Having lived abroad for 7 years, my best advice to you is - avoid confrontation at all cost. It's never about showing who can pass. Guns and/or knives are never too far from peope like that whose ego has been hurt. Your life is more precious than holding toe to toe with this guy. He has shown you who he is, believe him. Please have your phone at all times to record him for evidence in case he gets weird.
I would also add to learn cultural differences and be aware of them so you don’t constantly end you in these situations. It becomes frustrating and overwhelming at a point. Don’t be too nice or accessible, say hello one day and don’t. As Africans we can be very expressive, it’s usually interpreted as aggression coupled with prejudice too. Just keep your head down face your front. Maintain a distance and don’t get too deep in conversation both in work and social situations. You might have been in The right this time, but trust me records are kept with police and if this becomes too frequent it could affect future work opportunities or if you have something major to go to law enforcement about could count as a negative. You might have papers and got hear legally etc but at the end of the day prejudice is alive and well. You will face people like this in all aspects of life in Canada, at work, when your out, neighbours even when on vacations in different cities. Is it right no, but it would be beneficial to learn other ways to handle these situations as the Nigerian way may be misinterpreted here and detrimental to you in the long run. As the saying goes When in Rome…. Or you’ll find yourself constantly having issues.
Asy- you did well to address these concurrent issues. However I must advise that you thread carefully around that individual, he may truly be sick, or deranged. I live in the US, where simple corrections turn into violence; someone mistakenly knocked on a wrong door got them shot, wrong drive way got them killed. People own guns and conceal dangerous weapons - you never know what’s in his possession. I’m sure you hear similar stories of series of unfortunate events in the neighboring country USA. For your safety, be on alert! Don’t get into confrontation with anyone. I hope there’s a camera in that kitchen- watch your food!
The comment I was looking for. The world has evolved into something really sinister and evil and we all must adjust to survive the evil out there if we want to live long. Just avoid confrontations cos you just never know what's coming. People are sick May we not be killed unjustly. Amen.
In my opinion of meeting different people, the mistake we make is believing that the person has learned his/her lesson when they now eventually seem to be showing themselves worthy in character and learning (according to Asy) we get carried away to now want to "forgive". Dont be carried away, they are still who they showed themselves to be the first time. They are only just paralysed at the moment. So if i would say Asy, stay your lane. Do not be guilt tripped into responding to his greeting or relate with him out of courtesy. He is still the same person in his mind and mentality. They can never change, he is just handicapped at the moment on how to fix you up. Avoid him and have peace.
Since he wants to be mad, you can make a formal complaint, about aggressive and racist behaviour to his school or employer. Also make a formal complaint (email) to the landlord. About forgiveness, you guys dont have a relationship, simple. He's racist and that won't change.
😅🤣that’s what the landlord said. The fact that I said I wouldn’t do it was what made the werey afraid because I tell am say I ready to go back anytime he’s ready make we do 2 aside😅😂😂🤣🤣
I have been following all your series...you're the best..if only we can have 10,000 of you in Canada...na this black people dey exhibit racism pass😅...I unleashed my anger on an Indian who tried nonsense with me...I went gaga but then my fellow Nigerians were being hypocrites at that moment...imagine 😢...biko drop all the culture shocks...I'm here for all of it mama God bless you for raising the bars🙌...ODOGWU ASY OF CANADA...after you na you mama
Me too, did it my first semester here and never again! Temperature way I change roommate go report me for housing authority ! And I don’t look for trouble so you could tell this girl was searching everything in her power to have issues with me!
I know say average Nigerian go fear as Im mention police! Tah!!! I like the fact you made it known to him that coming to Canada is not cheap. It’s time we stand up and stop letting this oyigbo people treat us like rags. They no be God. Kudos Asy!
As a fellow Aries I started getting more and more upset as you told the story 😠 the disrespect and treating me like I’m a servant to you…. Having to obey you….no the F not🤬 you’ve handled it the way I would have …. I will let it slide but will never forget and handle you accordingly going forward …. Keep pushing Asy and keep your head up … God is in control 🙏🏾
Please be very very careful!!!! Never enter his car because that’s his space and it will be his words against yours. I remember my roommate as well, I had to ignore her because she was crazy acted normal and went worse and I eventually had to leave because it was bad. After I left I heard the police came to sort out an issue with her and another roommate and it was really bad. So please be careful!!!!
Hey Asy I'm just coming across your post. I admire your tenacity dealing with this creep, but I'd advise you to have cameras installed and move a fridge into your room. Watch your food! There are a lot of unhinged people in the West who are shielded by governments, it's not like Africa. Blessings.
Love you girl!!! I’m always hooked to your videos😅 I love how you tell your stories….so detailed and deep, with so much humour………Continue to stand up for your right and don’t let any psychopath affect your space. A Queen I Stan ❤ Btw love how you promote Okrika 😍 proudly one too ❤️❤️❤️
Don't forgive anything! Don't talk to him because if you do give him the chance to come close, he will form another trouble for you so don't talk to him. I have had the worst experiences of my life with Canadian housemates like that. In my case, they could even throw away my personal belongings as they wish and the foolish Indian landlady I had was always on their side because she wanted to maintain those crazy tenants for her love for money over my wellbeing. Hum Canadians, some of them are really ridiculous!
