If I was Op and her husband, I would go full on LC/NC with the family even after apologies. They are not loyal to Op and too easily led by a stranger. Now Op knows where she stands. Who knows what lie her sister will tell next. She could accused her BIL os SA next. Op needs to tread very carefully.
Op's mom is a piece of work. She also thought it was a joke but turned coated out and blamed op. How can a parent just listen to one child without listening to the other.
People are such doormats. You’re going to let your entire family accuse you of being manipulative and liars and then just let them back into your life with a simple “oops! Sowwy” like what
No, because I would let him have her. Let Trent have all of them. I'm sorry, but she WILLINGLY WENT ALONG with what he wanted. If I were Dan, I wouldn't treat her the same ever again. Hard time or no, she took an active role in damaging Dan's reputation.
OP's better than me... I'm petty. I would've never forgiven and permanently cut ties. They were all SO QUICK to believe such blatant lies. The way the extended family jumped on the bandwagon just shows what kind of people they truly are. The mother is equally, if not more disgusting.
That sister would not have taken a step inside my door until she fixed everything. And in no way in hell would I force my husband to live with her after what she did! YTA OP, but not for bringing your husband to the wedding, but for bringing you trash sister under your roof!
OP is way too forgiving cause ain't no way in həll would i ever in life forgive all those people for what they did. So quick to believe the worst about a person without even asking anything. People like that are undeserving of being a part of their lives...
There are definite events that can make abusers feel comfortable taking off the mask of decency: moving into together, engagement, wedding, or the birth of a child. When they feel their victim is locked in and will have difficulty leaving either because of money or societal pressure.
i would stay away from sister and her husband, even mom and dad. i would go nc w/sister and her husband, lc w/mom and dad - i would not trust them at all
So I would help sister get out of her toxic relationship BUT not allow her to stay as that would be totally insulting to hubby after the accusations thrown at him. Other than that I would keep a very healthy distance from the rest of my family. It's what I have done in my life anyway. Keep it polite at necessary family gatherings but other than that have nothing to do with any of them
Yeah, whoever was in this situation definitely had a few too many things they didn't do that needed to be done. These posts are made by someone sharing these life stories (Sweet Telltales), so OP won't ever be commenting here. Just sad, in general. There are too many red flags and lessons that need to be learned from stuff like this, and lessons that need to be taught about how to properly react.
I thought the sister was pulling a "prank" like told everyone Op divorced or something and that's why everyone was looking at him oddly. Then everyone would she her marriage as better. Wish that was true rather than this mess.
I have a great love for my BIL. He has been there for me in ways no one else ever has. His comfort he has given me will always be treasured. He is a great person. A great Dad and Grandpa. But i love him as the brother he is. No weird creepy crush.
This OP is clueless. How long did it take her to realize her sister married a complete psycho with mental health issues. He is a control freak. These are they type of guys that pew pew their families.
Trent is classic abuser, get a restraining order, and have your sister stay with a relative somewhere else within your family. Get a security system, and call the cops next time he shows up immediately.
I’m glad that the sister divorced Trent so quickly!!!!!! I was married to a narcissist gaslighter for 7 almost 8 years. It only gets worse! The narcissist is the only one happy in the relationship. If you can say that. They enjoy making your life miserable and drum up more ways to make it more miserable throughout the day everyday! You are fortunate if you have any good days. I’m fortunate that I had my family and friends who supported me in getting away from my ex husband!!!!!!! He still emails and calls me once in awhile but I am so happy without him! Never ever go back to a narcissist!
Whoa, i had to read this twice, this sisters husband was completely engilfed in jealousy. His wife , is along for the ride. But the idea of going LC/NC is s worthy idea. It is really time to look at Trent's complete mental breakdown about OP's husband. What a unbelievable mess. I wonder if have OP sister so close, but at least the truth is out there. I really wonder if this man has a mental obsesion , i have never heard if such jealously. This is a story that is such a eye opening look into the state of mind of people , very very interesting
OMG!!! If you are going to make up a fake story, you need your characters to act somewhat reasonably. You can have 1 or 2 characters who are clearly off their rockers, but this is just absurd. Everyone is acting irrationally which isn't possible.
