The Unpopular Truth About Socializing Your Dog..
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ส.ค. 2019
- In this video, I'll talk about how to socialize your dog with other dogs. And the pitfalls that some people experience when they rush this process.
We’ve built parks specifically to facilitate dog play. There is a booming industry in Doggie Daycares and Cage-free Boarding facilities. I can’t walk down the street with my dogs anymore without having to address other people wanting their dogs to play with mine. Half the time, the human is so convinced that my dogs will be their dog’s next play thing, that the approaching dog is off-leash and has no semblance of a recall. More and more, I’m met with dirty looks or snotty comments when I try to politely decline the interaction.
If we applied these same standards to humans, we would be expected to enthusiastically greet every person who ever crossed our paths. We would be in a constant state of high-arousal from being in a social gathering all day long. Imagine being thrown into a party where you don’t know anyone, but you’re expected to run and enjoy the scene - sometimes every day. Would you be happy if you had to hug or even shake hands with every stranger you come across? What happens if or when you DON’T want to say hi, play or interact? Are you afforded the luxury of saying, ‘no thank you, not today?’
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I think socialization should be about teaching your dog how to act around other animals and people, not being playmates with every other dog out there.
Chrystal Frost I’ve noticed, just like humans, my dogs don’t like fake pretentious people & when they don’t like those people.. they don’t like their dogs. We learn a lot from our pets
Chrystal Frost I agree
This. If your dog hates other dogs, it's 100% fine if they never play, as long as they are socialized enough that they don't attack other dogs.
Eva Smiljanić exactly. My dog is more into the best why I can explain it is-she’s a dog therapist. If a dog has issues, she goes WAY ABOVE any animal ive seen to help that animal feel more comfortable. But when she’s on a walk and 2 or more dogs crowd over her, she will lunge. She won’t bite. But she’s all about rolling the other dog. Obviously a dominance issue instigated by feeling out of control. Because she is 90lbs, it does scare people. And those people make it harder to find owners that understand that. My dog is a shy, fearful dog. She doesn’t want to bite or attack. Bit the moment a happy go lucky dog owner stumbled upon her path.. at that moment. It truly is up to the other owner. I already know how to handle my dog. Do they know how to handle their 2-5 dogs?
Seriously doubt it. Unless they’re morons. For some reason every now and again GOD makes sure morons get DOGs that know better then their owners .
Exactly
What I found works pretty well if you do it consistently is don't walk your dog in a park when you 1st get out of your car. Find the closest bench and sit there for 10 to 15 minutes. When other dogs and people walk by, try to restrain your dog from going towards them. Let other dog walkers be aware that your dog is in training, And to please keep walking. Let them sniff the ground sniff the air And get that out of their system. After a while the dog will realize that they're going on a walk and everything else will be a minor distraction.
@@animalobsessed1 Where abouts in the world are you ? I run regular socials for nervy dogs in Manchester, UK.
Wow great advice!! I'll try this next time🥺
Thanks so much for the advice, I’ll try this out!
Id agree with this! I’d noticed my dog is too excited initially on walks (he loves every dog and person) but if we just chill and sit for 10-15 minutes first he’s a lot better. He gets time to absorb his environment a bit more which really helps rather than overwhelming him all at once
I like bringing toys and high value treats. Then my dogs could care less about other dogs cause we're going to play and have snacks.😁
Oh man, when I tell people they can't touch my dog, they act all offended. Then say something like "but you shouldn't bring your dog out if we can't touch her"
My dog is NOT public property. And while I expect her to behave around other people, the truth is that she does NOT like people. And I'm not going to force her to interact with people she doesn't like. I'm going to let her if she's behaving because I want her to learn that she can trust people, but I'm not going to force her.
You as the owner know what your dog is like in certain situations and telling people that they should not touch your dog is to protect them, yet it is somehow rude on your part? Like, excuse me? I’m trying to look out for your safety as well as my dog’s comfort.
@bel pet I thought Was the only that told people that
I have the same issue. Except it’s with the kids around my apartment- can’t even let my dog out on the balcony because they throw choking hazard toys to her and scream at her that she’s a bad dog all while trying to pet her. I’m not nice about it anymore. Especially when I’ve never seen a damn parent around once.