Asy the narrator. I was so hooked. But seriously, you did well by confronting the guy. I live in Sweden and na so them dey do. They try to verbally bully people to show you that they are the real owners of the land. When you retaliate, they term you 'violent'. But its always good to confront and put them in their place, if not, they will not stop. Please forgive him so you guys can cohabit peacefully. I think he has learnt his lessons. God have used you to cure his MENTAL PROBLEMSSSS😂😂😂😂
😅😂😂 Imagine an immigrant forming owner of land for an investor?🌚😂😂 I have forgiven him oo but I don’t talk to him or answer his greeting. Make him dey him lane🤣🤣
You can forgive o but these kind of people dont ever forget because they can switch on you any time. Its good that he is frightened of you, it will help him correct his sense!
My Asy Darlyn, Wisdom is profitable to direct o! For Ala bekee, severe mental health is a very serious issue o! It’s more dangerous over here because m*d man go wear beta cloth, suit and tie sef and you will have no idea that they dey craze. At least in Naija, they will enter street naked and look dirty, so when you see them you cross over to the other side of the road. Pls be mindful and careful. Some dey carry gun o! Las las the law will let it slide when he pleads insanity.
I heard that in the US and Canada, you can do a background check on anyone you want. If that really is the case, perhaps do that with this man to know what he’s really capable of. I doubt this is the first time he’s behaving like this. ..
Aunty Vayorenz, I’m learning ohhhh 😂😂 I connect to this level of confidence. I was in a similar situation in recently but luckily my other housemates stood up for me, I’m the avoidance type buttt ahhhh I need to learn how to stand up for myself.
True Aries here, silent treatment is the best. You can't mess with us. We are very nice people, but when cross that line, you are going to learn Today.
Asy, you should take photos of ALL the notes he writes. Also, record as much of his behavior as possible. Lastly, keep a journal. He sounds a bit unstable; don't take him for granted.
I like the fact that you drew the like after your last two encounters with Mr Bipolar. Like you said, they make excuses for their ill manners and they think they can extend it to just anyone. I'm sure going forward he has some level of respect for you because you stood your ground. By the way, love the shirt.
Never ask an immigrant “where are you really from?” It’s well recognised as a microagression here. If he wanted to share his heritage, he would have volunteered it as his first response. This could have been the trigger of the friction you experienced.
No one should bite me o. Sometimes as Nigerians, we don't realise that some of us are loud and if it is a house that is just being lived in, it may carry the voice louder. The guy went overboard and I think you shouldn't give him another chance, he fit find a sinister way to get back at you or continue to rile you up so it will look like you are bullying him. He sounds a bit manipulative.
In 2019, two of my friends and I went to Canada to attend a wedding. You will not imagine the racism we experienced - total disrespect etc. Upon my return to the US, I told my husband and friends about our experience, only to find out that this is how visitors are treated in Canada. One even told us (when we were asking for direction at one time), that they do not know why their Government is inviting foreigners to Canada. Very prejudice place!!!
Asy, your storytelling skills are topnotch! 😂 I was annoyed, and then your humour just calmed me down. 😅 Which one is 3 angels again?! 😂😂😂 I love your approach to the situation! I also don't understand why people will be timid. The international fees you pay alone is enough to give you confidence!
Ohh Asy!!😂😂. Lol, yes o, I'm like you in the sense that I'll withdraw and pretend that you don't exist. But he doesn't sound right in the head. I wouldn't even feel comfortable with him sharing the fridge with me. Because that's crazy, you can't kill me for my mother😂. I think the thing is that most international students just prefer to stay away from the police, God forbid the police officer that responded to his call was biased. Also, we're sometimes alone, so our support system might be lacking, especially as new students (I'm guessing he knows that you arrived this year). Just like the example you gave using your son. I have a crazy crazy story too😂😂. I also think that most incoming students might be younger, so it's easier to take advantage of them. Especially if they are coming right out of high school. And okay, I guess forgive, but don't forget and don't get too comfortable and start trusting him. I suggest keeping it cordial and don't share any personal info. Like keep the small talk to 'hi', "nice weather today," and keep it moving 🤣. Don't even ask me about my plans for the summer, cause how does that concern you?😂 He might have toned it down a little, but he has already shown you how far he would go over something so minuscule. So let's not try and trigger his craziness😂. It is well. I wonder if he knows about your channel.
Cotinue as you are Asy, let him write it down and consider replying on paper....as soon as you fold he will bring the dramatics x10. Ignorance doesn't go away overnight. If you accept/tolerate disrespect it will be continuous.
We Nigerians are loud. You get maybe you can tone it down a bit. I remembered when my hubby club was kinda asked not to come book venue in the hotel they normally use for meeting reason is" the mgt said they are loud" very funny though. Just avoid the guy honestly no more confrontation he might have a gun or even knife. Pls stay safe. I pray he packs out even.
