Exactly. I prefer not dating men with mommy issues either because they usually end up finding an older woman to attach themselves to and then she gets in the middle of the relationship even if it's not his biological mother. He'll be out there looking for one and it's either going to be you or somebody else and neither one is healthy.
My mother-in-law once offered me $20,000 for my then 8-month-old son . And then a few days later told both my husband and i that she could take our son and disappear and no one would ever find her. needless to say we moved away
notice the son did not say I will not go on the dating site because I love my wife but rather there were people from my church there....what a stupide guy
Yup My Mom didn't see me or my kids 3 months. My MIL didn't see us 3 years. She stood in my kitchen and said none of our 3 daughters looked like her son and none of them looked like each other. I was cooking Easter dinner w no help and cooking all HER favorites. I spun away from her and just kept cooking. When they left to go back to GA and I told my husband what she said he confronted her and she said she didn't mean it that way. How else do you mean saying that? She couldn't say how she meant it.
not in all cases. It really depends on the spouse. As long as the spouse fully protects him/her. Cut the parent off if need be. not allowing the parent to disrespect them. The first guest mark is terrible!!! He stands by all his mom’s bs and plays victim. His wife needs to get a job and leave.
You are so right. I remember telling my coworker that years ago as she'd go on & on about her DIL. After a bit DIL had it & my coworker hasnt seen her grandkids in about 5 years now. Seriously take head. I felt a power shift when i had my baby myself.. almost cut my own MIL out completely. If your not a safe person to me, why would i let you around my baby
You do not have to have a relationship with the children’s mother to have one with your grandchildren. They’re still your son’s children as well. Don’t accept poor behavior from anyone male or female
@@sunnyday4055not a pawn, protection, I went through it with my MIL and got to the point where I wouldn’t allow her to be alone with my kids, she would say whatever she liked about me to the kids.
I think she really does have a mental problem maybe early onset dementia or something. She speaks a lot like a lady I care for who has dementia except she's 98.
My mother in law accused me of cradle snatching her son, faking going to uni when I was studying, wasn't a registered nurse & that he had to choose between us. We walked away 30 years ago & she died a lonely old woman
He needs therapy, he’s the golden child in a narcissistic family structure. It’s better to live on a friends couch than under that woman’s thumb. He needs to get far away from her and get the help he needs. He can do it, it is possible, but he has to want it. If he doesn’t, his crazy mommy dearest will ruin everything and he’ll die alone
@@lucygreen5101 I have a Cousin who THINKS like these mothers with her 2 adult sons and I’ve told her she is WRONG and she just says “I AM THEIR MOTHER!!” I’m like “YES BUT THEY ARE GROWN MEN NOT LITTLE BOYS!! GET HELP!!!” She refuses to LET THEM GO & BE HUSBANDS! SMH
@@lucygreen5101 Hoodoo and voodoo, 666, genital injections. She is crazy using biblical and non biblical terms. She is crazy and embarrassing. Her son is trying to distance himself from her . She is so unaware and blaming others for that.
The first mother-in-law will never be ok with anyone her son chooses because she doesn't want anyone else in his life. The wife should leave her husband because he'll always choose his mother over her.
Apparently, Mark and Rheta eventually divorced. Rheta eventually remarried. Mark remarried, had more children, and tragically passed away in recent years from a drug overdose. Rheta’s daughter made a comment on a clip from the episode many years ago saying she is a good mom and that Deb is a crackhead. Rheta (Melvin is her last name) was charged with raping a teenage boy. I feel so horrible for their daughters.
A good Christian mother would support her son's marriage. All marriages go through rocky times, especially when small children are in the house. This behavior is disgusting.
I have two sons & I know I’m second on my sons list which it should be. My son hadn’t been married very long when he called & started telling me what she was doing. I told him I didn’t marry her he did & im not getting in the middle. They’ve been married over 30 years.
Single is great, but sometimes you get lucky enough to love your in-laws . My son’s wife’s family was a much loved added addition! Just be choosy my friend you are worth it!
