Well, I'm from 5th Ward and as long as I can remember, whites caught natural hell when they wondered in my community with that cocky mentality. but I must say i see too many instances of black men being punked by scrawny white boys. they know who to approach with that...
I like your content Phil but I respectfully disagree with some of your points. 1) I know plenty if men who never knew their fathers grow up to be "alpha" males. They have a family and they make it a point to be in their child's life. 2) We are not monolithic. Most people have traits of an leader and a nice person. Life is a gray area. Some men are quiet, some men are more aggressive. We need to stop putting people in a box. 3)What's success? Money isn't everything. Being dominant and conquering people isn't the meaning of life. There is someone out there for everyone. I've seen plenty of nice guys with women and in happy relationships. To me there are holes in this logic. People don't let others put you in a box. Yes we can all improve areas in our lives, but don't stamp a label on yourself as a beta male or a alpha. Just be you.
Love this comment. I genuinely like nice guys. I prefer someone I can talk to as another person. I dont want anyone thats a jerk...and both alpha males and beta males can be buttholes
What about loving your own species & planet instead of reinforcing all this separation between skin pigment? Shits just childish if you ask me.. "Oh look my playroom is better than yours!!" Sick Dude.. like who really gives a fuck?
In other words: Shut up and love the nation that has slaughtered, undermined, and disenfranchised black people. That's some fascinating logic there, buddy.
Big Amp With his logic..no. I was also raised by my mother and grandma. Live your life. The way you want to. Don't let other peoples ideas/opinions change you. If you doing the right thing in life and taking care of your own..regardless of race you're from..than you not a beta male.
Darkstalker 212 Exactly! Whats weird is a few of these youtubers say they're Alphas yet quick to stick with "correlative biases" based on simple and conservative intelligence. In order to spare their own faults, fingers our being pointed outward, indicating a lack of "accountability" driven by WHAT??? EMOTIONS! I Grew up with "Both" my Parents yet still have trouble controlling mine. But through self-preservation looking inward and not just out helped me see through alot of bullsh#t including his and my own.
So fatherlessness runs in your family then? Grandparents should NOT have to repeat their role as caregiver. They put their work in! So let them enjoy their golden years.
These descriptions of alphas and betas are completely wrong, anyone can have any combination of both and be considered either! Don't allow people to define who you are, just be real about your faults and strengths. If you are a lame, know that you're a lame, if you are a king, know that you're a king, if you fall somewhere in between, know that everybody has a place and you're probably the majority in this scenario. People are usually far more complex than a label, there are always exceptions to every rule! However, I observe that there are way more weak minded people than strong willed, allowing for themselves to be easily manipulated and controlled. In short, know your role, play your part.
I enjoy Phil's channel, I don't really have a personal opinion about the way someone else thinks, it's their right. I can respect someone for speaking their mind, I don't have to agree, I'm just as falable as the next person, who am I to state my opinion as fact! I really just appreciate the fact that people are discussing issues and thinking. Not name calling and insulting, but stating valid arguments.
Stress is a ruthless silent killer! You are spot on about the beta male that exists these days. There are too many followers, and not enough leaders. Too many Indians, and not enough chiefs. I was always taught to be a leader, not a follower. The beta male has really broken out in the last few decades. Many brothers now dress, act/speak, even think feministically. I'll call this out as well, Advise Show TV, large reason why interracial dating has exploded in this country!
Excellent observations Phillip, on all points. It's a delicate balance between the alpha, beta and omega males. No matter what category a man finds himself in, learning proper coping skills is key to facing confrontation & disappointment in life.
