We Took a Caribbean Cruise to a Risky Port. We Refused to Go Ashore.

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  • @reggaeprincess6043
    @reggaeprincess6043 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    As a person of Jamaican parentage , you guys DID THE RIGHT THING. Safety is the key, and you guys called the correct shot. Even though Jamaica is a nice place, the PEOPLE are killing the Island. For the other folks who decide to go ashore, please be careful, and stay in groups. Too many things are happening in Jamaica right now, that gives cause for concern. This is coming from someone who has visited Jamaica over 25 times. Most recently last month.

    • @Cruisewith
      @Cruisewith  ปีที่แล้ว +67

      It’s so awful because the majority of people in Jamaica are the loveliest and most friendly people!

    • @traceybartlam7737
      @traceybartlam7737 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So sad. There are so many beautiful countries around the whole world that would and could make amazing tourist spots but are made too dangerous by some

    • @mrsdiaz614
      @mrsdiaz614 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Omg that’s so sad! We have a cruise planned during Christmas. I’m hoping the situation will change then.

    • @reggaeprincess6043
      @reggaeprincess6043 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @mrsdiaz614 hi my dear. Don't leave the cruise port without a cross body bag. Small banknotes. Play deaf to begging and harassment for tips and money.
      Stay with the tour groups. DON'T EXPLORE ALONE. don't give anyone your personal information. You will be harassed for money with sad stories and declaration of love and marriage. Bring your own water shoes and water bottles. Don't pay the 1st price asked, barter the price. If you want any more info please feel free to ask.

    • @denise-pr7nz
      @denise-pr7nz ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@reggaeprincess6043ji

  • @canitbechristine
    @canitbechristine ปีที่แล้ว +54

    A note on travel insurance - If there is a travel advisory then your insurance company may not cover you if something happens. Check the fine print of your policy and online updates.

    • @DIEMLtdTV
      @DIEMLtdTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, I about from a chap in the UK who wanted to go on a cruise to Labadee which is on the UK "do not travel" list. His insurer would not cover the entire trip from leaving the UK to returning. He did say he would not leave the ship and the insurer said as the ship was docked in Haiti, it was still a planned trip and his insurance was invalidated. th-cam.com/video/HaoI0taWG34/w-d-xo.html

  • @florineguy2674
    @florineguy2674 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I laughed out loud (I live by myself) with your remark about the belly flop contestant taking out 3 children! Very funny Ben

  • @StephenGrubb
    @StephenGrubb ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I avoid cruises that stop in Jamaica if possible. Several years ago, I made the mistake of getting off the ship there and was continuously offered drugs. Some of the drug sellers were just steps from the security checkpoint. Going back through Jamaican security, they took my bag completely apart, even opening a lip balm to see what was inside. If they wanted to stop drug sales, they could walk just a few feet from the checkpoint and stop the sellers. However, their intention was clearly to catch unsuspecting tourists in a trap.

  • @awesomesauce8083
    @awesomesauce8083 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Our ship stopped in Jamaica last year and after reading the reviews, I decided not to book any excursions before hand. I figure we could just relax on the ship, but my wife wanted to see the island so I booked a last minute excursion to tour the city. It was an experience, observing the gap between the rich and poor, the poverty and the traffic, was such a sad state of affair. I remember going through a rich neighborhood and just seeing fenced off areas and bars on windows in all the houses and then going through an area where you saw people struggling to eke out a living. I really felt guilty, and it left an impression with me.

    • @brianm2129
      @brianm2129 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So just like most Caribbean islands ? ( Not picking on you ) Look at the significant window bars in Nassau on main st stores, the view just beyond the fences in Labadee, even in San Juan the walls around houses topped with glass shards .

    • @nursetammy6470
      @nursetammy6470 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't feel guilty. This is what civil wars and revolutions are for. The people need to stand up.

    • @lepoldbuttersstotch
      @lepoldbuttersstotch ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's pretty much every place on Earth?

  • @Pitsler
    @Pitsler ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Shocked that ANY cruise line would still stop there!

    • @frankgiuliano380
      @frankgiuliano380 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cruise companies don't care about our safety.. Jamaica is a nightmare.

  • @sosaix3545
    @sosaix3545 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I've shared this here before, but over 35 years ago on my very first cruise to Jamaica, the shipboard port talk about Jamaica concluded with, "If someone beckons you over to them, DO NOT GO OVER. They're likely law enforcement trying to entrap you for wanting to buy drugs, and they'll even arrest you just for walking over - they'll say you knew it was for drugs." My family and I stopped at Falmouth on a Disney cruise last October and stuck with the excursions offered by the cruise line, having a great time at a private beach club, but back in the port at Falmouth while looking at t-shirts in a souvenir shop just before heading aboard, a woman who said she worked at the shop tried tell my wife to "just pay her here" and "that way she won't have taxes," and tried to unzip my wife's backpack to put the shirt into it. My wife, wisely, loudly told her NO, I'LL PAY AT THE REGISTER, THANK YOU, and then put down the shirt and immediately left. She's still shaken by that experience and doesn't want any part of Jamaica.