Of course the second husband says he feels terrible that his wife has to deal with his mother but she shouldn't have to deal with it at all. He should be between her and the mother or that relationship should be completely cut off.
No marriage or relationship is flawless; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@@susanhoag1869 not always, do you watch dissections of interrogations? If not I highly recommend it, it's fascinating. It's fairly consistent across the board that your mouth says one thing while your body does another when you're lying. Unless you're aware of it, you can't stop it. It's a subconscious action.
@@JamilaMusa-xz6ssbecause there was only one black mother. The others were white. Was she not black? Was she not a black mother? They’re all equally 🦇 💩 🤡. Maybe you should do better and not be so triggered by a simple distinction.
The last couple on this episode are truly kind loving people. They don't deserve the treatment from his mother. And honestly they are very gracious with the way they treat her because oh my gosh I don't know that I could be so kind.
I had one of the best mother-in-laws as well. We were a young couple and she taught me so much about baking and decorating cakes, tried to teach me to sew, etc. Just a wonderful creative spirit. Seeing these on Dr. Phil made me even more grateful.
My Wife's Mother loves using the words "Yes, BUT" to everything we say. When our counsellor asked her to respond WITHOUT using the word "But", she now says "That may be true, HOWEVER"....
It sounds like you and your wife have identified that she's a problem... With the constant 'but's' and 'however's' it's apparently obvious that she won't take any responsibility for her words and actions. I can't fathom trying to ruin my child's relationship/life. Even if our kids make a mistake, it's our job as parents to support them and if things go to shite, then we help them pick up the pieces, learn from their mistakes and move on. All these couples appear happily married... Isn't that what we want for our kids? A loving, loyal and happy relationship is marvellous. I wish you and your wife a peaceful life going forward, even if it means keeping the in-laws at a distance or going no contact if their behaviour is detrimental to your marriage. Take care.
When I watch something like this I am thankful all over again for my two daughter in laws. Both of my sons are married to the sweetest girls you could ever want them to be married to. They tell us how much they love us and how much they appreciate the sons that we raised and how much they love them. They treat both sets of grandparents the same and I love that. I am disabled and can’t do the things that I need to as far as cooking and cleaning so they show up with food and they even clean my house. Precious girls…
I was so blessed have the best mother in law, I love and miss her very much, she passed away 2 years ago. She was a great friend to me. I feel sad for these families, their lives would be so much happier if they could get along.
To be fair, you don’t know that. They’re just not mentioned. Far too many men out there just exist in the background and allow their wives to destroy the world whilst they just sit back & watch.
I love my DIL and she loves me. I was close to my son but now he’s a grown man with a wife, a job and children.i don’t come first as it should be. I get to put my own marriage first and be my husband’s girlfriend and liver. And we get to be grandparents. What a great life for all of us!!!
These mothers still have the umbilical cord attached to their sons. Their sons are grown and need to be left alone. They are married and need respect of that privacy. I dated a guy that was a momma's boy. She broke us up and told him a pack of lies.
That first mom is lying about how it was. Just a silly little win to create his profile on the dating site. Come on, everybody knows you are lying. That is the stupidest excuse ever, but she thought that everybody would believe that.
There is nothing worse than a medaling mother or mother-in-law 😢 And I believe everybody should call before they just show up at somebody's house, that's coming courtesy 🤷♀️
The first mother saying that her daughter-in-law is biting the hands that feed her is a real crappy thing to say. Her son gets a paycheck from his mother. He needs to buy that home from his mother are they need to get a different house and pay for their own cars. He is ridiculous he isn't being the husband he should be to his wife. And he's also not being the father that he should be to his children by behaving this way.
Meanwhile I’m the mom of a 3 year old and he already helps with laundry chores around the house and yard and help with feeding the animals. I can’t imagine him being grown and still having him toddler age attached to me.