I'm going to admit I'm 20 now, and I use to be a beta male. Phil made me a better man. I'm educated on what men should & shouldn't do now. I had no clue I had beta male traits. Though I'm still trying to make the full transition. I did have a father in my life, but he just wasn't the best example on what an alpha male should be. That did a lot of harm towards my development as a young man. So now I'm trying to pick up the pieces & make the best of my situation today.
peace to the advise show famly. y'all know the alphas are our warriors. the beta males are under development. the point that we all gotta get is that we as a community need to reach out and network with the warriors because without them we have betas fighting passive aggresively in which pales in comparison to actual aggression in which is required to wage a winning war. our legacy is under attack by outsiders who need our in house fighting in order to passively aggresss against our destiny to be the leaders the civilized the immortals the personification of our highest attributes. the superiors in human life the first people to actually show up in his story the only people to manifest in our authentic creative writings. good show stay enlightened and keep the content up to par. I really value your platform. thank you for the time and I will be supporting the unit of die movement let's all get on board
This message is hitting me hard where it hurts because I'm a beta male myself. My dad and sisters are always protective over me and I always do what everyone says. I do everyone favors and I just don't feel respected. I been bullied at school and I never fought back. This is all because I was raised as a good boy. My biggest problem is knowing when to say NO. I'm really sick and tired of this. But thanks to nofap and mgtow videos, I'm glad I'm coming to realization.
The part that got my attention to me is that Men judge other men on how goofy they look with their facial features.... How feminine they are...... Their body language as well on how insecure they are........ which is one of the the problems that I have and are acknowledging it... because I know it needs to stop I Might not have had my father in my life........ But damn all you judgmental folks out there for basically degrading others who can still strive to become the man they know that they can become!!! and like it or not one day you might need My help whether I'm an Alpha male or not.......... so don't only depend on the ALPHA males out there that could still do you wrong in the end...... think about that...... With that said all I can say is that I'm a work in progress....... to become the man I can be.
For those in the comment section placing the focus blaming on Men or Women. Y'all wrong and it shows the weakness within many Blacks to not take accountability. Also it is weak because y'all would rather argue than make plans to rid yourselves of the problems that are present.
+LIVERMNYC You will be one one-angle regardless if you define your "alpha" premise on what bullshit women say, when most of the men who say things like this about "never blame women" is exactly what women tell them to say. Whats "alpha" about that?
Hey phill, I dig your channel and I'm glad you brought up this conversion. Hopefully we'll have more guys questioning their own status as men than someone else's.
"Most leaders spend time trying to get others to think highly of them, when instead they should try to get their people to think more highly of themselves. It's wonderful when the people believe in their leader. It's more wonderful when the leader believes in their people! You can't hold a man down without staying down with him." ~ Booker T. Washington
I grew up in a Maori area of Rotorua, in New Zealand, and the men there were practically all Alphas, descended from a Warrior Tribe, and yet the Maori, as a People, have Honour (Mana) and Loving Respect (Aroha). I grew up thinking that Mana and Aroha were normal and when I see folks walking outside of this way, no matter what their race, I'm not inclined to see them as strong and honourable. You judge people by who they are. That's what it boils down to, and this is who I learned it from, the Maori of Rotorua, New Zealand. They came from Hawaii 500 years ago to New Zealand, and thousands of years before that, they came from Lybia. Maui was their ancestor and he was a famous ancient Lybian sea captain, and Rata was his navigator. The Maori brought their ways from Africa 1000s of years ago, before the Africans were enslaved, and have never ever been enslaved by other nations, (although they did enslave each other), so if you want to know what an un-enslaved African would look like, look at the Maori, including the Hawaiians, Tongans, Samoans, New Zealand Maori etc. Just look at The Rock, and you'll see what I mean! He is Samoan.
That's why you should be the next president of the United States, Phil. You tell it like it is. I'm going to do my best to be more alpha and less beta. Much respect to you sir.
I caught a Judge Somebody? tv show and this Black woman told the judge that she left her old man in jail for a year longer than he had to be there because she found out that he had cheated on her. That hurt me to my heart. I was so ashamed for her.
Brother I wish you and and some of the other brothers on TH-cam talking to black men were around 40 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and money especially dealing with these women. With today's social media there is no excuse for a brother being a simp and stupid. Keep up the good work because you're giving us some good wisdom.
Your absolutely right Phil... she's also putting her safety on the line for her Nation of people... Why.. because she's loves her people ... I'm Riding with her until the wheels fall off.... Factz
I know this was a year ago but Phil is telling the truth. He was giving techincal definitions to these three types of males. Sure there are exceptions to everything but the basics of what he said was correctt. A lot of women want a man to be assertive. Assertiveness doesn't mean aggressiveness or even abusivness. They just want a man to have boundaries and self respect. You can be a quiet spirited man but still carry a sense of pride about yourself. Simply put, a women doesn't want a wimp as a partner.
