Love hearing you talk about this stuff. It sounds like youre improving which is hella awesome, this frustration you feel with your “inferiority” can be turned into motivation to do even better. You’re doing amazing bro, keep it up
Hi ❤ I saw your video from "think before you sleep" and I just wanted to drop by and say A) you're not ugly and there are women like myself who find you quite attractive (my husband looks similar to you) and B) you're not alone in how you feel. After my best friend (and only friend) of 10 years committed suicide 3 years ago, I've struggled BAD with making new friends or interacting with people in general. And I say this as a happily married woman. There are days where the loneliness is deafening. It hasn't helped that I was forced to quit my job for our daughter who needed the extra care, secluding me even more. I'm pregnant again and while I'm excited to have another baby and love my family with every bit of my soul, I feel like, at 30, my life has just passed me by. My dreams of getting my masters in forensic social work have been put on hold for 4 years now, I haven't gotten to travel the world like I'd dreamed of doing, or done the things I'd set myself up to do or achieve. Hell, I didn't even get to enjoy the first months with my daughter since she was rushed to a different hospital, so I have yet to even experience the "new mom" feeling of holding your newborn for the first time. I feel stuck. Watching everyone else pass by me as I'm just trying to pull myself out of quicksand. You're not alone. Even those of us who are married, or have kids, or go out with friends feel stuck. Feel like we're drowning or gasping for air in a smoke filled room. Maybe it's a fear I have of getting close to people only to see them in a casket the next day, but I have struggled to bond with anyone except my husband and daughter and I feel myself slowing dying a little day by day. I know people will either pass this by or comment hateful things I'll never actually read, but you're not alone in this, you matter, and it's always worth it to keep trying. Sorry, this turned into venting. The idea that no one may read this makes it easier to vent a bit with no one else to talk to about any of this kind of stuff. Thank you for your videos. They really do make Mr and others feel less crazy and less alone in this.
Thanks for sharing the guitar story. Great illustration of different upbringings. Parents and adults perhaps think they're boosting a kid's confidence by praising their "talent" but it only teaches kids that what they have is inherent and they are above practicing. That's why they say that hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. You get older and you realize you got left behind because you didn't develop the work and discipline to keep improving . Every single kid I played guitar better than now surpasses me many times over.
Thanks for sharing about your guitar playing. It's so easy to fall into Gear Acquisition Syndrome--I struggle with that even after 30 years of playing guitar. It's so easy because, well, it's easy. Anything we can buy is easy, and gives us a temporary hit of dopamine and pleasure. Anything we have to earn, like the skill of becoming a better guitar player, is harder because it cannot just be bought. I'm trying to teach myself more and more (at the age of 46) to focus on chasing the deeper satisfaction of doing the hard things to give myself a lasting sense of accomplishment. Props to you for being so vulnerable on camera. That in itself is a difficult thing that will bring you deeper and more satisfying returns.
I was having a shitty morning and I got angry at everybody around me, it is one of those situations where you have to swallow everything for yourself and accept shitty situations. Holy cow hearing someone just shout everything out calms the shit out of me... now I am kind of "ready" to come back and face people again... Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts with strangers on the internet, for some unknow reasons it really helps those strangers. It seems we all share some mental connections as a species.
hey man, i have been watching you very recently, glad i got to watch a new video of yours. i just wanna say watching your videos makes me feel that im not alone in all of this. be proud of yourself, you got yourself a job and doing all within your power to do whats possible. i hope you can even do better and achive more and get a comfortable life with your aunt and mom. all the love man
You remind me so much of my son. He's your age & even looks a lot like you, very handsome of course!! But he seems to suffer from stress and generational frustrations, and all i can do is pray daily for him. In fact, i pray for his entire generation, because the pressures are enormous these days! May God grant you strength, and hope, and mental clarity. All of you are loved so so much!!!
Hey Jaron - I used to comment on your channel Lives recently as 'Shrunken Oak' - Anyways , keep uploading these kinda vids by all means , they're really helpful for me and many others.
