Long Distance Relationships during Military Deployment

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  • @lizgraper7490
    @lizgraper7490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    My boyfriend and I are going through our second deployment. This video was beautifully done and captures the essence of long distance during deployment.

    • @WindstruckProduction
      @WindstruckProduction  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Liz Graper Wish you both the best and nothing but love!

    • @micahsalas8963
      @micahsalas8963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Id love to talk to you more... My girlfriend is going army and I'm going navy and i can say, We Are LOST on what to do...😟

    • @MelissaKreiner
      @MelissaKreiner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my first deployment with my now soon to be husband and I feel like I have no one who knows what I am going through I need other military wives or girlfriends or soon to be wife's to message me and talk to me

  • @deannabarrett927
    @deannabarrett927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    My boyfriend is in bootcamp right now and while I know that’s not the same as deployment, it’s been really hard. But this video helped me so much seeing that couples can go through the toughest times and still be crazy in love and still go strong. It gives me so much hope for mine and my boyfriends future.

  • @bleogurl88redding98
    @bleogurl88redding98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Been LDR 1yr and half relationship with my navy bf going stronger...
    Proud of all gf with a bf in service

    • @bleogurl88redding98
      @bleogurl88redding98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ryanmcrae1226 hi Ryan I would love to share our love stories...thank u

  • @chaitea6987
    @chaitea6987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Been overseas for four months now. Can’t wait to go home to my beautiful wife. Proud to serve in the worlds greatest Air Force. USAF.

    • @kaatevlogs8006
      @kaatevlogs8006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ChaiTea69 thank you for your service I hope you made it back to her safe

    • @WindstruckProduction
      @WindstruckProduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your service! We're sure you're home with your beautiful wife now!

  • @eimymorales704
    @eimymorales704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Cried like a baby while watching this. My hubby is finishing off bootcamp for the Navy...I can’t imagine how it will be when he begins his actual job and has to go on his first deployment...
    When that happens I’m coming right back to this video to help me cry out my feelings and remember that everything will be okay. I love him with all my heart.

  • @Rachel-wl6kl
    @Rachel-wl6kl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am missing the love of life. I love my soldier so much. I cannot wait for him to be in my arms!!

  • @kikiwylesky
    @kikiwylesky ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My boyfriend is going threw deployment right now. This is harder then I expected. I have only ever dated people in high school that lived in the same town so they were easy to see. Long distance is so hard + not being able to text at all is even harder. He has no idea how hard I fell in love with him. And I can’t wait until June when he comes home 😢

    • @dosiakumbe8105
      @dosiakumbe8105 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same! Going through this now, and for some reason it seems there is no support for "girlfriends" only wives, which I get, but still kinda doesn't feel right. It's a roller coaster of emotions especially when big life events happen and they are not there... It's really hard, I wonder how the wives cope with kids, worst of all how they cope if they have unsupportive family members or unsupported in-laws.
      Sometimes I'm out of tears.
      Hang in there, we'd be alright.

    • @kikiwylesky
      @kikiwylesky ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dosiakumbe8105 Girl I thought so… But we broke up a couple weeks ago 😬

  • @ameliaf.sitepu6268
    @ameliaf.sitepu6268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When he had to leave for his deployment it was one of the hardest day of my life. You need to be strong to be a girlfriend of a soldier. Damn, I miss him now

  • @Lancelot0311
    @Lancelot0311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m coming home to my girlfriend so soon,seeing this video got me in my feels. I’m scared,and excited At the same time. I hope it’s easy to fit back into her busy life.

  • @hannah5969
    @hannah5969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Going through my first deployment with my navy husband. It’s been really hard but this video showed me another side of things that helped me feel stronger and definitely much better. Thank you for this ❤️

  • @annikacarter6049
    @annikacarter6049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I underestimated how difficult it is on the other side of the coin. It was easier for me to leave to do stuff for the army, but it's hard to be here with my guy out there. It's like you have way more time to think about it. Especially when you don't know when they will be back.

  • @jamyrongarrertt1219
    @jamyrongarrertt1219 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow watching this make me so so sad because I was in a year long relationship with my ex and we were separated for 7 months while he was in bootcamp due to getting hurt and we kept the connection strong the whole time but once he graduated and graduated MCT, I found out he was attempting to cheat on me and when I confronted him he didn’t want to explain himself and thought I’d be best to breakup after everything I supported him through and now I’ll be going to bootcamp single without his support and just seeing this makes me loose hope on being in another relationship while in the military.
    And it’s crazy how someone says they love you one day and just be so cold the next as if everything we went through was for nothing. And I honestly just feel like a fool 🤧

  • @leanamathes4488
    @leanamathes4488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    My fiancé well boyfriend but I gotta start some where right lol speak into existence anyway he leaves January 15th I’m so sad. These videos help a lot ! If they can do it so can I ! He will be back next year 2021!

