Thank you so much for sharing your story. Woman need to hear things like this. I tried to get lipo, went to 3 diff plastic surgeons and they all surprisingly told me I didn’t need it. The last one sat me down and talked to me about diet&exercise. That talk was a turning point for me and I viewed it as god talking sense into me.
Wow! This happened to me when getting “fake teeth” was the trend 4/5 years ago. The dentist was like “I’m not shaving down perfect teeth. Absolutely not” sometimes “trends” take a hold of us 😢
BBL is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery, it boggles me how normalized it’s become. Fat embolism is deadly, and getting a surgery to fit a trend is never worth it when your life and overall health are at risk. Great video btw
Naturally women are tilted in the pelvic area. Men are the ones with flat flat tummies due to their genetic make up. Very few women have that flat flat. I’ve been working out forever and my tummy has a tilt and a little fat but it’s flat. If that makes sense.I think naturally women are meant to have that little pouch.
It’s extra protection for our uterus and reproductive organs. It’s supposed to be there. The day I figured this out was the day I stopped judging myself for having a pouch. My body is doing it’s job!
Literally! I told my sister I’m tired of my kangaroo pooch. And she said…. “Oh girl that’s not a pooch that’s just your uterus” Mind you I’m a dress size 4 so not that big
Ada, thank you for sharing. Ladies, plastic surgery is not a joke. It distorts your body. It changes the your body and not for the best. Things that cannot happen naturally show not be done manually. I repeat if it cannot occur naturally, beware. The BBL in particular make woman look unnatural. When woman have natural hips, it looks different than the manufactured hips. Natural bums do not, I repeat do look like this bubble butts. Once you change your body it becomes difficult to buy nice quality clothes. I am warning woman do not pay to play with your body. Take your time workout, learn what foods work best with your body. Lastly the hourglass shape is not only feminine body in the world. We have different shapes and the figure 8 is not just a matter of waist to hip ratio, you have consider your bust and shoulders. Trust me all woman has a shape that is desirable , but you have to desire your body 1st. Do the work, wake up early stay late, do what you need to do to look how you want.
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE EVER AND WELL STATED...I actually have been fascinated by how brave these women who get lipo with BBLs and go for round 1 and round 2. All I know is to diet, eat healthy as possible and exercise to lose weight and maintain health. And when I was working with a trainer, he had me doing all the intense exercises for abs, building muscle tone with weights in toning my thighs, arms and reducing my back frame size. I would walk and jog as well. You must have discipline with not over eating and binge eating and to also develope a routine with commitment to an exercise program that fits your limitation. Plastic surgery with these bbls and lipos come with a price to pay with longterm side effects physically and emotionally. Too many young girls in their 20s and some younger are looking to these plastic surgery procedures for confidence and that is so sad to me. Just because celebrities are doing it and you think its okay cuz you may have money to do this it is such a waste of money when there is so much else to do with the spent on these procedures like investing in stocks and buying homes.
Yes! Natural hips look nothing like bbl hips. The bbl hips are too high. Plus like you said if your body isn’t naturally an hourglass then the addition of these awkwardly high hips are going to look even more disproportionate. Not everyone can be an hourglass just like not everyone can be Victoria secret model tall and skinny. Most people fall somewhere in the middle because those are rare body types and the word would be boring if we were all shaped the same.
Yeah but not everyone intent is to have an hourglass or a figure 8 shape. I’m the outside who just want my waist suck out and have a LITTLE booty poke out and a nice widen hips. Not looking to look werid
Such great content! I work out and have gotten complements for my slim/fit thick figure. But, as of lately I’ve been seeing all these BBL before and after on all social media platforms and I began to normalize it and even hope to achieve the look with my workouts (which is literally not possible). Thanks for your honesty in this video. I’m definitely going to start the journey of accepting that those BBL bodies are not normal and that I *personally* don’t need to aspire to that.
@@CDub-df2us right? if we take away the fact that it's trendy and look at it objectively, it looks unnatural and kinda gross. natural booties, big and small are beautiful. no hate to anyone with a bbl - y'all are victims - if you think it looks good that's all that matters 🍑
I love that you’re an advocate for natural glow-ups and clearly you’re speaking from experience. Surgery is a shortcut but it comes with its own long term consequences. The health risks alone are enough to deter me from going that route. Healthy diet, exercise, and discipline will create longer lasting results 🤎
@Joe Smith first of all Mya wrote a book and moved to the suburbs but even if she is ghetto what does that have to do with her voice?. Your comment is ghetto
I’ve learned to embrace what I have naturally. I want a booty which doesn’t run in my family. I’m either going to be a gym + diet addict or embrace this flat back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Me and flat back the best of friends. Not to mention, I have a low pain tolerance so surgery is out of the question. I use to want a BBL years ago until I started watching the recovery process from youtubers. Hell no.
Lol same! I want a booty too but I’m not going to kill myself for one I just think about the fact that in my 23 years of life the body beauty standard have changed three times so why should really stress over fitting an image that’s just gonna change again!? I’m just gonna embrace my lil booty and keep on pushin 😂
Sis!!!!! I swear that for some strange reason, I wasn't fazed by the whole dying on the table thing, cos I thought I'd buy the best service; board certified, well reviewed. It's the pain part that had me like hell to no. I still dream of bbl but I literally shiver when I think of the pain. I watched one girl getting massaged and blood flowing from her sides and draining that cloth they wrap themselves in, couldn't watch for more than a couple seconds, I broke down 😭😭😭
As someone who has researched a lot about about BBL’s this is the first time hearing about the 33% rule. This video was soooooo informative. I’ve been on the fence about getting surgery for my entire adult life (I’ll be 27 in a couple of weeks). This video has solidified my decision to stay natural. Thank you a million times 😭 ✨💞
GIRL you literally put us on GAME!! I was considering lipo only around my midsection. Thank you for sharing your experience; it DEFINITELY helped me come to a more solid decision of what I wanna do 🙏🏾✨💛
Sorry your surgery was bad did mine in 2019 and I love it I was 200 lbs I dropped weight and got a bbl for shape because I was shaped like a refrigerator. I now weight 147lbs and I love my body and feel better.
