It’s A LOT easier to be feminine towards men who are well off financially. I once dated a guy who didn’t drive, still lived with his mom, & was making minimum wage. I grew a beard that year!! I felt so masculine and stop caring for my looks because that’s the role I was forced into. Then I got into a relationship where the guy was a hard worker, protective & all of the above! It caused me to be soft, glowy, caring, & all my feminine features came to fruition. Your looks is one thing, but the man you pick plays a big role!
I learned to LOOK for FEMININE women thru watching Shera..........she is right ....femininity is Power ..I didn't know that a cursing woman wasn't feminine , or a woman who over talks , or a woman who argues ....I thought it meant strength but I realize there is STRENGTH in just being ...feminine...a feminine woman can get whatever she wants out of me...
When I first met my husband he said he got me.I started talking about how I needed $ for my rent.He paid it and kept on talking about he got me.11yrs later he still got me and he takes good care of me.A plus is I'm such a girlie,girl.I stay put together everyday.He pays all the bills and gives me money.🥰🤩😍💝💎💃👑💘
@@snoodysnoody8118 I moved into his neighborhood.I was just getting out of a 13yr toxic relationship.I was a alcoholic a whole selfish mess.On the outside I was put together on the inside I was a broken soul.He courted me for 3 months befor I gave him the time of day.I finally gave in it's like he saved me.He was different then any man I've ever dated.From the beginning he took charge and took care of me.We married 6 months later. Throughout our life together I slowly began to value myself as the true queen that I was born to be.I got alot of therapy and I began to heal myself from the inside.Yes,I am lucky to have him.Together were lucky to have each other.As much as he changed my life I have changed his life.He did come with baggage of his own.We worked through it and I must say today were in a much better place.I have been sober for 3yrs now.We just moved into our first home we just celebrated our 11year Anniversary.Life is really good and were truly blessed.My only advice would be as long as you keep working on yourself that good man would find you.Best of luck & thank you for listening.🤗🌹💃🙏💘💝💞👑💎Sending you lots of love & blessings.
Alebra Smith wow I’m so happy for u. Sometimes after so much bs, us ladies feel like we can’t do any better. I’m so happy that your man showed up and showed OUT 💯🌹💋🥂
A decade ago, a 26 year old almost broke girl married my 28 year old cousin, he was a new doctor then and was well paid, now he's 38 and very wealthy, and he's still with her. She never works coz he provides for her, and respects her too.. They have 3 kids together. She's a housewife because her husband has a lucrative career, yall know how much doctors earn, he's a surgeon too. Btw that girl didn't have to marry an oldie. She married from her age group, and my cousin is handsome too and looks a bit better than her, she is a 6.5 and not even an 8 or 9 when it comes to looks. . So this theory that you have to find an oldie if you want to marry a rich dude is still a theory. Though I do agree with Shera that older men can value a younger woman more.
@Ricki B. That's not true and don't generalize. There are men out there who prefer to be with a woman in their own age group even as they age. Not every older man leaves his wife for a younger woman. Yeah sure they may look at the younger woman, but won't leave his wife for her. Heck, you got older women who take better care of themselves than many younger women. With the obesity epidemic hitting the younger age, there are more fat girls in their 20s today than there were 10-20 years ago.
@Ricki B. Maybe during their 50s he will cheat on her for younger women but wait, if she married a 50 something man in her twenties, he would already be dead when she reached her 50s 😜 just saying. Btw I am a Shera's fan, was just presenting a different perspective.
Interesting, I tried acting very feminine and angelic and while I was turning heads, it's easy to come off as immature or desperate. Now I'm not trying to act anymore, I have the full ice queen mega b*tch thing going on, not even trying to hide my contept towards men and they are all bending over backwards to get my attention... I don't do drama, not only with men, but in my head either. I keep my legs and my heart closed.
Here’s a funny ‘trick’. Wear hosiery. You’d be surprised how enamored a lot of men get when a woman is dressed well with tights/pantyhose on.....even if casual with sneakers on. Full attention lol.