It's so gross when mothers are obsessed with their sons like they treat it the same as a romantic relationship. I would never marry a man with this going on in the first place
I’ve been married 44 years and hubby started being a mommy boy about 5 years ago…she lives next door and he’s so far up her hindend it drives me frigging crazy..never expected this to happen he calls her 4x a day and goes up there 2x a day and calls her to let her know where we’re going and when we’ll b back and if we’re not back by then she calls to c where we are…and her 65 yo son lives with her so she’s not alone and she’s not disabled but expects to sit in her recliner and b waited on hand and foot…
The second mother didn't know they were engaged. Because they didn't want her to know. Because she's intrusive insulting and hateful. No kind person would want to subject themselves to her. They also wouldn't want to subject their other family members and friends to her.
I have told each of my children’s spouses that no one will ever hear a criticism about them from my mouth. If I have a problem, I will discuss it with them in private. That said, I have wonderful son and daughters in law. They are very easy to love.
Almost all relationships that end in divorce are due to interference by a third party. That is why in the Christian marriage ceremony it clearly states "and no man put asunder". It is un-Christian to interfere in a marriage, by ANYONE. This couple need to agree, define and stick to making his mother follow boundaries. Otherwise, in the fullness of time, this marriage will whither at the hands of his mother, and it seems that is what she wants. This guy needs to decide, does he want his marriage, because his wife is not happy.
That mother will destroy all of his relationships she owns him, she will never let him go, be prepared for a long unhappy life if you dont cut the strings from that narcissistic mother she does not love him she wants and need to control him. Keep her away from your children.
I thank God I had a wonderful mother n law. I found out after she passed away suddenly, that she called me her beautiful daughter n law. I was touched and heart broken at the same time. I miss her everyday.
My husband and me going to be 60 years married, and never was bad word between my inlaws and me a man could love his parents and his wife, and myself i love his parents for being there.
I had very little to do with my MIL but never told my husband that he had to cut ties with her. I reminded him of birthday and other significant dates and often ordered the flowers on his behalf. I also kept my children from her post a potential safety issue as it was unsafe to have them in her care or influence. I tried but the toxicity was too virulent. I regret nothing.
I wished Rita had got up, took her husband's hand and put it in his mom's hand, and said, "Have a good life, I am divorcing the both of you." Rita, you deserve so much better.
I am so thankful that I have a mother in law and father in law who immediately accepted me into the family. They have said many times that they consider me their daughter.
I have 4 grown children and a good son in law and 2 beautiful grandchildren. I would never risk losing my family over my children's spouses and not for nothing why wouldnt I welcome them with open arms? I know I raised strong and very intelligent children therefore I trust my children's judgements. Bottom line is its none of mine or anyone elses business unless there was honestly danger involved.
If your mother can say her daughter-in-law is jealous of her.......yikes.
Sounds about right for this Mother. She is missing a man in her life and preparing the son to fill the role. Pitiful!
It's really simple: DO NOT MARRY MOMMY'S BOYS who are abnormally attached to their mothers and have 0 boundaries.
Absolutely true.
Exactly
Exactly. I prefer not dating men with mommy issues either because they usually end up finding an older woman to attach themselves to and then she gets in the middle of the relationship even if it's not his biological mother. He'll be out there looking for one and it's either going to be you or somebody else and neither one is healthy.
OR MOVE FAR AWAY
@@talcareyifill5937 that's not going to make him stop being a mama's boy.....
My mother-in-law once offered me $20,000 for my then 8-month-old son . And then a few days later told both my husband and i that she could take our son and disappear and no one would ever find her. needless to say we moved away
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@@sabrinar.purnell3869that’s the face I made when I read that 😳
I hope it was very far away and you limit your social media use and have a P.O. Box address.
I’ve seen this same story on a lot of other profiles 🙄
Oh. My. God. That's so scary.
Leaning on your son like he's a husband is SO UNHEALTHY.
My god.
I completely agree 👍
It is emotional incest. Disgusting.
She is sexually attracted to her son. This mother is sick, sick, sick. Even Dr Phil won't ask the question.