Same here. I know my dog won't bite or attack, but she's shy and gets nervous around strangers if they keep trying to touch her after she signals that she's not comfortable. Then she'll start barking at the person because all other signals didn't work and then they go "oh why is she barking?" why do you think lmao
Ok boomer
Yes poor dogs don’t get to claim personal space without a confrontation. My dog just doesn’t like other dogs. He tolerates them fine until they get in his face. Owners just assume because he is out and about with me that their off leash dog can just approach mine without asking me. Irritating.
That's such an important realization, Mntngirl! All do owners need to understand this. Not only for control and training, but also for dog safety! Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Well said
I completely concur. People Need to understand that their dogs running towards my dog to "greet " him without my permission is NOT cute.......
Sudarsh Sharma Unfortunately many people who have or have had balanced dogs just think they are all that way. They just don’t realize. I always just put my arm out now as soon as they start to approach. That seems to stop people and dogs as well actually. I then explain things to the people. This seems to work well for me.
Miles the Pit Bull I always put my arm straight out toward dogs that approach off leash and tell them no go on and I’m amazed that it always works. Always. My dog knows that I will advocate for him now and doesn’t get as tense. You could try that.
We have a new 9 week old puppy and have been stressing about socialization, thanks much for this perspective!
how did it go, we have a new pup thats 9 weeks now.. and we a little stressed about it
Do a lot of research. Your stress will be picked up by your pup! Try to go into it with a sense of fun. Being alert and aware is positive. Stress, not good for your your dog. Good luck and have fun!
I have social anxiety and have felt really bad about not always letting my dog greet other dogs we meet on our walks so this actually made me feel pretty good lol (my dog isn't even that interested in other dogs I've just thought that it's a thing I SHOULD do)
Good advice. I trained Guide Dogs and our own dogs before dog parks existed and they were all perfectly socialized. I find that a lot of people at dog parks are totally clueless about dog body language and dog behavior.
This is such an eye-opening video, thank you for being honest about socialization and making it known that it’s okay to not introduce your dog to every dog that walks past. The biggest struggle is telling other dog owners that I don’t want my dog to meet theirs on leash, and then getting backlash about how I should be socializing her more. This was very helpful!!
I REALLY wish there were more resources like this. I am a dog walker and live/work in a city. So many owners here think they're doing the right thing by taking their shiny new puppy to the local park and encouraging their pup to meet everyone, play with all the dogs, etc. So now, nearly all of the dogs I walk are absolutely dog-obsessed. On walks, they pull to get to other dogs and have low engagement with the person walking them, because they've been taught that playing with other dogs is the purpose of walks.
With my own dog, I plan to teach him to be calm and chill around other dogs - to basically pay very little attention to them. Then to have a small number of carefully chosen doggy playmates to teach him appropriate behaviour.
Oh I love this!!!! This is exactly what we needed before we start socializing our pup. Thanks for the advice!!!
I socialized my dog by taking him to the horse yard. He saw cows, horses, other dogs, sheep, cats, and small children. This was all supervised but he became a well balanced and happy dog. He still doesn't like that one spaniel and the cockerpoo who lives next door but that's ok. both of us owners know that they don't get on so we just keep them away from each other
Thanks for this great idea!
Thank you for putting these videos on TH-cam, I am getting a puppy soon and I have been watching a lot of your videos. I feel prepared to welcome my new puppy into our home with confidence, because of the information you have given me. Thank you
So glad to hear that, Mother of Spoon! Thank you for watching! ~Ken
This is one of the most useful videos I have watched!!! I enjoy your training videos as I am in training myself while training a beautiful Chocolate English Lab, who just turned a year old and has so much energy. The statement you made about "why we get our dog", not to play with the neighbors dog or become exhausted at dog park....was so powerful to me and has me feeling really good about where I need to go.
Love the detail! Details are so important and all too often advice that passes from owner to owner of any pet gets oversimplified. It isn't a black and white "interact with everyone/nobody." I love that these are steps, in order, and each has its place.
This is how I feel about socialization and this is why I don't take my dog to dog parks. But, learning from you on the best ways to meet other dogs. Thanks!
This is truly one of the best videos I’ve watched - well spoken, straight to the point (without any annoying fluff) and very clear instruction. Thank you :)
That’s so nice to hear, Heidi! I’m glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Yes yes yes!!! Thank you. I tell my clients this stuff all the time.
This is a very good lecture. I am glad that you brought this up. Hope lots of dog owners watch this.🐕
What I really hear when I listen to your words and what I also recognise when I‘m out with my dogs is that the real problem is always the handler!
We don‘t have to build dog schools - we have to build schools for the human part of the leash!