Agreed, although I personally don’t like “old lady” style pantyhose but do love to wear sexy tights, fishnets & thigh highs under a sexy-classy dress. And you’re right, men *love* it.
I have 27 years old and I started to work only with 25 and all the job was high salaries only to do simple stuffs like answering calls and whatever... I have a friend that has 20 years old and she started working with 15 and get pregnant at 17. People think I have 19 years old and she 32 Work hard as a woman make you age faster... Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷 love you 😘
Yesterday you were asking for ideas for a video and I personally think you are an amazing crafty thinker and I would love to see more videos on strategies! I'm pretty quick with the tongue myself but you supersede Me by far LOL! Please a video on strategies! Appreciate you and by strategies I also mean responses you're very good at that!
It seems like the less I watch my auntie the more unexpectedly I merge back into my old ways. Please ladies keep tabs on her. You’ll be glad you did. You definitely don’t wanna slack on these type of things trust me, I haven’t watched her for about 2 weeks and some change and I’ve notice some of my old ways coming back, running to my dude with my problems emotionally and etc etc I can go on and on Erykah Badu down the list but trust me it’s worth sticking on to what she says versus slacking. Thankfully I was able to catch myself in time before I even emotionally or even thought about becoming vulnerable towards him. And the thought of me being vulnerable towards him was like foreign to me. I knew it wasn’t right so I instantly change the subject and snapped out of it. So no matter what you do keep your composure, if you have any female friends or even a journal to vent towards versus him would be your best bet unless it benefits you in the long run if necessary. These men don’t care what we go through and we should keep that same energy as well. All I’m saying is don’t let them see you sweat unless your working out in a gym as a exception.
I hear ya 100%!!!!! The wealthy older man I’m dating now seems like he’s begging me to be more vulnerable and open with my emotions, I’m so confused now tbh. 🤦🏽♀️
Mackaroni Toni like Shera said they want us to slack so they can see us slackin, I wish I had more girlfriends to talk to so I can not ever think twice going to my dude about it and potentially have it thrown back in my face eventually not saying it’ll happen but still
Very True .. Some Women produces more Testosterone than Estrogen.. I am glad that my Puerto Rican wife is total Feminine, Graceful, well Mannered and soft spoken.. Though she has her old School South Bronx side too.. If deliberately provoked.. But to the ladies that are not Feminine.. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and all above so called temporary beauty and look is Cleanliness, Honesty, Good Grace, General awareness, Independent and self reliant habit and Good Manners.. Ghettoes cannot become a Lady.. So be it the Feminine ones or the more on Masculine side womens..
Any advice for dealing with black/Caribbean men who unknowingly WANT their women to act masculine? I find some a lot of them want a 'strong black women'
Shera was just watching your old videos and honestly you just get even more HOT ! Was gonna ask you if I go to a gym am I likely to bump into a man of means/ and also is it a good idea to meet one in the gyms since the whole being feminine thing as women these days do weights etc to tone up? May be a masculine thing? I dunno just wanted your input x
It's my first time coming across your channel. I find your delivery interesting and corny in away. But I really enjoyed listening to you. We, women, are the business. It's so smart for you to say. By the way, I just subscribed! #NewSubie
I Ain't !! ....lololol yes I could be. I am 3/4 feminine and 1/4 Tom boy. I do not like wearing stilettos. I like being relaxed w loose clothes. I do wear tight clothes SOMETIMES. I wear what I like and I don't care what men want. If they want other 😭 then 😭😭😭😭😍😍😍😍 I just may be an alien.
