Exes Meet For The First Time After 3 Years | {THE AND} Krystal & Steven (Part 1)

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    It’s been three years since Krystal & Steven ended their relationship of two years. Now, after living in different cities and barely speaking, they sit across from each other in a special two-part conversation to vulnerably explore the love they once shared, aftermath of their breakup, and what truly forced the couple apart. Don’t miss the second part of their conversation as they look towards the future, here: bit.ly/StevenKrystalP2
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    Exes Meet For The First Time After 3 Years | {THE AND} Krystal & Steven (Part 1)
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  • @TheSkinDeep
    @TheSkinDeep  4 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    Don't worry- we'd never leave you hanging! 😊
    Catch the second part of Krystal & Steven's intimate conversation here: bit.ly/StevenKrystalP2

    • @williamsca7
      @williamsca7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      The Skin Deep you guys should do adults who talk with their high school sweet hearts exes and the lessons learned from their first loves

    • @Jeanology
      @Jeanology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@williamsca7 This!!!

    • @shanaycampbell6140
      @shanaycampbell6140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How can I get on one of these. I’m what your looking for.

    • @captainblack3938
      @captainblack3938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is exactly what my ex is about trying to puppetry my life into what she wants and when she wants it.. That's not what love is about remember that.. Love is 2 people that connect in a way that is real. And isn't something you can direct like a movie. When she will ever get that in this lifetime or not. That is something I highly doubt now. Just like you don't like being told what or how to do things niether do I. You wanted things like this cause of your thought I was doing wrong well you didn't confront me rather just u walked away and iv accepted it as it is what it is today chapter has ended without a proper smile or ending and now doesn't even need one. Cause if it really did matter hey I wouldn't be messaging a comment section on you tube CORRECT. thanks for watching........

    • @rd4469
      @rd4469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Where's the video of the white couple in the introduction of this video?

  • @nicoles4257
    @nicoles4257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19906

    he lost his future wife and he knows it.

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      nicole dujon , She Lost Out Too.

    • @dandelion6617
      @dandelion6617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +708

      Shaivon Williams That’s a stretch

    • @ldramseur5763
      @ldramseur5763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      I know how he feels.

    • @figo007tv
      @figo007tv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Yea, she lost out.

    • @chantalwoods3088
      @chantalwoods3088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      He is about to cry

  • @lesteriosi6136
    @lesteriosi6136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5225

    Am I the only one wondering where they find these people.

  • @infiniteammoxo
    @infiniteammoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3307

    Update: she got married a couple months ago. 🥂

    • @mor3nik3z
      @mor3nik3z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Thanks for that!!

    • @Ms.eleven11
      @Ms.eleven11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Awesome...

    • @vibrantnubian27
      @vibrantnubian27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Good for her ❤️❤️❤️

    • @treythongz7095
      @treythongz7095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      She has a pretty smile

    • @dcdadon210
      @dcdadon210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      with who?

  • @amayahunter4939
    @amayahunter4939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1319

    You know a woman’s moved on when she can still sit in front of you and smile and have a normal conversation like your her friend after you’ve wronged her that’s a different type of peace and acceptance

    • @zeebee2019
      @zeebee2019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True

    • @jema5039
      @jema5039 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is cap lol

    • @MikaIzZabaceneUlice
      @MikaIzZabaceneUlice ปีที่แล้ว +38

      If she is moved on why is she in the studio with him filming this ?

    • @mukiriking6660
      @mukiriking6660 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MikaIzZabaceneUlice thank you😂😂

    • @mukiriking6660
      @mukiriking6660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And if you say closure 😆😆

  • @AmarYahu
    @AmarYahu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5668

    *He gon cry in the car!* 😭😭😭

    • @mediaiweb
      @mediaiweb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      smokey voice

    • @EN-mh6sr
      @EN-mh6sr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      He's going to kick himself for a VERY long time. If not a lifetime. I hope he learns.

    • @LeratoM98
      @LeratoM98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@EN-mh6sr True

    • @angelahbor7917
      @angelahbor7917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂 IKR?

    • @joes2041
      @joes2041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amaryahu Ban Yasharaalah 😂😂😂😂

  • @Paulina-zs7yp
    @Paulina-zs7yp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9049

    People do not value what they have until they lose it. 😞

    • @jessisrael535
      @jessisrael535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Truth!

    • @Mabhonzoo
      @Mabhonzoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Addi Paulina you can say that again

    • @great-full3612
      @great-full3612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      LET THE CHOIR SAY AMEN!

    • @waynesworldizm
      @waynesworldizm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Very true. The grass is not always greener.

    • @janestanslaus2517
      @janestanslaus2517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@great-full3612 Aaaaaamen

  • @CrackberryMe
    @CrackberryMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    When He look at her, He see's the beautiful future he lost. When she looks at him she see's We're done.

    • @mnorwood334
      @mnorwood334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don’t think it’s over.

    • @jema5039
      @jema5039 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Farhiya Mohamed y’all say this type of shit then see them together in the future then be saying “oh y’all are so cute” stfu

    • @LennyGriffin-ip7mm
      @LennyGriffin-ip7mm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@mnorwood334 oh it is 🙄

    • @jeremiahscott2032
      @jeremiahscott2032 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a possibility that he will change. But with or without her is up to themselves, but he might be better moving on

    • @marcuselvard5922
      @marcuselvard5922 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LennyGriffin-ip7mm how u know ?

  • @mallerysmith8434
    @mallerysmith8434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1284

    When he apologized and she said it's ok. I felt that. It's ok. She held her head high. So happy for her. He has visible regret or sympathy

    • @ashiacameron
      @ashiacameron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Held high suussss ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

    • @christinejones6412
      @christinejones6412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I noticed that as well

    • @thisisnotatestthisistheend
      @thisisnotatestthisistheend 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ashiacameron😂

    • @Vida0737
      @Vida0737 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I’m a mama and I teach my son this: I believe that when someone does something to hurt you and they apologize you don’t say “ it’s ok” you say “ it’s forgiven “ it’s not ok when someone hurts you. But it can be forgiven ❤️

    • @OfficialEmpresstae
      @OfficialEmpresstae 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Untouchable af and powerful 😮‍💨

  • @willharper8346
    @willharper8346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10939

    The regret is eating him ALIVE. she’s COMPLETELY moved on. Karma activated.

