NUSWhispers: Getting Friend Zoned After Peer Evaluation?! | ZULA Answers | EP 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
- In this episode of Ask ZULA, Brenda and Fauzi react to anonymous posts from NUS Whispers and NTU Confessions about love confessions and the duo attempt to give these anons some advice.
Here are the timestamps of the topics covered during the episode:
0:00 - Intro
1:07 - Confession 1: Peer evaluation user
5:20 - Confession 2: Approaching girls on campus
10:03 - Confession 3: Is it creepy or sweet to confess using a letter?
16:50 - Confession 4: Maskfishing
24:20 - Conclusion
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Have you submitted your own confession on any of these forums before? Or do you have any advice for these anonymous souls? Share down below :)
Yes but I submitted confessions to scold people for misusing toilet bowls.
Not yet, but here comes my own confession to Fauzi: "WOW! Not knowing you has CHANGED MY LIFE! My entire direction in life eh!"
Fauzi is a good listener
More of brenda and fauzi pls, they vibe good and make valid points. Plus brenda asks questions well to get the other person talking, can see her being a host!
This should definitely be a series, Brenda and Fauzi have great chemistry and would love to watch more of their discussions!
Yess’!
for approaching someone while that person is studying, u can slip her a note that compliments her eg "hey! u look really cute! if you are free, do u wanna grab lunch after ure done?" or u can even buy her a can of drink and put a post it with a compliment and your insta handle! notes are really cute, simple and easy ways to hit someone up, and requires lesser courage then having to carry a conversation esp when u have to keep in mind what to say and what to not say.
Bruh let’s be real. If someone claims to have “feelings” without having spoken to the other person at all, that person’s feelings just be raging hormones…
Never judge a book by its cover, but ain’t nobody gonna pick up a book with an unattractive cover.
Lol truth
sad truth of society
Ironic saying hahahah
I like brenda's views! she shows empathy towards both sides in the confessions :)
"I like your outfit today" immediately gets slapped. "How many days have u stalked me "
Haha indeed, just leave out the "today".
Awww Brenda is so sensitive and considerate ♥️, i think she’ll fit Zula’s concept nicely
I think when it comes to "personality over looks" it is a multiplied score? So like a 5 in looks and 8 in personality beats 6 in looks and 6 in personality but then if looks is 1 then... abit hard to score. Ofc, scores are subjective also so a 1 to someone is a 9 to someone else maybe
moral of the story: always have low expectations so you won't be disappointed
Hahaha Fauzi’s “tolong” 😂😂😂 almost burst out laughing in the MRT
reacting to just 3 confessions isnt enough. please do more!
Fauzi brings the entertainment and sass while Brenda brings the compassion and kindness. Such a good pairing for this series!
I enjoyed this!! More pls on confessions and with brenda and fauzi! Amazing views and they vibe so well
Kudos to the editor who had to adjust the audio volume levels between Brenda and Fauzi! Loving the vibes between both of them too!
Both of you have a great chemistry. It’s very obvious that you both can get along very well. I enjoyed this episode because of you both. 👍
Man I love the way these two vibe so well together
Yo we need more of this. Thank you TSL!
On confession #4, i feel that wearing a mask gives your personality a chance to shine. When the other party likes your personality, you can still at least be friends or even better, get together. But looks still matters of course lol.
Love this video! So interesting 😆
We need a Fauzi and Brenda podcast series!
more of this duo please!
Y’all can do a podcast this sounds like one and I love it!!
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“one for one-night stand, one for marriage” … good advice fauzi i shall take that into consideration ◡̈
NAHHH I’M JOKING
Fauzi's laugh HAHAHAHA i can't help but laugh too
These sessions need to be longer!👏🏻🤣
16:50 Story was super interesting! Thanks for sharing
loved this pairing, esp fauzi.... speaking the truth!
More of these videos :-) quite fun to hear their ops and views on it
Here for my two bb’s ❤️
Love you bb!
