Not always but frequently broken homes result in children having extra hard life. You are speaking for millions of people around the world. It's that relatable. Emulate a good example and move in that direction step by step. Also make sure to distance yourself from negative influences (acquaintances or blood relatives). Good luck!
Thank you. I never considered that....I just press play and start sharing my emotions. Its beautiful if people can take something positive from my videos.
I'm at home too but I don't see myself as unsuccessful, just late. I don't want to move in with a man just to save money and be at his mercy.. and I like my mom. It's hard out here. I think a lot of us are going through something similar right now. Just starting out at all is really hard. I can also relate to not feeling "verbally confident" and not being able to respond to people in the way I'd want. I've got 3.5 degrees, work at a hospital, and I still can't do it.
Im happy you like your mom! lol thats good. Yes, a lot of us millenials are living with parents and it feels awkward because we thought our lives would be different. Lets root for eachother.
From a book I read, " If I must fall, I will rise each time a better man," learn from your experience and do better next time, don't blame your situation on anyone like you said. Pay attention to your habits and choose your friends carefully. Paraphrasing from the same book series " The most important step a man can take is always the next one". Journey before destination borther.
I moved out at age 35 and also a late bloomer. It’s weird to live alone sometimes lol. I was also in the JW.. I feel behind in life because I followed their indoctrination. Oh my god the Trauma! I would love to talk to you
@ well consider yourself lucky! That’s a cult that emotionally manipulates you. Run! I believe in God, but not that religion, they psychologically mess people up!
you can do it buddy. Take your time and enjoy the process. I learned that I cant compare myself to others because we all have different starting points.
don't be soo hard on yourself. is no wonder that many today are negatively surprised entering the job market upon all these promises, was also bad 10 years ago. career and money is quite important, so is a spiritual life. some years ago got into buddhism, meditation and such. is a very good way to expand your horizon.
@@dominik29293 I’m Buddhist as well.. I practice with the SGI. I remember how hard it was 10 years ago to get a job. It’s even harder now. And these are for entry level jobs
Went through the same experience with jobs as a late teen. Worked for four years doing retail and swore I never wanted to work with customers ever again. Was a huge learning experience.
I know how you feel. Customer service is emotionally draining but sometimes rewarding. Have you ever found that work was unstable when you worked in retail?
@@jackforseti224 Restaurants, right? I know thats common. Especially during the holidays and when its slow. At Coff shops that would only happen sometimes unless they over hired people.
Theres nothing wrong with you living at home again. Work to save and invest money for your future. Invest with a legitimate reputable company. Never feel like a failure. Know youre doing youre best. Im glad you were hired at 19. I wasnt exactly prepared to work at a job with different people, but i learned. I focused on doing the job. As kids, we got hand me downs, shopped at discount stores, didnt eat out alot, didnt get much gifts, and other savings things. Youre fortunate to have a parent that let you stay with them. I stayed with my parents until age 32. I paid my parents rent after college. I had part time jobs in hs and college. One college summer i had a part time and fulltime job. I also shouldve saved more money when i was younger. After working a bit after college, i realized i needed to save more.
Bro it ain't your fault . This is a two person economy now. You can't survive as a singleton. All homes and rents are priced for dual incomes. If you are not wifing up some poor lass then not much you can do. Don't stress it. Is what it is.