Asy, Aries babes no dey carry last. This is what I always say, when you know your rights, no one can bully you. Housemate, work colleague or whoever. I am glad you stood your ground and refused to leave the kitchen. The fact that he was trying to lay down an assumption that you could become violent later, was out of order and I am glad that the police telephone officer did not fall for that. You forgive but give him a very long rope, it does not mean he becomes your buddy. You want God’s peace around you at all times, be at peace with all. Not foolish peace o, but peace laced with wisdom. As for Wike and Tinubu, their train will soon go in different directions. We continue to observe. May has started, 29th soon reach. We Aries babes rock❤
Lol I can so relate to this rubbish some roommates dish out. It’s funny because I gave it to this depressed human of a roommate. Being mute or always taking shit isn’t the way. I learnt that today. I was always trying to be respectful but many of them don’t want respect. They are just some bloody bullies and racist.
wahalaux... lol, this is the kind of vibe I love, your story sweet die, if and when I come to Canada, I must make sure I see you.. and you definitely just got a new subscriber... you made my day😂😂😂
Hi asy!!! 🤣🤣🤣 this was quite interesting and I really admire you, because I feel like we’re alike in the sense that I’m also hothead and I can’t tolerate nonesense too .. I’m really impressed at how you put him in his place , God bless u !!!😂
Me l support you because those people always think the can take advantage of us especially when the see that you are black and if you don’t speak out they take control of you, well done Asy. Stay blessed 🥰.
All the letters he is writing is for his evidence to prove a case that he always tries to go the extra mile to make peace even when you ignore him. And in share spaces there is always some level of disagreement so you all should try to respect each other’s space even via noise or voicing
Well done Asy. Christianity doesn't mean condoning bad manners..... Ignore him totally. I wouldn't even bother greeting him again, he has his chance. People like that will always be ill-mannered...... As you no fear police him don confuse, mtschwww. Please lock your things in the kitchen.
Exactly my point. People who are who they showed themselves to be, the first time. If it looks like they have changed, check na condition cause am. Mentality never change
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As paranoid as I am, I would look for another accommodation. I cannot live with someone in a shared space, shared fridge, etc that does not like me. What if they put crazy things in my drink 😂😂😂
Forgive him but never be friends with him because he has not changed. That's one thing when you living with strangers. Some people are not just accommodating. Just avoid him biko he's not worth your energy
Asy, I watched your relocating video and I broke down when you were begging your help to take good care of your son. Why risking your life now? Nigeria is totally different from Canada. Truth be told, you don’t know much about that man you are living with. Meaning you don’t know his medical history as well as psych history. Be careful! You don’t know if that guy has been in jail or even killed before. In United States, a nurse put a nursing assistant that was always on his case on fire.The nurse killed himself the next day. 80 % of the nursing assistant body got burnt. It could have been avoided……..Be careful.
Asy keep your foot on the gas💯 Don't give him no chance. Stand your ground. We have those sick toxic manipulated emotionally minded people. In corporate America that bull is tolerate in the name of inclusion of madness. Stay your ground. You might be a lesson of relationship and communication for the memory of his life. He is sick
The title drew me innnn…😮 Your village people have come ohhh…and this is why I never took shared accommodation because my head nuh correct😅😅😅 This gist sweet me oohhh!!!
Pleas dont forgive or looseguard ooo...na him real behavior be that...e go still misbehave. They do that to try to get closer and possibly learn your weak point.
I will advise you do not tear any of his notes to you Asy, keep them safely girl. Also never converse with him and say things like in your life….( not sure or saying you said that). Secondly, be careful and prayerful and also learn to keep your voice down but at the same time, keep your head up and stand up for yourself appropriately, be prayerful and never tell anyone you are alone when he is there. Just learn to say I am alone but not alone, that’s safer in case of anything. I am proud of you and equally happy that you are strong enough. Well done!!!
Thank you so much for sharing dear, 😂😂, I'm laughing in celebration your boldness and confidence, I'm enjoying this experience and I'm learning a lot also how I would respond if I'm to find find myself in such a situation. Is Honorable Tinibu for me. I love you so much Madam Asy❤❤
Asy Asy, You were right 100% right, calling the police and you did not do him anything, what that is saying to me he is not to be trusted and it was offensive. He deserved what he got. I am pretty sure after you were done with him he would not try that again. This was the best jest ever i was glued.
Ohh now I understand all the details from your last video!! Chai! He is clearly not well! You handled that matter very well. Sometimes you just have to show them. The term “you people” Is clear sign he is a racist. You are right that international student support the Canadian economy. There prioritize students because they know it’s money for the country. Team Asy!
Dey try calm down dear, don’t make noise in the common areas. When u want to talk, you go inside your room to do so. When in common areas, you focus on doing what you’re doing swiftly and leaving the space for others. You cant go and hang out in kitchen or parlor all day and be having phonecalls. Any shared accommodation you go to, you will meet the same rules. Lastly, avoid drama oh. Na so all of us get strong head wen we fist land. Na experience make we for calm down so. Dey no dey tell person.
😂😂😂😂 Asy you made me laugh so much . I have been a timid person and I most say , nothing good come from it. There is absolutely nothing better then cutting bullshit off from the very beginning.