I appreciate how your channel also provides a safespace. Cause whether you know it or no, by making these videos your giving important insights to other people so they can benefit. I can relate to all the struggle and I've always come to terms that only millenials understand other millenial problems. Breaking with your routine is an absolute key move that you won't be taught as a kid, but will help you wherever you go from that moment on you're leaving school's hallway. Also discipline issues in music is the same with me only that my band's musicla genius comes to be the bassist lol. I can lay down one of my struggles which is my lack of patience or attention span and trying to accomplish a bunch of things at once when starting by one actually is half the bet already. Also, a social media detox can be useful. cause the amount of social pressure during the age of everyone comparing each other's life is exhausting. Also my mom has diabetes as well. This is creepy lol .. but still \m/
Just today i came across one of your older videos and immediately subscribed when it ended. I can relate a lot to your mental state in that videos and in a way have been through similar challenges. You also might have been the inspiration i needed to make more videos and talk to the camera about my thoughts and hopefully help or teach people something. Thank you for continuing to make videos and have a great day
you are very human and people relate to you that's why people like to watch your videos...the problems you have are the problems many other people have
I drink energy drinks, alcohol, go out to eat, eat shit all the time and I have a lot of energy like a child. No health problems, 30 yrs old. I think it's just mostly mental there. The key is to be happy with yourself and your body image. I do envy your lifestyle! You are greatly improving i see that everyday.
Hello, I saw your video in my recommendations and I clicked out of curiousity. I saw your video about being 27 and never having a girlfriend. I then saw your video about being 29 and never having a girlfriend. The last time I had a girlfriend was when I was 22. I am now 25 nearly 26 and I have not had a girlfriend since then. You do not have a girlfriend for two reasons: because you did not settle or you are not ready. I fall in the not settling category and potentially not ready. Truthfully, we are rarely ever ready. I could have probably had a girlfriend by now. However, my first relationship enriched me so much that I want the same thing in the next one. I literally learned another language and developed myself. How could I not desire such a thing again? It seems that your hobbies are about gaming and guitaring. Seek those communties. Connect with people in that environment. Become damn ******* good at it. Develop yourself some more. Suffer. We are here to suffer. Suffer in the sense of progression. It hurts. It is meant to hurt. Become uncomfortable. Forget about shelving yourself. Get out there and become more professional. Network with people in these activities. You have friends who you make videos with. Aim to make these videos look amazing. Lighting, thumbnails, production value etc. Seek to get a better camera and develop these videos to a professional level. Try going to the gym and powerlifting. Gain some strength and feel better about yourself. Challenge yourself. I have given you several targets and goals to aim for, it is up to you now to achieve them. When you have finished all this you will have either gotten a girlfriend or not. Either way, you have done something and of that you can be proud :) Now if you excuse this is also a message to myself and I now have to achieve my goals
Hey man just wanted to share my thoughts as well. Currently dealing with back pain as well since Jan from an injury. I’ve been more motivated since September to work out. I’m a scrawny guy and was able to gain about 10 pounds so I’m happy for that. I still have back pain but atleast when I’m at the gym it goes a way for a bit. Not so bad but to an extent that it bothers me throughout the day but I’ve gotten more use to it. Also miss my ex we haven’t seen each other for a month already. It’s only moments in the day where I’m feeling depressed but keep atleast going to the gym, eat, clean the house and take care of my cats. I’ll just leave it at that but thanks for sharing how you been.
those who have faith and whose hearts find peace in the remembrance of God- truly it is in the remembrance of God that hearts find peace- Quran (13:28)
@harmonichighways I agree you with that he needs to go to the gym it will be good for him cause he needs to keep his body moving.And It doesn’t have to be the gym at least some sort of physical activities that he enjoys with people it will also help him with being social.