@@Vanessa-iq3vt yes like a card board box even with toning still. Surgery helped hive me curves but keep in mind it's not for weight loss just to get curves and more butt for weight loss I worked out.
LOL I can’t with you Ada. Not the cots with a cut out for your booty. Way to be honest & share your experience. This is the side people don’t talk about. Love you xoxo
The crazy thing about it is people could actually get the same results in the gym and at home by working out 3-4 days a week (or 30 mins a day) and eating slightly better in the same time it takes to recover from surgery. The money spent on surgery could go to a personal trainer once a week/ month and people would still have money left over.
@@mxixttxiexactly. If you are someone who store little to no fat in your glute area, you’ll just end up with a toned, more rounded ssa. You will still not be cheeky. The women who grow an ssa in the gym, are the women who naturally store fat there.
I am SO happy this is finally catching on ..for so long everyone was vouching to get BBL or plastic surgery of some kind and now thanks to real ass women like you we can finally start spreading the facts. Keep sayin it sis!
I haven’t watched the video yet but I’m loving your channel and you’re Nigerian 🇳🇬. Your vibe and physical beauty is captivating. I have glowed up a lot physically and I get told a lot that I’m beautiful however can you talk more on being more conscious about having a feminine demeanor, tone, attitude, essence. I forget a lot especially when I’m excited talking to my boyfriend. I feel like I’m too goofy and overbearing…
@@obakenglekabe4003 fixing your posture. As she said in the video she had bad posture causing her stomach to stick out further than it should have been.
Can we talk about how pretty you are like ur skin looks amazing and that rose gold silk dress is gorgeous on you. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️
Not everyone can get a nice hourglass body working out but those of us who already have pear shaped or hourglass bodies can enhance our shapes by working out
I am SO GLAD you posted this. I’m not spending thousands to have to still eat crazy healthy and workout all the time, in addition to feeling like I got hit by a truck and pushed off a speeding train. Just to find out that fat accumulates in my neck and ankles lol. I’ll just continue dieting and mild exercise until I’m small enough to start lifting heavy
Thank you so much for this video. I was dead set on getting lipo and BBL as well as Tummy tuck after two kids but never heard someone break down for real why it’s not worth it. I might still get the the tummy tuck but no lipo, no BBL- thanks thanks thanks 🙏🏽 😁
Hi hun! Just found your channel, thank you so much for being so honest about your experience and dangers of these surgeries! I've had both lipo, at 19 yo and a bbl at 25 yo. I'm 38 now... I had no idea about the dangers of bbl at the time, as it wasn't as main stream as it is now! If I had known, I would have never done it. So thank you for bring this to attention! I will say thank God you didn't do the bbl bc that pain was the worst I've ever experienced, wayyyy more than lipo! Keep up the good work, I'm subbing! 👏🏻😻👏🏻❤️
It is so crazy that you posted this!!!! I literally have been researching doctors on Instagram for liposuction!! I work out I consistently eat pretty well but I feel like I still don’t have the “body” I desire. I also have a short torso big boobs and a small butt, no hips and I get really discouraged because I can’t necessarily change my natural shape. So I thought smart Lipo was going to be a life-changing confidence booster!
Totally agree with Ada, especially if you're close to your ideal weight - then the non-invasive stuff can work really well. Coolsculpting, sculpsure, and emsculpt are far and away the best (most effective) treatments.
Most of these pics are highly manipulated. All these sales ppl are so fraudulent and fake. That's why legit doctors don't respect doctors who do that stuff. Many plastic surgeons are like car sales men
Looking at Instagram pages is not research. Please don’t get a surgical procedure or make any decision that affects your health and potentially your life from what you see on social media.
I absolutely love this video and your transparency. You are so beautiful and I live your energy💗 putting in the work is so rewarding and honestly, way more sustainable than getting the work done.
In our part in Africa youre blessssed if your fat goes to your face because you will look youthful much longer compared to other women with slimmer faces, so maybe it did work out a bit better in the end lol
Not Reggie Couz on the stomach and nose… 😂😂😂😂😂. I never considered surgical surgery but I was down a rabbit hole & stumbled upon your video. Very well presented and so glad that you are all right.
My lipo fail: I wanted to liposuction my thighs because I already had an hour glass but I hated how big my thighs were. I had a pretty flat stomach. I did it in Colombia. Tell me why after the surgery my surgeon asked if I worked out a lot because the fat in my thighs was too hard to lipo. I was left with ripples in my thighs from the cannula but they were basically the same size. Lots of money wasted and major disappointment.
Wouldn’t the “fat””that was hard to remove” he was referring to actually be muscle? I’m sorry you had to go through that and waste money he was supposed to determine if you had enough fat or if were a good candidate for liposuction beforehand he should have turned you away he just wanted your cash 💔
@@mysteriousgirl935 That’s the only way it would make sense if it was muscle. But I did have quite a bit of fat on my thighs too. I don’t know if some fat is denser than others but I’m assuming that was the issue in this case-dense fat that was not as easy to lipo. He should’ve put in the elbow grease and got it done, at least a little bit.