I THINK WE ARE ALL ANGRY N0W Y0U HAVE T0 WHAT THEY SAY 6 FT APT Y0U REALLY CAN,T TALK T0 ANY ...0R HUG ANY 0NE EVERY...0NE IS AFARID 0F GETTING C0R0NAVIRUS....EVEN ME N0 0NE WANT,S T0 TALK T0..Y0U.. I WENT T0 THE GYM AND IT SEEM T0 ME EVEN THERE THEY SEEM MEAN..BUT. THIS IS ALL NEW T0 EVERY..0NE..I THINK THIS HARDER..0N W0MEN..M0RE THAN..BUT IT ALL NEW T0...MEN AS WELL.. I THINK...C0R0NAVIVUS.. HAS EVERY..0NE ALL MESSED..UP... WE ARE ALL HERE T0 RECIVE LOVE 0N EARTH ..AND GIVE L0VE.. AS HUMAM..BEING THAT,S WHAT WE HERE T0..D0 S0 N0W..THAT,S BEEN TAKEN..A WAY FR0M US..S0 C0ULD Y0U N0T BE.. ANGRY...Y0U CAN..N0 REACH 0UT AND T0UTCH S0ME..0NE WE ALL MISSING THAT. I KN0W MY SELF..I FEEL..A LITTLE STRESS..A HUG RIGHT N0W W0ULD BE S0 G00D F0R MY S0UL.. THE HEALTH..DEPT..T0LD ME N0T T0 BE HUGING ANY0NE.. S0..MANY THING,S Y0U CAN N0T D0.. I HAVE,T DATED IN S0 L0NG BECAUSE..I DID,T WANT T0 N0W I WANT AND WE CAN,T..😣😣😣 MAY G0D WATCH 0VER ALL US ..THiS C0R0NVIRUS...TIME.. I PRAY WE CAN GET T
It’s A LOT easier to be feminine towards men who are well off financially. I once dated a guy who didn’t drive, still lived with his mom, & was making minimum wage. I grew a beard that year!! I felt so masculine and stop caring for my looks because that’s the role I was forced into. Then I got into a relationship where the guy was a hard worker, protective & all of the above! It caused me to be soft, glowy, caring, & all my feminine features came to fruition. Your looks is one thing, but the man you pick plays a big role!
Giana Becker I totally agree it comes natural to women when the man is actually masculine.
💝🔥
💯💯💯
Giana Becker lol at “I grew a beard that year” 🧔 lmao 😂 I am dying from this totally agree babe. Love masculine men
@Gianna Baker 🎅😂😂
When he makes you mad,go no contact. Let him come to you. Some men love to argue. Let him make it up to you.
@Souad Boukioud Made same exact mistake. Felt sorry for the rat because he pretended to be semi-suicidal.
@@empressqi1722 I just send the suicide hotline phone number and links to a hotline bc that's too much emotional stress 🙄
I learned to LOOK for FEMININE women thru watching Shera..........she is right ....femininity is Power ..I didn't know that a cursing woman wasn't feminine , or a woman who over talks , or a woman who argues ....I thought it meant strength but I realize there is STRENGTH in just being ...feminine...a feminine woman can get whatever she wants out of me...
😇
Femininity in a woman is powerful but so is masculinity in a man 🤗
When I first met my husband he said he got me.I started talking about how I needed $ for my rent.He paid it and kept on talking about he got me.11yrs later he still got me and he takes good care of me.A plus is I'm such a girlie,girl.I stay put together everyday.He pays all the bills and gives me money.🥰🤩😍💝💎💃👑💘
How did you two meet and do you have any tips on attracting this type ? You are lucky to have him.
@@snoodysnoody8118 I moved into his neighborhood.I was just getting out of a 13yr toxic relationship.I was a alcoholic a whole selfish mess.On the outside I was put together on the inside I was a broken soul.He courted me for 3 months befor I gave him the time of day.I finally gave in it's like he saved me.He was different then any man I've ever dated.From the beginning he took charge and took care of me.We married 6 months later. Throughout our life together I slowly began to value myself as the true queen that I was born to be.I got alot of therapy and I began to heal myself from the inside.Yes,I am lucky to have him.Together were lucky to have each other.As much as he changed my life I have changed his life.He did come with baggage of his own.We worked through it and I must say today were in a much better place.I have been sober for 3yrs now.We just moved into our first home we just celebrated our 11year Anniversary.Life is really good and were truly blessed.My only advice would be as long as you keep working on yourself that good man would find you.Best of luck & thank you for listening.🤗🌹💃🙏💘💝💞👑💎Sending you lots of love & blessings.
