Thanks for sharing, I am like you, I love my space, never wanted children, traveled, moved, and then married at 45, because I did find someone I wanted to share my life and space with! ..married for 26 years, loved sharing that life, lost him to cancer 10 years ago, still single, loving my space and single life... everyone is different, it's great when someone has the life they want, and I'm still working and living at 82! I love hearing and seeing all the things that you do, if I was young again, I would be doing what you are doing!... to your happy adventures ahead whatever they may be.....
I was born to be a mom. I have three grown kids. My eldest daughter is 31 and has chosen to not have children or a partner at this point. My son and his wife have been together since high school and are still waiting at 29 to have kids at some point. Then there is my youngest who has also been with her high school sweetheart for 9 years, however they are 24 and married with 4 kids that are 5, 2 year old twins and a 1 year old! All my kids have chosen different paths. I truly believe in this world there is no longer a right or normal way to move through life. We just need to give each other the space to be our own true selves.
My daughter has problems with depression. She incorporated exercise into her life . She became so proficient, the gym she goes to offered her a job. She now teaches 6 classes a week and even takes classes with other instructors. Does her a world of good!!!
You are such an interesting and lovely person and it's great that you share some of your deeper thoughts. And you have the right to only share what YOU want. I admire all that you do and when you don't know how to do it, you'll find out. And thanks for breaking the stereotype of what women should or should not do. It really makes me mad when people assume things and expect that you should fall into a certain box. Why is it so hard to just let everybody live their lives the way they want to?
I'm Brazilian, I'm 60 years old and I admire your courage, strength and determination. As a woman, breaking patterns is always difficult, but it's beautiful to see. Congratulations on your life and your choices! Be happy and care less and less about what people think of you. ❤
I don't agree with any particular difficulties women face breaking patterns. If anything it's quite opposite. Women always get encouragement, especially for breaking patterns. whatever a lady does there's the 'you go girl'. men just do stuff and don't get any praise for it because, oh well, he's a guy, he gets anything he wants served on a silver plate, like men don't have to struggle or face difficulties.
Love your videos! l’m 65, never married, no kids, I dote on my niece and nephews. I LOVE my alone time, doing whatever I want and not having to check in with anyone!
I'm one of the many that discovered your channel with that pine needles basket video. I'm glad that it stumbled upon my youtube feed cause I like very much all your content 😀I'm sure that vongola will be used to the bike trail very soon. cheers =)
You're not alone. I'm feeling that seasonal change. Just remember that you are a passenger on a planet that is racing around the sun and blasting through the universe. You have no control over the seasons
Your pathway is set so naturally into the earth, as if it’s always been there; well done. I too use my small van as a truck at times, moving rocks and furniture, etc. And then, using ramps and other tricks for managing large objects on my own works rather better than people realize. I call this my ‘Egyptian pyramid-building techniques.’ I remember your pine basket video and your demeanor as you demonstrated; it made me want to subscribe.
You forgot spinning around its axis daily at an incredible speed!😄 Wobbling a bit throughout the year, thus creating the seasons for certain parts on the rock. Vitamin D to the rescue!
I'm childfree by choice and have known that basically my whole life. I'm glad you shared that truth about yourself and choosing not to marry as it may help someone who's feeling pressured. I wouldn't think anything of your partner helping you as being bad or weak. I do think really independent people have a difficult time asking for help, but as usually always helping others when asked. If your partner can help and wants to, let them. ❤
Yes indeed about boundaries, I didn't have any, so had to learn how to cultivate some. Life is short which reminds me of a song... by Jim Croce " there never seems to be enough time to do the things you want to do once you find them" Take care.
Thank you for being probably the most honest person on TH-cam. You certainly don't have to be anyone but yourself to achieve your goals or targets that fit you. It's rather nice to hear that you have a partner for some things but that is none our business and we view your videos simply as how you choose to lead your life and as a brilliant example of what any one person can achieve if they choose to do so. You bring us practical ideas, joy and laughter. We genuinely appreciate you in return. Have faith in yourself as we do in you. Love and best wishes from Ellan Vannin/Isle of Man somewhere in the Irish Sea. We would welcome you in an instant!
Thank you for being open about not wanting a family. Even as a guy (I think girls get it worse), I get so many comments about "having a family", and I just don't understand why people are SO obsessed with other people having kids. I like my life without kids. I like my freedom. I wish they'd just accept people want different things out of life..
If only they could appreciate us for who we are. I was never meant to be a mother. It's better to know it early in life; because leaving a family is the hardest thing to. When someone finally realizes they have different needs, and it was never meant to be, no matter how hard he or she tried to please others.
The green on your steps is algae. It grows there because it is damp and shady. You could just leave it, but if you want to remove it you can use boiling water, spray vinegar or a dilute solution of bleach. These are listed in order of environmental friendliness. Thank you for your wonderful channel.
Glad to see another video from you. Glad to see you are doing well. As for projects, I been redoing my back yard now for 3 years and I could have hired landscapers to do it in a week. But I think you and I are quite similar, we prefer to do things ourselves and we prefer our solitaire lifestyle without having to be lonely. You are a strong woman (both mentally and physically). Don't worry about how long it takes you to do a project compared to what others may be able to do it in. You are getting the experience of doing it. It is being done the way you want it to be done. And when it is done, you get to enjoy the work you put in to it.
