 😂
Honestly tho parents think when you did something as a child it still applies when you’re older. You did everything as a kid because your parents wanted it especially clothes
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Møøñ Šhīñë what?
Nice but it's illegal to be lesbian or gay in Singapore It's stupid to have that as a law tho..
Jeffery Volkov why do parents do that, smh it’s so annoying
Not gonna lie her black ring actually looks really nice 😍🖤
i love how lori and her crew always support the bride. its so sad when family sometimes cant hold their tounge... i mean its her choice after all. im glad that she felt confident in telling the world how much she loves her partner!
What is with the moms who can’t let their adult daughters be an adult? 🙄
THIS! THIS X 1000!! (And sons, too. All adult children, for that matter.)
I feel like every comment the mom made about the dress always stared with "I..."
"I want a ball gown"
"I want an ivory dress"
I would've LOVED for the daughter to come back at her and say
"Well *I* want you to wait in the car, mom."
plus its not the moms money buying the dress
@@voiceofsaph3225 Honestly though same!
I know! It's not even her wedding either! It's the bride's decision. But she wanted to find a dress that her mom would also like.
Frss
"We've got so untraditional!"
*laughs nervously in homophobia*
Lauren C ok, cool. They’ve got differing views and the moms trying her best to be supportive. Not really homophobic.
Lily Literally every comment is AhAhAhaA I always thought she’d have a Prince ChArMiNg and a WhItE dReSs hahaAhAhA I guess I’ll never have want I WANT and dramatics That’s not what acceptance sounds like by a long shot.
A Bryant and the mom doesn’t care that she’s married a girl she just didn’t want a black dress
@@cubbybunnyx The mom totally cares or she wouldn't have felt the need to bring it up in such an awkward way.
@@greenelephant...ofdoom5527 I just meant shes trying her best to support her daughter that's all
5:45 this dress is totally breathtaking and imagining it in black is overwhelming for me 🖤🖤
"she doesnt look like a bride"??? she is a bride!! what does it matter geez
Her brother is soooo sweet
And hot!
Megan Slonksnis 😑
And handsome tho💋
I wanted a black dress too. I wanted something classic and elegant, and so I bought it... and my whole family gave me so much shit about it that I returned it in tears. A year later my dream dress went on sale, and I was like "you know what, screw it" and bought it. At the end of the day, it's my day, and white just would never do me justice. People will talk, but whatever.
Yes queen! You get that dream dress! It’s your day, not theirs.
Well, your family is probably pretty used to your attention seeking behavior.
You go laurenlucia, Gee Tee is one of those people who leaves ugly comments everywhere.
@@trishc8390
You stalking me? I leave comments that are honest....honestly is very ugly to narcissists.
@@geetee2392 But your attitude is narcisistic too... I'm confused.
"It's her wedding day....! I imagine her in a white dress!"
"With her *prince charming!*"
This mom is rude, let the bride pick! And I personally felt offended when she said *prince* charming, when she is marrying a girl?
Go pride!!