So kind of you to respond to me! I have so much to learn, and you guys are just so helpful. I, too, have had the unfortunate experience of dogs who are just
too aggressive, and the dog parents think it's cute, or they are busy yakking with other dog owners. Even my dog walker always brought my dog to the dog
park. I love it when you say I didn't buy a dog so the other guy's dog has someone to play with!
This is a dog information channel that is so well thought out and explained. Much appreciated. Rockstars the lot of you!!!
So pleased that you are pointing this out to people.
This is spot on ! Great information ! I wish so many more dog owners would take this on board.
Thank you!
I have my 2nd Akita that I got last November at 33 months old. She is naturally an Alpha and I do not let her meet every dog she sees. Other dogs bark at her but she has the quiet confidence of an Akita.
Good to see that I have the common sense to do some of the things you suggest in your excellent video already. SUBSCRIBED
Great info. You put it forward very well, making a point.
I will definitely take this into consideration when I get my VEO next year. Keep up the good work 🙏
This is a good thing to think about. We started taking our dog to doggy daycare and then our dog who had always behaved so well with other dogs now showed signs of aggression/over excitement when meeting new dogs.
Socialization should not happen at the dog park. I basically did little training drills with my puppy in as many different places as possible. By the playground, at the boardwalk, by construction work, at the park where he CNA see the dogs at the dog park and get positive reinforcement for it. My dog first went to the dog park at 5 months old. He knew his recall 100% even in distractions. I knew how to read him and other dogs. And my favorite line? Keep it short but sweet. I always go to the the park for 10-15 min. And then I leave. I go in the morning without too many and leave while it's still positive. Now at 3 years old we still go to the same park at the same time. And stay for 1 hour. He plays with the dogs he's friends with and is very well balanced and all around amazing dog.
This is THE best truth bomb and message for dog Socialization. So happy this video exists 💕
So glad I followed your channel. What sensible advice.
Great advice...good as well to have two of you presenting....gonna watch more of your videos
As someone who frequented dog parks, I really appreciated how my little girl listened. Yes, she played and explored, but I always had complete control of her with vocal commands that a lot of pet parents I've known are severely lacking
My kids' pediatrician and I were just talking about this!!!! We both have dogs that do not want to be with other dogs and don't want other dogs coming up to them all the time. This is good advice! My dog has had so many hyper dogs run at her when I have walked her, she now hates it. She has been very good about it, lucky for me, but it is a pain that so many just let their dog come straight at yours when yours can't get away.
Are you working with your puppy on socialization? Before you ever allow your dog to greet another dog you need to make sure you've got a reliable response to name. Here's a link to a video where we teach a puppy to have a reliable response to their name: th-cam.com/video/TsVz8LbjwEA/w-d-xo.html
Happy Training! ~Ken
I have a 10 week old GSP Dog and I’m kind of using the technique for her with my cats. They have a run in the front yard and any time she jumps up against it I put her down and reward her, now she runs up and most the time will sit in front of the run instead of jumping on the netting. I’ll sit there and train her too so I’m hoping that when she’s ready to be introduced to them face to face she will be able to do so in a calmer manner.
Hello! Thank you for the video! I would like know if it’s the same way to teach recall with older rescued dogs. Thank you in advance ☺️
Finally a good perspective on the dog park. All those videos of the dog fights just unnerve me. I agree 💯 with you
Lots of really good tips in a short video. Thanks. All your videos are of high quality. I always learn something.
You guys make so much sense. Too many people think that they have to let their dog greet every dog they see. Ive experienced it in PetSmart and the Vet’s office. NO I don’t want your damn dog coming up to say hello.
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Thanks for this, as well as your whole video series. Getting our 8 week old border collie next week and have been studying them like college finals...
Hi there, Sean! I love the fact that you're putting in so much effort to be prepared for your new puppy. It's going to be work. But that work can be LOTS of fun if you are prepared for it. You'll have to keep me posted on your progress in a comment string here. Enjoy the process, Happy Training! ~Ken
Good luck in your (canine) college finals !!!!.........all the study will be well worth the effort & no doubt it will be straight As all the way. Lucky puppy to have such a considerate companion with whom to live and explore the world.
This makes so much sense as to why I’ve seen dogs get aggressive with a dog I know who pulls on his leash all the time. I had no idea that it can look like aggression to other dogs
Oh I needed this. Thank you so much
Great advice thank-you soooooo much! Makes a whole lot of sense.