Thanks for your honesty! I’m totally with you on so many things: Seasonal sadness Not wanting kids (I’m female) Having some long term boyfriends, but not getting married. Owning my own homes and doing as much of my own work as possible. And finally supporting myself off my very small business for 27 years already. All that is to say that I relate to much of your content and I very much respect you !!! 68-year old happy lady in San Francisco and proud Patreon member :-)))
You go Girl! I am probably twice your age and never had the desire to live a traditional life (married with kids - nothing wrong with that of course). Instead I get to enjoy an adventurous life, similar to what you are doing but not as many skills just yet but getting there. I do admire all your skills. Well done on those stairs. It doesn't matter how long it takes, the result is beautiful and with plants and spring tulips it will be amazing. I am planting 4 new trees on my property, so I know what it feels like to finish up a difficult task. Keep being you, I can't wait to see your next videos. Oh, I am a dancer too :)
Ohh You know what ?! I took my knitting project in my hand as I sat to watch your video....and you did the same, knitting outside, the coincidence made me smile large ! Knitting keeps our mind sane if I can say and colorfull projects are good to cheer us up, I think. Love to you
Some of the women on TH-cam are so inspiring and self made and so different from how I'm ... I love love them.... With or without partner it doesn't not matter, they are doing what they want (I mean they might have much more expectations from themselves) but they are all lovely and strong... I'm so inspired by them. You are one such person. Hope I could join your patreon some day. Love from India.
Very nice path…..the red bushes will be really pretty in the summer, we have followed you do so many projects so well, you are beautiful and very talented ❤
Good on you living the way that’s right for you, frustrating getting comments like that. I’m married but we decided kids wasn’t for us and 100% think everyone should do what’s right for them and not what’s expected x
Great video! And same, we moved into our property almost 2 years ago with a large list of what we were going to do . . . . majority still not done as the large financial infrastructure takes precedence over the small fun ones. But one step at a time. x
Thank you Marina!! It's so refreshing to hear someone else talking about traditional paths and not necessarily having to choose the family life! Ive had so much pressure from society telling you 'clock is ticking' it's hard that this is still not accepted! 'What else is a woman suppose to do with her life'! eeeh watch your videos and see how strong woman can be living on their own! needed that today! love from The Netherlands
Marina I appreciate you and your videos so much. Thanks for opening up with us and sharing so much. I’m definitely in the “no kids” camp and love it! Keep on being you. You are wonderful. ❤
Thank you for this very honest presentation . I have an 1880 Victorian, and some days, I am just stuck, others, I get a lot done. I have learned it is a process, and accepted that some of it will be done by the next steward of this beautiful place. So excited to see your spring bulbs blooming, it is going to be amazing, and you have inpired me to get mine planted! PS: I am 70, and always enjoy watching your content!
What a beautifully honest video. The older I get the more I feel that an "alternative" way of life is what I crave....but really that's too late for me - even though my life is anything but normal. . Keep following your heart and thank you for creating such an enjoyable safe space in your vlogs.
The book that i came across which is also very helpful - about mindfulness - is called Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat - Zinn which i can recommend.As a person of advanced years something that was once told me by a friend made sense - the mind keeps writing the cheques but the body can't always honour them ! Given what you have achieved in your life so far you should be very satisfied with the outcomes.
Well done in finding a partner that aligns with your ideal life. I’m the same, can’t imagine living full time with someone but as yet not found my like minded partner. Thank you for sharing everything on here.
Nothing about life is one size fits all, and we change throughout our lives. You do you, Marina. You're a vibrant, interesting person with strengths and foibles, as we all have, charting your own path according to what suits you. I find that admirable, particularly for a young woman choosing to do and learn so much on her own.
It's good to know you have people who are close to you though of course you are right it's nobody's business, but you seem a warm-hearted person and I realise I am happy for you just to know that. I would never have doubted that you are the woman behind the work, either lol Everyone gets to choose their own life or to make the best of what their environment offers them, at least. Mine began with an early child and led to 2 more and a partner of 40 yrs, that led to grandchildren and I'm very happy about that and having my family around me; it means I rely less on friends tbh - and people often think that is weird but it's my choice evolving from my life experience, it doesn't have to apply to anyone else!!
I very much enjoyed this video (I love all of your videos). I have 2 sons, 43 and 44. Both happily married for 12 and 14 years. My younger son has 4 children, my older son and his wife chose not to have children, and both families are happy with their choices. I can’t and never will understand people who assume everyone wants the same lifestyle!
Luck choose you because you were hard working and consistent. Have been following you before the video and feel happy the way you have created your life. Wish you all the prosperity and happiness hhat you want!!!
One thing that's made a huge difference with our new rescue dog who is very fearful is using a kong. We fill it with his regular food and freeze it and he has to work at it a long time. We fed him in the places he was afraid to go like he was afraid of the tiles in the sun room, afraid to go up the stairs, afraid of the car. Maybe that will help vongole want to stay in the carrier for longer if he had to spend 40 minutes licking food.
I second the comments of others. Soooo glad to see you are human and not a super power being disguised as a wonderful human being. I love that you shared not only about your personal views on relationships etc. It’s not our business. Let’s be honest. BUT at same time we are curious creatures. And social ones that want to relate to folks we admire. AND phew!!! That walkway and stone wall would take me at least 1-2 years. So I’m dooo relieved to hear you say it wasn’t a weekend project. Now THAT gives me motivation to start on mine - it’s been on my to do list for ohh 3 years 😛. Sending you lots of positive and loving energy for those seasonal blue days. I get it. ❤
Hi Marina Thank you for sharing. Its good to know that you have a partner as they are a great help at times when feeling down.I have problems with depression and Ive come to realise that if i didnt have the help and support of my partner i would probably have moved on to another place ( if there is one ) by now. I find your videos very entertaining and am often amazed by what you achieve. I think everyone is different and its best to live your life in a way that suits you best and try not to take too much notice of what other people say. Best wishes from N.E England
When l got my first flat, l thought l would be like god, decorate a room a day and rest on Sunday. Three weeks later my friends peeled me off a ladder crying, half way through room one, took me for a drink, or two. Now l know god laughs at my grand plans. That whatever l think the time it will take, double it and add a year. Cost, treble it and add a nought. You are doing good girl. And suffering from SAD, l just rest in winter, and let everything else go ❤
It is nice to hear that another woman also doesn't want to share her space. I enjoy romance and relationship but I love my own personal space too. I think your doing a great job and so what if someone male or female gives you a hand now and then. Some things need two people especially heavy things!