Are you Irish? Never thought of it this way. I remember seeing a comment from a woman saying "I felt like I was being punished for not having kids. This is why so many of us have roommates because its hard to afford rent alone....a coworker who lived with his gf once said "I don't envy you guys who have roommates" LOL and I'm like "well we dont want to but we have to. We're not in a relationship like you"
@sonicxis4ever I'm from Kent in England . Broke up with my gf moved back home last year at 31. Dad doesn't even care. The town I live in is in top 5 most expensive postcodes outside of London he knows I'm not going to randomly be earning £80k a year to afford some flat. It's nothing to be ashamed of at all. Canadians for example. Minimum wage like $12.50 in Edmonton but wage needed to rent an apartment is $35.50 haha
@ ok I thought you were Irish😩 becuase you said “lass” lol. I’m American. I wonder if it’s more expensive where you are? NYC is expensive. If you were here we could probably be roommates
@sonicxis4ever I'm sure new York is like the most expensive property in the world haha . Like London here .... Unless you have a "London job" ( finance in the city or something similar ) your just crippling yourself by living in London . Not to mention almost no British people left in London don't know why anyone would want to live there 😂
You can still buy your own place as a single person, it just takes longer. Stay with your parents throughout your 20s, save up, then in your 30s you should have plenty of money. If you dont have the ability to do this then you will struggle. I'm buying my own place this year outright and I only work part time so it is possible
You're not a loser, bro. I know because I've met them and I've been one. You've been dealt a shitty hand yet you're clearly an above average human being. You're gonna be alright.
I dont know why our parents didnt show us how to budget when my dad was good at that because we didnt have a lot of money. I learned later on. Our parents told us to live at home as long as we want to save money. Our parents told us credit cards are dangerous. Stay out of debt. Our parents made sure we saved. I knew about credit score.
My mom showed me how to budget as a teenager but I didn't learn how to budget as an adult. Our expenses are different when we become adults. Thats how I look at it. Our parents didnt know a lot about saving, looking for apartments or credit scores. Theres also this belief that credit cards are bad or that its too expensive to live on your own and I think that trickled into how our parents raised us.
Not always but frequently broken homes result in children having extra hard life. You are speaking for millions of people around the world. It's that relatable. Emulate a good example and move in that direction step by step. Also make sure to distance yourself from negative influences (acquaintances or blood relatives). Good luck!
Thank you for your kind comment!
i love your bravery to talk abt this! i can relate
I'm rewatching the video and realizing how personal this is! I really appreciate the comment and it makes me feel warm. Thank you for your kindness
Fair play for posting this. You will no doubt help a lot of people out.
Thank you. I never considered that....I just press play and start sharing my emotions. Its beautiful if people can take something positive from my videos.
you’re so interesting and relatable! love your openness, helps me feel comfortable with my own challenges & struggles. 💖✌️😎
oh my goodness. My daily serotonin has been reached
I'm at home too but I don't see myself as unsuccessful, just late. I don't want to move in with a man just to save money and be at his mercy.. and I like my mom. It's hard out here. I think a lot of us are going through something similar right now. Just starting out at all is really hard. I can also relate to not feeling "verbally confident" and not being able to respond to people in the way I'd want. I've got 3.5 degrees, work at a hospital, and I still can't do it.
Im happy you like your mom! lol thats good. Yes, a lot of us millenials are living with parents and it feels awkward because we thought our lives would be different. Lets root for eachother.
From a book I read, " If I must fall, I will rise each time a better man," learn from your experience and do better next time, don't blame your situation on anyone like you said. Pay attention to your habits and choose your friends carefully. Paraphrasing from the same book series " The most important step a man can take is always the next one". Journey before destination borther.
Very good advice. Do you remember the name of the book?
I moved out at age 35 and also a late bloomer. It’s weird to live alone sometimes lol. I was also in the JW.. I feel behind in life because I followed their indoctrination. Oh my god the Trauma! I would love to talk to you
Hey! I was never baptized or considered a memnber of the kingdom hall..but I know my mom and grandma grew up in it. I can see how it influenced them.
@ well consider yourself lucky! That’s a cult that emotionally manipulates you. Run! I believe in God, but not that religion, they psychologically mess people up!
Thank you for video! Can relate. Good luck for you and for all of us!
omg my twin. we both have sonic in our name 😛
@@sonicxis4ever haha yeah! have this nickname since middle school years
Sounds familiar grew up in a single family house hold. Moved back in 2019 when my relationship broke up, getting my self together back at home.
you can do it buddy. Take your time and enjoy the process. I learned that I cant compare myself to others because we all have different starting points.
don't be soo hard on yourself. is no wonder that many today are negatively surprised entering the job market upon all these promises, was also bad 10 years ago. career and money is quite important, so is a spiritual life. some years ago got into buddhism, meditation and such. is a very good way to expand your horizon.