@Punkie Junkie At that point, I had an intense diet and exercise regimen. My BMI was 21-22 and it wasn’t going any lower. I was all thigh. As you know, spot reduction isn’t possible. I wanted what God didn’t give me and that was the problem. But extra exercising wasn’t going to work.
@Punkie Junkie at the time I was doing 1 hr of cardio 6 days per week. I’m naturally thick in the thighs. My 11 month old daughter’s thighs are the size of her 3 year old cousin and she is normal weight. Some people are built differently which is exactly what plastic surgery should be for. Not lazy people who never put in the work.
OMG I’m hurting just listening to you sorry thank you so much for sharing and being so open and transparent and this is just a Lipo in the lower back section or the scary that is scary as hell I’m glad you made it through and you’re doing OK and this is the truth in a lot of a lot of us need to hear
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I work out daily and I just can't get rid of this pouch. I had a consultation and something just told me to cancel it. Thanks for telling the hardcore truth!
Angela, hard work and dedication is all you need to achieve your goals. im not the one to compliment any woman, but you have a beautiful face. so hit that gym hard, change your lifestyle, eat less red meat because it takes over a week to digest and stop looking for the easy way out. 😊
for the same money a personal trainer would be better for you plus you would be healthier on the inside including mentally. bless you for telling your story
I’ve had a bbl and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself especially since I did it for ME. Yes, the pain was HEEELLLL it’s not even the bbl it’s the lipo just like sis said 😩 the recovery process will play on your emotions forreal. Personally for me, it took about a month for me to feel more comfortable during my massages. Just as any surgery, do your research extensively and learn about the doctor you’re inquiring. Everything she’s saying is the truth BUT get the surgery if you choose sis, for me I couldn’t gain the hips I did on the table at the gym 🤷🏾♀️. Happy healing to those who go to the gym and are sore or go get surgery and are recovering ❤️ What did you do about your keloids? Did they eventually flatten out and lighten up?
Sis, I’ve been wanting to actually talk about this... I got a trisculpt and was highly unsatisfactory. It didn’t give what it was supposed to gave. They told me I needed to get fat sucked from my upper abs, lower abs, and my love handles... I paid out of pocket and all that. The experience was horrible. And I’m still looking the same way. They say full effects will show after 6-12 months. I’m soooo disappointed.
I always wanted to get a BBL because of my baby stomach but my guy friends would always tell me no and that i don’t need it and just go to the gym. My one friend sent me a video of a girl who went overseas to get a BBL and they left her for dead and took all her organs. After that I was like oh okay I’m going to stop joking about getting a BBL because my life is more important than that. Plus not having the money for it because I always had to pay for school out of pocket. Overall, I am finally comfortable with my body. I love my shape and I got my stomach flat by juicing and taking seamoss. I eat healthy and cook all of my meals. I was consistently in the gym and my butt was growing and lifting. I took some time off from the gym because work is hectic right now but I thank God I never saved up for a BBL and gave up on the idea. My shape is beautiful and I should of appreciated it more a few years ago but I’m happy and grateful now. Thanks for sharing your story, no one ever talks about these details because they don’t want to look stupid and feel shameful but thank you again!
But I wanna ask thou, why is it some only tell their stories when it fails?? And then try talking others from doing it.. Thank you for telling your story❤️❤️
You are super cute. I think u weren’t a good candidate to begin with, you already had a nice shape. The ones that are happy with a BBL are the ones that had no shape to begin with.
Wow thank you for this information. I didn't know the fat could go back in different areas like that. You'd be better off not getting it anyway. Save your money ladies and hit the gym🏋️♀️🤸♀️💞
She said it best...Stay you & Stay true! This statement itself should be written in the constitution but honestly it's hard for women to come to terms with this truth.
I just had a baby boy last year and I had a c section.... I was 37 and he's my first child. It's a trip to me that you stated about having children and compared it to your procedure...... I'm sorry to say but it seems like you had it WAY worse honey, and I'm sorry that you endured that. Because my birth was pretty easy and I hardly had downtime, I bounced back very quickly.
@@brklyn2922 Actually, yes..... I walked long distances almost everyday..... I wasn't particularly"slim" but I was very solid. But the amazing thing is, right after his birth I lost over 20 lbs overnight! I was slimmer than I was before getting pregnant lmao! Women's bodies are miraculous, it can do things that men will NEVER process...... I'm not a fan of lipo/plastic surgery, because we can get our bodies together without it. And also, getting these procedures done you STILL have to eat right and exercise to maintain the work you got done, so why not just DO THAT from the start????
@@exoticcabqueen9363 Yes, I was considered high risk.....also because I have a heart condition called Wolff Parkinson's White. So I had to go in a week early and get reduced......my son also was turned upwards honey! So he couldn't come through my birth canal normally, and when I contracted my heart rate went up significantly and his went DOWN significantly, so they gave me 2 options....for them to go inside and TURN him, or get a c section, I chose the c section because I was afraid if they turned him that the umbilical cord was going to be around his neck or wrap around somewhere else......
You were ashamed but not I need that video because girlll my pudge makes me feel the same way I've never been this big my entire life and all of a sudden boom i have a Pudge I can't get rid of
You went to the wrong Doctor if women were dying 3-4 times a week and his office was always full after you gave him your deposit. You were so focused on the loss of your money you missed some red flags.