Do all men really have to be alphas, though? I mean, isn't it natural for some men to be betas or followers so that the alpha has his support and his army? Malcolm X was able to direct the men under him like that because they were all submissive to him.
I support your thinking. If there's a TOP, there's gotta be a BOTTOM. For rich people to exist, there must be poor people as well. Simple binaries really.
the term,"hyper-masculinity"was used to refer to a particular type of black urban female that acts out aggressive & overly confrontational or thugged-out
I raised my son on my own along with my daughter. His father was in his life but he taught my son how to beat on lady's and how to do drugs so as far as a man blaming a lady for how her kids turned out is a straight out lie. So now my son is strung out on drugs and in a gang. Is that my fault. Heeeccckkkk NOOOOOOO !!!
Fight back how. As far as to teaching him. I was a very hardworking mom working two jobs all my life to care for mines. I've never ever did drugs nor have I allowed any man to hit me.
Go back to your question you clearly asked is" if it's your fault that your son is strung on drugs and a gang member" you never asked if it's your sons fathers fault so I can only answer your question in a way that refurs to you, again you asked was it your fault which I clearly stated "it's not all your fault" as it takes two in any situation when it comes to a child not to mention your son if he's on drugs and a gang member then it's safe to assume he's grown and can make his own decisions, now unless your were raped then that's a different scenario but you weren't you chose you son's father which obviously wasn't the best choice for you in helping you raise your kids you have to take some responsibility in that and pass what you've learn as a single mother to younger black women so they hopefully won't wind up with the same issues that you have currently that's why I said it's important to plan your future i.e when to have kids, careers, homes, ECT ECT if not then this cycle never breaks then there will be just another sister miserable looking to point fingers at black men and wonder why most are going outside their race now how has that helped you out your not with your son's father and your son is still gang affiliated being upset and looking to point blame isn't going to change that situation sister.
Seriously? Most 'nice' guys I know tend to do well in life. They become professionals. Arround age of 30, women start getting attracted to a guy who can get a mortgage and buy a house.
Yeah, but that line of thinking is self-serving and insincere. Why don't these women scoop up these future Joe-Pros when they are young and in college? Most successful guys don't want some used-up, old ho when it's convenient for her to date nice guys now. That's her fault for not seeing past their "corniness." Joe-Pro will just be well-placed to date 20 year olds.
glad i clicked on this clip great points some i did not know or had never thought about i definitely agree as a black female you can spot an alpha male he exudes confidence that warrants attention and respect LOL! thanks for sharing phil love and peace*
Phil I respect your platform and you as a man, even though I don't know you. With that being said, your fighting the wrong fight bro. How can you expect black ppl to rally against "white supremacy" when we have issues within ourselves?
No other group of people in human history has ever thought that "we have to get ourselves right before we go after anyone else." This idea is called Respectability politics and has not and will not ever work. It's an idea that comes from the oppressor and what it says is "If you people (Black people) just become perfect than you can talk about my oppression of you."
Every group has issues yet, when it comes to others they damn sure know how to stick together. You act like we're treated a certain way because of issues within our community. That's not the case.
Orlando's Reality Yeah it really is. I'm not hating on phil but I'm not about to sit here and try to strategically place myself in one of theses three nifty little categories. I mean, there are times when I'm assertive, times when I prefer to avoid confrontation, and even times when I'm a little awkward, lol. I'm not a chump, but I'm also not foolish enough to walk around thinking I'm the coolest and toughest guy alive either. Besides, I usually just keep to myself outside of work anyway, since I'm not really all that social.
Tony Hailes I agree and to think only the stereotypical alfa guy is the only guy can show what he's made of and his potential and actually stand his ground and not bow down to others. This so ridiculous I don't have time to even explain half the things wrong with this video. Im sorry Phil I have agreed in some things with your videos but not this one.