@@dominik29293 I’m Buddhist as well.. I practice with the SGI. I remember how hard it was 10 years ago to get a job. It’s even harder now. And these are for entry level jobs
Went through the same experience with jobs as a late teen. Worked for four years doing retail and swore I never wanted to work with customers ever again. Was a huge learning experience.
I know how you feel. Customer service is emotionally draining but sometimes rewarding. Have you ever found that work was unstable when you worked in retail?
@@sonicxis4ever yes, my manager was a control freak nutcase who would send me home when it was slow. Totally sucked, I'm glad those days are over
@@jackforseti224 Restaurants, right? I know thats common. Especially during the holidays and when its slow. At Coff shops that would only happen sometimes unless they over hired people.
Theres nothing wrong with you living at home again. Work to save and invest money for your future. Invest with a legitimate reputable company.
Never feel like a failure. Know youre doing youre best.
Im glad you were hired at 19.
I wasnt exactly prepared to work at a job with different people, but i learned. I focused on doing the job.
As kids, we got hand me downs, shopped at discount stores, didnt eat out alot, didnt get much gifts, and other savings things.
Youre fortunate to have a parent that let you stay with them.
I stayed with my parents until age 32. I paid my parents rent after college. I had part time jobs in hs and college. One college summer i had a part time and fulltime job.
I also shouldve saved more money when i was younger. After working a bit after college, i realized i needed to save more.
Bro it ain't your fault . This is a two person economy now. You can't survive as a singleton. All homes and rents are priced for dual incomes. If you are not wifing up some poor lass then not much you can do. Don't stress it. Is what it is.
Are you Irish? Never thought of it this way. I remember seeing a comment from a woman saying "I felt like I was being punished for not having kids. This is why so many of us have roommates because its hard to afford rent alone....a coworker who lived with his gf once said "I don't envy you guys who have roommates" LOL and I'm like "well we dont want to but we have to. We're not in a relationship like you"
@sonicxis4ever I'm from Kent in England . Broke up with my gf moved back home last year at 31. Dad doesn't even care. The town I live in is in top 5 most expensive postcodes outside of London he knows I'm not going to randomly be earning £80k a year to afford some flat. It's nothing to be ashamed of at all. Canadians for example. Minimum wage like $12.50 in Edmonton but wage needed to rent an apartment is $35.50 haha
@ ok I thought you were Irish😩 becuase you said “lass” lol. I’m American. I wonder if it’s more expensive where you are? NYC is expensive. If you were here we could probably be roommates
@sonicxis4ever I'm sure new York is like the most expensive property in the world haha . Like London here .... Unless you have a "London job" ( finance in the city or something similar ) your just crippling yourself by living in London . Not to mention almost no British people left in London don't know why anyone would want to live there 😂
You can still buy your own place as a single person, it just takes longer. Stay with your parents throughout your 20s, save up, then in your 30s you should have plenty of money. If you dont have the ability to do this then you will struggle. I'm buying my own place this year outright and I only work part time so it is possible
You're not a loser, bro. I know because I've met them and I've been one. You've been dealt a shitty hand yet you're clearly an above average human being. You're gonna be alright.
Thank you my friend.
thank you
I never imagined this video would help someone. Thank you!!
I dont know why our parents didnt show us how to budget when my dad was good at that because we didnt have a lot of money. I learned later on.
Our parents told us to live at home as long as we want to save money. Our parents told us credit cards are dangerous. Stay out of debt.
Our parents made sure we saved.
I knew about credit score.
My mom showed me how to budget as a teenager but I didn't learn how to budget as an adult. Our expenses are different when we become adults. Thats how I look at it. Our parents didnt know a lot about saving, looking for apartments or credit scores. Theres also this belief that credit cards are bad or that its too expensive to live on your own and I think that trickled into how our parents raised us.
I just want to say, you're a good man
*Fist bump*
Important testimony! Accept Jesus :)