Got my bbl in 2014, my butt/hip area filled out nicely and still looks great in 2021 and my stomach and back rolls went away BUT the stomach fat came back with weight gain plus I have ripples in my lower abs because I only got a few lymphatic massages and did not wear the proper garments I recommend it to ladies who want fuller hips/butt because you can’t get that in a gym
This information was incredible. It’s amazing that so many women are doing this and it ain’t even worth it. Girls are walking around with flatter stomachs with big arms sticky shoulders.. it looks worse. So sad this is a trend
I have had two major back fusion surgeries, I couldn't so much as use the bathroom after, the second was more evasive than the first as they had to remove all the metal from the first surgery. My three lower discs were removed due to the impact from my military survive, I would never go back for another surgery after that one, I still have back pain believe it or not and I needed these operations or I would eventually lose my ability to walk, it's been over 3 years since and I even had my last BB after it. I'm happy to not have to walk with a cane anymore I work out with my babies now 13; 11; 6 & 2 (low to no impact) and I'm glad I never went for that breast augmentation, my breasts use to be anywhere from DD-F when I was pregnant, I was looking at all those fake girls on those reality tv shows. Now they're like a big C I'm finally ok with that. I look at my three girls and I can't keep telling them to love themselves as they are if I were to get that done no matter my reason, my girls would probably think it's ok so yeah I'm over it, I rather work out now n live my best life with my babies. I appreciate your content working out is cheaper and looks more natural,y girls do everything they see me do, I would not be ok if they ever decided to alter their bodies that I view as perfect.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Woman need to hear things like this. I tried to get lipo, went to 3 diff plastic surgeons and they all surprisingly told me I didn’t need it. The last one sat me down and talked to me about diet&exercise. That talk was a turning point for me and I viewed it as god talking sense into me.
Wow! This happened to me when getting “fake teeth” was the trend 4/5 years ago. The dentist was like “I’m not shaving down perfect teeth. Absolutely not” sometimes “trends” take a hold of us 😢
That's incredible that those doctors had integrity and put your safety and health over profit.
@@diana_prince_1 two of them were still willing to do the surgery
Woww! Thank God, probably saved you a lot of pain and money 👏🏿
That Doc probably saved your life
BBL is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery, it boggles me how normalized it’s become. Fat embolism is deadly, and getting a surgery to fit a trend is never worth it when your life and overall health are at risk. Great video btw
Facts💯It's only 'normalized' among thots though. It's indeed the most deadly surgery and disgusting not only from a medical perspective
@@realtruth3762 1 not only women are getti bbl’s
2 stop insulting women’s for their choices
@@marinevaletudie9617 triggered
@@realtruth3762 exactly 304’s are the major ones getting it
@@marinevaletudie9617 ..
Naturally women are tilted in the pelvic area. Men are the ones with flat flat tummies due to their genetic make up. Very few women have that flat flat. I’ve been working out forever and my tummy has a tilt and a little fat but it’s flat. If that makes sense.I think naturally women are meant to have that little pouch.
It’s extra protection for our uterus and reproductive organs. It’s supposed to be there. The day I figured this out was the day I stopped judging myself for having a pouch. My body is doing it’s job!
I am a size 0, and I have an area that slightly protrudes as well. It's completely normal!!
Literally! I told my sister I’m tired of my kangaroo pooch. And she said….
“Oh girl that’s not a pooch that’s just your uterus”
Mind you I’m a dress size 4 so not that big
I’m a size 2 with a pouch
We are! We genetically carry more weight down there due to the uterus (extra protection for the hypothetical children we bare.)
Ada, thank you for sharing. Ladies, plastic surgery is not a joke. It distorts your body. It changes the your body and not for the best. Things that cannot happen naturally show not be done manually. I repeat if it cannot occur naturally, beware. The BBL in particular make woman look unnatural. When woman have natural hips, it looks different than the manufactured hips. Natural bums do not, I repeat do look like this bubble butts. Once you change your body it becomes difficult to buy nice quality clothes. I am warning woman do not pay to play with your body. Take your time workout, learn what foods work best with your body. Lastly the hourglass shape is not only feminine body in the world. We have different shapes and the figure 8 is not just a matter of waist to hip ratio, you have consider your bust and shoulders. Trust me all woman has a shape that is desirable , but you have to desire your body 1st. Do the work, wake up early stay late, do what you need to do to look how you want.
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE EVER AND WELL STATED...I actually have been fascinated by how brave these women who get lipo with BBLs and go for round 1 and round 2. All I know is to diet, eat healthy as possible and exercise to lose weight and maintain health. And when I was working with a trainer, he had me doing all the intense exercises for abs, building muscle tone with weights in toning my thighs, arms and reducing my back frame size. I would walk and jog as well. You must have discipline with not over eating and binge eating and to also develope a routine with commitment to an exercise program that fits your limitation. Plastic surgery with these bbls and lipos come with a price to pay with longterm side effects physically and emotionally. Too many young girls in their 20s and some younger are looking to these plastic surgery procedures for confidence and that is so sad to me. Just because celebrities are doing it and you think its okay cuz you may have money to do this it is such a waste of money when there is so much else to do with the spent on these procedures like investing in stocks and buying homes.
Yes! Natural hips look nothing like bbl hips. The bbl hips are too high. Plus like you said if your body isn’t naturally an hourglass then the addition of these awkwardly high hips are going to look even more disproportionate. Not everyone can be an hourglass just like not everyone can be Victoria secret model tall and skinny. Most people fall somewhere in the middle because those are rare body types and the word would be boring if we were all shaped the same.
Yeah but not everyone intent is to have an hourglass or a figure 8 shape. I’m the outside who just want my waist suck out and have a LITTLE booty poke out and a nice widen hips. Not looking to look werid
Such great content! I work out and have gotten complements for my slim/fit thick figure. But, as of lately I’ve been seeing all these BBL before and after on all social media platforms and I began to normalize it and even hope to achieve the look with my workouts (which is literally not possible). Thanks for your honesty in this video. I’m definitely going to start the journey of accepting that those BBL bodies are not normal and that I *personally* don’t need to aspire to that.