  • @3103Juan
    @3103Juan ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Sorry you went thru this. Me and my wife had an incident at that port. We was about to get on a taxi and a lady kept harassing us to buy stuff but what trigger my wife to go nuts was. The lady grab my son and said…hey tell mommy and Daddy to buy you this shirt.
    My wife pushed her away and lucky a soldier/cop was there and pulled us away and Reccommnended us to go back to the ship. We ask why and he said they are always armed and it could be trouble for us. We agreed and he escorted us back to port. Loved that guy for doing that for us. I gave him $100 for getting us back safe. He didn’t want it but I made him take it.
    The young man reported the situation with us to Carnival and Carnival did take care of us. Well my son. Lots of nice goodies for him. ❤

    • @snucam78
      @snucam78 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is nuts! So sorry that happened

    • @DenaInWyo
      @DenaInWyo ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We had a guy come up from under a bridge we were walking over (not even kidding) and grab my son to try to put a necklace on him (that I'm sure he would have then insisted we pay for) and I about lost my shit. The necklace did not end up on the kid, and the kid got yoinked right away from the creep. Poor Chris, I think he's still traumatized from that one and he's 27 ..he thought I was mad at HIM and yanking him because of it lol We toodled around the port area for a few more minutes and decided to just get back on the ship. Couldn't relax after that one.

    • @sharontillis5919
      @sharontillis5919 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I understand completely. I too had a bad experience there. They are very aggressive. There was a lady that grabbed my pouch insisting that I buy something. I had to pull it away from her and started walking back to the ship. Once you pass that gate into open area, its all bad. Stay inside that gate unless you're going on a shore excursion. Stay safe.

    • @honestlyno4240
      @honestlyno4240 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely why reviews like this are needed. You not only discuss your experience which you stress is yours and review the cautions from the different countries. You have others like this couple with a child shows how dangerous it can be for everyone. Easily if you didn’t know you may have your older teens get off thinking it is safe and find out it otherwise. While it can happen anywhere there are some places safer than others. I love your reviews you both are very good at covering the ship the extras and what is and isn’t worth the price. I love that you try and show how to keep it cheaper and it how it is still just as good without paying a lot more. I also appreciate how you really make a point to appreciate the staff and realize when it is the management expectations vs the worker that is the issue.

  • @StaceyGray-mj3mj
    @StaceyGray-mj3mj ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You guys are so much fun! I know I’ll never be able to cruise so I’m living vicariously through y’all. Thanks for sharing your time with us 😊

  • @njr127
    @njr127 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    We went to Falmouth, Jamaica on our first cruise last year with Disney. We had a very similar experience - very aggressive people trying to sell us stuff and throwing homophobic abuse at us when we refused. I’ll never go back!

  • @FraserAtSea
    @FraserAtSea ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm due to dock in Jamaica next week on my Carnival Horizon cruise, and I'm planning to not leave the ship. I found my last trip to be FULL of harassment - either people pestering you for money, or trying to get you into their 'taxi' - a total nightmare!

  • @biggyjaay
    @biggyjaay ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Love you channel watching with my mum tonight she said what lovely fellas bet their wife's miss them being away so much, bless her

    • @AlineTucker
      @AlineTucker 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @jennyjenny8190
    @jennyjenny8190 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I have been watching your content for years and I like the addition of safety and security advice. I think including more of this in your future videos would be nice because y'all do it so well here. Things like pick pocket awareness and knowing where your embassy is, etc. Love your content!

  • @grsmith38
    @grsmith38 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Ben absolutely STARVING at 11am is so relatable. I love him.

  • @bryantsteury8910
    @bryantsteury8910 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    As soon as you said "things we would rather not repeat" I sadly knew exactly what was coming and what you meant. Despicable. 2023. And this still happens. I'd be like you guys, sure it was 10 years ago but it's gotten WORSE? My ass is staying on the ship and enjoying the short lines for everything and not stressing out. Well done boys

  • @india7035
    @india7035 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    In Ocho Rios men would not leave my teenaged sons alone, pestered them non stop about buying drugs. This was in the area with the shops after our excursion. We got back on the ship as fast as we could.

  • @amymcclellan5767
    @amymcclellan5767 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The further I get into this video the more playful you two get, so much fun. You guys are adorable!

  • @ambera7225
    @ambera7225 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    We usually stay on the ship when we stop in Ensenada, Mexico. Or shop at the souvenirs shops in the terminal. In Acapulco Mexico we were harassed so much by the vendors we ran back to the boat.

  • @stoehrcov
    @stoehrcov ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My cousin and his partner were told that couples like them are against the law. Also, never wear camouflage clothing.

  • @shayj5124
    @shayj5124 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I hope that cruisers stop paying for specialty restaurants . Everything should be included just like the old days.

  • @jB-wv4qj
    @jB-wv4qj ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My husband and I went to Jamica Montego Bay & Grand Cayman Islands this past May 2023 had no problems on none of our stops, but I do know it really bad now. (WE HAD NO CLUE AT ALL) We did a Carnival excursion. Our guide was very nice and knowledgeable. They knew where to take us so everyone would be safe. We all gave tips without out them asking for anything. I must say it's clear who are the have and the have nots. We also, stop on the way back in Cozumel Mex. (We stayed at the Port) We went after the news reports on a group of Americans who went there for Cosmetic Surgery were kidnapped and two of them were killed some drug dealers thought they had taken Nigeran drug dealers but that was not the case.

  • @kikky811
    @kikky811 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    We did not enjoy Jamaica on our Disney cruise in 2016 either. Port area was OK, the rest scary. In 2018 we went to a wedding in Jamaica as well, also did not enjoy, even just the transfer to resort/airport experience. It’s the only port we actually avoid and really don’t understand why the cruises keep stopping there.