He should hit the gym 2h * 5 times a week, progressive overload, build muscles. Deadlift, benchpress, squats, bicepcurls and dips. Do 3 sets 8 reps, 5 min rest between. Do that for 6 months and his life will change drastically. Walking in some park and throwing some frisbees is just coping. I would say, put an halt doing videos at all, continue to work for uber, hit the gym, sleep, eat protein 2g protein per kg bodyweight. The solutions to the problems is not complicated. Backpain = sitting still. Unttractive? = hit the gym, cut bodyweight, groom. All these endless discussions, endless problems, endless whining. I sound harsh, but reality is harsh. People must stop giving cope answers. this guy must have a wake up call. He do not need a social life, he need to fix himself for god sake.
hey man I'm just moving this message, this opportunity I know you have what it takes good luck Start 21:39 Now you choose if your life will change or not.-37:07
Look mate, i'm gonna be honest and brutal with you. I was miserable in my teens, i used to walk home 10km after school just to not interact with people on the bus, i always hid myself from others because i was afraid of what other people might think about me and my weight. One day i looked in the mirror and i was disgusted, i was so disgusted that i made a pact with myself: either you change or cut your whrist. In a span of a year i got rid of my obesity and changed attitute towards life and people. I have problems myself like everyone, but i don't feel that bottomless hole anymore. Take my advice, embrace your suffering and insecurities so that they will become anger, anger which will fuel you towards change. "May suffering and desperation be your traveling companions, joy and consolation your goal."
I think you shouldn't be so harsh with yourself because of your guitar skills being "bad" compared to the other guy. I mean, considering your experience, I think you are good enough to remain in the band even with that guy.
Heyy, been subscribed for a while, have you seen the think before you sleep video that features you in it? If you haven’t maybe it would be or some interest to you. Wish you the best.
I envy you dude. You seem to be on the up and up and motivated to change and better yourself. I can't even do half of that because I'm disabled unmotivated and depressed and when I get a bit of motivation to get on a healthy track and get out of my comfort zone it all goes well until one little thing doesn't and it all resets to zero and I shut down for a few months.
I’m in a bit of a doosey I have severe anxiety about driving I’m 20 and don’t want to drive I’m afraid of crashing but that also means I can’t get a job and also no woman wants a guy who can’t drive probably sounds ridiculous since your an Uber driver but that’s were I’m at getting left behind by all my friends they have jobs and money and are driving me around because I’m a bitch that’s scared to drive
Take driving lessons. That is the only way. Car will give you independence. I got my license at 21 but that was because taking a bus at that time was more convenient since there was a bus stop near my work. Try looking for jobs near your home in the mean time. But driving will help you level up in life.
I know people hate this but we are all insecure about something. Change your hairstyle, get your body down to a range of 12-15%, and join a Muay Thai or MMA gym. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Do the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. Time to change it up. Just my stupid opinion
Yo!!! i wanted to stop by and say that if you can just fix yourself up like you looked in high school man and work on your bod. I say what you used to look like and you are a looker. You just need to retap into same energy you had back then. You'll be just fine. Your not ugly. Your view of life is ugly.
Watching all your videos after finding that infamous one and just on the part to where you got to the other guitar guy. Thats the hunger for you need for every other aspect of your life Since you like driving, go get your emt license. It’s easy if you’re not completely r**tarded. You’ll be driving an ambulance instead of putting miles on your car
Seriously, study Jungian Psychology Typology, cognitive functions, MBTI, conscious, subconscious, the unconscious mind and the collective unconscious. Cocreation also. It will help deeply to understand other people.
So, I was watching my normal video about police interactions, traffic stops, court cams, jail documentaries, and then, for some odd reason, this guy's video about virginity shows up. I watched it. Who the hell is this guy???
My friend, related to your low energy level, i recommend you to take a look into semen retention if you don't know about it and start your journey, Good luck.
Well, easy answer. You have not trained at the gym. You sit in a car all day and then at a computer. Why make the answers so complicated. Deadlifting at the gym fixes your backproblems in 2 weeks.