Love this and can relate, good luck to you 💕
They don’t even look good lol
@@CDub-df2us right? if we take away the fact that it's trendy and look at it objectively, it looks unnatural and kinda gross. natural booties, big and small are beautiful. no hate to anyone with a bbl - y'all are victims - if you think it looks good that's all that matters 🍑
I love that you’re an advocate for natural glow-ups and clearly you’re speaking from experience. Surgery is a shortcut but it comes with its own long term consequences. The health risks alone are enough to deter me from going that route. Healthy diet, exercise, and discipline will create longer lasting results 🤎
Her voice is giving Mya from girlfriends. I love it
I can’t unhear it 🥰
@Joe Smith first of all Mya wrote a book and moved to the suburbs but even if she is ghetto what does that have to do with her voice?. Your comment is ghetto
I was thinking her whole vibe gives me Toni, def a Toni
When I hear her talk, I hear Meaghan Goode. She even kind of looks like her. 😁
I thought it was just me ! I love it so feminine
Just came across your channel. Your giving me miss Vivica Fox vibes. Love it sis
Yep! Voice and appearance, she's beautiful.
I’ve learned to embrace what I have naturally. I want a booty which doesn’t run in my family. I’m either going to be a gym + diet addict or embrace this flat back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me and flat back the best of friends.
Not to mention, I have a low pain tolerance so surgery is out of the question. I use to want a BBL years ago until I started watching the recovery process from youtubers. Hell no.
Lol same! I want a booty too but I’m not going to kill myself for one I just think about the fact that in my 23 years of life the body beauty standard have changed three times so why should really stress over fitting an image that’s just gonna change again!? I’m just gonna embrace my lil booty and keep on pushin 😂
Sis!!!!! I swear that for some strange reason, I wasn't fazed by the whole dying on the table thing, cos I thought I'd buy the best service; board certified, well reviewed. It's the pain part that had me like hell to no. I still dream of bbl but I literally shiver when I think of the pain. I watched one girl getting massaged and blood flowing from her sides and draining that cloth they wrap themselves in, couldn't watch for more than a couple seconds, I broke down 😭😭😭
@I Love Cookies period !!!!
@@8ri1 I’m with you on that. If we don’t go under the knife and embrace what we have, there’s no need to continuously fix ourselves to please society.
@@hummingbird4335 it’s not worth it lol
I am literally soooo amazed and honored with my highest respect for you being transparent and informative I am so grateful for you you’re beautiful
As someone who has researched a lot about about BBL’s this is the first time hearing about the 33% rule. This video was soooooo informative. I’ve been on the fence about getting surgery for my entire adult life (I’ll be 27 in a couple of weeks). This video has solidified my decision to stay natural. Thank you a million times 😭 ✨💞
GIRL you literally put us on GAME!! I was considering lipo only around my midsection. Thank you for sharing your experience; it DEFINITELY helped me come to a more solid decision of what I wanna do 🙏🏾✨💛
Sorry your surgery was bad did mine in 2019 and I love it I was 200 lbs I dropped weight and got a bbl for shape because I was shaped like a refrigerator. I now weight 147lbs and I love my body and feel better.
Same here sis
Not refrigerator lmao.
@@Vanessa-iq3vt yes like a card board box even with toning still. Surgery helped hive me curves but keep in mind it's not for weight loss just to get curves and more butt for weight loss I worked out.
@@renea5667 how much did you paid?
I happy this worked for you. I’m getting close to losing a total 100lbs and too look like a refrigerator. I definitely want a bbl, but I’m terrified.
LOL I can’t with you Ada. Not the cots with a cut out for your booty. Way to be honest & share your experience. This is the side people don’t talk about. Love you xoxo
LMAO this part tickled me so.
This video confirms liposuction is absolutely not for me. Sticking to my nutrition and workouts. Appreciate you for sharing your experience!
Likewise ❤️
The crazy thing about it is people could actually get the same results in the gym and at home by working out 3-4 days a week (or 30 mins a day) and eating slightly better in the same time it takes to recover from surgery. The money spent on surgery could go to a personal trainer once a week/ month and people would still have money left over.
People are lazy and want quick results. Took me 2-3 years to grow my lower body.
No you cannot…surgery vs gym are two separate results. Someone with a certain body type will never get surgery results.
C I was talking things like lipo. So yes, you can. The only time it wouldn’t work is if someone had something like lipoedema
@@mxixttxiexactly. If you are someone who store little to no fat in your glute area, you’ll just end up with a toned, more rounded ssa. You will still not be cheeky. The women who grow an ssa in the gym, are the women who naturally store fat there.
I love how transparent you are being about this and letting us know the effects of liposuction. I really appreciate that!
I’m so happy I’m drawn to natural methods and remedies 😂…The gym is your friend ladies 😅
Yup
Exactly plus I think the added benefits of learning how to eat right n workout is more long term…
I am SO happy this is finally catching on
..for so long everyone was vouching to get BBL or plastic surgery of some kind and now thanks to real ass women like you we can finally start spreading the facts. Keep sayin it sis!
So true Lipo is not worth it, if you’re young and can work out/ diet just do it and save your money
I haven’t watched the video yet but I’m loving your channel and you’re Nigerian 🇳🇬. Your vibe and physical beauty is captivating. I have glowed up a lot physically and I get told a lot that I’m beautiful however can you talk more on being more conscious about having a feminine demeanor, tone, attitude, essence. I forget a lot especially when I’m excited talking to my boyfriend. I feel like I’m too goofy and overbearing…
The best way to be is you.
