Homeless Couple-Roman and Jessi
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jessi and Roman, a young couple living in the streets of Los Angeles.
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This is one of the interviews that you want to see a 6 month update.
Yes I would love to see her at home with her family and baby and that guy gone!
@@morgan-paijejackson1902 or at least at planned parenthood. good lord
6 months my ass 6 days
You take after your auntie
It’s been 5 already I agree
I hope the pregnancy test was a false positive for everyones sake.
He wanted to say the meth killed one baby already I’m lost !!!
She isn’t really pregnant
@@stylisttattedlife3355 how do you know? Are you just guessing?
Stylisttattedlife 33 are you guessing? i hope you are right 🙏
Unfortunately there is no such thing as a false positive, only false negatives 😯
When he said “I have no idea what I’m talking about” that was the only real thing I heard during that whole interview.
His baby talk is annoying they both need help! Broken people
The only truthful thing he said. What an idiot....
He was not born like this, dudes.
@@Adrian-vy5vn of course not, that’s years and years of trauma, drug abuse and bad choices.
Weed actually fries your brain lmao and people act like it has no effects.
There is a beautiful life waiting for u I’m a recovering heroin addict I have 8 yrs clean I’m 47 I came from the streets of Baltimore now I have my license a car and my own little 1 bedroom house that I love so much. I have no friends I go to work and come home to my 2 cats and my dog and when I’m home I don’t want to leave lol because I love it so much. It will be the hardest thing you will ever do getting clean but once u do it is the greatest feeling. Just the other day I thought of how when I was on the streets I used to people watch the normal people I would see wishing to have their “NORMAL” life having a car a home a job to go to everyday people who look forward to seeing u, I’m that person I always wanted to be now. I love you both and I wish u both Peace ❤️
Congrats, im so proud of you 🙏🏽
"crystal meth killed our child but that's irrelevant..." -. - nah mate it's very relevant.
i thought he meant childhood
WTF❓❗😡
He only meant cause he’s focused on the present with his new lady being pregnant
It was irrelevant to the context and mindset he has.
Didn’t he say it was with a prior girlfriend
*Damn... I started off my TH-cam journey watching "How to cook Carne Asada". One hour later Im watching this!*
Lol!!
That's a signal to go vegan.
@@alineenobree YES!!!! and SI! LOL
Damn...me too
I was looking up "How to tell if a friend is on meth" This came on afterwards
Her addiction to HIM may be worse than the drug itself in this case.. This is textbook codependency . 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was just thinking the same. It would be awful to be in love with him. So chaotic😢
Bingo!! This is one unhealthy relationship that seems destined for more trauma! This poor child had no real opportunity to even express herself. He literally stated that “he speaks for her.” Scary!!
Or maybe he speaks for her because she isn't legible. Hell he barely is himself.
I agree
Absolutely. She’s looking at him for approval before saying anything. He claims he often speaks for her. You can tell he’s controlling just by the body language. She needs to accept help for the codependency
Whose here 2023 to see why Roman got so much hate in the comments
Can you start interviewing family members of the drug addicts/homeless people? I would like to know their perspective.
Priscilla Valencia yesssss id love to hear from them.
I agree, that would be great
Well I did see a comment from his brother on his FB page. It was quite telling. Jess is a decent girl n should go home
Im sure CPS waiting on that
Priscilla Valencia why do you need to valid these guys story?
When he called her his Harley Quinn I knew it was going to be bad
Omg so much this. It was such a clusterfuck of lies. As soon as he opened his mouth I was disgusted.
There’s so much to unpack, but it’s prob better idea just to burn the suitcase tbh. Maybe Jessie would have a chance.
Literally lol
What is with guys like this and the Joker? They always love the Joker...
I mean everyone calls me flame was a red flag
You all are so judgemental it's disgusting....
This was hard to watch, these poor kids have no clue what they are doing but they relationship doesn't seem to be benefitting each other. The best thing she can do is find a woman's shelter, if not for her, for the unborn baby.
Wtf is he talking about!
Yes
Hate to say it but the state is gonna take the baby
@J You are an idiot
Ten Thumbs Productions I always wonder why these drug addicted women don't go on the the Pill or something. I was on the Pill at 15. Birth control is free for poor women at Planned Parenthood, if there are any PP offices left. My CA town has one but not everyone does. Thanks Right to Lifers! Anyway,I was using then and up until I was 38. Meth. After I got clean, I presented life skills classes at the County Jail in my town. So many drug addicted women here are pregnant, have multiple children, can't stop popping out the kids. Like stray cats. It's so sad. I'm not being mean. I've seen it ever since I was a teen addict, watching my unprotected friends have babies that the State took, or their moms, grandmoms, or aunts raised. Very sad stuff.
Would love to hear Jesse have her own individual interview 💜
Not gonna happen. She's petrified of the thought that he'll see her private interview.
same
I know her- she’s lost
They just posted an update of her.
@@esotericleighput up missing poster now.
This has me in tears. I worked in salons with Jessie and her mom. She is a sweet girl and an amazing colorist! If you read these comments PRAY that she can get away from this guy, get sober and raise this baby with the help of her loving parents. We are praying for you to have enough strength to leave him Jessie! You can don’t! You are smart and strong and so loved! 🙏🙏🙏
I hope she gets away and home to her family. This was hard to watch and I don't know her. Thinking of you and her family x
So is he a bad influence? Like is he the enabler and provider of drugs? Obviously I got a bad vibe from him, not because he seems dangerous but he seems reckless behavior wise. Plus he killed his child and blames it on meth. I wouldn't let this guy walk my dog.
Wow.. this is so sad..
Since you know her personally I was curious, it sounded like she had a decent father, so why such awful taste in guys?! I mean how can she be so hopelessly devoted and hanging on this guy's every (untrue) word when everyone else listening to him can right away see right through this guy's bs.... Drugs must really cloud people's perception or something cuz dang look at this complete nutsack, his ridiculously dumb face tatts are pretty much a neon sign that reads run to any normal, nice girl who grew up with a dad YOU WOULD THINK...Not trying to judge anyone just was wondering how someone could be so lost
I will pray for her though.