    • @sab8634
      @sab8634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      You win the internet for best comment. Couldn’t agree more!!!!

    • @guhua_simpact5878
      @guhua_simpact5878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +264

      Yea you could see the hurt when she said their chapter ended. He knew that he really blew it. I really love how mature these two are this is one of the most authentic things I've watched

    • @2MuchWhit
      @2MuchWhit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I saw that too. He knows he messed up & is now missing out!

    • @shwartzkatt4695
      @shwartzkatt4695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      This guy could still get back with her idk what you're going on about. Everything depends on communication and creating good feelings. I've known guys doing way worse and getting back a woman

    • @hermikp9193
      @hermikp9193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cameron Sparks yeah but that never end up good

  • @j.williams4507
    @j.williams4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5301

    She still loves him but believe found peace and happiness without him..her smile says it

    • @OVP422-_
      @OVP422-_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol really

    • @SH-yk4ft
      @SH-yk4ft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's baloney, girl talk right there

    • @Amalia77777
      @Amalia77777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yees

    • @j.williams4507
      @j.williams4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@Amalia77777 relationships are hard and exhausting if one not ready..but lessons are to be learn if the self time is taken to reflect

    • @suqmaddiqq
      @suqmaddiqq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SH-yk4ft Why? It makes perfect sense.

  • @phoenixed2718
    @phoenixed2718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    He took advantage of how nice and cool she was and thought he’d get away with it.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      If it had been HER that cheated, these comments would be a whole lot different.

    • @SourStrawberrys
      @SourStrawberrys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Childfree334 Nope would have been the same situation. Don't know why you would think it would be any different. A cheater is a cheater. Doesn't matter the gender. As a matter of fact it would be worst for her as they would probally be calling her a h 0 e, for sleeping with many different men while in a relationship. Which you don't see any comments calling him that. Despite that being what he is.

    • @tariegriffin3869
      @tariegriffin3869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No he didn't he took time sat down with her and told her doesn't sound like taking advantage to me.

    • @MiniCoop814
      @MiniCoop814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s how they normally do good women.

    • @sylmarie
      @sylmarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tariegriffin3869 I’m pretty sure she was talking about when he cheated

  • @slimsadie16
    @slimsadie16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    “why do that to yourself” the fact that she’s concerned about how his guilt was making him feel after what he did to her... just maturity and i respect it

  • @engkelvin7600
    @engkelvin7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4649

    His bass voice is vibrating my phone

  • @lamarking9362
    @lamarking9362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5892

    He's definitely hurt that he hurt her and it's killing him inside.

    • @kc-lq1fh
      @kc-lq1fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Courtney Mack as a man who can admit this is true. Most painful shit in the world

    • @Cheeks63091
      @Cheeks63091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      It should because he was a jerk ass for cheating on a good woman

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @gary corr respectfully, I disagree. I think that he did the right thing. He can look her in the eye. Perhaps you can do that to someone you 'love'.....

    • @kaylathomas1464
      @kaylathomas1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@ronnimartin7033 i agree. I think he told her because he saw a future and he didnt want any secrets...

    • @naturalhealthrevolution1518
      @naturalhealthrevolution1518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      He wants her back

  • @mpho87
    @mpho87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    I never go back to exes, what is the point of it all...just reliving the drama all over again with harboured anger. Nope.

    • @davante1286
      @davante1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had a ex introduce me to her guy friend then called me up a week later to come see me im confused 🤔 what you think about this?

    • @mpho87
      @mpho87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davante1286 she prolly fcuked him n wants to see if it bothers you.

    • @mrputtogether
      @mrputtogether 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Allot of times it helps with healing!

    • @davante1286
      @davante1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mrputtogether if it helps with healing why hit me up to come see me that's what I don't get. I should b avoided.

    • @kamscott4862
      @kamscott4862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@davante1286 introduce her to a "girl best freind" and see how she likes it

  • @nanaValente
    @nanaValente ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The loss of a whole shared language must be one of the most devastating parts of a breakup

  • @saucyfaces
    @saucyfaces 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5440

    His constant deep breaths carry alot of regret, it feels.
    Beautiful people though.

    • @ScholarHTX
      @ScholarHTX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Jackie Sears I felt them EVERY single time ... I thought I’d not notice! Geez

    • @Riaalwayspretty
      @Riaalwayspretty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss!

    • @brascoejohnson5464
      @brascoejohnson5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @236ar
      @236ar 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it don’t he’s straight just stop it guyz

    • @saucyfaces
      @saucyfaces 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@236ar I said "it feels". Who are any of us to know for sure? I don't know either of them. It just "feels" like regret every time he did it.

  • @shaniecesingh1181
    @shaniecesingh1181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2292

    His guilt is still eating at him

    • @khaliyahliyah6444
      @khaliyahliyah6444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Goodt..it should. I hate cheaters

    • @alextroy9202
      @alextroy9202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Khaliyah Taylor absolutely should!

    • @kenboiidabarber
      @kenboiidabarber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Great! He deserves to feel what he put her through.

    • @awer7297
      @awer7297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Good! Do you know how many women have HIV, herpes and other stds because of men who wanted to eat their cake and come back home and give their partner things. Disgusting. I hate cheaters. They need to stay from tf away from women like Krystal and relationships in general

    • @yoda3988
      @yoda3988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He ain’t guilty that’s just the thing to do

  • @DouradaBambina
    @DouradaBambina ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cheating is betrayal at soul level. No way back. She’s such inner peace ✌🏽

  • @makafuisatekla7515
    @makafuisatekla7515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    This video right here testifies how much strength a woman possess and once she’s healed it’s done. Happy she moved hurts me same time dude lost a great wife. And how she kept smiling through the video tells me fo sho she’s completely healed and moved on. 😊

    • @pawel3241
      @pawel3241 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Works the same for both men and women. I have gone through the same thing with the woman cheating. So yea.. women cheat emotionally which is 10 times worst.

  • @abubakarisalwasuhuyini263
    @abubakarisalwasuhuyini263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3956

    The woman is healed but I can see the man is still hurt

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I think they both still hurt.

    • @cello_thomaz1557
      @cello_thomaz1557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@lynneanderson4255 yea but the woman seem more over it she mostly found a better man.