  • @christinekeefe9004
    @christinekeefe9004 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My husband took our kids off on Jamaica for an excursion on a cruise about a year ago. I refused to get off and only agreed to let the kids go because it was an excursion with transportation. The kids weren't impressed by Jamaica at all. They wouldn't get off there again. You made the right decision.

    • @kimberlywoodbury1739
      @kimberlywoodbury1739 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don’t understand - you thought it was so unsafe that you wouldn’t get off the ship, but you let your kids go? This makes zero sense. Either you didn’t think it was as dangerous as you make it to be, or you don’t care if whatever your afraid of happens to your kids.

  • @Corri.dr.K
    @Corri.dr.K ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Me and my husband will never get off at this port either. We are a mixed race older couple and we had a terrible experience at the Dunns River Falls excursion. The vendors were so aggressive and a man actually verbally attacked me because I told my husband I did not want to buy anything from his vending booth. Then others around him joined him. We have been on three different cruises that stopped at his port and we will never support this port again. I really think the cruise line should reconsider stopping at the port and supporting this kind of behavior. We did not feel safe at all, and I am an African American. I understand and support your decision 100%. Love your content.

    • @kathybrem880
      @kathybrem880 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I absolutely love Dunn river falls!!

    • @TimK2646
      @TimK2646 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely 200% agree, we were ripped off BIG TIME in December 2017 in Dunn's excursion. Paid over US DOLLARS 200 for food worth 10 US Dollars. Never ever again Mr Bolt.

  • @davidhontele1780
    @davidhontele1780 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Realy love you guys. It feels like going on a cruise myself if I watch your posts. It is rare to find people who are kind, gracious, elegant and funny!! Thnx and keep up the good job. Kind regards from Antwerp!!

  • @DST975
    @DST975 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    People will just stop going to these ports if this trend continues and cruise lines may have to reconsider their itineraries - it’s a real shame because the locals must rely on tourism for income. 😏

    • @Cruisewith
      @Cruisewith  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It’s so sad as the majority of locals are so lovely and the friendliest people!

    • @TravelingStageManager
      @TravelingStageManager ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Been like this for DECADES and neither the cruise lines or the islands have moved to change it.

    • @gwynethglas-brown9171
      @gwynethglas-brown9171 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How awful for you both 😮 such a shame that this happens you just never know which way it may go
      Indeed these port are waiting for cruise ships so they can make money ,just awful that other local or not think differently demand you spend your money 🤔
      Would not. surprise me if there are many more incidents reported. The cruise ships will have to decide if its worth the risk bringing passengers to these ports 🤷‍♀️.safely come First all time 😊.
      Safe jouney 🥰

  • @annaritko8697
    @annaritko8697 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Sorry to hear your experience was so bad in Jamaica. I took my senior mom on a Mexican Riviera cruise on Disney in 2019 and in Mazatlan I remember being fearful because of the guys running the excursion were not kind people. They sat my mom far away from me on the open air vehicle, and I had to stand up and demand that she sit with me. I was ready to rumble but I speak Spanish so that tends to scare people when I start speaking Spanish.

  • @gstevens6948
    @gstevens6948 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So very sorry for your experience there, be safe and take care. It’s not worth it to be unsafe, we love you guys too much. ❤

  • @jacquelinearcher1158
    @jacquelinearcher1158 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My friends sister and husband were in a five star plus hotel and given a private tour believing this to be safe they went ..and were robbed ..they weee sure the driver was involved..as he was not surprised or worried or robbed ! This was At gun point bound and gagged in a private car ..
    This was back in 1980s…this isn’t new ..don’t be fooled by reputation..as you can see.
    They tried to pursue it and guess what the hotel claimed the driver was not involved..they knew the truth and the police 🤷🏻‍♀️yes ..not bothered . This isn’t new .

    • @cherylkoski7184
      @cherylkoski7184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My sister-in-law had a bad experience in Jamaica in the 1980s as well. You're right. It's nothing new.

  • @elenadavis3094
    @elenadavis3094 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Wow! This is a very emotional video for me. I absolutely love Jamaica and its people. However I totally acknowledge the concerns of the LGBTQ community. Unfortunately your experience is not an isolated one. Jamaica has a lot of work to do to ensure all feel welcome. I do take issue with comments from others referring to the country as a "rathole" and crime ridden. The vast majority of Jamaicans are hard working, kind, and hospitable people.
    Thank you, Ben and David, for sharing your experience. That took so much courage! I just hope people base their opinions on facts and not hearsay and sensationalized reports. Happy cruising everyone!❤

    • @DenaInWyo
      @DenaInWyo ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The vast majority of the people ARE hard working and kind, but there is no denying the island has become crime ridden. That's just a fact, unfortunately. Most unfortunate for the decent people there, because the low lifes are going to make it so that tourism is no longer possible there. I'm not basing that on hearsay, but personal experience. It absolutely does not feel like a safe place to visit anymore.

    • @Mike90-t6c
      @Mike90-t6c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree, both my parents are jamaican, i was born in london, but have been visiting jamaica on a regular basis since i was a child ; in 2019 i was in jamaica and decided to visit the mineral bath in st thomas, my vehicle was followed by 3 guys on motorbikes all the way up the windy rd that takes you to the entrance, at the entrance they were other undisirables hanging about harrassing visitors, i decided not to leave my vehicle, turned it around and drove back to my apartment in new kingston, i'm not easily intimidated, but the island is getting dangerous, their is a serious lack of law n order, on the public services, and in the institutions on a whole

  • @davehenderson6125
    @davehenderson6125 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am very grateful for your safety information about Jamaica. I think this safety information is an excellent addition to all the fantastic work you're doing. Thank you!