This was the weirdest and cringest interview I have seen so far.
This video is grossing me out.
I KNOW RIGHT??!! HOW SAD TO BRING A BABY INTO THIS WORLD WHEN THEY ARE BOTH SO FU
Pretty sure I get the point. It was just one of my observations but ok
Agreed
Ashley Lightsey - If this Guy can find a Wife, there’s hope for me yet !
Meanwhile I’m a 30 yr old nurse afraid to bring a child into this world because of fears of not being an adequate parent.. strange..
Mid 30’s professional ... same
My house isn’t big enough. I work too much. Can I afford college? Will I make the right decisions? Did I learn enough from my parents? I could go and on... and the anxieties I have about being a GOOD parent.. not just a womb.
Same. I'm 32, 2 n 1/2 more years of school, work full time and I feel I'm not ready yet.
literally the plot of Idiocracy
Do you woman want a cookie or a trophy??
All those things are very good questions to ask yourself but if you keep thinking you can't never will typically mother's always want to Make way for their childrenwhat's the biggest grossing God can never give you
Just watched Jessi's solo interview and wow... This guy is definitely killing her. I hope she finds the strength to get out of this hell of a relationship before it's too late.
I knew Jessi growing up and she was beautiful, magnetic and so much fun to be around. I hate seeing this was where she ended up and I hope she’s in a better situation right now.
She was taking drugs aged 11
thats it? is this how much you care ? you just "hope" shes doing better now ? dude if you know her you better do something to help them out
@@mikeashrafian9100 I haven’t seen her in 15 years “dude” .
@@mikeashrafian9100 he has just as much connection to her these days as you do. So why don't YOU do something?
@@mikeashrafian9100 obviously the guy does no know her, complete loser.. she been doing drugs since 11 so obviously she was not "magnetic" or fun to be around
Jessie, please come home. We miss you and your beautiful soul. This hurts my heart to see you like this. You are an amazing hairdresser and can get back on your feet so easily. Your family misses you. Love you Jess Xoxo
I hope she sees your comment and reaches out, because it does seem like she could have the support around her with you in her life. But try to remember what could happen “easily” in your eyes, is not quite so simple on the other side
Your heart must be hurting so much! That scuzbag weasel is SO LAME!! I hope she knows, the whole WORLD is rooting for her.
She's obviously got a lot going for her, she WILL tire of this worthless punk.
💗
@@widowrumstrypze9705 why would you say that about him and you know nothing about him? She’s an addict and an adult too. They are BOTH broken and they BOTH are Ill. Only a heartless fool would say something like you did about him. She’s just as guilty.
Who was his Mom in the Lost Boys ?
This is the most uncomfortable thing I have watched in a long time. This human is so fragmented he barely has his soul still attached.
Yes, I was more uncomfortable watching this that the gay sex addict guy (Philip...aka Mr. Snapback)
This guy is completely shot out
Yeah, these two are in a codependent relationship. He sounds quite deranged. Drugs are the devil's plaything
It's so sad and just ... goodness. Fragmented is completely the correct word!
You said that so well. 🙏.
This gave me extreme anxiety.
People who have been through this type of relationship know exactly what's happening here.
What is happening here?
@@BeatdownBabylon what's going on?
Ive been thru a lot and dont see Whats happening, he seem to genuinely be concerned for her feelings if your trying to insinuate otherwise
Yeah it's called dealing with the trauma of dem streets when sometimes people try to lay claim over your life. When that stops being traumatic it's too late.
Yes! I was in a relationship like this. 10 years later and 6 off the dope and he still tries to contact me. Nearly broke my jaw, numerous bruises and the emotional abuse/control even worse. I’m thankful to be alive.
Two separate interviews would be interesting to see.
Yeah thats great but if He would Shut Da Fuk up 4 a second maybe we would know more about her...
Yeah, he's controlling the narrative either intentionally to control her or unintentionally because he's a narcissist with drug abuse induced brain damage. Or all of the above, I guess.
@@exsanguinenation All thee Above 👆💯
Extremely perceptive, Michael. A great example would be Lil' Mama and Master J. Her entire persona and presence changed when she did the individual interview with Mark, as opposed to the original one with Master J. It was clear that she was deferring to him, you could sense what I guess was fear, her answers were minimal and hesitant. However, when interviewed alone, there is a strength about her, and a no-bullshit attitude. I think Mark's audience would agree.
*edited for punctuation
@@PorcupineGirl I have yet to watch that one, but these are addictive!
I don’t like how he speaks for her and controls the conversation. I’ve noticed that when Mark interviews couples, the man does the majority of the talking, and the woman is more meek in communicating. He said “no, were not using drugs” quick as hell. Stevie wonder can see they are knee deep in their addiction.
“Chelsey Clinton” : Body language is everything. The way she keeps her eyes on him and keep rubbing his arm and holding his hand is very telling. He’s abusive, he has the power in that relationship. He’s been done wrong in his other relationships she’s his angel and a whole bunch of other psychological codependency nonsense.
She chose him🤷🏾♂️ life is full of choices.
@@GetTheeBehindMe23 He also tried 2 encourage her 2 open up. U can see how broken he is, n her also. Their relationship mayb not as perfect as yours, or other's, but u don't have 2 b so critical n only point out the negative. They both n sme love.
Christina Thom : He encouraged her to tell her story?? Yet, he finished HER story. He punched her elderly dad in the face? Oh yeah he’s a great guy... no I really mean that. He seems sincere one moment then the next he’s contradicting exactly what he said a few minutes earlier. Him : “My mother died” Mark: Did you mother died? Him: That’s personal. I still believe he’s a good guy but no relationship that is centered on drugs is a good one. With his emotional state “Just 2 hours ago I was on my knees screaming to god” and drugs mixed in? Let’s just say he’s not the best version of himself. I wish them both the very best.
except for that drunk older couple lol they were so cute and she was so chatty!