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@cello_thomaz1557 - Not according to the follow up on Part 2. Afterwards, they started talking again and occasionally hanging out.
      They were very young when they met. He was 18 or 19. She was younger. Good decisions by young men are often as rare as hen's teeth. They are truly adults now and will have a more adult relationship, friendship or something else, since they've both grown up.

    • @_analezama
      @_analezama 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Luz Renteria - Some people have to painfully learn their lesson.

  • @PatchaChel
    @PatchaChel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5015

    Cheating is most women’s deal breakers in a relationship. If men know this, then cheating behavior is a clear sign he is willing to risk everything & the relationship is not the priority.

    • @timothypotts3913
      @timothypotts3913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      lmao women cheat just as much as men

    • @timothypotts3913
      @timothypotts3913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @FujitoraTheGreat The truth

    • @Ashley-qx4my
      @Ashley-qx4my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Is it? Women praise themselves for staying with cheaters just like "the good ole days." Women will raise males baby he had with another woman as if it's a normal thing to do. You're not catching males staying round watching a woman's body grow with another males baby inside. You're a "real woman" for sticking around but you're a simp if you stay with a cheating woman.

    • @timothypotts3913
      @timothypotts3913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@Ashley-qx4my Seems like a bunch of generalisations, I've never heard of a woman raising a mans baby, the modern family court almost always sides with the mother, so it is usually a man bringing up another man's child seeing as though women generally get custody.

    • @vaishi6286
      @vaishi6286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      women cheat too bruh

  • @1Savannahh1
    @1Savannahh1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    guys be like “i cheated on you but trust me it hurts me way more” like ??? boy how you broke my whole ass heart when i didn’t even think of one moment of hurting ylu

    • @dasteraw
      @dasteraw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      people make mistake the real ones mature from there mistakes, remember that was 3years ago not last week.

    • @luccib7225
      @luccib7225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This why men who make mistakes don't tell on themselves...he was trying to come clean because he noticed where he really wanted to be

    • @benfine2328
      @benfine2328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Savannah Martino EXACTLY!!

    • @phaivanhouthonesak2088
      @phaivanhouthonesak2088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not just guys...

  • @essenenaziriteyirmeyahu851
    @essenenaziriteyirmeyahu851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I love how she speaks, how eloquent she is. That is something that is very beautiful

  • @abdulm6365
    @abdulm6365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5314

    It feels like this dude holding back tears the whole time.

    • @rashadmuhammad1991
      @rashadmuhammad1991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +435

      He knew he fucked up. He probably wishes he never told her about his infidelities

    • @Erica-xg5xk
      @Erica-xg5xk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

      At least he didn’t lead her on and waste her time. Why be in a relationship if you can’t be faithful?

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Rashad Muhammad yeah....how about go to the root cause?!?
      How about he regret cheating?!?!??? Instead of regretting integrity of at least telling her.

    • @ashtonbrie9104
      @ashtonbrie9104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Erica Wilson he wasted 2 years of her life, so it was a bit too late for that at that point. She believed they had a fully committed relationship and he tarnished that from the beginning.

    • @jodejack
      @jodejack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Their relationship didn't end because he cheated or admitted to cheating. They were having significant problems before he admitted to cheating from what she said. They were on the way to breaking up, and the cheating was the final straw.

  • @dennoh2532
    @dennoh2532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4856

    This is the most dangerous game to be engaged in. Let memories be memories.

    • @MyTwell
      @MyTwell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @naomik5722
      @naomik5722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@tieuellegacy LMao cameron and lauren be cute thooo hehehehe

    • @tieuellegacy
      @tieuellegacy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@naomik5722 VVibrant couple, fa sho.

    • @dianenahabwe9148
      @dianenahabwe9148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Very dangerous

    • @sista_widloxxx5786
      @sista_widloxxx5786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Dennoh yea I agree 💯 I don’t wanna ever go to this place with my ex. 3 years later it is what it is and you over there living your life and I’m living mine. No need to talk about shit from our past especially when we’ve emotionally, mentally AND physically moved on

  • @portillogregorio6
    @portillogregorio6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love her for being so understanding but being so strong to walk away

  • @sweetierobinson5321
    @sweetierobinson5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    She has good energy and he’s like a magnet gravitating towards her.

  • @_Alimm
    @_Alimm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2809

    When you come across a queen don't take her for granted.

    • @nataliavila3270
      @nataliavila3270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      GirlYouAlreadyKnow PERIODT.

    • @joewill9967
      @joewill9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She’s not a queen. She fronting. She prolly got good cat. Not great. She just got pretty features and a nice voice. That goes veryyyy far

    • @joewill9967
      @joewill9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Natali Avila why are u making an assumption about who she is based on how she presents herself in this 1 video? I know a lot of liars. Most of them are women without accountability

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joewill9967 lol. n what's great puss 2 u?

    • @joewill9967
      @joewill9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      African Girl any cat that gets watery while giving neck and doesn’t complain about a bent back is good cat

  • @amandaperez11231
    @amandaperez11231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3665

    Her whole vibe is insane she’s seems super chill and she’s beautiful

    • @erikorehek7843
      @erikorehek7843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      seriously she is. and It's sad to see women cheated on

    • @killamatrix1
      @killamatrix1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who

    • @stevetheiii477
      @stevetheiii477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Amanda Perez yeah she's beatiful under a pound of make-up and fake hair lmao

    • @cephusakeem7141
      @cephusakeem7141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What was he thinking..........?

    • @78vette11
      @78vette11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Steve The III She doesn’t have a pound of makeup on. Why so angry??? What did “she” do to you???

  • @isaymamamoo9469
    @isaymamamoo9469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I know everyone's angry he's a cheater but I just want to say it's really rare to find a guy who's sincerely sorry and apologetic for his mistakes. I hope he moves on and finds peace. For the woman, I'm really happy she's moved on and healed. She is a really beautiful and strong woman ☺️

    • @victoriaogunsanya9074
      @victoriaogunsanya9074 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also hope he gets therapy and mentoring so that he never repeats the cheating again ever

  • @WeAllKnoButDontKno
    @WeAllKnoButDontKno 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    she’s so pure & sweet. so glad she found love & marriage after this ❤️❤️

    • @Safa-gq6jm
      @Safa-gq6jm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How do u know

  • @blacknsmallbuys
    @blacknsmallbuys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2186

    She has a vibrant aura. Just beautiful. I don't understand men at all.