@@homiepat5469 Yep, I dealt with back problems, partly because of my weight and brutally sedentary lifestyle, as I worked as a software developer, spending long hours in front of a computer. I was so delusional, an idiot,, relying on medications and always complaining about it. But after I started going to the gym consistently for a month, all that pain disappeared. It's surprising... I noticed these back issues typically start around when you turn 30, at least that was the case for me. Turns out, just a month of hitting the gym was the solution. So "hit the gym bro" sound like the most idiotic answer you can give, but it is the simple truth. People complicate things way way to much.
@@aig5429 No way. You start with lower weights, only the bar + plastic weights (10lbs). Then you increase the weight by 20lbs every week. Furthermore, always do wamrups with lower weights. I would be more careful with squats. But deadlift is totally fine. When you get the gym card, ask for an instructor to help you get started. Well, this guy could look like a rockstar in 1 year, but this is my last attempt. I wont write anymore. I see something, a lost potential, he wont do anything about it.
Sounds like you were a naturally bright kid. You should have been doing something far more meaningful than driving for Uber. The school system, and our current society, just destroys bright kids. Sabotages their development. That anti-intellectual crabs in a bucket mentality. Don't let them win man.
I’d say his bad habits cause the low T. I’d say first start eating healthy, sleeping enough, and exercising. His T levels should go back to normal levels. If he’s still having problems then maybe see the doc.
You aren't a doctor, don't make these random suggestions. He's been to a doctor and they would've easily noticed many years ago if his spine wasn't straight. Part of a basic checkup.
stop listening to Drs and health experts and instead listen to your instincts. They are right, you feel insecure and shit about yourself because you are probably a loser. The only cure is to actually work on yourself and your mind. Let all the bad thoughts in, accept the pain. Only if you do that it is possible to make a change. Your bad posture comes from your bad jaw. Get a jaw surgery, you will be much more attractive, confident and regain a healthy body posture. You could read this and run away or think about my words and actually make a chanage. Answering questions if needed.
Love hearing you talk about this stuff. It sounds like youre improving which is hella awesome, this frustration you feel with your “inferiority” can be turned into motivation to do even better. You’re doing amazing bro, keep it up
here from think before you sleep, dude u got mad potential. just gotta tap into it man, we are here for you
Youre an awesome dude, stop being so hard on yourself.
Here from think before you sleep, keep it up
Watch, think before you sleep! He did a video and ur in it. He gave good advice for u and said he would help with your youtube vids. Stay strong!
Hi ❤ I saw your video from "think before you sleep" and I just wanted to drop by and say A) you're not ugly and there are women like myself who find you quite attractive (my husband looks similar to you) and B) you're not alone in how you feel. After my best friend (and only friend) of 10 years committed suicide 3 years ago, I've struggled BAD with making new friends or interacting with people in general. And I say this as a happily married woman. There are days where the loneliness is deafening. It hasn't helped that I was forced to quit my job for our daughter who needed the extra care, secluding me even more. I'm pregnant again and while I'm excited to have another baby and love my family with every bit of my soul, I feel like, at 30, my life has just passed me by. My dreams of getting my masters in forensic social work have been put on hold for 4 years now, I haven't gotten to travel the world like I'd dreamed of doing, or done the things I'd set myself up to do or achieve. Hell, I didn't even get to enjoy the first months with my daughter since she was rushed to a different hospital, so I have yet to even experience the "new mom" feeling of holding your newborn for the first time. I feel stuck. Watching everyone else pass by me as I'm just trying to pull myself out of quicksand. You're not alone. Even those of us who are married, or have kids, or go out with friends feel stuck. Feel like we're drowning or gasping for air in a smoke filled room. Maybe it's a fear I have of getting close to people only to see them in a casket the next day, but I have struggled to bond with anyone except my husband and daughter and I feel myself slowing dying a little day by day. I know people will either pass this by or comment hateful things I'll never actually read, but you're not alone in this, you matter, and it's always worth it to keep trying. Sorry, this turned into venting. The idea that no one may read this makes it easier to vent a bit with no one else to talk to about any of this kind of stuff. Thank you for your videos. They really do make Mr and others feel less crazy and less alone in this.