Thanks! Glad you enjoyed the video. Happy Training! ~Ken
delighted to discover your videos. you are speaking my language, especially about dog owners being conscious about the fact that dogs differ in how they are in their 'doginalities', in how they are about being approached by another dog etc.. In my experience it can often be the dog owners that are the bane of my life , as well as off-leash dogs whose owners claim that their dog is friendly, and yet may cause difficulty because they are interacting with my on-leash dog. All my efforts to explain that it's not about their dog so much as the potential reaction of my dog on-lead that might be the issue, leaves me in despair. UGH!!!!!! I take evasive action now when I see the potential for such difficulties and have long since stopped going to dog parks; I see them as a hotbed of potential and actual hazards.
Amen! I cant believe what goes on with other dog owners...especially at dog parks. One breeder/trainer says they ruin dogs. Sure changed my beautiful girl.
@@daisylane5721 Same. My dog was ruined by dog parks, and the people near where I live allow their dogs to claim the park and guard it, provoking every dog that passes by. It's insanity just trying to get on our way, especially with a dog who already has a long list of issues to sort out.
@@daisylane5721 I only play with my dogs at the dog park if no one else is there. I don't have a yard. I walk them separately 2 times a day, and once late at night together. It's a lot of walking. I had to ask the neighbors quite pointedly to keep their dogs away from mine. I have had them 14 months and 8 months, both big and grew up together.
@@jeanburk9539 I pretty much do the same. I go to a quiet country road to walk off leash often. My dogs know 2 tweets on the whistle means "come in". Now our dog park is a cesspool of dog poop because no one picks it up...when the snow melts it will be a health hazard! Town Council doesnt care. I refuse to pick it up now...used to get 3 shopping bags full each time. Also gopher holes swallow dog balls and injure running dogs. It's sad.
@@bslizardette4669 my dog is now reactive to every dog we pass on leash, because she cant defend herself. I will have to start using a shock collar to stop it...have tried so many things and it isnt fair to her, but walks can be so stressful...wish I'd never exposed her to the dog park.
You make excellent points here.
Dog Parks is not a time to just let your dog go and not pay any attention whatsoever. Great video
Thank you for this video!
My dog has no desire to interact with other dogs. He isn't aggressive at all. He just wants to pretend other dogs don't exist. He just want's them to stay away. He is 12 now. He was fine with his older brother, but that's it.
Lol my dog has never EVER liked other dogs. Tolerates them, but doesn't want to sniff them or play with them or anything. Many years ago she went to boarding and made a friend. They were attached at the hip and I think that is the only dog she has ever liked hahah
lol, being a human dog lol
We just signed our pup up for a leash manners & polite greetings class with a local dog training place! I LOVE their setup on training and boarding. They very much believe in good socializing like you were talking about (small group play. Matched up with another dog of the same personality). We had a trainer come to our house to help but he didn’t unfortunately. And I think classes are the way to go for my pup! I love watching you videos. They always make such amazing points!
Glad you’re enjoying our videos, EmmyRuns27! Thanks for watching ~Ken
So far, I love your training and informational videos. Inline with how I believe also. My Marley Girl started to develop severe anxiety and regular panic attacks around 1.5 years old. I stopped taking her to the dog park because as you know, as soon as you walk in, mobs of dogs rush up and surround your dog and it is quite frightening and for a pup with anxiety and she feels like she can't escape, fights break out. For the longest time I felt like I was denying her dog to dog interactions until I had to hire a behaviorist to work with marley and I. She said that most dogs are not dog park dogs. Most dogs don't desire to spend time with other dogs and really get joy and satisfaction from interacting and playing with their human. Marley and I are always doing things together just her and I, and truth be told, she is happier to play and interact with me than she ever was at the dog park. She is my world and I am hers. By the way, she loves to play with other people when they come to my house. She was well socialized growing up. Just like humans are different from each other, so are doggies.
Same her Belina was a shelter pup but cannot properly greet other dogs so its always collar +secure harness she is I'm protect mode if she sees any other dog 🤦♀️
This video couldn’t have come at a better time! Thanks!
Glad it was so well timed for you, Micayerluv! Thanks for watching! ~Ken
lol, I'm watching it AFTER I made a rare visit to a dog park. Nope, not going back (as usual). Those places are chaos. I've been to dog shows, agility events, and some field trials + field trial training days. There were dozens and dozens of dogs, but everything was civilized + orderly. My few public dog park visits (mostly just to observe) have had me realizing there's no way I want my dogs in there. As I said, they're too chaotic with a few too many inexperienced people allowing aggressive dogs too much freedom.