All I can think of is tictoc " boy moms " 🤢
It’s called “emotional incest” and this is a perfect example
notice the son did not say I will not go on the dating site because I love my wife but rather there were people from my church there....what a stupide guy
And that just says all you need to know about church goers lol
Good point!
Yes, I noticed that too.
Telling your mother that she won’t see her grandkids again if she doesn’t learn how to act isn’t “disrespect”, it’s fact.
Yup. Not a threat if there is follow through
Yup My Mom didn't see me or my kids 3 months. My MIL didn't see us 3 years. She stood in my kitchen and said none of our 3 daughters looked like her son and none of them looked like each other. I was cooking Easter dinner w no help and cooking all HER favorites. I spun away from her and just kept cooking. When they left to go back to GA and I told my husband what she said he confronted her and she said she didn't mean it that way. How else do you mean saying that? She couldn't say how she meant it.
@@Teresia12are you stillwiththat family
No, it a disgrace.
Watch what you are teaching and know it might bite you later in life. Just my two cents.
IF you don’t get along with the in-laws for whatever reason, GET OUT. It will never end well
For sure!
not in all cases. It really depends on the spouse. As long as the spouse fully protects him/her. Cut the parent off if need be. not allowing the parent to disrespect them. The first guest mark is terrible!!! He stands by all his mom’s bs and plays victim. His wife needs to get a job and leave.
A mother in law needs to remember...her daughter in law is the gateway to her son and grandchildren. NEVER burn that bridge mother's of sons!!!!!
As sons a son until he takes a wife a daughters a daughter, all of her life!
You are so right. I remember telling my coworker that years ago as she'd go on & on about her DIL. After a bit DIL had it & my coworker hasnt seen her grandkids in about 5 years now. Seriously take head. I felt a power shift when i had my baby myself.. almost cut my own MIL out completely. If your not a safe person to me, why would i let you around my baby
That’s horrible and selfish, kids are not pawns in your childish games
You do not have to have a relationship with the children’s mother to have one with your grandchildren. They’re still your son’s children as well. Don’t accept poor behavior from anyone male or female
@@sunnyday4055not a pawn, protection, I went through it with my MIL and got to the point where I wouldn’t allow her to be alone with my kids, she would say whatever she liked about me to the kids.
The last mother is flat out crazy. The steps the husband and wife have had to take to keep her away....she needs to stay away. Good riddance.
I think her break with reality screams some sort of mental health issue that might require medical and medicinal intervention tbh. It’s so sad.
The first mother is not far off…
I think she and the second Mom have had Mental issues… but the third son has played them against each other, and is facing the consequences.
Can you imagine the town had she been elected?😂
I think she really does have a mental problem maybe early onset dementia or something. She speaks a lot like a lady I care for who has dementia except she's 98.
Why would you ever have kids with him? He is more of a baby than his kids
A mother in law who wants her son to divorce from his family sorry is crazy
My mother in law accused me of cradle snatching her son, faking going to uni when I was studying, wasn't a registered nurse & that he had to choose between us. We walked away 30 years ago & she died a lonely old woman
It’s tragic that things turned out that way
The first guy needs to “break up” with his mom. It’s a boyfriend-girlfriend fantasy they have.
His wife just needs to divorce him. He will never change
Mama boys will never stand up to mom. Run fast away ladies.
It's weird because his wife sort of looks like a younger version of his mother. Emotional incest at its finest.
He needs therapy, he’s the golden child in a narcissistic family structure. It’s better to live on a friends couch than under that woman’s thumb. He needs to get far away from her and get the help he needs. He can do it, it is possible, but he has to want it. If he doesn’t, his crazy mommy dearest will ruin everything and he’ll die alone
One miilion percent!
GET THESE MOTHERS SERIOUS MENTAL HEALTH HELP FAST!!!!
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Especially the last one. I believe she’s narcissistic
@@lucygreen5101 I have a Cousin who THINKS like these mothers with her 2 adult sons and I’ve told her she is WRONG and she just says “I AM THEIR MOTHER!!” I’m like “YES BUT THEY ARE GROWN MEN NOT LITTLE BOYS!! GET HELP!!!”