Coming from a drug addict for 15 years and started from age 14, they are high as hell. I don’t think he is cruel to her but they are going through some shit, high and scared. When he said idk what I’m talking about and im scared it was the most honest thing he said. He can’t swallow properly because when you are geeked it effects your swallowing and his nose won’t stop running. He has many signs of just getting high and being scared. I wish the best for both of them!
Great insight. I feel for them 💔
So glad to see your comment.
Why the Hell does that happen w/the nose???
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 If he snorted something like cocaine, meth, heroine etc.
Thanks for the insight!!!!
Its hard seeing Jessie being so involved with taking care of his every need. Wiping his nose. Giving him his tissue back SOON as he wipes his nose. You can tell her entire childhood revolved around reading the room and body language to try and have some control and it has become her main focus and actual purpose in life.
Their high, jesses high is zoning on roman.
your comment really taught me something about myself. (You can tell her entire childhood revolved around reading the room and body language to try and have some control and it has become her main focus and actual purpose in life)
@w.urlitzer1869 I hope that something good comes of this realization for you. I too have this problem to a degree so I understand the struggle
This guy is playing with the interviewer, nothing he is saying is real, the girl's silence and total focus on him is scary.
Can’t be that focused finding ways to cheat on him, she’s probably scared if that baby isn’t his the ramifications from a crazy person.
you're assuming. Stop assuming
@@77confusedzombie77 You are so right, it is assumption, I am trying so hard to stop , thanks for the reminder.
@@janealivekickin5302 that was cool...never seen someone own up and appreciate the call out... Nice😉
@@janealivekickin5302 😂😂😂😂😂😂. You are himble and funny!
it's always these dudes you see crying on their women and constantly acting like they're damaged and need support etc. who are beating the woman and controlling her behind closed doors.
For someone who got out of an abusive relationship that’s exactly how it is. They cry and play the victim and behind doors he beat me even pregnant.
What doors ? They’re homeless nothing is holding her back
@@tylerhansen8278 lmfaoo
@@tylerhansen8278 😭😭😭😭
This is 100% how my extremely abusive and alcoholic ex husband was. Constantly crying, playing victim and acting like he was hurting, always leaning on me but behind closed doors he was the most psychotic and abusive person.
He spoke so much without saying anything at all. His brain is FRIED. He needs true psychological help and treatment. She needs to get out. You can see and tell that she isn't too far deep in yet and she needs to get out while she can. I think she wants to.
You’re so right, “ he spoke so much without saying anything at all” that killed me😂 it’s very sad what these people are doing to their lives 🤦🏻♀️
@@Hellokatie77 It is very sad! Part of me always feels terrible and wants to help them, but sometimes they don't always want help unfortunately. That's the hard part.
@@ash_marie13 So true... He made no sense at all.
He is most likely beyond treatment. He appears to be a narcissistic abuser. They’re just as bad off the drugs.
@@hillarybillary21 I have to agree with you on that one.
He’s a company owner. Of course. And a rapper. And a computer whiz. And a director. And an astronaut. And an Indian chief.
He directed Wild Boys, obviously
Lol 😂
Haha yes!! And he’s been able to do all of this while being in jail…
SHE'S the only one who totally believes him.
And a homeless bumb that has nothing to offer.
Something is super sketch about that kid. He wouldn’t let her complete her thoughts. He’s completely controlling her. It’s really unfortunate because she could have a chance away from him. I didn’t believe anything he said. I google whatever made up production company he said he owned....nothing. Don’t buy for a second his mom was/is an actress. Definitely don’t believe he’s only smoking weed. Just an odd interview and he’s def a mind fuck to her. When he said he forgave her dad?!?! For what?? Letting you stay in his open and having house rules he needed to enforce because you didn’t respect him. Then you punch him?!?! No way would anyone in their right mind stay with someone like that. His grip on that poor girl is terrible. Would like an interview with her WITHOUT that kid.
Yeah, her father is letting him live there and he had the nerve to punch him? Wow!
my thoughts exactly
Agree, and I hope we get to hear something from her without him.
He also hasn’t been incarcerated for the last five years bc he has pics on the outside on fb from 17 18 and 19 lol
@@tlowery2074 do any of you understand schizophrenia,? good grief,the judgment.
“I don’t know wtf I’m talking about.” Only thing he said that I believed.
@Shelley 17 it’s to not “too” and was I talking TO you? It’s the world wide internet of opinion troll somebody else
Dude in this video is a huge baby and needs to grow up. Can’t believe she’s dumb enough to fall for his obvious bs.
@Shelley 17 if you feel bad for these people you dumb as hell. You can’t help anybody that won’t help themselves. He threw his life away when he got all those scribbles tattooed on his face like an idiot. Play stupid games you win stupid rewards.
@@sirblake406 wtf you talking about? we shouldn't feel sorry or have empathy? i disagree! i will admit i found out i was 5.5 mo preggo and using H and guess what i was called so many horrible names and people were so ignorant to the fact of just saying you are a horrible mother how can you use you should just quit etc etc but its not that simple...If i would've just quit cold turkey that far along pregnant it could've killed my baby! Also in the state of Wa after 4 mo preggo they do not allow you to go into treatment because you will be considered "high risk" so guess what i decided to get on methadone but I wasn't very lucky even though i was pregnant and an IV user they didn't have any room to get me on the program i was so hurt and pissed, but I called them every day and became so annoying that the director of the clinic finally called me but i didn't get on until after I had my son! so unfortunately since i wasn't on the program before i had my son CPS got involved and he was taken away which now I look back and it was for the best, but dude you don't know what its like til it happens to you or shit one of your kids!! point is after 8 mo of me and baby father jumped through all of cps hoops and clean UA's we got full custody and he is now 11yrs old and yes Im still on the clinic but I'm a great mama and i finally had a girl who is 2.5 yrs old. people CAN change and yes they have to want it for themselves, but it sure help when you feel like you have SUPPORT!! our system is set up for ppl like this to usually fail :(
Lol. That’s right!