Asy .. why do I have this feeling that you'll change the narratives in Canada about nigerians.get equip and do the needful. God deh your side. This abinos deh over do too much. Salutation is not love. Make him mind him business. Perioddd. I be your Eleme sister. Ride oonnnn gehhhhh
Since he is always calling tge cops, pls take snapshots of his apology notes before shredding them. If you notice he is about to make trouble, do a recording. Above all, forgive and show him God’s love. I lived in Canada for five years with lots of white people as my neighbors. They were so kind to my family. One of them used to clear our snow in winter for free. I have never really experienced r#cism here, and it’s good you’re not tolerating it. Those of them who have a stereotypical impression of us immigrants are usually the ignorant and less exposed ones. You will meet some very amazing people there.
I think you dealt with the situation confidently Asy. Thanks for making this videos so we all could find a way around such person should there ever be any in the future.
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Having lived abroad for 7 years, my best advice to you is - avoid confrontation at all cost. It's never about showing who can pass. Guns and/or knives are never too far from peope like that whose ego has been hurt. Your life is more precious than holding toe to toe with this guy. He has shown you who he is, believe him. Please have your phone at all times to record him for evidence in case he gets weird.
I would also add to learn cultural differences and be aware of them so you don’t constantly end you in these situations. It becomes frustrating and overwhelming at a point.
Don’t be too nice or accessible, say hello one day and don’t. As Africans we can be very expressive, it’s usually interpreted as aggression coupled with prejudice too. Just keep your head down face your front. Maintain a distance and don’t get too deep in conversation both in work and social situations. You might have been in The right this time, but trust me records are kept with police and if this becomes too frequent it could affect future work opportunities or if you have something major to go to law enforcement about could count as a negative. You might have papers and got hear legally etc but at the end of the day prejudice is alive and well.
You will face people like this in all aspects of life in Canada, at work, when your out, neighbours even when on vacations in different cities. Is it right no, but it would be beneficial to learn other ways to handle these situations as the Nigerian way may be misinterpreted here and detrimental to you in the long run. As the saying goes When in Rome…. Or you’ll find yourself constantly having issues.
@NATURAL IDARA thanks my sister, record are kept in this country.
Asy- you did well to address these concurrent issues. However I must advise that you thread carefully around that individual, he may truly be sick, or deranged. I live in the US, where simple corrections turn into violence; someone mistakenly knocked on a wrong door got them shot, wrong drive way got them killed. People own guns and conceal dangerous weapons - you never know what’s in his possession. I’m sure you hear similar stories of series of unfortunate events in the neighboring country USA. For your safety, be on alert! Don’t get into confrontation with anyone. I hope there’s a camera in that kitchen- watch your food!
Thank you🙏🏾
I absolutely agree with this poster. People are unhinged and irrational. This scenario is concerning. Please be careful.
I thought d same. The guy is not normal
Asa, you nailed it. This is not about being assertive or knowing your rights. Is about being careful and avoiding confrontations.
The comment I was looking for. The world has evolved into something really sinister and evil and we all must adjust to survive the evil out there if we want to live long.
Just avoid confrontations cos you just never know what's coming. People are sick
May we not be killed unjustly. Amen.
In my opinion of meeting different people, the mistake we make is believing that the person has learned his/her lesson when they now eventually seem to be showing themselves worthy in character and learning (according to Asy) we get carried away to now want to "forgive". Dont be carried away, they are still who they showed themselves to be the first time. They are only just paralysed at the moment.
So if i would say Asy, stay your lane. Do not be guilt tripped into responding to his greeting or relate with him out of courtesy. He is still the same person in his mind and mentality. They can never change, he is just handicapped at the moment on how to fix you up. Avoid him and have peace.
You have said it all, this is wisdom
Thank you!! I’ve forgiven but I will not speak to him. He will greet and beg from now till tomorrow, I no want🙄🤣🤣🤣
Not tomorrow oo my sister till thy kingdom come:avoid am and shine ur eyes 👀
It's a good thing you have not taken a car lift from him. Who knows what trap he has set for you in there.
Forgive and stay that lane with him if not he will take your power
ahh okirika people hard to find for this Canada, Welcome!
Since he wants to be mad, you can make a formal complaint, about aggressive and racist behaviour to his school or employer. Also make a formal complaint (email) to the landlord.
About forgiveness, you guys dont have a relationship, simple. He's racist and that won't change.
😅🤣that’s what the landlord said. The fact that I said I wouldn’t do it was what made the werey afraid because I tell am say I ready to go back anytime he’s ready make we do 2 aside😅😂😂🤣🤣
I have been following all your series...you're the best..if only we can have 10,000 of you in Canada...na this black people dey exhibit racism pass😅...I unleashed my anger on an Indian who tried nonsense with me...I went gaga but then my fellow Nigerians were being hypocrites at that moment...imagine 😢...biko drop all the culture shocks...I'm here for all of it mama God bless you for raising the bars🙌...ODOGWU ASY OF CANADA...after you na you mama
This is the reason why shared apartment will never be my thing at all.