It never occurred to me to doubt you are the one doing the work. You seem strong and capable and I love watching your videos. There's no reason to feel bad about not getting everything done quickly. That is the nature of a house in the country, there always a million projects waiting, things always take longer than expected, the weather can undo any plans, and there is always some new emergency that takes priority 😂 It's the journey not the destination! Plus if you don't rush you may think of a better idea, or find some unexpected stones you can use.
it's cool to hear that video got you this life. i've got to your channel because of that video and i'm very happy for that, because you waked up so many good stuff inside of me the last few years :) and i really love to make pine needles baskets!! i do not do it often because it takes me forever, but everytime i make one i feel very good about myself, and usually do it as a gift for someone i care, and i remember you and feel grateful. i also liked you brought this subject, because life is really full of surprises, we don't know very well the paths we are walking, it's not a good thing to compare ourselves with other people. what you said reminded me of a song i've been listening to, that says something like "and everything i won only because i lost at the right time/ these paths we don't see" (the name is "caminhos", from Jota Pe, if you would like to hear it - i noticed you like brasilian music :) ). sorry if i made mistakes in english and thanks for your videos :))
The stone steps look amazing!! ❤ As a 35 year old woman who just bought my first house just over a year ago (with help ££) I have just finishing plastering a corner of a wall I demolished over a year ago 😅 so I feel the pain...I kinda like the slow progress cos it's cheaper and when you look back a lot of things have happened, the list just always gets longer. So glad to hear you live alone and love it, exactly the same! So refreshing to hear and i guess it must have been weird to share but thank you cos it's great to hear from other people. Just a great video, thank you! 🙌🏻
I have many plans that leads one to feeling overwhelmed, the best way is to not worry and start with one thing at a time, then build ideas around it by working with what you have and the time available, which then gives you the courage to tackle it by also adding inspiration as you go. Remember Rome wasn't built overnight, you only need to prove to yourself the progress then it becomes super easy.
Never related more to projects taking far more time to complete than projected. It's usually because of inexperience in my case, but I always feel proud of myself for sticking it through and learning a new skill along the way. Those drone shots were breathtaking wow!
Hi 🥰🥰🥰! The GREEN is usually mold & can be rid of very easily. Spray the areas w/White Vinegar (50/50 w/water). Also, if you didn't already know; White Vinegar is a Natural Disinfectant.
I have such respect for you and all of the projects you tackle. I’ve been thinking about buying and refurbishing an old Airstream trailer (with limited experience). When I’m trying to encourage myself to try it, I remind myself of the electrical wiring and water system you put into your van. In the video, you talked about learning to do those things and openly stated “I’m learning. If I don’t know how to do something, I can figure it out.” Electrical specifically, scares me, and I might decide to hire someone to do that for me. I never, for one second, thought you weren’t doing your own projects. It shouldn’t surprise us women that our accomplishments will be minimized by insecure people. I’m so happy you are here to share women can work with power tools, move heavy things and tackle all sorts of projects. Thank you for representing women are diverse and can live life in unique ways. ❤
I totally get the wariness about the electrics! Perhaps you can get a patient electrician who can walk you through what they are doing? Best of luck with the renovation, airstreams are so cool!
15 minute about so - the deer is running in the background!! Thanks for sharing. Now I will feel less miserable when I’m wearing my misery glasses and sending my support when you have next time of clouds- we all have those moments… bet they pass)) Stay strong, sister!
Love the opening drone shot with the sheep 🐑♥️ I’m always stressed about money, pressure to buy instead of renting… So thank you Marina. Crazy, I remember this video but so thought your van conversions were you most successful videos and then you got sponsored from external battery brand so I thought that helps. Glad you investment of collection, learning and doing the basket were a success for you! Would you ever consider hosting people at you house? I just think it would be so nice to be able to add some sort of glasses with you (knitting, gardening, jewellery making, etc…) I feel like you’re such a crafted and patient soul I would defo be interested in something like that 🤗
Hi Marina! So great having a new video from you! As for those bugging you about having kids: that's such a personal matter, really... Me and my partner have also made the decision of not having kids. We're in our late 40s and still don't regret it. We love our life as it is. We're all different and define happiness in many different ways. For some people having kids just isn't their definition of happiness and "feeling complete". P.S. autumn 🍂 looks great in your area! Enjoy this colourful season!
Thanks for an enjoyable and honest video. Sharing your thoughts and values is both brave and helpful. Loved the video but most of all, I loved the big stick for holding up the van door 😊
This was a beautiful video, thank you for all your honesty and transparency. The images of Vongola getting used to his trailer are so cute! I use knitting to support my mental health too, glad to see you're getting back into it! You might be interested to know that you're twisting your stitches. This is not inherently a problem, but twisted stitches in a finished garment will make it skew/bias to one side instead of hanging straight, it will also be less stretchy overall, and for some knitters it can also just be more fatiguing to work on. Twisted stitches or not, the sweater you're knitting is a beautiful color!
Oh gosh I didn't know thank you so much for pointing it out! I just watched a video on it and it's exactly what I was doing 🤦🏻♀️ do you think I should start all over again or can I continue doing it right?