Dog parks are great for urban dwellers that need a place to let their dog run free off-leash. In my case, I live in my own dog park. I'm on several acres all fenced for dogs. For socialization, I'm sticking to pre-screened dogs that have sociable neutral temperaments.
So very true!! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed the video, Michelle! Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Thank you!!
Awesome to See a video like this where people who work with dogs know what they are talking about.
Thanks Janina! Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Well said! Great video
Excellent advice. I’m loving your videos. I have a new border collie puppy....we’ve had dogs our whole lives, but never a BC. Your videos are helping me train her well, but also we are having lots of fun. Thanks for making so much excellent advice free to dog owners who don’t live close enough to have your in-person training classes.
Hi there, Kathy! So glad you’re enjoying our videos. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
This is great. We just got a puppy but have fostered dogs for years. We live in a city and we always tell me people that our dogs don't meet dogs on leash. I always thought I was being paranoid but it never felt right to have to restricted/restrained stranger dogs meet one another on the street. Thanks for this. We also need work more on recall!!! Will start that tomorrow.
less than 2 minutes into this video and you are spot on. my other annoyance is every person who comes over wants to pat my dog. not all dogs appreciate others on their territory.
That’s very true, Farina! Thanks for watching! ~Ken
And a lot of people don’t even let the dog sniff first or anything. They just come in from above, towering over a dog and reaching towards their face. I was always taught to let the dogs sniff you and come to you first when you’re first meeting. Let them initiate the contact and quite frankly if they don’t want to make contact they shouldnt have to. And as an intelligent human being we should respect that
Thank you so much!
Thank you!
This is like a master-class; awesome! Thanks!
Thank you for this video. It's an important message to get out to everyone, but especially to first time dog owners. My dog was his previous owner's first dog and he did the very mistakes you mention. He had the puppy greet everyone on the street and took him to the dog park for hours daily, apparently thinking that it was good for a shy, uncertain dog to learn some rough play. All with the good intention of socializing, but not realizing that quantity doesn't mean quality. When the dog came to me at 18 months for problem behavior, he had learned to attack so that other dogs and people would leave him alone. I had to teach him that I'm not going to force him into social situations, so he doesn't have to drive everyone away. I've gotten my fair share of panic bites getting this message through and finally, after 3 years, we are starting to be neutral passing strange dogs on the streets. Dog parks are still too much for him - and might be for the rest of his life, but fortunately he's been able to have some dog friends after several hours of patient introductions to have the rules clear for both dogs.
Oh, this puppy was also rescued from streets at 3 months old, so he had already had a bad start for socializing, and unfortunately the previous owners good intentions just multiplied the issues that the dog had.
BsLizardette so common. I think an important point you have is it took 3 years to correct. I expect too much sometimes from my dog. With difficult dogs some things take years to perfect; be it from incorrect training or previous emotional traumas. I find that a lot of behaviors I took for granted in my previous easier to train dogs take longer to achieve in my challenge child.
Thank you so much for re enforcing my behavior is NOT rude, greedy, selfish if I don’t take my dog to spend time with other dogs. I don’t have to feel like people think I’m a snob when out and about and steer clear of greeting by stopping. Or if I move further away of path from their “friendly” excited dog.
Very informative. Thank you for this!
You’re very welcome, Bria! Glad you found it helpful. Happy Training! ~Ken
The thing abt breaking a dog confidence by taking the to the park and letting them get steam rolled by other dogs really hits home for me right now. I'm a dog sitter, and the owner invited me to join her and her 4 month old pup at the dog park. We get there and she just let's her pup loose and ignores it, it got scared being surrounded by tons big dogs it tried to run and she was just ignoring it all these big dogs were just trying to play but her pup was terrified and it ended up biting one of them. It was so frustrating seeing her lack of concern for her dogs comfort.
“Dog park” I found your problem here
knowing your dog's personality is KEY. and thank you about not all interactions have to happen it can be just letting your dog be calm as other dogs pass. dogs are different just like ppl.
some ppl liek to be downtown in the city at night during NYE. some don't.
some dogs like daycare with lots of dogs some despise it.
my dog does better 1 0n 1 on a trail meeting dogs vs a daycare where it's all out choas.
i use to work at a daycare and there are pooches who "tolerate" being there but i think that's
wrong for the owner do drop them there if they really don't want to be there.
also lots of owners should take all this info in seriously then just letting there dog run lose
or not know there dogs personlaity. thanks
As always..fair..sensible advice
Thank you, Linda! Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
I am glad to have come across this video.