Sounds like it’s better to go to chiropractor, get personal trainer and change eating. If it takes a year I think a lot can be achieved after year.
How does a chiropractor help you get an hour glass figure?
@@obakenglekabe4003 posture, nothing more I'm sure.
Facts!
@@obakenglekabe4003 fixing your posture. As she said in the video she had bad posture causing her stomach to stick out further than it should have been.
Can we talk about how pretty you are like ur skin looks amazing and that rose gold silk dress is gorgeous on you. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️
Not everyone can get a nice hourglass body working out but those of us who already have pear shaped or hourglass bodies can enhance our shapes by working out
I discovered your channel 2 days ago and I’m HOOKED
I am SO GLAD you posted this. I’m not spending thousands to have to still eat crazy healthy and workout all the time, in addition to feeling like I got hit by a truck and pushed off a speeding train. Just to find out that fat accumulates in my neck and ankles lol. I’ll just continue dieting and mild exercise until I’m small enough to start lifting heavy
First, I love the honesty !! Yes I agree many need to consider the PAIN, maintenance cost and mortality rate
Thank you so much for this video. I was dead set on getting lipo and BBL as well as Tummy tuck after two kids but never heard someone break down for real why it’s not worth it. I might still get the the tummy tuck but no lipo, no BBL- thanks thanks thanks 🙏🏽 😁
This sounds like actual murder
Hi hun! Just found your channel, thank you so much for being so honest about your experience and dangers of these surgeries! I've had both lipo, at 19 yo and a bbl at 25 yo. I'm 38 now... I had no idea about the dangers of bbl at the time, as it wasn't as main stream as it is now! If I had known, I would have never done it. So thank you for bring this to attention! I will say thank God you didn't do the bbl bc that pain was the worst I've ever experienced, wayyyy more than lipo! Keep up the good work, I'm subbing! 👏🏻😻👏🏻❤️
It is so crazy that you posted this!!!! I literally have been researching doctors on Instagram for liposuction!! I work out I consistently eat pretty well but I feel like I still don’t have the “body” I desire. I also have a short torso big boobs and a small butt, no hips and I get really discouraged because I can’t necessarily change my natural shape. So I thought smart Lipo was going to be a life-changing confidence booster!
No no and no! Go non invasive first, it’ll save money and pain. Glad I could help 😢 been there.
Totally agree with Ada, especially if you're close to your ideal weight - then the non-invasive stuff can work really well. Coolsculpting, sculpsure, and emsculpt are far and away the best (most effective) treatments.
Most of these pics are highly manipulated. All these sales ppl are so fraudulent and fake. That's why legit doctors don't respect doctors who do that stuff. Many plastic surgeons are like car sales men
Looking at Instagram pages is not research. Please don’t get a surgical procedure or make any decision that affects your health and potentially your life from what you see on social media.
I absolutely love this video and your transparency. You are so beautiful and I live your energy💗 putting in the work is so rewarding and honestly, way more sustainable than getting the work done.
You are super engaging! Thanks for sharing your story- so many ladies out there need to hear this 💗
You’re gorgeous, when you look up beautiful in the dictionary your picture is right there❤️
I’ve not had surgery but from people I know, surgery really isn’t as easy as 123. There’s a lot of dedication needed and it’s not for everyone 🤷🏾♀️
In our part in Africa youre blessssed if your fat goes to your face because you will look youthful much longer compared to other women with slimmer faces, so maybe it did work out a bit better in the end lol
Love the perspective
What part of Africa is that? Asking for myself and my chubby face.
@@Daniellenotdanielle 😂🤣😂
Thank you for being open about your personal life sweetie! You just helped me to connect with you more… love your content beautiful 💖
Thank you for the real conversation. I’m happy that so many girls have successful surgeries but when you talk about your emotions and pain it’s real.
Not Reggie Couz on the stomach and nose… 😂😂😂😂😂.
I never considered surgical surgery but I was down a rabbit hole & stumbled upon your video. Very well presented and so glad that you are all right.
My lipo fail: I wanted to liposuction my thighs because I already had an hour glass but I hated how big my thighs were. I had a pretty flat stomach. I did it in Colombia. Tell me why after the surgery my surgeon asked if I worked out a lot because the fat in my thighs was too hard to lipo. I was left with ripples in my thighs from the cannula but they were basically the same size. Lots of money wasted and major disappointment.
Wouldn’t the “fat””that was hard to remove” he was referring to actually be muscle? I’m sorry you had to go through that and waste money he was supposed to determine if you had enough fat or if were a good candidate for liposuction beforehand he should have turned you away he just wanted your cash 💔
@@mysteriousgirl935 That’s the only way it would make sense if it was muscle. But I did have quite a bit of fat on my thighs too. I don’t know if some fat is denser than others but I’m assuming that was the issue in this case-dense fat that was not as easy to lipo. He should’ve put in the elbow grease and got it done, at least a little bit.
@Punkie Junkie yes my thighs were dense but geez give me a little something for my thousands of dollars
@Punkie Junkie At that point, I had an intense diet and exercise regimen. My BMI was 21-22 and it wasn’t going any lower. I was all thigh. As you know, spot reduction isn’t possible. I wanted what God didn’t give me and that was the problem. But extra exercising wasn’t going to work.
@Punkie Junkie at the time I was doing 1 hr of cardio 6 days per week. I’m naturally thick in the thighs. My 11 month old daughter’s thighs are the size of her 3 year old cousin and she is normal weight. Some people are built differently which is exactly what plastic surgery should be for. Not lazy people who never put in the work.