@@WildSheGoes You're welcome! I'm glad I wasn't overstepping by mentioning it. I think restarting or not is really up to you - it might like a cool textural element if you switched your technique now, or you might like the visual reminder of your learning, or it might just be too heart-breaking to you to rip out your progress. On the other hand, if you restarted the sweater, it might look more cohesive, and just be a tiny bit more comfortable because you're doing the sweater top-down and so much of a sweater's fit comes from its shoulder area.
@cassafrass098 oh no please do say if they's anything wrong with my knitting, there's no one else around to 😂 I ended frogging it all yesterday and starting again. Much quicker this time and I've learned something so thank you!
@@WildSheGoes yahoo, congrats on your restart and I'm so glad it's going more quickly this time around. I love that you always bring a learning mindset to all the projects you show on the channel. Can't wait to follow along with your progress on the sweater in subsequent videos if you choose to share. Happy knitting! Please give Vongola a pet from me, a big fan.
Nice work with the solid steps Marina! The heather will look gorgeous once it has bedded in. Also solid - your sense of boundaries and SM - yes, as viewers we love learning about your life and projects, but for your mental health and privacy boundaries are ultra-important. I had to study counselling to understand enough about myself to finally put those in place! Best wishes from Scotland. 🍁🌦🍄
Hi, good to see you again. I can relate about depression. Some say it's about attitude, however I say not always the case. Depending on how traumatic someone's life was or is, there are things we can't completely change, no matter what we do, where we go, or how much money we have. Everyone has a dark side. Learning how to cope and avoiding denial are the main components for avoiding stress. Personally, I don't do well in large groups of people, it took years for me to accept the reality of being a loner. At first there was denial because others made me feel guilty for being this way, however once I understood what I needed, and who I was, I chose to live alone, sometimes in isolation where I can be myself, and appreciate my nature. I can still be out there in a crowd and socialize, but I never hang out...I'm just not that type and it's ok. Blessings 💕 💕
Im so happy you got the stones. Many a times God has strange ways to give us what we need 😅 And i too came to your channel from pine needle video😊. Love your content.
Evening Marina, Firstly thank you for sharing, those of us that have ben with you for the long haul know how hard to have and continue to work hard for what you have are are achieving. Not only doing your travels, or your projects but also being a creator and business owner, this all takes up time, so no I don't think you should be so hard on yourself for not getting as much done as you wish, you juggle alot of things all the time and we get to share all your great content and your hopes and dreams along the way which is very nice to watch. P.S. Hope your head is feeling better after the little bump on the boot door. Health@Happiness to you.
Thanks for your wonderful videos Marina. Always enjoy viewing your work and have watched all your oldest videos and forward to now. That green stuff on your steps may be algae from the humidity. There are various methods online for removing it if you wish. Over time also slow growing green lichens can grow on the stone which indicates for one thing that your air quality is very good!
I totally get the seasonal thing and getting outstde, being constructive, getting exercise, all help a lot. No one should dictate how you should live your life, it's yours not theirs.
I think it’s just part of the human experience to feel bad some days. We are here to experience a range of emotions not just happiness. The contrasts encourages us to pay attention and make the most of the good times ❤
Living in the Pacific Northwest, some of us use full spectrum lighting to combat Seasonal depression. In the middle of winter is when we choose someplace sunny to travel to. The stone steps/pathway are great. It will be wonderful in spring when the bulbs appear.
I have loved your videos since you were living in a van in Scotland with sweet Odie! I've always loved how realistic and honest you come across and you are such a delight to hang out with every video. The fact that you don't do projects like a superhuman is a relief, because most often I feel very discouraged when I'm watching someone be hyper productive online and can't help but compare to myself. It makes me happy that you had such a stroke of luck with the pine needle video! You deserve it.
Thanks for sharing, I am like you, I love my space, never wanted children, traveled, moved, and then married at 45, because I did find someone I wanted to share my life and space with! ..married for 26 years, loved sharing that life, lost him to cancer 10 years ago, still single, loving my space and single life... everyone is different, it's great when someone has the life they want, and I'm still working and living at 82! I love hearing and seeing all the things that you do, if I was young again, I would be doing what you are doing!... to your happy adventures ahead whatever they may be.....
Oh, my goodness - you're human! What a relief!! You are also lovely, intelligent, thoughtful, and talented.
I was born to be a mom. I have three grown kids. My eldest daughter is 31 and has chosen to not have children or a partner at this point. My son and his wife have been together since high school and are still waiting at 29 to have kids at some point. Then there is my youngest who has also been with her high school sweetheart for 9 years, however they are 24 and married with 4 kids that are 5, 2 year old twins and a 1 year old! All my kids have chosen different paths. I truly believe in this world there is no longer a right or normal way to move through life. We just need to give each other the space to be our own true selves.
My daughter has problems with depression. She incorporated exercise into her life . She became so proficient, the gym she goes to offered her a job. She now teaches 6 classes a week and even takes classes with other instructors. Does her a world of good!!!
That's amazing kudos to her!
I'm happy you are living your true self. You be you and enjoy your life. Don't even listen to any negative comments. Thank you for your videos ❤
judgmentcallpodcast covers this. Opening up about personal issues.
Your stonework turned out really well. You should be proud.
You are such an interesting and lovely person and it's great that you share some of your deeper thoughts. And you have the right to only share what YOU want. I admire all that you do and when you don't know how to do it, you'll find out. And thanks for breaking the stereotype of what women should or should not do. It really makes me mad when people assume things and expect that you should fall into a certain box. Why is it so hard to just let everybody live their lives the way they want to?
You're awesome, Marina. Don't ever feel the need to change!