  • @aliasmarg8ta127
    @aliasmarg8ta127 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My only experience with cruising is years ago with Royal Caribbean cruise with stops in Cayman Island, Cozumel, Labadee and Jamaican port (I forgot which one) . They were great and pleasant. and then we arrived in Jamaica and I was terrified at the port. I wanted to turn around and go back to the ship but my group had all scattered all over the place and I did not have a cell phone. The people at the port were very aggressive and grabbing my arm. I very politely said No and kept walking. I heard few saying nasty words about "cheap Chinese" and I felt like they followed me for quite a ways. No I am not Chinese but it doesn't matter. I felt very unsafe. I stupidly filled out some form about receiving tourist infos while in a shop. For years I kept getting calls about free trips and when I turned it down they were very rude. I appreciate your tips on what to do on board when everyone else is at port

    • @sauronthegreat5799
      @sauronthegreat5799 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry that you had a bad experience in Jamaica. I went there a few times and had nothing but fun. No aggression or shady stuff. I’m a cheap Chinese.

    • @jennyd5728
      @jennyd5728 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How was the Cozumel port?

  • @revive_memes275
    @revive_memes275 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love you two and your videos. I’ve been to Falmouth and took the long ride to Dunns River Falls. It was so sketchy. But my uncle left his phone on the van and it was actually returned!!

  • @bronzefox9035
    @bronzefox9035 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Falmouth was one of our stops on Explorer in March 2023. We loved it. We did an excursion and the local people were so nice. No one was approaching us with any drugs. The tour bus driver never harassed us for tips. We sat and talked to local people for a while. We looked at it as there is just as much crime and foolishness in the States. We did notice that most of the tourist were rude to the local people when they entered the shops. We said hello and spoke to everyone. There is amazing history about that area that you can only get from the locals. Our daughter stubbed her toe and the locals were so kind and attentive. Maybe we enjoyed it because we finally wasn't the minority while traveling. It was amazing and relaxing! 16:58

    • @littleeva
      @littleeva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @bronzefox9035, I get your point. However, I do get people saying to me, "my sister, my sister, let me braid your hair." I get that in the USA!

  • @rosemarythomson2152
    @rosemarythomson2152 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    We visited Kingston on our cruise and the poverty was horrible, the kids sitting on roofs begging for us to throw food or clothes etc was really upsetting. They see us arriving and walking about in nice fenced off areas where they are locked out of in their own country... I'm not making excuses for the robberies but I'm not surprised. We declined to disembark in Mexico

    • @littleeva
      @littleeva ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very good point. I have heard that in Jamaica the locals aren't even allowed to go to the beaches where the tourists go. Talk about segregation.

    • @kazaabitboll2026
      @kazaabitboll2026 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can you say what Mexican port that was pls

  • @amymcclellan5767
    @amymcclellan5767 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am so sorry you had that experience! I thought you guys did a great job in how you framed the situation and included government warnings. Thank you so much for sharing!!

  • @philkhk
    @philkhk ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hurricane rerouted one of our port to Falmouth last week on Celebrity Equinox. We did get off the ship and visit the shops at the port area, but we didn't feel safe to go beyond the port area where there is a gate with police standing at the entrance and exit. We walked back to our ship and swim at the pool deck instead.

  • @dawne8851
    @dawne8851 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I just shared this video (the Falmouth portion) with my sisters, niece, and a friend. We're all going on a cruise in January and Falmouth is one of the stops. I was already on the fence about getting off the ship in Falmouth, but I think your video is swinging me towards staying on board and just having a relaxing day of reading.

  • @JimsPub-ds3qs
    @JimsPub-ds3qs ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My son lived in St.Thomas in 2016 for a little over a year.
    He told us there was a LOT of unreported violent crime.
    Usually messing with tourists was a no no.
    There's quite a bit of resentment because of the lack of upward mobility for most natives.
    Rightly so.
    You made a wise decision.

  • @lolal1026
    @lolal1026 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Knowing all the problems & crimes going on at some ports, you would think cruise lines would avoid them. Sad the Jamaican govt would try to clean up their act.

    • @irishfergal
      @irishfergal ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You stated that it's Sad the Jamaica govt DID TRY TO CLEAN UP THEIR ACT. NO YOU'VE GOT IT IN REVERSE! IT'S SAD THAT THE JAMAICA GOVT WOULD NOT (EMPHASIS NOT NOT NOT) TRY TO CLEAN UP THEIR ACT. Lord preserve us against bad English and confused English usage and grammar. Dickens would be appalled.

    • @HoneyLove77
      @HoneyLove77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When I went there were police with guns. I felt safe! People just like being emotional and exaggerating! Stay on your outing and stop trying to scare people off!

    • @dhutch457
      @dhutch457 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@HoneyLove77 "Stop trying to scare people off!" Will you be telling that to various governments who are warning travelers as well?

    • @lolal1026
      @lolal1026 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@irishfergal my mistake......Bad government in Jamaica has been in existence for many many years & has only gotten worse. I feel bad for the good people who are just trying to survive day by day. Get rid of the thugs.