When are we getting a makeup video. We want
Seriously!! We need it 😫
Yes 🙊
😍😍
OMG I’m hurting just listening to you sorry thank you so much for sharing and being so open and transparent and this is just a Lipo in the lower back section or the scary that is scary as hell I’m glad you made it through and you’re doing OK and this is the truth in a lot of a lot of us need to hear
Ciao Ada ,hai una nuova iscritta.Sei bellissima cosi come sei non fare nesun intervento.Un forte abbraccio!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I work out daily and I just can't get rid of this pouch. I had a consultation and something just told me to cancel it. Thanks for telling the hardcore truth!
I have been considering lipo on my arms. Thanks for talking me out if it.
Angela, hard work and dedication is all you need to achieve your goals. im not the one to compliment any woman, but you have a beautiful face. so hit that gym hard, change your lifestyle, eat less red meat because it takes over a week to digest and stop looking for the easy way out. 😊
I think it's more than a 33 percent category. I think they just don't tell us that because they wanna make their money
I been thinking about 360 lipo for a couple months, but after this I will just go to the gym and eat better.🙏🏽
This was soo informative i naturally have a big but with a small torso but I’m ok I definitely want a smaller stomach
And you can definitely get it without surgery in 2021!
@@curvesbyada do you have tips ffor that?
you are so absolutely STUNNING like WOW. The girls do NOT look like you in 4K chile okayyyyy. You better WERK
Your voice and skin are both so smooth and gorgeous. You also have an incredibly beautiful face!
Love your content💋 you’re so pretty beautiful skin can you do video on classy hair styles with and without weaves or wigs
This is what a goddess looks like.
This video is Heaven sent. I’ve been considering getting one for over a year now. Thank you 🤍
Me too! I can't be down that long with my son and family depend on me.
She got it done about 5 years ago , i think surgeons are doing better now a days
One of the best videos on BBL and liposuction risks. Thank you for posting this reality check.
for the same money a personal trainer would be better for you plus you would be healthier on the inside including mentally. bless you for telling your story
Loved this! I’m doing body cavitation because I’m scared of real lipo. I’m documenting it on my TH-cam.
Is that one of the body contouring treatments?🤔
@@GoaWay... yea
@@Sabrina_E. oh okay. Thank you. Did you do it already? If so, how did it turn out so far?🙂
I fuckin love your vibe, you’re so poised
You are so stunning!!! I was going back for round 2 but, it isn't worth the risk.
I’m pro surgery but I enjoyed this video. Subscribed.
Wow. I can’t believe ppl are casually doing this…
They're completely brainw. by all the sales ppl who only care about getting your 💰not your life
I’ve had a bbl and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself especially since I did it for ME. Yes, the pain was HEEELLLL it’s not even the bbl it’s the lipo just like sis said 😩 the recovery process will play on your emotions forreal. Personally for me, it took about a month for me to feel more comfortable during my massages. Just as any surgery, do your research extensively and learn about the doctor you’re inquiring. Everything she’s saying is the truth BUT get the surgery if you choose sis, for me I couldn’t gain the hips I did on the table at the gym 🤷🏾♀️. Happy healing to those who go to the gym and are sore or go get surgery and are recovering ❤️
What did you do about your keloids? Did they eventually flatten out and lighten up?
Where did you research your doctor? I could go to
Solon Bella’s but they cost like 25k
@@melteddarkchocolate000 I went to Dr. Harrell at Jolie’s.
Keloids???!!! The hell.
@F A because you know me that well right? Blessings to you.
@F A incel move along 🙄 men don’t care what women do to their bodies. As long they are healthy and theirs Thats gets them jumpin
Sis, I’ve been wanting to actually talk about this... I got a trisculpt and was highly unsatisfactory. It didn’t give what it was supposed to gave. They told me I needed to get fat sucked from my upper abs, lower abs, and my love handles... I paid out of pocket and all that. The experience was horrible. And I’m still looking the same way. They say full effects will show after 6-12 months. I’m soooo disappointed.
I hope the results really do show through for you 🥺 that’s hella annoying g
My 1st time to your channel I love it personality, and very down to earth. Great video very informative.
Thank you very much for the TRUTH!
Nne your experience has cured me right quick, thanks!
I always wanted to get a BBL because of my baby stomach but my guy friends would always tell me no and that i don’t need it and just go to the gym. My one friend sent me a video of a girl who went overseas to get a BBL and they left her for dead and took all her organs. After that I was like oh okay I’m going to stop joking about getting a BBL because my life is more important than that. Plus not having the money for it because I always had to pay for school out of pocket. Overall, I am finally comfortable with my body. I love my shape and I got my stomach flat by juicing and taking seamoss. I eat healthy and cook all of my meals. I was consistently in the gym and my butt was growing and lifting. I took some time off from the gym because work is hectic right now but I thank God I never saved up for a BBL and gave up on the idea. My shape is beautiful and I should of appreciated it more a few years ago but I’m happy and grateful now. Thanks for sharing your story, no one ever talks about these details because they don’t want to look stupid and feel shameful but thank you again!
But I wanna ask thou, why is it some only tell their stories when it fails?? And then try talking others from doing it.. Thank you for telling your story❤️❤️
Right 🤷🏾♀️
I guess i don’t see the logic in your question? Who better to tell you not to do it than someone who did first hand?
@@shesaw5901 that’s only if it goes wrong.
You are super cute. I think u weren’t a good candidate to begin with, you already had a nice shape. The ones that are happy with a BBL are the ones that had no shape to begin with.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s important that people understand the risks of ps. Maybe it will help people accept themselves.