I'm Brazilian, I'm 60 years old and I admire your courage, strength and determination. As a woman, breaking patterns is always difficult, but it's beautiful to see. Congratulations on your life and your choices! Be happy and care less and less about what people think of you. ❤
I don't agree with any particular difficulties women face breaking patterns. If anything it's quite opposite. Women always get encouragement, especially for breaking patterns. whatever a lady does there's the 'you go girl'. men just do stuff and don't get any praise for it because, oh well, he's a guy, he gets anything he wants served on a silver plate, like men don't have to struggle or face difficulties.
People forget that social media only shows a snippet of someone’s life. And it’s always what they WANT to show. Keep doing what you’re doing!
Love your videos! l’m 65, never married, no kids, I dote on my niece and nephews. I LOVE my alone time, doing whatever I want and not having to check in with anyone!
"Everywhere I go, there I am"!
Namaste
I'm one of the many that discovered your channel with that pine needles basket video. I'm glad that it stumbled upon my youtube feed cause I like very much all your content 😀I'm sure that vongola will be used to the bike trail very soon. cheers =)
Me too
You're not alone. I'm feeling that seasonal change. Just remember that you are a passenger on a planet that is racing around the sun and blasting through the universe. You have no control over the seasons
Indeed and how cool is that btw
Your pathway is set so naturally into the earth, as if it’s always been there; well done. I too use my small van as a truck at times, moving rocks and furniture, etc. And then, using ramps and other tricks for managing large objects on my own works rather better than people realize. I call this my ‘Egyptian pyramid-building techniques.’ I remember your pine basket video and your demeanor as you demonstrated; it made me want to subscribe.
You forgot spinning around its axis daily at an incredible speed!😄 Wobbling a bit throughout the year, thus creating the seasons for certain parts on the rock. Vitamin D to the rescue!
I feel the same way, you dont have to divulge your personal life, or certain choices you make. Thanks for the videos, I always enjoy them!
I'm childfree by choice and have known that basically my whole life. I'm glad you shared that truth about yourself and choosing not to marry as it may help someone who's feeling pressured. I wouldn't think anything of your partner helping you as being bad or weak. I do think really independent people have a difficult time asking for help, but as usually always helping others when asked. If your partner can help and wants to, let them. ❤
It’s important to know what your boundaries are and enforce them. I’m just learning this. You don’t owe us anything.
Yes indeed about boundaries, I didn't have any, so had to learn how to cultivate some.
Life is short which reminds me of a song...
by Jim Croce " there never seems to be enough time to do the things you want to do
once you find them" Take care.
Thank you for being probably the most honest person on TH-cam. You certainly don't have to be anyone but yourself to achieve your goals or targets that fit you. It's rather nice to hear that you have a partner for some things but that is none our business and we view your videos simply as how you choose to lead your life and as a brilliant example of what any one person can achieve if they choose to do so. You bring us practical ideas, joy and laughter. We genuinely appreciate you in return. Have faith in yourself as we do in you. Love and best wishes from Ellan Vannin/Isle of Man somewhere in the Irish Sea. We would welcome you in an instant!
Oh Tim what a lovely comment. Thank you!
Thank you for being open about not wanting a family. Even as a guy (I think girls get it worse), I get so many comments about "having a family", and I just don't understand why people are SO obsessed with other people having kids. I like my life without kids. I like my freedom. I wish they'd just accept people want different things out of life..
If only they could appreciate us for who we are. I was never meant to be a mother.
It's better to know it early in life; because leaving a family is the hardest thing to.
When someone finally realizes they have different needs, and it was never meant
to be, no matter how hard he or she tried to please others.
This video is why I love you and your channel. Continue to be yourself and do what you want.
"wherever you go, you bring yourself with you." I love that ❤
Thank you for your vulnerability and transparency, I really enjoy knowing there's people like you out there.
The green on your steps is algae. It grows there because it is damp and shady. You could just leave it, but if you want to remove it you can use boiling water, spray vinegar or a dilute solution of bleach. These are listed in order of environmental friendliness. Thank you for your wonderful channel.
You go girl! Do whatever moves you. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your mountain home and other adventures too.
Glad to see another video from you. Glad to see you are doing well. As for projects, I been redoing my back yard now for 3 years and I could have hired landscapers to do it in a week. But I think you and I are quite similar, we prefer to do things ourselves and we prefer our solitaire lifestyle without having to be lonely. You are a strong woman (both mentally and physically).
Don't worry about how long it takes you to do a project compared to what others may be able to do it in. You are getting the experience of doing it. It is being done the way you want it to be done. And when it is done, you get to enjoy the work you put in to it.
Thanks for your honesty!
I’m totally with you on so many things:
Seasonal sadness
Not wanting kids (I’m female)
Having some long term boyfriends, but not getting married.
Owning my own homes and doing as much of my own work as possible.
And finally supporting myself off my very small business for 27 years already.
All that is to say that I relate to much of your content and I very much respect you !!!
68-year old happy lady in San Francisco and proud Patreon member :-)))
Hi Marina, I've always loved your channel & thank you for your honesty. I think your stone path turned out great & will look beautiful in the spring 😊
You go Girl! I am probably twice your age and never had the desire to live a traditional life (married with kids - nothing wrong with that of course). Instead I get to enjoy an adventurous life, similar to what you are doing but not as many skills just yet but getting there. I do admire all your skills. Well done on those stairs. It doesn't matter how long it takes, the result is beautiful and with plants and spring tulips it will be amazing. I am planting 4 new trees on my property, so I know what it feels like to finish up a difficult task. Keep being you, I can't wait to see your next videos. Oh, I am a dancer too :)
My favorite video so far 🌻thank you for opening up
Ohh You know what ?! I took my knitting project in my hand as I sat to watch your video....and you did the same, knitting outside, the coincidence made me smile large ! Knitting keeps our mind sane if I can say and colorfull projects are good to cheer us up, I think. Love to you
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Thank you for sharing so much of yourself. Have a fantastic and cozy fall/winter
Some of the women on TH-cam are so inspiring and self made and so different from how I'm ... I love love them.... With or without partner it doesn't not matter, they are doing what they want (I mean they might have much more expectations from themselves) but they are all lovely and strong... I'm so inspired by them. You are one such person. Hope I could join your patreon some day.