    • @waynesworldizm
      @waynesworldizm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Brooklyn Dun women do it too. It’s happened to me with two relationships.

    • @Artliker1234
      @Artliker1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      waynesworldizm sorry that happened to you, I hate how normalized cheating has become. It’s not ok it SUCKS it’s a betrayal

    • @godsbabeborn-again5945
      @godsbabeborn-again5945 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭

    • @mscisland
      @mscisland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      You don’t understand men because you don’t take the time and patience to. And another thing. Women only care about how they feel. They don’t care about the mans feelings. This is why you can’t seem to understand men. Women blame men for everything they see happening to fellow women. But they fail to see the real picture. Women only see what they do right, and what they see what the man does wrong. But never what they do wrong. And this is straight facts. Disagree with me if you want. We all know this is true.

    • @blacknsmallbuys
      @blacknsmallbuys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      M.S.C ISLAND and in this situation what did she do wrong?

  • @gloriamutoni5137
    @gloriamutoni5137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3469

    He has the deepest voice. She has the most beautiful smile. They still love each other but the trust is gone.

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Forgiveness is everything! I think that he sabotaged himself in the beginning of the relationship. They could be happy again!

    • @gloriamutoni5137
      @gloriamutoni5137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@ronnimartin7033 everything is possible, I hope they end up happy..whether together or not.

    • @nananana2980
      @nananana2980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chinedu Bethrand Okafor Nigerian scammer alert 🚨

    • @thabesttheris
      @thabesttheris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would have kept thag secret to myself lol

    • @helloworld3943
      @helloworld3943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@ronnimartin7033 a cheater is a cheater

  • @shegotstandards
    @shegotstandards 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I hope she never has a relationship with him again. He's not worthy of her; she gave him her trust and he cheated on her and killed her heart. She is too beautiful of a soul to let this guy mess her up again. Once a man cheats on you, always beware! Furthermore, she's not the one for him because he would not have hurt her the first time if he really wanted to be with her. Sometimes men don't realize the good thing he lost until it's gone.

    • @nick281972
      @nick281972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, definitely toxicity behind the smooth charming exterior.

  • @theprincessdolly
    @theprincessdolly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This video is a perfect example of you do not know what you have until it’s gone. He lost a great woman but that’s okay because he made room for the man who was really meant to be with her. She’s a gorgeous woman and on the inside too. Congrats to her on her new marriage! ✨ and to any ladies who have a feeling that they aren’t in the right relationship or anything similar.. trust that gut feeling and leave. Make room for your future husband or wife. Sending love and light.

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You kinda want to see them work it out but some things are not workout worthy. He did a final over it action! Some women go back and some will never go back. Cant blame them...

    • @josephliggins2619
      @josephliggins2619 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares let her move on she will get cheated on a few more times and then she will look up and be 35 and single 😆. Then she won't have the leverage anymore.

  • @beautifulrecovery2337
    @beautifulrecovery2337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9537

    Her joy is vibrant! You can just see it in her eyes. That baby is healed.

    • @diabloiii9766
      @diabloiii9766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Beautiful Recovery no she’s not. She’s faking it and her face expressions are very telling.

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      @@diabloiii9766 - I don't think she's faking at all. That said, I don't think she's over him. They're not over each other.

    • @tinazivk
      @tinazivk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@diabloiii9766 finally !!! ! I am thinking I am insane

    • @satanisgod7639
      @satanisgod7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@diabloiii9766 nah lol she said their chapter ended n u can see the regret in his eyes for losing her, she moved on n is happy

    • @stacywanjiru4757
      @stacywanjiru4757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lynneanderson4255 are you sure

  • @CJ-xi3zs
    @CJ-xi3zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5752

    Does anybody else find it beutiful that she keeps smiling 😭 .

  • @AB-oy5on
    @AB-oy5on 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hurting someone you love is so painful.

  • @WedrownyGrajek
    @WedrownyGrajek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When he said he didn't want to hurt her he actually ment he didn't want to lose her. And unfortunately that's why he lost her.

  • @arik2916
    @arik2916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2972

    Krystal is so gorgeous inside and out. Any man would be lucky to have her. She’s also seems so emotionally well balanced.

    • @1234AngelBieber
      @1234AngelBieber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes. I very much agree

    • @gregoryglass9040
      @gregoryglass9040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You don't know her like that come on

    • @gregoryglass9040
      @gregoryglass9040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plus men cheat out of fear too wow you ladies have alot to learned about the world of men

    • @arik2916
      @arik2916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Gregory Glass I never said anything negative about him. I just pointed out that her overall response to seemed measured and thoughtful. Kudos to both of them for being able to express themselves in an open and honest and transparent way.

    • @gregoryglass9040
      @gregoryglass9040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arik2916 and that was the problem in the beginning and sorry.

  • @Snarlygraph
    @Snarlygraph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3742

    You cheated - several times - on THAT lady? Wow!

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +461

      Xaris Xeros if ‘Lack of integrity and selfishness’ is a game...then yes!!

    • @an6350
      @an6350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @Xaris Xeros I mean not really if he ended up feeling so bad that he told her himself.

    • @amyimogenimagine
      @amyimogenimagine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      Cheating is often never about the other person (ie the partner being cheating on). It’s to do with insecurities and ego in the person cheating. A man with high sexual value, having women throw themselves at you - you’d be hard pressed to find a man who won’t at least entertain it. A man with self esteem or ego issues is going to take the bait. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Have his faithful loving beautiful girlfriend at home, and play around on the side. Ego. Thought he could have it all and didn’t consider the pain he was inflicting. Till his maturity and conscience perhaps caught up. I think he did the right thing by telling her. She deserves to know his character and the choice to leave or stay. And I respect her decision to leave. Sad, because they do seem like great people who’ve grown.

    • @pussydestroyer69285
      @pussydestroyer69285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@user-pf1fe1sn5k its sad that ppl find ways to make up for a man cheating but when a woman cheats she's a cum drizzling slut. He cheated he knew what he was doing. He obviously regrets it but he still cheated. A cheater is a cheater it has nothing to do with us "expecting" things. All we ask is loyalty a man who is unable to fulfil a simple task like that isn't a man lmao. Let's just give each other attention and stay loyal. Idk why cheating is so normalized for males

    • @asho7467
      @asho7467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Xaris Xeros point is it don’t matter why he cheats he should be dropped and any woman that keeps them has some self esteem issues.