❤
Listening to you talk makes me feel like I'm not alone in the journey towards having a life I love with or without a romantic relationship.
Thanks for sharing the guitar story. Great illustration of different upbringings. Parents and adults perhaps think they're boosting a kid's confidence by praising their "talent" but it only teaches kids that what they have is inherent and they are above practicing. That's why they say that hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. You get older and you realize you got left behind because you didn't develop the work and discipline to keep improving . Every single kid I played guitar better than now surpasses me many times over.
Here from think before you sleep. Keep making positive choices! Cheering you on
Thanks for sharing about your guitar playing. It's so easy to fall into Gear Acquisition Syndrome--I struggle with that even after 30 years of playing guitar.
It's so easy because, well, it's easy. Anything we can buy is easy, and gives us a temporary hit of dopamine and pleasure.
Anything we have to earn, like the skill of becoming a better guitar player, is harder because it cannot just be bought.
I'm trying to teach myself more and more (at the age of 46) to focus on chasing the deeper satisfaction of doing the hard things to give myself a lasting sense of accomplishment.
Props to you for being so vulnerable on camera. That in itself is a difficult thing that will bring you deeper and more satisfying returns.
Miss your streams man. You got this, grab life by the horns
hey man i feel you. stay strong bro you got this
I like the hairstyle and jacket man🤟🤟lookin clean
I was having a shitty morning and I got angry at everybody around me, it is one of those situations where you have to swallow everything for yourself and accept shitty situations.
Holy cow hearing someone just shout everything out calms the shit out of me... now I am kind of "ready" to come back and face people again...
Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts with strangers on the internet, for some unknow reasons it really helps those strangers. It seems we all share some mental connections as a species.
hey man, i have been watching you very recently, glad i got to watch a new video of yours. i just wanna say watching your videos makes me feel that im not alone in all of this. be proud of yourself, you got yourself a job and doing all within your power to do whats possible. i hope you can even do better and achive more and get a comfortable life with your aunt and mom. all the love man
It is wholesome that you are improvin, Keep pushin King ❤
You remind me so much of my son. He's your age & even looks a lot like you, very handsome of course!!
But he seems to suffer from stress and generational frustrations, and all i can do is pray daily for him.
In fact, i pray for his entire generation, because the pressures are enormous these days!
May God grant you strength, and hope, and mental clarity. All of you are loved so so much!!!
great comment
Amen 🙏🏼 ❤
Here from TBYS. Let's try and get this man's sub count up.
Hey Jaron - I used to comment on your channel Lives recently as 'Shrunken Oak' - Anyways , keep uploading these kinda vids by all means , they're really helpful for me and many others.
You Got It Keep Your Health In Check
I appreciate how your channel also provides a safespace. Cause whether you know it or no, by making these videos your giving important insights to other people so they can benefit. I can relate to all the struggle and I've always come to terms that only millenials understand other millenial problems. Breaking with your routine is an absolute key move that you won't be taught as a kid, but will help you wherever you go from that moment on you're leaving school's hallway. Also discipline issues in music is the same with me only that my band's musicla genius comes to be the bassist lol. I can lay down one of my struggles which is my lack of patience or attention span and trying to accomplish a bunch of things at once when starting by one actually is half the bet already. Also, a social media detox can be useful. cause the amount of social pressure during the age of everyone comparing each other's life is exhausting. Also my mom has diabetes as well. This is creepy lol
.. but still \m/
Just today i came across one of your older videos and immediately subscribed when it ended. I can relate a lot to your mental state in that videos and in a way have been through similar challenges. You also might have been the inspiration i needed to make more videos and talk to the camera about my thoughts and hopefully help or teach people something. Thank you for continuing to make videos and have a great day
It really is over for this dude, I fell in the same trap, just wasted lives so sad
you are very human and people relate to you that's why people like to watch your videos...the problems you have are the problems many other people have
I drink energy drinks, alcohol, go out to eat, eat shit all the time and I have a lot of energy like a child. No health problems, 30 yrs old. I think it's just mostly mental there. The key is to be happy with yourself and your body image. I do envy your lifestyle! You are greatly improving i see that everyday.