You are completely right about our men needing to step up.. we need our men to fight side by side with our women like they used to. however in the past few decades our women have had to take the lead because so many of our men are weak... easily the most docile and confused race of men mentally it's really sad that so many have lost their warrior spirit.
Well, I'm from 5th Ward and as long as I can remember, whites caught natural hell when they wondered in my community with that cocky mentality. but I must say i see too many instances of black men being punked by scrawny white boys. they know who to approach with that...
I like your content Phil but I respectfully disagree with some of your points.
1) I know plenty if men who never knew their fathers grow up to be "alpha" males. They have a family and they make it a point to be in their child's life.
2) We are not monolithic. Most people have traits of an leader and a nice person. Life is a gray area. Some men are quiet, some men are more aggressive. We need to stop putting people in a box.
3)What's success? Money isn't everything. Being dominant and conquering people isn't the meaning of life. There is someone out there for everyone. I've seen plenty of nice guys with women and in happy relationships. To me there are holes in this logic.
People don't let others put you in a box. Yes we can all improve areas in our lives, but don't stamp a label on yourself as a beta male or a alpha. Just be you.
DaMusicMane1 I respect your comment.
DaMusicMane1 so true
Love this comment. I genuinely like nice guys. I prefer someone I can talk to as another person. I dont want anyone thats a jerk...and both alpha males and beta males can be buttholes
I think Phil knows Alpha and beta are large areas and have a spectrum within itself
DaMusicMane1 5 Stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
THERE'S NOTHING RACIST ABOUT LOVING YOUR OWN NATION. ...!!
Even ants know that, what is your point?
What about loving your own species & planet instead of reinforcing all this separation between skin pigment? Shits just childish if you ask me.. "Oh look my playroom is better than yours!!" Sick Dude.. like who really gives a fuck?
Fa real
In other words: Shut up and love the nation that has slaughtered, undermined, and disenfranchised black people. That's some fascinating logic there, buddy.
Ok
I was raised by my mother and grandmother and I'm still an alpha
Big Amp With his logic..no. I was also raised by my mother and grandma. Live your life. The way you want to. Don't let other peoples ideas/opinions change you. If you doing the right thing in life and taking care of your own..regardless of race you're from..than you not a beta male.
His mindset is old fashioned..pro-black logic.
Darkstalker 212 Exactly! Whats weird is a few of these youtubers say they're Alphas yet quick to stick with "correlative biases" based on simple and conservative intelligence. In order to spare their own faults, fingers our being pointed outward, indicating a lack of "accountability" driven by WHAT??? EMOTIONS!
I Grew up with "Both" my Parents yet still have trouble controlling mine. But through self-preservation looking inward and not just out helped me see through alot of bullsh#t including his and my own.
TRAITS
Alpha = Foresight.
Exceptional Communicator.
Exceptional Director.
Facilitator.
Beta = Exceptional Editor.
Great Listener.
Director.
Exceptional Operator.
Omega = Hindsight.
Exceptional Reader.
Exceptional Intellect.
Advisor.
So fatherlessness runs in your family then? Grandparents should NOT have to repeat their role as caregiver. They put their work in! So let them enjoy their golden years.
Alpha Male: "Marcus Garvey"...( "Leadership" for our people and family defines you as so..)
woman are already emotional we dont need emotional man.
I've became a patron and I love you and your show brother!!!! I'm very happy I found out about you!!!!!! Peace to you BROTHER.
These descriptions of alphas and betas are completely wrong, anyone can have any combination of both and be considered either!
Don't allow people to define who you are, just be real about your faults and strengths.
If you are a lame, know that you're a lame, if you are a king, know that you're a king, if you fall somewhere in between, know that everybody has a place and you're probably the majority in this scenario.
People are usually far more complex than a label, there are always exceptions to every rule!
However, I observe that there are way more weak minded people than strong willed, allowing for themselves to be easily manipulated and controlled.
In short, know your role, play your part.
JuanJose247 Real Talk..
JuanJose247 THANK YOU
I enjoy Phil's channel, I don't really have a personal opinion about the way someone else thinks, it's their right.