  • @sademcqueen7301
    @sademcqueen7301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This was perfect to me, she has clearly healed and he is remorseful for his mistakes. They are whole people at least in this regard. Happiness and light to both of you!

  • @ayandasithole9673
    @ayandasithole9673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    she's so sweet and she smiled at him the whole time. she didn't deserve the hurt but she's still standing strong. she's a warrior❤️

  • @tinamarie8061
    @tinamarie8061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1470

    Sis is free from deep within. She ain’t got a tear to shed or an “F” to give. At the end of the day she would never trust him again no matter when he told her.

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Tina Parks He’s faking. He hasn’t changed and yes, I’m glad she has standards for herself and has moved on.

    • @MzSoulll
      @MzSoulll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!

    • @bouncingback3
      @bouncingback3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Tina Parks she has definitely had her coming to Jesus moment concerning him! 🙌🏾

    • @elijahpiere5324
      @elijahpiere5324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@privatelifejust_4me how do you know he hasn't changed? Have you been with him during those years in his life? Lmfaaao, wtf?

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      elijah piere 👀 🤧 dusty 🚨, lol. I will not entertain you.

  • @MrCmoney1992
    @MrCmoney1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12680

    Me and my Ex wouldn’t last 2 secs in this video😂😂 gun shots immediately

    • @chrisdavis2161
      @chrisdavis2161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      Huh...bruh!

    • @mando2.049
      @mando2.049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +461

      😂😂😂😂 pewww pewww

    • @smithsonna035
      @smithsonna035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Damn

    • @RC-cr4qi
      @RC-cr4qi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      MrCmoney1992 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @rositathediva7214
      @rositathediva7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      Lol I just bust out laughing

  • @alexandergriffith1825
    @alexandergriffith1825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    One thing to take note of is when ever you are with someone who you can just chill with, or how they put it, just simply enjoy the presence of the other without doing anything big, you know you found someone special.

  • @tiffmat9475
    @tiffmat9475 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Gosh, I felt everything. Well done you guys. I relate so much. Never thought that me and my ex could ever be civil, I would rather act like I never knew him, but I think it's possible. I love how calm she was.

  • @maha9890
    @maha9890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1762

    What a lovely girl but it's sad that after 3 years she wants to know the full details so that she can get closure. Us girls always want the full details so that we can get closure. Sometimes you have to give closure to yourself and stop hanging on.

    • @liailee
      @liailee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ma Ha I was just thinking this

    • @jenster29
      @jenster29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Men also need that.

    • @mscisland
      @mscisland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      It’s not only women. It’s men as well. There are women that just pick up and leave, and then expect the man to just figure out what went wrong without any communication.

    • @elizabethjones4325
      @elizabethjones4325 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      After 3 years, I would no longer gaf! Sometime women want a reason to hang on.

  • @osnapitsher
    @osnapitsher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    can't help but notice her body language, and how she is sitting with her arms crossed. still trying to protect herself . she's beautiful

    • @monicaemon7729
      @monicaemon7729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful Beast lol

    • @komziar6219
      @komziar6219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nah, that’s just a comfort reflex.. not a “protecting myself” she’s comfortable sitting there in my opinion.

    • @chaniebooo
      @chaniebooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea she’s sitting pretty comfortable to me lol

    • @Glowritz1
      @Glowritz1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@komziar6219 actually could be one or the other

  • @patty8945
    @patty8945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She is gorgeous, knows what she wants and very emotionally mature. She is a role model for all of us. I absolutely adore this woman. 🥰

  • @reesereese16
    @reesereese16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This type of closure is so damn crazy good. You can tell he really felt this shit. She so damn vibrant and her energy is amazing. She knows exactly what she wanted to say and is super clear. Babygirl is healed🙏🏿✨❤️❤️ I love it. He lost a great woman.

  • @demis4228
    @demis4228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1534

    If I had the opportunity to do this, I probably wouldn't...

    • @aprilbreeze6336
      @aprilbreeze6336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Guurrrrrrrllllll 😆

    • @paz8179
      @paz8179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I agree. I do not want to bring old memories back or relive the past. I want to find happiness in the now not look back at that hurtful train wreck.

    • @InThisSkin89
      @InThisSkin89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂

    • @amymichellexo_
      @amymichellexo_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Demi D sis 😂😂😂

    • @nellydavis7645
      @nellydavis7645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Only if they pay me.😅

  • @realness1737
    @realness1737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3329

    When someone is so pure inside it shows. She holds no bad feelings for him and I think it's amazing. Being bitter makes you ugly. She is beautiful and over it.

    • @naturalcooking525
      @naturalcooking525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Very true, she's radiant

    • @PM-zw9kc
      @PM-zw9kc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Well three years is enough to fix you again. I was in the same boat she was.

    • @Ashley-qx4my
      @Ashley-qx4my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Bitterness has its place and time though. People want women in particular to just get over it and at the same time understand when males kill their ex over cheating. I'm yet to hear bitter being used to describe a male. Anybody else wonder why that is?

    • @Dre-yd2xh
      @Dre-yd2xh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @TravelingDiva2018 nobody said it didn't lol

    • @Dre-yd2xh
      @Dre-yd2xh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ashley-qx4my women become bitter because of emotions, and men aren't nearly as emotional as women, so thats why men tin to handle it better, least thats the simplest way to put it

  • @danapetrova2641
    @danapetrova2641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tbh I've talked about this with my partner and to me cheating doesn't mean sleeping with someone else. Cheating starts with hiding, lying, lustfully looking at others etc. If the thought is there the actions will be taken sooner or later. I'm the type of person that doesn't even glance at other men whenever I have a bf. If I feel the need - something's wrong. Already.

  • @2tym3r
    @2tym3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    As a man this was painful to watch their love hovering around them but not falling back to their hearts

  • @ludo3375
    @ludo3375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2239

    I know that dude cried on the way home lmfao. She's a hell of a catch

    • @Serenity-ch3ze
      @Serenity-ch3ze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lol I know right

    • @davante1286
      @davante1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nah come on dude he can get a badder chick looks not every thing.