She refuses to LET THEM GO & BE HUSBANDS!
SMH
Are you kidding? They won't accept it b/c they see themselves as the victims.
@@lucygreen5101 Hoodoo and voodoo, 666, genital injections. She is crazy using biblical and non biblical terms. She is crazy and embarrassing. Her son is trying to distance himself from her . She is so unaware and blaming others for that.
How would you know the colour of your grown sons urine 😮
The first mother-in-law will never be ok with anyone her son chooses because she doesn't want anyone else in his life. The wife should leave her husband because he'll always choose his mother over her.
He’s a mommas boy not a man. Enmeshed no boundaries. Run now don’t wait they will destroy your life.
This mom is crazy. She needs to step back a whole lot of steps!! 😡
Mother owns him , lock stock and barrel .
Always.
Apparently, Mark and Rheta eventually divorced. Rheta eventually remarried. Mark remarried, had more children, and tragically passed away in recent years from a drug overdose. Rheta’s daughter made a comment on a clip from the episode many years ago saying she is a good mom and that Deb is a crackhead. Rheta (Melvin is her last name) was charged with raping a teenage boy. I feel so horrible for their daughters.
A good Christian mother would support her son's marriage. All marriages go through rocky times, especially when small children are in the house. This behavior is disgusting.
I have two sons & I know I’m second on my sons list which it should be. My son hadn’t been married very long when he called & started telling me what she was doing. I told him I didn’t marry her he did & im not getting in the middle. They’ve been married over 30 years.
She isn’t a Christian
I am happy that the women in my sons’ lives love them. If they make my sons happy, then they make me happy.
A mother should support the marriages of her children. Religious affiliation is irrelevant.
@@MarkWerderitsch-k9v religious affiliation IS relevant. I wouldn’t want my kids marrying Muslims, for instance.
This makes me remember how grateful I am to be single!
same...
Single is great, but sometimes you get lucky enough to love your in-laws . My son’s wife’s family was a much loved added addition! Just be choosy my friend you are worth it!
I think this is very far from a typical relationship
Me too!!!!
You shall know this aint a normal attitude.
There's a condition that a man winds up in when he doesn't stand up for his wife who constantly get trashed by his mother. It's called divorce.
That first guy 😂😂 what a giant baby. His eyebrows tell
Me so much.
These women make me so thankful for the sweet loving mother-in-law I had. I can't imagine having this turmoil in my marriage.
Me too! My In Laws were absolutely wonderful!
the first mother-in-law is really on top of her head and she doesn't want anything good for this marriage.
As far as i understand these
monster in - law mothers are
peanuts🥜 that have escaped
the jar 🫙.
She wants him to be with another woman just like her and she can have a girlfriend relationship with his person he chooses in his life
@@patriciakeith6164I don’t think that she will ever allow him to have another wife .
How could you not want your kid to be on their own, doing well, and in love?
B/c these parents see their kids as extensions of themselves.
The Mother so obviously would find fault with ANYONE her son took up with. The Wife needs to bounce from this 29 year old mamas boy
I love that the second and third husband have their wives back
Same!
Of course the second husband says he feels terrible that his wife has to deal with his mother but she shouldn't have to deal with it at all. He should be between her and the mother or that relationship should be completely cut off.
Leave your parents and cling to wife
AAAAAND DE BIBUH SAYS
No marriage or relationship is flawless; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I promise you will not regret it
Sometimes the way to fix things is to part ways though.
Hopefully you didn’t have monster mothers like in these videos.
First case: thats not close. Thats smothering. The mil is outrageous and the son is awful.
I am so grateful that I have the most amazing mother in law in the universe.
Notice how the first MIL shook her head "yes" when she was verbally expressing "no." That's a sign of deceit
I saw that too
Depends on the baseline behavior
@@susanhoag1869 not always, do you watch dissections of interrogations? If not I highly recommend it, it's fascinating. It's fairly consistent across the board that your mouth says one thing while your body does another when you're lying. Unless you're aware of it, you can't stop it. It's a subconscious action.