That guy is something else. He's an attention seeker and seems to love playing victim.
Dude beats her, the way she quick says “sorry sorry I’m sorry” to him after she says something and they way she half braces herself on instinct is chilling. On the flip side dudes a master of every trade
I picked up on that too.
To any girl that’s dating a guy that thinks he’s an artist in the rap business.. get the hell out now
That is the truth.
Delusions of grandeur!
My husband raps. Has since he was 10. He loves it but had no dream of being famous or anything.
Omg that’s the damn truth right there!!
YES.
They need to just pay women to get on birth control it’s cheaper then bringing a child into this world under these circumstances. I’m not saying a child can’t change someone because a baby can.... but More often the child ends up having a life of suffering or a life without their parents.
@Jebbar Watson -- since when has that advice ever worked?! So do YOU only have sex for procreation?
Marty Sugarman holy crap dude. She is saying that there should be free and easily accessible birth control.
It’s hard to access that stuff on the streets, keep it around and take it at the right time.
Offering free birth control helps prevent as many kids form being born addicted to drugs, to parents who cannot keep them. It’s stressful for the addicted parents who desperately want to pull it together for the kids, but the addiction is just to deep and strong.
It’s much easier to offer birth control to people before they get pregnant so it’s a non issue. Things like IUDs that can be implanted and can last for months at a time, etc.
Whoops just realized I totally misunderstood. Sorry man
@@skateranddancer my comment was towards jabbar watson, not sure how to spell the name.
I agree with you and with the original poster. But the other comment said, "if you dnt want kids, dnt have sex. " and that birth control is bad for your body.
Pay a woman that doesn't have any regard for her life to be on birth control 🤔...
1st: who will pay them to be on birth control (the "tax payers")
2nd: What guarantees are there that they will comply.
3rd: How/who do you expect to manage that.
How about maybe doing what they do to "feral cats, capture them and neuter/spay them" but not in that sense,... more humainly. Give them the option to want to get the procedure done ofcourse always offering the reversible type, people change and maybe some day when they get their life together they may want to have a family, then they can pay to get it reversed... that I don't mind as a tax payer to pay (one time offer), but a daily/monthly birth control... I don't see that working.
Meth & especially cocaine were my drugs of choice but besides marijuana, next month will mark a year free of hard drugs & alcohol for me! Thanks to all the messages I’ve been receiving on here . I couldn’t have done it without the support of my lovely wife & a very patient mother which I put though hell for many years . I wish you all the best & thank you all once again !
Stay strong :) I'm a recovering alcoholic and addict my self. Getting on a antidepressant and anxiety medication really helped.
Good for you bro, keep seeing what life really has to offer. Keep it up!
Congratulations 🎉
♥️💙💚💛💜
_vicolicious_gambino INSTAGRAM that’s great
he’s so unbelievably controlling moving her face and telling her what to say and speaking for her. she can definitely do it herself, he’s trying to make sure she’s saying the right thing. i’m very worried about her and i hope she can get out of this relationship.
Absolutely correct 💯 This dude is toxic and she would be better off without him
I'm a husband and father and can honestly say this dude doesn't need a girlfriend or a child,he needs to figure out who he is himself,he's a very lost soul and if he is seeking guidance he needs to shut up and listen,him trying to guide her is like the blind leading the blind,she should start walking and not look back,this dude is depressing to be around,most women I know don't like a whiny man acting like an attention seeking baby.
I thought the same! horrible! the worst was when he said he can feel what she wants to say ... like - wtf!!!
She’s so lost and he’s so high. He’s the only one that understands what he’s saying. Poor poor souls. Extremely sad...
I feel more sorry for the baby he killed due to drug use and the kid on the way. He is high as a kite.
I agree
I typically have lots of empathy for people in a rough situation. Not so in this case.. something beyond drugs going on.. that’s the impression I got
She’s high af too
And you have weeve at least hers is real
"I don't know what the F I'm talking about" is the only true thing he said.
Jack Burton word
As he said he doesn’t know how to express himself
Judgment is easy to do behind a screen huh
@@iRise2Ruin lol I just quoted what he said
Yes Sir
"I don't do drugs, but sometimes I go into the bathroom and do things.....its none of your business" he literally believes that if he says "I dont wanna talk about it" or "its none of your business" then we have no idea what hes up to.
Like wow denial of truth
😭😭
He said he goes in there to do his music, beats, bla, bla, bla BLA.........
Either way......I agree he's definitely doped up & is a drug free lie.
That part was awesome💀
He's been fried on meth, obviously. Denial is big with tweakers; they think they are fooling people. I don't think so.
As an ex-victim of domestic violences I'm pretty sûre that this guy is really DANGEROUS . He speaks for her all the tine, she's juste kind of afraid and admirative at the same time
Esp when he said he punched her dad for arguing with him to turn down his music like tf dude you were living in his house and I would be annoyed too if someone played loud music and neighbors would complain as well.
At one point she was stroking his fingers and he told her to stop because of his sunburn.
You're not an ex victim. You're a survivor and you're tremendous.
Stay Awesome and Frosty! Take care.
Dangerous, yes...just average things push his buttons. Perfect example was like around 14:00 when interviewer brought up that his mom had died, and Roman is the one who mentioned that earlier, so then naturally the interviewer would feel it's a topic on the table...then when the interviewer brings it up at 14:00 to go into it, that pushes his buttons...it kinda languishes 20 or 30 seconds to AT 14:27, Roman is still reeling internally as if that was out of bounds, from being asked if she died, the interviewer moves on of "So you..." at 14:27 but right then there's a flash of anger/rage/evil in Romans head slightly down toward the interviewer. So 14:26/14:27 if u pause, that's a look of pure evil within...it was go-time for Roman, as in go at the interviewer physically was what was in his mind, all over just being asked about his mom.