    • @fierzflower3136
      @fierzflower3136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      @@davante1286 you just contradicted yourself

    • @davante1286
      @davante1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fierzflower3136 no I haven't nothing but facts.

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@davante1286 you obviously don’t know what contradiction means then.

  • @mizzygotswagg12292
    @mizzygotswagg12292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1497

    He still loves her and I know he’s willing to go back....but when she said “close the chapter the proper way” you can see the Hope drain from his face. I felt that

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      She may be closing a chapter, but I don't think she's really ready to close the book.

    • @therealviejo2516
      @therealviejo2516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lynne Anderson dammmm🤪

    • @TheCHILDRENofTV
      @TheCHILDRENofTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Malcolm_ Flex69 when did she say that?

    • @lynneanderson4255
      @lynneanderson4255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheCHILDRENofTV - at 11:20.

    • @shreyasridhar3323
      @shreyasridhar3323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He never loved her.

  • @sweetierobinson5321
    @sweetierobinson5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    They have really good energy together too bad things didn’t work out. He seems really sincere in his apology.

  • @nikeyawashington4332
    @nikeyawashington4332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I love a man that can admit their wrongs.❤️ cudos to him. I love the maturity and vibrancy of her. Love the way they handle this. I wanna do this with my ex fiancé . They made each other better for their true partners, you can tell.

  • @1noteC
    @1noteC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1020

    Her simplicity and truthfulness is a reflection of the flaws within him. Her security made him insecure. He was suppose to grow with her instead he hurt her and himself in the process.

  • @krispo9874
    @krispo9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +856

    That’s how confident and laid back I wanna be when I bump into him

    • @sugaredplum7602
      @sugaredplum7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Kris PO unbothered and sittin pretty we can do it

    • @krispo9874
      @krispo9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes Sis🤗🤗🤗

    • @MrsOctober-kc5de
      @MrsOctober-kc5de 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @pm10926
      @pm10926 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @brrionne8913
      @brrionne8913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right cause if I bump into him now.. it’s up 🤣

  • @starcharx9139
    @starcharx9139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    she’s found a place to store all that hurt & emotion. She had gotten past it and you can see she had genuinely moved on it’s in the past and she has so much more going for her in life! 😁

  • @RXGD
    @RXGD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The look they gave each other at the beginning before they even spoke said it all.

  • @MrDbabe
    @MrDbabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1333

    I think she’s over the hurt but he still loves her

    • @PettyMurphyTV
      @PettyMurphyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So unfortunate lol

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And I think that that's why she's open to seeing what could happen from there. She saw that they still love each other.

    • @chasep1310
      @chasep1310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dixee Jru - Nah they're both still in that place no doubt that; it's there he just knows he f up simple. Always the way when you lose a good one 🤦‍♂️🏽

    • @tiffanywhite1203
      @tiffanywhite1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No she's not and they both still love each other i know this cause the eyes don't lie

    • @marilynsutherland-hart8315
      @marilynsutherland-hart8315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is so beautiful but its always good to move on..

  • @YvpKeene
    @YvpKeene 4 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    The deep breaths ; he’s like “damn she looks even better now”.

    • @terrelldwayne4086
      @terrelldwayne4086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Elrae 1520 faaaaacts!😭

    • @Papa-jf1tp
      @Papa-jf1tp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My nigga is sick !! He wants her back so bad.

    • @marioromo5926
      @marioromo5926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's definitely hurting inside and he can't hide it sadly some people learn the hardest way

  • @AaMmack
    @AaMmack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "It makes sense to close the chapter in the proper way."
    Thank you for that

  • @YoursTrulyAsiaOfficial
    @YoursTrulyAsiaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They always remember what they had when its gone. Im glad she has healed and moved on. That Queen deserves the world

  • @tylerthompson1842
    @tylerthompson1842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1655

    She’s so beautiful and seems like a really good person. He fucked up big time.

    • @hellrazer2610
      @hellrazer2610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Tyler Thompson I know right I would’ve married her lol

    • @Chaunceyadams230
      @Chaunceyadams230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well it does SEEM like she's a really cool person, i being the optimist, i wanna believe that she is, however who really knows, but one thing we do know for sure is that she is beautiful, with a gorgeous smile.

    • @DylansMom
      @DylansMom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree, and she seems very kind, with a sense of humor too :) We all have our "stuff" tho... I'm sure it wasn't ALL him. It does seem like he might've learned a valuable lesson from the way he handled himself back then ✌🏻

    • @Kenuwine24
      @Kenuwine24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Looks don't mean shit....... That's a development. An less physically attractive (whatever you consider) person with a amazing personally subconsciously draw you things you never think you'll like about a person.... Easy. She can be fine and all but it might not be meant.

    • @ErvMillay
      @ErvMillay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A 12min y’all think y’all got it figured out lol.... who knows how she acts behind close doors.. attitude probably nasty like most women

  • @sigmundsanders8064
    @sigmundsanders8064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    Damn this is gonna haunt him forever . This is his queen and he wasn’t ready. A good woman is precious . Don’t play with her be real . I feel sorry for him honestly because he screwed up big time .

    • @vulpesiv9579
      @vulpesiv9579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Yea, maybe. But maybe the reason it didn't work out, is because she is TOO GOOD for him, even if he got her back, maybe he is just a bad dude and would fuck it up again. She deserves someone as good as her.

    • @MasterAppels
      @MasterAppels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sometimes we fuck up, and we hate ourselves for it, but we're so scared to tell the other person about it in fear that we're going to lose them. I'm not trying to justify cheating but I understand why someone doesn't immediately tell their SO about their infidelity.

    • @superjay14
      @superjay14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Tim Tam nothing is truly black and white like that man... too good, too bad... people grow, people fall, people change.

    • @smithsonna035
      @smithsonna035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They're still friends but I hope they get back together

    • @thevanamacha
      @thevanamacha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Okay he was honest about way too late. That's why she left in the first place. Hiding the truth from a partner is a form of lying.

  • @sticktalk1018
    @sticktalk1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    My boy thought she was gone remember them 3 good memories nah fam lol it’s a dub.