My God. The third woman is absolutely insane. That poor couple.
Yeah she’s dissolving mentally. In her mind she’s the only one who can be in charge
@@reynaolvera7526I wonder what is her diagnosis ? Paranoid , schizophrenic? Bonkers !😵💫
I think this black mother at the end has schizophrenia. You can not reason with someone with schizophrenia. I wonder if Dr. Phil had her evaluated.
Why did you have to say THE BLACK MOTHER 🤔, know one mention the WHITE MOTHER 😊🤔Just saying, do better❤
@@JamilaMusa-xz6ss to differentiate who I was referring to
@@JamilaMusa-xz6ssbecause there was only one black mother. The others were white. Was she not black? Was she not a black mother? They’re all equally 🦇 💩 🤡. Maybe you should do better and not be so triggered by a simple distinction.
It's either that or she has early signs of dementia.
I keep a photo of my MIL on the mantelpiece. Keeps the kids away from.the fire.
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The black one was absolutely crazy with all the paranoid delusions and stuff. She needs therapy and medication.
I wonder if she might have early dementia
@ashleywatkins1380 exactly what I thought at first
I feel like that last mother needs mental help. She is not mentally all there. She was spouting complete and utter nonsense. 😳
The last couple on this episode are truly kind loving people.
They don't deserve the treatment from his mother.
And honestly they are very gracious with the way they treat her because oh my gosh I don't know that I could be so kind.
I think the murder of her other son sent her over the edge.
I see a long manic episode.
I 100% agree with you. That was the beginning of her mental break from reality. Poor thing...
My MIL was an angel. I miss seeing her. She baby-sat our children while I went to nursing school. ❤❤❤❤
Same my husband’s mom loved me and I her. I kept her and got rid of him. She passed this year and I miss her… not him
I had one of the best mother-in-laws as well. We were a young couple and she taught me so much about baking and decorating cakes, tried to teach me to sew, etc. Just a wonderful creative spirit. Seeing these on Dr. Phil made me even more grateful.
My Wife's Mother loves using the words "Yes, BUT" to everything we say.
When our counsellor asked her to respond WITHOUT using the word "But", she now says "That may be true, HOWEVER"....
Ask her what a synonym is, and challenger her to speak without using synonyms to "but" as the counselor intended.
It sounds like you and your wife have identified that she's a problem... With the constant 'but's' and 'however's' it's apparently obvious that she won't take any responsibility for her words and actions. I can't fathom trying to ruin my child's relationship/life. Even if our kids make a mistake, it's our job as parents to support them and if things go to shite, then we help them pick up the pieces, learn from their mistakes and move on. All these couples appear happily married... Isn't that what we want for our kids? A loving, loyal and happy relationship is marvellous. I wish you and your wife a peaceful life going forward, even if it means keeping the in-laws at a distance or going no contact if their behaviour is detrimental to your marriage. Take care.
However is a good one. I didn't think of that off the bat. My word was although.
@@bonniebloom4953Mine was 'notwithstanding', but in my defence, I am very pretentious.
When I watch something like this I am thankful all over again for my two daughter in laws. Both of my sons are married to the sweetest girls you could ever want them to be married to. They tell us how much they love us and how much they appreciate the sons that we raised and how much they love them. They treat both sets of grandparents the same and I love that. I am disabled and can’t do the things that I need to as far as cooking and cleaning so they show up with food and they even clean my house. Precious girls…
I was so blessed have the best mother in law, I love and miss her very much, she passed away 2 years ago. She was a great friend to me. I feel sad for these families, their lives would be so much happier if they could get along.
All these old in laws have no men around 😂 big surprise
To be fair, you don’t know that. They’re just not mentioned. Far too many men out there just exist in the background and allow their wives to destroy the world whilst they just sit back & watch.
I love how the 2nd mom called her self a b**** when she called her son an SOB 😂😂😂
Exactly😂😂😂
That last mil needs deliverance!