This was one of the most uncomfortable things I’ve watched in a really long time.
Omg yes!! It started getting bad for me when he kept lifting her face up
Everything about this couple made me uncomfortable.. I’ll leave it at that.
Same made my skin crawl
@@ameliajade5967 ya they are lying
Very cringey.. he won’t let her talk & when he does she’s afraid to
I agree, this conversation made my head spin. All over the place. I pray that they can get help, but that is ultimately up to them. She is always looking at him for approval, his grip has her hypnotized. I fear for the life of her and her unborn child.
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He’s face looks like a middle school desk.
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I wish them both and their baby well. They're going through it. It looks like you caught them on an extremely emotional and raw day. They remind me of the movie candy. I hope they both make it through this storm, and that this baby is freed from the chains of addiction, abuse, and homelessness. I hope their child is never touched by it once born.
idk but I got a feeling that he’s very controlling & manipulative
Watch 12-40-12:45 the way she apologized left me uneasy like maybe he's abusive.
Very controlling
@Iam Notafan yip! Nail on the head there ☝️
"her father and I, we didn't get along" man, fucking shocking lmao
He punched him in the face, because he was treating him like a bitch 😂
Bc of the loud music 😂
Lol right
Lmao so shockinh
So shocking*
I would really like to see her back without him.
Hahahaha...yeah the guy sends out vibes
@Niterain problaly aint gonna happen...you know how women are..
Having a baby with him.what a joke
@Niterain couldnt think of a worst idea...but hey...romance,he completes her
very needed
Same
He deserves an Oscar for this performance
I know right he is far gone with the drugs having baby with Jesse is scary. Control freak I hope she gets help I can tell she is so sweet beautiful. I pray for her.
I pray for both of them
More like a razzie
Shouldn’t have filmed and showed this. It’s fucking madness personified.
@@drewwhy5541 People need to see this. This is life, and life can be madness personified, and it also can be beautiful. You can take it all in and learn from it.
They way he glossed over "blag blah I killed my kid, did 5 years in prison & now I have my beautiful wife."
Damn girl, I'd be running as far away from him as possible.
No you wouldn’t. I’ve met more women with total trainwrecks of men than anything else.
i thought he said that the baby died bc the mom was doung crystal meth. i definitely agree she should get as far away from him as possible but i dont think he killed his child
@@user-nu6ij5lh2u that's exactly what I heard...
He didn’t say he killed his kid he said the mother killed the kid via addiction. A addict is suppose to run from a forgiving addict?
Did he not say the mother did it?
Can you do an update on these two? I'm seriously concerned for the girl
Probably lost the baby
@@MexicanChrisKyle 😂😂😂
@@jackieristic8816 A little callous, don't you think? These are real people.
@@FreePercussion real people, honestly though....
You gonna save her?
This guy is a sociopath. Someone needs to help that woman get out ASAP.
I bet when he sees these comments he’s going to complain to Marc.
Sue's Journey Or worst case, take it out on the poor girl and blame her for the comment😞
Caine SaintClair
Sounds like you need more life experience. Or not, and carry on ignorant.
And go straight to another "sociopath" if she's still abusing drugs
Na he's a narcissist
"As soon as you start thinking, everything fails. But if you weren't thinking, you were just relaxing and being, the being that we are supposed to be, then you know we'd be free."
it should be illegal for them to have kids
I kinda agree. Its gonna suck for the kid
It certainly should. No child should be born into this.
It definitely should. The kid will be just like them in 20 years if its even able to live that long of a lifetime
This baby will have no chance to have anything approaching a normal life. He or she will be on the street by the time they are in their teens. Thats if they survive.
Yep absolutely. The kid will have a horrible painful life and will most likely end up like this in 20 years, have their own kid, and the cycle will continue. It's not fair at all to bring a child into this situation.
As a recovering meth addict myself, this whole conversation was from the mouth of someone who has been up for a few days and his brain was literally shorting out. He thinks he was making sense because when your that high and been awake for so long and your body is extremely malnourished that's the results right there.
Exactly
What is meth like? I’ve never even seen it before. I was into pills pretty bad, but never meth.
sergio pena haven’t touched meth in almost a year but just imagine a time you felt extremely good & multiply that feeling times 10 but imagine it lasting for hours & add feeling super horny to the mix of extreme euphoria! Don’t ever touch that drug ! I went from snorting it just like coke to smoking that garbage !
_vicolicious_gambino INSTAGRAM oxy made me feel the same way. Not for hours though. I have to admit though, as good as it made me feel, it’ll never compare to how good I felt that first morning when I woke up and was sober. Congrats on your sobriety.
sergio pena I truly appreciate it buddy !🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Am I the only one who heard him say “ended up killing my kid and did 5 years in prison” (1:40)
No, but he also speaks in rambling run-on sentences and it’s not really clear if the two are related. If the baby died because the mother was injecting meth he sold her, he could’ve gotten a death by delivery charge I suppose.
I heard it. 👍🏼
He most definitely did say that!!!!
listen to what he was saying, he was talking about the girl, then he went to prison, then she killed the child by smoking meth.
@Pangolin Steak & Bat Gravy i mean, we don't know anything about the kid? she could have died before she was born
I met this dude out in palm desert CA,he's a good dude he's very honest and very respectful.keep up the good work in progress god bless u both...you gave me a RED JBL SPEAKER...I BEEN INSIDE UR TENT IN THOUSAND PALM...THATS THE LAST TIME I SAW U...STAY SAFE MY BOY..AND CONGRATS...YOU BOTH ARE IN MY PRAYERS..