Fortunately for me, that’s exactly what I like😁
It's Nonsense 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Me too, did it my first semester here and never again! Temperature way I change roommate go report me for housing authority ! And I don’t look for trouble so you could tell this girl was searching everything in her power to have issues with me!
I know say average Nigerian go fear as Im mention police! Tah!!! I like the fact you made it known to him that coming to Canada is not cheap. It’s time we stand up and stop letting this oyigbo people treat us like rags. They no be God. Kudos Asy!
Immigrant dey open eye for investor, Shey him dey whine me😂😂 call police, after all I pay tax🤣🤣
I'm telling you
As a fellow Aries I started getting more and more upset as you told the story 😠 the disrespect and treating me like I’m a servant to you…. Having to obey you….no the F not🤬 you’ve handled it the way I would have …. I will let it slide but will never forget and handle you accordingly going forward …. Keep pushing Asy and keep your head up … God is in control 🙏🏾
Yes oo!! God is in control. I don’t tolerate any madness 😂😂
I didn't know how much i like to hear gist until now😂😂 the way you dish this gist like Nollywood movie 😂
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Likkkeeeee! I was so invested 😅.
Please be very very careful!!!! Never enter his car because that’s his space and it will be his words against yours. I remember my roommate as well, I had to ignore her because she was crazy acted normal and went worse and I eventually had to leave because it was bad. After I left I heard the police came to sort out an issue with her and another roommate and it was really bad. So please be careful!!!!
Lai Lai, I will not enter😂😂 I haven’t even spoken to him, it’s car I will enter😅😂😂
I’m actually concerned about your safety
Canada seems to have a lot of creepy people on drugs and so forth
Be safe ❤🇿🇦
Hey Asy I'm just coming across your post. I admire your tenacity dealing with this creep, but I'd advise you to have cameras installed and move a fridge into your room. Watch your food! There are a lot of unhinged people in the West who are shielded by governments, it's not like Africa. Blessings.
Love you girl!!! I’m always hooked to your videos😅
I love how you tell your stories….so detailed and deep, with so much humour………Continue to stand up for your right and don’t let any psychopath affect your space. A Queen I Stan ❤
Btw love how you promote Okrika 😍 proudly one too ❤️❤️❤️
I like the way you matched him up, he thought he could intimidate you..
As in ehh!! A whole Port Harcourt girl🌚😂😂
Don't forgive anything! Don't talk to him because if you do give him the chance to come close, he will form another trouble for you so don't talk to him. I have had the worst experiences of my life with Canadian housemates like that. In my case, they could even throw away my personal belongings as they wish and the foolish Indian landlady I had was always on their side because she wanted to maintain those crazy tenants for her love for money over my wellbeing. Hum Canadians, some of them are really ridiculous!
Asy the narrator. I was so hooked.
But seriously, you did well by confronting the guy. I live in Sweden and na so them dey do. They try to verbally bully people to show you that they are the real owners of the land. When you retaliate, they term you 'violent'. But its always good to confront and put them in their place, if not, they will not stop. Please forgive him so you guys can cohabit peacefully. I think he has learnt his lessons. God have used you to cure his MENTAL PROBLEMSSSS😂😂😂😂
😅😂😂 Imagine an immigrant forming owner of land for an investor?🌚😂😂 I have forgiven him oo but I don’t talk to him or answer his greeting. Make him dey him lane🤣🤣
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You can forgive o but these kind of people dont ever forget because they can switch on you any time. Its good that he is frightened of you, it will help him correct his sense!
Indeed
I have forgiven but I will not talk to him🌚🤣🤣🤣
My Asy Darlyn,
Wisdom is profitable to direct o!
For Ala bekee, severe mental health is a very serious issue o! It’s more dangerous over here because m*d man go wear beta cloth, suit and tie sef and you will have no idea that they dey craze. At least in Naija, they will enter street naked and look dirty, so when you see them you cross over to the other side of the road. Pls be mindful and careful. Some dey carry gun o! Las las the law will let it slide when he pleads insanity.
Thank you
I heard that in the US and Canada, you can do a background check on anyone you want. If that really is the case, perhaps do that with this man to know what he’s really capable of. I doubt this is the first time he’s behaving like this. ..
Aunty Vayorenz, I’m learning ohhhh 😂😂 I connect to this level of confidence. I was in a similar situation in recently but luckily my other housemates stood up for me, I’m the avoidance type buttt ahhhh I need to learn how to stand up for myself.
Im Canadian😂😂😂Enjoyed the story! We love u Asy😊
Thank you so much!!! I truly appreciate
You are a true warrior and I loved how you put him in his place kudos 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You just gain a new subscriber my kind of person ❤🇬🇧
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True Aries here, silent treatment is the best. You can't mess with us. We are very nice people, but when cross that line, you are going to learn Today.
Don’t cross the line!!📌
You just earned my subscription. This channel can never be boring!😅
Thanks a lot 🙏🏾💃🏽
It can never be boring! 😅
Asy, you should take photos of ALL the notes he writes. Also, record as much of his behavior as possible. Lastly, keep a journal. He sounds a bit unstable; don't take him for granted.