Love how you have BCs. You are describing my puppies to a T.
I don't go to dog parks never will, what I do instead is set up doggie play dates with people that I know really well and know their dogs really well. We do it at least once a week, other than that my dog is training with me or going on adventures with me. Great video because dog parks these days are out of control, most people do not have control their dogs.
excellent video with some amazing tips that i haven't herd elsewhere!
I love your common sense. Other people who own dogs sadly lack that. I work hard with my dogs but have to deal with dogs running out from yards getting in their face, starting fights...town wont do a bylaw or even put notices up.
Such a good video! I have a 1 year old English mastiff. When he was 9 months someone I saw while walking him had a neopolitan mastiff a month younger and asked if they could meet. I said sure (thinking nothing of it) they were both on leashes but this other dog was soooo hyper my dog became instantly uneasy and wanted nothing to do with him so I had to let the guy know it wasn't a good idea. He kept saying oh they're both puppies its okay. I just apologized and walked away. Never want my dog to get agressive because he's uncomfortable. This guy had no control over his dog whatsoever
I really like the point you made that we get our dogs for us and for them to put a lot of value on us. I always thought that I wish I had socialized my dog more with other dogs. However she is on the shy/timid side and is very selective on the dogs that she likes and does not really like going to the dog parks. But she loves spending time with us and going for hikes and doing agility.
Hi there, Karen! Finding the right dog to socialize with your pup may take some time. But as I mention in the video, it comes down to your expectations and what you want from your dog. I bet that going for hikes and doing agility is is something that you had wanted to do with her before you got her. So it's a lot less important to focus on letting her play with other dogs. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Our 4 month old rescue dog has never struggled with socialization. Always interacted fine with pretty much any other dog from the first try, probably because we're lucky to leave by a park with lots of other puppies.
We do however make sure she doesn't run towards the other dogs and dont force her way into interacting with dogs that dont want to or can't. I did worry about her getting "oversocial" at a point, but by making sure she doesn't get to play with every dog, she did restrain herself a little more.
So much good information, thankssss!!
Great conversation! My year old border collie has lots of playdates and walks with known doggies. I will make it a point to use the distraction of the dogs to work on her recall and obedience skills tomorrow. Side note: My pup looks and acts so much like your smooth coat. Hugs from Pennsylvania!
Thank you, Caren! I think your Border Collie will really be able to learn a lot by using those other dogs as a distraction during training. Have fun with it! Happy Training ~Ken
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. I have a dog that has a huge fear of dogs, he has been attacked before and can be reactive. We take the correct precautions, muzzle, he wears a coat that says space needed and I wear one as well and he is leashes. But people let there dogs off lead with zero recall and it puts everyone at risk. And once my dog has stacked all that anxiety I then can't walk him for the remainder of the day because even just a person could set him off. The annoying thing is, my dog can meet and be fine with dogs, once there is a slow and careful introduction, but you can never get to that point. I live that the pandemic has got more people loving dogs, but it feels like no one has taken to time to learn dog walking manners.
The most difficult but best command my dog was ever trained with was “watch me” which is a command for my dog to ignore other pedestrians or dogs and pay attention to me. It meant having to stop our walk any time she got distracted and rewarding keeping her eyes on us. It involved a lot of stop and go for a looong time but it has helped lower on leash aggression incredibly
That's a good idea I always used the word ignore. Like when I'm walking my new puppy and teaching him, stay a dog or some people are in their yard being loud or whatever if he's getting a little anxious and looking around and not paying attention, I use ignore. ignore him you know. And then like if he wants to try to pick something up but I don't want him to have you know I use the word yucky. .. he's going to be my service dog so I'll use normal language for that. but will also have other commands for when I don't want people to be able to tell him certain things in another language.