She needs to be in a padded room
Well said! 😊
No doubt. Or her meds analyzed.
I agree. It's along the lines of demonic possession.
I actually think she needs medication, she’s got serious MH issues & is delusional.
Second mom is absolutely unhinged. She’d never meet her grandkids. What a phycho.
That last mother is suffering from paranoid delusions IMO
I’m not a psychiatrist but she’s definitely not mentally stable
That last lady. She didn’t want to say how many votes she got bc it was probably 666. 🤔😂
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Haha- that is too funny!!!!
Hilarious! 😆
I couldn't imagine my mother in law behaving this way towards me.
He probably cried after he saw his eyebrows in the mirror. Somebody is overly man scaping
Omgggg 😂😂😂😂 glad I wasn’t the only one that noticed .
I love my DIL and she loves me. I was close to my son but now he’s a grown man with a wife, a job and children.i don’t come first as it should be. I get to put my own marriage first and be my husband’s girlfriend and liver. And we get to be grandparents. What a great life for all of us!!!
Watching this made me thankful for my in-laws!
My mother in law and I are very good friends. I am grateful.
I am so thankful for my wonderful mother in law and a strong husband that would NEVER put up with his mother mistreating his wife.
These mothers still have the umbilical cord attached to their sons. Their sons are grown and need to be left alone. They are married and need respect of that privacy.
I dated a guy that was a momma's boy. She broke us up and told him a pack of lies.
You are better off. Mama boys do not change.
To this day he's scared to death of his mom. I feel bad for him.
That first mom is lying about how it was. Just a silly little win to create his profile on the dating site. Come on, everybody knows you are lying. That is the stupidest excuse ever, but she thought that everybody would believe that.
Every guy I know with over plucked eyebrows is a momma's boy. Just saying ...
I think she taught him how to do his own makeup too.
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There is nothing worse than a medaling mother or mother-in-law 😢
And I believe everybody should call before they just show up at somebody's house, that's coming courtesy 🤷♀️
Absolutely.
The first mother saying that her daughter-in-law is biting the hands that feed her is a real crappy thing to say.
Her son gets a paycheck from his mother.
He needs to buy that home from his mother are they need to get a different house and pay for their own cars.
He is ridiculous he isn't being the husband he should be to his wife. And he's also not being the father that he should be to his children by behaving this way.
Wow that last Mom... wooo weeeee........ she's not well.
The last mother has serious mental health issues. I hope she got help. Nothing she said has a basis in reality.
The mother sounds crazy.
Which one?
These mother inlaws act as if there wifes & there sons are having affairs with there wifes 😮😢creepy
Both my MILs were/are wonderful. I told my son in law to tell me if I ever wasn't good to him, because I have no excuse.
I am divorced from her son, but I love my (ex) mil. She is one of my favorite people.
@@angiechaney6240 That's nice. We need to hold on to the good ones.
The last couple, the way he leans in front of his wife speaks volumes.
Meanwhile I’m the mom of a 3 year old and he already helps with laundry chores around the house and yard and help with feeding the animals. I can’t imagine him being grown and still having him toddler age attached to me.
5:32 My MIL is NOT this bad, but please realize, it will never stop.
I deeply hope that no one is as happy when I die as I am about hers.
It's so gross when mothers are obsessed with their sons like they treat it the same as a romantic relationship. I would never marry a man with this going on in the first place
I’ve been married 44 years and hubby started being a mommy boy about 5 years ago…she lives next door and he’s so far up her hindend it drives me frigging crazy..never expected this to happen he calls her 4x a day and goes up there 2x a day and calls her to let her know where we’re going and when we’ll b back and if we’re not back by then she calls to c where we are…and her 65 yo son lives with her so she’s not alone and she’s not disabled but expects to sit in her recliner and b waited on hand and foot…
TOXIC is an understatement with this woman! Sometimes you’re better off without your parent(s) in your life!!
The second mother didn't know they were engaged. Because they didn't want her to know. Because she's intrusive insulting and hateful. No kind person would want to subject themselves to her. They also wouldn't want to subject their other family members and friends to her.