I can respect someone for speaking their mind, I don't have to agree, I'm just as falable as the next person, who am I to state my opinion as fact!
I really just appreciate the fact that people are discussing issues and thinking. Not name calling and insulting, but stating valid arguments.
JuanJose247 Phil, think he's slick I knew after 3 minutes he was taking shots at the anti black female fuckery community.
JuanJose247 what you say feels more true... peddle are way more diverse... people like too lable too.
Stress is a ruthless silent killer! You are spot on about the beta male that exists these days. There are too many followers, and not enough leaders. Too many Indians, and not enough chiefs. I was always taught to be a leader, not a follower. The beta male has really broken out in the last few decades. Many brothers now dress, act/speak, even think feministically. I'll call this out as well, Advise Show TV, large reason why interracial dating has exploded in this country!
Excellent observations Phillip, on all points. It's a delicate balance between the alpha, beta and omega males. No matter what category a man finds himself in, learning proper coping skills is key to facing confrontation & disappointment in life.
I'm going to admit I'm 20 now, and I use to be a beta male. Phil made me a better man. I'm educated on what men should & shouldn't do now. I had no clue I had beta male traits. Though I'm still trying to make the full transition. I did have a father in my life, but he just wasn't the best example on what an alpha male should be. That did a lot of harm towards my development as a young man. So now I'm trying to pick up the pieces & make the best of my situation today.
Phil your the only person that's worth listening too these days.
And Willie D
peace to the advise show famly. y'all know the alphas are our warriors. the beta males are under development. the point that we all gotta get is that we as a community need to reach out and network with the warriors because without them we have betas fighting passive aggresively in which pales in comparison to actual aggression in which is required to wage a winning war. our legacy is under attack by outsiders who need our in house fighting in order to passively aggresss against our destiny to be the leaders the civilized the immortals the personification of our highest attributes. the superiors in human life the first people to actually show up in his story the only people to manifest in our authentic creative writings. good show stay enlightened and keep the content up to par. I really value your platform. thank you for the time and I will be supporting the unit of die movement let's all get on board
I like that shirt
me too
Adonis Hannah buy it. he have them for sale
+Ms. Woodard where do I get the Africa shit at???
Jimmy sublet.. Shirt or " shit" ?? Lol
Lack of father figures + Lack of child's determination or even awareness to seal/heal the gap
honestly.we as a people need therapy.
Hold up why is this in the Infinity War playlist 😂😂😂
- WHO ALL WATCHED THE WHOLE VIDEO?!?!! LOL 😂😂
I KNOW I DID. forever supporting you man. :)
This message is hitting me hard where it hurts because I'm a beta male myself. My dad and sisters are always protective over me and I always do what everyone says. I do everyone favors and I just don't feel respected. I been bullied at school and I never fought back. This is all because I was raised as a good boy. My biggest problem is knowing when to say NO. I'm really sick and tired of this. But thanks to nofap and mgtow videos, I'm glad I'm coming to realization.
The part that got my attention to me is that Men judge other men on how goofy they look with their facial features.... How feminine they are...... Their body language as well on how insecure they are........ which is one of the the problems that I have and are acknowledging it... because I know it needs to stop
I Might not have had my father in my life........ But damn all you judgmental folks out there for basically degrading others who can still strive to become the man they know that they can become!!! and like it or not one day you might need My help whether I'm an Alpha male or not.......... so don't only depend on the ALPHA males out there that could still do you wrong in the end...... think about that......
With that said all I can say is that I'm a work in progress....... to become the man I can be.
I've always been Omega and that suits me just fine.
For those in the comment section placing the focus blaming on Men or Women. Y'all wrong and it shows the weakness within many Blacks to not take accountability. Also it is weak because y'all would rather argue than make plans to rid yourselves of the problems that are present.
THIS 100%. Most (if not all) of society's problems have multiple causes. You can't point the finger towards just one angle.
+LIVERMNYC You will be one one-angle regardless if you define your "alpha" premise on what bullshit women say, when most of the men who say things like this about "never blame women" is exactly what women tell them to say. Whats "alpha" about that?
+Dumadean Simpson - 👍👍
I am glad you spoke on this .