    • @JayAgave
      @JayAgave 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @jzloveinfinite
      @jzloveinfinite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @styleofsense
      @styleofsense 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆

    • @Deejay_Supreme
      @Deejay_Supreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @mrsbreazy7413
      @mrsbreazy7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmaooo no fr he was all excited ready for the answer

  • @nicholeperez3003
    @nicholeperez3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    she just got married to someone else I know he's sick asf (her ig is @whoiskrysss)

    • @davante1286
      @davante1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah to many women for that. 👌🏾

    • @marinohall9416
      @marinohall9416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      there's way more women than men in couple years from now women will be sharing men or batteries 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @nicholeperez3003
      @nicholeperez3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davante1286 like I said he know he missed out its all in his voice and body language and you sound hurt and insecure ..

  • @jatoyarushing969
    @jatoyarushing969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    He lost a true Queen and 3yrs later he's still hurting 💔😢 the chemistry is there but the trust is GONE he's definitely gonna cry later on when cameras aren't rolling and she's not around

    • @dhev1666
      @dhev1666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's life men play tuff we cry an hurt now but later they hurt more than ever

    • @adrianrobinson1753
      @adrianrobinson1753 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts😢 shit got me sad

    • @mzmorganmusic
      @mzmorganmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same way. I know my ex is feeling now. He lost something good for a greed

    • @madstudio3613
      @madstudio3613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jatoya rushing lol I wouldn’t care there plenty fish in the sea 😃

    • @zoraidacastro5403
      @zoraidacastro5403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gummy worms!!!🤣🤣🤣 That was just beyond me. It's the little things that make a relationship work...

  • @evadiva238
    @evadiva238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3368

    Yes he cheated, yes he is sorry & yes he regrets but he played himself. He lost a good one don’t take him back.

    • @evadiva238
      @evadiva238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      Mr. Chalmers I don’t know her but I’ve been through it. Niggas don’t appreciate a good woman until it’s too late. He better take his loss & move on.

    • @awer7297
      @awer7297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      evadiva238 yeah because they wanna fuck and dip their dick in everything until they’re done and had their fun then They’ll think about the good women

    • @brascoejohnson5464
      @brascoejohnson5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Eva can you take me baby. I was just fucking them girls i was gone get right back.

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Barry shes just speaking from her experience. Surely not everyone is like this.

    • @SillChill
      @SillChill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@evadiva238 well. The fact that it bothered him At the time, says something.
      It wasn't just upon reflection.

  • @deborahnyamu2320
    @deborahnyamu2320 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the depth of such conversations.
    I have learned overtime that anything build on dishonesty becomes undone no matter how long it takes or how much one there is. Trust is so fragile.

  • @taylorashlea4908
    @taylorashlea4908 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You can tell that this was a learning experience for the both of them, and they both grew and changed for the better.

  • @lizayskyy9871
    @lizayskyy9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1476

    I dont think he's a bad guy, I just hope he has learnt this lesson.

    • @gurleenkaur4155
      @gurleenkaur4155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      COMPLETELY AGREE!!

    • @kimday8260
      @kimday8260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      When you lose the love of your life, there’s no way you don’t learn

    • @deynna45
      @deynna45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Can y'all please stop spelling learn with a "t" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lizayskyy9871
      @lizayskyy9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Let There Be Truth are you dense? “Learnt” is the past tense of “learn” 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @shani9165
      @shani9165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lizay Skyy learned is the past tense

  • @newnaturel137
    @newnaturel137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1462

    She is so calm about it, I can tell that she's done with him. No feelings for him at all

    • @Hotobu
      @Hotobu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Part 2 says you're wrong

    • @juggernautjay307
      @juggernautjay307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes she does its all over her face lol

    • @aaroncliett4742
      @aaroncliett4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No. That one breast out says it all. She wants him back.

    • @poohcanplay123
      @poohcanplay123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aaron Cliett 🤣

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aaroncliett4742 🙄 she probably won't take him back

  • @Didilove-gk5jd
    @Didilove-gk5jd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i like the way they look at each other. after all this time none of the feeling they once had are truly gone

  • @ravpol1440
    @ravpol1440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s amazing how she kept a smile on her face

  • @dalindlelamnisi1169
    @dalindlelamnisi1169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1485

    "I don't wanna be proud of that"
    That's a man talking right there

    • @Anthonydu01630
      @Anthonydu01630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Stephanie Knowles lol shut the fuck up. Mens are human to, we have insecurities, we make mistake ...

    • @unknown_drilla7137
      @unknown_drilla7137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Stephanie Knowles if he wasn’t a man he wouldn’t tell her at all you idiot 😂😂😂

    • @Jeduthunn
      @Jeduthunn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Stephanie Knowles Yes, it is important to realize that he was not mature when he cheated, but he should not be looked as someone who can't redeem himself. You make it sound like he has no chance left at all based on that ruined relationship.

    • @farhaddurrani1221
      @farhaddurrani1221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Stephanie Knowles every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. He made a mistake and he's trying to rectify it. That's what a man does.

    • @iamjulian2810
      @iamjulian2810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stephanie Knowles you’re actually dumb. Don’t comment on relationships. You know nothing about anything

  • @abdulm6365
    @abdulm6365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1760

    He has the manliest voice over.. I feel my voice is girly now I’m watching this fml

    • @mathildeb2710
      @mathildeb2710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      reminds me of Tyler the creator

    • @danilalcariia9305
      @danilalcariia9305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      And Morpheus from the Matrix

    • @kjohnson6068
      @kjohnson6068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He has a great voice. But your voice is special to you.

    • @shieahmarie1
      @shieahmarie1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thats kinda how my ex voice sounds like

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Abdul M 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @jasalex18
    @jasalex18 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was very mature and powerful. To see two young black educated people discussing past differences for a more positive productive future I am beyond proud!!!

  • @private_golf_journey5126
    @private_golf_journey5126 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes a certain level of maturity and courage to allow yourself to be put in such a vulnerable position.

  • @amazinghannure6440
    @amazinghannure6440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1922

    This channel is a hidden gem.

    • @an6350
      @an6350 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joe Ann I mean it wouldn't be very practical because not much money would be made to pay for the other shows

    • @SupaNatural28
      @SupaNatural28 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely agree

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yess.

    • @cee2176
      @cee2176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It really is

  • @summerci885
    @summerci885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    Don't ever cheat on someone, you'll just regret it.