Love from India.
Very nice path…..the red bushes will be really pretty in the summer, we have followed you do so many projects so well, you are beautiful and very talented ❤
Good on you living the way that’s right for you, frustrating getting comments like that. I’m married but we decided kids wasn’t for us and 100% think everyone should do what’s right for them and not what’s expected x
Great video! And same, we moved into our property almost 2 years ago with a large list of what we were going to do . . . . majority still not done as the large financial infrastructure takes precedence over the small fun ones. But one step at a time. x
Been watching this channel way back in the beginning of Pam Van, you have always been calm and authentic in your videos
Thank you Marina!! It's so refreshing to hear someone else talking about traditional paths and not necessarily having to choose the family life! Ive had so much pressure from society telling you 'clock is ticking' it's hard that this is still not accepted! 'What else is a woman suppose to do with her life'! eeeh watch your videos and see how strong woman can be living on their own! needed that today! love from The Netherlands
Exactly, we serve no purpose other than child rearing 😂 what else could we possibly find fulfilment in? 🤦🏻♀️
Thank you for charing all this information. You are a wise woman and think it is your live and your world.
It's very impressive to watch you grow and evolve as a content creator. Your videos are always beautiful!♀️🏒🍏
Ahh....the pine needle basket. I feel it needs a song! 🎸 😁
Marina I appreciate you and your videos so much. Thanks for opening up with us and sharing so much. I’m definitely in the “no kids” camp and love it! Keep on being you. You are wonderful. ❤
Just be you, I still watch your Scottish video, it's so inspiring!! Xxx
Thank you for this very honest presentation . I have an 1880 Victorian, and some days, I am just stuck, others, I get a lot done. I have learned it is a process, and accepted that some of it will be done by the next steward of this beautiful place. So excited to see your spring bulbs blooming, it is going to be amazing, and you have inpired me to get mine planted! PS: I am 70, and always enjoy watching your content!
What a beautifully honest video. The older I get the more I feel that an "alternative" way of life is what I crave....but really that's too late for me - even though my life is anything but normal. . Keep following your heart and thank you for creating such an enjoyable safe space in your vlogs.
I love your dog....and that stone path is lovely. Thanks for sharing.
The book that i came across which is also very helpful - about mindfulness - is called Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat - Zinn which i can recommend.As a person of advanced years something that was once told me by a friend made sense - the mind keeps writing the cheques but the body can't always honour them ! Given what you have achieved in your life so far you should be very satisfied with the outcomes.
Well done in finding a partner that aligns with your ideal life. I’m the same, can’t imagine living full time with someone but as yet not found my like minded partner. Thank you for sharing everything on here.
Nothing about life is one size fits all, and we change throughout our lives. You do you, Marina. You're a vibrant, interesting person with strengths and foibles, as we all have, charting your own path according to what suits you. I find that admirable, particularly for a young woman choosing to do and learn so much on her own.
It's good to know you have people who are close to you though of course you are right it's nobody's business, but you seem a warm-hearted person and I realise I am happy for you just to know that. I would never have doubted that you are the woman behind the work, either lol Everyone gets to choose their own life or to make the best of what their environment offers them, at least. Mine began with an early child and led to 2 more and a partner of 40 yrs, that led to grandchildren and I'm very happy about that and having my family around me; it means I rely less on friends tbh - and people often think that is weird but it's my choice evolving from my life experience, it doesn't have to apply to anyone else!!
I'm just back from three weeks in Italy, and I'm seriously thinking of moving there. What a glorious place! 😘
I’m with you, animals not kids 🥰
I very much enjoyed this video (I love all of your videos). I have 2 sons, 43 and 44. Both happily married for 12 and 14 years. My younger son has 4 children, my older son and his wife chose not to have children, and both families are happy with their choices. I can’t and never will understand people who assume everyone wants the same lifestyle!
Luck choose you because you were hard working and consistent. Have been following you before the video and feel happy the way you have created your life.
Wish you all the prosperity and happiness hhat you want!!!
One thing that's made a huge difference with our new rescue dog who is very fearful is using a kong. We fill it with his regular food and freeze it and he has to work at it a long time. We fed him in the places he was afraid to go like he was afraid of the tiles in the sun room, afraid to go up the stairs, afraid of the car. Maybe that will help vongole want to stay in the carrier for longer if he had to spend 40 minutes licking food.
That's one of the first things I got him but he gets too stressed to be interected on it 😬 glad it works for your pup🥰
I second the comments of others. Soooo glad to see you are human and not a super power being disguised as a wonderful human being. I love that you shared not only about your personal views on relationships etc. It’s not our business. Let’s be honest. BUT at same time we are curious creatures. And social ones that want to relate to folks we admire. AND phew!!! That walkway and stone wall would take me at least 1-2 years. So I’m dooo relieved to hear you say it wasn’t a weekend project. Now THAT gives me motivation to start on mine - it’s been on my to do list for ohh 3 years 😛. Sending you lots of positive and loving energy for those seasonal blue days. I get it. ❤
Hi Marina
Thank you for sharing. Its good to know that you have a partner as they are a great help at times when feeling down.I have problems with depression and Ive come to realise that if i didnt have the help and support of my partner i would probably have moved on to another place ( if there is one ) by now.