Dude I'm sorry to hear that you feel like a "Diarrhea Cornholio". Be strong man!
Hey I just have to say, I think you’re attractive and see a lot of potential in you. I subscribed and I hope life gets better and better for you 💕
Do one of those food reaction videos inside your car. That way you can make a video while at work. Will ya eat that burrito?
inspiration
Hello,
I saw your video in my recommendations and I clicked out of curiousity. I saw your video about being 27 and never having a girlfriend. I then saw your video about being 29 and never having a girlfriend. The last time I had a girlfriend was when I was 22. I am now 25 nearly 26 and I have not had a girlfriend since then. You do not have a girlfriend for two reasons:
because you did not settle or you are not ready. I fall in the not settling category and potentially not ready. Truthfully, we are rarely ever ready.
I could have probably had a girlfriend by now. However, my first relationship enriched me so much that I want the same thing in the next one. I literally learned another language and developed myself. How could I not desire such a thing again?
It seems that your hobbies are about gaming and guitaring. Seek those communties. Connect with people in that environment. Become damn ******* good at it. Develop yourself some more. Suffer. We are here to suffer. Suffer in the sense of progression. It hurts. It is meant to hurt. Become uncomfortable. Forget about shelving yourself. Get out there and become more professional. Network with people in these activities. You have friends who you make videos with. Aim to make these videos look amazing. Lighting, thumbnails, production value etc. Seek to get a better camera and develop these videos to a professional level. Try going to the gym and powerlifting. Gain some strength and feel better about yourself. Challenge yourself. I have given you several targets and goals to aim for, it is up to you now to achieve them.
When you have finished all this you will have either gotten a girlfriend or not. Either way, you have done something and of that you can be proud :)
Now if you excuse this is also a message to myself and I now have to achieve my goals
bro wrote a story
Hey man, great video. Hope you're doing well.
you and your car look very nice
Hey man just wanted to share my thoughts as well. Currently dealing with back pain as well since Jan from an injury. I’ve been more motivated since September to work out. I’m a scrawny guy and was able to gain about 10 pounds so I’m happy for that. I still have back pain but atleast when I’m at the gym it goes a way for a bit. Not so bad but to an extent that it bothers me throughout the day but I’ve gotten more use to it. Also miss my ex we haven’t seen each other for a month already. It’s only moments in the day where I’m feeling depressed but keep atleast going to the gym, eat, clean the house and take care of my cats. I’ll just leave it at that but thanks for sharing how you been.
Hey friend, I hope you are faring well.
I'm glad to hear that you strive to eat healthy and learn better techniques on the guitar.
Actually first also nice vid
those who have faith and whose hearts find peace in the remembrance of God- truly it is in the remembrance of God that hearts find peace- Quran (13:28)
@harmonichighways I agree you with that he needs to go to the gym it will be good for him cause he needs to keep his body moving.And It doesn’t have to be the gym at least some sort of physical activities that he enjoys with people it will also help him with being social.
He should hit the gym 2h * 5 times a week, progressive overload, build muscles. Deadlift, benchpress, squats, bicepcurls and dips. Do 3 sets 8 reps, 5 min rest between. Do that for 6 months and his life will change drastically. Walking in some park and throwing some frisbees is just coping. I would say, put an halt doing videos at all, continue to work for uber, hit the gym, sleep, eat protein 2g protein per kg bodyweight. The solutions to the problems is not complicated. Backpain = sitting still. Unttractive? = hit the gym, cut bodyweight, groom. All these endless discussions, endless problems, endless whining. I sound harsh, but reality is harsh. People must stop giving cope answers. this guy must have a wake up call. He do not need a social life, he need to fix himself for god sake.