This is excellent ‼️🙌🏾 Thank You! So good to hear a M A N speak on this because when women talk about it they're "bashing" 😒🙄! Give Thanks 🙏🏾
lmao the way phil look in the beginning....
Why is this in a infinity war clip playlist
ikr right wtf ?
Alpha Male - Loves To Talk To Women
Beta Male - Talks To Men All The Time
Shaneice Jackson well damn lol case closed
Shaneice Jackson Beta males love to talk to women too. Many times they have more female friends than males and are trapped in the friend zone.
kikilicious99 Exactly Beta Males Are The Friendzone Type
Hogan- MGTOW Lol
Bullshit! The Beta Male is ALWAYS kissing some women's ass. Sucking up to them for some gash!
Hey phill, I dig your channel and I'm glad you brought up this conversion. Hopefully we'll have more guys questioning their own status as men than someone else's.
Hey Phil, y'all keep playing with that dude on the phone in the video thumbnail. He gonna whoop somebody ass one day.
Beats, Games, Life -ZimM804 Like that beta-simp who shot that harmless old man?
I'm glad you're addressing this Phil
I don't remember this scene in Infinity War.
damn I'm a beta male😕😕😕
I guess I am too.
Young Atlas lol😀
Young Atlas dat sucks
Man the fuck up
BLVCK Soldier + YEAH!!!! Tell him
Yes the foundation of this country has an ugly past.... very nasty
So so true it is very well needed to continue and have a strong man in the household
I am a beta male and and I accepte it.
Q RandomRantz you can still have a productive relationship just have to channel your energy properly
There's pros and cons to every status so be yourself.
Qs RandomRantz Same here. I've been raised by my mother and my 4 other sisters, I've been softened up and sissified when I was young.
So you accept what you CAN change? You can't fight grim death, but that doesn't mean you bow down to it either!
Qs RandomRantz ..... yes you're right you are a beta..... and and you should accepte it 🤦🏽♀️😂
You're the truth Phil!
Bless you.
You got it correct...Money, Power, Respect is the name of the song. The theme came from Scarface.
This is nothing but the TRUTH. Thank you Phil!
"Most leaders spend time trying to get others to think highly of them, when instead they should try to get their people to think more highly of themselves. It's wonderful when the people believe in their leader. It's more wonderful when the leader believes in their people! You can't hold a man down without staying down with him." ~ Booker T. Washington
He just described that TH-camr officer tatum. Straight beta male.
I grew up in a Maori area of Rotorua, in New Zealand, and the men there were practically all Alphas, descended from a Warrior Tribe, and yet the Maori, as a People, have Honour (Mana) and Loving Respect (Aroha). I grew up thinking that Mana and Aroha were normal and when I see folks walking outside of this way, no matter what their race, I'm not inclined to see them as strong and honourable. You judge people by who they are.
That's what it boils down to, and this is who I learned it from, the Maori of Rotorua, New Zealand.
They came from Hawaii 500 years ago to New Zealand, and thousands of years before that, they came from Lybia. Maui was their ancestor and he was a famous ancient Lybian sea captain, and Rata was his navigator. The Maori brought their ways from Africa 1000s of years ago, before the Africans were enslaved, and have never ever been enslaved by other nations, (although they did enslave each other), so if you want to know what an un-enslaved African would look like, look at the Maori, including the Hawaiians, Tongans, Samoans, New Zealand Maori etc. Just look at The Rock, and you'll see what I mean! He is Samoan.
I couldn't have said so better myself!! Keep it up Phil! And love the shirt!!
“You have to have a little bit of a butt-hole in you!” Phill, you’re awesome!
Well I don't know.. I like my homies but in all honesty I'd rather be chilling with the ladies. there's a time for everything, work and play...
You have Alpha males, Beta Males and Omega Males! Omega Male is the last man standing and only the Strongest to survive "Longetivity".
Is that the same damn dude?!!! 😂😂😂😂 I'm weak! But seriously though, I am so glad my sons had a structure of a two parent home.
This is such truth!
I absolutely enjoyed that talk. Great inspiration
Good morning Phil
Phil, please research Bayard Rustin. A gay black male, who was very influential in the civil rights movement.