    • @ameliaerin1544
      @ameliaerin1544 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dhutch457 many people on here are just ignorant, unfortunately,then Ben and David have to listen to them.🤐

  • @83lulube
    @83lulube ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I've felt the same way about Nassau. Last time my husband and I got off we felt uncomfortable as they kept asking us in many different ways if we wanted to buy weed. Once they started getting too close and tapping our shoulders, we were done and went back to the ship.

    • @willieboy7264
      @willieboy7264 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      On our last cruise we didn’t get off in Nassau either. We have a young son and I could not relax after the torment we went through the last time I was there. Boat was empty, got good seats by the pool and enjoyed the boat.

    • @saras.6895
      @saras.6895 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When we went to Nassau we had a local offer us a tour around the island.. we decided not to go.. too sketchy no one would know if something happened.

    • @traceyflynn4805
      @traceyflynn4805 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh geez . I've been there 25 times at least . Sketchy 🙄

    • @Sushi2735
      @Sushi2735 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree! Crossed the line when they start touching you in ANYWAY. DO THEY THINK WE ARE ALL Pot Heads at 60? My brother and sister-in-law were “Gifted” a 10 day Honeymoon at Sandals, in the Bahamas , 25 yrs ago. They were not asked for input on the destination. They got to Sandal’s and never left the property. The Suite next to them was robbed so the kept valuables on their persons at all times. 25 yrs ago? Never got drunk and took full precautions including a security guard to escort them back to their suite at 10pm at night.
      I wouldn’t spend the night in the Bahamas. But compared to Jamaica😊, looks like a church retreat.

  • @dianerivera3222
    @dianerivera3222 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My husband and I have been to Falmouth several times. We only went on an excursion (Royal Carib) the first trip there. We had armed guards at the beach and off duty police on the bus. We only stay in the port area now. Maybe because we're a middle aged couple, we've never been approached about drugs. What's really weird is that in Jamaica all drugs are illegal, but people regularly report being offered them. We've also seen people leave the port area on foot which we would never do. We do, however, love the Blue Mountain coffee so we always buy a lot in the port to bring back home.

  • @jaredg31582
    @jaredg31582 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Serendipitous timing on this video! My hubby and I were considering an all inclusive resort trip to Jamaica but your video helped us decide to make alternate plans. We booked a cheap 7 night cruise on MSC (yuck, we know) with a drink package and WiFi instead. MSC Seaside October 29th leaving out of port canaveral. We usually sail Celebrity or RCCL but this will be our second MSC cruise.
    We've always hoped to run into you boys on one of our adventures but have never had the pleasure. Maybe someday! Thanks for all the great videos and the particularly good timing on this one!

  • @L33tSkE3t
    @L33tSkE3t หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have never been on a cruise and never will but, I just loving watching Ben and David on their adventures. They’re just so fun.

  • @dontpanic716
    @dontpanic716 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just knew this would be Jamaica when I saw the title.
    Didnt know about specific travel advisories but that port was bad when i was there 10 years ago.

  • @Skittl1321
    @Skittl1321 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    7:29 we went to Jamaica with MSC this summer and really worried about if we should get off, with our 2 young kids. We did choose a cruise excursion, and we actually had a great time(konoko falls and Puerto Seco Beach break). Our port was Ochos Rios, but the tour actually went much further across the island than I expected. No one pressured us for tips (even in places where I would have expected it, like taking a photo with a snake), we were not offered, or even smelled, drugs. And in the line back a seller gave my kid a free toy, which I handed back telling him I had no cash and couldn't buy something, and he just shook my hand and told my son to keep it. It was the total opposite of what I'm used to with the vendor shakedown. We obviously have the privilege of not dealing with homophobic encounters or the additional safety concerns that go with that.

    • @186bingo
      @186bingo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ocho rios seems to be a staple for MSC as it’s on itinerary this coming March. It’s good to know your experience was good as we are traveling with small kids too. I’ll need to keep a close eye on the travel advisory and make the decision to disembark or not. Right now tbh leaning to staying onboard. A pool day never hurt no one 😅

    • @shayj5124
      @shayj5124 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for your response. Many like to report small negative things and fail to mention the small positive moments. Jamaica is a like a S.E. old home to me and I hope it gets better.

    • @tomekahall2599
      @tomekahall2599 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We had a great time at ocho rios. We did an excursion at Dunn river falls and then a beach

  • @maryg4551
    @maryg4551 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I actually laughed out loud when you said that you were starving - "it's like I've never eaten before"!! Love your videos!

  • @sherricornelius3705
    @sherricornelius3705 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've been to Falmouth twice with absolutely wonderful experiences. This was all before the pandemic however, and we booked excursions through the cruise line. I am so sad that Jamaica is having so many problems with crime as I would love to see that island again. It is so very beautiful!

    • @Cruisewith
      @Cruisewith  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It is so sad because it’s so beautiful and the majority of people are amazing and so friendly!

    • @sherricornelius3705
      @sherricornelius3705 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Cruisewith Agreed. And the more they miss out on tourism dollars, the harder it is on the folks trying to make a life there.

  • @tacoandmemes6890
    @tacoandmemes6890 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you for another fantastically entertaining video! My husband now looks forward to them as much as I do. You bring joy to so many of us! Much ❤ from Chicago.