    • @keisha609
      @keisha609 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How long did it take for him to come back?

  • @URV_Yax
    @URV_Yax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have a brother in law who is in the U.S Army and he does not know or when they gonna be Deploy or go to War. He has been traveling back and forth to his family. This is by far the best Vlog seeing all them man and women who serve our country. As for you hope all is well and wish you Good Luck ( Tshuam yog koj nyob qab noj zoo xwm thiab yoo dee mee hang der.)😊 Waiting on for you to come back to continue on with the next shoot for the film you have stopped to leave us on. Su su der.

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  • @leos_library3591
    @leos_library3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My boyfriend left for basic training for the navy just about 4 weeks ago… it still hurts the same as when it did when he messaged me for the last time before his 10 weeks are up. I already can’t wait for him to be home. I can’t even imagine him getting deployed later down the line and him being away for 6 or more months at a time…

  • @Bhirkuti_Rana.
    @Bhirkuti_Rana. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I miss my man it's been more then 1 we haven't meet . I miss you 😭😭 please come back home😭

  • @josieroseblehm1641
    @josieroseblehm1641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    IM CRYINGG 😭😭 I miss my husband so much

  • @manonworldtraveler6263
    @manonworldtraveler6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video is amazing. Thank you so much for making it. It puts some things in perspective and helps understand a little bit.
    Great Job thank you to all of you

    • @WindstruckProduction
      @WindstruckProduction  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      definitely! it was so heartfelt hearing everyone's love story and how they keep pushing through all the obstacles!

  • @IzzyChopChop
    @IzzyChopChop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My boyfriend left for BCT and ATI (for the reserves) after Christmas and I'm having a hard time being apart. I'm in a new place without family and I try to be the strongest everyday. It hurts to be away from him with little communication, but I am counting down the days when we can be together again. I cried during this video

  • @fatboytrucker2822
    @fatboytrucker2822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Glad to hear my fellow countryman have a relationship. Mine wasn’t that lucky. My girlfriend of 5 year left me because she wouldn’t handle of getting a call saying i died in combat. 😔

  • @whatevervlogs9663
    @whatevervlogs9663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    9:01 this right here is the hardest part for us...he's home in two weeks

  • @missmacy1655
    @missmacy1655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video! And God bless you all to serve our country 👏

  • @kethereal3898
    @kethereal3898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My boyfriends gonna be set for bootcamp and then permanently deployed for 4 years soon. I’m scared but proud. I love him further than the moon and sun and know he’ll be alright 💜

  • @pinklemonmusic5229
    @pinklemonmusic5229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    beautiful and sad at the same time 0_0

  • @Jasmine-pv8cw
    @Jasmine-pv8cw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    my boyfriend enlisted and he's only just going through meps right now but good lord do I already miss him and he hasn't even left yet. i'm going to be a mess when he leaves. his last day is this sunday... I'm gonna be a sobbing mess...

  • @kalsworld2347
    @kalsworld2347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Beautiful video.

  • @kayladunlap928
    @kayladunlap928 ปีที่แล้ว

    this puts so much into protevtive even when they have rushed calls it is wroth it to answer the phone

  • @mrmarcuswatson
    @mrmarcuswatson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I guess im on the opposite end. My gf went to meps and I'm starting my journey here

  • @zen3386
    @zen3386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for making this amazing video ❤️

  • @audselby6188
    @audselby6188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My boyfriend is going into the navy and I’m so proud and excited for him but I’m honestly so scared. I have time left with him but I’m scared of how it’s going to feel when he’s gone.

    • @Liz-JWB
      @Liz-JWB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did it go? It’s been a year now :)
      My boyfriend is going into navy boot camp in 3 weeks

  • @rebeccawaringa4602
    @rebeccawaringa4602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SrA Doo resemble Mr Coco Martin. Super cool team loving their loved ones

  • @lovebasar6698
    @lovebasar6698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just meet him online. And his gone for good but I will wait for him to comeback.. #Onlinedatingpamore😭💔

    • @keisha609
      @keisha609 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How long did it take? Or are you still waiting?

  • @jjdestefano61
    @jjdestefano61 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4,583 miles away

  • @emilineoravetz7538
    @emilineoravetz7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this 💕

  • @fitnesswithmalia
    @fitnesswithmalia ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. ❤

  • @godness7770
    @godness7770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I meet mine on fb and he claimed he is in the Military in Kabul. He claims he can not call me or video chat me. I never seen the guy, so I finally gave him an ultimatum. I am not going to let him keep on lying to me that he is going to home and then stood me up 3 times.