Alebra Smith wow I’m so happy for u. Sometimes after so much bs, us ladies feel like we can’t do any better. I’m so happy that your man showed up and showed OUT 💯🌹💋🥂
@@alebrasmith-cooper5250 thank for sharing your inspirational life story . This is so motivating .
@@snoodysnoody8118 You are so very welcome.Stay blessed and good luck in whatever you do.💘💖🙏🌹💞👑💃
True crying work. I never argue I cry and leave the room and he comes running after me.
My man told me he runs behind me when I cry because he doesn't want the neighbors to think he is beating on me.😂🤣
Choco Kat lmao I am so weak
I wish I had your advice twelve years ago! I was with a feminine man and couldn’t recognize it until it was too late!
A decade ago, a 26 year old almost broke girl married my 28 year old cousin, he was a new doctor then and was well paid, now he's 38 and very wealthy, and he's still with her. She never works coz he provides for her, and respects her too.. They have 3 kids together. She's a housewife because her husband has a lucrative career, yall know how much doctors earn, he's a surgeon too. Btw that girl didn't have to marry an oldie. She married from her age group, and my cousin is handsome too and looks a bit better than her, she is a 6.5 and not even an 8 or 9 when it comes to looks. . So this theory that you have to find an oldie if you want to marry a rich dude is still a theory. Though I do agree with Shera that older men can value a younger woman more.
@@ScientificAnomalies876 OK makes sense
That's the exception
@Ricki B. That's not true and don't generalize. There are men out there who prefer to be with a woman in their own age group even as they age. Not every older man leaves his wife for a younger woman. Yeah sure they may look at the younger woman, but won't leave his wife for her. Heck, you got older women who take better care of themselves than many younger women. With the obesity epidemic hitting the younger age, there are more fat girls in their 20s today than there were 10-20 years ago.
@Ricki B. Maybe during their 50s he will cheat on her for younger women but wait, if she married a 50 something man in her twenties, he would already be dead when she reached her 50s 😜 just saying. Btw I am a Shera's fan, was just presenting a different perspective.
@Ricki B. hahahah speak the word, maybe he is hooking up with the new young nurse 🤣 .
You’re getting so slimmmmm. And why do you seem to be getting more beautiful and younger looking with each new video?
She' s taking care of herself !🔥
💙👏🏽🎰
No work stress.
it's more than that
It the fake hair, eyelashes and ton of makeup.
Interesting, I tried acting very feminine and angelic and while I was turning heads, it's easy to come off as immature or desperate. Now I'm not trying to act anymore, I have the full ice queen mega b*tch thing going on, not even trying to hide my contept towards men and they are all bending over backwards to get my attention... I don't do drama, not only with men, but in my head either. I keep my legs and my heart closed.
This comment speaks to me
This is still feminine. It’s your authentic self.
They are both feminine. It’s 2 sides of the same coin. Light femininity vs Dark femininity.
Have to be willing to change to get what you want in life .
Here’s a funny ‘trick’. Wear hosiery. You’d be surprised how enamored a lot of men get when a woman is dressed well with tights/pantyhose on.....even if casual with sneakers on. Full attention lol.
Hi Shera ! You’re looking beautiful!!
Jealous women will vindictively target you. Especially the old ladies all dried up and salty
Mia Mitten can it be black pantyhose or black hoisery that comes up to your knees while wearing a skirt ?
Thanks
Agreed, although I personally don’t like “old lady” style pantyhose but do love to wear sexy tights, fishnets & thigh highs under a sexy-classy dress. And you’re right, men *love* it.
Both of you must be vindictively jealous old women. Tell me -- how are the hot flashes, hot pants?
You all are going to the board meetings trying to compete for business, when you are the business. Now that's a word. Wow!!