  • @markroulette3419
    @markroulette3419 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I hope when things like this happen (in Jamaica), that you report this to the ship. Don’t wait until after the cruise is over to report it. Especially, the ship sponsored excursion. Cruise line can wield a lot of power and can either try to correct, or just skip the port altogether. Thanks for the video.

  • @JamesWoodJr.
    @JamesWoodJr. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for the super helpful commentary and wise insights about the current danger/risk level in Jamaica…surprises the cruise industry does not drop the port call as it’s clearly putting their passengers at risk. Separately your light hearted comments aboard ship are lovely and hilarious… thanks guys…from an old retired US Navy vet in Washington DC.. Bravo!

  • @FincaBelleVue
    @FincaBelleVue ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks, Men! Jamaica and Nassau are two places we will not get off at. Purely personal. 😢

  • @lindar7698
    @lindar7698 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sunday is Ben and DAVID day , best day of week.❤

  • @charlotted9157
    @charlotted9157 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved Explorer, was 6 yrs ago! Such a shame about Jamaica, my friend went on honeymoon to a 5 star resort and was chased back to hotel on the only evening they went out, she was petrified. Great honest info guys with an extra sprinkle of nonsense which I love..!

  • @nancyjarrell4620
    @nancyjarrell4620 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had a port visit in Jamaica years ago. Glad I got to see their beautiful scenery but said I would never get off the ship there again! It's a shame because it really is beautiful there.

  • @divox9pqr
    @divox9pqr ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I had a completely different experience at Falmouth when the Norwegian Bliss docked there in February of 2022. Although we didn’t book any tours, we did walk around the area quite a bit. The police presence was noticeable in an around the square and the shops, even in the park areas across from the main square. One officer greeted us and asked where we were from and how were enjoying the visit.

    • @HoneyLove77
      @HoneyLove77 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! The police are there ad protecting the tourists. This is nothing but emotional people spreading their unfounded fear for views!

    • @JoyceCocke
      @JoyceCocke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love all of the cruise channels, but you guys have quickly become my favorites. You give such insight to the ships and ports of call. I love your banter and wit! Keep it up!

  • @jesskakesllchorton4940
    @jesskakesllchorton4940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just got back yesterday from our family cruise and we had an absolute blast! Working on the next one😃

  • @9Xavier1
    @9Xavier1 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’ve had wonderful times in Jamaica as a gay man myself. Once with my family when my sister got married in Ocho Rios, and the second time on a cruise visit to Montego Bay with my partner. At Montego Bay we did a “self-made” excursion in one of the vans. About ten of us as passengers didn’t have a plan, got with one of the drivers and guides and they showed us around the area, and it was great. Never got accosted by anyone to buy drugs or forced for tips. In our tour group was another older gay man who dressed very flamboyantly. The guide and driver refused to let him off on his own at one of the stops, I think Margaritaville, but it was nice they were thinking of his safety and were tolerant of him in our group.

    • @bartlett2335
      @bartlett2335 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gay people still get killed in Jamaica because it is one of the most homophobic countries.

    • @scorpiolady1
      @scorpiolady1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It may be that these issues have just come to be more of an issue now with all the other issues Jamaica is having. Thankfully you all had an amazing time 💗

  • @kaligrownbudz6200
    @kaligrownbudz6200 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The culture is very homophobic as you guys unfortunately seen for yourself. My partner and I had a very similar experience as yours. We both were put off by their aggressiveness and overall rude attitude towards us because we didn’t want to buy any of their trinkets or drugs from them. You boys rock. On behalf of all of your fans that support you and look forward to your videos thank you for staying safe.

  • @DRMTTJ
    @DRMTTJ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Maybe about 6-7 (approximately) years ago, I read & heard that RCCL and Falmouth almost had a parting of ways due to just the things you have mentioned. Royal had built their Falmouth port as a joint project with the Jamaican government. As a result, the government had interveined and I thought that this had been stopped.....probably not completely and was much better. I'm so sorry this happened to you. RCCL certainly needs to get this under control or passengers will refuse to get off the ship.

  • @Bomaximus
    @Bomaximus ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You two are my favorite Cruise advisors.. I just had to share that, thank you both 😊

  • @intallpines
    @intallpines ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ben thank you for sharing your experience in Jamaica. It's so important for tourists to know. I'm glad you opted out of another visit to shore!

  • @apas
    @apas ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've never been on a cruise in my life, but it's so fun watching you guys. Keep doing great content!

  • @bakechef781
    @bakechef781 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Went to Montego bay in the 90's and Ocho Rios in '01 both times were the most unsafe that I've ever felt. Could not shake the drug dealers, always waiting for us when we exited a building. Both times we returned to the ship quickly. I've told my now husband that if we ever port there, that we will not be getting off. I have no idea why Royal would make such an investment in a place that has been this horrible for so long.

    • @BB-mn1ew
      @BB-mn1ew ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For our 1st anniversary 2002, we took a cruise which included a stop in Jamaica. I remember it was Montego Bay. The minute we were off that ship, on the ship sponsored excursion, going back to the ship, we were harassed constantly ! The pushing of items, drugs, braiding, tips and pan handling. What a horrible day ! We agreed to never go back again. The cruises we have gone on ( over 20 years now ) do not include Jamaica !!!

  • @constanceworden487
    @constanceworden487 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love Sundays, just for your new videos!!