Good job fixing your posture that’s one of the most important things for looking good. And you should be trying to look good. - from a semi chad
hey man I'm just moving this message, this opportunity I know you have what it takes good luck
Start 21:39
Now you choose if your life will change or not.-37:07
Look mate, i'm gonna be honest and brutal with you.
I was miserable in my teens, i used to walk home 10km after school just to not interact with people on the bus, i always hid myself from others because i was afraid of what other people might think about me and my weight. One day i looked in the mirror and i was disgusted, i was so disgusted that i made a pact with myself: either you change or cut your whrist.
In a span of a year i got rid of my obesity and changed attitute towards life and people.
I have problems myself like everyone, but i don't feel that bottomless hole anymore.
Take my advice, embrace your suffering and insecurities so that they will become anger, anger which will fuel you towards change.
"May suffering and desperation be your traveling companions, joy and consolation your goal."
Go to a chiropractor. It fixes more issues than you think. First the body.
never talk about your insecurities, feelings with a girl = *you're out*
I think you shouldn't be so harsh with yourself because of your guitar skills being "bad" compared to the other guy. I mean, considering your experience, I think you are good enough to remain in the band even with that guy.
you should make videos on the uber rides! a lot of people do that! it could make for some great content!
Heyy, been subscribed for a while, have you seen the think before you sleep video that features you in it? If you haven’t maybe it would be or some interest to you. Wish you the best.
Still no haircut. Still no gym. Bro wake up!
I envy you dude. You seem to be on the up and up and motivated to change and better yourself. I can't even do half of that because I'm disabled unmotivated and depressed and when I get a bit of motivation to get on a healthy track and get out of my comfort zone it all goes well until one little thing doesn't and it all resets to zero and I shut down for a few months.
I’m in a bit of a doosey I have severe anxiety about driving I’m 20 and don’t want to drive I’m afraid of crashing but that also means I can’t get a job and also no woman wants a guy who can’t drive probably sounds ridiculous since your an Uber driver but that’s were I’m at getting left behind by all my friends they have jobs and money and are driving me around because I’m a bitch that’s scared to drive
Take driving lessons. That is the only way. Car will give you independence. I got my license at 21 but that was because taking a bus at that time was more convenient since there was a bus stop near my work. Try looking for jobs near your home in the mean time. But driving will help you level up in life.
@@bills1967 I live in the country
If you think you’re a b*tch that’s scared to drive, then you’re a b*tch that’s scared to drive, idk what that had to do with anyone else
@@chasp9369 then driving lessons is it.
I wish i could play guitar
PTSD without a doubt
What are your thoughts on the Oofy Doofy Theory? Video response please.
I know people hate this but we are all insecure about something. Change your hairstyle, get your body down to a range of 12-15%, and join a Muay Thai or MMA gym. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Do the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. Time to change it up. Just my stupid opinion
muay thai all the way, mma is too mixed muay thai is savage and elite
What state do you live in California?
You are featured In a video by a TH-camr named “think before you sleep”.
Make sure you aren’t low testosterone or low vitamin D, it can cause anxiety.
Yo!!! i wanted to stop by and say that if you can just fix yourself up like you looked in high school man and work on your bod. I say what you used to look like and you are a looker. You just need to retap into same energy you had back then. You'll be just fine. Your not ugly. Your view of life is ugly.
Watching all your videos after finding that infamous one and just on the part to where you got to the other guitar guy. Thats the hunger for you need for every other aspect of your life
Since you like driving, go get your emt license. It’s easy if you’re not completely r**tarded. You’ll be driving an ambulance instead of putting miles on your car
Seriously, study Jungian Psychology Typology, cognitive functions, MBTI, conscious, subconscious, the unconscious mind and the collective unconscious. Cocreation also. It will help deeply to understand other people.