They are always good dudes when someone else is around. Don't let him fool you. And, he just may be a good dude to everyone but extremely abusive to a significant other especially after they are his wife. They have extremely insecurities and extremely fear of being left by that person. They were most likely a mommas boy at one time and his momma left him
These types of abusers are actually very hurt emotionally, mentally and most likely physically abused
I'd like to see an an update on them, but separate interviews.
Well... if that's the case then they're going to have to say goodbye to the horses (metaphor)
Exactly!!
Yeah he's controlling!
@@christopherchandler8919 I just think she's very reliant on him
@@sik_114
It's Codependency, toxic.
This interview really stuck out to me and I feel particularly bad for all the comments I see from girls saying he just seems like a loving/caring boyfriend. This is exactly what emotional abuse looks like.
Honestly I agree
Yes. This is very similar to what me and my exes relationship looked like, except he was the 🧊 addict and i didn't do any drugs. He's a very evil, narcissistic person. Preyed on all my love for him and faith I had in him to get better so that WE could get better. He scared the hell out of me from completely losing his mind, (paranoid delusions 24/7 etc) it got so bad i don't even want to think about it. When I say he's evil I mean it. He confessed multiple times to me of planning to murder people; either his plans backfired or he would chicken out, things like that. He was a violent person. He loved satanic/demonic things. He would be so mean to me that I'd cry and then he'd stare at me with the biggest smile on his face because he genuinely loved causing me pain. In public he would be SO lovey and sweet, and tell people that i was his WORLD and the best thing thats ever happened to him. But as soon as we got behind closed doors he would immediately change and be completely evil. Like the energy shift within him would make my hair stand up on end, like i would get this deep sinking feeling of "oh shit it was just an act..." and start to panic from what he was going to do to me to hurt me. I ended up leaving him because after 2 years of him refusing to get a job or go to rehab & therapy, him cheating on me over & over and using his addiction as an excuse to cheat on me, I was done. He attempted to RUIN me and everything else about my life but now I'm working on getting my light & happiness back.💖💜
What is abusive about it, she said she didn’t want to talk about it
@@matsonruddell8795they’re making something out of nothing
"I act like I have it all figured out but I don't." BRUH, literally NO ONE thinks you have it all figured out.
Which is why he said he acts that way .. he didnt say he convinces people that he does lol what
I was like, WTF who could possibly believe he has it ALL TOGETHER? Damn
He's sober in this shit hole if they stay they might not make it. Pray young man
I can’t listen to this dude. Seriously 🤦🏻♀️
😂😂😂😂 you got me here
She made me cry bc she was crying! I feel sorry for her 😢. I hope their baby survives and thrives and that they both get the help they need!
I wouldn't trust him as far as I could piss.
James lmaooooo
L o l
Damn that’s generous lol
Loool 😂
I can smell it right now!!
I'm a bit confused by this interview honestly, longest 17 mins of life and i still don't understand their story.
Ochre Clay Why are you sharing his accounts everywhere? I’m truly curious
I HEARD THAT!! WOW JUST WOW, SAD...😭
This needs to be top comment
Ochre Clay they don’t even seem like the same people. And is his name Roman or Jesse.
Ochre Clay it’s funny because he’s saying he’s good at photography and editing pics. But really he’s just got blurry pics with tons of app edits on them. Lol. Poor guy. He’s definitely lost.
This is a scary one! He is so unstable. As a woman who lived through abuse for 30 yrs., and I am concerned that the way these two interact, that she is being abused.
you are not wrong at all....this is a bad situation all around.
Yeah, this child is manipulative as fuck and totally unaware of her person-hood. I don't know if the abuse is physical, but he's shutting her down verbally and emotionally at every turn.
He’s literally trying not to smile when he says he forgives her for cheating. He loves having that to hold over her.
You’re an idiot
Good point.
When he said he usually does the speaking for her, I knew we were listening to a classic domestic violence case.
Yes especially when he said he PUNCHED her father like it was nothing... Violence is imbedded in their relationship
@@angeee8542 there's many world's within this world when your surrounded by violence as a child the normalisation process takes place
Same.
No I don't think so. Their body language towards each other is strange.
@@skittles191919 I really hope that this is the only thing you and your husband share in common with this couple....
This channel should be a required study for anyone in social work, therapy, or psychology.
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I agree 💯
Very true.
It is darling, it is...
It also helps to realise to stay away from drugs
PLEASE DO A UPDATE ON THESE 2
Fuck no, there's no happy ending here, I want happy endings
Latest update, they’re still homeless and making excuses.. 😂🤷🏽♂️
@@Jwoodard9101 that's what they do best
I can tell you what happens. He ends up back in jail and she ends up getting her baby taken away after it's born addicted to heroin.
@@Jwoodard9101 ugh how do you know? sucess stories happen dude and I am one!!
There have been many difficult stories to listen to here but this one is by far the hardest. My heart aches for both of them.
Did he really say "I usually speak for her"?!? This guy is controlling and psychotic. I'm scared....
Handler...idk I get weird vibes and also the freemason sign
She probably dosnt speak for herself don’t always look at it as a bad thing
@@Kary-k1z Yes!! Was just thinking the same thing... he's manipulating her fully
It's all natural born killers vibes
"I forgave him" after disrespectfully playing music loud in a space that isn't his own, about the father of the woman he loves whom he punched in the face after being confronted about it? Red flags.
This was the weirdest thing, because it wasn't like most of the interviews. That guy is living in a lala land that he created for himself.
That's what meth does to you :( my dad has been a drug addict off and on long before I was even born.... I'm 29 now, he's in his mid 50's and the drugs have messed his mind up so bad he lives on the streets trying to convince everyone including my siblings and I that he's gods prophet and was put on this earth to save everyone from satin who he thinks is my mom ......my heart breaks everyday all day because it's all I can think about to yet theres nothing I can say or do to help him
@@Thebigdogg123 sorry to hear that. Break the cycle I did. Continue to encourage other. I hope you have the best life!