Wow thank you for this information. I didn't know the fat could go back in different areas like that. You'd be better off not getting it anyway. Save your money ladies and hit the gym🏋️♀️🤸♀️💞
Please make a makeup video. I love your looks. Haha share your makeup tips please!!
Thanks for such a transparent video! Very informative and educative 🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing! I am a Trainer and there are safe alternatives for BBL's like exercises.
She said it best...Stay you & Stay true! This statement itself should be written in the constitution but honestly it's hard for women to come to terms with this truth.
I love your honesty and something about your voice is soothing.
Wow thanks for this. Logging out of YT now to go take a run 🏃♀️.
New subbie you are too real. Love it - all your videos lol
Thank you for sharing! You are such a gem
I just had a baby boy last year and I had a c section.... I was 37 and he's my first child. It's a trip to me that you stated about having children and compared it to your procedure...... I'm sorry to say but it seems like you had it WAY worse honey, and I'm sorry that you endured that. Because my birth was pretty easy and I hardly had downtime, I bounced back very quickly.
Congratulations on baby boy. Did you workout prior to having your baby?
@@brklyn2922 Actually, yes..... I walked long distances almost everyday..... I wasn't particularly"slim" but I was very solid. But the amazing thing is, right after his birth I lost over 20 lbs overnight! I was slimmer than I was before getting pregnant lmao! Women's bodies are miraculous, it can do things that men will NEVER process...... I'm not a fan of lipo/plastic surgery, because we can get our bodies together without it. And also, getting these procedures done you STILL have to eat right and exercise to maintain the work you got done, so why not just DO THAT from the start????
@@laronzacoleman3121 Congratulations on maintaining your health and fitness. Nutrition and fitness is the way to go. Thanks for your response 😊
@@laronzacoleman3121 did you have a high risk pregnancy considering your age
@@exoticcabqueen9363 Yes, I was considered high risk.....also because I have a heart condition called Wolff Parkinson's White. So I had to go in a week early and get reduced......my son also was turned upwards honey! So he couldn't come through my birth canal normally, and when I contracted my heart rate went up significantly and his went DOWN significantly, so they gave me 2 options....for them to go inside and TURN him, or get a c section, I chose the c section because I was afraid if they turned him that the umbilical cord was going to be around his neck or wrap around somewhere else......
You were ashamed but not I need that video because girlll my pudge makes me feel the same way I've never been this big my entire life and all of a sudden boom i have a Pudge I can't get rid of
You went to the wrong Doctor if women were dying 3-4 times a week and his office was always full after you gave him your deposit. You were so focused on the loss of your money you missed some red flags.
Who the fuck is this butcher she went to that was killing 4 patients a week!? He needs to be reported to the medical board oh my God . . .
@@mirsolis4992 “butcher” 💀 but sadly accurate
Thank you for this! I too have a short torso and have been self conscious about it
Wow this really woke me up to the truth on these plastic surgeries especially lipo I will never get it for sure 😬
Got my bbl in 2014, my butt/hip area filled out nicely and still looks great in 2021 and my stomach and back rolls went away
BUT the stomach fat came back with weight gain plus I have ripples in my lower abs because I only got a few lymphatic massages and did not wear the proper garments
I recommend it to ladies who want fuller hips/butt because you can’t get that in a gym
Ada, I appreciate your honesty so much on this one and it makes me appreciate my tiny booty even more!
"🎶 oh hell nooooo" 😹😭
When i tell you
, I hollered!!! Not the nose!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing your truth! You are very Beautiful; continue to enjoy your healthy journey of eating right & exercising.
Just watched the 5 things to do to level up! I loved the video, your voice and you! New sub ❤️
Thank you for your total honesty!!! Very scary.
I’m 21 but I never ever got a bbl I wouldn’t dare I’m happy I’m in love with working out eating healthy and drinking water that’s all
This information was incredible. It’s amazing that so many women are doing this and it ain’t even worth it. Girls are walking around with flatter stomachs with big arms sticky shoulders.. it looks worse. So sad this is a trend
That's because the lipo areas kill the fat cells and the fat migrate to other areas, usu chest, arms
@@barbarajohnson3876 wow.. and I heard it’s addictive also. The girl I know looks like this and she saying she wants more lipo
I have had two major back fusion surgeries, I couldn't so much as use the bathroom after, the second was more evasive than the first as they had to remove all the metal from the first surgery. My three lower discs were removed due to the impact from my military survive, I would never go back for another surgery after that one, I still have back pain believe it or not and I needed these operations or I would eventually lose my ability to walk, it's been over 3 years since and I even had my last BB after it. I'm happy to not have to walk with a cane anymore I work out with my babies now 13; 11; 6 & 2 (low to no impact) and I'm glad I never went for that breast augmentation, my breasts use to be anywhere from DD-F when I was pregnant, I was looking at all those fake girls on those reality tv shows. Now they're like a big C I'm finally ok with that. I look at my three girls and I can't keep telling them to love themselves as they are if I were to get that done no matter my reason, my girls would probably think it's ok so yeah I'm over it, I rather work out now n live my best life with my babies. I appreciate your content working out is cheaper and looks more natural,y girls do everything they see me do, I would not be ok if they ever decided to alter their bodies that I view as perfect.
I don’t know why I was under the impression that limo would be less painful than other procedures.
First time I have seen any of your content. You are truly beautiful. . .
Im still getting it. Thank you for your videos. Keep tem comn
Thank you for sharing, i will just go to the gym and see what the lord will give me . This mommy Nelly might just be here to stay cause 😬
My first time seeing your videos! Love your aura 🥰♥️
Thanks for sharing! This is the information many women aren’t prepared for.
Btw where is your dress/top from?