I have a 1 1/2 year old husky and I always keep her on a leash when we walk. I am so over with these owners who need to let their dogs approach her whether on leash or off. I'm still training her and more than once has an owner insist their dogs are "friendly" only to have their dogs snap at her. Now she is beginning to snarl and growl back at them when they get aggressive. We were actually hunted down one morning by a neighborhood dog who had gotten away from her owner. She came up from behind and immediately jumped my dog and we were several blocks away from her home. Now I just make a point to avoid them on our walks. We have a lot of winter visitors this time of year and we do not know their dogs and they do not keep their dogs leashed because they are "on vacation". Thank you for this video. I wish I could print it and hand out copies😄
I'm taking my 3 dogs to the beach when there's no other dogs around. My older dog is 12 and I never had any problems with her coming back or socializing. The male dog is 5 and he can be more territorial but only on the leash as you mentioned but he's even quicker to come when I call. My newst puppie she's a 3 months old and she's coming when I call at the beach. Everytime I see other dogs coming unless I know the dogs I call mine back for now to train the puppie to come. This video was super helpful because I now know I'm doing the right thing. Thank you so much. My older dogs are also showing the puppie how to act and she's quick to follow them.
This is such great advice! One thing maybe overlooked, small but can be important as it relates to leashed dogs is a leashed dog is more likely to be aggressive due in many cases to the owners insecurity and their pulling back on or tightening the leash when approaching another dog or a person, this sends a signal down the leash that something is not right and the dog needs to be on guard for their own safety or that of their owner. As an owner of "serious" dogs Bouviers 100lbs and Black Russian Terriers 140 lbs all guard and show dogs (all alpha personalities) not either or but both I have a lot of experience in training and socializing these dogs and can say from experience pay attention to what these people are saying they 100% correct. Ideally you will start with your dog as a puppy one of the best places is puppy obedience classes, continuing obedience classes and careful socialization as outlined here by these good trainers. As your dog gets older and you get more experience with your dog you will get much better at when and where to allow meetings with new dogs. One last thing always introduce your dog in as neutral an area as possible that way neither has little to defend other than the owner at least at first sight and if the owner acts calm and confident the dog will pick up on this and in almost all cases react appropriately. That's not to say there are not some dogs to be concerned about but if you follow what these people have to say you and your dog will be much better off.
Finally, COMMON SENSE! Yes, we get our dog to be a part of OUR family, not a member of an unruly wolf pack.
Thank you so much for this guidance....all of these so relevant and given me a lot to reconsider. The point about creating the value between one’s dog and oneself the most nb...Invaluable to my young border collie.👌🏽🌈🐶🇿🇦!
Thank you for this, it is nice to have some advice from a disciplined perspective with some respect. Humans, kids, dogs should have some sense of respect and discipline and not a free for all and really appreciate your approach.
Great video! I wish more people understood that socialization does not mean free, rambunctious play with dogs. My favourite kind of socializing my puppies is being around dogs WITHOUT interaction. My preference is for a dog that ignores other dogs, I’m way more fun anyway. ;)
That’s a good training plan, Shandy! And a great way to speed up your training! Thanks for watching ~Ken
that so much resonates with me.....
Thank you so much for this enlightening video, as well as comments from other people. I just got my first dog 3 days ago and although he's well behaved; I'm not sure how well he is socially with other dogs, he seems like he doesn't mind smaller dogs but whenever he sees a bigger dog, or especially pittbulls, he creates a lot of tension on the leash. I can't tell if he wants to play or if it's an aggressive stance. I've been thinking about sending him to a dog park but I'm also nervous that I'm still too new to know what I'm doing with my dog and don't want to put my, or other people's dogs in danger. Thanks again for the pointers! :)
So glad you found it helpful, Nick! We need to really put our dog’s first, and that means choosing their friends wisely! Thanks for watching ~Ken
I didn't have the chance to socialize my dog with other dogs when he was younger, he's almost 3 years old now. I'm trying to slowly and calmly introduce him to other neighbor dogs and especially my family's new puppies. Your video really helps me confirm that the things I've already been doing, the calm obedience training and the emphasis on listening to me over playing is the right way to go. But I have been having him on a leash and harness for most of the interactions because I'm concerned that he'd be too rough on the pups. I'll try to find a different method of safe interactions for both dogs without a leash.