Exactly, he sounds like someone with mental issues
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I just love how fearless you were throughout the incident and also placing him in his right position. You do all Asy😂
I laughed hard watching this vlog. I love that we're African, we have common sense and home training.
Well done my sister, love from ghana
I like the fact that you drew the like after your last two encounters with Mr Bipolar. Like you said, they make excuses for their ill manners and they think they can extend it to just anyone. I'm sure going forward he has some level of respect for you because you stood your ground. By the way, love the shirt.
Never ask an immigrant “where are you really from?” It’s well recognised as a microagression here. If he wanted to share his heritage, he would have volunteered it as his first response. This could have been the trigger of the friction you experienced.
But he can ask me?🌚😅😂😂 no be only trigger.
No one should bite me o. Sometimes as Nigerians, we don't realise that some of us are loud and if it is a house that is just being lived in, it may carry the voice louder. The guy went overboard and I think you shouldn't give him another chance, he fit find a sinister way to get back at you or continue to rile you up so it will look like you are bullying him. He sounds a bit manipulative.
In 2019, two of my friends and I went to Canada to attend a wedding. You will not imagine the racism we experienced - total disrespect etc. Upon my return to the US, I told my husband and friends about our experience, only to find out that this is how visitors are treated in Canada. One even told us (when we were asking for direction at one time), that they do not know why their Government is inviting foreigners to Canada. Very prejudice place!!!
Asyyyy ooo😂😂😂😂 sey na as you dey jam me e go clear. I really want to meet you when i arrive abeg😂😂
I'm vexed on your behalf but you can respond to his greetings alone. You tearing the note sweetened my soul honestly. I hate what I don't like😂
Asy, your storytelling skills are topnotch! 😂
I was annoyed, and then your humour just calmed me down. 😅
Which one is 3 angels again?! 😂😂😂
I love your approach to the situation! I also don't understand why people will be timid. The international fees you pay alone is enough to give you confidence!
Abi oo, The fees is almost 4times the normal fees. Omo😅😅
@AsyDarlyn Vlogs Chai!!! Keep your confidence going, my sister! Nothing do you 💕 🌟
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Ohh Asy!!😂😂. Lol, yes o, I'm like you in the sense that I'll withdraw and pretend that you don't exist. But he doesn't sound right in the head. I wouldn't even feel comfortable with him sharing the fridge with me. Because that's crazy, you can't kill me for my mother😂.
I think the thing is that most international students just prefer to stay away from the police, God forbid the police officer that responded to his call was biased. Also, we're sometimes alone, so our support system might be lacking, especially as new students (I'm guessing he knows that you arrived this year). Just like the example you gave using your son. I have a crazy crazy story too😂😂. I also think that most incoming students might be younger, so it's easier to take advantage of them. Especially if they are coming right out of high school.
And okay, I guess forgive, but don't forget and don't get too comfortable and start trusting him. I suggest keeping it cordial and don't share any personal info. Like keep the small talk to 'hi', "nice weather today," and keep it moving 🤣. Don't even ask me about my plans for the summer, cause how does that concern you?😂
He might have toned it down a little, but he has already shown you how far he would go over something so minuscule. So let's not try and trigger his craziness😂. It is well.
I wonder if he knows about your channel.
The gist was sweet, he wanted to see your reaction and lf you are scared he will be bossy in the house.
He should have tried another person🤣🤣 cos he jam rock.
Cotinue as you are Asy, let him write it down and consider replying on paper....as soon as you fold he will bring the dramatics x10. Ignorance doesn't go away overnight. If you accept/tolerate disrespect it will be continuous.
You know me!! Vawulence is the answer for every werey
We Nigerians are loud. You get maybe you can tone it down a bit. I remembered when my hubby club was kinda asked not to come book venue in the hotel they normally use for meeting reason is" the mgt said they are loud" very funny though. Just avoid the guy honestly no more confrontation he might have a gun or even knife. Pls stay safe. I pray he packs out even.
This was hilariously funny! 😅 Na your type fit those people. Next time, he'll think twice before messing with you! I don laugh tire! 😂😂
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Werey wan open eye for investor😅😂😂
Asy, Aries babes no dey carry last. This is what I always say, when you know your rights, no one can bully you. Housemate, work colleague or whoever.
I am glad you stood your ground and refused to leave the kitchen. The fact that he was trying to lay down an assumption that you could become violent later, was out of order and I am glad that the police telephone officer did not fall for that.
You forgive but give him a very long rope, it does not mean he becomes your buddy. You want God’s peace around you at all times, be at peace with all. Not foolish peace o, but peace laced with wisdom.
As for Wike and Tinubu, their train will soon go in different directions. We continue to observe. May has started, 29th soon reach.
We Aries babes rock❤
I like your vibe Asy😃😃
You're a true PH babe😂😂. Please maintain the energy, he doesn't deserve your kindness
Lol I can so relate to this rubbish some roommates dish out. It’s funny because I gave it to this depressed human of a roommate. Being mute or always taking shit isn’t the way. I learnt that today. I was always trying to be respectful but many of them don’t want respect. They are just some bloody bullies and racist.