Missed it - but no worries.... Anyone else like even before watching...you know it's gonna be facts ☺️💞💌
SheRa looking better than women half her age
Arrogant and generous I like men like that.
U like men being arrogant. Whatever.
U like arrogant men..wow.
Shera, you're looking better than ever 😍
People seem to comment more on her looks than what the subject of the video, wonder why is that
Too superficial
I have 27 years old and I started to work only with 25 and all the job was high salaries only to do simple stuffs like answering calls and whatever...
I have a friend that has 20 years old and she started working with 15 and get pregnant at 17. People think I have 19 years old and she 32
Work hard as a woman make you age faster...
Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷 love you 😘
What do you do for a living?
I really want a lighter job
I love how Shera plugs her subs businesses! 💞🔥
I love the glossy red lipstick
Thank you for being such an inspiration! I take notes in your classroom and use them every day!
Yesterday you were asking for ideas for a video and I personally think you are an amazing crafty thinker and I would love to see more videos on strategies! I'm pretty quick with the tongue myself but you supersede Me by far LOL! Please a video on strategies! Appreciate you and by strategies I also mean responses you're very good at that!
My house could never be a mess honey !
Love this
SheRaSeven looks so pretty!
It seems like the less I watch my auntie the more unexpectedly I merge back into my old ways. Please ladies keep tabs on her. You’ll be glad you did. You definitely don’t wanna slack on these type of things trust me, I haven’t watched her for about 2 weeks and some change and I’ve notice some of my old ways coming back, running to my dude with my problems emotionally and etc etc I can go on and on Erykah Badu down the list but trust me it’s worth sticking on to what she says versus slacking. Thankfully I was able to catch myself in time before I even emotionally or even thought about becoming vulnerable towards him. And the thought of me being vulnerable towards him was like foreign to me. I knew it wasn’t right so I instantly change the subject and snapped out of it. So no matter what you do keep your composure, if you have any female friends or even a journal to vent towards versus him would be your best bet unless it benefits you in the long run if necessary. These men don’t care what we go through and we should keep that same energy as well. All I’m saying is don’t let them see you sweat unless your working out in a gym as a exception.
I hear ya 100%!!!!! The wealthy older man I’m dating now seems like he’s begging me to be more vulnerable and open with my emotions, I’m so confused now tbh. 🤦🏽♀️
Mackaroni Toni like Shera said they want us to slack so they can see us slackin, I wish I had more girlfriends to talk to so I can not ever think twice going to my dude about it and potentially have it thrown back in my face eventually not saying it’ll happen but still
Mackaroni Toni how did you meet him ?
Hairbliss Uk Dating app lol
Mackaroni Toni go girl 🥳
Love the hair ! 😍
Shera you continue to glo UP!!!
You look so beautiful Shera!!!
Hi Shera!! Looking beautiful as always!😊
Duh..
It's alot of manly chicks out there
I wonder if Shera knows how beautiful she really is?
Thank you for spitting facts
Very True .. Some Women produces more Testosterone than Estrogen.. I am glad that my Puerto Rican wife is total Feminine, Graceful, well Mannered and soft spoken.. Though she has her old School South Bronx side too.. If deliberately provoked.. But to the ladies that are not Feminine.. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and all above so called temporary beauty and look is Cleanliness, Honesty, Good Grace, General awareness, Independent and self reliant habit and Good Manners.. Ghettoes cannot become a Lady.. So be it the Feminine ones or the more on Masculine side womens..
You look fabulous 😍
You look so cute Shera7. Much love to you the, babies and the fam x
Ladies clean your ears and listen! 👂
Any advice for dealing with black/Caribbean men who unknowingly WANT their women to act masculine? I find some a lot of them want a 'strong black women'
Go where you are wanted
Omg you’re so pretty in this video so lady like !!! 😍😍😍😍❤️💜🧡💛💙
Love ya doll!!
I needed this video ♥️
Emotional is fem not masculine
This title is true.