If he lives in his head and believe it to the core, later on everything will manifest in the 3D. Everything is what you push out. As within, so with out.. as above, so below..😮
His mum actually was an actress and his aunt is a photographer.
@@Morgan.iiiviix unfortunately a lot of people won't understand what you just said, nor do they have any interest in the generative principle (G).
"Everyone calls me Flame"
" _Flame_ ? Ehh... Yeah so where'd you grow up, Roman?"
Mark is a straight up chad lmfao was shutting this dude down the whole time
This woman has definitely been manipulated and is too far gone to leave this relationship.
Did you see how when he mentioned manipulation he looked at her to see if she suspected him.
Yes blame the man for her following an absolute imbecile. She chose her path.
Doodle Pop they give us men too much credit
Always the mans fault huh? How about personal responsibility?
@Mike B said he talks like that from anxiety
Roman looks like he was the first to pass out at a party
Lol! For sure
Probably because it looks like someone drew on his face
LOL
😂😂😂😂😖
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This guy is a narcissist, controlling & manipulative. She needs to stay far away from him, this relationship is toxic.
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Change like he is being supportive and Encouraging her to tell the story you can tell he doesn’t want to speak he wants me to speak for self
Yes. I hope she can get away.
The problem is that these types not only don't know how to stay away from each other, but they attract each other. You see it everywhere.
He is like my ex exact the same way its dangerous I am glad I survived and I am alive
This dude is out of his mind. I feel awful for her cuz clearly he controls every word she says. She barely was able to talk without him interrupting. He thinks he's helping her but he's hurting her in the long run. I'll pray for both of them. 🙏
He fakes being supportive so well. The more he makes her feel like he's her voice and strength the less likely she will be to leave, she will start to believe him. Hearing him speak makes me feel sick.
Exactly...I can remember a time I held onto someone's every word, walked on eggshells, lost my voice because what I said was not right or not good enough, I was blamed for the relationship issues. He is master manipulating her and I wish she could see it.. makes me feel ill as watching this too 😭
This kid is a sociopathic liar. I'm just glad it's written on his face.
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You can't possibly know this kid after only listening to him for a few minutes. Everyone has problems in life , some worse than others. Instead of criticizing him , why don't you do something constructive. Donate to help these people , say a prayer for them , or help someone like them. Try to walk in their shoes for awhile. How would you feel , what would you do?
Sociopathy is a mental disease. No different in our respect than schizophrenia. In that,I moreso see the signs of disorganized schizophrenia than sociopathy. Usually sociopathic presentations are in fact symptoms if other mental illness
@@conniedoan6917 Well said. Have I met you at one of Marks functions? I'm a psychiatrist that is part of a variety of folks that works with many of these people in northern and southern California.
Maybe schizophrenic or pathological impulse to fabricate things but sociopath nah. If he was he could get himself out of this hell life
He called her his Harley Quinn... you know everything is just going to go downhill after that 😂
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Lmao😂😂😂 That's definitely a major red flag
Ryan Leroux10 🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
🤣😂 chad's will be chad's
I know he didn't hear the rest of what they call him. FLAMING IDIOT
Jessie go home and live a clean life, you are loved. This young man needs to go through a come full circle healing process and need help. Prayers always. We are all just human and pray for a better future for both of you.
It would be better to interview her on her own, she might open up then, but I dont think he'd let that happen.
He will always use that you-cheated-on-me-and-I-forgave-you line to keep her submissive. Poor lady.
the eye contact he made when he said that.. . chills
He's had to cry for her forgiveness, etc etc. I'm sure he's beat her.
Plus, she's not cheating when he's locked up unless they're married.
He doesn't own her!
@@LisaPFrampton I agree with you on some but if your in a committed relationship even if they are locked up its not ok to cheat but these two are toxic for each other
He covered himself in anything he could think of that looks dark and intimidating because he feels weak and vulnerable. He was never taught to overcome adversity and now he has to navigate a jungle with no social skills or street smarts. The only way he will let her go is through a jail cell or a grave.
On point Joe
Very insightful, and true.
Yeah u can tell hes super sensitive and a big baby thats what those ppl do to scare ppl off
That’s what I was thinking
@@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 why would they try to scare people off?
Covering you both and your baby in prayers! I’m so sorry you’ve both experienced so much trauma & am sooooo proud of y’all getting clean for your baby! God is only a prayer away, he has big plans for all of you!!!! Love y’all! I believe in you! You’re both worth it! 💯🙏🏻🪢♥️
"I usually speak for her." The ignorance in this one is tooooo much
He said that, claiming to know exaclty how she feels through a spiritual connection which is ridiculous. I dont think he said that because hes controlling. I think he said that because hes crazy and probably really thinks he knows everything about her through something spiritual which is absurd
Hes borderline as fck! 🙄
@@Adultory Agreed!!!
i like how a person who is not homeless is criticizing a homeless person like you would knoe their world
Sr. Concizion I like how one can easily excuse such ignorance and toxic behavior. He is his own worst enemy and she's his slave. I like how u validate taking advantage of the mentally incapable. Dudes a piece of shit, and I've been homeless buddy. People don't get a "pass".
He said his mom was murdered, committed suicide then he couldn’t talk about it. What an absolute wreck, scariest interview I have watched yet.
No he said she was murdered but they ruled it a suicide
@Darius Thomas Pain has no color. Yes people of color have had to deal with Alot, unfortunately racism is real. Babies are not born with hate or prejudice It is taught. But we still have to show compassion for others. We All Bleed Red 😢
If you gonna say something make sure you know what you going to say.
Something about this interview is so dark
@@floatnboyz9181 Worst acting I've seen in a long while from this couple that "don't take drugs"!!
He reminds me very much of Aaron carter and the way he acts. He’s very controlling, full of drugs and narcissistic along with all the lies of his “amazing” past.
omg true!
Yea. I kept thinking "yep, he's pipe dreaming".