    • @gerrileylucas3318
      @gerrileylucas3318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They cannot call or video chat! You're lucky that he actually text you. They also cannot give you a definite date as to when they will return home. It's for their safety. Some things may sound like it doesn't make sense but it takes a special one to date military personnel.

    • @mommyshel9762
      @mommyshel9762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same as me.. We met on IG and then he said he's in mission and can't video chat and call.. But he said he want to take his vacation leave to see me this month.. Hopefully he's real and can make serious relationship with him

    • @jessneri3343
      @jessneri3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mommyshel9762 I have chatted with previous apps. he said he wanted me to be his wife if I am willing to love him, I must first understand him because he is a military man. the problem is that they are not allowed to call or video call but he always chats with me. I don't know if it's true so he says that's the law in his job.

    • @katharina6581
      @katharina6581 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂 Ladies all scammers how stupid...

  • @czudahal6466
    @czudahal6466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for making this video.♥️
    🇳🇵🇳🇵🇳🇵🇳🇵

  • @keisha609
    @keisha609 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s the longest deployment of your spouse that you are enduring or have endured? And what are/were the conditions (couldn’t text..could talk..could video..etc)

  • @tomhuffner6535
    @tomhuffner6535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welp I cried

  • @Mariana-ld6wo
    @Mariana-ld6wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My bf will be joining the military in September and it’s going to be really hard for me not to talk to him 24/7 And l overthinking and have anxiety too if maybe we would break up because that’s not something am use to it but we talk about it and he said that any time he’s free or is possible to text me he would do it today he’s currently going he’s training for September and l hope he pass he’s tests and we won’t be able to see each other for months many till Christmas cuz he’s going to do he’s boot camping till Christmas time and ldk how am going to do it

    • @WindstruckProduction
      @WindstruckProduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The key is communication. If you want to make it work it can work!

    • @IzzyChopChop
      @IzzyChopChop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WindstruckProduction I'm in the same boat :( anxiety and separation sucks

    • @Liz-JWB
      @Liz-JWB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you dealt with this like a champ. I hope you’re doing okay right now ❤

  • @kaliahasan182
    @kaliahasan182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m in a long distance relationship with my
    Boyfriend he is in the military in the navy we are the same age we talk everyday we are in a committed relationship we love each other a lot I’m moving with him next year that’s the plan

  • @andrews6211
    @andrews6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not just with relationships but with family members, how much time do they have to talk to family back in the US. I’m just curious how what their options are on communicating with loved ones back home.

    • @whatheck6797
      @whatheck6797 ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends (relationships/family members etc.) When my spouse was deployed sometimes it would be 30 mins to 3 min conversation or heck 1 min if lucky.

  • @rodeocowboy2313
    @rodeocowboy2313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is this a recent deployment or this is from a long time again

  • @whatgamerlol5831
    @whatgamerlol5831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey dude what happen to the Hmong drama that I thought you guys are making?

    • @WindstruckProduction
      @WindstruckProduction  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What Lol It is still happening. :)

    • @whatgamerlol5831
      @whatgamerlol5831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Windstruck Production do you know when will it be released, or like where will it be released on?

  • @xannelichili8581
    @xannelichili8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im going to miss my husband. He’s going to a 9months deployment 😭 I feel like I’m depressing 😭

    • @lillycable8106
      @lillycable8106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same! I don't know what to do! maybe it'll be six!!!!

    • @jessilcimafranca3058
      @jessilcimafranca3058 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is it? My bf was in deployment too but till now we don't have communication for almost 4months

  • @MakingAMorris
    @MakingAMorris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My husband just left for basic on the 7th, I miss his dearly, but every day I write him a letter, until I can send them I will have one for every day, every day of my missing the love of my life

    • @IzzyChopChop
      @IzzyChopChop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm in the same situation too :( writing him letters and journal helps ease the blues, but I still miss him

  • @fridasobrevilla1612
    @fridasobrevilla1612 ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s at soi rn in a holding platoon and I thought it would be easier but damn I’m having a hard time

  • @isatheseeker
    @isatheseeker ปีที่แล้ว

    14 hour time difference

  • @teresaMichelleStroupe
    @teresaMichelleStroupe หลายเดือนก่อน

    My boyfriend is in Washington DC millary

  • @JJO117
    @JJO117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is beautiful the 6 Downvotes must be Terrorists or Communists.

  • @FebeSalayan
    @FebeSalayan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucky im single😅..

  • @Beethitran
    @Beethitran 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😭😭😭😭😭🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻♥️♥️♥️

  • @dpo1175
    @dpo1175 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonder how many were cheating 🤔

  • @rockybalboa2999
    @rockybalboa2999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A couple should not stay away from each other for more than 4months.

    • @kristina-ob9cz
      @kristina-ob9cz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Military life says no ✨😂

  • @isatheseeker
    @isatheseeker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6,913 miles away