    • @TweetsyCk
      @TweetsyCk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @dhev1666
      @dhev1666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Can't tell these men this they the worst but i pray for them nothing last forever

    • @pennykr7598
      @pennykr7598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My ex won't

    • @AADVENT
      @AADVENT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't ever regret cheating on someone and move on.

    • @laurac2031
      @laurac2031 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AADVENT Hmmm different perspective. Thanks for sharing!

  • @karthiksankaran9514
    @karthiksankaran9514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is no greater hurt than living a lie, Steven. In a relationship, one must know where to stop their digressions or else time will draw that line for us...this love may not get beautiful than this. Just let it be and move on.
    The Skin Deep - I always believed that every conflict and hurt in this world can be mitigated, if not resolved, through meaningful conversations between the parties. This is a great video...

  • @Deleteduser12494
    @Deleteduser12494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so happy that this guy is feeling bad for what he did and not blaming it on the girl like others do. And they seem like they’re not TRYING to be rude or not get along, it’s like she’s gotten over it, such a vibrant personality.

  • @jvillzy
    @jvillzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    Jesus Christ .. dude sound like he should be narrating The Lion King and The Matrix

    • @memorymoyo172
      @memorymoyo172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AlexSanchez-xi5pd
      @AlexSanchez-xi5pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cant play mufasa AND narrate

    • @AF3NI
      @AF3NI 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmfao mufasa

    • @LoveReece1
      @LoveReece1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ol James Earl Jones sounding @$$

    • @-s-3508
      @-s-3508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

  • @kd598
    @kd598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1330

    My dude in the red cap, no sir you didn't hold on to that for her sake to spare her pain, you held on to that in order to have her for as long as you could.

    • @arik2916
      @arik2916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tragic for him.

    • @museenergy
      @museenergy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This!!!

    • @shimag1992
      @shimag1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      But then why say something at all? He could've taken it to the grave. Seems like at the time he wanted to break up it didn't want to do it so he gave her a reason to leave HIM.

    • @Stephanie-rf2qp
      @Stephanie-rf2qp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@shimag1992 he probably couldn't keep it in any longer. but people won't tell you cheated out of selfishness. by not telling the other person it hurts them even more when they eventually find out because it means they weren't respecting you the entire time

    • @melanitebeauty403
      @melanitebeauty403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Right that was very selfish of him and he says he was worried about hurting her but he cheated multiple times so he made that choice I felt like he wanted his cake and eat it too smh hopefully he has learned and will not make the same mistakes

  • @sbnzl_mkhnz
    @sbnzl_mkhnz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The ‘healed’ in her voice!!! Love it

  • @jrreception6202
    @jrreception6202 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can't get over the honesty- mad mad props to both

  • @JessicaGail
    @JessicaGail 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3810

    Why does it always seem like guys don’t give a damn then like two years later they start falling apart about their exes, I don’t get it?

    • @HITSQUAD63
      @HITSQUAD63 4 ปีที่แล้ว +713

      Guys tend to not deal with their emotions, we bottle it up then we break .

    • @kmmy03x
      @kmmy03x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Ye , that's true my guy friend tell us this is true ,man would regret after the girl is completely move on bcos they don't deal with it earlier than girls do

    • @spamking3707
      @spamking3707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

      Nah its just you never no how good you got it until you lose it...thats when it hits

    • @datdamnkez
      @datdamnkez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      I cant relate I'm 100% in tune with myself like once I'm done with you I'm done with you I'm not looking back in the past I may feel sad or wonder what if from time to time but that's it

    • @D878D5g7
      @D878D5g7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Woman have this unrealistic idea that men are men from womb. It takes time for a boy to become a man. Understanding woman, understanding ourselves and how our actions effect the people we are close to takes time. Most of the time we can’t see the good ones until they are already gone. When they are gone everything gets put into perspective.

  • @TheLifeOfJim
    @TheLifeOfJim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1184

    this dude needs to get in on that voice over game.

    • @madisonemy
      @madisonemy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      P J facts 😹💀

    • @erikorehek7843
      @erikorehek7843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      seriously i had to turn my volume down on my headphones LOL

    • @simdon3676
      @simdon3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Reminds me of the deep speaking dude from boys to men 🤣 who would always start talking at the end of the song GIRL IM HERE FOR YOU ALL THOSE TIMES AT NIGHT WHEN YOU HURT ME AND YOU RAN OFF WITH THEM OTHER GUYS I'M HERE FOR YOU BABY🤦🏾‍♂️ HAHAHA 🤣😂

    • @MegaPsycho84
      @MegaPsycho84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sim Don Lmaooo

    • @jerrellslay9214
      @jerrellslay9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sounded like mufassa in the beginning!

  • @Jbevideo
    @Jbevideo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can almost touch the pain in his eyes.he’s crying inside for sure

  • @marvinbienaime2012
    @marvinbienaime2012 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is like a breath of fresh air, he was not ready for her, but I can tell he truly did love her

    • @thembekadorcaskhumalo866
      @thembekadorcaskhumalo866 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truly loving someone and you're not ready for them. What does that mean? I don't understand it at all. Aren't we supposed to protect the ones we claim to love?

  • @jazminartopee7774
    @jazminartopee7774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3024

    Me n my ex can't do this. One would be leaving in cuffs and one would be leaving in an ambulance. 😂😂😂

  • @queentalktv9805
    @queentalktv9805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1332

    I know it kills him how happy and carefree she seems

    • @misslattybaby1949
      @misslattybaby1949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      That's the best revenge....success and happiness

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I think that he just loves her. He wants her to be happy. It would mean more if it was with him.

    • @jarellbrown6974
      @jarellbrown6974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ronnimartin7033 I believe that too like it would make him happy if he could still be with her but it will never be the same if he ever got her back and it's best for him to just move on and learn from his mistakes and even I've been in his shoes before and after awhile he will bounce back again and hopefully treat someone better than he did with her and he will always love her.

    • @gwaupo8311
      @gwaupo8311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jarellbrown6974 are u forgetting he cheated on her he dont care he just got a free check of this he just aint trying to look like a ass

    • @TEExJAY24
      @TEExJAY24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why do women think we like to see them unhappy that's not true. He might have regrets but he probably doesn't want her to be happy

  • @christophersmith1263
    @christophersmith1263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a BLESSING for a former couple to see each other after x amount of time and actually navigate the positive, thus stepping over the negative and embracing a tomorrow that will reflect on what was good yesterday.