In at the 88th comment! Much love to everyone. Thank you for the jewels Sista SheRa 💎
"Get you a whiting kit and a bandaid" 😂😂😂😂😂 #priceless!
She's crazy!
Wow the hair is nice
Beautiful!👌😚❤❤❤
What a stunner girrrrrl ❤
Your blouse is beautiful :) may I ask where I can find a similar one? 🙈
I havent been getting the live notifications lately :(
Righht
YT dont want her to win lol
Suuuuuch a Pisces i love it 🤣🤣🤣
So pretty ❤❤❤
Oh hi there 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽
Looking like Beyoncé 😍😍😍🤩
She doesn't look like beyonce..
That bad queen
She's so bad, it's good
Shera was just watching your old videos and honestly you just get even more HOT !
Was gonna ask you if I go to a gym am I likely to bump into a man of means/ and also is it a good idea to meet one in the gyms since the whole being feminine thing as women these days do weights etc to tone up? May be a masculine thing? I dunno just wanted your input x
It's my first time coming across your channel. I find your delivery interesting and corny in away. But I really enjoyed listening to you. We, women, are the business. It's so smart for you to say. By the way, I just subscribed! #NewSubie
real talk listen He teaches opposite of Ashera....that men are the prize and women should bring something to the table.
Erm why are you looking younger with every video lol age becomes you my dear 😘😍
Hahahahhahahaha! SheRa7 u does kill me wii! I love you girl! You hv taught me a lot! SprinkleSprinkle! ❤️💋😘🤭🤭
I Ain't !! ....lololol yes I could be. I am 3/4 feminine and 1/4 Tom boy.
I do not like wearing stilettos.
I like being relaxed w loose clothes. I do wear tight clothes SOMETIMES. I wear what I like and I don't care what men want. If they want other 😭 then 😭😭😭😭😍😍😍😍
I just may be an alien.
How do I start the level up group
💯🔥
Why is everyone so angry???
I THINK WE ARE ALL ANGRY N0W Y0U HAVE T0 WHAT THEY SAY 6 FT APT Y0U REALLY CAN,T TALK T0 ANY ...0R HUG ANY 0NE EVERY...0NE IS AFARID 0F GETTING C0R0NAVIRUS....EVEN ME N0 0NE WANT,S T0 TALK T0..Y0U.. I WENT T0 THE GYM AND IT SEEM T0 ME EVEN THERE THEY SEEM MEAN..BUT. THIS IS ALL NEW T0 EVERY..0NE..I THINK THIS HARDER..0N W0MEN..M0RE THAN..BUT IT ALL NEW T0...MEN AS WELL.. I THINK...C0R0NAVIVUS.. HAS EVERY..0NE ALL MESSED..UP... WE ARE ALL HERE T0 RECIVE LOVE 0N EARTH ..AND GIVE L0VE.. AS HUMAM..BEING THAT,S WHAT WE HERE T0..D0 S0 N0W..THAT,S BEEN TAKEN..A WAY FR0M US..S0 C0ULD Y0U N0T BE.. ANGRY...Y0U CAN..N0 REACH 0UT AND T0UTCH S0ME..0NE WE ALL MISSING THAT. I KN0W MY SELF..I FEEL..A LITTLE STRESS..A HUG RIGHT N0W W0ULD BE S0 G00D F0R MY S0UL.. THE HEALTH..DEPT..T0LD ME N0T T0 BE HUGING ANY0NE.. S0..MANY THING,S Y0U CAN N0T D0.. I HAVE,T DATED IN S0 L0NG BECAUSE..I DID,T WANT T0 N0W I WANT AND WE CAN,T..😣😣😣 MAY G0D WATCH 0VER ALL US ..THiS C0R0NVIRUS...TIME.. I PRAY WE CAN GET T
WE GET T0 BEING HAPPY AGAIN....😣 I SENT THE TEX T0 S00N S0RRY...
Make up nice
¿How is you this day?
Your eyes are getting blacker and more opaque
I took a small break Shera but im back lol