I like the common sense here. Why would anyone want their dogs to get bad ideas from random dogs that then have to be eliminated? Props
I have a American Pitbull Terrier who is 63 lb and has always been good with other dogs until I move to a new area. We were at a unofficial designated dog park with a playground my son could play it. There were lots of people walking their dogs on a leash. There is a leash law in New York state. Unless you are in a designated and official and a member of a particular dog park and are allowed to let your dog off the leash. However there were many people that were showing up to the dog park with their dogs off the leash. My dog seem to have no problem whenever a dog was on a leash but three dogs, all different types ran up to me and my dog while my kid was on the playground luckily. They ran over without a leash and there was no owner in sight. It wasn't until they got right in my dog's face that my dog got insanely nervous and begin shaking and started snapping at the three dogs. I believe she was not only acting and protective behavior of herself but also myself. It was truly tragic to see my dog in that Shakin state. She is such a good dog and is so wonderful with people and especially children. She has always been good with other dogs and usually ends up being the more submissive one. However, after this episode at the park, there was another dog before we even left the park that ran over to her and she began being aggressive again. Since then, she is now aggressive anytime she sees another dog she becomes very hard to handle physically for me. It breaks my heart because people are now looking at me like my dog has issues and I should be ashamed of myself for having her anywhere out in public. This idea that people should just let their dogs off the leash is now making it dangerous not only for myself and my dog but also for my six year old. What are the dogs are okay with other dogs but they go after children? I agree with everything you're saying in your video. And we need to remind the dogs that they are to remain domestic if they are to remain our pets and be trusted. Because people have allowed their dogs to run free, they are not teaching them proper behavior. The owner of eventually showed up after it was clear it these dogs upset my dog.... however she was not aggressive to intervene and casually walked behind me towards the woods and casually and very quietly called her dogs as if it was unimportant. Unfortunately, it would be my pitbull who would get blamed for eating other dogs in the situation even though we are following all the laws possible to keep ourselves, the dog, and other people safe.
Omg! I couldn't agree more!
this confirms what ive been saying..... thanks!
Great message and fantastic advice. I’ve been unable to walk my newly adopted dog in my neighbourhood because first, he’s not ready yet, but even when he is, there is this weird propensity for nearly every person walking a dog to think the dogs should meet - this happens with my other dog I’ve had for many years. Do they not realize that on leash is the absolute WORST way to introduce dogs? I’ve given up caring if other humans think I’m a rude cow, I have to advocate for my dogs. I avoid dog parks since I can’t tell if they are filled with clueless owners - it was heartening to hear that my dogs’ relationship with me is not only enough, but is paramount.
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So true.
Thanks!
Thanks - very helpful guys! - Dane
perfect explanation. Thank You for this video, now I hope everyone watches this
Fantastic and easy to understand. Thanks
Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching! ~Ken
I have to say I thought you guys are just another clicker trainer. But with this video you prove you are a quality dog trainer .
Some dogs are jerks and their owners seem that way most of the time too when they don't interrupt bad behavior.
There are no bad dogs only bad owners
great information. thx for helping us out...
You’re welcome, Sudarsh! Thanks for watching! ~Ken
Dogs don't need socialization, they just need training. If you over socialize your dog you put him in dangerous situations with other dogs that may attack him & you dull his instincts to be weary of strangers.
My German Shepherds socialized with each other & could be walked in public, they did not care about meeting new dogs or people but were not aggressive because they were trained to understand I was in charge of the situation & not them.
If you walked by our house on the sidewalk they wouldn't bark unless you tried to approach the fence line.
I trained a 120lb gsd to be a service dog & as a result the home he stayed in got robbed with him in it because he was completely desensitize to reacting to strangers.
When you socialize a dog, you're not training out aggression you're just creating an overly friendly dog with no boundaries or stranger danger alarm.
When you train your dog that YOU ARE the one who determines how to react in a situation you preserve your dog's stranger danger instincts without creating an aggressive loose cannon because the dog will only protect you if you request it.
A dog with no socialization or training is going to perceive stranger danger & take the initiative to eliminate the threat because the owner has no command over the dog without training.
The trained dog will protect your children or your home without you present because when you are gone he is now making the decision to guard the territory but he isn't going to overstep the boundary of your property's line because he knows what is acceptable behavior on public grounds due to his training.
The untrained dog is going to escape the yard boundary to chase away or neutralize the perceived threat because he doesn't know where his boundaries end.
Do not socialize your dog! He gets that at home from you, your family & your other dogs/pets. Instead of eliminating your dogs instinctive boundaries by socialization just train him instead!
We only use dog daycare / boarding that do behavior testing before allowing dogs into the system. We also always ask people if their dog is ok to greet our dog, etc.
As long as my dogs are ok with each other im happy.. Some dogs have no interest in making friends with the other dogs in the neighborhood and as u said, they are OUR dog's, not other people's puppy play date..