I find your videos very entertaining and am often amazed by what you achieve. I think everyone is different and its best to live your life in a way that suits you best and try not to take too much notice of what other people say.
Best wishes from N.E England
I looove your honesty
I absolutely love stonework. Paths, steps, bridges 🥰 love em all.
When l got my first flat, l thought l would be like god, decorate a room a day and rest on Sunday. Three weeks later my friends peeled me off a ladder crying, half way through room one, took me for a drink, or two. Now l know god laughs at my grand plans. That whatever l think the time it will take, double it and add a year. Cost, treble it and add a nought. You are doing good girl.
And suffering from SAD, l just rest in winter, and let everything else go ❤
😂😂😂 I need those friends
Thanks for this video and I hope you keep well through the winter.
It is nice to hear that another woman also doesn't want to share her space. I enjoy romance and relationship but I love my own personal space too. I think your doing a great job and so what if someone male or female gives you a hand now and then. Some things need two people especially heavy things!
It never occurred to me to doubt you are the one doing the work. You seem strong and capable and I love watching your videos. There's no reason to feel bad about not getting everything done quickly. That is the nature of a house in the country, there always a million projects waiting, things always take longer than expected, the weather can undo any plans, and there is always some new emergency that takes priority 😂 It's the journey not the destination! Plus if you don't rush you may think of a better idea, or find some unexpected stones you can use.
Yay for the pine needle basket video! That is how I found you a couple of years ago!
Big hug from Northern England🇬🇧 I’m child free and love it- each to their own❤
We should be privileged to of been granted so much about your private life lass. I and most just wish you a ton of happiness. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for always being so real Marina!
it's cool to hear that video got you this life. i've got to your channel because of that video and i'm very happy for that, because you waked up so many good stuff inside of me the last few years :) and i really love to make pine needles baskets!! i do not do it often because it takes me forever, but everytime i make one i feel very good about myself, and usually do it as a gift for someone i care, and i remember you and feel grateful. i also liked you brought this subject, because life is really full of surprises, we don't know very well the paths we are walking, it's not a good thing to compare ourselves with other people. what you said reminded me of a song i've been listening to, that says something like "and everything i won only because i lost at the right time/ these paths we don't see" (the name is "caminhos", from Jota Pe, if you would like to hear it - i noticed you like brasilian music :) ). sorry if i made mistakes in english and thanks for your videos :))
The stone steps look amazing!! ❤
As a 35 year old woman who just bought my first house just over a year ago (with help ££) I have just finishing plastering a corner of a wall I demolished over a year ago 😅 so I feel the pain...I kinda like the slow progress cos it's cheaper and when you look back a lot of things have happened, the list just always gets longer.
So glad to hear you live alone and love it, exactly the same! So refreshing to hear and i guess it must have been weird to share but thank you cos it's great to hear from other people.
Just a great video, thank you! 🙌🏻
💪💪💪 we got this!
I have many plans that leads one to feeling overwhelmed, the best way is to not worry and start with one thing at a time, then build ideas around it by working with what you have and the time available, which then gives you the courage to tackle it by also adding inspiration as you go. Remember Rome wasn't built overnight, you only need to prove to yourself the progress then it becomes super easy.
Good for you for choosing to be private about some things. It’s v refreshing!
Never related more to projects taking far more time to complete than projected. It's usually because of inexperience in my case, but I always feel proud of myself for sticking it through and learning a new skill along the way.
Those drone shots were breathtaking wow!
That’s awesome! I am exactly the same when it comes to projects too! No shame xxx
Great stuff. Be yourself, keep in your zone.
Wow I'm really impressed about how you managed to build out such a versatile van!
Hi 🥰🥰🥰! The GREEN is usually mold & can be rid of very easily. Spray the areas w/White Vinegar (50/50 w/water). Also, if you didn't already know; White Vinegar is a Natural Disinfectant.
I have such respect for you and all of the projects you tackle. I’ve been thinking about buying and refurbishing an old Airstream trailer (with limited experience). When I’m trying to encourage myself to try it, I remind myself of the electrical wiring and water system you put into your van. In the video, you talked about learning to do those things and openly stated “I’m learning. If I don’t know how to do something, I can figure it out.” Electrical specifically, scares me, and I might decide to hire someone to do that for me. I never, for one second, thought you weren’t doing your own projects. It shouldn’t surprise us women that our accomplishments will be minimized by insecure people. I’m so happy you are here to share women can work with power tools, move heavy things and tackle all sorts of projects. Thank you for representing women are diverse and can live life in unique ways. ❤
I totally get the wariness about the electrics! Perhaps you can get a patient electrician who can walk you through what they are doing? Best of luck with the renovation, airstreams are so cool!
@@WildSheGoes Thank you!
I always feel so happy when I watch your videos. I really appreciate you sharing your life with us. ❤
15 minute about so - the deer is running in the background!!
Thanks for sharing. Now I will feel less miserable when I’m wearing my misery glasses and sending my support when you have next time of clouds- we all have those moments… bet they pass))
Stay strong, sister!
You are such a beautiful soul, Marina!!
Thanks for sharing these parts of your life with us!
Love the opening drone shot with the sheep 🐑♥️
I’m always stressed about money, pressure to buy instead of renting… So thank you Marina.
Crazy, I remember this video but so thought your van conversions were you most successful videos and then you got sponsored from external battery brand so I thought that helps.
Glad you investment of collection, learning and doing the basket were a success for you!