That wouldn't fit with his homophobic agenda.
Proverbial ONE Lt them mess with my child or pet they will be buried.
That's why you should be the next president of the United States, Phil. You tell it like it is. I'm going to do my best to be more alpha and less beta. Much respect to you sir.
I caught a Judge Somebody? tv show and this Black woman told the judge that she left her old man in jail for a year longer than he had to be there because she found out that he had cheated on her. That hurt me to my heart. I was so ashamed for her.
Why is this in avengers infinity war clips playlist lmao
Brother I wish you and and some of the other brothers on TH-cam talking to black men were around 40 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and money especially dealing with these women. With today's social media there is no excuse for a brother being a simp and stupid. Keep up the good work because you're giving us some good wisdom.
the intro to this vid had me dead lol but nice work Mr. Phil
His face on the thumbnail... In both pics... 💀💀 I'm dead af!!!
light skinned vs dark skin women who you should like more. It's BONE not TONE.
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THIS IS EXPLAINED TO
THE BEST EVER . I SEE WHY
YOUR SHOW IS CALLED THE ADVISE SHOW.
MEN PLEASE TAKE ADVISE.
Good point. you got me thinking about that. Damn
Your absolutely right Phil... she's also putting her safety on the line for her Nation of people... Why.. because she's loves her people ... I'm Riding with her until the wheels fall off.... Factz
3:02 I thinks that’s the actual name of the song, I definitely was a hip hop head…
It’s also called Stockholm syndrome! Also check out Dr. Joy Degruy’s Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome
Those were great words of wisdom and I appreciate what you do brother. Thank you
I know this was a year ago but Phil is telling the truth. He was giving techincal definitions to these three types of males. Sure there are exceptions to everything but the basics of what he said was correctt. A lot of women want a man to be assertive. Assertiveness doesn't mean aggressiveness or even abusivness. They just want a man to have boundaries and self respect. You can be a quiet spirited man but still carry a sense of pride about yourself. Simply put, a women doesn't want a wimp as a partner.
Keep on launching these nukes Phil, people gotta hear it.
Do all men really have to be alphas, though? I mean, isn't it natural for some men to be betas or followers so that the alpha has his support and his army? Malcolm X was able to direct the men under him like that because they were all submissive to him.
I support your thinking. If there's a TOP, there's gotta be a BOTTOM. For rich people to exist, there must be poor people as well. Simple binaries really.
👏👏👏 Thank you Phil!!!
Ol boy in the thumbnail im weak lololol
This is great content. I learned a lot.
Great video alot of the young brothers need to see this kind of content instead of the BS that's on Utube.
Hey, *Blu-ray Clips* , care to explain why this is in your “Avengers: Infinity War” playlist. Lmao.
Even a psychologist would disagree with your reaction to this.
the term,"hyper-masculinity"was used to refer to a particular type of black urban female that acts out aggressive & overly confrontational or thugged-out
good video Phill
Great video learnt a lot!!
Good morning Everyone!
you guys ever heard of Nofap? probably not. but that helped me become the man i needed to be. its quite amassing.
Alphas are the ones who have the willingness, strength, and knowledge to protect and support others within a group.
I raised my son on my own along with my daughter. His father was in his life but he taught my son how to beat on lady's and how to do drugs so as far as a man blaming a lady for how her kids turned out is a straight out lie. So now my son is strung out on drugs and in a gang. Is that my fault. Heeeccckkkk NOOOOOOO !!!
Fight back how. As far as to teaching him. I was a very hardworking mom working two jobs all my life to care for mines. I've never ever did drugs nor have I allowed any man to hit me.
is that a fact. Always blame us. Wow !!