You've obviously never met my Ex family! I have 7 brothers and sisters and only speak with 2 brothers. One sister I haven't seen or spoken to since 2002.
I would NOT allow the sister to stay in me and my husband’s home. Especially after you openly accused him of wanting her and the whole family and their friends believed all the chaos they caused. Y’all tarnished that man’s reputation and name so openly and publicly apologize AND say y’all lied on him because you were stupid for believing your husband. Make her stay with your parents or other family or friends BUT NOT in Dan’s home. Now you’re stupid for allowing that to happen under your husband and your roof!! You’re disrespecting your husband now, he has feelings too!!! I would cut folks off LC/NC or whatever.
The way the whole extended family jumped on the bandwagon is very telling. OP needs to watch her back with all of them
Girl send your sister to your parents, she should not be in your home, why don’t you realize that. So sad for Dan, prioritized him NOT your sister.
She definitely isn't respectful of her husband to have her sister there after those allegations regardless of who convinced who!!!
Spot on! And, op should go LC, bordering NC. Op is going to get her & her hubby back into the toxic swamp that is her family
If I was Op and her husband, I would go full on LC/NC with the family even after apologies. They are not loyal to Op and too easily led by a stranger. Now Op knows where she stands. Who knows what lie her sister will tell next. She could accused her BIL os SA next. Op needs to tread very carefully.
Op's mom is a piece of work. She also thought it was a joke but turned coated out and blamed op. How can a parent just listen to one child without listening to the other.
People are such doormats. You’re going to let your entire family accuse you of being manipulative and liars and then just let them back into your life with a simple “oops! Sowwy” like what
No, because I would let him have her. Let Trent have all of them. I'm sorry, but she WILLINGLY WENT ALONG with what he wanted. If I were Dan, I wouldn't treat her the same ever again. Hard time or no, she took an active role in damaging Dan's reputation.
Dan deserves a better wife
How she defended and stood by him
OP's better than me... I'm petty.
I would've never forgiven and permanently cut ties. They were all SO QUICK to believe such blatant lies. The way the extended family jumped on the bandwagon just shows what kind of people they truly are. The mother is equally, if not more disgusting.
That sister would not have taken a step inside my door until she fixed everything. And in no way in hell would I force my husband to live with her after what she did! YTA OP, but not for bringing your husband to the wedding, but for bringing you trash sister under your roof!
OP is way too forgiving cause ain't no way in həll would i ever in life forgive all those people for what they did. So quick to believe the worst about a person without even asking anything. People like that are undeserving of being a part of their lives...
OPs family are sheep.
OP didn’t take control of the issue early enough
Classic narcissist abuse. So much yikes that it happened after thousands of dollars were spent but it’s better late than never🤦🏾
There are definite events that can make abusers feel comfortable taking off the mask of decency: moving into together, engagement, wedding, or the birth of a child. When they feel their victim is locked in and will have difficulty leaving either because of money or societal pressure.
@@linseypollack2309 Guess the abuser moved too quick telling the sis to quit her job
i would stay away from sister and her husband, even mom and dad. i would go nc w/sister and her husband, lc w/mom and dad - i would not trust them at all
So I would help sister get out of her toxic relationship BUT not allow her to stay as that would be totally insulting to hubby after the accusations thrown at him. Other than that I would keep a very healthy distance from the rest of my family. It's what I have done in my life anyway. Keep it polite at necessary family gatherings but other than that have nothing to do with any of them
I thought it had to do with not paying back the money she borrowed from Dan.
Sister's hubby is a narcissist. He got that stalker vibe.
OPs sister doesn't love her at all
Go to a lawyer and sue for slander deformation and for the loan amount. Then go no contact. Bil is jealous of her connection with op husband.
Yeah, whoever was in this situation definitely had a few too many things they didn't do that needed to be done. These posts are made by someone sharing these life stories (Sweet Telltales), so OP won't ever be commenting here.
Just sad, in general. There are too many red flags and lessons that need to be learned from stuff like this, and lessons that need to be taught about how to properly react.
I find it disturbing just how many stories there are like this, kinda makes me wonder how families have ever been able to keep it together
I thought the sister was pulling a "prank" like told everyone Op divorced or something and that's why everyone was looking at him oddly. Then everyone would she her marriage as better.