Would you ever consider hosting people at you house? I just think it would be so nice to be able to add some sort of glasses with you (knitting, gardening, jewellery making, etc…) I feel like you’re such a crafted and patient soul I would defo be interested in something like that 🤗
Hi Marina! So great having a new video from you! As for those bugging you about having kids: that's such a personal matter, really... Me and my partner have also made the decision of not having kids. We're in our late 40s and still don't regret it. We love our life as it is. We're all different and define happiness in many different ways. For some people having kids just isn't their definition of happiness and "feeling complete".
P.S. autumn 🍂 looks great in your area! Enjoy this colourful season!
Thanks for an enjoyable and honest video. Sharing your thoughts and values is both brave and helpful. Loved the video but most of all, I loved the big stick for holding up the van door 😊
I loved this video with your honest thoughts. For me it doesn't even matter what you shoot I always love to see your videos. Thank you. ❤
Just found your channel..can I just send you a big hug...that dog is so beautiful
This was a beautiful video, thank you for all your honesty and transparency. The images of Vongola getting used to his trailer are so cute!
I use knitting to support my mental health too, glad to see you're getting back into it! You might be interested to know that you're twisting your stitches. This is not inherently a problem, but twisted stitches in a finished garment will make it skew/bias to one side instead of hanging straight, it will also be less stretchy overall, and for some knitters it can also just be more fatiguing to work on. Twisted stitches or not, the sweater you're knitting is a beautiful color!
Oh gosh I didn't know thank you so much for pointing it out! I just watched a video on it and it's exactly what I was doing 🤦🏻♀️ do you think I should start all over again or can I continue doing it right?
@@WildSheGoes You're welcome! I'm glad I wasn't overstepping by mentioning it. I think restarting or not is really up to you - it might like a cool textural element if you switched your technique now, or you might like the visual reminder of your learning, or it might just be too heart-breaking to you to rip out your progress. On the other hand, if you restarted the sweater, it might look more cohesive, and just be a tiny bit more comfortable because you're doing the sweater top-down and so much of a sweater's fit comes from its shoulder area.
@cassafrass098 oh no please do say if they's anything wrong with my knitting, there's no one else around to 😂 I ended frogging it all yesterday and starting again. Much quicker this time and I've learned something so thank you!
@@WildSheGoes yahoo, congrats on your restart and I'm so glad it's going more quickly this time around. I love that you always bring a learning mindset to all the projects you show on the channel. Can't wait to follow along with your progress on the sweater in subsequent videos if you choose to share. Happy knitting! Please give Vongola a pet from me, a big fan.
Nice work with the solid steps Marina! The heather will look gorgeous once it has bedded in. Also solid - your sense of boundaries and SM - yes, as viewers we love learning about your life and projects, but for your mental health and privacy boundaries are ultra-important. I had to study counselling to understand enough about myself to finally put those in place! Best wishes from Scotland. 🍁🌦🍄
Hi, good to see you again. I can relate about depression.
Some say it's about attitude, however I say not always the case.
Depending on how traumatic someone's life was or is, there
are things we can't completely change, no matter what we do,
where we go, or how much money we have. Everyone has a
dark side. Learning how to cope and avoiding denial are the
main components for avoiding stress.
Personally, I don't do well in large groups of people, it took
years for me to accept the reality of being a loner.
At first there was denial because others made me feel guilty
for being this way, however once I understood what I needed,
and who I was, I chose to live alone, sometimes in isolation
where I can be myself, and appreciate my nature.
I can still be out there in a crowd and socialize, but I never
hang out...I'm just not that type and it's ok. Blessings 💕 💕
I relate!!!
Im so happy you got the stones. Many a times God has strange ways to give us what we need 😅
And i too came to your channel from pine needle video😊.
Love your content.
Evening Marina, Firstly thank you for sharing, those of us that have ben with you for the long haul know how hard to have and continue to work hard for what you have are are achieving. Not only doing your travels, or your projects but also being a creator and business owner, this all takes up time, so no I don't think you should be so hard on yourself for not getting as much done as you wish, you juggle alot of things all the time and we get to share all your great content and your hopes and dreams along the way which is very nice to watch. P.S. Hope your head is feeling better after the little bump on the boot door. Health@Happiness to you.
Thanks for your wonderful videos Marina. Always enjoy viewing your work and have watched all your oldest videos and forward to now. That green stuff on your steps may be algae from the humidity. There are various methods online for removing it if you wish. Over time also slow growing green lichens can grow on the stone which indicates for one thing that your air quality is very good!
That makes sense! Thank you 🤗
👏you’re a a lovely human! Not many around these days. It’s so good knowing there are people like you in this world.
Great path you made. Hard work 💪 gone into it. Enjoyed your vids. Hope you're keeping on top of slugs 😀 they are starting to disappear for the winter
I totally get the seasonal thing and getting outstde, being constructive, getting exercise, all help a lot. No one should dictate how you should live your life, it's yours not theirs.
I think it’s just part of the human experience to feel bad some days. We are here to experience a range of emotions not just happiness. The contrasts encourages us to pay attention and make the most of the good times ❤
Living in the Pacific Northwest, some of us use full spectrum lighting to combat Seasonal depression. In the middle of winter is when we choose someplace sunny to travel to.
The stone steps/pathway are great. It will be wonderful in spring when the bulbs appear.
Your videos are always so heartfelt and intelligent. Thank you for your contribution to the education and development of the community!🦬❤️🏚
You're human too, so enjoy watching knowing about your life, Eric Dale.
I have loved your videos since you were living in a van in Scotland with sweet Odie! I've always loved how realistic and honest you come across and you are such a delight to hang out with every video. The fact that you don't do projects like a superhuman is a relief, because most often I feel very discouraged when I'm watching someone be hyper productive online and can't help but compare to myself. It makes me happy that you had such a stroke of luck with the pine needle video! You deserve it.