I give fire for fire! Peace is not always the answer 🤣🤣
One of the reasons I can't share apartment..I can't tolerate nonsense
wahalaux... lol, this is the kind of vibe I love, your story sweet die, if and when I come to Canada, I must make sure I see you.. and you definitely just got a new subscriber... you made my day😂😂😂
Hi asy!!! 🤣🤣🤣 this was quite interesting and I really admire you, because I feel like we’re alike in the sense that I’m also hothead and I can’t tolerate nonesense too .. I’m really impressed at how you put him in his place , God bless u !!!😂
😅😂😂 Amen
Me l support you because those people always think the can take advantage of us especially when the see that you are black and if you don’t speak out they take control of you, well done Asy. Stay blessed 🥰.
Thanks a lot dear
All the letters he is writing is for his evidence to prove a case that he always tries to go the extra mile to make peace even when you ignore him. And in share spaces there is always some level of disagreement so you all should try to respect each other’s space even via noise or voicing
Na why I tear am, silence cannot be misconstrued. Eye witness reports pass letter
Well done Asy. Christianity doesn't mean condoning bad manners..... Ignore him totally. I wouldn't even bother greeting him again, he has his chance. People like that will always be ill-mannered...... As you no fear police him don confuse, mtschwww. Please lock your things in the kitchen.
Asy of Canada 😂😂😂 How did 39 minutes fly so fast. You are too real, you crack me up all the time. Anyway welcome to Canada
😅😂😂 thanks a lot dear
I didn't even notice it's 39mins 😅. Only now that you mention it
Ma'am!!! You're a storyteller! I loveee eeet! Blessings always. Will be watching out for more content.
😂😂 asy you no well oo🤣🤣🤣. Angelaaa stop ittt😂
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Asy😂😂😂😂😂 she say na she dey use penknife waka among the disciples.😂
At this point Asy is the best intro and outro vlogger because what is this busybody intro music🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😂😂 thanks a lot 😁
As in e. She know how to give it us wotowoto. I love this lady. 🤗
He has shown his true colours and let him mind his business. No need for his greeting just waka pass.
True talk Asy.
Exactly my point. People who are who they showed themselves to be, the first time. If it looks like they have changed, check na condition cause am. Mentality never change
Gbam!!! I’ve forgiven but I will not talk to him. Even today him dey greet, Lai Lai, i waka pass.🌚🤣🤣🤣 the guy don weak
Hello Asy😂😂😂 this is my first time on your channel.... And boy I enjoyed the vlog!.... Omo I don subscribe I don on notification button ✅
😂😂😂 I did not talk to it! Kai! Let me balance well and hear this story! 😅😅😅😅
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Omg! You can gist sha😂🙌🙌
Assssyyyyyyyyy!!! 🤣🤣🤣
This gist is too sweet!!! 😩😂
Asy say "no bring that leg" 🤣
This our letter writer! He has to be well o! 😂😂😂
This gist sweet die!!! 😂❤️
#GengGeng! 😎
As paranoid as I am, I would look for another accommodation. I cannot live with someone in a shared space, shared fridge, etc that does not like me. What if they put crazy things in my drink 😂😂😂
As you addressed it early was the solution. Periodtttt
Forgive him but never be friends with him because he has not changed. That's one thing when you living with strangers. Some people are not just accommodating. Just avoid him biko he's not worth your energy
Asy you are my TWIN #Silent treatment. Passive aggressive 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Flee all appearance of evil😂🤣🤣 Im
@@AsyDarlynVlogs AMEEEEEENNNN 🙏 🙏 🤣🤣
Asy, I watched your relocating video and I broke down when you were begging your help to take good care of your son. Why risking your life now? Nigeria is totally different from Canada. Truth be told, you don’t know much about that man you are living with. Meaning you don’t know his medical history as well as psych history. Be careful! You don’t know if that guy has been in jail or even killed before. In United States, a nurse put a nursing assistant that was always on his case on fire.The nurse killed himself the next day. 80 % of the nursing assistant body got burnt. It could have been avoided……..Be careful.
Thank you
Asy keep your foot on the gas💯
Don't give him no chance. Stand your ground. We have those sick toxic manipulated emotionally minded people.
In corporate America that bull is tolerate in the name of inclusion of madness.
Stay your ground. You might be a lesson of relationship and communication for the memory of his life. He is sick
Gbam! Vawulence is the answer for every werey
It was at that moment he knew he had what???😂😂😂 Asy of Canada. Odogwu nah Canada!!
Asy geng geng... 😂😂😂😂😂😂you showed him Naija style. You cracked me up with your story telling.... 😅😅
Straight up!!🤣
Minutes into the story and I'm cracking up 😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂😂, Asy Darlyn, you be too much ooooo. Yes, you did, right
Asy oooooo I feel jare, na wetin sef. Asy can never take last, just calm down jare
The title drew me innnn…😮 Your village people have come ohhh…and this is why I never took shared accommodation because my head nuh correct😅😅😅 This gist sweet me oohhh!!!
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@@AsyDarlynVlogs Asyy Im with you on this matter…u are my mothers sign!