Wish that was true rather than this mess.
Annulment, not divorce.
I have a great love for my BIL. He has been there for me in ways no one else ever has. His comfort he has given me will always be treasured. He is a great person. A great Dad and Grandpa.
But i love him as the brother he is. No weird creepy crush.
This OP is clueless. How long did it take her to realize her sister married a complete psycho with mental health issues. He is a control freak. These are they type of guys that pew pew their families.
I need the sister to apologize on social media. The truth is NOT finally out, nor has it come to light.
F this story wtf i would never forgive them ever
I’m sending OP a tee shirt with “Wipe Here” on the front. I would never forgive that family.
Trent is classic abuser, get a restraining order, and have your sister stay with a relative somewhere else within your family. Get a security system, and call the cops next time he shows up immediately.
The mom told OP it was probably a joke and got mad when OP didn't take it seriously
Just have to walk away and wash your hands of these garbage people
Sister told lies about your husband
Despite everything she is my sister. Lol
Wow, what a twist in the story, everything makes sense now! 🙈
Honestly being someone with anxiety if i was in that situation i would be either ending it all or considering it
The first story needs to make her dad pay rent. Or sell her half for triple asking price.
I’m glad that the sister divorced Trent so quickly!!!!!! I was married to a narcissist gaslighter for 7 almost 8 years. It only gets worse! The narcissist is the only one happy in the relationship. If you can say that. They enjoy making your life miserable and drum up more ways to make it more miserable throughout the day everyday! You are fortunate if you have any good days. I’m fortunate that I had my family and friends who supported me in getting away from my ex husband!!!!!!! He still emails and calls me once in awhile but I am so happy without him! Never ever go back to a narcissist!
8:45 okay this makes no sense, why is OP family doing this
Whoa, i had to read this twice, this sisters husband was completely engilfed in jealousy. His wife , is along for the ride. But the idea of going LC/NC is s worthy idea. It is really time to look at Trent's complete mental breakdown about OP's husband. What a unbelievable mess. I wonder if have OP sister so close, but at least the truth is out there. I really wonder if this man has a mental obsesion , i have never heard if such jealously. This is a story that is such a eye opening look into the state of mind of people , very very interesting
OP should not have attended the wedding at all if husband was not invited. As a married man, if my wife is not welcome, I do not attend.
That sister is the jealous one.She wants Dan on the low.
Get her out of your house!!! Prioritize your husband.
Sue the guy for the slanderous social media posts.
How are you a homewrecker?
Thank you!!!
I don't understand it either!
My thoughts are that the family believes that OP tried to come between the sister and the fiance, or maybe that's what they told the family.
STOP the check!!
Dude is a textbook narcissist
I think he needs to call in the loan then go NC
Dang your family is almost as bad as mine. My family still hasn't accepted my husband even tho we have been together about 20 years
Do it for Dan
Nah man don't trust the sister bro
Another doormat story
A fight broke out right in the courtyard
The fact that your sister finally realized what was happening and sought refuge with you shows her trust in your bond
If she had trusted OP and their bond, this mess wouldn't have happened to begin with.
Demand the jewelry business loan payment in full.
OMG!!! If you are going to make up a fake story, you need your characters to act somewhat reasonably. You can have 1 or 2 characters who are clearly off their rockers, but this is just absurd. Everyone is acting irrationally which isn't possible.
You've obviously never met my Ex family!
I have 7 brothers and sisters and only speak with 2 brothers. One sister I haven't seen or spoken to since 2002.
I’m glad I’m an only child
I would NOT allow the sister to stay in me and my husband’s home. Especially after you openly accused him of wanting her and the whole family and their friends believed all the chaos they caused. Y’all tarnished that man’s reputation and name so openly and publicly apologize AND say y’all lied on him because you were stupid for believing your husband. Make her stay with your parents or other family or friends BUT NOT in Dan’s home. Now you’re stupid for allowing that to happen under your husband and your roof!! You’re disrespecting your husband now, he has feelings too!!! I would cut folks off LC/NC or whatever.
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Ooh wee, this is cringe OP. YTA. Dan deserves wayyy better, and I hope he finds it.