I love Fauzi's reactions! His laugh is so contagious!
died laughing when fauzi says ‘tolong’
I LOVE BRENDAAA
How's the office politics at TSL? Do subordinates work extra hard just before performance evaluations? Do managers show favoritism amongst their subordinates? How are projects dished out? Is it a volunteer approach or kena arrow approach?
love the pairing! maybe try renee and amanda next? they're super funny Haha
ohno confession 3 has brought back my embarrassing secondary crush flashbacks. I was also similar to the shy guy, we had a mutual friend and I would always try to give him things he liked through the mutual friend. I also wrote about him on Wattpad and literally the entire school read it including him :'>
I kinda thought of myself as creepy since I've also never spoken to him before? Ultimately I think people should try to be friends with their crush first, without the intention of them getting together. I realised my "crush" was just infatuation and I was just obsessed with the idea of him, and not the real him.
Underrated comment
Fauzi nails be looking fabulous 😊💜
very!! valid!! points!!
Hate it when people say “grow some balls.., or suck it up...”.. can you be more encouraging and say something like “take the chance, or pick up the courage, or give it a shot”..
Fauzi can u not be so funny bruhhh it's 2am and I'm howling frr
Fauzi's comments are so funny 😂😂 may we propose to have Brenda and Zhin in one ep.. they are so cute tgth in The Algorithm 😂
Love their chemistry! And Brenda is so chio hahaha
Should have a series of this by Brenda and Fauzi. Helpful advices
The chemistry between Fau and Brenda is amazing.
It’s always sweet when the guy is good looking and creepy when the guy isn’t the girls cup of tea.😂
I have an important question. If all these are done by a girl, will it still be creepy or weird?
oo interesting confessions here! i have to say tho that the creepy vs sweet dilemma guy makes me think of mr darcy from pride and prejudice! he seems misunderstood and tbh kudos to him for sharing what possibly is very difficult to do (sharing his vulnerabilities)! i hope he'll find his match in time, whether or not it is anon who submitted her story! and mutual friend wydddddd HHAHAHA
fauzi is so hilarious 🤣🤣
Both of Brenda and Fauzi's jacket are awesome.. cool 90's trend jacket
I see Brenda’s pink bunny, I clicked LIKE.
Anyway I agree with the “being shallow” part, welcome to the real world. Don’t act bergin…😂
IM EARLYYY!! PROUDDD ASF AHAHAH
Confession 3 is just sweet. Im also been in the same boat with that guy before and actually i got married to that girl now. But as she considers that letter sweet, i have to come up with that letter every occassion now.
Maybe the last one just care a lot more than average about health and don't want expose his date to covid while drinking.
Never completely trust your mutual friend's feedback that he is a nice guy. Haiz, had to learn it the stupid and hard way.
these people should watch Too hot to handle or Love island. #period LOL
the way he laughs hahahahahahahhahahahahaha
BRENDA IS A TERRIFIC HOST!! Was captivated throughout the entire video!
The mask problem has deceived me so many times 😂
it says brendatyj instead of tjy at the start haha
ask the mutual friend to bring the guy along to meet !
I write letters
no one is really responsible for the other persons feelings at the end of the day, honesty and bluntness is much better than u know... lacking it
Many fish in the sea😂
brenda can setup dating agency le
How not to come across as creepy - just be good looking. Haha
Brenda is chio why wont anyone date her
Depends on her what haha
I think she just hasnt found anyone yet which is completely fine (:
Likely the question should be why she wont date anyone.
wah brenda expert eh. and fauzi, sorreh i no balls :(
mask on, mask off
Fauzi one confirm small.... Look at his face
Hahahaha she doesn’t think his a stalker. It’s either his not a stalker, his a stalker but she oblivious lv 100 or he ninja lv 100.
Jora nem ic like my dog
Many simps and blue pilled men in SIngapore too
🤣🤣😂
The last one is a bitch, lets not sugarcoat it.
If it’s an Asian man approaching me I would be talking even tho I am a very shy person
Oh that happened too with my first Malay boyfriend back in college and he always likes buying and giving me cute things and he also knows what I like to eat. He would get anything what I like. And I also still have his cute teddy bears here.