  • @JLC24
    @JLC24 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ben I think you were very wise to stay on board in those ports. Life is precious and fragile, better safe than sorry or regretful. You and David are our favorite cruise channel bar none. What I would like to see you guys review are all inclusive in more safe locals such as the USA, or Canada if there any as we think with all the extra fees for seemingly everything and drop in service levels cruising is loosing the appeal to us. We cruised to Alaska in June with Princess but the food and service was about 1/3 the quality and rating than prior to covid and we hear it keeps getting worse. So maybe to secure an edge in your channel maybe look at undertaking different types and locals for travel

  • @TravelswithTommyandLori
    @TravelswithTommyandLori ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We cannot tell you how much we adore both of you and hope that someday we end up on the same ship.

  • @pocketsizeforyourtravelcon3325
    @pocketsizeforyourtravelcon3325 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’ve definitely heard about the issues other members of the LGBTQ community have had in Jamaica. I’ve never been there but your video and experience have definitely made me reconsider going there in the future. Being harassed and followed at a port is definitely anxiety inducing, it happened to me many years ago in the Bahamas and I’ve never been back!

    • @reggaeprincess6043
      @reggaeprincess6043 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You will technically be committing sui cide. Especially if you are open about it. Serious advice, STAY ON THE SHIP. It's taking the Jamaican society way too long to catch up with the rest of the world. Coming from a Jamaican parentage that knows Jamaica as well as the UK

    • @glennis-dankuwel6020
      @glennis-dankuwel6020 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😮I’m shocked about Jamaica 🇯🇲 harassing Gay ppl bc I’ve been told Gay men in Jamaica is relatively high there. So, why would they be verbally offensive?
      Unless, their on the down-low. Weird. Be careful, no matter where u go.

    • @rubyruby6358
      @rubyruby6358 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not just the LGBTQ community it is everyone altho I'm sure that adds an extra layer of abuse. Jamaica is not safe and the cruise lines need to stop putting guests in danger.

    • @RobEJC
      @RobEJC ปีที่แล้ว

      Isn't the worldwide authoritarian/christofascist movement fun? They gain power day-by-day and the future in many countries is hanging in the balance.

  • @sleeksilver
    @sleeksilver ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'M HERE FOR IT!!! You guys make my Sundays better.

  • @patrichatricproductions
    @patrichatricproductions ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi guys, just letting you know that at 6:20 you used a clip of Barbados 🇧🇧 and not Jamaica. Barbados is a completely different island

  • @momof1576
    @momof1576 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was in Jamaica in 2018 at a resort. We were told not to leave the resort unless we had someone escorting us. My friend needed something and one of the ladies running the spa had her husband escort her so she’d be safe.

  • @davis9971
    @davis9971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always, you give us great information with humor and style. Thanks!

  • @leehamilton8344
    @leehamilton8344 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Makes me wonder why the cruise lines don't shut down these stops?

    • @Ellie-rx3jt
      @Ellie-rx3jt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would guess they have cheap docking fees to encourage the tourism

  • @hatesbbus
    @hatesbbus ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for the information, my Disney Cruise is going there in March and we’ll have kids with us. I’ll make sure to let the other families know. You have to wonder why the ships are still stopping there, you would think they wouldn’t want the liability.

  • @jonesboy201
    @jonesboy201 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Totally agree. Falmouth is a horrible port. As soon as you leave the (safe) port area it’s open season. We felt uncomfortable when we ventured out beyond the security gate on our last visit. Never again.

    • @KelvinWorks
      @KelvinWorks ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We did the same thing on our first cruise to the Caribbean in 2003 at the port in Jamaica. We felt very uncomfortable by all of the pressure we were seeing by those that had ventured out further than the security gate, that we just went right back to the ship. Abosolutly the worst port and this was twenty years ago. Makes me wonder why cruise ship even go there.

    • @danieldelgado8153
      @danieldelgado8153 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2 years ago went to Falmouth with RC. Never again. The cruise was excellent but Falmouth was a total nightmare. Never again Jamaica.

  • @ellaeadig263
    @ellaeadig263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the way Ben pronounces 'favourite' as 'fravourite'. It's so cute. Not having a go at you darling, it's one of the little quirks you guys have which make us love you so much. Bless you, you are my 'fravourite' cruise channel.

  • @Mzzblizz
    @Mzzblizz ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Being a solo cruiser, I was at port in Ocho Rios and never felt so unsafe in my life. I was followed. I do not like the Jamaica ports at all. I rather be safe and stay on board. Thank you for sharing your experience. I totally agree about this port. Lots of fun things to do on the ship instead.

  • @lynneshrode2927
    @lynneshrode2927 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When we stopped in Jamaica last year our cruise ship, (which was one of Oceania’s ships) would not allow us to get off of the ship and just go into the town. Instead, they loaded s onto buses and took us to excursions that were several miles inland. We took one of the bamboo rafts, (like they used to use to transport bananas to awaiting ships until Arrol Flynn made them famous for tourists), with a “pilot” who used a long bamboo pole to guide our raft for 6 miles down the river to meet our bus again. They informed us that there was just too much crime for them to let us out in a town. Oceania does have a more mature crowd and I think that the cruise line did the right thing. We loved our excursion, but my husband was a little upset that there were no souvenir stops.

    • @katis7673
      @katis7673 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My friend and I went to Errol Flynn's place near Portland and it was FABULOUS! Quiet, uncrowded, no harassment. We treated our driver to lunch and just had a fantastic day. Funny how all the locals from St Anne on ALL hated the rotten seed ruining it for the island. Even they wouldn't go south to Kingston. Sad...