So, I was watching my normal video about police interactions, traffic stops, court cams, jail documentaries, and then, for some odd reason, this guy's video about virginity shows up. I watched it. Who the hell is this guy???
My friend, related to your low energy level, i recommend you to take a look into semen retention if you don't know about it and start your journey, Good luck.
hy mr guitarist what you think about whats happening in Palestine??
He thinks Hamas are a bunch of turds. Like any right thinking person.
Diabetes can cause high blood pressure
He said in the video he doesn't have diabetes
Well, easy answer. You have not trained at the gym. You sit in a car all day and then at a computer. Why make the answers so complicated. Deadlifting at the gym fixes your backproblems in 2 weeks.
so many people has so many issues that can be fixed so so easily if they just be honest with themselves and don’t sugarcoat anything.
@@homiepat5469 Yep, I dealt with back problems, partly because of my weight and brutally sedentary lifestyle, as I worked as a software developer, spending long hours in front of a computer. I was so delusional, an idiot,, relying on medications and always complaining about it. But after I started going to the gym consistently for a month, all that pain disappeared. It's surprising... I noticed these back issues typically start around when you turn 30, at least that was the case for me. Turns out, just a month of hitting the gym was the solution.
So "hit the gym bro" sound like the most idiotic answer you can give, but it is the simple truth. People complicate things way way to much.
@@homiepat5469 real
Doesn't deadlifting damage the back?
@@aig5429 No way. You start with lower weights, only the bar + plastic weights (10lbs). Then you increase the weight by 20lbs every week. Furthermore, always do wamrups with lower weights.
I would be more careful with squats. But deadlift is totally fine. When you get the gym card, ask for an instructor to help you get started.
Well, this guy could look like a rockstar in 1 year, but this is my last attempt. I wont write anymore. I see something, a lost potential, he wont do anything about it.
Sounds like you were a naturally bright kid. You should have been doing something far more meaningful than driving for Uber. The school system, and our current society, just destroys bright kids. Sabotages their development. That anti-intellectual crabs in a bucket mentality. Don't let them win man.
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unironically, you REALLY would benefit from mewing
have you tried praying about this stuff it might help let me know if you need prayers
Stop pushing your bullshit believes on others. If he wanted to believe he wouldve already
Go to the gym and your posture will be fixed
What is wrong with Americans? 🇺🇸
Why do you judge, mind your business
@@aig5429 your the one judging Americans
@@VolSteak423 No you're the one mind your own business and go back to your crap hole
You might have low testosterone as well you should get it checked it helps with depression also.
I’d say his bad habits cause the low T. I’d say first start eating healthy, sleeping enough, and exercising. His T levels should go back to normal levels.
If he’s still having problems then maybe see the doc.
You might have scoliosis in your spinal cord.
You aren't a doctor, don't make these random suggestions. He's been to a doctor and they would've easily noticed many years ago if his spine wasn't straight. Part of a basic checkup.
Listen to tate!
stop listening to Drs and health experts and instead listen to your instincts. They are right, you feel insecure and shit about yourself because you are probably a loser. The only cure is to actually work on yourself and your mind. Let all the bad thoughts in, accept the pain. Only if you do that it is possible to make a change.
Your bad posture comes from your bad jaw. Get a jaw surgery, you will be much more attractive, confident and regain a healthy body posture.
You could read this and run away or think about my words and actually make a chanage. Answering questions if needed.
Choose better parents next time for Better Genetics
What??
@@andrewd4413 joking
@@VolSteak423you’re not funny tho?
Just hit the gym bro and go on a diet, have discipline, you’re 29, tf?
Calm down kid.
I think he's probably heard enough generic "just bro" advice at this point in his life..
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can I add you on discord somehow?, youtube keeps deleting my comment
I think they automatically do it cause of your username
@@styler8940 well you saw this at least
What’s wrong with his username?