Didn't realize it until I read your comment... But most definitely!!
Becca they both are at rock bottom and using each other to hold themselves up. I am not going to judge them for being codependent.
@@jodydavis6238 yea i think that's fair
The most genuine part was when he admitted that he was lost and tired, and tired of being lost. Heartbreaking! I pray everyone finds their own way.
Their conversation is weird and sketchy...I’m so confused right now
Same! I'm SO CONFUSED!
same, it’s an odd thing how ppl who are hurting and struggling come together and struggle together, but i understand it
This is really hard to follow and I'm having trouble believing this whole thing.
So basically he was lying about most stuff up until 15:32, she was from what it seems was raped or molested as a child. And she has a problem with finding a sense of security (why she’s with that bum). He’s a tweaker (meth addict) she take heroin, that explains his emotional outbursts, jitters and constant fiddling. He pretty much explained at the end that he played her into getting pimped when they were homeless and he feels guilty cause he could have done something about it. In reality he knows he’s going nowhere fast and he’s take her with him.
This guy has a freemason compass on his neck and a satanic pentagram on his face 🤔🤔so I figure alot of his trauma could be caused by that and the things they are involved in like black magic, rituals and many more sickening things especially if his mother was involved in Hollywood. You can see he's really confused and something isn't right and that is probably the reason why , I hope he gets help and I'll pray for him.
She NEEDS to get away from him. The chin grabbing and the prompting is pushing her deeper into herself in a negative way. :(
His way of controlling what she says. Red flags all over this relationship.
Horrific
@@Octavia1830 agree 💯💯
He the type of dude I could see going from 0 to 100 real quick
I only got to the 7th minute and I can tell that she's in a abusive relationship...my father was one to my mom and you just learn those things. Hope her and the baby are safe...
Jessie....Go home girl and stop playing. Leave Roman and his delusional dramatic self alone...move on!
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it's not his "self" He shows signs of cluster B borderline and cluster A/D schizophrenia or schizotypal paranoia.
@@LemkeR what is a cluster b boarderline and why is he one?
@@lazycarper7925 my bed time. will reply later. TH-cam cluster b disorders in meantime.
@@lazycarper7925 th-cam.com/video/kdWnP8FReAI/w-d-xo.html
This dude scares me. Doesn't even have anything to do with his tattoos. The way he talks. The way he interacts with her. He's restless. The sniffling with his nose was annoying.
Sniffling nose - Trade mark drug addict sign.
@@chandracox6814 ok thanks for the info
Marie Halsey I never noticed the sniffing until I read your comment, now it’s irritating me😆
@@mandiebarker6073 I went back to listen to it a second time to see if still noticed it.....yep but not as much. Not sure if you do....but people who smoke 🚬 especially men have certain hallmarks of their habit to. My thing is my eyes from my meds they dart back and forth.
As soon as I read this I looked back at the video and he sniffed 🤣
Listen ladies (and gents !) don’t go for the “bad boy.” I’m a domestic abuse survivor and he tried to kill me. I escaped but he ended up taking his own life before the cops came. Don’t date them!!!
yes so true i’ve seen so many girls destroyed over it and i had one who would push my against fences and tell me how worthless i was. my boyfriend now is such a gentle soul, and has never been popular but he’d do anything for me and loved me in my most manic episodes. the sweethearts you think are great friends are also great boyfriends :(
One red flag if is he calls you his Harley Quinn
Don't date you neither. You like that. What if he returns?
@@shonuffizhere5670 huh? I’m giving advice Bc I went through it. That’s why I’m saying don’t even mess with them
@@kristenc6839 I'm saying you'll destroy a good man after dealing with bad men.
I think about this video from time to time - it is one of the saddest on here - please can we have an update about Jessie
"And I act like I have it all figured out but I don't man".... you DO NOT give off the impression of having anything figured out dude!!
Like a 5yr old lost in the streets
For real. My husband and I had our jaws on the floor listening to him.
LOLOLOL soon as I read this comment he was saying this. I hate to be mean but I literally died laughing
I was scrolling the comments and came upon yours exactly when he was saying it. This guy is so messed up.
Ashley Nicole figuratively died. Somehow doesn't sound right tho
Interview Jessie without him, please.
Tattoo face would never allow that to happen:
I would love to see that also
Yes I need a follow up on Jessie. I'm afraid for her. I feel like deep down she knows he's bad for her. Her body language says everything.
@MrPitjoey I don't think that's where the worry is; money is money, these are human beings we're talking about. Think about that next time.
That girl was crying out for help! She was scared and he kept making her look at him as a way to threaten her. Just sad. I know a victim when I see one!
She would even look at the camera a certain way. Like her eyes screamed help me.
She’s an idiot too. Nobody forced her to date a guy with a face full of tattoos.
@@MrKrushgutz what the hell? what's wrong with you?
1- don't blame the victim, she's in no way responsible for the fact that he turned out to be potentially dangerous, it's not something you always see
2- face tatts are not specific to abusive people & not all abusive people have face tatts, you can't just say that she should've stayed away and that it's her fault she's in this situation because she should have noticed he was bad because he has tattoos
Coline Giard Listen to his voice. Does he sound like a functioning human being to you? Birds of a feather flock together. I’m sure you’re a terrible judge of character as well.
@@MrKrushgutz Of fucking course not, he sounds ill, manipulative and fake as hell, you completely missed my point, I'm saying that it's not her damn fault that she ended up in such a toxic relationship with such a sick guy because most of the time, toxic people don't seem like they are. There's a good chance that when she met him she juste saw him as broken and super caring and affectionate, which may have made her like him, without knowing that these traits would turn out to be those of someone abusive. My entire point is that nobody can hold her responsible for "not having seen the signs" and being stuck in this dangerous relationship. That's literally how abusive relationships start. You don't see them coming.
You can tell this guy was raised by an actress. The level of drama is off the charts.