  • @kathykaehler7304
    @kathykaehler7304 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I went to Jamaica in the early 80's and me and my friend were bothered the whole time we were there...constantly trying to sell you drugs and or buy their services.... I would never go back again.... I am not rich, and I had to work hard to afford that trip, but to some of the residents of this country you appear rich and will be a target for anyone trying to make some money.

  • @ISABLK-oo7nz
    @ISABLK-oo7nz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ben & David, I just can't get enough of the both of you. You make me smile. I decided to watch a video of yours every. morning before I start my day. It makes things all together better. Cheers!

  • @Luna12136
    @Luna12136 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am glad that you guys chose to stay on the ship because you were uncomfortable. This is just another lesson for all of us, whether you are cruising or just travel anywhere you need to be mindful and vigilant. I always do my research of the ports or to a place that I am traveling and keep up with the current events. Unfortunately, a lot of people do travel and lot of people are always buying drugs so it’s just an opportunity for someone that is selling drugs in this crazy world to approach Tourists. My friends and I have rules set in place when we are traveling and when we are cruising, we all have to remember this can happen anywhere so stay safe.

    • @lucyjermyn1442
      @lucyjermyn1442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely agree years ago it was shady off our resort can just imagine now

  • @LivelyFL
    @LivelyFL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the heads up about the Falmouth port! And I agree with you about the subject of tips. Great content, as always.

  • @marias902
    @marias902 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    On our very first cruise, 1999, Enchantment of the Seas, we also visited Hell. Back then, people still sent snail mail, so of course we got our postcards stamped with HELL. We actually had an OK visit to Ocho Rios, Jamaica, though we did have to bat some people away. Last Christmas went to Montego Bay on Viking, and they herded us immediately onto buses. No one pushed “ganja” on us at all, not even the guys who pushed us downriver on rafts with wooden poles. But we know it could have been awful.

  • @liro9940
    @liro9940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After my first visit to Jamaica many years ago I knew I would never go back. It is the port that I felt the least safe on all of my travels in the Caribbean. It truly is sad since the island is so beautiful.

  • @robertdavies922
    @robertdavies922 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben: I feel like I could be tripping!
    Also Ben: we would never take drugs! 😂

  • @bradboorman7556
    @bradboorman7556 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We couldn't agree more guys. We never get off in Jamaica, very aggressive people, and is not enjoyable. We consider it an extra sea day to enjoy the ship.

  • @rags3901
    @rags3901 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just found this channel…you guys are fabulous!!

  • @GioandJC
    @GioandJC ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We too decided to not venture outside the port on our cruise this past January based on the Anti-LGBT laws in place in Jamaica. We posted a video about it as well on our channel.

  • @caelointheclouds
    @caelointheclouds ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That happened with me as well my cousin, and I got off the port in Montego Bay, Jamaica, and returned right back. It looked very shady, and I was not comfortable at all.

  • @sarahbailey6996
    @sarahbailey6996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can people not want to watch you both you are both so funny,kind,and just wonderful to Steph I have watch you from the day you started and I for one will never stop watching you xxx

  • @juliettehayes1533
    @juliettehayes1533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi guys. I happened to see your videos for the first time last week. And i have watched a few of then now, very informative. Please note : how to stay safe in Jamaica in this video from time 6:20 to 6: 29 time is the island of Barbados 🇧🇧 South coast and not Jamaica. I have to find your video of Barbados to watch. Hope you had a lovely time on our island.

  • @Luvknots78
    @Luvknots78 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a very useful review.
    I'm truly sorry you had such an experience.

  • @joebo7777
    @joebo7777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Guys. Thanks for all the videos and this is a timely warning not just for, in this case, Jamaica but all ports. There's always someone somewhere ready and eager to spot an opportunity to take advantage of what they deem to be an easy target. The level of abuse you report is scary especially the demand for tips which are discretionary to say the least. Take care guys and look forward to the next video.

  • @michaelp5790
    @michaelp5790 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think that it is certainly part of your mandate with these videos to speak about the security state of these ports and countries. Given the spattering of positive comments about Falmouth and Jamaica in general after 240 remarks, it seems as if many commenters are also very comfortable to listen to the various government cautions. Given this reaction, a video on the security levels within the Caribbean and Mexico may be in order. Much appreciated!

  • @ricardajames5769
    @ricardajames5769 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciate your honest opinions. Thank you both for sharing ❤

  • @betsymayo5822
    @betsymayo5822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the water when you were sailing into Grand Cayman is what we call "flat calm" in New England commercial fishing culture... what a lovely thing to see!

  • @neecopalmer3336
    @neecopalmer3336 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really appreciate this video as I always find it helpful to hear about caveats especially when it comes to travel.

  • @wendykoek8270
    @wendykoek8270 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good on you both for not getting off and keeping safe

  • @lineakrusepackert4269
    @lineakrusepackert4269 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Ben & David.. My husband and I , can't wait to Sunday. The only thing we miss , is the day, month, year . You guys is on the ships. We are from Denmark and love too see you. Thanks for all the videos and information ❤❤

  • @Lovesapuzzle
    @Lovesapuzzle ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good grief! I haven't gotten off the ship in any Jamaican port in decades. The last time I did, I thought the hair braiders were too pushy. I can't imagine being assaulted or robbed. Thanks for your honest update and I'm glad you stayed safe.