Go back to your question you clearly asked is" if it's your fault that your son is strung on drugs and a gang member" you never asked if it's your sons fathers fault so I can only answer your question in a way that refurs to you, again you asked was it your fault which I clearly stated "it's not all your fault" as it takes two in any situation when it comes to a child not to mention your son if he's on drugs and a gang member then it's safe to assume he's grown and can make his own decisions, now unless your were raped then that's a different scenario but you weren't you chose you son's father which obviously wasn't the best choice for you in helping you raise your kids you have to take some responsibility in that and pass what you've learn as a single mother to younger black women so they hopefully won't wind up with the same issues that you have currently that's why I said it's important to plan your future i.e when to have kids, careers, homes, ECT ECT if not then this cycle never breaks then there will be just another sister miserable looking to point fingers at black men and wonder why most are going outside their race
now how has that helped you out your not with your son's father and your son is still gang affiliated being upset and looking to point blame isn't going to change that situation sister.
Are you a better man than others. Are you the Alpha male that you should be ?
I feel hyped like I just left church...Phil preaching today.
I wish I could clone you x 100 million
Seriously? Most 'nice' guys I know tend to do well in life. They become professionals. Arround age of 30, women start getting attracted to a guy who can get a mortgage and buy a house.
Yeah, but that line of thinking is self-serving and insincere. Why don't these women scoop up these future Joe-Pros when they are young and in college? Most successful guys don't want some used-up, old ho when it's convenient for her to date nice guys now. That's her fault for not seeing past their "corniness." Joe-Pro will just be well-placed to date 20 year olds.
@Edward Gaines true on both accounts and healthier.
I love this video
Partly describing a narcissist to me. They alwys find a way to take revenge.
Thanks. Needed to be heard
I don't know what kind of women be pretending they don't like an alpha man and they don't need an alpha man.
I'm looking at this comment section I'm glad all these beta males are exposing themselves
The lack of Alpha males forces the Beta males to take on a role they're not convertible with. The results are disastrous.
glad i clicked on this clip great points some i did not know or had never thought about i definitely agree as a black female you can spot an alpha male he exudes confidence that warrants attention and respect LOL! thanks for sharing phil love and peace*
Love the shirt Phil
Your truth is why you have my vote Phil. 💪🙏👍👏🤙
Glad you spoke on thus subject.
Well done
I don't need a man with no backbone period, he needs to not be a thug but not a punk, has to have drive.
Phil I respect your platform and you as a man, even though I don't know you. With that being said, your fighting the wrong fight bro. How can you expect black ppl to rally against "white supremacy" when we have issues within ourselves?
David Brown whites have problems too but they stay on code or still support each other
No other group of people in human history has ever thought that "we have to get ourselves right before we go after anyone else."
This idea is called Respectability politics and has not and will not ever work. It's an idea that comes from the oppressor and what it says is "If you people (Black people) just become perfect than you can talk about my oppression of you."
David Brown Oh my god did u watch the video? He said that we have issues in our community.
Great video
Every group has issues yet, when it comes to others they damn sure know how to stick together. You act like we're treated a certain way because of issues within our community. That's not the case.
Why did you put SynQ in your video thumbnail? Maybe that this guy was a beta male on TH-cam back in the early 2000.
There are some many things wrong with his beta, alfa, and omega theroy.
Orlando's Reality Yeah it really is. I'm not hating on phil but I'm not about to sit here and try to strategically place myself in one of theses three nifty little categories. I mean, there are times when I'm assertive, times when I prefer to avoid confrontation, and even times when I'm a little awkward, lol. I'm not a chump, but I'm also not foolish enough to walk around thinking I'm the coolest and toughest guy alive either. Besides, I usually just keep to myself outside of work anyway, since I'm not really all that social.
Tony Hailes I agree and to think only the stereotypical alfa guy is the only guy can show what he's made of and his potential and actually stand his ground and not bow down to others. This so ridiculous I don't have time to even explain half the things wrong with this video. Im sorry Phil I have agreed in some things with your videos but not this one.
Orlando's Reality wrd up
What's an Omega Male? Does it involve Dr.Wily?
Orlando's Reality ..what are you? not asking if u alpha or beta..just. whattf are? why u here?
Tell that to Bill Cosby. Your narrative is skewed badly.
You are completely right about our men needing to step up.. we need our men to fight side by side with our women like they used to. however in the past few decades our women have had to take the lead because so many of our men are weak... easily the most docile and confused race of men mentally it's really sad that so many have lost their warrior spirit.