I’m currently laying in bed with my 2 day old freebirth baby. Your podcast has already inspired so much of my journey into motherhood thus far. I love that this is the topic for this week
Really have appreciated your honesty, as I’m a new mom myself. We have our work cut out for us but it is a choice we made and so full of love! Definitely soaking up every moment no matter how sweet or sour :). So to everyone here: “Go Moms!”
My grandma was not patient. She only had 7 children (not much for her time). Mexico 1952, she was married and had her first child,my mother. I never got the impression grandma was a typical nurturing mommy. She was strong, intimidating, and came from a successful family. She was the youngest of many brothers. She was incredibly protective. But, not nurturing. Is it better to be patient and loving? Yes. I know that now. But before you judge, think about what people have been through before experiencing parenthood. Think about generational trauma. I have a 24 yr old and a 9 yr old. I was SO UNnurturing to my first child. Boy, do i regret that. But there were circumstances. I didn't even see those circumstances at the time. I only see them now, in hindsight. My own mother was not nurturing. I think she didn't even want me, honestly. I dont blame her. Her story is devastating for her time, to be honest. After that she made all the wrong choices. And she was distracted, as i ended up being. ADD?ADHD?PTSD? Who's knows. Without real direction, I made bad choices too. My sons father was murdered when I was 3 months pregnant. Before that, WAY before that,I had vowed never to be a single mother. I ended up with post-partem depression. I didn't even know i had postpartum depression. I didn't even know what that was. I didn't know why I felt so separated from my baby. It wasn't until years later, that I realized what had happened. When I educated myself. When I felt the need to "fix" things. So please don't say "C'MON PEOPLE" The brain is like a perfect computer. It reacts to commands. It reacts to its environment . It was made perfectly. That's why it has rules. Now, I know that. And I try, at least try, not to judge. ✝️🙏❤️
I really like your podcast. Keep up the good work. Today is a holiday where I live in, husband is with the older kids at a birthday party and I am here with the toddler and with you guys. Thanks for keeping me company.
I’m currently laying in bed with my 2 day old freebirth baby. Your podcast has already inspired so much of my journey into motherhood thus far. I love that this is the topic for this week
Hard is Not the Same Thing as Bad -Abbie Halberstadt
(Great guest to interview)
I relate so much. Glad i stumbled on this channel, thank you!
Really have appreciated your honesty, as I’m a new mom myself. We have our work cut out for us but it is a choice we made and so full of love! Definitely soaking up every moment no matter how sweet or sour :). So to everyone here: “Go Moms!”
This is speaking so much to me, thank you guys for doing this. So glad it’s not just me having low energy in the store.
You're doing a great job 💞
I’m halfway through this episode and I’m still waiting hear about the hard part. Slowing down and being patient is not hard. Comme on people!
My grandma was not patient. She only had 7 children (not much for her time). Mexico 1952, she was married and had her first child,my mother. I never got the impression grandma was a typical nurturing mommy. She was strong, intimidating, and came from a successful family. She was the youngest of many brothers. She was incredibly protective. But, not nurturing. Is it better to be patient and loving? Yes. I know that now. But before you judge, think about what people have been through before experiencing parenthood. Think about generational trauma. I have a 24 yr old and a 9 yr old. I was SO UNnurturing to my first child. Boy, do i regret that. But there were circumstances. I didn't even see those circumstances at the time. I only see them now, in hindsight. My own mother was not nurturing. I think she didn't even want me, honestly. I dont blame her. Her story is devastating for her time, to be honest. After that she made all the wrong choices. And she was distracted, as i ended up being. ADD?ADHD?PTSD? Who's knows.
Without real direction, I made bad choices too. My sons father was murdered when I was 3 months pregnant. Before that, WAY before that,I had vowed never to be a single mother. I ended up with post-partem depression. I didn't even know i had postpartum depression. I didn't even know what that was. I didn't know why I felt so separated from my baby.
It wasn't until years later, that I realized what had happened. When I educated myself. When I felt the need to "fix" things.
So please don't say "C'MON PEOPLE" The brain is like a perfect computer. It reacts to commands. It reacts to its environment . It was made perfectly. That's why it has rules. Now, I know that.
And I try, at least try, not to judge. ✝️🙏❤️
I'm glad you're so perfect, but unfortunately patience does not always come so easily for a lot of us
I really like your podcast. Keep up the good work. Today is a holiday where I live in, husband is with the older kids at a birthday party and I am here with the toddler and with you guys. Thanks for keeping me company.
Thank you for being with us 🥰
I relate to the skin boobs 😔 lol
Free range what? Whay does that even mean ?
Try honeylove bras, saved me ❤
Ooh I'm going to look them up!
@@underthesunpodcast hope that works for you ❤️