I have told each of my children’s spouses that no one will ever hear a criticism about them from my mouth.
If I have a problem, I will discuss it with them in private.
That said, I have wonderful son and daughters in law. They are very easy to love.
This sounds like the TV show I'm in love with a momma's boy
It would be interesting to see the “where are they now” follow up
The third mother definitely has some mental issues..she needs some serious help. I think the death of her other son pushed her over the edge.
The first mother in law would be my worst nightmare
Almost all relationships that end in divorce are due to interference by a third party. That is why in the Christian marriage ceremony it clearly states "and no man put asunder".
It is un-Christian to interfere in a marriage, by ANYONE. This couple need to agree, define and stick to making his mother follow boundaries. Otherwise, in the fullness of time, this marriage will whither at the hands of his mother, and it seems that is what she wants. This guy needs to decide, does he want his marriage, because his wife is not happy.
DUDE YOUR MARRIED YOU SHOULD PUT YOUR WIFE FIRST END OF STORY
That second lady is crazy scary.
That mother will destroy all of his relationships she owns him, she will never let him go, be prepared for a long unhappy life if you dont cut the strings from that narcissistic mother she does not love him she wants and need to control him. Keep her away from your children.
I thank God I had a wonderful mother n law. I found out after she passed away suddenly, that she called me her beautiful daughter n law. I was touched and heart broken at the same time. I miss her everyday.
when u take a bride you leave mom
These in laws are all single women who view there’s son as property or as son husbands which is sickening and sad
the dating profile came from HIM! get out now, run....do not walk....to the nearest attorney and play this video
My husband and me going to be 60 years married, and never was bad word between my inlaws and me a man could love his parents and his wife, and myself i love his parents for being there.
So glad we live 1200 miles from my in-laws. They made it clear I would never be accepted. Haven't seen them in 16 years.
My Mother In Law lived on the other side of the world..spoke no English..met her once ..She was lovely though😂
He’s 29. Grow up!
Mom is totally " Crazy" !!
Let your children fly. Love and respect them enough to let them have their own life.
I had very little to do with my MIL but never told my husband that he had to cut ties with her. I reminded him of birthday and other significant dates and often ordered the flowers on his behalf. I also kept my children from her post a potential safety issue as it was unsafe to have them in her care or influence. I tried but the toxicity was too virulent. I regret nothing.
I have enjoyed these compilations so very much! Excellent editing! I'm so impressed! Gave us just enough and wow! Loved it! Thank you!!!
I'm very blessed to have my MIL. She is absolutely lovely. Praying for these folks.
I wished Rita had got up, took her husband's hand and put it in his mom's hand, and said, "Have a good life, I am divorcing the both of you."
Rita, you deserve so much better.
This woman is absolutely SICK!!!
Which one?!?! 😂
My mother-in-law set my husband up on a blind date while I was at work and babysit my two very young children so that he could go and we were married
OMG!...Are you still married?😮
When I was married, my ex mother in-law watched her son beat me for nothing and said that I deserved it
I am so thankful that I have a mother in law and father in law who immediately accepted me into the family. They have said many times that they consider me their daughter.
Those boys we’ll never change! No back bone !
I have two son In laws and I do not interfere with them or call them names. These in laws are ridiculous. And very controlling.
Dayummmmmm ,these mil's be KRAZY!!!!!
The last one is queen of the krazies!!!
Just like my in-laws. Drive us away from mother.
I said to my step daughters, if you want to find out how your man will treat you, watch how he treats his mother and/or grandmother
I have 4 grown children and a good son in law and 2 beautiful grandchildren. I would never risk losing my family over my children's spouses and not for nothing why wouldnt I welcome them with open arms? I know I raised strong and very intelligent children therefore I trust my children's judgements. Bottom line is its none of mine or anyone elses business unless there was honestly danger involved.
These mother in laws should be shamed of themselves ! They are rude , disrespectful , and disgusting !