SK = Sri Lanka. It is an Asian and so cannot be Saskatoonian
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 I thought SK meant South Korea? 🤔
Assy you're just a vibe 😂😂😂 Miss you loads snd your gist. This is really interesting😅 kipit up. The okrika geh that i know😂👍
PT!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes ooo!! Thanks a lot 🤗🤗
Pleas dont forgive or looseguard ooo...na him real behavior be that...e go still misbehave. They do that to try to get closer and possibly learn your weak point.
I will advise you do not tear any of his notes to you Asy, keep them safely girl. Also never converse with him and say things like in your life….( not sure or saying you said that).
Secondly, be careful and prayerful and also learn to keep your voice down but at the same time, keep your head up and stand up for yourself appropriately, be prayerful and never tell anyone you are alone when he is there. Just learn to say I am alone but not alone, that’s safer in case of anything. I am proud of you and equally happy that you are strong enough. Well done!!!
Thank you so much for sharing dear, 😂😂, I'm laughing in celebration your boldness and confidence, I'm enjoying this experience and I'm learning a lot also how I would respond if I'm to find find myself in such a situation. Is Honorable Tinibu for me. I love you so much Madam Asy❤❤
I enjoyed this video and I like how you handled your house make.
Thanks a lot dear
Borikiri to the world 💯
Asy ur such a vibe 😘
Oh my God I enjoyed this tory no be small. Ahan I give it to u ,u be ogbonge story teller 🙌🙌🙌 abeg forgive o 😅
😅😂😂😂 I don forgive but make him dey him lane🌚🌚
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Them supposed dey greet us like youth corper 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AsyDarlyn, you’re truly a darling ❤. Welcome to Canada. I hope to see you sometime. I pray you success with your studies.
I love the way you handled the situation.
Geng geng OMG 🤔 🤣🤣🤣🤣 just love too watching you so funny 🤣 🤣❤❤💝 thank God you are fine now be Happy my Sweet Darlyn much love ❤
Geng!! Thanks a lot dear
Asy Asy, You were right 100% right, calling the police and you did not do him anything, what that is saying to me he is not to be trusted and it was offensive. He deserved what he got. I am pretty sure after you were done with him he would not try that again. This was the best jest ever i was glued.
Ohh now I understand all the details from your last video!! Chai! He is clearly not well! You handled that matter very well. Sometimes you just have to show them. The term “you people” Is clear sign he is a racist. You are right that international student support the Canadian economy. There prioritize students because they know it’s money for the country. Team Asy!
We spend so much!! Only one year school fees is proof of funds for family of 3!
A whole investor! Them no reach
@@AsyDarlynVlogs Facts!! Give dem jor! You know your worth and you’re not a small child. 😊🙏🏾
Dey try calm down dear, don’t make noise in the common areas. When u want to talk, you go inside your room to do so. When in common areas, you focus on doing what you’re doing swiftly and leaving the space for others. You cant go and hang out in kitchen or parlor all day and be having phonecalls. Any shared accommodation you go to, you will meet the same rules.
Lastly, avoid drama oh. Na so all of us get strong head wen we fist land. Na experience make we for calm down so. Dey no dey tell person.
What part of the video did I state that I was in the kitchen all day making calls???
😂😂😂😂 Asy you made me laugh so much . I have been a timid person and I most say , nothing good come from it. There is absolutely nothing better then cutting bullshit off from the very beginning.
Cut it off early!! Very important
Asy .. why do I have this feeling that you'll change the narratives in Canada about nigerians.get equip and do the needful. God deh your side. This abinos deh over do too much. Salutation is not love. Make him mind him business. Perioddd.
I be your Eleme sister. Ride oonnnn gehhhhh
Asy, I don laugh trye. Lol. Thank you so much for this gist oo. It's important to stand for you believe.
Gbam! People will take as much as you’re willing to give. When you stand up and say no, they’d adjust
I had to subscribe to your channel 🤣🤣
We don’t condone bad behavior in the name of mental health abeg. No be so we dey do for here🤣😏😏
Ha! Say maximum respect for how you train this young man.
Straight up📌
Since he is always calling tge cops, pls take snapshots of his apology notes before shredding them. If you notice he is about to make trouble, do a recording.
Above all, forgive and show him God’s love.
I lived in Canada for five years with lots of white people as my neighbors. They were so kind to my family. One of them used to clear our snow in winter for free. I have never really experienced r#cism here, and it’s good you’re not tolerating it. Those of them who have a stereotypical impression of us immigrants are usually the ignorant and less exposed ones.
You will meet some very amazing people there.
Forgive but make sure you keep your boundaries. I pray you receive wisdom from above on how best to address this issue
Take care he does not poison your food in the fridge.
Put CCTV in the kitchen. First , bring it to everyone attention for an agreement of installing CCTV in the kitchen
Hello Asy, I enjoy ur space a lot. As for me, I join u in staying on ur lane for now bcos some people aren’t just worth the hassle ❤️
Why I'm I just seeing this video😂. Very lovely.
Asy you gave him on a 💯,don't mind him he wanted to start bullying you,I am sure now he knows better
I think you dealt with the situation confidently Asy.
Thanks for making this videos so we all could find a way around such person should there ever be any in the future.